I'm pretty mediocre at everything I do. When I start things, I find it incredibly hard to finish or continue. It feels like I can't settle on one thing. Ever.
Honestly what’s the point of living anymore,Some people aren’t born to succeed and that’s the really sad truth. Edit: I want to live, and sometimes it’s hard to find people who care but when I do it feels amazing. My feeling is you are strong and no one deserves to feel that way
True, some people try their absolute best to achieve something and end up with almost nothing Meanwhile some people barley try, yet they succeed above everyone else (natural talent, if you will)
24M here, still trying to figure out what I actually enjoy doing (besides of listening to music and watching youtube). It's just that nothing particular sparks up my passion. I've tried many things - photography, writing, making rap music, drawing, sports, graphic design, I've thought about vlogging, I've read materials on various sciences, but I swear, nothing truly interests me. I'm a bit jealous of all those skilled people who make millions, but at the same time I wouldn't be able to reach any success because I lack drive to do so. If I'd be given a huge amount of money, you'd probably catch me chilling at the beach in a warm, sunny country like Philippines. Maybe I'm just not an ambitious person.
oh my goodness.. this is exactly how i feel, except i’m 21F of course. wow i could cry because i’ve always felt that I was “behind” in life because I never felt ambitious or have a dream job etc. I thought I was alone when it came to feeling this way
I'm tired of everyone I know being instantly good at something, I try soo hard to be good at something but i see someone i know seemingly starting off at an advantage, yet i have to drag myself through a task because I'm not good at it
We’re definitely on the same page. Everyone in my life had an instant passion like baseball, dancing, figure skating or singing. Meanwhile, I have zero talent and passion. I really want to be an actor but no matter how many times I make it my passion, I don’t get that spark. I want to believe in myself but it’s hard. I’m basically My Hero Academia. I don’t have a quirk
I feel like i have a Low IQ. i can't find the deeper meaning in anything (i summarise everything because i'm too lazy to explain all the variables and complexities) , i have no skills or talents, i'm mediocre at everything i do, i can never get interested in something for too long, i'm always distracted and with brain fog. i'm Also bad at making and keeping friends, and socializing in general is tough for me. all i know what to do is watch mind numbing TH-cam videos, Google and watch music mindlessly.
Its never too late to take charge of your life and change it. All it takes is your will to do it. It will be hard but it will be 100% worth it. You can be anything you like to
I really wish, I had a passion. It’s so sad seeing my friends just being happy talented. While I’m just sitting watching while helping them. I am really, like no joke I’m not good at anything.t
I was also ashamed I had a woman get frustrated with me when I was in 8th grade I think, she said "just write something down". My family always told me the same thing, to follow what I like or just to get money. I have major depressive disorder and I am on medication and stuff but life is so hard a lot. I work at a dollar store in a small town with like no young people or anything to do. It is depressing in its own way. I have never felt special and have a ton of self hate. I am not sure what to go out and do though... small town
The thing is I feel this way and I don't have a comfort zone even when I try everything I still feel untalented or uninterested and I feel like I'm waisting others time.
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What about when you dedicate time blood and tears into something or multiple things…and it never works out. I think that’s worse than not having a passion/talent. Just a waste of space.
I am average at studies, I don't know dance, singing, drawing, not pretty either. No fashion sense, makeup too I can't finish work I start. Has no passion, talent. I am currently MA english student. Don't know how I will I end in life.
Thank you! I'm about to finish high school and thinking about the future stresses me out. Ive never been passionate bout anything. The get of your comfort zone tip made me realize how much of a routine i have.
This video really helps me to cheer myself up for a bit. But due to Covid19 situation in my country (Thailand) I can’t do anything even going outside. I just graduated from college and I can’t find a job that I could possibly do and additionally my passion is getting lower and lower. I try to do different things as many as I can to keep things up but yes I can’t focus on them for long, there is sth in my mind like ‘what is the point for doing all of this? What is my goal? Am I gain anything useful here?’ I feel hating my life and have anger towards my country’s government as well. Just want to share, at least to relieve myself for a bit. Thank you.
I don’t think it’s shame in not having a passion or talent . Honestly the societies we inhabit push a narrative on us to be “passionate” I simply want to live & accept that . Idc about so called “passion” , I do have talents but it isn’t like other people can’t learn to possess talents . We all have abilities , I believe just being happy to be alive is a blessing in itself . You’re truly content to live , that’s all that matters to me.
