Sir I am big fan of your,,,I always watch your videos,,,You are just amazing and doing great work,,,,sir my bf ignoring me...he didn't break up with me,,but he called me 1day in a month...kindly give me advice how can I attract him again in my life
I've told my ex fiance to stop playing mind games with me and after saving his life once I'm through with his childish behaviour!!! If men play mind games ladies. Mirror his behaviour trust me on this , as eventually he will soon get bored. Never under any circumstances take him back until his 100% changed and sees that you value yourself Most importantly is to love yourself first . Keep yourself busy and practice the art of saying No. When a man realises his about to lose you only then will he start making changes.
What I do is mirror his behavior. If he ignores me or abruptly stops responding in the middle of a text conversation I ignore him when he text me the next day. I go radio silent when he disappears to see if I chase him. Then I post myself going out and traveling having fun with others. When I decide to respond I'm very upbeat happy and act like I didn't even notice his tantrum.
Yes they are. Exhausting. Take the fun out of everything. Always complaining about women not wanting them but when women do want them these men ignore it. They like the chase and a bunch of toxicity while pretending to be above it all. I rather be alone. These men always try to make us think that is the worst thing for a woman. It is great being alone if they do not add more positivity to my life.
Push/Pull technique of men is very tiring & confusing actually. It is a technique used by men who are/think they are either too smart/successful/players. It's better to put your foot down on such men, set some standards for him which he cannot cross, if nothing works leave him or If you are like me who has her own ego, standards & strong support. Teach him a lesson of his life, find his weakness twist it a little & kick his ass. That will give him taste of his own medicine. He will know who he is dealing with/ who he should not deal with. Your life is yours & you are only responsible for your happiness. Men should know they are Part of Your Life Not Your Whole Life
I've put up with a male friend doing the mind game act for 2 years. I ended up playing the mind games act back to him. He then accused me of "being an evil bitch" & other horrible accusations. I realise now, he was a 'narcissist' & I'm glad I never wanted a relationship with him. He went 'no contact' on me. Then he did things to get my attention. He violated his 'no contact' rule, 3 times. I ignore him & I avoid him. He's my neighbour. I'm glad we have a fence between us ! I'm now dating a lovely man, who doesn't play mind games. He treats me with respect.
Because this is who they are. Just walk away and stay away. I don't have energy or patience to constantly be on my guard with a man supposed to love me.i want to feel relaxed happy trusted etc. This type is crazy. Stay away!!!!!!
Never ever have I listened to someone who so succinctly nails it! You get right to the point, and you are direct. Thank you. I have been seeing someone for a month, and he checks all of these boxes… My gut told me this was happening, so now I am going to honor it by setting healthy boundaries with this game player. Bravo to you! Susan is back! :-)
I told him I know what you are doing to me now!! So now I’m being distant!! When he show’s up I’m setting boundaries!! If he doesn’t give me want I want , I give nothing back!!
One thing that annoys me the most is that if a guy is playing you. Everything is going in his favour. And when you are willing to connect with him emotionally you can't. Why so ? At least give a tips that will change a reality
Yup I've put it out there like I know what you're doing. I love genuine authentic men, I love to block men who's playing games. You can stop or end up on my block list.
Very true Alex 🙏👍 Thanks. Following all ur suggession from ur videos. This makes me full confident. I stay distant & never respond or available always. Bcoz he shows on & off behaviour. I ll make him fear to lose me. I ll take up this self challenge. If he really wants me let him come back. Let me concentrate even more on my career.
Nice suggestion dear Alex, you have become a very good friend of mine, who is always there with a wonderful suggestion and all my worries just fly away...blessed to have a you....may you always stay happy & healthy and your channel grows like you have never expected...
Hello Respected Sir . Sir each word of yours is true and real as you are.mind games n ghosting is interrelated when some resort to these methods to have a win win situation as anxiety to get what they want .Mood swings and manic depressive disorder can also be the reason . Before relation become abusive it's better to make him realise and draw a line and move on . Thanks sir for everything . wishing you all the very best each hour ,each day with all my care n regards .
