Remember this everyone: Karens are not limited to white soccer moms, they can be any combination! White, black, asian, women, men, christian, atheist, and so much more. Never assume one basic look for a Karen, for anyone can be a Karen.
The stalker mom only SEEMS illegal? Libel and slander are illegal. Stalking is illegal. Stalking minors is another kind of illegal. Assault and battery is illegal. And all because the stuck up little girl had her feelings hurt because a secret note went unnoticed. That mom should be facing charges.
Yeah. Not only that, they are 11 years old and in elementary school at the time. Congrats Karen, you scarred a young boy because your daughter couldn’t have her crush notice her feelings.
That EM needs to learn kids are still scared of people yelling, and respond to positive reinforcement, being told they're doing good, not yelling at them to do something
Just like a matchbox computer doing punishment learning is quicker but it just loses all emotion and fun. However reward learning is slower but they dont lose emotion the computer will make mistakes but not often
Exactly. You need to give positive feedback loops to children, or as I like to call it - a sandwich feedback. The two pieces of bread are things that a child does well, while everything inside like the cheese and ham are things the child could improve on. For example, "Hey kid, that's really beautiful handwriting, but hold your pencil a little more loosely. It'll help relax your hand and prevent it from becoming sore. I must say though, you write much neater than me. Keep it up."
Really wish my parents could get their heads around this concept too... I have some issues which means people yelling at me often ends with me in inconsolable tears. It’s bad enough at school when a teacher gets a little harsh, I can deal with them- but at home... nope. I don’t know how many times my parents have told me “You really need to stop this crying thing”, if I could I would. Full on breakdowns from my mom getting annoyed at me because I’m not cleaning my room quick enough aren’t fun! So yeah, this should be in general- people don’t respond well if they feel threatened/degraded. Just take a breath before getting angry.
@@molly.dog8brooke792 wait you cry a lot too? I always thought I was just sensitive since all my friends got it worse than me but don't cry at all it's nice to meet another person who's like me
@@LuddyFish_ when I worked with the kids I used action to show them how to do things. I find kids like visual learning such as I showed a young boy how to put on his gloves. Since I have baby hands I could show him how to do it. He was a quite kid...super shy and sweet.
@@selenewan7485 They certainly do in China and Vietnam. I've seen way too much. Child abuse is the norm there. Sure there are exceptions, but it still breaks my heart to see how slowly things are changing there. India is right up there, too. Japan and Taiwan are _much_ better, and I can't speak for other Asian cultures outside of those 5, because I have no experience with them.
Wobbles and Bean I can speak from personal experience, when I visited China I was living in an apartment that my grandparents owned and rented to people. The entire day you could hear the sounds of parents yelling and lighting up their children.
@@WobblesandBean I have to disagree. I'm sorry but I'm from mainland China. I don't know which part of China you had experience with but aside from when you REALLY screwed up, parents are nice
Wobbles and Bean I grew up with Chinese parents (I was born in mainland China) and my parents were nowhere near the level of the Asian mom in this video. I also have lots of Chinese friends who have nice, reasonable parents who are not abusive like you say. Perhaps your experiences were different, but it does no one any good to compare cultures like that and stereotype families based only on what you’ve seen.
Sharee Mitchell I remember a class bully in my kinder class never faced repercussions because his mom was friends with the teacher. Maybe this entitled mom was friends with the police or a higher-up at school
The second story reminds me of my 'friend' Charlie. We were 6 and in infant school which is second grade. I went to Charlie's House often, and loved her family. I brought a doll to school and wouldn't let her redress her because I never got toys like this. My parents were very poor. The next day she told the teacher I was saying horrible things about her older brother. He was in a wheelchair and was very disabled. It got to the point that her mother went to the headmaster, and i was sent to talk to him. Now I was 6 and remember some of this and my dad told me the rest she'd told her mum that id had taken her doll, and that I'd said horrible things about brother Jon. My doll had gone missing from.my bag and I knew she had it. I told the truth but they didn't believe me. So the headmaster called my parents to come in. My parents arrived and Charlie's mum went pale...there was my mum being pushed in a wheel chair by my dad... My dad also brought the box my doll had come in, and the receipt (he never threw anything away) Charlies mum tried to say it was a misunderstanding and grabbed charlie to leave. My dad noticing charlies backpack had an unmistakable large bulge asked for my doll back. Charlies mum tried to say she didn't have it, and the headmaster opened her bag showing my doll sitting in it..with a different dress. Charlie had taken it, put on a dress from one of her dolls and had been carrying it around in her bag for two days. This wasn't the last time she pulled this, she also tried to get another girl in trouble for calling her brother horrible words...the problem with that is the girl had never met him. And didnt know what she meant.
im a Christian and I agree lol. Also it's "thou" not "though", thou means you btw. So it's "you shall not steal" And yeah these karens are NOTHING compared to what Jesus teaches.
What weird, edited version of The Bible do you have that says *_that?_* "The most basic thing" of all The Bibles *_I've_* seen is a lot of passive aggressiveness and jealousy around the idea of 'other gods' and threats towards anyone who might believe in, or worship _them_ instead.
That last one sounds a lot like Emily’s mom from a story awhile back: the one who stole her adult daughter’s car because she wouldn’t obey her and she thought that she owned anything her daughter had.
No disrespect to other people’s cultures but seriously most Asian style parenting is abusive. Sad how most Asian kids just view it as their parents being strict and nothing more. Also respect to the teachers who have to deal with these entitled people I probably wouldn’t be able to keep my cool.
Honestly in all my experiences, Asian/Japanese/etc, WOMEN have always been extremely rude to me and others around them. Some could argue that I’m racist but...........
Can confirm this. Was lucky enough for my father to have a change of heart after seeing how much my sister would cry from being hit with a belt. Most of the people I know weren't lucky enough and had extreme punishments such as kneeling on mung beans for hours.
Now I’m confused if my Asian parents are abusive, we don’t really spend time together anymore, we also stopped celebrating birthdays since 1st grade(?) and completely don’t celebrate any other holidays unless their friends are over. I’m pretty sure they care, I mean they got me a lot of pets throughout the 5 years to keep me company (around 38+ pets, mostly fish, I own a white fluffy Pomeranian like dog named Jack currently, he keeps me sane through quarantine) _yeahhh imma stop ranting now, have a nice day/night_
Just a rant from an Asian, tl;dr below. Korean here. Our country is small, very small, and half of the land is made of mountains; no resources(oil, gems, etc) that can help our economy grow, so our only shot at success is through education. You'll see kids in sixth grade doing middle-school stuff here. You'll see kids in fifth grade leaning heavily on private education, spending hours in a.. academy? _Hagwon_ to ensure they have a head start. Since the starting line is so far ahead, we have to study and study, lest we be left behind. I'll be attending high school next year. I'm studying Calculus, Physics, and Chemistry to get prepared for the flow of work that's coming my way. It's normal for our phones to be confiscated for little reason. It's normal for our phones to have thirty-minute time limits. It's normal for us to be tracked through our phones, for our parents to know what we're doing with out phones every second of the day. Caffeine and sugar has been our best friends since we could properly write. I'm pretty sure my blood vessels are made of coffee now. Enough about my life and education. Onto the subject of Asian Karens now. One sentence: Dumb minds think alike. Seriously. There's Karens everywhere, yay. Tl;dr: Highschool sucks, mountains suck, Karens are everywhere and they suck too.
