I literally just loaned my baby sister $100 last month in which she gave me a sad story about being stranded and needed personal items and medication costs that Medicaid won’t cover…FF to today our brother called me and told me I fell for her lies,because she did the same thing to him,and he found out she was buying drugs. So yeah,never loan money to relatives
Never loan ANYONE money that you can’t afford to not get back. And don’t expect it back. If they pay you back great, but don’t expect to get your money back
She's talking about it lowered her tax burden. Plenty of people claim as much stuff as possible to get a tax break whether they were confused or not. Judy didn't make any sense on that I guess she's inexperienced there. I've witnessed people in action doing it
Exactly. I am a retired IRS employee and she apparently claimed the $4,000 as an itemized deduction on her tax return. And yes, it does lower your tax burden if she was able to itemize rather than taking the standard deduction. Judge Judy is a very intelligent woman however she does NOT know everything!!
You would be surprised. Keep an open mind. This can happen to anyone. You can have it sll and just like that lose it all. Ive seen it happen to someone else in the blink of an eye. Its eye opening. @monastea4258
I remember one time my brother loaned me 200 dollars. I couldn't afford to pay him until one year later. When I told him, "Here's your 200. Thank you". He said, "Oh I thought you forgot all about it". I said, "Of course not". As soon as I got a job which afforded me to pay him back, I paid him back. I would have thought he/she helped you, the least you can do is be grateful, right?!
Me and my brother doesn't have a relationship, my mother said he wants to give me cash a $1,000 to buy a computer,I said no.She got all upset at me for rejecting.Now u all see why,there is nothing free especially from someone who I don't even know his phone number
Most people that’s a ton of money it takes a long time to save! If I loaned $2k it would take me 2 years to build it back in my savings! I’d need it back.
@cpevors Very true. Some family members work, have money and still don't pay rent. They always expect the family to help. Most never pay back even when they promised to. It's taking advantage for some.
So many times you see these people accept the loan with the understanding they're supposed to pay it back. Then later, they suddenly remember something from years beforehand that brings a 'well whaddya know!' moment that they shouldn't really have to pay back the loan after all. DON'T ACCEPT MONEY FROM SOMEONE THAT THEY'RE EXPECTING BACK IF YOU DON'T PLAN ON GIVING IT BACK!
Seems like she did it because she wanted the money her sister was loaned prior and never paid back though. It's just pathetic that the sister who refused to pay back the first loan then sued the sister when she pulled the same thing to get her own money back. Glasses is clearly the lowlife is all I got from this clip.
I have noticed that JJ usually starts her questioning with the person who is going to lose the case. Defendant was questioned first and she is already losing the case.
cause she has read about the case and studyed it, she has all the facts but she still needs to hear their pov about the case. In general though she alredy knows.
@@alvaro.martinez Absolutely. Upwardly mobile professionals making over $200K a year (HHI) don't generally ruin their reputation over a free trip to LA.
Technically she said her and her husband made that much in a month, but that's still a lot of money. She must have fell hard to be a postal worker now.
I’ve always operated on the idea that you never give someone money if you expect to get it back. I don’t do loans, if you need money and I have it to give I will give it freely. If you pay me back that’s great if not that’s fine too but don’t come asking for more.
Man my family WOULD NEVER As a matter of fact I had to edit this to say that my brother fixed BOTH my cars WHILE I was at work and I didn’t even ask, tried to pay him and he refused because and I quote “THATS WHAT FAMILY IS FOR”
It always annoys me when Judge Judy doesn't believe something just because it's not something she would do. I would guess if she's loaned her sister $4,000 it came from her business, which is why it would be added to her taxes.
She had no proof which is why she went into detail but got annoyed because she said she just wrote it off but saying shit has loaned her before with no evidence 🤷🏽♂️ Plus her job is to not fall for anything she must always question if it doesn’t seem right. Trust me she’s straight legit
That's true as a possibility. I'm not familiar with US tax rules, but for where I live it does come down to what type of business she has (sole proprietor, partnership, or corporation) and if she made the loan through her own pocket or the business' pocket. The latter would be weird since it'd have nothing to do with the business and she'd have to include it in her financial statements, but it's not impossible I guess. Just really unlikely.