I’m almost 15M and I know I have time to figure out a passion, but all of my friends have found out some kind of passion. I have friends who are passionate in sports, cooking, and “studying” I guess. The only thing I can say that I’m slightly passionate in is soccer but I’ve been playing for 9-10 years and still can’t get past the barrier of skill I’ve reached. It’s like this with most things I’ve done, I reach a skill level and it feels like there’s a cap at the skill. I had my first two soccer games this week and I just didn’t look forward to it like my other teammates. I play defense and I tried as hard as I could but I just couldn’t play good, it was probably the worst game I’ve ever played
I also have friend who just are instantly good at things, especially when it comes to video games, I’lol introduce them to a game that I find kinda fun and they’ll pass me in skill with in a day of grinding and I don’t get how they do it. It’s the same way with sports my new teammates that just started playing soccer are already on Varsity and I could barely make it to JV
I really wanna be a soloist and i wanna be an Artist.. because everyone saying I'm good at drawing, but I'm in interested in drawing and music.. but i Don't know which one is really my passion
IT undergraduate here. Hello fellow CS student. If it makes you sny better I‘ll tell you the day I felt shitty and pity at the sametime about my self. After a lot of thinking posted a poem to uni blog on FB and got one like, the like we got from creator of the blog. Others have a handful of likes for their posts ( we all posted same day ,same time for a special event.) So now it is in the main page of blog to everyone to see and none of my batch mates dont like it ,it seems.Feeling down and hopeless because this is one of the rarest times I come out to the light . Have a good day and you are not alone.Be happy dont worry
I think most people seeking out this video are at a point where they have no starting point. She has a degree in Computer Science, so obviously there was a smidge of passion to have her achieve that goal. She claims to hate her CS degree...she gets an internship, then she travels abroad, then she ends up liking the job. I feel like this is a regular story of most younger successful people in the tech world. I glad she was successful and I am sure she worked hard. But I feel like the passionless person, probably doesnt have a degree, doesnt have the money for a degree, cant take the risk to afford a degree. All I take away is... Get a CS degree and everything will work out. It just seemed like a normal path... college, internship, study abroad. She will probably end up making 6 figures somewhere, quit, have that experience and degree in her back pocket...Travel more, because she can afford it and then go back to another CS field. I sound bitter and jealous, Honestly I am. I have no passion, All I see is, get into CS or coding or data analytics. Im struggling. Im open to feed back. Plus shes a good looking person, which statistically helps people. A bit of rant, I apologize but this advice seems conventional and forgettable.
I absolutely hated my CS minor and only got it to increase my chances of getting employed. I'm not doing coding for work although there's a voice in me that wants to become a SWE one day just so that I can be at peace with myself. It's silly but that's truly how I feel because it's something that I'm so uncomfortable with. I still don't have a "passion" but I do enjoy my work. It's taken me awhile to get here and all that I can say is that any experience compounds, you just have to get outside of your comfort zone and do that thing - wtv it is, and honestly it's "easier" for me when I don't have a passion, so everything is equal, and of course I'll pick wtv the hot industry is at the moment. Yes I was privileged to have lived in Quebec where I paid minimum tuition. Agreed that not everyone can afford that especially in the US. But there are so many free ways of learning, and I know it's not what you want to hear but if I couldn't get a degree I'd still be teaching myself to code with free resources despite hating it so much - and that's only because I'm a young and naive and value the conventional social status and career and the typical "success". If I was broke and had a passion, I'd pursue that passion. If I was broke period, I'd just work hard towards wtv will bring me the money first. I def don't encourage everyone to go code, but for people who are lost it might open up some doors. But again - this is only if you're like me and want to get into tech/live in the bay area/make money to travel/all that cliche. I guess a more generalized advice would be the book "So Good They Can't Ignore You" by Cal Newport. (don't think i mentioned it in this video, it's been so long) It talks about the trap of the passion mindset and honestly has helped me a lot. But anyway thanks for watching and commenting I had forgotten that I posted this video and have grown quite a bit since then :) but I do acknowledge that I'm extremely privileged and still live in a bubble. So if you want to chat/rant/criticize further I'd actually love to talk more on IG @wayofx. Again, agree with you that wtv advice I gave in the video (i dont remember and it's too cringe to rewatch) certainly does not apply to everyone and comes from a privileged place with a narrow mindset 😬
Paid internship or no? The reason I ask is if it's not paid.. then how is an adult who does NOT have parental financial backing, you don't have the freedom to just go get an internship, or just go travel, sounds like it would be awesome to do.. but I'm about to be 30 and literally struggle with money everyday, so good luck doing all this stuff with bills.
