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Anytime fitness can go to different outlet to use machines/ weights but zumba/yoga/others classes will be in main gym. If you are reading this : For the 40ish lady : I am wishing that you can love yourself❤. Your value of self is how you treat and identify yourself. People will like your genuinity and sometimes the laidback qualities cause some people are always anxious and they will admire that skill of urs. I had issues on making friends at first. Tips to make friends : 1) look upon your hobbies/liking- find people similar events (Jazz music) 2) go talk on other creator online streams if insecure can hide face 3) find your values and vision of self , then slowly same vibes friend will come 40 ish year could make you feel anxious about not being with a partner. But imagine the cost of having a wrong relationship, the trauma can lingers. So think twice about relationships cause it sounds like you just wish to experience rs. One step at a time : we can’t guarantee a person will love you deeply always but we can always guarantee that there is people who love u deeply. 🎉 all the best !

whoever called zoe ugly you will start coughing in 7 days

happy to say my coming-out story had a happy ending even though I thought I'd see God afterwards if I told my mom. Of course she didn't believe me when I said I'm a lesbian, and she even said no, you're not a lesbian, and you don't even dress up as a girl or do makeup 😂😂 Anyway, we talked for awhile, and she did understand and accept me in the end.

Human are getting worse morally..please wake-up and seek for guidance

you can be asexual and enjoy sex just as a pleasurable physical act, asexual just means they're not attracted sexually to specific people. and it's a spectrum of course. so it could be that the person wants to have sex without attraction to the person, but it sounded more to me like maybe they're on the aromantic spectrum and the attraction to the exes was sexual, not romantic

To the woman in her 40’s, do you realize how many queer women are ~obsessed~ with older women? Look for late bloomers in their 30’s. They’re a little younger and will help you feel a little younger as well.

Very nervous to do this because I had no plans of outting myself what so ever.... I was the first story the gym story But do feel I should clarifying things. I never quit my fitness journey. It did get somewhat wonky due to depression, but I didn't quit. To clarify I was going to two gyms. One was your normal what you guys were talking about. Like an anytime fitness. Weights, cardio, ect. The gym I quit was a kickboxing gym. The kickboxing gym was also very family minded. We went out together. Several group chats. Ect. So when I quit the first time people kept asking me to come back. Because outside of her I had a LOT of friends there. (I still get asked now to come back, but I won't.) I DID quit my kickboxing journey. I felt kickboxing as a whole was just going to upset me so I just stuck with a regular gym. The reason why I couldn't avoid her were two reasons. I have a very consistent schedule of going to the gym. That pretty much doesn't change. I'm wasn't veering that for anyone because if I shift my schedule everything else surrounding it gets shifted and it's not good for me in the long run. I have too much stuff to do. (24 hours is not enough in a day 🙃) I always go after work. This wasn't a go in and out at any time this was a classes were at 5, 6, 7 and so on. I had a hard time avoiding her because she was an instructor. I did not know her schedule. It always changed with the exception of Fridays. Fridays were pretty consistent with her. That was the day I got to talk 1 on 1 with her for a while (except after I confessed to her and I couldn't anymore) So it was basically a luck of the draw when I went in. I DID start going to 5am clases because only ONE specific instructor taught that class. One day I guess that instructor was sick and SHE (the girl I'm in love with) taught it. That lead to the events of me quitting. I got 20 minutes into the workout, left, and cried. Regarding her girlfriend being on the phone when I confessed I forgot to add I did NOT know she had a new gf nor did I know she was on the phone with her. Faye I understand where you're coming from as far as you feel she should've talked to me more, but put yourself in her shoes. You just got a girlfriend and the girlfriend overhears someone else confessing their feelings to her. Would you really hang up with your girlfriend and talk to them? She did also shoot me a message checking up on me later to which I kept my response short. Again, making sure I keep my feelings in check and respect her relationship. That aside I was damn near running out the door anyway because I was upset. Regarding why I didn't tell her earlier is because like I said before I don't believe in jumping on people after a breakup. I wasn't sure where she was mentally and didn't want to seem like I was preying on her. NOR did I want to be a rebound. I have HEAVY feelings for this girl. If we were to explore this I need her to have feelings for me too. Or else just turn me down (Like she did). Because I love very hard. When I'm in I'm in. Clearing up how she responded I'll be honest I mostly blocked out that night. I know for sure she said more, but the only thing I remember is she said she already knew and she asked me not to quit my kickboxing journey. She promised she wouldn't treat me differently. (She didn't) She did say she wanted us to still be friends like we were before. At first I said that's fine, but as time went on I couldn't. Being at the gym was hard, being out with her with mutual friends was hard. I had started avoiding outtings. Muting group chats. Ect. I did make sure to communicate to her that I was pulling away from her and I needed her to give me space, but that's about it along the lines of us talking. To this day I wish things were different. But they're not. It is what it is. So I'm working on me in the meantime. I don't know if I missed anything that needs clarification. Hopefully I caught it all. Also, just in case this comes up you got both of our signs wrong lol. Which is why I personally don't follow that stuff super closely, but that's a rant for another day. An update on the situation she no longer lives in this state. She left to be with her gf and I will be leaving soon too. She embarrassingly was the only thing keeping me here. So I've decided in order to heal I need to leave the state I was ready to leave years ago. I don't know anything about her other than she left Texas to be with her gf. That information was also unfortunately forced upon me (Just a reminder I don't have her on social media... But does social media care? Of course not 😑. It'll put stuff in your feed anyway) The whole dream thing has still been occurring, but I'm just trying to heal and make the best of this situation because I want to be happy again. Anyway sorry for the long comment. 😬 Again I hope this clears things up.