This was much needed. I recently reconnected with my ex and see he's been doing this the past few months saying let's cuddle for the weekend and I said no. More scripts like the examples you gave please!!!
Boy/guy playing mind games is 1. Immature & 2. Emotionally unavailable. Google those two words & you'll be shocked to see what comes with it... thing is, whatcha gonna do....? What Alex said oc. 😊
You mentioned in one of your videos "mirroring". I would like to learn more about it, as my Italian boyfriend uses this tactic on me. Thank-you. Great video!
Wow…he was playing mind games with me this whole time! 🥲 Thank goodness I walked away and said nah uh I feel disrespected. He has the option to continue the friendship and meet my standards or lose me. It took a lot of strength to set a standard and stick to it, but I did it! 💪🏼😌
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert yesterday Alex he said you r my enemy, you give me Condemnation curse,HE SHOUTED on vioce msg and said never talk to you,ALEX HOw can I do that bad words wish to Him I love him too much,my self respect is finished but why he blamed me?today morning I texted him with love and good wishes,after this he blocked me on Watsapp ,ALEX believe me I'm very loving giving women for him he knows,then I texted him on regular number requested please unblock me ,but he showed no reply.i m dead now ,I want he love me give time attention,instead of me.please discusses with me Alex ,to encourage me advice how I forget him?how he will comeback?
Just go! He's not interested. Love is not a game. If he can play games with you he is not interested in you and he play games with many more girls at the same time. He is not interested in relationship at all with you.
The truth is, all men are narcissistic and players. All of them. Depending on how YOU behave, they will adjust and treat you accordingly. If you behave high value, they will become a good BF/lover. If you behave low value, they will show you their narcissistic side. Men have their good and evil side too. Of course the levels vary with each man but that's up to you. You choose what you want.
Thank you. I reconnected with this man and his playing games. But guess what.. I have just learned the keys to play back. Thank you. I told him take care! Lol
Alex please can you do video on narcissist of multiplees breaking up separation with in married relationship who goes hang around with girls hve date affair and return back after months as if it nothing. And the final dicard if man move out and he says he dnt love me I didnt upgrade beacuse I was house wife he nedd sucessfull woman.as onces I used to be flying hostess.in his insisting I left job had kids and finally I discover he wss having affairs while being married to me. Help what shall I do...im v sad I tried to fix.and do everything but his interest in younger girls who are not interested in commitment.he told me he nedds me just for as kids mom assistance and nothing more and can any better woman and love her ...im v sad ...please advise and do videos in natcisim too. I just get to knw that he was narcissist..
Hi Alex.. Thank you for this video I want to ask if one's boss (who is already married) plays mind games with her... I know you will say... Change the job... But in this pandemic situation one cannot take this risk... Can you please suggest how to handle such situations?
I want to discuss my situation Its exactly like that before he was crazy for me. He loved me confessed me but as soon as I showed interest he left me went away. Then again when I was happy in my life he came back wants attention as soon as I started again same. He plays games. Now what game should I play with him.that he commit to me.
'Some people like to play mind games' SO TRUE AND SAD. 'I know what you are doing now'. Very good. I set boundaries. He failed.... So I am ignoring him. Did not block his whatsapp this time. He can see I am unaffected. Jerk.....
Hey there, I'm sorry that he lied about the relationship. I know how hard and tough that must be to go through. I have a video on this channel that talks about the number 1 tip that will make him chose you. I hope you take the time to check it out. th-cam.com/video/t4ZKWO3luIk/w-d-xo.html
I live with my partner and he seems to play mind games every day getting me down when I pull him up on this he says I am crazy how do I take back my power help
He didn’t take initiative in contact and I need to call every time. So I told him that I don’t like investing alone. I will not go for physical relationship. After that he blocked me. What should I do now?
Forget him & move on with your life.Hes clearly not into you.He will only use for Sex.You will only be wasting your precious time if you go with him.The fact that he blocks you means he's not interested to have a deep & meaningful relationship with you.He just wants a hook up.Pls don't fall in love with this kind of man.Save your heart.
