A mandated reporter and she ignored the abuse by OP’s mother? I hope the best friend of the mom got reported and fired from her job. If she was ignoring the abuse OP was enduring, how many other kids is she aware of that are in abusive situations that she is also ignoring?
Seriously! She's very lucky because you can go to jail for not reporting abuse. Especially if the child dies or gets severely injured. You're considered an accomplice. The op should have reported her mom and the friend.
I had a best friend online once who kept invalidating my opinions, and upon cutting them off they spent several weeks stalking me on whatever social media in anyway they could. It was terrifying and I never plan on talking to them ever again. They made my life Hell for nearly a month, and just because they couldn't respect the fact that we had differing opinions (and mind you, I respected theirs, they didn't have a reason to be so harsh towards me)
I had that happen to me on discord. Stalked and followed me into every server until i just left every server we shared and blocked her. I still feel like she's near, which i hate. Girl insulted me and expected me not to care. Sorry Neb, but my system was done being your punching bag. Especially after your ableist ass called us a faker. 😠
We know such people exist; mothers and fathers who are cold, heartless, cruel, and yet millions of kids grow up to be kind and normal and decent people. The human heart can be miraculous. Fortunately, my own mother was a living saint. a widow who raised 5 decent kids.
I had a very close and good friend and I shared everything with her, every small details of my life about what's happening. My mother had been suffering from stage 4 cancer since more than a year, not once did she ask about my well being and my mother's well being after I told her , but I let it go thinking we're all adults and we don't get very much time left with us. This February I went out of station with my friends bc I had never been out for a little vacation and besides my sister in law was there with my mum to take care of her. My friend whom I'm talking about got to know about that and complained that why didn't I tell her bc she lived near the place I had gone to. I apologised to her bc this was the first time I had forgotten to tell her about this as I had so many things on my mind that time bc my mum was very sick. But she didn't listen one word and blocked me on every thing. I told my common friend and she said it's just her little attitude and she'll come around soon. But I will never forgive her for this. I forgave her for never asking about my mum's well being and still she acted like this. So I don't want no friend like this. My mum died on this 12th April.
Still remember having some bad therapist. For some reason, I already hated him from the start for a reason I still don't know. Even before we talked, I knew he would be a guy I would really hate working with. But I could never imagine the bullets I dodged with the law and my relationship with my parents deteriorating quickly happening at that time. I couldn't even ask his supervisors to cut ties since their policy does not allow it, even if I pose a potential threat to him (I didn't, but I asked this question). So one year of being irritated and controlled by this loser (loser is an understatement for me), and my parents certainly did not like my irritability and easy-to-complain mood, plus I became super lazy at that time (my work ethic heavily depends on my emotions, and sadly, it has not been going well). When my parents and I finally were able to somehow convince them to change, I would eventually get over him, but if I ever see him again (which I heavily doubt), I certainly would never say I forgive him, even if he apologizes. (There are more personal details about why I hated him, but these are personal and could get me in trouble if I mentioned them here).
You’re family should’ve sued the practice if you got evidence because they deserve it for allowing this guy to do this to people and refusing to switch you to someone else
@@allisonkrueger8330 well, I did do some stuff to them that could have gotten me in trouble, so this is one of the reasons why taking legal action would be a bad idea. Let's say a drug dealer gets robbed of the money he earned by selling drugs. If he reported it, he'd certainly get in some type of trouble. I was in a similar situation.
I have forgiven and gotten over a lot of things my mother has said and done to me, but there is one thing that's stuck with me for a king time. I had some missing assignments I was working on, and they were very late. I was struggling with focusing and getting the work done (as an undiagnosed autistic teen.) I had six or so assignments, each taking me 40 minutes to an hour. She screamed at me and said I shouldn't be allowed to eat until I finished my work This has stuck with me for years, and may have been the start of my eating disorder-
It sucks when people don’t understand that we can’t help it (fellow Autistic person who also has ADHD). By the way are you sure it’s Autism? I’ve heard of people being misdiagnosed with it instead of ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder). I also hope you are doing much better now.
i appreciate the thought, but i'm pretty positive it's autism. i am currently diagnosed with ADHD, and i'm slowly working towards and autism diagnosis. i just get overestimulated very easily, so outside noise and movement can really impair my focus as for my situation, i'm still living with the same family, same mom. i kinda hate her, but i've learned to understand her hatred is partially a learned response to her own abuse ty tho 💕
@@PowerlineIsGod that does sound like Autism, i get the noise issues. The worst for me was when people are talking when I’m trying to work, and my classmates were always loud. What worked for me was listening to music with headphones while I worked so I could tune out everyone else.
