I've been at some weird point in my life for far too long. It feels like a limbo state. It's between the person I was, and the person I want to be. And yet, I still hold onto the mindless habit of numbing my mind with distractions. Specifically, I scroll the internet for like 3hrs a day. It almost feels like an intentional form of self harm, to be aware of this yet to keep on doing it. I'll take this as a sign that I seriously need to quit. It's not like I even like doing it anymore anyway. The algorithm already gave me the best channel on TH-cam anyway loll. With the best subscribers, too. Most of them are SO kind, and I'm so grateful I found this little corner of the internet ❤
Remarkable, you are aware of what you are doing, what you need or would like to do, and yet still do nothing. I always say if you want something bad, enough you will do it, nothing and no one can stop you. We only regret the things we have not done. Something is holding you back, ask yourself what is the pay off that you are getting by not moving forward? Change can be scary, it is a lot of work, we often worry remain unhappy by not doing anything staying in a familiar situation is more comforting and safer than facing the unknown. We often complicate things by thinking too much, we talk ourselves out of the best things we can do for ourselves by not having enough faith in our ability to succeed fear of failure so we hesitate and give up even before we start, when the rewards of accomplishment you achieve could be priceless. By not moving forward, I can hear some disappointment and frustration; you are beating yourself up more than you need to. Be supportive and kind to yourself as you are with others. Once you decide to take some action, you will experience many wonderful positive emotions that will surprise and motivate you. Wish you the best
@@Cy4nSw4n take one small step of action each day towards your goal… also stop self obsessing and find things to do for others. In some time, you’ll see a lot of progress made
This describes me from September 1st. Bizarrely the start of the new month put a spoke in my wheel and left me in this state of limbo, like permanently high.
I'm having my lunch in the stairwell at work while watching this. The group gets uncomfortable when I do this. I struggle to be a part of the group mind, all day long. Simply thinking of my own thoughts or taking time to learn something in this half an hour, keeps me centered. I really enjoy your channel. Thank you!
I've done it alone for many years. In highschool I would sit in the library and eat my lunch. Same at work, it's ok being alone when you get used to it.
This video is art itself. The background voice, noise of footsteps, the greenery , and then the narrator who himself is a specimen of a man, speaking words that are deep , helpful and comforting.. i mean, its free therapy in some sort of live art museum
Nietzsche said "No price is too high to pay for the privilege of owing yourself" And the only way to own yourself is to be by yourself. Solitude is a virtue. Thank you for sharing this wisdom 🙏
Pretty. I fell in love with a girl a while ago that had me turning inside-out. Once things fell through, a PJ Harvey lyrics was really resonated with me; "Let me ride on his ('her' in my case) grace for a while..." relating the depression I felt without her. Months later with the love chemicals fading, it's just clear "grace" is ever-present, not within any one thing, goal, or person.
You got me at "it's chilly, slight drizzle. In other words, the weather is perfect" 😆 Now, seriously, what a pleasure to discover somebody who thinks similarly to me about life!
@@afkhoso colleagues and in-laws are a choice, not fate. If they are truly toxic, let them go. Parents , siblings , home , on the other hand, are given by fate / divine providence
Same feeling ; " We are social creatures " - a very common expression held for granted by those who are afraid of loneliness - boils down to (in my perspective) "Misery loves company"
I’m currently in High-school. I’ve struggled for three years with making friends. Everyone around me had their groups and social lives. I made a few acquaintances but they would come and go. I acquired a best friend and maintained it for a whole year. I had to push them away recently as I had out grew a lot of things. I realized I didn’t hate being by myself and that the most growth I had was when I was in my own solitude. I may have had the most social deprived and lamest high school experience but removing myself from the group allowed me to truly grow so much!
I am currently facing the same situation, but it does not create any difference inside me. I feel clueless for being like this. It is important to know what is the best thing to do at the next step. Well, I am on my way right now to creating a better understanding and grow from this.