I need your advice Alex. I know that we are on social distancing right now. But ive seen these guy and we had a great night together. But after the following day i could feel that he got distanced and also i tried not to text him for days and he never initiate any text at all. Then when i text him the other day he responded to me for like hours and he is just home. I dunno i feel kinda distance with him pls help what to do
Alexandre bsr ; je viens de recevoir cette vidéo ; il est 22h50 !! C gentil ; mais bon l'Anglais et moiii ça fait 2 .. 😂 Je ne comprends rienn ?? merciii quand même !! 😉👍😂😂
When a girl is dating a guy later he told her he impregnate a lady, so the girl told him, she doesn't want the friendship again but the guy refused to leave her, so in this situation what will the girl do
Hi Patricia, I'm so sorry to hear about this. I know how confusing this can be. I would love to help you with this but due to my extremely limited time, I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with me. I would like to know more about your relationship in order to tell you why he might be playing mind games towards you. www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
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Sir I am big fan of your,,,I always watch your videos,,,You are just amazing and doing great work,,,,sir my bf ignoring me...he didn't break up with me,,but he called me 1day in a month...kindly give me advice how can I attract him again in my life
Hi Alex! Thanks for this video. I will print a shirt with the words "never take me for granted"
Alex you saw me at 3:15 LLLOL
Give them up and go have some fun doing what you like.☺
I've told my ex fiance to stop playing mind games with me and after saving his life once I'm through with his childish behaviour!!!
If men play mind games ladies. Mirror his behaviour trust me on this , as eventually he will soon get bored.
Never under any circumstances take him back until his 100% changed and sees that you value yourself
Most importantly is to love yourself first . Keep yourself busy and practice the art of saying No. When a man realises his about to lose you only then will he start making changes.
"If he doesn't give you what you want,you give nothing back" this is the key 🔑
Let him play until he become tired. At that moment, I already have a new life because I was watching Alex's videos while he was playing games.
What I do is mirror his behavior. If he ignores me or abruptly stops responding in the middle of a text conversation I ignore him when he text me the next day. I go radio silent when he disappears to see if I chase him. Then I post myself going out and traveling having fun with others. When I decide to respond I'm very upbeat happy and act like I didn't even notice his tantrum.
Fire
If someone playing mind games with you is just matter of time to become manipulative or super toxic. RUN!
Haul ass
Leave that kind of man...a man playing game mind.All is DONE.GOD WILL REWARD HIM FOR DOING FOOLISHNESS TO WOMEN.
Thank you Alex! Why would we stay with someone playing mind games 😴😴😴....men are tiring nowadays....
Narcissist never change. My personal experience.
Its over stimulating, and draining.
Lol right
Yes they are. Exhausting. Take the fun out of everything. Always complaining about women not wanting them but when women do want them these men ignore it. They like the chase and a bunch of toxicity while pretending to be above it all. I rather be alone. These men always try to make us think that is the worst thing for a woman. It is great being alone if they do not add more positivity to my life.
Push/Pull technique of men is very tiring & confusing actually. It is a technique used by men who are/think they are either too smart/successful/players. It's better to put your foot down on such men, set some standards for him which he cannot cross, if nothing works leave him or If you are like me who has her own ego, standards & strong support. Teach him a lesson of his life, find his weakness twist it a little & kick his ass. That will give him taste of his own medicine. He will know who he is dealing with/ who he should not deal with. Your life is yours & you are only responsible for your happiness. Men should know they are Part of Your Life Not Your Whole Life
How do u find their weakness and get what you want ?
So nice delivery with mimicry.Alex😍
I've put up with a male friend doing the mind game act for 2 years. I ended up playing the mind games act back to him. He then accused me of "being an evil bitch" & other horrible accusations. I realise now, he was a 'narcissist' & I'm glad I never wanted a relationship with him. He went 'no contact' on me. Then he did things to get my attention. He violated his 'no contact' rule, 3 times. I ignore him & I avoid him. He's my neighbour. I'm glad we have a fence between us ! I'm now dating a lovely man, who doesn't play mind games. He treats me with respect.
