She Left A Good Man at 23 and Now She Wants Him Back at 35

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  • @carlosrob6494
    @carlosrob6494 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1087

    Fellas you never take any woman back that step out on you, regardless who she cheat on you with.

    • @kaze7521
      @kaze7521 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @squizzysharpe5865
      @squizzysharpe5865 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Facts

    • @mrdacusthenavigator4989
      @mrdacusthenavigator4989 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      FACTS. NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @brianmcclain5273
      @brianmcclain5273 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      Fellas don't be a dam foo and take a women back keep it moving 💯

    • @alisterjoseph3750
      @alisterjoseph3750 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      The man is right 😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅

  • @trini_staple
    @trini_staple 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +408

    If they don't want you in their prime, don't take them in their decline. Stay up, kings.

    • @jprestovevo9NE
      @jprestovevo9NE 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      talk that shit

    • @damienr3086
      @damienr3086 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      YEAH THATS RIGHT!!!

    • @jonathanjohnson5216
      @jonathanjohnson5216 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bars😂😂😂

    • @taharqa332
      @taharqa332 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts. Men age like FINE WINE - women age like MILK.

    • @josecartagena1158
      @josecartagena1158 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said brother 💪

  • @djhayes3105
    @djhayes3105 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +526

    Dud you are bugging, I don't care if it's Michael Jordan she cheated with, she is gone.

    • @kaze7521
      @kaze7521 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      💯💯💯

    • @teamsmiling
      @teamsmiling 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Facts, homie, I was thinking the same thing f who the person is she cheated plan and simple, these young Boi's be bugging 😂😂

    • @cephasmee6456
      @cephasmee6456 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Dud sounds right. 🫥

    • @James-s8d7u
      @James-s8d7u 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      True

    • @turbo1997hsm
      @turbo1997hsm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@@cephasmee6456Only to a clown. Only a fool will take a cheating woman back

  • @tut0ne190
    @tut0ne190 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +222

    Only move forward. Never go backwards. It was a reason you left.

    • @iamkingfrost
      @iamkingfrost 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Agreed

  • @dlebb8322
    @dlebb8322 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +496

    After swallowing several meats, she wants to get back 🤔

    • @al-mateenrankins2412
      @al-mateenrankins2412 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      😂😂😂😂

    • @llGotemll
      @llGotemll 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      facts 🤣🤣😂😂

    • @michaelallen8112
      @michaelallen8112 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Cumberland 😆😆😆

    • @Eman14128
      @Eman14128 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      they want someone to offload all that baggage and bills onto.

    • @PushmanNard
      @PushmanNard 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      😂😂😂

  • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
    @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +183

    a woman cannot be in love and respect you if she is shared.

    • @TheFragranceJock
      @TheFragranceJock 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @alpheushill4292
      @alpheushill4292 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      That's shows how lame he is, straight simping.😅😅😅😅she don't care for you if she cheats, women are emotionally gone.

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Woman can only serve one man only. Facts

    • @DezJphenom
      @DezJphenom 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Everyone in this comment section are Triple OG’s! Speaking straight FACTS!! 💯

  • @labaroncharles1958
    @labaroncharles1958 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +139

    This man talk more than the women and didn't make one good point. It does not matter who your girl cheats on you you with. If she cheats on you you make sure you x her out after that. I believe women when they talk about how weak men are these days

    • @teamsmiling
      @teamsmiling 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Big facts. I'm disappointed in dude

    • @PoloButtaBall
      @PoloButtaBall 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Facts

    • @labaroncharles1958
      @labaroncharles1958 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@teamsmiling yeah you're right bro truthfully it's this kind of mindset that will get you cheated on in the first place. Women smell weakness on a man and this is what turns her off and gets her to looking for something stronger in the first place

    • @thebucketmanj8525
      @thebucketmanj8525 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He doing it because he tryna get with them lowkey.🤣🤣

    • @Rudolph_Manor
      @Rudolph_Manor 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@thebucketmanj8525 He's pandering for pussy basically. 💯

  • @AlphonsoWilliams-ji7kx
    @AlphonsoWilliams-ji7kx 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    They don't understand that women want a man more when he doesn't want her. Time apart is the best thing that draws a woman close.