You're still young. It's good that you've learned this at an early age but please keep in mind that social interaction (+ social skills) and having a few good friends is also healthy, especially long term. A truly good friend is worth their weight in gold. Good luck
every great man in human history every important prophetic / religious figure & every important hero in non fiction spent time in isolation it's the only way to properly grow
I feel i was meant to be a lone wolf. People and crowds give me anxiety and stress. I love my own company. Your voice is pure bliss for my nervous system❤ God bless you . Your just a pure angel ❤
This resonates with me beautifully in terms of where I am in my life right now. I ran away from my problems, from myself, for years, in various ways. I finally am at the point where I’ve realized distraction won’t make me happy. It won’t fix the problems I’ve been running from. Only by confronting myself have I been able to take steps towards genuine peace with and understanding of myself. Truly, the only way out is through. Each time you sit with yourself, you take steps towards genuine happiness and connection. It won’t always be easy. You won’t suddenly be at peace all the time. But you will be able to slowly and steadily forge a new, more fulfilling path forward. Thank you for sharing :)
It’s a journey. My ‘run away from problems’ was literally running away from my family of origin to escape narcissist abuse. I didn’t figure this out for decades. Once you understand, and accept where the sharp edges are, you can learn to sit with it, and shift that feeling. Any shift is good imo.
It felt like I was walking through the forest with you How calming nature is. It brings us back into the moment of self awareness and truth. Time alone is so precious and enriching.
Im 57 and thought something was wrong with me when i was younger because I liked solitude and nothing bothering me. Now I know what a great gift it has been. Ive watched many people in my life fall apart when they had to be alone for periods of time. Onthe Shortness of Life is my favorite thing ever written by anyone.
that made me tear up a bit, thanks. i was thinking of ending it all, my life i mean. now i'm not going to do it. it's weird how some random video on the internet can save a life
Not random; these ideas are timeless and universal and they are for you as much as they are for me. Thank you for listening to them and please continue to explore them!
You were contemplating suicide, no less! And the message that literally saved your life only made you "tear up a bit"?!?! Wow, your life must be so important to you 🤦
This is what i am doing right now. I am building friendship with my innerself, listening more of my intuition, and only hangout with meaningful connection once in a while with friends and family, like 90% hermit mode 10% out to social life so they still can see my existence.
I've been on a self-discovery journey for the past three years, and some of the greatest moments of enlightenment and rejoice I have experienced in my life began happening when I accepted the complexity of my own thinking and capacity to mutate, to grow, and learn. I embraced "Ordo ab Chao" and "Amor Fati" as my leading principles. From whatever chaos the world may present in my surroundings, I find order because I accept the chaos from its origin, I accept what is and what is not, and I thrive from there. Thank you so much for all the amazing content you give the world. It would be great to learn more about your own work, and research!
"Amor Fati" and "Memento Mori" actually go very well together ; can we see it ? Nothing nihilistic in them, in spite of what most people may pretend, based on fear.
Thank you, introducing me to new philosophers has really helped my life. The pure positivity of Emerson has renewed my faith in the one area I needed it most, humanity! He touches on so many inspirations, but one was that we all have God within ourselves, one who still lives and breathes. Not an old, dead or dying word, from a tired greedy pulpit, but one walking with you hand in hand in the shining sun, feeling the warmth of its rays, step by step.
It has become an obligation for me to sleep while listening to your videos, its so calm, so self reflection! Thank you for making the internet a better place.
True growth begins when you step away from the crowd. As Nietzsche once said, "The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe." By separating yourself, you find clarity, purpose, and the strength to follow your own path.
The ASMR sound good in this is superb! As is his hair! After removing myself from focusing on those two things, I agree- spending time with yourself is hugely beneficial. The only person you can truly rely on is you therefore you need to know yourself and take care of yourself ❤
What a beautiful sentiment...I have been often asked how I like to be solitary...it gives me peace and the ability to reflect on my life and plan for the future..without depending on the opinions or ideas of others....thank you
I just found your channel today. You have no clue how much this subject has been on my mind and what I want to achieve for myself. The title is wonderfully written. Remove myself from the crowd. I understand how important this process will be for me. I feel a strong connection with you on this subject. Thank you, and I'm astounded at how this kind of information appears in my life exactly when I need to hear it. Perfect timing from my spirit guides!
I love that you said, I can’t believe I just said “ content”. The struggle is real. I found you on TH-cam and will likely keep watching and listening to you here. And the reason I enjoy your talks on this platform is that I feel like I’m part of a thoughtful conversation rather than a passive listener - more easily distractible.
loved the background greenery, trees, sounds, very therapeutic walk indeed. really resonated with what you talked about. much appreciated as always. 😉💯
".. ready to go there again and a little further and a little futher.. " I am at a very struggling stage of my life and this videos just gives the best perspective to confront those dark sides of yours and learn to be comfortable with them.