I think what's MORE messed up is the fact that everyone believed the bully girl over OP's son, probably cause "She's a GIRRRLLLL and wouldn't do such a thing like THAAAAAAT!". Oh right, and I suppose you'll laugh at a guy who was physically abused by a girl, but when the roles are switched, you'll form a mob and attack the guy for abusing a girl? This is the most messed up and disgusting reason I've ever heard. The Karen's no better! Acting like a stereotypical cartoon villain mafia boss! "I'm gonna make an offer you cannot refuse... Stop bullying my daughter or my son will beat you within an inch of your life, capeesh?"
I agree, but they should also have to provide a couple of reasons for the choice and maybe at least one reason why they don't want the other parent, for example if it were just a normal break up, no fighting or anything abusive going on, it seems too easy for a kid to just pick the fun parent who gives them toys/candy over the responsible one who makes them clean their room/eat broccoli but if there was a problem obviously the kid saying "Mom yells at me" is a bit of a red flag.
I agree, but it puts a lot of pressure on a child. It’s kinda a lose/lose, if you give them a choice they get a lot of pressure, if they don’t choose they could live a bad life.
As the oldest child in a divorce (happened when I was 6), I couldn't disagree more. Here's my take: I absolutely would have chosen my mother over my father if given the chance - she was objectively better at actually being a parent to children. My father ended up abusing me once I got older (we're currently no contact and I intend to remain so for the rest of his life). But ultimately? Looking back at the custody hearings, I still think the court made the right decision. My father was by far the most fiscally stable of the two - he owned the house they/we lived in, he was pretty well off from being the heir to a successful family business, he had a good fallback support in the forn of his parents who owned said business. My mother? Bounced around from place to place after the divorce, didn't have a stable home life for years, ended up marrying an alcoholic crackhead (in her defense, he only got worse after they had my half-brother), and her mother's home wasn't exactly stable either. Sometimes you can't do what's BEST for a kid - you can only do what's RIGHT relative to your position and the facts of the case. The main priority of the court was making sure my sister and I could have a stable home environment with a roof over our head at all times and food on the table, and I thank them for it even knowing how my father ended up later. No child deserves to be on the edge of homelessness for months at a time.
@@spaceonisorceress4406 The butterfly effect is a real thing though, you don’t know how your mother having custody of you would have changed her behaviour. Not saying it would have but it could have. But I guess I do see where you’re coming from. Sometimes it’s a rock and a hard place.
The girl from the second one sounds like she'll grow to be one of those vindictive women. You know the ones who say "he forced himself on me" when she didnt get her way
To the English teacher: I hope you continue to teach the child as long as you can. The kid sounds nice and the father too. I think if the kid continues with your classes he might have something to look forward to and learn to interact with people that don't immediately blow up at him. Shame on the mother.
The first story was practically my 4th-grade teacher, demanding to know that every student in their class knew the material she just taught us and if we didn't know we would be forced to have a talk with her in front of the entire class.
Goddamn it I am a true catholic with ADHD who ACCEPTS AND WANTS THE BEST FOR OTHERS, no matter their beliefs, orientation, race, gender, or sexuality, But I really HATE those types of people that use the Cristian belief as a freaking BEATING STICK
Stargazer 199 Yeah! Like, most don’t expect this but here, you can use it on them. “If God died for all humans and all sins, then he died for people of the LGBTQ+ community too, or are you now trying to say that they literally aren’t human? So tell me, are you seriously going to say that while God and Jesus can accept and forgive these people, you still can’t too? Cause you really seem to be defying a lot of passages, such as “Love they neighbor”, “Love thy enemy”, the list continues. So who are YOU to defy the very will of God, to forgive and accept ALL, including the LGBTQ+ community?”
@@queenofcute72 I'm not exactly sure what you're trying to say, but the principle is "Love the sinner, hate the sin." *Pointing out* the sin in an attempt to direct the person *away* from it is a way to show both of these things.
Regarding the stalker mom story OP has a legal case she can sue EM for emotional distress and depending how old Em's older son is she could press assault charges on him as well, though to prove emotional distress OP's son would have to see a therapist
Yes and no. They don't "read", they recognize the general "shape" of the word (sight-reading). This can actually be done at ages as early as 1 year (search in youtube, you'll see some 1 year olds walking around and picking up papers with words like "circle", "square", or "triangle" when parents call them out). The problem is, as they don't know phonetic reading, they are easily fooled by words with similar spellings (like "track", "trick", and "truck"), and parents don't always understand that sight-reading has to be balanced by phonetic study and reading to maximize reading capability and comprehension.
Isn’t that normal..? At 3 most kids (or at least Asian kids) are put into childcare centres or kindergarten centres because by 6, we have to learn how to add, subtract, tell time and learn at least one language well (in the country I’m in we have to learn both English and Chinese and have to be able to write a simple sentence by 5). By 8, we start to learn multiplication and division plus fractions. At 9, we learn fractions in word problems. At 10, we learn ratio and start learning algebra. Of course idk what things you are leaning when you are three but from an asians point of view, seems pretty normal to me
I feel so bad for the son of the Asian Karen. During my childhood where developing motor skills and other basics for later in life I got made fun of a lot for many things. My reading was slow so I never wanted to read out loud during class. I fixed it myself by reading to my stuffed animals for 30 minutes. Now it takes me only 2 hours to read a 300 page book. I stuttered a lot as a kid mostly repeating words I’ve already said or unable to pronounce words like rainbow and scissors. I got made fun of by my family by that one mostly so I’m quiet in class. I was born left handed and my dad always tried fixing that by giving this in my right hand. When he caught me with something in my left hand like a pencil he’d scream at me saying it was the wrong hand and shoved the item into my right hand. Thanks to him I can write with both hands and I can’t use scissors properly. I’m still struggling to even accept that getting a B on a test is okay and to hide the score from my mom. Whatever I did that wasn’t an A was always “why isn’t it an A? What did you do wrong?” And she’d threatened whatever she could even if it meant I didn’t get to eat as good as my sisters. And being from immigrant parents and a traditional Mexican mother it was also “I didn’t come to this country just so you could a 8/10 on a test. Is this how you repay me? I give you a house and food and all you can give me is an 8?” I feel so bad for that child. And I hope he realizes that living up to your parent’s expectations is not determined by how worthy you are as a human being.
As someone who just became a step-mom I have to disagree. But mistreating my step-daughter isn't on my list of desires, which is what that abusive woman did to her step-son.
The first story is really a story of you reap what you sow. Offering language CLASSES for children below the age of 5 is a joke in and of itself. Just put them into an all-english speaking environment. They pick the language up all by themselves because that's what small children do. Flash cards with written text for a 2yo make my head hurt.
The story just left me shaking my head. There seem to be a lot of stories about parents/step parents that think their adult children can be bossed around like little kids. Talk about clingy and controlling!
I think the only reason why this entitled mom let her kid beat up this kid is because he was beaten up first by some older kid and so this entitled kid wanted to beat up someone who can't fight back
I can relate to the first story so much! I’m an Esl teacher and I used to work in mainland China, so I’ve seen my fair share of entitled parents. These parents expect their child to learn English by osmosis it seems. Like sometimes they will put you and their child together and say, “go ahead!!! Speak English to them!” When the kid doesn’t even know what the word “hello” is 😑 and the same parents expect the kids to learn things INSTANTLY, like this EM in the story. Learning languages takes time!! For any age group! Yes it is better to start learning languages when you’re young, but that’s not a guarantee that they will be fluent when they grow up, like OP.