Last month I went for my best friend's birthday . We have been friends for 15 years. On that day I realized she was my best friend but for her I'm not that important. I'm not saying she should not have any other friends but it hurts when someone ignores you and keep blind eye towards you. During dinner she started having fun with her other friends while I was sitting in different room alone . Although I tried to include myself in their conversation she told me to keep quiet. I don't have any other friends as I'm introvert but that day even if everyone was present there I felt lonely and sad.
@@kimnamjooniemoni2221 yes bcoz in 8th grade she saved me from getting harassed. If she was not there I might have got kidnapped or worse lost my life.
I don't know which stories to tell. There was my first grade teacher who ruined the social lives of some of her students. At an animal shelter I used to volunteer at a woman lost her job because she was too good at her job. Around when my grandmother passed away I became the emotional punching bag to 2 of my family members. However, out of every story I've lived through the one person I have the most trouble forgiving is myself. The fact it took so long to move on from what that teacher did. Being too afraid to speak up when I see something wrong. I constantly allow myself to be the emotional punching bag because as a child every time I tried to stand up I would get knocked down. But I'm an adult now so why do I still keep hiding myself? Because the scars inside still remain. I freak out every time I make a mistake. I get scared whenever someone has good expectations of me. I find it much more comfortable for people to think I'm nothing than something because the less they know the less joy they can take. The fact I let myself get this far, at this point I can't forgive myself. But I am trying and maybe one day I will.
2:11 My dog was actually found as a puppy apparently thrown into a river or something (IDK the story well cuz I wasn't even born or anything) and my mom saved her and her sister. I love her so much.
I've been spat at a few times; never been hit by spit (knocks on wood). I get the feeling those spitters don't do that frequently, it's like they saw that on a movie and think spitting at people makes them tough guys. It only makes them gross.
My ex broke up with me at the first month anniversary of my uncle's death (english is not my first language so i cant explain it better) , when I told her that and told her we couldn't be friends she overstep my boundaries and begged me to be friends under the excuse that she didn't remember which day it was (Sorry again for my broken english)
Literally, that thing ellen said about spitting in ppls faces she said almost the same thing a few years back and before i didn't agree but now i do. Like if someone spits in my face i'm sorry but i'm taking them OUT!
How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? In the very first story, that is just so nasty and disgusting because I had a bully back when I was in the 4th grade do the same exact thing to me. He decided to pick on and bully me because I was the only one in a wheelchair. In the second story, the mom sounds like a horrible person and complete shame on the godmother for turning a blind eye to it. Why didn't the mom just put the child up for adoption because at least then they would have been raised way better. In my opinion bad mom's like that should literally be forced to have their tubes tied so that they can't ever get pregnant again. In the third story, that is just so very sad to actually see and witness. I hope Belle found a great home too. In the fourth story, if she was so willing to cut you out of her life for her boyfriend cheated on her, then she was never really your friend in the first place to begin with. I easily cut one of my friends out of my life for the same exact thing, and I had been friends with them for over 12 years. They tried to apologize to me but I just looked the other way and I just kept it moving. The only reason why they apologized was because they caught their so called girlfriend cheating on them. I love you!! Have a great day!!
I'm 16 and my whole life, my mother has always said "I wish I could run away and never come back." Last year she actually attempted to make that wish come true. She also always "jokes" that my birth ruined her body, career, and basically her whole life. I'll never forgive her for putting her children through that. Then she wonders why her children are the way they are.
i dont call her mom. but the woman who birthed me was the same way. abusive. narcissistic. a complete monster. yeah. support isnt the word. i told people i was her emotional punching bag. and for the dog one, that's just sad. but most shelters want you to pay for bringing your pet in. its for their food and to guarantee them a spot. if you cant take care of your pet, just call the shelter and say you saw a dog or cat on the street. i have a cat and dog that i plan on spending the rest of my life with because i cant have kids myself.
(TW! SA!) My cousin molested me when I was younger. He was also pretty young, so everybody forgave him. Mind you, I was the one that had to expose him years later because he never told anybody what he did. To this day, I feel anger when I see him at family reunions. It's not the anger that gets me though, it's the sadness of watching everybody that knows about my situation hug him back, some even encouraging me to forgive him..