I feel much more relaxed, thank you! 💛 I am struggling with motivation right now. I am learning of being ok with feeling like this. I am in hermit mode and have disabled all the social media , except for TH-cam. Feeling much lighter !
Thank-you for your insights.The importance of solitude is lost on so many.I value those times and understand and need it daily .Your gift, the gift of the ancients is here to remind us, if we allow. To enlighten us, if we allow. Go well in your days.🙏🌏
This popped up on my feed exactly when I needed to hear this. I’ve been on a beautiful yet challenging (at times) introspective journey for the past year. I had a moment today of feeling like I maybe needed the crowd. This helped to reinforce me, that I do not.
Reminds me greatly of some of Epictetus, who’ve I’ve been reading through everyday, where he says that our life is the material we use to create our art of living. Wonderful video friend.
I wholeheartedly appreciate hearing that...I've spent so much time alone, relatively at peace, good to know there's some virtue in it- definitely feel more connected to source.
as someone who is in their own head alot it does bring alot of peace when you ask what is so unbearable right now? nothing. thank you, ive been watching for a couple months now, keep goin
We are such a switched-on society 24/7 information overload where noise is the King! Solitude pleasant escape is essential, people who thrive in solitude can have a greater sense of self awareness. Most of us have parts of ourselves that need to be healed and carry feelings that are insurmountable. Working on it in solitude provides immense peace and comfort. Solitude air of stillness and tranquility can help us explore our thoughts and emotions, help tap into our creativity and explore new ideas, rejuvenate mentally and emotionally, we flourish and grow. Awareness of the finite nature of one’s own existence and the limitations of experiencing only a small portion of the world, realizing that there are countless places, experiences, and perspectives beyond one’s reach. Our desire to be a better version of ourselves, always curious, thirsty for knowledge we gather to watch the intellectual, informative videos you create for us, driven by your values and beliefs. Thank you
I found your channel, or rather your channel found me close to a year ago when I was in a dark place in life. Your videos made me reflect on many things in life and go on a self-healing journey. I am in a much healthier place now, both physically and mentally, but realizing that the work of self-improvement never ends. Thanks to your videos I read and journaled on Aurelius’s Meditations and am now doing the same with Seneca’s letters. So wanted to say thank you for creating something valuable and meaningful in the world and sharing your knowledge and passion for philosophy, because it truly can be a life-changing discovery for everyone. Cheers!
When hearing about the distractions and social norms that take us away from who we essentially are, I was reminded of a passage in "Histoire du silence" by the French historian Alain Corbin (a favorite of mine): "We speak only in the hours in which we do not live , wrote Maeterlinck, true life, and the only one that leaves any trace, is made only of silence." For those who are interested, Alain Corbin is quoting Maeterlinck's work "Le Trésor des humbles".
New subscriber from watching this video. Thank you for this message. Solitude is delicious, but like everything, it will get old too. I’ve been on this spiritual journey since 2010, and there are days when I feel like I need to go out and connect with people, but a few hours later, I’m dying to get back to my room/ house etc, to be alone again 😆🙏🏼… blessings and greetings from California
Beautiful video! Great points and very well articulated as usual! It is definitely something that I think a lot of people need to embrace more. Allowing themselves to experience all that this human life has to offer ! It's often the things that people avoid the most that will fuel their transformation the most too ! Apprectiate the content. It's needed !
I've been somewhat of a hermit for most of my life, but especially since 2017. Thanks for reminding me that this time solo has been useful. I feel as an introvert, I was taught that I should be more extraverted. So I kept telling myself that I should be more social. Yet I can accomplish much more by myself, or sometimes with just with one or two people. I have learned to rely on my own self-love and self-care as my main sources. I find your videos relaxing and grounding. Your voice and presence are calming, and I enjoy the wisdom you share. 💚🙏
Very profound ideas in this video that I appreciate greatly for you bringing them to my attention - however, the "I can't believe I just said content." at the end was a real treat.