Here is some rules if you ever find yourself infront of a Karen 1. Record her going ballistic at you or someone else if she lies about it 2. Wear a mask you know they don't like that 3. Speak calmly but sternly to them so they don't think that you want to argue they'll try to use it against you (but you'll probably have evidence to prove otherwise) 4. If you have a Switch, Laptop, and/or you're phone they might ask to let their demon spawn see it lie and say it died power it down as well keep a close eye on it 5. If you and someone you know can speak a different language make joking comments about her if she acts crazy in public 6. If she mocks your culture try to make smart remarks about her and how she is disrespecting her's 7. (If you're in the work business listen) If you have a manager that's good they'll listen to your side of the story as well if the Karen is lying about you 8. If they also ask for a discount for absolutely nothing don't give in to it 9. (Going back to everyone) If they say things like video games and cartoons are for children either tell her that's immature and who's the childish one now 10. Finally going back to number 3 try to be calm while taking to them but be serious as well. Those are things you can try and do if you ever come into contact with a Amentes ut diaboli mulieribus (Translate that from Latin you'll get a laugh)
Lol yea I dun understand why people keep saying it’s abusive XD just cuz we have to learn faster or our parents are stricter doesn’t mean it abusive lol
Here's my school story : I was the prefect who pushed a kid who tried to push me I was called to the principal cos the brat cried After 5 minutes of constant scholdings I decided to put an end to it I just said : All children who cry are the only ones supported The principal was furious She asked me to place my badge on the table thinking I'll be scared and apologize I kept it The principal : *Surprised Pikachu face* The badge was returned 5 minutes later right back to me.
That’s so true, I was getting bullied and my principal didn’t take me seriously until I started tearing up a little and to this day I’m still pissed that that’s the only reason he got A SLAP ON THE WRIST. Thanks you for being so bold
I relate to that first story all to well. I’m not Asian at all (I’m black and Haitian!) but that way of teaching is incredibly common with my parents. I remember I got hit because I couldn’t spell grandma correctly. I was 5 man, give me a break 😭
why does coronavirus need to be censored? on that last story, when step mom said "even for your favorite step parent?". op should have said "I already gave my step dad a key"
I have been wondering that too because he changes it in other videos as well... My best guess is it messes with the algorithm TH-cam has or something like that.
TH-cam has allegedly been demonetizing videos for saying things related to corona. Or something like that. I'm not sure how true it is, but better safe than sorry really.
TH-cam doesn't want people spreading conspiracy theories about COVID so they've demonetized all uses of "COVID-19" and "Coronavirus" outside of informational videos. It's an effort to stop mass panic I guess
The point of censoring content of TH-cam's side is to keep videos advertiser friendly. Coka Cola doesn't want to be associated with Corona, so they won't put ads on videos on Corona (it's not that straightforward obviously), so TH-cam discourages the use of it.
@@fairladykd6734 I disagree as it largely depends on what Claire intends to do with herself, going into any of the trades, medical field, or even really the majority of careers require at least some level of algebra or better to be able to graduate and succeed. Unless your goal is to flip Burgers or work retail your entire life, go for it, ignore algebra and screw off in school. I'm not trying to tell anyone what to do here, but understand from someone that the public school system failed and shoved through without the skills required to get by, it hasn't been fun. I'm 32 and just getting my life sorted after spending a lot of time self educating, and I'm 3 months from graduating from a nursing program with 90's average, but its a lot of hard work to go from nothing to where I am; teachers may have failed me, don't failed yourself.
This makes so much sense. I work in a preschool and we had a family immigrate from china. When their 4 year old started he had perfect english, could read at a 2nd grade level and do simple math BEFORE kindergarten. Our chinese coworker said it wasnt uncommon for parents to send their preschoolers to these hardcore english schools
Oof, the entitled stepmom hit close to home. Mine was terrible, truly a nightmare and I’m surprised I didn’t wind up suicidal or an addict cause I endured some insane BS as a kid.
Oh man The stalking mom story is so similar to what I went through. A girl in my class constantly lied about me to her mom and the mom was determined to get me expelled. She called the school every time her daughter made up a bs story and would make a scene if they proved the accusations wrong. The mom began to stalk me as well and even set it up to where she picked up her daughter the same time as my usual early pick up time ( I had physical therapy every week). When she showed up, she started screaming at my mother and talked about how horrible and evil I was for “ bullying “ her daughter. The whole experience left me untrusting of other kids and suicidal(I was in 4th grade btw). The only difference is that my parents and school were always on my side and the girl ended up getting moved out of my class so she couldn’t harass me anymore. Now that i’m 18 I realize the girl did it mainly to get her mother’s attention and I more feel bad for her that she had to go to extremes to get it but man what she did messed me up for years and I can never forgive her for that
The proper response to a step parent saying, "I'm your parent" or the like is, "no, you're not - you're just someone my parent happened to marry, now eff-off."
that last story holy shit lady you are not his parent he moved in with his other birth parent just to get away from you someone needs to give that lunatic a reality check Step parents need to earn their parent status from the kids they enter the lives of you cant just kick the door open demand respect and actually expect the kid to comply it could take years to earn even a sliver of that kind of trust as age could be a factor religious crazies like her thing they are owed respect for their "holy" ways
I hate how so many stories feel the need to specify that a patent is conservative/Christian like that automatically makes them entitled or bad people. The fact that the mom in the last story is conservative or christian changed nothing on the situation. So why mention it?
@ they aren't. If you think that being conservative automatically equals being strict, I'd advise getting informed on the matter. Parents of any kind, ideology and characteristic can be strict.
Im a teacher. I once had an EM berate me at Parent Conference Night (which my school holds in the gym...teachers each have an assigned area, and it’s not particularly private). Her 16 year old son was failing my English class, and he had tons of missing assignments (important to note our grade books are online, and parents can access them ANY time). Over a DOZEN of the missing assignments were HOMEWORK assignments...meaning, I have NO CONTROL over whether a kid does or does not do them because they’re not in my care. She goes on for probably about 10 minutes about what a horrible teacher I am, how her son and all his friends say they’re not learning from me and blah blah blah...I try to let her know that he often comes late, and he and those friends often talk DURING my lessons, so that is possibly why they aren’t learning as much as they could be. I remained very polite throughout, and reminded her of my late work policy (he could still do the work for 50% and earn some points). He never did, and within a month we were virtual, so I didn’t have to deal with her again. I couldn’t believe how she wouldn’t take any responsibility for her student’s grade, when most of what was missing was HOMEWORK.
Hey! I used to watch like ten of your vids a day before quarantine! And for about a month after it started but then I got really upset with myself and got into a rough place so I haven’t been here for a while and so I’m back!! Have a nice day and I love the stories.
Dad: is the chill and supportive one in a marriage with a kid or more Society: Is this a wife beater/child abuser? Mom: is the insane and apathetic one who is actually the problem Also society: Is this the one who's abused?
As a child of two Asian parents I can say that they can be like that times. To make them get better, both the child and school system have to sit down and talk to them to make them understand that the way they treat their child is not right. It got a lot better after that, but it was really hard to get to that point. I was a senior in high school, diagnosed with both depression and anxiety, and had a mental breakdown where I just cried for 2 hours about a week before hand. I hope whoever reads this life will get better, but it takes time, effort, luck, and many people for that to happy. Thanks for listening to my rant and have a nice day.