stop if someone said “good luck with your future” after i confessed my feelings for them i would end it all immediately 😭

This was fun. Yea, if it's meant to be the stars will align . Until then focus on yourself.

I love y'all content , and yeah I can be reserved or outgoing depending on the space/ ppl. But I I just been focusing on having fun and not being so serious all the time. I don't like sharing my person, all their love gotta be mine.

I think the real issue is that Sapphic people expect the 'LESBIAN masterdoc' to be specifically inclusive to them. This doc wasn’t written to explain bisexuality or pansexuality; it was specifically written to help queer women dealing with comphet to better understand if they are actually attracted to men or not. As somebody raised with an extremely misogynistic and homophobic father and a very religious mother, I was always told that my future relationships would be with men, but any time I tried to be intimate with a man, I just couldn't, my body would shut down, but the patriarchal society I was raised in did not allow me to even consider the very obvious truth that I am & have always been a lesbian. I read the masterdoc back when I thought I was bisexual & it forced me to reflect on my lack of attraction to men. Without this doc, I would've refused to ever admit the truth to myself, as I was dealing with so much internalized misogyny and homophobia passed on to me by my parents. There's a reason it's called The Lesbian Masterdoc and not The Bisexual Masterdoc. If you feel excluded as a bisexual, that's probably because it wasn't written with you in mind. It's for people who can't shake off the feeling that deep down that they are a lesbian.

The Emily story is so interesting 😂, bad straight boss. What's wrong with all the straight people??

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The boss one is giving workplace SH, likeeee 😑😑😑

the taxi gay realisation is so cute. I love these stories.

omg zack bia right?? he also cheated on olivia rodrigo that’s who her song vampire is supposedly about idk how he’s constantly getting the most beautiful women in the world looking like that and then still cheating on them like he’s literally worse than mid 🥴

Oh idk why i just found you guys. So good 🙌

Omgggg the boss story is a lesbian panic attack 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭

Vaping on video??? Big no for me.

well that was frustrating except the last one

Good episode. Thanks. Twitch stream on Sunday!

all the profanities does not really makes an interesting podcast, and sure dun makes anyone anymore swag nor trend

cries in Gemini. 😭😭😭

Tiada mendung, hujan pun turun...

so unrelated to the content of the video but i always love Fay's tops

The movie Faye mentioned about the girl being found giving oral in the backseat of a car is called The Miseducation of Cameron Post. Also, the comedian Mae Martin is bisexual and non-binary.

Faye pose toujours les bonnes questions au bon moment 👌 52:00 1:05:56 😂

Lavender is known for its queer connotation because in the late 19th & early 20th century, lavender flowers were a subtle signifier of a person's queerness. If a man or woman had a lavender on their lapel it was a symbol to other queer people, that the person had same sex attractions. Also, at least, here in America, the 'Lavender Scare' was a conservative discrimination fear tactic that insisted the queer community was an expanding threat to the majority straight population, resulting in queer people being fired.

haha this ep is hilarious!