There are so many things that have been done to me I can forgive. but something that I can't forgive was when I was harassed and no one did anything. It was so fucking awful and no did a thing about it.
My dad went on a verbal rampage to me the other day in the car and I will NEVER forgive him for what he said to me " You are a fuckwit!" "I don't care about you anymore!" "MY CHILDREN, WHAT HAVE I FUCKING BRED!"
My mother spit in my face and then later said I spit in her face, which I spit on her shoulder after she spit in my face and let me get in trouble when she never told anyone what she did 😕
It’s so messed up to criticize someone that forgave a cheater when you don’t know their circumstance. Good for you if you can forgive one but not everyone has it that easy. But whatever go ahead and shame them 🙄🙄🙄🙄 ignorance is a bliss I guess
I know cases where the cheater never cheated again and they lived a happy life together. You never know like you said. My aunt and uncle were forced into marriage. He cheated but realized how much he loves my aunt, they have now been together for over 50 years!
@@ButterflySUB i love her, i dont mean it rude. to me it sounded like judging as she sometimes also used phrases like "they are a bad person". i rly meant it as constructive criticism, she herself really comes over as a sweetheart and i admire her dedication to her channel as she manages to literally post everyday. :)
A mandated reporter and she ignored the abuse by OP’s mother? I hope the best friend of the mom got reported and fired from her job. If she was ignoring the abuse OP was enduring, how many other kids is she aware of that are in abusive situations that she is also ignoring?
Seriously! She's very lucky because you can go to jail for not reporting abuse. Especially if the child dies or gets severely injured. You're considered an accomplice. The op should have reported her mom and the friend.
I had a best friend online once who kept invalidating my opinions, and upon cutting them off they spent several weeks stalking me on whatever social media in anyway they could. It was terrifying and I never plan on talking to them ever again. They made my life Hell for nearly a month, and just because they couldn't respect the fact that we had differing opinions (and mind you, I respected theirs, they didn't have a reason to be so harsh towards me)
Bro I think you be friend a crazy person
I had that happen to me on discord. Stalked and followed me into every server until i just left every server we shared and blocked her. I still feel like she's near, which i hate. Girl insulted me and expected me not to care. Sorry Neb, but my system was done being your punching bag. Especially after your ableist ass called us a faker. 😠
This is exactly what I experienced
@@kimnamjooniemoni2221 In hindset, they absolutely were crazy. Thankfully I have them blocked on every social media I have!
We know such people exist; mothers and fathers who are cold, heartless, cruel, and yet millions of kids grow up to be kind and normal and decent people. The human heart can be miraculous. Fortunately, my own mother was a living saint. a widow who raised 5 decent kids.
I had a very close and good friend and I shared everything with her, every small details of my life about what's happening.
My mother had been suffering from stage 4 cancer since more than a year, not once did she ask about my well being and my mother's well being after I told her , but I let it go thinking we're all adults and we don't get very much time left with us. This February I went out of station with my friends bc I had never been out for a little vacation and besides my sister in law was there with my mum to take care of her.
My friend whom I'm talking about got to know about that and complained that why didn't I tell her bc she lived near the place I had gone to.
I apologised to her bc this was the first time I had forgotten to tell her about this as I had so many things on my mind that time bc my mum was very sick. But she didn't listen one word and blocked me on every thing.
I told my common friend and she said it's just her little attitude and she'll come around soon. But I will never forgive her for this. I forgave her for never asking about my mum's well being and still she acted like this. So I don't want no friend like this.
My mum died on this 12th April.
I'm so sorry for your loss. If I could give you a hug I would.
So sorry for your loss!
Please don't befriend that girl
Im so sorry for your loss. ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. There’s no need to even think about someone like that atp
Still remember having some bad therapist. For some reason, I already hated him from the start for a reason I still don't know. Even before we talked, I knew he would be a guy I would really hate working with. But I could never imagine the bullets I dodged with the law and my relationship with my parents deteriorating quickly happening at that time. I couldn't even ask his supervisors to cut ties since their policy does not allow it, even if I pose a potential threat to him (I didn't, but I asked this question). So one year of being irritated and controlled by this loser (loser is an understatement for me), and my parents certainly did not like my irritability and easy-to-complain mood, plus I became super lazy at that time (my work ethic heavily depends on my emotions, and sadly, it has not been going well). When my parents and I finally were able to somehow convince them to change, I would eventually get over him, but if I ever see him again (which I heavily doubt), I certainly would never say I forgive him, even if he apologizes.