Having a social life is the key!💯
Yes, very important, but have to remain safe and healthy.
Because this is who they are. Just walk away and stay away. I don't have energy or patience to constantly be on my guard with a man supposed to love me.i want to feel relaxed happy trusted etc. This type is crazy. Stay away!!!!!!
Never ever have I listened to someone who so succinctly nails it!
You get right to the point, and you are direct. Thank you.
I have been seeing someone for a month, and he checks all of these boxes… My gut told me this was happening, so now I am going to honor it by setting healthy boundaries with this game player. Bravo to you! Susan is back! :-)
I told him I know what you are doing to me now!! So now I’m being distant!! When he show’s up I’m setting boundaries!! If he doesn’t give me want I want , I give nothing back!!
One thing that annoys me the most is that if a guy is playing you. Everything is going in his favour. And when you are willing to connect with him emotionally you can't. Why so ? At least give a tips that will change a reality
I’m not in a relationship yet, but thank you for this advice and sharing this video. 🧚♀️📝
You’re welcome 😊
Yup I've put it out there like I know what you're doing. I love genuine authentic men, I love to block men who's playing games. You can stop or end up on my block list.
"If u like this needy..." that expression was really funny 😂😂😂😂🖒🖒🖒
He really got the point across in this one lol
actually Alex is always funny, I enjoy how he explains..😍
Lol... I know he's so cute with his accent and his expressions in the way he explains things.
Very true Alex 🙏👍 Thanks. Following all ur suggession from ur videos. This makes me full confident. I stay distant & never respond or available always. Bcoz he shows on & off behaviour. I ll make him fear to lose me. I ll take up this self challenge. If he really wants me let him come back. Let me concentrate even more on my career.
You got this!
Nice suggestion dear Alex, you have become a very good friend of mine, who is always there with a wonderful suggestion and all my worries just fly away...blessed to have a you....may you always stay happy & healthy and your channel grows like you have never expected...
Excellent!!! ❤️ Ladies watch this about 5 times!
Yay! Thank you!
Exactly every words of yours are golden , a woman should be independent and nice but not too nice , easy come easy go !
Hello Respected Sir . Sir each word of yours is true and real as you are.mind games n ghosting is interrelated when some resort to these methods to have a win win situation as anxiety to get what they want .Mood swings and manic depressive disorder can also be the reason . Before relation become abusive it's better to make him realise and draw a line and move on . Thanks sir for everything . wishing you all the very best each hour ,each day with all my care n regards .
Stay safe and healthy during this pandemic. Thank you for your continue support.
I love your advice . Thank you.
Sir....apki level of thinking mind blowing hai.....apki vdo motivate krti hai... Confident krti 👍
Don’t even waste your energy if someone plays mind games. Just block him and move on. Easy. Someone playing mind games isn’t worth your time.
This was much needed. I recently reconnected with my ex and see he's been doing this the past few months saying let's cuddle for the weekend and I said no. More scripts like the examples you gave please!!!
Wonderful expression when u said, "NEEDY IN LOVE"😂😂😂😂
Thank you Alex...
So spot on!
So glad!
Boy/guy playing mind games is 1. Immature & 2. Emotionally unavailable. Google those two words & you'll be shocked to see what comes with it... thing is, whatcha gonna do....?
What Alex said oc. 😊
Thank you Alex this was really helpful.
Glad it was helpful!
You are so right Alex! I've learnt so much from your videos. Be blessed
You too!
You mentioned in one of your videos "mirroring". I would like to learn more about it, as my Italian boyfriend uses this tactic on me. Thank-you. Great video!
Great suggestion!
Thanks Alex i love your advice 🙏
Well done Alex 💜👌you make us feel vanity
Wow…he was playing mind games with me this whole time! 🥲 Thank goodness I walked away and said nah uh I feel disrespected. He has the option to continue the friendship and meet my standards or lose me. It took a lot of strength to set a standard and stick to it, but I did it! 💪🏼😌
I'm happy to hear that you got the strength to leave, keep it up!
Very well
Oooouuii! I like this post in the evening Alex. More please!! XO. G
You are absolutely right..
