Generosity is key. What ever the ratio a standard thing that is in place no matter what will never work. You gotta be flexible and be willing to support each other.
My opinion on this situation is that I think we both are working we put all of our money together and pay all the bills and set aside some money for the kids if we have any. Grocery money on one side, saving one side so in that case you got something to Save got something to save and whatever leave we busted 50/50 so you got your money save I got my money save are we do have slack change to spend so everything comes down okay
My take, I don't think things are NEVER 50/50 in marriage.......it's always a give or take, sometimes 20/80, 30/70 etc....on either side ......communicate communicate communicate so ONE specific person is not always on the low percentage.....I think that's where the problem comes.....again my take......was a good listen. Blessings
This 50/50 discourse is steeped in culture, as is gender roles. I don't endorse 50/50 period, since I believe that the man should be the provider... there's no middle ground here for me. I don't mind contributing to the home or goals, but a set amount can never be determined by my partner... let me use my discretion.
I think it is a decision that the couple should make together. Each couple should do what works for them. There should however be room for compromise and flexibility. For me personally, I believe the man as the head of the home should lead in providing for the family but again, it's a decision that both parties should make and agree with
We completely agree! Each couple needs to do what is best for them. As long as all parties involved are on the same page, then it’s all good! Thanks so much for chiming in !
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Generosity is key. What ever the ratio a standard thing that is in place no matter what will never work. You gotta be flexible and be willing to support each other.
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My opinion on this situation is that I think we both are working we put all of our money together and pay all the bills and set aside some money for the kids if we have any. Grocery money on one side, saving one side so in that case you got something to Save got something to save and whatever leave we busted 50/50 so you got your money save I got my money save are we do have slack change to spend so everything comes down okay
what is 50/50. Marriage off to bad start when you have couple talking about spitting bills. Sound like a roommate to me.
My take, I don't think things are NEVER 50/50 in marriage.......it's always a give or take, sometimes 20/80, 30/70 etc....on either side ......communicate communicate communicate so ONE specific person is not always on the low percentage.....I think that's where the problem comes.....again my take......was a good listen. Blessings
Thanks so much for this valuable feedback! We definitely agree that they need to communicate a lot!
This 50/50 discourse is steeped in culture, as is gender roles. I don't endorse 50/50 period, since I believe that the man should be the provider... there's no middle ground here for me. I don't mind contributing to the home or goals, but a set amount can never be determined by my partner... let me use my discretion.
I think it is a decision that the couple should make together. Each couple should do what works for them. There should however be room for compromise and flexibility. For me personally, I believe the man as the head of the home should lead in providing for the family but again, it's a decision that both parties should make and agree with
We completely agree! Each couple needs to do what is best for them. As long as all parties involved are on the same page, then it’s all good! Thanks so much for chiming in !
Marriage should be 50/50 .
Sounds like roommates to me.