  • @realmusicrealartist4899
    @realmusicrealartist4899 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +327

    My guy is tripping, if a lady cheats on you she is emotionally tied to the guy she cheated on you with 😂 the relationship is over 😮

    • @tonyantoine5823
      @tonyantoine5823 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Especially if she’s not your wife!

    • @JHendo247
      @JHendo247 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tonyantoine5823yea and even if she is your wife. Your time to leave!

    • @problemchild2k13
      @problemchild2k13 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      @@tonyantoine5823even worse if she is your wife. That means she broke vows to sleep with that other man. Let her go.

    • @TheFragranceJock
      @TheFragranceJock 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      💯💯💯💯

    • @MaticulousGamer
      @MaticulousGamer 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      just look at the way he sits... body language literally tells you the type of male he is

  • @allencampbell1058
    @allencampbell1058 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    The best revenge you do as a man thats been overlooked is to keep focusing on yourself and your goals and they will come back to you now that they see some potential that he has already made. Dont go back for her when she thought you were nothing and was ignored and overlooked..

  • @HK-th1sw
    @HK-th1sw 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    Cheating is a lack of respect, easy

    • @christianbenn316
      @christianbenn316 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      & a red flag

    • @joyceg7859
      @joyceg7859 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      To yourself and others.

    • @marcybarnard5545
      @marcybarnard5545 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Facts!!!!! Both Men and Women!!!

    • @kathyander4920
      @kathyander4920 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen! If don’t try to hide it. Run, run and run!!

    • @godrules3596
      @godrules3596 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That part 💯 I dont know why it's soo difficult for people to understand this it should be common knowledge theres no way around it.

  • @JovhonteFirstOfHisName
    @JovhonteFirstOfHisName 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    Wait did Rico say if my girl cheat on me with Drake he’ll charge it to the game?? Lost me on that one bro. I’m out

    • @montste8257
      @montste8257 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Dawg, I'm with ya on this one, she's his now, cuz obviously she wasn't mine

    • @JovhonteFirstOfHisName
      @JovhonteFirstOfHisName 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@montste8257 it was just our turn at that time 😂 merry go round

    • @tlaclacan7722
      @tlaclacan7722 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      As soon as I heard that, I paused am out too bro

    • @zaketirenaudbarca615
      @zaketirenaudbarca615 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol I literally listen to these podcasts wit my lil homie on purpose to teach him tht people jus be talkin to fit in and sound cool instead of bein themselves who tf would go bacc to a mfr tht fucced over U... wat type sense does tht make these dumb mfs said I agree why mfs think money clears up or makes u write for u to deal wit disrespect drake Jake jon dnt fuccin matter them mfs bleed jus like U

    • @smartbiney801
      @smartbiney801 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Brooo.... its sad. He's feminized

  • @luvphoenix956
    @luvphoenix956 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +183

    never take a cheater back

  • @TheBlackManIsGod.7
    @TheBlackManIsGod.7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    Rico sitting there with his legs crossed like a bad-bitch 😂

    • @Coachkingrod
      @Coachkingrod 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂😂

  • @charlesmadison489
    @charlesmadison489 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +162

    Please get another male representative on this show, he doesn’t speak for US

    • @etiennecole6898
      @etiennecole6898 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      I'll just watch a different show 😂

    • @fawaztaiwo2165
      @fawaztaiwo2165 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      True talk. I taught I was the only one that see this

    • @princedemetri
      @princedemetri 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What makes you think he’s speaking for you?? You a grown ass man with your own thoughts, so who cares? Men should only speak due themselves. Looking for “male representatives” was your first mistake.

    • @willhustle25
      @willhustle25 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This dude is really trippin'

    • @katomane6116
      @katomane6116 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Right he cool, but I feel like it’s sass somewhere 😂😂

  • @justforthetv
    @justforthetv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +138

    Rico, why are you crossing your legs like that, my guy lol

    • @NajAli85
      @NajAli85 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      The bag 💰dropped

    • @torrey2708
      @torrey2708 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      💯 😂😂😂😂

    • @asdfxcvbn746
      @asdfxcvbn746 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      the zest is real.

    • @dapo09
      @dapo09 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Auditioning and advertising himself for them people

    • @joshdunn8199
      @joshdunn8199 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I swear I was thinking the same had to stop watching the video he's more feminine that the girls lol

  • @BlackMarvel25
    @BlackMarvel25 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Never lose your self respect by taking a woman back who did you dirty.