Your videos explain my way of moving through the world. It’s taken me hundreds of hours in silent contemplation and moments void of thought but I am in a place of neutrality and peace. Thank you for sharing this insightful, useful information at a comfortable pace. The last year of my life has been extremely enriching as I no longer give in to other’s requests. I use to give away my energy and have nothing left for myself. Now, I graciously decline invitations because I am benefitting so much from my free time alone. My life is organically shifting for the better with surprisingly little effort. Making healthy choices is a no brainer. The present is a treasure trove of self discovery and personal evolution. Being in silent stillness sparks ideas and inspiration. Be well, friends and Thank You for reading ✨
I love your videos, i love this channel and the community and i'd love to meet the kind of people who also watch your videos but in real life and have a nice talk
I have a highly stressful event this Sunday for a program I’ve started, and I’ve found myself absolutely glued to my phone (while anxiety insidiously mounts) with distractions, albeit sprinkled with moments of addressing the task, but nevertheless fewer than ideal. Now I know why…thank you. The stronger you train the muscle that helps you confront discomfort, the more we can effectively navigate these important moments.
Sitting in a crowd at an airport, getting goosebumps halfway through the video because I'm engrossed in your message. Thank you for these videos man, I really appreciate them, especially at this time in my life. Much love and excited to follow the Insta account!
Time, space, nourishment & love are the greatest gifts we can give to ourselves to learn from the past, to be in the present & to prepare for the future. This true full inhabitant liver of Life thanks you for your powerful message. ✨🌲🍂🌑🌙⭐️☀️✨
I randomly stumbled on your video and felt the urge to put my two cents to it. Firstly, I was very delighted about your precise share of mixed wisdom from the stoics and yourself. Seems like you have been going through some stuff and you are challenging the way of life. Not just accepting it the way it’s presented to us. To my share: I have been depriving myself from basically all my connections, for many months now.(for different reasons) I use to be the accommodator and loved hosting people with my pleasing and generous persona. Today I am very happy to be with myself and find it difficult to connect with people. I kinda alienated myself from society. Also I am transitioning from middle class and artistry, to the higher society, since I have intention to create a business. So my playground became hotels like The Ritz, or Hilton. What’s interesting is, people seem to quickly figure out that I am not belonging in there. Every time I become the Center of attention, and it seems that people try with active manipulation(noise) to make me conform to their beliefs. It’s quite judging and heartless and in my opinion flawed as much as the middle class. (Just nicely packaged ) Though, it’s not bothering me, I even thrive on that and become pretty much always the most interesting/confident person in the room. Downside: That awakens my arrogant side (for protection) Once reached that point, it’s hard to get an eye for the people with the heart at the right spot and that carries on, even outside of the hotels. That’s the cause for my alienation, I have trouble to recognise “my people “, or I have become hesitant on approaching someone, to not get another disappointment. I clearly see that the majority of the people has lost touch to themselves and connecting on a deeper level would be nearly impossible. So that makes my search for a business partner 99% harder by feel. I think even if there were 100 people in the room, it would be probably hard to find one person which is a perfect match. Since I am not just after money and I don’t want to connect with people which are actively playing zero sum. I guess what I desire is basically family, which are unquestionably loyal and vice versa. Something people have lost faith in by the feel of my observations. Reading through my own comment, gives me the feeling of a victim mindset. Something must change, that’s certain. I don’t want to blow this more, though I got way more to say about what has been going on. Grateful for your content and time if you read through my “two cents”
I must thank the algorithm for recommending me your video now having returned from a hard day of work, not because of my teaching duties, not at all, but it was made all the harder having heard news of my Italian grandmother being released from Alzheimers and she has been returned as our beloved Epictetus says. I had written a letter to her a few weeks ago inspired by Seneca's Letters. I did not do enough in my life to help her, but as Seneca says "You cannot choose your [grand]parents, but you can choose to be the [grand]child that you would want." Thank you again for reminding me of the value of Seneca and the Stoics who if not physically with us, they are still alive with us in the writings they lovingly provided for us. Carla too is still alive and well in the logos. Her memory and her legacy will live on even if her physical body has decayed.
I remember a year ago when my husband traveled, and I stayed home alone for six weeks. While I wasn't completely isolated-I still went to the gym and did groceries-I spent most of the time by myself. It turned out to be a blessing. Although it felt overwhelming at first, I had trauma to work through, and I allowed my thoughts and feelings to flow without judgment. During that time, I felt closer to God than ever. Being with your own thoughts is nowadays a luxury and if you feel scared, go for it!
I got goose bumps cause this is how I am living RIGHT NOW! I still work BUT! