EP 1 - Lesbian Dating Scene in KL

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  • @Val-vv6es
    @Val-vv6es ปีที่แล้ว +118

    nothing could've prepared me for "and y'all don't go to therapy cause y'all can't afford it cause y'all are baristas"

  • @BeeTrueBaker
    @BeeTrueBaker ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Just started listening but ahhhh! I grew up in Malaysia and it’s SO NICE hearing people talk about being gay with that accent! I’m so used to being surrounded by American or British queer voices, this just…I dunno, it feels very special to me 💛

  • @destinye.c.8862
    @destinye.c.8862 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I'm a lesbian from the US! Thank you so much for bringing perspectives from KL. Love the no shits given throughout the episode lol. I'm looking forward to listening to more episodes!

    • @TheOatmilkLesbians
      @TheOatmilkLesbians  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thank you for the support from all the way, love to you! ❤️

    • @jayavirakristhina1433
      @jayavirakristhina1433 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi in like need fine lesbiyan women eldar friend you can help me please...!

  • @Andrea-es7gl
    @Andrea-es7gl ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Can't wait for more! It's really nice to finally find a community within KL : )

  • @olgaholguin6339
    @olgaholguin6339 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi ladies. Thank for your podcast. I am a 71yr old lesbian. I've never dated or been with men. My pardner and I were together for 38 yrs til she passed away. After 7 years being single. I have met someone and we have been together 11 months for now. So far so good. Each day I love her more and more. I do not fool around with others. For what it's worth. I am from Texas.

  • @comfycozylunar
    @comfycozylunar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I thank the algorithm for putting this podcast in my feed! I'm a Hispanic lesbian woman from South Tx and have been wanting opportunities to hear thoughts, opinions, and experiences from other Lesbians no matter where they're from. One of my exes was Chinese Malaysian and lives in KL. The relationship happened years ago so it feels very surreal to hear about the community over there again after a long time! I'm looking forward to the rest of the episodes. So far I'm resonating with how honest, grounded, and real you both seem. I'm also a fellow Pisces venus 💗

  • @wm604
    @wm604 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    as a Gay™ in KL, it's very interesting to hear about what goes on on the other side !! (and there are some differences but also so many similarities between gay and lesbian dating lmao)

  • @silvermochi3273
    @silvermochi3273 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hell yeah finally lesbian content from Malaysia 😭❣️my bi ass couldn't be more happier y'all rock

  • @santhavytan6067
    @santhavytan6067 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That’s all lesbian communities everywhere. My partner and I have been together for 12 years. Each day our relationship gets stronger. So there is hope!!!

  • @coffeeadct3860
    @coffeeadct3860 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Can't wait to hear more! Perhaps u can talk about how to enter the dating scene/lesbian community next? It would be really helpful to newbies like me who are blur af

  • @nyakwada
    @nyakwada ปีที่แล้ว +2

    10 minutes in and I'm loving it. Thanks to your tiktok channel, I've found good content to listen to.

  • @blyke5701
    @blyke5701 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This was the realest shit I've ever heard in the lesbian community ngl 💀💀💀✋ I couldn't stop cackling

  • @emmahudson4931
    @emmahudson4931 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I haven’t laughed out loud in so long from a video. I love it! ❤

  • @Mindfuq89
    @Mindfuq89 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    As a KL lesbian, I'm actually quite afraid to start dating again coz of what I witness/hear from my friends. Been single since 2019. I've dated 2 women, one in 2022 and one in 2023 but it didn't last coz both went back to their exes, I was just a bandaid ig. Plus they were both non-Malaysians so I do agree the lesbian culture is a worldwide thing. But, I'm still hopeful to finding love again one day 😊 looking forward to more episodes!

  • @cherylfoo3699
    @cherylfoo3699 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’ve been waiting for content like this✨✨🙌🏻🙌🏻 can’t wait for your next video!!

  • @yomm1e207
    @yomm1e207 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow, legit just shocking that this is whats going on for KL lesbian , I honestly legit thought that lesbians are doing better but it just kinda open my eyes that some are just going person and another just to trauma dump. I know some of my gay friends are doing well in their relationship but this just comes to show that if your goal is just to jizz your partner and be toxic to them, might as well call them out for it lmao but anyway i love you guys already and i cant wait for more of your podcast

  • @lynaa_8348
    @lynaa_8348 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    first 2 mins in and I'm already liking this people. They're calling us out 😂

  • @kaylablackston4493
    @kaylablackston4493 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    God I wish dating women was more simple 😂😅 I'm a traditional dater. I want to court my partner and get to know them! In today's culture you can't find that! 😢 I don't like sleeping around. I'm celebate atp.😂
    I'm not even in KL. It's happening everywhere 😂😢😂😢

  • @agustinalee9592
    @agustinalee9592 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im in Malaysia Now. I understand how Lonely it is being L here

  • @susualiy4265
    @susualiy4265 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Was hoping lesbians dating elsewhere would be different but it seems we all are the same 😅

  • @azcdtixs
    @azcdtixs 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As a sarawakian lesbian its harsh here fr

  • @nhuhoang3756
    @nhuhoang3756 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Do more. I relate so much 😭

    • @TheOatmilkLesbians
      @TheOatmilkLesbians  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      thank you for your support! we hope you enjoy our next episodes 🥰

  • @jr8352
    @jr8352 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Speaking of long term relationships, I wonder if the fact that it is still illegal in many countries and just became legal in others, if that has had some effect(maybe even subconsciously).

  • @GirlsLovebyFlo
    @GirlsLovebyFlo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Looks like the dating pool in KV didn't change much from when I first heard of it. That traumatised me in my 20s. As much as I wish to explore, I pretty much find it intimidating.

  • @trrshaa
    @trrshaa ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i LOVE this wtf thank u ❤ lesbians stick w lesbians 4 life

  • @wansinglee2770
    @wansinglee2770 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the content!♥️

  • @mygshdw
    @mygshdw ปีที่แล้ว +2

    def a zoe stan acc now!

  • @adelineteh5636
    @adelineteh5636 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do more just let people open their mind we are in love with woman equal,we are no harm love is love no one going to change us

  • @zhongzhenpronouncedassciss7060
    @zhongzhenpronouncedassciss7060 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love my gf so much, ngl like you said we became low-key ever since we started dating

  • @sleepymindcrw6435
    @sleepymindcrw6435 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Keep posting yeahh

  • @michellebong1176
    @michellebong1176 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Entertaining content. I am curious are you guys a late bloomer or can you guys share how was the revelation? Was there any denial phase?

    • @TheOatmilkLesbians
      @TheOatmilkLesbians  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      thank you for your support! 🥰 i think for us we’re relatively young, we were out in our early 20s. but of course there was still some denial that happened earlier. we’ll be releasing an episode on this soon, stay tuned!

  • @jl1232
    @jl1232 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE IT! Give us more❤❤❤

  • @camz397
    @camz397 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    u guys just ATE

  • @fx2498
    @fx2498 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Definitely haven’t recycled partners among my lesbian circle 😂 but I was in a 5 year relationship, it can happen. And I’m a banana lesbian 😭

  • @gin5895
    @gin5895 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOVE THIS !!!❤❤❤

  • @yasminefoong378
    @yasminefoong378 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m lucky I never had drama but I heard a lot and they listed all 😢

  • @SisiphoAmelieLeeZinja
    @SisiphoAmelieLeeZinja ปีที่แล้ว +1

    STANDING OVATION BC WHAT IS UP WITH LESBIANS LATELY? LIKE DAMN 🤣🤣🤣😭

  • @sarahkar2694
    @sarahkar2694 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Banana lesbian reporting in 🤚🏼

  • @NeekieBonakdar
    @NeekieBonakdar ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am from the U.S. and I am so confused as to what “banana lesbian” means 😭 can somebody pls explain?

    • @TheOatmilkLesbians
      @TheOatmilkLesbians  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      banana lesbians actually mean chinese lesbians who mainly speak english, but in our context we use it to mean all lesbians in kl who mainly speak english!

  • @themrdevil12345
    @themrdevil12345 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I stan this!

  • @susualiy4265
    @susualiy4265 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think the lessons you learned is what u gained in the end no?

  • @michellelum890
    @michellelum890 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love me a feisty fact spitting Zoe 😍

  • @girliGuess
    @girliGuess ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Newbie - where is KL??

  • @cassydave3905
    @cassydave3905 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

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    @creationsfldotcom ปีที่แล้ว

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