I’m in agreement with you about her convoluted views on life! As a Christian woman, I do things she’d never dream of doing! I’ve given away thousands of dollars and things with a pretty hefty price tag because someone was in need. She’d never understand that in a million years based on quite a few of her nonsensical rulings!
Can't imagine taking a sibling to court. I owed my brother for similar reasons to this lady, so I adapted to the fact after, admittedly, some minor strife caused by my stress of the situation. He gave me no time limit to pay him back, so I regularly paid what I could per week, my poverty caused by a ridiculously low-paying job. Our sibling relationship got back to normal till one day, out of the blue, he told me not to worry about the last bit of payment. The issue was over me buying him out of the family home that we jointly inherited and I live here now, mortgage free. Without stereotyping, I can't get over the hatred that occurs in families over there in the USA, all caused by #$%@ money!
That's very good that you have a good relationship and you both sound like responsible people. But there are many who take advantage of their family. I've known people who work good paying jobs, but spend their money on clothes or other things instead of rent and utilities. They then depend on family to cover their bills, never pay back and actually keep taking from family. So I try not to judge.
I can't fathom how closely related family members can sue each other (parents suing their own children and siblings suing each other). Maybe I'm just spoiled because I was raised in a 2-parent home and was taught that us 4 sons will always be there for each other in times of need. What a wretched world it has become
Poor money managers and frivolous spending habits. At one point I averaged 9-11k a month at least 80% was saved, when the oilfield went bust, I was laid off. I traveled for 2 years, no need to go back to work until I was ready.
Draw up a contract if you’re the one asking for money and give the person you’re loaning from an opportunity to edit it. I did this when I asked for money from my sister when I had to buy a car after Geico was withholding money from me when I decided them to have them buy my car off of me when it was totaled when I was rear ended. I asked if she wanted interest which she said no, but I threw her an extra $40 as a thank you when I paid her back the next month.
When someone you know starts asking you for financial help, that is a huge red flag with the words " Do you really want to do this?? " written all over it.
Charitable contributions for both. Never give money with the thought you will be paid off. Consider it to be a real gift! If you get it back great. If not, move on.
My cousin recently asked me to loan him 5k. I couldn’t do it watch too much JJ. I have done small amounts like $300-500. But I didn’t want to risk such a large sum.
“We were self employed and fudged our taxes to save money, and pay less taxes…. We really don’t understand taxes but we just say stuff and act like we do.”…
If I loan money to people of significant amount I write an agreement that is signed and notorized with a due date of reimbursement and a 25 dollar a day interest for every day pass the due date.
My brother loaned me $1600 to finish my schooling, i was In the last semester. I paid off that loan as soon as I found a job. My brother actually forgot about it but I didn’t wanted a bone of contention between us. He is my brother- my only family. Money changes relationships the way it’s unimaginable. That’s what we see here in this case. It’s very sad. Pay off your debt even if you loan from your own mother… it’s not worth the stress and strain…
There should be a law.. If you lend a family member money, you can't ever expect a repayment.. No matter the amount..?? That law will help people saying.. NO!!
It's crazy how family members help eachother out but them expect to be paid back 🤣 we are family tf? If that's the case you better pay your mom back for raising you lmao
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Never loan money to relatives. Give them money if you want, never loan.
or anyone at all
Truer words were never said
I learned my lesson.
I literally just loaned my baby sister $100 last month in which she gave me a sad story about being stranded and needed personal items and medication costs that Medicaid won’t cover…FF to today our brother called me and told me I fell for her lies,because she did the same thing to him,and he found out she was buying drugs. So yeah,never loan money to relatives
Never loan ANYONE money that you can’t afford to not get back. And don’t expect it back. If they pay you back great, but don’t expect to get your money back
Yes!
“Nobody writes additional stuff on their tax returns if they don’t have to”
Amen.
I guess she included HERSELF in that statement.
She's talking about it lowered her tax burden. Plenty of people claim as much stuff as possible to get a tax break whether they were confused or not. Judy didn't make any sense on that I guess she's inexperienced there. I've witnessed people in action doing it
Exactly. I am a retired IRS employee and she apparently claimed the $4,000 as an itemized deduction on her tax return. And yes, it does lower your tax burden if she was able to itemize rather than taking the standard deduction. Judge Judy is a very intelligent woman however she does NOT know everything!!
@@valeriemassey5290 how would that work unless the sister is a charity?
Wait…how would a gift to her sister be tax free?
$18K/month👀
We’re just gonna let that slide?
Exactly! 😳
facts!!!!!
Also how do you go from that to not being able to pay rent?
You would be surprised. Keep an open mind. This can happen to anyone. You can have it sll and just like that lose it all. Ive seen it happen to someone else in the blink of an eye. Its eye opening. @monastea4258
18,000K a month, nothing saved???? wow budget
Sad to see family in court over money.
Very much so
ALWAYS 😢
That's why you don't loan money to family and expect to get it back.
Typically it's always money when it's family on family
ALWAYS gift money to family. After that, no need to give them more money.
I remember one time my brother loaned me 200 dollars. I couldn't afford to pay him until one year later. When I told him, "Here's your 200. Thank you". He said, "Oh I thought you forgot all about it". I said, "Of course not". As soon as I got a job which afforded me to pay him back, I paid him back. I would have thought he/she helped you, the least you can do is be grateful, right?!
Exactly, and if the defendant is telling the truth and did in fact give the plaintiff 4k at some point, she has the nerve to sue her
Me and my brother doesn't have a relationship, my mother said he wants to give me cash a $1,000 to buy a computer,I said no.She got all upset at me for rejecting.Now u all see why,there is nothing free especially from someone who I don't even know his phone number
Am I the only one that would help a sibling without anything in return ? sh** like this makes me so sad
If you can afford to, that's an awesome place to be. Some people can't afford to help out without getting paid back eventually.
Most people that’s a ton of money it takes a long time to save! If I loaned $2k it would take me 2 years to build it back in my savings! I’d need it back.
@@cpevors period, point blank.
@cpevors Very true. Some family members work, have money and still don't pay rent. They always expect the family to help.
Most never pay back even when they promised to. It's taking advantage for some.
I do both. I Loan and I give. If someone can give and not worry about good for them. Every circumstance is not the Same.
A good rule of thumb is don’t loan what you can’t afford to lose. If they never pay it back then that’s one less person asking you to borrow money.
So many times you see these people accept the loan with the understanding they're supposed to pay it back. Then later, they suddenly remember something from years beforehand that brings a 'well whaddya know!' moment that they shouldn't really have to pay back the loan after all.
DON'T ACCEPT MONEY FROM SOMEONE THAT THEY'RE EXPECTING BACK IF YOU DON'T PLAN ON GIVING IT BACK!
Seems like she did it because she wanted the money her sister was loaned prior and never paid back though. It's just pathetic that the sister who refused to pay back the first loan then sued the sister when she pulled the same thing to get her own money back. Glasses is clearly the lowlife is all I got from this clip.
I have noticed that JJ usually starts her questioning with the person who is going to lose the case. Defendant was questioned first and she is already losing the case.
Yes that’s how it usually works
cause she has read about the case and studyed it, she has all the facts but she still needs to hear their pov about the case. In general though she alredy knows.
Not always. Sometimes she'll question someone from whom she needs elaboration on.
I'm in shock they made 18k a month. Doing what?
It must be a great job to get 18k a month.
That was a shock to me as well. 18K a month for how long and what happened to it all? I'd love to make that much.
I suspect the husband was the breadwinner if she only worked for the Post Office.
Since they lost everything and went broke I'm assuming something shady or even illegal.
@@alvaro.martinez Absolutely. Upwardly mobile professionals making over $200K a year (HHI) don't generally ruin their reputation over a free trip to LA.
Sound money management should be top priority for everyone. It really does make life easier.
I love watching judge Judy one of the best channels out right now especially during the lunch time. Great job!!! I would recommend channel to anyone.
18k a month? Wtf did she do sell drugs? Quite the fall from grace to go from makkng 18k a month to not being able to fix youre car
Technically she said her and her husband made that much in a month, but that's still a lot of money. She must have fell hard to be a postal worker now.
@Atrus999 yea stupid amount kinda wish JJ had asked what she did
I’ve always operated on the idea that you never give someone money if you expect to get it back. I don’t do loans, if you need money and I have it to give I will give it freely. If you pay me back that’s great if not that’s fine too but don’t come asking for more.
Relatives have attempted to borrow large sums of money from me. After I told them no; many of them stopped speaking to me.
She was making 18k per month and didn't care to save some of it?
How did she manage to spend all that money and have no assets to repay her sister $2000?
Man my family WOULD NEVER
As a matter of fact I had to edit this to say that my brother fixed BOTH my cars WHILE I was at work and I didn’t even ask, tried to pay him and he refused because and I quote “THATS WHAT FAMILY IS FOR”
That's ❤
The lady wrote it off on her taxes 😂😂 yeah right!
It always annoys me when Judge Judy doesn't believe something just because it's not something she would do. I would guess if she's loaned her sister $4,000 it came from her business, which is why it would be added to her taxes.
She had no proof which is why she went into detail but got annoyed because she said she just wrote it off but saying shit has loaned her before with no evidence 🤷🏽♂️ Plus her job is to not fall for anything she must always question if it doesn’t seem right. Trust me she’s straight legit
That's true as a possibility. I'm not familiar with US tax rules, but for where I live it does come down to what type of business she has (sole proprietor, partnership, or corporation) and if she made the loan through her own pocket or the business' pocket. The latter would be weird since it'd have nothing to do with the business and she'd have to include it in her financial statements, but it's not impossible I guess. Just really unlikely.
no proof
I’m in agreement with you about her convoluted views on life! As a Christian woman, I do things she’d never dream of doing! I’ve given away thousands of dollars and things with a pretty hefty price tag because someone was in need. She’d never understand that in a million years based on quite a few of her nonsensical rulings!
@@cpevorswe have the same kind of system in the UK.
Yes sister burned her bridge. Say no to money for now on.
I need to know What exactly did she do to earn $18K a month? 😮
they did together. Her and hubby, now they seperated. I think hier ex earned a bulk of this money. And doing what? Maybe plastic surgon? who knowes.
Can't imagine taking a sibling to court. I owed my brother for similar reasons to this lady, so I adapted to the fact after, admittedly, some minor strife caused by my stress of the situation. He gave me no time limit to pay him back, so I regularly paid what I could per week, my poverty caused by a ridiculously low-paying job. Our sibling relationship got back to normal till one day, out of the blue, he told me not to worry about the last bit of payment. The issue was over me buying him out of the family home that we jointly inherited and I live here now, mortgage free. Without stereotyping, I can't get over the hatred that occurs in families over there in the USA, all caused by #$%@ money!
That's very good that you have a good relationship and you both sound like responsible people. But there are many who take advantage of their family.
I've known people who work good paying jobs, but spend their money on clothes or other things instead of rent and utilities. They then depend on family to cover their bills, never pay back and actually keep taking from family.
So I try not to judge.
Dude… a postal carrier… saying that her and husband were making $18k a month. And then she did not have $$$$. Uhhh hmmmm….
she may have win the case, but she lost a sister...
Wait so u mean to tell me at one point the defendant & her husband made s total of $216,000.00 per year? Bull effing shyt 🥴
Don’t do money with family or friends, if you value that relationship. If you do give them money? Consider it a gift. You will be at peace.
if you give to family members, give money that you can afford to lose while still keeping the relationship.
I can't fathom how closely related family members can sue each other (parents suing their own children and siblings suing each other). Maybe I'm just spoiled because I was raised in a 2-parent home and was taught that us 4 sons will always be there for each other in times of need. What a wretched world it has become
We'll see her ex husband on 'Take a Seat with Chris Hansen'.
Never loan/give/lend money that you aren’t willing to not get back.
Defendant looks like the late Mira Furlan RIP.
These two constantly tattled on each other when they were young.
She was making 18k a month so why wasn't she saving up for difficult times
some people aren't financially competent
Poor money managers and frivolous spending habits. At one point I averaged 9-11k a month at least 80% was saved, when the oilfield went bust, I was laid off. I traveled for 2 years, no need to go back to work until I was ready.
Since she mentioned losing a paycheck at the casino I suspect she or her ex might be the one with the gambling problems.
Write off on my taxes? Huh? Is this Michael Scott?