  • @derrianterrell
    @derrianterrell 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Never take a woman back that leaves you.

  • @vicsosa83
    @vicsosa83 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Number one reason for divorce.. woman just not happy and feel that the grass greener on the other side

  • @totalpackage2107
    @totalpackage2107 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Like I told my wife when I was courting her…” if I lose you then I never had you, so you’ll be doing me a favor.”

  • @Kynndr3ddSynn3
    @Kynndr3ddSynn3 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Don't go Back. NEVER EVER G0 BACK‼️

    • @kathyander4920
      @kathyander4920 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Wished I had learned this lesson a long time ago.

    • @Joshdifferent
      @Joshdifferent 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💯💯💯

  • @dlj332
    @dlj332 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    The whole unfaithfulness doesn’t equate to disloyalty is a cop out. Faithfulness is a component of loyalty. That reasoning is a way to sidestep the responsibility of faithfulness in marriage.

    • @myronbourne6937
      @myronbourne6937 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nah. Most men with options have no intention of being faithful

    • @snatched.4513
      @snatched.4513 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly they are tryna be slick

    • @asdfxcvbn746
      @asdfxcvbn746 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@myronbourne6937 stop choosing the top 10% of men then. they ain't FOR you.

    • @turtondwayne
      @turtondwayne 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Facts only rich people can talk foolishness and people listen 😅😂😂

    • @abdul-rahmanbilal3516
      @abdul-rahmanbilal3516 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      U shouldn’t be with someone and desiring another person!!!

  • @qgrandberry
    @qgrandberry 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    That's real light skin for him to say he will take her back

    • @buFFlosouljah1
      @buFFlosouljah1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "But it's Drake though...Drizzy!"
      He as light skinned as that goofy ass take. Foh.

    • @Rudolph_Manor
      @Rudolph_Manor 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @christianbenn316
      @christianbenn316 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He'll be stupid to take her back

  • @dinero9865
    @dinero9865 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    As a man who has had many women at a given time and probably still can, I stepped out on those women because I didn’t love them. When you love someone or something that much there some type of sacrifice that occurs so you can have it in your possession

  • @B3GR8T
    @B3GR8T 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    If a woman cheats on u fellas, walk away. Don’t entertain the idea of getting back.. if you take her back, subconsciously you’ll never trust her and she will never respect you.

  • @manoftheserengeti3052
    @manoftheserengeti3052 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Four black ladies here and nothing of substance in all that yapping.

    • @JHendo247
      @JHendo247 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂

    • @alpheushill4292
      @alpheushill4292 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅

    • @random6130
      @random6130 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Towards the end the woman in the peach sweater made some good points .... you should listen again

    • @buFFlosouljah1
      @buFFlosouljah1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🤭

    • @brianjackson8418
      @brianjackson8418 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      5 women

  • @oneup7238
    @oneup7238 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    15:54 we can't let this slide. She tried to send for the men. Men en masse aren't asking for a woman like this as a wife. As men we know our levels and don't stray into the land of the elite but women always want the rare men regardless

  • @moreycleveland2472
    @moreycleveland2472 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    FOR YOU YOUNG BLACK WOMEN YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BE IN THE PRIME OF YOUR LIFE FOR EVER THAT WALL IS BUILT TO LAST FOREVER & IT IS UNDERFEATED NO CAPPING😢

  • @Newtonwilson-yw4kg
    @Newtonwilson-yw4kg 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    Nice video..., but there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship. I However learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago my wife and I were on the brink of a divorce because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..

    • @oglaskubuot
      @oglaskubuot 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Great sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @Newtonwilson-yw4kg
      @Newtonwilson-yw4kg 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

    • @oglaskubuot
      @oglaskubuot 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you. I will look her up online right now

    • @Newtonwilson-yw4kg
      @Newtonwilson-yw4kg 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You definitely should

  • @gottech5601
    @gottech5601 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    If im in a serious relationship and my girl steps out on me i dont care who it is im done with you theres too many women out here looking for the same thing im looking for out here so ill take my chances out there 😊

    • @christianbenn316
      @christianbenn316 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She'll never get a 2nd chance from me if she ever walks out sorry

  • @CLARENCESHINETTE
    @CLARENCESHINETTE 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    What ? When a woman steps out she doesn't just step out physically also 3motionally, with men it's just physical
    This dude a simp

    • @gdot5438
      @gdot5438 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      that’s not true at all 😂

  • @3800ThaBizz
    @3800ThaBizz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Married for 14 years been faithful for the entire ride. Cheated through all my relationships up until being married. And cheating, the act it’s self is disloyal.