Good morning. I currently have this playing on my laptop with my rabbit on my bed, and he seems to like your channel as much as i do lol. Laying on his stomach watching the lines being added and removed. Thanks RSlash for the bunny entertainment
So my mom is a bit of a karen, i was telling her the other day about how stupid it was that some people believe that vaccines cause different sicknesses and she told me "ohyeah i think they cause cancer, i still vaccinated you so you could go to school". After that I've seen all of the different occasions where she's been karen. If she isnt satisfied completely, she asks for something better or to see a higher up, she speaks whatever she wants to say even if it's offensive, she supports trump because he was the one who let them go to church durin quarantine and i asked about all the other racist stuff he does and she said she doesn't care, she basically controls everything i do, "you cant watch that, you cant read that, you cant talk with those people online (i have very bad social anxiety so those were the only friends i had, i dont have anyone to talk to anymore cuz i dont have irl friends anymore and she made me delete discord), you cant go with your dad today (shes divorced because of she beat my dad up everyday)" she basically controls everything and see how horrible she is. Idk if it's that bad but im starting to get depressed because of how much my life sucks at the moment
And your Dad left you with her?! Did he not know how she treated you? Hopefully he didn't. If you are old enough you can decide to go live with your Dad.
In the first one when it said "the perfect ground for entitled parents" i immediatly thought of Steve Irwin headlocking a Karen and saying "Crikey mate, its a wild sh*tlord"
ESM: _"You're an adult and own all of your stuff. I am taking away your right to use any of it because I can't have my way to something I have no right or privilege to claim."_ ME: _"Good luck with that since I don't live with you. I'm also bringing in a lawyer to get my shit back that you happily stole from me."_
When I was a kid, there was this boy in my year who would always threaten to bring his older sister to school to beat up anyone. It's not that uncommon to threaten others with your older sibling, lmao
I really relate to the first story as someone who comes from a partially Southeast Asian (Cambodian) home, my grandparents always used to be very hard on me with my grades and personal choices. However, now that I'm older they seem to respect me & my decisions a lot more & have a more "live and let live" attitude towards their children & grandchildren.
"I'm your parent!"
OP missed a perfect opportunity to hit ESM with a "I never agreed to that" 😂
@Slaniakii yes thats another one!
They could have said "ur not my mom"
@@oceanerey5553 Thats a more direct way of saying what my joke implies xD
“I am your parent!”
Who decided that?
ParasiteAdam666
"You are forbidden to drive"
What the response could've been: *TOUCH MY CAR AND I'M CALLING THE POLICE*
Remember this everyone: Karens are not limited to white soccer moms, they can be any combination! White, black, asian, women, men, christian, atheist, and so much more. Never assume one basic look for a Karen, for anyone can be a Karen.
That....is both wholesome and terrifying.
Preach!
this comment should be pinned
All too true. They learned that we look out for the 'white soccer mom' model and they've adapted.
Why does your profile have the smae hair color as karen?
HMMMM
The stalker mom only SEEMS illegal?
Libel and slander are illegal.
Stalking is illegal.
Stalking minors is another kind of illegal.
Assault and battery is illegal.
And all because the stuck up little girl had her feelings hurt because a secret note went unnoticed.
That mom should be facing charges.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Yeah. Not only that, they are 11 years old and in elementary school at the time. Congrats Karen, you scarred a young boy because your daughter couldn’t have her crush notice her feelings.
*insert Leonardo DiCaprio clap*
So true
*insert VERY TRIGGERED RANT here*
That EM needs to learn kids are still scared of people yelling, and respond to positive reinforcement, being told they're doing good, not yelling at them to do something
Just like a matchbox computer doing punishment learning is quicker but it just loses all emotion and fun. However reward learning is slower but they dont lose emotion the computer will make mistakes but not often
Exactly. You need to give positive feedback loops to children, or as I like to call it - a sandwich feedback. The two pieces of bread are things that a child does well, while everything inside like the cheese and ham are things the child could improve on. For example, "Hey kid, that's really beautiful handwriting, but hold your pencil a little more loosely. It'll help relax your hand and prevent it from becoming sore. I must say though, you write much neater than me. Keep it up."
Really wish my parents could get their heads around this concept too... I have some issues which means people yelling at me often ends with me in inconsolable tears. It’s bad enough at school when a teacher gets a little harsh, I can deal with them- but at home... nope. I don’t know how many times my parents have told me “You really need to stop this crying thing”, if I could I would. Full on breakdowns from my mom getting annoyed at me because I’m not cleaning my room quick enough aren’t fun!
So yeah, this should be in general- people don’t respond well if they feel threatened/degraded. Just take a breath before getting angry.
@@molly.dog8brooke792 wait you cry a lot too? I always thought I was just sensitive since all my friends got it worse than me but don't cry at all it's nice to meet another person who's like me
@@LuddyFish_ when I worked with the kids I used action to show them how to do things. I find kids like visual learning such as I showed a young boy how to put on his gloves. Since I have baby hands I could show him how to do it. He was a quite kid...super shy and sweet.
The story about that Asian Karen is like expecting her 3 year old son to be a doctor lawyer dentist astronaut by the time he's 3. Or even 2.
Believe me, not all Asian parents are like that, in fact, the Karen was a very rare traditional person. Parents don't do that in Asia.
@@selenewan7485 They certainly do in China and Vietnam. I've seen way too much. Child abuse is the norm there. Sure there are exceptions, but it still breaks my heart to see how slowly things are changing there. India is right up there, too.
Japan and Taiwan are _much_ better, and I can't speak for other Asian cultures outside of those 5, because I have no experience with them.
Wobbles and Bean I can speak from personal experience, when I visited China I was living in an apartment that my grandparents owned and rented to people. The entire day you could hear the sounds of parents yelling and lighting up their children.
@@WobblesandBean I have to disagree. I'm sorry but I'm from mainland China. I don't know which part of China you had experience with but aside from when you REALLY screwed up, parents are nice
Wobbles and Bean I grew up with Chinese parents (I was born in mainland China) and my parents were nowhere near the level of the Asian mom in this video. I also have lots of Chinese friends who have nice, reasonable parents who are not abusive like you say. Perhaps your experiences were different, but it does no one any good to compare cultures like that and stereotype families based only on what you’ve seen.
Stalking a child and making her older son beats up said child tell that it's exactly like that that she raised her daughter.
Yeah like what tf is up with that
@Sharee Mitchell They did intervene after the beat up if I remember correctly, but it is indeed weird that the stalking issue wasn't raised
Sharee Mitchell I remember a class bully in my kinder class never faced repercussions because his mom was friends with the teacher. Maybe this entitled mom was friends with the police or a higher-up at school
The second story reminds me of my 'friend' Charlie. We were 6 and in infant school which is second grade. I went to Charlie's House often, and loved her family. I brought a doll to school and wouldn't let her redress her because I never got toys like this. My parents were very poor.
The next day she told the teacher I was saying horrible things about her older brother. He was in a wheelchair and was very disabled.
It got to the point that her mother went to the headmaster, and i was sent to talk to him. Now I was 6 and remember some of this and my dad told me the rest she'd told her mum that id had taken her doll, and that I'd said horrible things about brother Jon. My doll had gone missing from.my bag and I knew she had it. I told the truth but they didn't believe me. So the headmaster called my parents to come in. My parents arrived and Charlie's mum went pale...there was my mum being pushed in a wheel chair by my dad...
My dad also brought the box my doll had come in, and the receipt (he never threw anything away)
Charlies mum tried to say it was a misunderstanding and grabbed charlie to leave. My dad noticing charlies backpack had an unmistakable large bulge asked for my doll back. Charlies mum tried to say she didn't have it, and the headmaster opened her bag showing my doll sitting in it..with a different dress. Charlie had taken it, put on a dress from one of her dolls and had been carrying it around in her bag for two days.
This wasn't the last time she pulled this, she also tried to get another girl in trouble for calling her brother horrible words...the problem with that is the girl had never met him. And didnt know what she meant.
WOW! Some people! Sadly SHE had to think these things about her own brother to come up with them at age six...
@@SailorMya that's what I thought when I got older. Lile the things she said she must have heard from someone
Personally, I believe in retro-active abortion. Charlie's mother.
@@glennruscher4007 Christopher Titus has a phrase for it: Late term abortion.
Ah yes keep the box for everything!!! And receipts for tax reasons but also for reasons like that little brat.
Literally woke up as this was posted. I’m not a coffee drinker, so the best part of waking up, is Rslash in my cup
First I was like: you wake up at 3pm?? Then I remembered that on the other side of the Atlantic it's morning.😆
I’m sorry, what do you mean you like rSlash in your cup?
I woke up and this was waiting for me I like coffee but I don't drink it a lot this was the best part of waking up for me to
Team SHDW there’s an old commercial that used to jingle; “the best part of waking up, is Folgers in your cup.” So it’s just a lame joke on that
You have good taste
"He only said four words with the letter B"
Don't worry. He had a 5th word in mind. 😆
And for the letter C!
Sing this with abc sond
B
I
T
C
H
Wait...
And the letter D
We need a whole alphabet of words with which to describe Karens.
Do you mean four? Not for.
I like how the last EM is a hardcore Christian but she doesn't follow the most basic thing of the entire bible
"though shall not steal"
It also says not to provoke your children to wrathe. Now I'm pretty sure criminal threats will provoke them plenty.
@@thunderflare59 also "love thy neighbor"
actually following all the bibles rules is theoretically impossible with people like this
Its always funny that the people that either claim to be devout christians and conservatives are often the least of either.
im a Christian and I agree lol. Also it's "thou" not "though", thou means you btw. So it's "you shall not steal" And yeah these karens are NOTHING compared to what Jesus teaches.
What weird, edited version of The Bible do you have that says *_that?_*
"The most basic thing" of all The Bibles *_I've_* seen is a lot of passive aggressiveness and jealousy around the idea of 'other gods' and threats towards anyone who might believe in, or worship _them_ instead.
That last one sounds a lot like Emily’s mom from a story awhile back: the one who stole her adult daughter’s car because she wouldn’t obey her and she thought that she owned anything her daughter had.
Except this one is even more insane in a way because it’s her stepmother, not her birth mother.
Agree to both points. There was so much stupid in this story I didn't know what to scoff at first.
I was going to comment the same lol
I remember that good memories...
No disrespect to other people’s cultures but seriously most Asian style parenting is abusive. Sad how most Asian kids just view it as their parents being strict and nothing more. Also respect to the teachers who have to deal with these entitled people I probably wouldn’t be able to keep my cool.
Honestly in all my experiences, Asian/Japanese/etc, WOMEN have always been extremely rude to me and others around them. Some could argue that I’m racist but...........
Can confirm this. Was lucky enough for my father to have a change of heart after seeing how much my sister would cry from being hit with a belt. Most of the people I know weren't lucky enough and had extreme punishments such as kneeling on mung beans for hours.
Thats the overall culture there. Wonder why suicide rates are high in this country ? ;)
Now I’m confused if my Asian parents are abusive, we don’t really spend time together anymore, we also stopped celebrating birthdays since 1st grade(?) and completely don’t celebrate any other holidays unless their friends are over. I’m pretty sure they care, I mean they got me a lot of pets throughout the 5 years to keep me company (around 38+ pets, mostly fish, I own a white fluffy Pomeranian like dog named Jack currently, he keeps me sane through quarantine)
_yeahhh imma stop ranting now, have a nice day/night_
Just a rant from an Asian, tl;dr below.
Korean here. Our country is small, very small, and half of the land is made of mountains; no resources(oil, gems, etc) that can help our economy grow, so our only shot at success is through education.
You'll see kids in sixth grade doing middle-school stuff here. You'll see kids in fifth grade leaning heavily on private education, spending hours in a.. academy? _Hagwon_ to ensure they have a head start. Since the starting line is so far ahead, we have to study and study, lest we be left behind. I'll be attending high school next year. I'm studying Calculus, Physics, and Chemistry to get prepared for the flow of work that's coming my way.
It's normal for our phones to be confiscated for little reason. It's normal for our phones to have thirty-minute time limits. It's normal for us to be tracked through our phones, for our parents to know what we're doing with out phones every second of the day. Caffeine and sugar has been our best friends since we could properly write. I'm pretty sure my blood vessels are made of coffee now.
Enough about my life and education. Onto the subject of Asian Karens now. One sentence: Dumb minds think alike. Seriously. There's Karens everywhere, yay.
Tl;dr: Highschool sucks, mountains suck, Karens are everywhere and they suck too.
The last story: Get a restraining order on your stephmother as soon as possible.
And a taser
And pepper spray
I think what's MORE messed up is the fact that everyone believed the bully girl over OP's son, probably cause "She's a GIRRRLLLL and wouldn't do such a thing like THAAAAAAT!".
Oh right, and I suppose you'll laugh at a guy who was physically abused by a girl, but when the roles are switched, you'll form a mob and attack the guy for abusing a girl?
This is the most messed up and disgusting reason I've ever heard.
The Karen's no better! Acting like a stereotypical cartoon villain mafia boss! "I'm gonna make an offer you cannot refuse... Stop bullying my daughter or my son will beat you within an inch of your life, capeesh?"
> Karen threatens to beat up my kid
> *Omai wa mou shindeiru*
Nani!?!?
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Nani???!?!?
NANI
You are 3 years old and can’t learn all of the words right away?! How dare you!
Disowned!
Asian culture/parents
Wait you couldn't speak fluent english at 3?
I want to speak to your manager! Now! REEEE
Honestly who gets custody over a child in divorce should be the CHILDS CHOICE if they are old enough to think
I agree, but they should also have to provide a couple of reasons for the choice and maybe at least one reason why they don't want the other parent, for example if it were just a normal break up, no fighting or anything abusive going on, it seems too easy for a kid to just pick the fun parent who gives them toys/candy over the responsible one who makes them clean their room/eat broccoli but if there was a problem obviously the kid saying "Mom yells at me" is a bit of a red flag.
I agree, but it puts a lot of pressure on a child. It’s kinda a lose/lose, if you give them a choice they get a lot of pressure, if they don’t choose they could live a bad life.
I think it should be 10 or older.
As the oldest child in a divorce (happened when I was 6), I couldn't disagree more.
Here's my take:
I absolutely would have chosen my mother over my father if given the chance - she was objectively better at actually being a parent to children. My father ended up abusing me once I got older (we're currently no contact and I intend to remain so for the rest of his life).
But ultimately? Looking back at the custody hearings, I still think the court made the right decision.