I can not understand how siblings, parents, children, can sue each other for some thousands, hundreds, whatever! I just CAN NOT!! AND on public TV😢😢😢😢
I like judge judy but sometimes she thinks she knows how everybody live but she dont
Nice comment
Let's be honest, nobody claims gifts on taxes
This case was so fast I blinked and missed everything😂
If you’re gonna loan family or friends money, always do it with the expectation of never being paid back. 🤷♀️
A post office employee is very highly paid. Borrowing money from her kind sister and then renegging is a really scum-bag move.
Draw up a contract if you’re the one asking for money and give the person you’re loaning from an opportunity to edit it. I did this when I asked for money from my sister when I had to buy a car after Geico was withholding money from me when I decided them to have them buy my car off of me when it was totaled when I was rear ended. I asked if she wanted interest which she said no, but I threw her an extra $40 as a thank you when I paid her back the next month.
Countersue if that's true 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
Between my mum brother and sister, we always lend and pay back money. I couldn’t imagine borrowing and then not paying back
I think she meant she put it as a deductions.
When someone you know starts asking you for financial help, that is a huge red flag with the words " Do you really want to do this?? " written all over it.
you're telling me this lady was making over 200,000$/year and couldn't afford to fix her car let alone pay back a 2000$ loan?
Only loan what you are willing to loose.
IN MY VIEW
This case was cut and dry because the defendant acknowledged the money was a loan and she agreed to pay it back.
All the rest was nonsense.
1:42 well that was TMI
I never loan money. If someone needs money I give it never expecting it back that way I'm never disappointed.
Ron was kind enough to loan money to his sister. The sister should have repaid the loan. Period.
Judge Judy agreed to This Weekend On Saturday and Sunday
That young white girl w/the pretty blonde hair is ALWAYS in the audience in every single video I watch 😂😂😂
I have a theory jj starts with the one she doesn't believe
Charitable contributions for both. Never give money with the thought you will be paid off. Consider it to be a real gift! If you get it back great. If not, move on.
My cousin recently asked me to loan him 5k. I couldn’t do it watch too much JJ. I have done small amounts like $300-500. But I didn’t want to risk such a large sum.
How do you politely decline? I always end up having to be rude, for example, hanging up the phone, or having to lie and saying I don't have it
Smart!
I don’t believe that woman and any man who would marry her, could possibly make $18,000/month without selling drugs.
Are people this stupid? 18k before taxes is literally 9k per person which is 108k a year. Millions of jobs pay that much.
Uhhhhh… oooookay.
Well that was quick
I would like to know what’s up with the 4000 from 2014.
Shhhhid I lend to my kids, they’re grown now and they give it back. I don’t support grown-ups.
That was easy!
Neither a lender or borrower be.
“We were self employed and fudged our taxes to save money, and pay less taxes…. We really don’t understand taxes but we just say stuff and act like we do.”…
So the price of her sisterhood relationship is worth $3000?
If I loan money to people of significant amount I write an agreement that is signed and notorized with a due date of reimbursement and a 25 dollar a day interest for every day pass the due date.
Lol she must be broke still living with ex husband
My brother loaned me $1600 to finish my schooling, i was In the last semester. I paid off that loan as soon as I found a job. My brother actually forgot about it but I didn’t wanted a bone of contention between us. He is my brother- my only family. Money changes relationships the way it’s unimaginable. That’s what we see here in this case. It’s very sad. Pay off your debt even if you loan from your own mother… it’s not worth the stress and strain…
There should be a law.. If you lend a family member money, you can't ever expect a repayment.. No matter the amount..??
That law will help people saying.. NO!!
That's a stupid law. Just because a few ppl featured on a reality tv show don't pay back family doesn't mean the vast majority don't.
Bird is the most ungrateful person on any tv show.
It's crazy how family members help eachother out but them expect to be paid back 🤣 we are family tf? If that's the case you better pay your mom back for raising you lmao
I am a person of modest means. I would always try to help a sibling but why shouldn't I be reimbursed when they can afford it?
@@angelabacker1177 if you expect a return from a family member you shouldn't even give them money. But to sue them? That's ridiculous.
@@dannyboylan3079 I did not mention suing them.
Title sounds like James Charles scandal
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I am first!!! I win!!
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You win the 'first loser to say they're first' prize. Congratulations on being king of the losers.
@@bravo2966 that sounds rude? Or are you being sarcastic funny?
Liar liar