I have a romantic soul. I'm a hikikomori. My only passion is to find a girl who loves me for who I am and everything else will follow after that. I don't wear a mask like most people do, I am always just "me". I don't care what work I will have, as long as I am loved by a girl who will take me out of my comfort zone and show me how to live. I know this will never happen, it is unrealistic, but it is a romantic idea and I can't help but to be a romantic soul. It is who and what I am, and without love I will surely never live, nor would I want to.
I'm pretty mediocre at everything I do. When I start things, I find it incredibly hard to finish or continue. It feels like I can't settle on one thing. Ever.
these kinds of videos the people are Very honest with themselves
@@Shhehwhsi24 it's nice when you're able to just be honest with yourself.
Hah,look at my name.thats me :D
Same Here. ;(
Same please suggest me if found anything useful for this i will be a major help❤️
Honestly what’s the point of living anymore,Some people aren’t born to succeed and that’s the really sad truth.
Edit: I want to live, and sometimes it’s hard to find people who care but when I do it feels amazing. My feeling is you are strong and no one deserves to feel that way
Lead me your gun please...i want to blow my brains off!
Same. I thought I was brought here on this earth for a reason. I must’ve been an accident and wasn’t meant to be born
That some people includes me😐
honestly
True, some people try their absolute best to achieve something and end up with almost nothing
Meanwhile some people barley try, yet they succeed above everyone else (natural talent, if you will)
24M here, still trying to figure out what I actually enjoy doing (besides of listening to music and watching youtube). It's just that nothing particular sparks up my passion. I've tried many things - photography, writing, making rap music, drawing, sports, graphic design, I've thought about vlogging, I've read materials on various sciences, but I swear, nothing truly interests me. I'm a bit jealous of all those skilled people who make millions, but at the same time I wouldn't be able to reach any success because I lack drive to do so. If I'd be given a huge amount of money, you'd probably catch me chilling at the beach in a warm, sunny country like Philippines. Maybe I'm just not an ambitious person.
oh my goodness.. this is exactly how i feel, except i’m 21F of course. wow i could cry because i’ve always felt that I was “behind” in life because I never felt ambitious or have a dream job etc. I thought I was alone when it came to feeling this way
I feel the same
Same.
@@chanteania I'm exactly the same & same age
Wow this is so me I wonder all time why iam liveing
I'm tired of everyone I know being instantly good at something,
I try soo hard to be good at something but i see someone i know seemingly starting off at an advantage, yet i have to drag myself through a task because I'm not good at it
We’re definitely on the same page. Everyone in my life had an instant passion like baseball, dancing, figure skating or singing. Meanwhile, I have zero talent and passion. I really want to be an actor but no matter how many times I make it my passion, I don’t get that spark. I want to believe in myself but it’s hard. I’m basically My Hero Academia. I don’t have a quirk
If it makes you feel better, I have no talents, no passions, and I’m bad at literally everything 😂
@@jade7122 you have learning learning difficulties?
I feel like i have a Low IQ. i can't find the deeper meaning in anything (i summarise everything because i'm too lazy to explain all the variables and complexities) , i have no skills or talents, i'm mediocre at everything i do, i can never get interested in something for too long, i'm always distracted and with brain fog. i'm Also bad at making and keeping friends, and socializing in general is tough for me.
all i know what to do is watch mind numbing TH-cam videos, Google and watch music mindlessly.
Its never too late to take charge of your life and change it. All it takes is your will to do it. It will be hard but it will be 100% worth it. You can be anything you like to
U not by yourself
Me too
pedro, you just described me
literally me
I really wish, I had a passion. It’s so sad seeing my friends just being happy talented. While I’m just sitting watching while helping them. I am really, like no joke I’m not good at anything.t
Relatable
Hey, it's me too.