My father was by far the most fiscally stable of the two - he owned the house they/we lived in, he was pretty well off from being the heir to a successful family business, he had a good fallback support in the forn of his parents who owned said business.
My mother? Bounced around from place to place after the divorce, didn't have a stable home life for years, ended up marrying an alcoholic crackhead (in her defense, he only got worse after they had my half-brother), and her mother's home wasn't exactly stable either.
Sometimes you can't do what's BEST for a kid - you can only do what's RIGHT relative to your position and the facts of the case. The main priority of the court was making sure my sister and I could have a stable home environment with a roof over our head at all times and food on the table, and I thank them for it even knowing how my father ended up later.
No child deserves to be on the edge of homelessness for months at a time.
@@spaceonisorceress4406 The butterfly effect is a real thing though, you don’t know how your mother having custody of you would have changed her behaviour. Not saying it would have but it could have. But I guess I do see where you’re coming from. Sometimes it’s a rock and a hard place.
The girl from the second one sounds like she'll grow to be one of those vindictive women. You know the ones who say "he forced himself on me" when she didnt get her way
that would be such an Amber Heard thing to do lolol
Careful. Don’t want to give her more ideas
I feel like the last story should go into r/Insaneparents since that women truly believes to have power over people.
Also the one which makes her child go to another school just to beat up another kid
@@joedpa I'm actually more surprised the father of the 2nd story hadn't called the cops on EM, that alone makes this story hard to believe for me.
@@heberthswordsman4890 It still could happen. Just like when people don't call the cops when they are being abused.
@@joedpa living with an entitled parent is abuse
"Perfect ground for finding entitled parents." Why am I reading this in David Attenborough's voice?
*insert national geographic theme here*
I see Karen didn't read the Memo
>Casually approach the child
Haha
School not for another hour, just got done crying, already done getting ready, time to watch in peace 👁👄👁
I slept in so I missed school 😬
@@loganevans1199 sameee
Better watch your ass I’ll beat you up
Careful, Karen is going to get ur sleep manager’s manager
Y'all are making me feel old. I graduated from school in 2006. :(
To the English teacher: I hope you continue to teach the child as long as you can. The kid sounds nice and the father too. I think if the kid continues with your classes he might have something to look forward to and learn to interact with people that don't immediately blow up at him. Shame on the mother.
The first story was practically my 4th-grade teacher, demanding to know that every student in their class knew the material she just taught us and if we didn't know we would be forced to have a talk with her in front of the entire class.
Ugh, I HATE those pseudo-Christians like OP's stepmom! She owes the world big time for giving actual Christians a bad name.
Joe4 IKR?! I have to deal with being called a cultist because these dumb@$$*$ disgrace our name!
Goddamn it I am a true catholic with ADHD who ACCEPTS AND WANTS THE BEST FOR OTHERS, no matter their beliefs, orientation, race, gender, or sexuality, But I really HATE those types of people that use the Cristian belief as a freaking BEATING STICK
These people say that if you do this you are screwed:
breath
piss
live
walk
eat
drink
read
play
talk
poop
go on a vacation
Stargazer 199 Yeah! Like, most don’t expect this but here, you can use it on them. “If God died for all humans and all sins, then he died for people of the LGBTQ+ community too, or are you now trying to say that they literally aren’t human? So tell me, are you seriously going to say that while God and Jesus can accept and forgive these people, you still can’t too? Cause you really seem to be defying a lot of passages, such as “Love they neighbor”, “Love thy enemy”, the list continues. So who are YOU to defy the very will of God, to forgive and accept ALL, including the LGBTQ+ community?”
@@queenofcute72 I'm not exactly sure what you're trying to say, but the principle is "Love the sinner, hate the sin." *Pointing out* the sin in an attempt to direct the person *away* from it is a way to show both of these things.
Regarding the stalker mom story OP has a legal case she can sue EM for emotional distress and depending how old Em's older son is she could press assault charges on him as well, though to prove emotional distress OP's son would have to see a therapist
Isn’t your birthday in November? What does R/SLASH want this year?
Mine is
@@spikedthrone289 but who asked?
@@exulium ill go try to find someone who asked, got u.
is ure birth day in november spiked (totally not sarcsatic)
@@exulium you don't have to
Can we talk about how the kid was reading words while he’s 3????
Yes and no.
They don't "read", they recognize the general "shape" of the word (sight-reading).
This can actually be done at ages as early as 1 year (search in youtube, you'll see some 1 year olds walking around and picking up papers with words like "circle", "square", or "triangle" when parents call them out).
The problem is, as they don't know phonetic reading, they are easily fooled by words with similar spellings (like "track", "trick", and "truck"), and parents don't always understand that sight-reading has to be balanced by phonetic study and reading to maximize reading capability and comprehension.
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@@mom_made_pancakes1880 how long did that take you? .gniksa tsuJ
@@nikkiofthevalley 10 minuts😂
Isn’t that normal..? At 3 most kids (or at least Asian kids) are put into childcare centres or kindergarten centres because by 6, we have to learn how to add, subtract, tell time and learn at least one language well (in the country I’m in we have to learn both English and Chinese and have to be able to write a simple sentence by 5). By 8, we start to learn multiplication and division plus fractions. At 9, we learn fractions in word problems. At 10, we learn ratio and start learning algebra. Of course idk what things you are leaning when you are three but from an asians point of view, seems pretty normal to me
I feel so bad for the son of the Asian Karen. During my childhood where developing motor skills and other basics for later in life I got made fun of a lot for many things.
My reading was slow so I never wanted to read out loud during class. I fixed it myself by reading to my stuffed animals for 30 minutes. Now it takes me only 2 hours to read a 300 page book.
I stuttered a lot as a kid mostly repeating words I’ve already said or unable to pronounce words like rainbow and scissors. I got made fun of by my family by that one mostly so I’m quiet in class.
I was born left handed and my dad always tried fixing that by giving this in my right hand. When he caught me with something in my left hand like a pencil he’d scream at me saying it was the wrong hand and shoved the item into my right hand. Thanks to him I can write with both hands and I can’t use scissors properly.
I’m still struggling to even accept that getting a B on a test is okay and to hide the score from my mom. Whatever I did that wasn’t an A was always “why isn’t it an A? What did you do wrong?” And she’d threatened whatever she could even if it meant I didn’t get to eat as good as my sisters. And being from immigrant parents and a traditional Mexican mother it was also “I didn’t come to this country just so you could a 8/10 on a test. Is this how you repay me? I give you a house and food and all you can give me is an 8?”
I feel so bad for that child. And I hope he realizes that living up to your parent’s expectations is not determined by how worthy you are as a human being.
The op from the last story should get a restraining order on his stepmom!
I agree that physco does not deserve to be around family members .
I feel so bad for OP's son in the second story, I wonder how long he's gonna be nervous about his classmates' parents.
"I'm your parent!"
no, no you are not
As someone who just became a step-mom I have to disagree. But mistreating my step-daughter isn't on my list of desires, which is what that abusive woman did to her step-son.
@@lisasimpson3832 ok bd
The first story is really a story of you reap what you sow.
Offering language CLASSES for children below the age of 5 is a joke in and of itself.
Just put them into an all-english speaking environment.
They pick the language up all by themselves because that's what small children do.
Flash cards with written text for a 2yo make my head hurt.
You have a history of making poor choices.
I would have said, allowing you to be in my life was one of those poor choices.