(There are more personal details about why I hated him, but these are personal and could get me in trouble if I mentioned them here).
You’re family should’ve sued the practice if you got evidence because they deserve it for allowing this guy to do this to people and refusing to switch you to someone else
@@allisonkrueger8330 well, I did do some stuff to them that could have gotten me in trouble, so this is one of the reasons why taking legal action would be a bad idea.
Let's say a drug dealer gets robbed of the money he earned by selling drugs. If he reported it, he'd certainly get in some type of trouble. I was in a similar situation.
We appreciate Kyutie for her effort and hard work on this channel. God bless her.
Similar situation with the 15 year friendship except insert abusive boyfriends. i distanced myself from her.
I'll never forgive my biological dad because he was toxic & abusive and he was pervert towards me.
I have forgiven and gotten over a lot of things my mother has said and done to me, but there is one thing that's stuck with me for a king time.
I had some missing assignments I was working on, and they were very late. I was struggling with focusing and getting the work done (as an undiagnosed autistic teen.) I had six or so assignments, each taking me 40 minutes to an hour. She screamed at me and said I shouldn't be allowed to eat until I finished my work
This has stuck with me for years, and may have been the start of my eating disorder-
It sucks when people don’t understand that we can’t help it (fellow Autistic person who also has ADHD). By the way are you sure it’s Autism? I’ve heard of people being misdiagnosed with it instead of ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder). I also hope you are doing much better now.
i appreciate the thought, but i'm pretty positive it's autism. i am currently diagnosed with ADHD, and i'm slowly working towards and autism diagnosis. i just get overestimulated very easily, so outside noise and movement can really impair my focus
as for my situation, i'm still living with the same family, same mom. i kinda hate her, but i've learned to understand her hatred is partially a learned response to her own abuse
ty tho 💕
@@PowerlineIsGod that does sound like Autism, i get the noise issues. The worst for me was when people are talking when I’m trying to work, and my classmates were always loud. What worked for me was listening to music with headphones while I worked so I could tune out everyone else.
Last month I went for my best friend's birthday . We have been friends for 15 years. On that day I realized she was my best friend but for her I'm not that important. I'm not saying she should not have any other friends but it hurts when someone ignores you and keep blind eye towards you. During dinner she started having fun with her other friends while I was sitting in different room alone . Although I tried to include myself in their conversation she told me to keep quiet. I don't have any other friends as I'm introvert but that day even if everyone was present there I felt lonely and sad.
Stop being friend with her
You don't deserve that
@@kimnamjooniemoni2221 maybe I should do that but it's hard to remove someone from life after all these years 😕
@@mrushiro7601 even tho she do that?
It's still hard?
@@mrushiro7601 just treat her like a normal friend, remove the best friend title from her, she doesn't deserve that.
@@kimnamjooniemoni2221 yes bcoz in 8th grade she saved me from getting harassed. If she was not there I might have got kidnapped or worse lost my life.
I don't know which stories to tell. There was my first grade teacher who ruined the social lives of some of her students. At an animal shelter I used to volunteer at a woman lost her job because she was too good at her job. Around when my grandmother passed away I became the emotional punching bag to 2 of my family members. However, out of every story I've lived through the one person I have the most trouble forgiving is myself. The fact it took so long to move on from what that teacher did. Being too afraid to speak up when I see something wrong. I constantly allow myself to be the emotional punching bag because as a child every time I tried to stand up I would get knocked down. But I'm an adult now so why do I still keep hiding myself? Because the scars inside still remain. I freak out every time I make a mistake. I get scared whenever someone has good expectations of me. I find it much more comfortable for people to think I'm nothing than something because the less they know the less joy they can take. The fact I let myself get this far, at this point I can't forgive myself. But I am trying and maybe one day I will.
2:11 My dog was actually found as a puppy apparently thrown into a river or something (IDK the story well cuz I wasn't even born or anything) and my mom saved her and her sister. I love her so much.
hi ellen!!! i just wanna say thanks you for posting everyday. i always look forward to seeing you post, keep it up.☺️
I've been spat at a few times; never been hit by spit (knocks on wood). I get the feeling those spitters don't do that frequently, it's like they saw that on a movie and think spitting at people makes them tough guys. It only makes them gross.
My ex broke up with me at the first month anniversary of my uncle's death (english is not my first language so i cant explain it better) , when I told her that and told her we couldn't be friends she overstep my boundaries and begged me to be friends under the excuse that she didn't remember which day it was
(Sorry again for my broken english)
Literally, that thing ellen said about spitting in ppls faces she said almost the same thing a few years back and before i didn't agree but now i do. Like if someone spits in my face i'm sorry but i'm taking them OUT!
How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? In the very first story, that is just so nasty and disgusting because I had a bully back when I was in the 4th grade do the same exact thing to me. He decided to pick on and bully me because I was the only one in a wheelchair. In the second story, the mom sounds like a horrible person and complete shame on the godmother for turning a blind eye to it. Why didn't the mom just put the child up for adoption because at least then they would have been raised way better. In my opinion bad mom's like that should literally be forced to have their tubes tied so that they can't ever get pregnant again. In the third story, that is just so very sad to actually see and witness. I hope Belle found a great home too. In the fourth story, if she was so willing to cut you out of her life for her boyfriend cheated on her, then she was never really your friend in the first place to begin with. I easily cut one of my friends out of my life for the same exact thing, and I had been friends with them for over 12 years. They tried to apologize to me but I just looked the other way and I just kept it moving. The only reason why they apologized was because they caught their so called girlfriend cheating on them. I love you!! Have a great day!!
I'm 16 and my whole life, my mother has always said "I wish I could run away and never come back." Last year she actually attempted to make that wish come true. She also always "jokes" that my birth ruined her body, career, and basically her whole life. I'll never forgive her for putting her children through that. Then she wonders why her children are the way they are.
For a little context, she has 4 kids and I'm the second born but the first daughter... I'm sure you can imagine.
That first one was my ex all over, would throw things and use that excuse all the time. Just no
i dont call her mom. but the woman who birthed me was the same way. abusive. narcissistic. a complete monster. yeah. support isnt the word. i told people i was her emotional punching bag. and for the dog one, that's just sad. but most shelters want you to pay for bringing your pet in. its for their food and to guarantee them a spot. if you cant take care of your pet, just call the shelter and say you saw a dog or cat on the street. i have a cat and dog that i plan on spending the rest of my life with because i cant have kids myself.
(TW! SA!)
My cousin molested me when I was younger. He was also pretty young, so everybody forgave him. Mind you, I was the one that had to expose him years later because he never told anybody what he did. To this day, I feel anger when I see him at family reunions. It's not the anger that gets me though, it's the sadness of watching everybody that knows about my situation hug him back, some even encouraging me to forgive him..
There are so many things that have been done to me I can forgive. but something that I can't forgive was when I was harassed and no one did anything. It was so fucking awful and no did a thing about it.
OMG I SAW THIS THE MOMENT TI CAME OUT LOL
First!
Here's your gold medal! ====> 🥇
7:04 its expensive af to live here so good luck with that 💀
3:41 I should tell this to my dad 💀
My dad went on a verbal rampage to me the other day in the car and I will NEVER forgive him for what he said to me
" You are a fuckwit!"
"I don't care about you anymore!"
"MY CHILDREN, WHAT HAVE I FUCKING BRED!"
A fuckwit? Thats a new one. I hope you are doing better now
Last one hit too close to home 😢
so does the kid being abused not need support also?? stupid logic.
you’re soooo pretty!
love you !!
Third!
Here's your bronze medal! ====> 🥉
My mother spit in my face and then later said I spit in her face, which I spit on her shoulder after she spit in my face and let me get in trouble when she never told anyone what she did 😕
It’s so messed up to criticize someone that forgave a cheater when you don’t know their circumstance. Good for you if you can forgive one but not everyone has it that easy. But whatever go ahead and shame them 🙄🙄🙄🙄 ignorance is a bliss I guess
I know cases where the cheater never cheated again and they lived a happy life together. You never know like you said. My aunt and uncle were forced into marriage. He cheated but realized how much he loves my aunt, they have now been together for over 50 years!
You're so beautiful Ellen ❤❤❤❤
hehe....10:10 💎
I love your videos kyutie
Shadow boxer I’m I second
Sorry. Sixth.
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Hello!!
Second!
Here's your silver medal! ====> 🥈
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i dont like that you judge people like that. you dont know their part of the story.. everybody messes up sometimes
Well she doesn't judge them personally. She just reads stories as it is & gives her opinion. You know freedom of speech
@@ButterflySUB i love her, i dont mean it rude. to me it sounded like judging as she sometimes also used phrases like "they are a bad person". i rly meant it as constructive criticism, she herself really comes over as a sweetheart and i admire her dedication to her channel as she manages to literally post everyday. :)