  • @nahmean06
    @nahmean06 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Being loyal to your responsibilities and being loyal to your person are not mutually exclusive. you need them both or you indeed are DISLOYAL

    • @myronbourne6937
      @myronbourne6937 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm loyal to whatever I agree to be loyal to

    • @rodniegsm1575
      @rodniegsm1575 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The thing us, when she ran away, she and her ex didn't grow together . They grow apart from each other, that's why it doesn't work.

    • @turtondwayne
      @turtondwayne 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts only Rich people can talk foolishness and people listen 😅😂

    • @flamingrage100
      @flamingrage100 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Let these people think the way they think. It’s straight foolishness, but if that’s how they cope with infidelity let them be I’ll keep myself away from them.

    • @emmanuelankrah7232
      @emmanuelankrah7232 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts bro. I was thinking the same like what are this pple talking about😂😂. They don’t know shit about being loyal.

  • @therealloulove
    @therealloulove 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Never take a woman back after cheating no matter what anybody says. She can’t love a man she doesn’t respect if she cheats she doesn’t respect you and she doesn’t love you 💯

  • @nijoelgreene851
    @nijoelgreene851 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    If I cheat and she get back, I won’t leave her. Men gotta NOT CHEAT in the first place

  • @reimourrpower9357
    @reimourrpower9357 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The responses of the hosts are more logical and reasonable than what I saw 2 years ago. Salutes the 8 crew for personal & professional evolution.

  • @If_TC
    @If_TC 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    A MAN SHOULD NEVER SIT LIKE THAT WITH THEY LEGS FOLDED

  • @OmarJones-t5q
    @OmarJones-t5q 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Fellas never backtrack

  • @MrDaddymeez1
    @MrDaddymeez1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thus is prime example of why u don't gets daring tips from random weirdos online... if she cheats you leave her, and vice versa.
    Have pride in yourself

  • @j.thomas23
    @j.thomas23 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    The play on words….cant be faithful if you aren’t loyal, lets be real.

    • @colesmith6004
      @colesmith6004 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly. Semantics smh

    • @jodezod
      @jodezod 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts! These folks are messed up in the head with that thinking.

  • @roadrunna5925
    @roadrunna5925 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    People cheat because of having too many partners. The more you be intimate especially for a woman. The harder it is to pair bond.

  • @mrjones4249
    @mrjones4249 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Stepping outside" DOES mean you are disloyal. This play in words does not benefit a wicked generation. This is ridiculous! If a person commits adultery, then they have broken their vows, and other things don't matter anymore.

  • @BlackManTravels
    @BlackManTravels 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    NEVER EVER TAKE THEM BACK! Too many women with less issues out here to meet and wife up. Avoid these damaged goods at all costs.

  • @LG-ns5rk
    @LG-ns5rk 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Wha... 23 - 35 = 12 yrs..a slave.

  • @beasmode18
    @beasmode18 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The wall is legendary

    • @jonathanjohnson5216
      @jonathanjohnson5216 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🤦‍♂️💡😂😂😂😂😂👍

    • @jonathanjohnson5216
      @jonathanjohnson5216 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They bounce off of IT 🚨💡

  • @samuelaspenceiii2412
    @samuelaspenceiii2412 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She just proved why you shouldn’t take a woman back who cheats. She liked the guy on a level above sex. She saw potential in him being better than you.

  • @victorsilas5487
    @victorsilas5487 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Argh man, people do change and become something different from who they were before. Even if people do not break-up, people still change. The only fault in us as people is that we want to get so much grip of the past not realising that the one thing that is constant in life is change. But, what an awesome conversation.

  • @DJGENOTYPE
    @DJGENOTYPE 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was head over heels over a woman back in college. I was around 25 at the time. She curved me every chance she could get and only spent her time with the local thugs in the Houston area. She always considered me a friend and nothing else. When I was around 36, she ran across me on Facebook and was going about how she always thought about me and wanted to go out on a date. I kindly declined and kept it moving. She now has 3 kids and weighs about 60 pounds more.