The story just left me shaking my head. There seem to be a lot of stories about parents/step parents that think their adult children can be bossed around like little kids. Talk about clingy and controlling!
I think the only reason why this entitled mom let her kid beat up this kid is because he was beaten up first by some older kid and so this entitled kid wanted to beat up someone who can't fight back
I can relate to the first story so much! I’m an Esl teacher and I used to work in mainland China, so I’ve seen my fair share of entitled parents. These parents expect their child to learn English by osmosis it seems. Like sometimes they will put you and their child together and say, “go ahead!!! Speak English to them!” When the kid doesn’t even know what the word “hello” is 😑 and the same parents expect the kids to learn things INSTANTLY, like this EM in the story. Learning languages takes time!! For any age group! Yes it is better to start learning languages when you’re young, but that’s not a guarantee that they will be fluent when they grow up, like OP.
I stopped watching hawks tiktok complications for this: no regrets
Same gurl, same 😂
Lol yes i would do the same thing
Oof big commitment😶
That's true dedication right there
Yess, my people!!! Ily guys 💜💜💜
The best part of this was not having 5-6 ad interruptions during a 15 minute video. 👍🏻
If witnessing a Karen in the wild, film it for your protection later.
We need a list of things to do when encountering a wild Karen! Like a survival guide! lol
Here is some rules if you ever find yourself infront of a Karen
1. Record her going ballistic at you or someone else if she lies about it
2. Wear a mask you know they don't like that
3. Speak calmly but sternly to them so they don't think that you want to argue they'll try to use it against you (but you'll probably have evidence to prove otherwise)
4. If you have a Switch, Laptop, and/or you're phone they might ask to let their demon spawn see it lie and say it died power it down as well keep a close eye on it
5. If you and someone you know can speak a different language make joking comments about her if she acts crazy in public
6. If she mocks your culture try to make smart remarks about her and how she is disrespecting her's
7. (If you're in the work business listen) If you have a manager that's good they'll listen to your side of the story as well if the Karen is lying about you
8. If they also ask for a discount for absolutely nothing don't give in to it
9. (Going back to everyone) If they say things like video games and cartoons are for children either tell her that's immature and who's the childish one now
10. Finally going back to number 3 try to be calm while taking to them but be serious as well.
Those are things you can try and do if you ever come into contact with a Amentes ut diaboli mulieribus (Translate that from Latin you'll get a laugh)
I'd get a restraining order against that nut-case step-mom if it were me.
I think the guy from the last story needs to get a restraining order against his step mom. She's way over-stepping her boundaries
Title: exists
Children of Asian parents: First time?
Lol yea I dun understand why people keep saying it’s abusive XD just cuz we have to learn faster or our parents are stricter doesn’t mean it abusive lol
I’m a conservative Christian too but, I think we can all agree that woman’s nuts lol…
Wow if I was the teacher in the first story, I would be struggling to not smack the shit out of the mom. Poor kid :(
"Struggled with his penmanship" He's THREE!! I'm 40 and I'm just now getting to the point where my handwriting is legible.
Here's my school story :
I was the prefect who pushed a kid who tried to push me
I was called to the principal cos the brat cried
After 5 minutes of constant scholdings I decided to put an end to it
I just said : All children who cry are the only ones supported
The principal was furious
She asked me to place my badge on the table thinking I'll be scared and apologize
I kept it
The principal : *Surprised Pikachu face*
The badge was returned 5 minutes later right back to me.
r/ThatHappened
I don’t understand this story at all but im going to pretend that i do
That’s so true, I was getting bullied and my principal didn’t take me seriously until I started tearing up a little and to this day I’m still pissed that that’s the only reason he got A SLAP ON THE WRIST. Thanks you for being so bold
TECHNOPLANE
I relate to that first story all to well. I’m not Asian at all (I’m black and Haitian!) but that way of teaching is incredibly common with my parents. I remember I got hit because I couldn’t spell grandma correctly. I was 5 man, give me a break 😭
why does coronavirus need to be censored?
on that last story, when step mom said "even for your favorite step parent?". op should have said "I already gave my step dad a key"
I have been wondering that too because he changes it in other videos as well... My best guess is it messes with the algorithm TH-cam has or something like that.
TH-cam has allegedly been demonetizing videos for saying things related to corona. Or something like that. I'm not sure how true it is, but better safe than sorry really.
TH-cam doesn't want people spreading conspiracy theories about COVID so they've demonetized all uses of "COVID-19" and "Coronavirus" outside of informational videos. It's an effort to stop mass panic I guess
The point of censoring content of TH-cam's side is to keep videos advertiser friendly.
Coka Cola doesn't want to be associated with Corona, so they won't put ads on videos on Corona (it's not that straightforward obviously), so TH-cam discourages the use of it.
Every Asian parent when they send their kids to tutoring at age -5:
Watching this during an algebra test, I couldn't care less about the test
You'll prob. use what you learn here more than algebra in your life.
@@fairladykd6734 I disagree as it largely depends on what Claire intends to do with herself, going into any of the trades, medical field, or even really the majority of careers require at least some level of algebra or better to be able to graduate and succeed. Unless your goal is to flip Burgers or work retail your entire life, go for it, ignore algebra and screw off in school.
I'm not trying to tell anyone what to do here, but understand from someone that the public school system failed and shoved through without the skills required to get by, it hasn't been fun.
I'm 32 and just getting my life sorted after spending a lot of time self educating, and I'm 3 months from graduating from a nursing program with 90's average, but its a lot of hard work to go from nothing to where I am; teachers may have failed me, don't failed yourself.
@@TheKidnappedOne Yes it depends on what she wants to do with her life but Y=a+b just isn't used in daily normal life.
This makes so much sense. I work in a preschool and we had a family immigrate from china. When their 4 year old started he had perfect english, could read at a 2nd grade level and do simple math BEFORE kindergarten. Our chinese coworker said it wasnt uncommon for parents to send their preschoolers to these hardcore english schools
So that kid that was getting bullied and stalked in kindergarten... he was liked by a tsundere. Dang.
Stalking and assault is more of a yandere thing tho
@@6390346 ye
@@justsomerandombananawithin3705 hol up, an't the damn kid like 6?
@@cursedmicrophone3687 good that their learning at such a young age
@@justsomerandombananawithin3705 i mean, ye.
Oof, the entitled stepmom hit close to home. Mine was terrible, truly a nightmare and I’m surprised I didn’t wind up suicidal or an addict cause I endured some insane BS as a kid.
That moment when you are super early but didn't watched the video yet and you don't know what to say
Oh man
The stalking mom story is so similar to what I went through. A girl in my class constantly lied about me to her mom and the mom was determined to get me expelled. She called the school every time her daughter made up a bs story and would make a scene if they proved the accusations wrong. The mom began to stalk me as well and even set it up to where she picked up her daughter the same time as my usual early pick up time ( I had physical therapy every week). When she showed up, she started screaming at my mother and talked about how horrible and evil I was for “ bullying “ her daughter. The whole experience left me untrusting of other kids and suicidal(I was in 4th grade btw). The only difference is that my parents and school were always on my side and the girl ended up getting moved out of my class so she couldn’t harass me anymore.
Now that i’m 18 I realize the girl did it mainly to get her mother’s attention and I more feel bad for her that she had to go to extremes to get it but man what she did messed me up for years and I can never forgive her for that
The proper response to a step parent saying, "I'm your parent" or the like is, "no, you're not - you're just someone my parent happened to marry, now eff-off."
Holy shit when op described his stepmom she sounds exactly like mine Jesus even the custody agreement
this was posted literally one minute ago. how tf is there almost 100 comments already
Plot twist: sonic has 100 accounts
Answer:
1.73 million subscribers
Emus are magic so it’s them
"struggled with his penmanship since he couldn't get a good grip on crayon" may be one of the best things I've ever heard.
In the last story I would tell the esm that she is my dads wife not my mother
Yep I agree
that last story holy shit lady you are not his parent he moved in with his other birth parent just to get away from you someone needs to give that lunatic a reality check Step parents need to earn their parent status from the kids they enter the lives of you cant just kick the door open demand respect and actually expect the kid to comply it could take years to earn even a sliver of that kind of trust as age could be a factor religious crazies like her thing they are owed respect for their "holy" ways
I hate how so many stories feel the need to specify that a patent is conservative/Christian like that automatically makes them entitled or bad people.
The fact that the mom in the last story is conservative or christian changed nothing on the situation. So why mention it?
@ they aren't. If you think that being conservative automatically equals being strict, I'd advise getting informed on the matter. Parents of any kind, ideology and characteristic can be strict.
Congrats on 100 r/entitledparents videos!
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"I'll beat you!"
"You think you can beat me?"
*Intense beeping and explosion sound effects*
I feel like this is early.
Same
Im watching this at 5 am boyyy
Imagine getting a ex voted with no video in it
Man, nothing completes my 9 am break than listening to some deranged entitled parents and r/slash. Thanks for making my mornings interesting!
Aaahh why must u post when I got school qwq
I'm joking, keep doing what your doing😁
@Pardeep Joshi Nani-
THe little girl bullying one...
OH yeah, little girls CAN'T be bullies! Where Have I heard THAT before? *eye roll*
fight me
Yeah, fight us instead
Im a teacher. I once had an EM berate me at Parent Conference Night (which my school holds in the gym...teachers each have an assigned area, and it’s not particularly private). Her 16 year old son was failing my English class, and he had tons of missing assignments (important to note our grade books are online, and parents can access them ANY time). Over a DOZEN of the missing assignments were HOMEWORK assignments...meaning, I have NO CONTROL over whether a kid does or does not do them because they’re not in my care. She goes on for probably about 10 minutes about what a horrible teacher I am, how her son and all his friends say they’re not learning from me and blah blah blah...I try to let her know that he often comes late, and he and those friends often talk DURING my lessons, so that is possibly why they aren’t learning as much as they could be. I remained very polite throughout, and reminded her of my late work policy (he could still do the work for 50% and earn some points). He never did, and within a month we were virtual, so I didn’t have to deal with her again. I couldn’t believe how she wouldn’t take any responsibility for her student’s grade, when most of what was missing was HOMEWORK.
Literally 99% won't see this but God bless you and stay safe I'm Struggling to get 8k 🛍️
"Not even for your favorite step-parent?"
I would've responded with, "my stepdad already has one."
13:23
me with an empty bowl of chili next to me while doing homework:
uhhhhhhhhhh...
Hey! I used to watch like ten of your vids a day before quarantine! And for about a month after it started but then I got really upset with myself and got into a rough place so I haven’t been here for a while and so I’m back!! Have a nice day and I love the stories.
When you said "cat, car, and crab", I thought you said crap. lol.
Dad: is the chill and supportive one in a marriage with a kid or more
Society: Is this a wife beater/child abuser?
Mom: is the insane and apathetic one who is actually the problem
Also society: Is this the one who's abused?
Huh, who knew that screaming and aggressively grabbing a kid can make them scared of you and hinder learning.
Geez, Mom. Hes 3!!!!!!!!! Every kid learns differently, don't force it on him to learn something he cannot comprehend yet.
As a child of two Asian parents I can say that they can be like that times. To make them get better, both the child and school system have to sit down and talk to them to make them understand that the way they treat their child is not right. It got a lot better after that, but it was really hard to get to that point. I was a senior in high school, diagnosed with both depression and anxiety, and had a mental breakdown where I just cried for 2 hours about a week before hand. I hope whoever reads this life will get better, but it takes time, effort, luck, and many people for that to happy. Thanks for listening to my rant and have a nice day.
Good morning. I currently have this playing on my laptop with my rabbit on my bed, and he seems to like your channel as much as i do lol. Laying on his stomach watching the lines being added and removed. Thanks RSlash for the bunny entertainment
Totally feel for that kid, my mom is from Vietnam
Hope you cover the update of Chinese EM and David in a separate. The dad turns into just as much of an entitled parent.
The girl who claims she got bullied sounds like a person I knew in middle school who is always playing victim and blaming it on others.
I'm not going to lie, I want an update to the last story or at more least more stories about her crazier stunts.
So my mom is a bit of a karen, i was telling her the other day about how stupid it was that some people believe that vaccines cause different sicknesses and she told me "ohyeah i think they cause cancer, i still vaccinated you so you could go to school". After that I've seen all of the different occasions where she's been karen. If she isnt satisfied completely, she asks for something better or to see a higher up, she speaks whatever she wants to say even if it's offensive, she supports trump because he was the one who let them go to church durin quarantine and i asked about all the other racist stuff he does and she said she doesn't care, she basically controls everything i do, "you cant watch that, you cant read that, you cant talk with those people online (i have very bad social anxiety so those were the only friends i had, i dont have anyone to talk to anymore cuz i dont have irl friends anymore and she made me delete discord), you cant go with your dad today (shes divorced because of she beat my dad up everyday)" she basically controls everything and see how horrible she is. Idk if it's that bad but im starting to get depressed because of how much my life sucks at the moment
And your Dad left you with her?! Did he not know how she treated you? Hopefully he didn't. If you are old enough you can decide to go live with your Dad.
Thanks to you, rSlash, I'm getting more grateful that I don't have such parents.
In the first one when it said "the perfect ground for entitled parents" i immediatly thought of Steve Irwin headlocking a Karen and saying "Crikey mate, its a wild sh*tlord"
Wow. The stepparent from the last story sounds like a control freak.
"micron sized list of appropriate actions for me" genius statement!
"Even for your favorite step-parent?"
OP missed a wonderful "What do you mean, Stepdad's absolutely getting one."
ESM: _"You're an adult and own all of your stuff. I am taking away your right to use any of it because I can't have my way to something I have no right or privilege to claim."_
ME: _"Good luck with that since I don't live with you. I'm also bringing in a lawyer to get my shit back that you happily stole from me."_
I want to know why she automatically believed her son was bullying if she knew they were things that he normally wouldn't do.
When I was a kid, there was this boy in my year who would always threaten to bring his older sister to school to beat up anyone. It's not that uncommon to threaten others with your older sibling, lmao
12 years of learning language and forgetting within 1 year after turning 18, as an Asian born in LA can confirm this is 100% true.
10:28 Time for lawsuit
I really relate to the first story as someone who comes from a partially Southeast Asian (Cambodian) home, my grandparents always used to be very hard on me with my grades and personal choices. However, now that I'm older they seem to respect me & my decisions a lot more & have a more "live and let live" attitude towards their children & grandchildren.
with the last one, i would've said "NO, you're NOT my mother
For Story 2, COVID-19 pretty much ended the drama at the right time! Some good things came out of the pandemic.