Thanks Alex, I have smudged the like button
Good lessons sir 👍🏼
Thanks a lot dear... really you are great.
You are most welcome
Alex! This is the best advice ever!!! You made so many excellent points and your energy in this video is contagious. Tysm!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thanks very much Alex for this wonderful video, this video just open my eyes 👀 thanks 🙏
Happy to hear that!
Alex , thank you for the words...I feel im done with games
Thank you Alex Cormont thank you very very much🌹🌹
Any time
Thanks Alex dear friend
Always welcome
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert yesterday Alex he said you r my enemy, you give me Condemnation curse,HE SHOUTED on vioce msg and said never talk to you,ALEX HOw can I do that bad words wish to Him I love him too much,my self respect is finished but why he blamed me?today morning I texted him with love and good wishes,after this he blocked me on Watsapp ,ALEX believe me I'm very loving giving women for him he knows,then I texted him on regular number requested please unblock me ,but he showed no reply.i m dead now ,I want he love me give time attention,instead of me.please discusses with me Alex ,to encourage me advice how I forget him?how he will comeback?
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert I wish you are my country or city matte
Please make me strong 🙏
Merci! Wonderful tips.
Amazing 🤩 your so spot on Thankyou
You’re welcome 😊
Thank you alex
You're always welcome Samia!
Thank you Alex , I follow you every day on TH-cam! Im from Holland 👌
Awesome! Thank you!
Just go! He's not interested. Love is not a game. If he can play games with you he is not interested in you and he play games with many more girls at the same time. He is not interested in relationship at all with you.
Thanks so much ❤️ good night
Good night
I needed this so right now...gonna adhere 2 this BIG TIME🧡
Thank u coach alex. I've discovered your videos recently and it's amazing! Very informative.☺
Thank you so much for watching my videos Lenie!
Thanks so much Alex,I 'm in that shoes and i distance myself from him.
So glad this was helpful.
Me too I love yr words
I don’t call it out anymore. Blocked 🚫‼️💋
Thank you Alex
You're so welcome.
It was really perfect👍👍👍👍
Alex,
Where is the line/the different between narcissist and mind player?
Please, make a video about this topic, also . Thank you very much!
Good point
The truth is, all men are narcissistic and players. All of them. Depending on how YOU behave, they will adjust and treat you accordingly. If you behave high value, they will become a good BF/lover. If you behave low value, they will show you their narcissistic side. Men have their good and evil side too. Of course the levels vary with each man but that's up to you.
You choose what you want.
Alex, At 2:35 when you made that sound as if to say "that's not going to happen" I could just kiss you. Thank you for everything. Ciao
i love you 😘💕 thank you for good messages 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You are so welcome
Thank you, Alex. 💜💙
My pleasure!
Thank you. I reconnected with this man and his playing games. But guess what.. I have just learned the keys to play back. Thank you. I told him take care! Lol
Thanks for this!
My pleasure!
Excellent points Alex. This is good.
Thank you Alex👍👍👍
My pleasure!
Really works for me
Great advice! But initially they are so much into me. But suddenly start being distant. Why so?
He gave me what HE wanted.
I didnt accept.
So he gave me some more of what HE wanted.
This sounds so frustrating!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert It was. I finally just gave up, I felt so sorry for the poor guy.
Thank you 💋
No problem 😊
Thank you, you are great.i always enjoy listening to you,🙏💋
So glad!
what to do if husband is a totally untrustworthy and devious person anf always goes through priorities in relationship.?
please answer!
Merci bien! Tous les bonnes idees 💋
Yes Alex👍👏👏🏆🥇Thank you 🙏
You're so welcome.
Alex please can you do video on narcissist of multiplees breaking up separation with in married relationship who goes hang around with girls hve date affair and return back after months as if it nothing.
And the final dicard if man move out and he says he dnt love me I didnt upgrade beacuse I was house wife he nedd sucessfull woman.as onces I used to be flying hostess.in his insisting I left job had kids and finally I discover he wss having affairs while being married to me.