  • @mjay9881
    @mjay9881 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Uncross your legs like that, my guy

    • @marleyjanim5033
      @marleyjanim5033 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What’s wrong with crossing legs

    • @mjay9881
      @mjay9881 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @marleyjanim5033 that's a not masculine a leg cross. That leg cross It suffocate's, hurts and crunch your male parts downstairs.

    • @misterlexx2721
      @misterlexx2721 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@marleyjanim5033 That's some girl attitude. Maybe he is LGBTQ 😅😅😅😅

    • @ree4214
      @ree4214 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Please and thank you.

    • @TA-ht4jo
      @TA-ht4jo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mjay9881He’s not a masculine dude. Does he sound or talk like a masculine dude? What did you expect?

  • @mell6481
    @mell6481 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I'm not charging ish to the game. I'm out SMH

    • @gdot5438
      @gdot5438 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yeah because you can’t take what you dish

    • @mell6481
      @mell6481 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gdot5438 Men and women aren't the same. We can give studies and data as to why and you'll still try to compare us to each other. I don't care what anybody say, that violation is different. It's no going back.

  • @constructiveeconomics6733
    @constructiveeconomics6733 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Gents, if you have any shred of respect for yourself, if a woman you're in a relationship cheats on you...WALK away and dead that relationship. Never look back. Never allow her back into your circle. Cut all communication. Do not engage with her.

  • @Rudolph_Manor
    @Rudolph_Manor 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    See People & Things For Who And What They Are & Not For What You Wish For Them To Be. 💯

  • @BriceHoward7001
    @BriceHoward7001 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    ".... Being unfaithful does not make you disloyal..." .... TF!!! Nah you can miss me with that one bro. That's gaslighting 101. Imagine someone cheating on you and saying that.

    • @MistaBawlz3000
      @MistaBawlz3000 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah, that shit waa insane ta' me when it hears it leave his mouth. Like, bruh, get tha' fuck outta here. That one chick rebutted in disagreement that she feels they kind of go hand-in-hand and she's absolutely right!! They're synonymous as hell! Yeah, he needed to tighten-up on that one.

    • @joyceg7859
      @joyceg7859 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Even though you lie when you cheat being unfaithful doesn’t mean disloyal 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Fuggin disgusting “ you caught me stepping outside “

  • @ChadDanes
    @ChadDanes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Let me get this straight, she had nice new car unused. Then she took it from her man and now that it’s been used, cigarettes holes in the seats, been crashed by other big black cars (BBC), she wants him to buy it back?

  • @NaajiRahmbah
    @NaajiRahmbah 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “……people are lying because of social media…” is THEE headline of this video. This is absolutely a fact. Most people are not living what they’re posting. Most of the time it’s for engagement, attention and (for some) for the money

  • @hoovercstyle419
    @hoovercstyle419 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I don’t know who told the Male that he had good advice . If a woman steps out on you , she is being disloyal.

    • @TA-ht4jo
      @TA-ht4jo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He’s pandering.

  • @emanuelclark443
    @emanuelclark443 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Fellas NEVER double back Trust unc 😤🤞🏾

  • @youngone1985
    @youngone1985 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yeah, people can be molded and changed. The question is for how long and to what extent? Woman don't want the sexual market place to exist because she didn't EARN her value, she was mostly borned with it. She realizes how hard it would be to do so as she loses it with age. She doesn't want him to be unfaithful because of her validation, and fair enough, but again how much and to what extent?

  • @Ricsteed1987
    @Ricsteed1987 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You CAN'T take her back she has probably caught 30 bodies in that time

  • @iamvibrashn
    @iamvibrashn 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You know something. I seen this one before in my own handbook. The young lady who left me was not much older than 23. The reason however I would never ever turn around is.... Had the young lady just needed to figure out life and left to do that I'd have understood that but, no there's more. The young woman left me for what what truly was her elder sibling so to speak and I told her of the dangers of the encounter then she slept with my best friend to add insult to injury. All to hurt me. I'm afraid of what even a young woman with such vigor would do quite frankly.

  • @ahyashrawchaa1310
    @ahyashrawchaa1310 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    If you Brothers don't get anything out of this video just understand they're telling you without actually saying that Men are literal tools to them. It's about what they can get out of you that suits their needs specifically, whether large or small. I will add though the Sister at the end spoke nothing but the truth.

  • @gordonallen9095
    @gordonallen9095 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not taking ANYBODY back after they left to be ran through by somebody else. If you feel the need to leave, STAY gone. I moved on, and I'm done.

  • @derringerlong3575
    @derringerlong3575 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Best thing I ever did was to double back. We were both ready second time around, and we were great together, turned out perfect. We worked like a well oiled machine, no hiccups. She past away 15 years after we got back together and married though. It was10 years between us getting back together, but we found our way back to each other. So it can be good, just depends. Although, I wouldn't recommend necessarily the doubling back, most of the time it doesn't work.

  • @LeTaureauNoir3x7
    @LeTaureauNoir3x7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    They don’t want you in their 20’s but they regret it in their 30’s…😏

  • @talesofthedrip
    @talesofthedrip 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Once they realize they cant have a hot girl summer forever is when they finally want the "nice guy" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @MGrose407
    @MGrose407 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The first pretty much admitted and explain why it’s different for men and women and why a man won’t usually accept cheating! She said it’s usually getting attention and everything else before wanting to be intimate whereas a man usually doesn’t get involved emotionally to have relations with a woman.

  • @VegHwvSurvdv
    @VegHwvSurvdv 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Get your passports guys, go to countries like Philippines, japan , chile, bulgaria where women are much more traditional and ready to get a good man for marriage by 21.

  • @shalomstewart701
    @shalomstewart701 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Takeaway from this conversation is basically, people are surfaced minded. This is a huge problem.

  • @cantbecanceledpodcast
    @cantbecanceledpodcast 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Don’t listen to men that sit the way he does… he’s TOO MUCH in touch with the feminine side.

  • @ALEXFVHS
    @ALEXFVHS 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This dude is tripping. U never take a girl back if she cheats on you. It don't matter who it was with. Dude is bugging

  • @elizabethh4329
    @elizabethh4329 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    when you live outside of the original biblical design, you have to create rules to self govern, and everyone gets to make their own rules. That means you get stuff like this convo above, where technically they can all be right because everyone is governing themselves.
    Many prayers to all of yall in the game tryna find somebody serious!

  • @15cballardw
    @15cballardw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lack of self control and allowing the temptation to be the guide of your relationship/marriage.
    And some ppl have the mentality that their significant other will never break up or divorce them.

  • @LVE2103
    @LVE2103 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Didn't watch the vid. Assuming the title wasn't click bait, just slid through to say hell nah... she don't get have that. In the words of AC, men must say no to the reach back. 😂

    • @jasonwilliams9307
      @jasonwilliams9307 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      In AC voice S/o to BLACK MEN🗣

    • @itzcookingseason8071
      @itzcookingseason8071 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Shout out to Black Men! This is nasty work!

  • @Smiley0725
    @Smiley0725 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Genuine desire cannot be negotiated.She ain't into you, that's it,let her go for good!

  • @TahreekB
    @TahreekB 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Some of these think pieces are crazy. Dude said if it’s Drake, he can understand.. Hella weird. Then, one of the ladies said that it’s wrong for a man to talk down on his woman to another woman, but if he let the other woman know that he’s not leaving the woman he’s with after they do whatever it is that they do, it’s somewhat better. Trash

  • @Hustle4thefuture-ox6bj
    @Hustle4thefuture-ox6bj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Rico is giving me Dwyane Wade vibes very zesty😂

    • @Squeeky-Da-Don
      @Squeeky-Da-Don 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Never trust a man who folds his legs like a woman!

    • @buFFlosouljah1
      @buFFlosouljah1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      "Zwayne Wade"

  • @swtpeaches75
    @swtpeaches75 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "That's what you wanted That's what you got" unrealistic taller... more curvy, does not amount to more love I agree. 👏

  • @itzcookingseason8071
    @itzcookingseason8071 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So she's on a pound tizzy tour for 12 years, and now she wants to reach back? Fellas like AC says... this is nasty work!!!

  • @Bigmoney899
    @Bigmoney899 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This happened to me . Tried to come and dictate terms again 😂. Hell no I’ll never take you back

  • @blueteopadsnice5486
    @blueteopadsnice5486 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    5:50 You would “charge it to the game” because if another man’s social status? No backbone will be a downfall

  • @planet117
    @planet117 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's interesting listening to 20 to early 30 years olds Figuring life out. In 10 years, they won't care about any of this.

  • @HeroesNStuff
    @HeroesNStuff 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Nothing but truth spoken after 13:50

  • @Alexandrite7
    @Alexandrite7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you cheat on me once, that's it. We're done. If I stay, I want my turn to cheat.

  • @rasheedlyn817
    @rasheedlyn817 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    These days I rather be alone than being in a relationship.

  • @leunammetherapper3723
    @leunammetherapper3723 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Most people really still be dating childishly, looking for the "looks good to everyone" type of relationship, over actually what is good for you personally...

  • @JamesWhite-mb8mg
    @JamesWhite-mb8mg 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I didn't want the woman to be anything except happy, kind and agreeable, but even that was too much.

  • @vw9227
    @vw9227 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Why dude thinks women cheating has the same effect on the individual who's cheating psyche's. At least the dudes I know will come back to their girl. As for the women I know who've stepped out, they eventually lost respect/interest in their current partner and get swindled thinking their side piece is better, until the side piece reminds her that we just smashing. Women on average are more emotionally attached to sex then men, so when she cheats it's probably not about the physical, it's about something she thinks she's missing that her spouse lacks.

  • @darrylhicks3947
    @darrylhicks3947 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fellas never give them a second chance to do the same thing. Once they leave let them stay gone

  • @ta15235
    @ta15235 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Respect is more important than love for a man. When a woman cheats she lost respect for you it’s over

  • @sandramatua6293
    @sandramatua6293 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can never go back to someone i left, wether am the one that left u or wether u are the one that left me. Thats a No No No for me.

  • @TheGoogleScholar
    @TheGoogleScholar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The wisdom the world has to offer…

  • @rockmyworldmusic
    @rockmyworldmusic 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    4:19 Is gas lighting at its finest. 😆😆 It was still disloyal behavior my guy... you've just separated the categories. You tried to limit it to physical provision or childcare. Loyalty includes having integrity to your word. So if you promised, in front of God, family, and friends, that you wouldn't be with anybody else, but went back on your word, that was disloyal.

    • @marcybarnard5545
      @marcybarnard5545 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This is the best comment I’ve read thus far!!! Who are these people! It’s all in the same boat to me ! I guess it’s working for them.

  • @whynotyou783
    @whynotyou783 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Shorty can never come back if she steps out. You’re trippin
    Only reason you’re approving Drake is because YOU are a groupie to Drake

  • @weldscholars
    @weldscholars 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Why that dude lookin real zesty

    • @asdfxcvbn746
      @asdfxcvbn746 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      because those the type of dude black women listen to. the ninjas that look like they wearing lip gloss lol smh

    • @salbill4484
      @salbill4484 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      cuz he's probably likes getting his shit pushed in.

  • @axxis402
    @axxis402 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm just going to tell you if my lady cheated on me she don't have to worry about coming back. Because for a woman to cheat she really has to be at a mental space and she's done with her man. Men are sport sexual encounters we don't need an emotion we just need a place.

  • @Candlelighttrailvibes
    @Candlelighttrailvibes 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why should I take back a woman who got ran through by the streets?

  • @wendellkirton3694
    @wendellkirton3694 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Never take she back let she go long she never cared or loved you

  • @ikemchude
    @ikemchude 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    From experience, very true. You can't change people from who they really are, only GOD can help them change if and when they put in the work to change

  • @MrRudym01
    @MrRudym01 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The answers these women give are crazy. Nothing was said about loving the person or him being a good person. It was cause you miss the vibe or saving that friend that u can talk to, whine to etc. Look good with. I didn't hear no damn I fuxed up with my ex , he was a good dude, etc. Everything was geared to what that man did for them emotionally or physically. Where and when did this disconnect come from? Also I agree with every man in here, if she cheats on me no matter whom, Drake doesn't matter bye

  • @Osiris-dk9dq
    @Osiris-dk9dq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    And here is one of the reasons why men should prioritize themselves. I'm not talking about selfishness but just prioritizing ourselves, personal and emotional development. They only think about themselves. As long as they are not able to self-criticize, assume responsibility for their emotions and actions, they will not be ready for a relationship.