I don't know why I don't have interest in anything. Neither good at anything. I am talentless too.
I feel a little less alone after watching this
The literal words "passion" and "work" make me wanna throw up.
I despise ppl with passion :D I just can't.they just remind me of how hopeless am I in this world
I was also ashamed I had a woman get frustrated with me when I was in 8th grade I think, she said "just write something down". My family always told me the same thing, to follow what I like or just to get money. I have major depressive disorder and I am on medication and stuff but life is so hard a lot. I work at a dollar store in a small town with like no young people or anything to do. It is depressing in its own way. I have never felt special and have a ton of self hate. I am not sure what to go out and do though... small town
yeah im trash at everything but also im poor so its hard to get a job or have money to even start to do anything, its a viscous cycle.
i wish i was good a artist or musician. I love music and Have amazing images in my head but no talent whatsoever to make them come to life. Urghhhh
I totally relate. However, in my case I love public speaking and writing. But I have zero skill, zero knowledge and zero courage.
The thing is I feel this way and I don't have a comfort zone even when I try everything I still feel untalented or uninterested and I feel like I'm waisting others time.
Thanks for watching my first video 😊 I'd love to hear ANY feedback, and criticism is welcomed :) Please leave a comment and hit the like button if you want to show encouragement, and subscribe for further content ❤️
This is refreshing, not a lot of people talk about your point of vue I think many people can relate ~
thank you so much Tinaa 😘
What about when you dedicate time blood and tears into something or multiple things…and it never works out. I think that’s worse than not having a passion/talent. Just a waste of space.
I am average at studies, I don't know dance, singing, drawing, not pretty either.
No fashion sense, makeup too
I can't finish work I start.
Has no passion, talent.
I am currently MA english student.
Don't know how I will I end in life.
Thank you! I'm about to finish high school and thinking about the future stresses me out. Ive never been passionate bout anything. The get of your comfort zone tip made me realize how much of a routine i have.
This video really helps me to cheer myself up for a bit. But due to Covid19 situation in my country (Thailand) I can’t do anything even going outside. I just graduated from college and I can’t find a job that I could possibly do and additionally my passion is getting lower and lower. I try to do different things as many as I can to keep things up but yes I can’t focus on them for long, there is sth in my mind like ‘what is the point for doing all of this? What is my goal? Am I gain anything useful here?’ I feel hating my life and have anger towards my country’s government as well. Just want to share, at least to relieve myself for a bit. Thank you.
I have finally found my people
i have plenty of talents, but i wanna help my bf who seems to be giving up bcuz he has no talent
@@nellrastelli237 i will. and i hope he agrees. thanks! :)
Thankyou very much.
Did she say she took on an internship as a coder when she had no idea to code? So, did she just bludge and let the other interns do all the work?
I don’t think it’s shame in not having a passion or talent . Honestly the societies we inhabit push a narrative on us to be “passionate” I simply want to live & accept that . Idc about so called “passion” , I do have talents but it isn’t like other people can’t learn to possess talents . We all have abilities , I believe just being happy to be alive is a blessing in itself . You’re truly content to live , that’s all that matters to me.
My life is a motherfucking mess
I’m almost 15M and I know I have time to figure out a passion, but all of my friends have found out some kind of passion. I have friends who are passionate in sports, cooking, and “studying” I guess. The only thing I can say that I’m slightly passionate in is soccer but I’ve been playing for 9-10 years and still can’t get past the barrier of skill I’ve reached. It’s like this with most things I’ve done, I reach a skill level and it feels like there’s a cap at the skill. I had my first two soccer games this week and I just didn’t look forward to it like my other teammates. I play defense and I tried as hard as I could but I just couldn’t play good, it was probably the worst game I’ve ever played
I also have friend who just are instantly good at things, especially when it comes to video games, I’lol introduce them to a game that I find kinda fun and they’ll pass me in skill with in a day of grinding and I don’t get how they do it. It’s the same way with sports my new teammates that just started playing soccer are already on Varsity and I could barely make it to JV
I really wanna be a soloist and i wanna be an Artist.. because everyone saying I'm good at drawing, but I'm in interested in drawing and music.. but i Don't know which one is really my passion
You just have more than one interest
Back ground music is good
My English is not very fluently
So I am trying to understand what you mean
But I feel good about this video
Great video, Your amazing!