Help what shall I do...im v sad I tried to fix.and do everything but his interest in younger girls who are not interested in commitment.he told me he nedds me just for as kids mom assistance and nothing more and can any better woman and love her ...im v sad ...please advise and do videos in natcisim too.
I just get to knw that he was narcissist..
Needed that ty❤️❤️
If he plays games, I get bored. I might hang in there for a little bit if I love him or have strong feelings, but generally, the games are a turn off.
Thank you Alex 🙏🏻 You are the best 💁🏻👏✨
Hi Alex.. Thank you for this video
I want to ask if one's boss (who is already married) plays mind games with her... I know you will say... Change the job... But in this pandemic situation one cannot take this risk... Can you please suggest how to handle such situations?
That finger was my favorite 😂
I want to discuss my situation
Its exactly like that before he was crazy for me. He loved me confessed me but as soon as I showed interest he left me went away. Then again when I was happy in my life he came back wants attention as soon as I started again same. He plays games. Now what game should I play with him.that he commit to me.
'Some people like to play mind games' SO TRUE AND SAD. 'I know what you are doing now'. Very good. I set boundaries. He failed.... So I am ignoring him. Did not block his whatsapp this time. He can see I am unaffected. Jerk.....
My man was in a relationship when we met. He lied about it. I want him to choose me. What do I do?
Hey there,
I'm sorry that he lied about the relationship. I know how hard and tough that must be to go through. I have a video on this channel that talks about the number 1 tip that will make him chose you. I hope you take the time to check it out.
th-cam.com/video/t4ZKWO3luIk/w-d-xo.html
Once a cheater, always a cheater. He'll do it someday to you too even if he picks you now. You deserve better!
I live with my partner and he seems to play mind games every day getting me down when I pull him up on this he says I am crazy how do I take back my power help
Can anyone please tell me the 4 points he has said...I can't understand his accent (cz I am not good in English)
He didn’t take initiative in contact and I need to call every time. So I told him that I don’t like investing alone. I will not go for physical relationship. After that he blocked me. What should I do now?
Forget him & move on with your life.Hes clearly not into you.He will only use for Sex.You will only be wasting your precious time if you go with him.The fact that he blocks you means he's not interested to have a deep & meaningful relationship with you.He just wants a hook up.Pls don't fall in love with this kind of man.Save your heart.
Move on. Pamper yourself. Work on your goals.
Hi I want to download your free eBook to read it...
I'm interested in your teaching about Love
He is ignoring my messige for 2 weeks now. What shouod I do?Nothing helped.
Delete his number and move on. Have some self-respect.
Alex..
I need your advice Alex. I know that we are on social distancing right now. But ive seen these guy and we had a great night together. But after the following day i could feel that he got distanced and also i tried not to text him for days and he never initiate any text at all. Then when i text him the other day he responded to me for like hours and he is just home. I dunno i feel kinda distance with him pls help what to do
Thanks Alex my best love coach 👌 bye bye
Alex u made me laugh 🤣 love u
hi alex ... can you help me ... why do I always end up in the middle of a relationship with him who suddenly disappears :'(
Alexandre bsr ; je viens de recevoir cette vidéo ; il est 22h50 !! C gentil ; mais bon l'Anglais et moiii ça fait 2 .. 😂
Je ne comprends rienn ?? merciii quand même !! 😉👍😂😂
What to do when he comes back after a month? I did not pick up his phonecall.
Follow your intuition, deep down in your soul you know the answer to your question.
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert merci beaucoup🙏
How do you know if a guy play game with you
Love u alex from ethiopia
Yes Alex 👌
How do you deal with a narcissistic man?
The answer is: Do not deal with him!
When a girl is dating a guy later he told her he impregnate a lady, so the girl told him, she doesn't want the friendship again but the guy refused to leave her, so in this situation what will the girl do
Simply bloc & be happy
Im in a relationship but it feels like he is playing games. So confusing
Hi Patricia,
I'm so sorry to hear about this. I know how confusing this can be. I would love to help you with this but due to my extremely limited time, I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with me. I would like to know more about your relationship in order to tell you why he might be playing mind games towards you.
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/