I love this episode , pls do more episodes like this ❤

Algorithm I thank you for bringing this video liked, shared, subscribed and bell what what clicked

I saw "oatmilk lesbians" and immediately subscribed 😂❤

Ok, just because I love this game. U-Hauling can be bad if you suck at picking out partners (or if you are a bad partner). Nothing fixes serial monogamists. It can: Demonstrate Commitment: The act of moving in together often signifies a serious commitment and a desire to build a life together. U-Hauling can be seen as a tangible step towards solidifying the relationship. Accelerate Intimacy and Bonding: Sharing a living space fosters a deeper level of intimacy and understanding. Couples learn each other's habits, routines, and quirks, which can lead to stronger bonds and a greater sense of partnership. Facilitate Shared Goals and Dreams: Living together allows couples to work towards shared goals and dreams more effectively. Whether it's saving for a house, starting a family, or pursuing career aspirations, cohabitating can make these goals feel more attainable. I would also say this is an excellent way to filter out people who will never be able to commit. Dating them may or may not show their true colors, but living with them will trigger all their traumas and cause them to act out if they are going to. For the right person/wrong time or wrong person/right time, time changes everyone, so if you change the time, you change the person. Probably the number one reason couples break up when they are both healthy functional adults is that both people changed. If you ever come across an ex in a happy functioning relationship with someone 10 years later, they are no longer the person you were with. Polycule is not defendable, but polyamory might be. It is theoretically possible to have 3 people with a particular dynamic that allows them to be in just as committed relationship to each other as two people. These would be three extremely evolved individuals that would have to have a deep kind of love for each other based on something more than just romantic love though. This has the potential to last far longer than any two person relationship if the dynamic is right. Essentially, you have the throuple relationship with one dynamic, but then you also have two independent relationships inside that that have to not only not complicate the throuple dynamic, but compliment it. Most people are not capable of having just a two person relationship for very long without complicating it. Hell most people don't have a good relationship with themselves. If you can't date someone who is already your friend, you probably shouldn't be dating anyone. Before you have any other kind of relationship with someone, you must first at least be friends. Eliminating your friend (assuming they are compatible with you romantically to start with and are interested) is probably a sign that you fear intimacy and commitment. 10 years younger only really works if the rocks in one person's head fits the holes in the other's. A bit part of the relationship has to be based on both people wanting that differential power dynamic. Assuming everyone is older than 25, this can work, in fact, I have seen numbers where this is increasing in heterosexual relationships driven largely by economic concerns of having families. Women graduating college looking for guys in their 30's.

this was hilarious

No feelings were hurt during the making of this episode.

Lesbian podcast in car so cool yes we all laywer women wrong is women right hahahaha

24, never been in a romantic/sexual relationship and one of my favourite things about it is that i developed a loving and intimate relationship with my body (and myself in general), which feels really special and beautiful

I really like the colours as well

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Also what we learn is faye can be a really good manipulator lol

The way that they are defending things they never will agree on in real life

Love watching u lesbian divas💞💘

thanks for episode!!

I loved all these topics, such funny episode, love your chemistry

Zoe: does this mean you kiss your friend Fay: yeah 🤷‍♀️ Zoe: is that y u kissed me last night Everyone abruptly laughs historically

lol i've never dated straight women but i still don't know that they're attracted to me. they're attracted to women but they're not attracted to every woman. my ex switched her meds and suddenly everything i did was annoying so

Great episode 😂

please consider the main reason the tomboy expresses themselves. This way is not to attract women or to make a statement for other women, but to be unattractive to men being unattractive to men is more important than being sexy for women because if the men would leave them alone, then they can make money otherwise men would be bothering them.

I hate it when people use neurodivergence to make random traits appear to correlate with a specific diagnosis. It's literally the same abelist rhetoric that's used to justify euthanizing the neurodivergent/mentally ill people who don't have those "positive" traits (example: dumb/weird autistics; inattentive/lazy ADHDers; untalented/uncreative people with bipolar disorder/anxiety/depression). Like can I live without having to justify being disabled and liking myself despite being a loser??? I know you guys were just trying to be positive but my insecurity around struggling to be consistent in doing ANYTHING with my ADHD makes it difficult for me to have hope that I'm actually capable of accomplishing goals that positively impact my life in the long run. Did my ADHD make me smarter/creative or was I so embarrassed about struggling with small mundane tasks that I tried to overcompensate in other ways???

love you both so much