keep uploading i will support your vids
IT undergraduate here. Hello fellow CS student. If it makes you sny better I‘ll tell you the day I felt shitty and pity at the sametime about my self. After a lot of thinking posted a poem to uni blog on FB and got one like, the like we got from creator of the blog. Others have a handful of likes for their posts ( we all posted same day ,same time for a special event.) So now it is in the main page of blog to everyone to see and none of my batch mates dont like it ,it seems.Feeling down and hopeless because this is one of the rarest times I come out to the light . Have a good day and you are not alone.Be happy dont worry
I think most people seeking out this video are at a point where they have no starting point. She has a degree in Computer Science, so obviously there was a smidge of passion to have her achieve that goal. She claims to hate her CS degree...she gets an internship, then she travels abroad, then she ends up liking the job. I feel like this is a regular story of most younger successful people in the tech world. I glad she was successful and I am sure she worked hard. But I feel like the passionless person, probably doesnt have a degree, doesnt have the money for a degree, cant take the risk to afford a degree. All I take away is... Get a CS degree and everything will work out. It just seemed like a normal path... college, internship, study abroad. She will probably end up making 6 figures somewhere, quit, have that experience and degree in her back pocket...Travel more, because she can afford it and then go back to another CS field. I sound bitter and jealous, Honestly I am. I have no passion, All I see is, get into CS or coding or data analytics. Im struggling. Im open to feed back. Plus shes a good looking person, which statistically helps people. A bit of rant, I apologize but this advice seems conventional and forgettable.
I absolutely hated my CS minor and only got it to increase my chances of getting employed. I'm not doing coding for work although there's a voice in me that wants to become a SWE one day just so that I can be at peace with myself. It's silly but that's truly how I feel because it's something that I'm so uncomfortable with. I still don't have a "passion" but I do enjoy my work. It's taken me awhile to get here and all that I can say is that any experience compounds, you just have to get outside of your comfort zone and do that thing - wtv it is, and honestly it's "easier" for me when I don't have a passion, so everything is equal, and of course I'll pick wtv the hot industry is at the moment. Yes I was privileged to have lived in Quebec where I paid minimum tuition. Agreed that not everyone can afford that especially in the US. But there are so many free ways of learning, and I know it's not what you want to hear but if I couldn't get a degree I'd still be teaching myself to code with free resources despite hating it so much - and that's only because I'm a young and naive and value the conventional social status and career and the typical "success". If I was broke and had a passion, I'd pursue that passion. If I was broke period, I'd just work hard towards wtv will bring me the money first. I def don't encourage everyone to go code, but for people who are lost it might open up some doors. But again - this is only if you're like me and want to get into tech/live in the bay area/make money to travel/all that cliche. I guess a more generalized advice would be the book "So Good They Can't Ignore You" by Cal Newport. (don't think i mentioned it in this video, it's been so long) It talks about the trap of the passion mindset and honestly has helped me a lot. But anyway thanks for watching and commenting I had forgotten that I posted this video and have grown quite a bit since then :) but I do acknowledge that I'm extremely privileged and still live in a bubble. So if you want to chat/rant/criticize further I'd actually love to talk more on IG @wayofx. Again, agree with you that wtv advice I gave in the video (i dont remember and it's too cringe to rewatch) certainly does not apply to everyone and comes from a privileged place with a narrow mindset 😬
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Paid internship or no?
The reason I ask is if it's not paid.. then how is an adult who does NOT have parental financial backing, you don't have the freedom to just go get an internship, or just go travel, sounds like it would be awesome to do.. but I'm about to be 30 and literally struggle with money everyday, so good luck doing all this stuff with bills.
I have a romantic soul. I'm a hikikomori. My only passion is to find a girl who loves me for who I am and everything else will follow after that. I don't wear a mask like most people do, I am always just "me". I don't care what work I will have, as long as I am loved by a girl who will take me out of my comfort zone and show me how to live. I know this will never happen, it is unrealistic, but it is a romantic idea and I can't help but to be a romantic soul. It is who and what I am, and without love I will surely never live, nor would I want to.
Are you Norwegian Ingrid is a Norwegian name lol
great, but didn't help, sounds dreadful
Become a rapper.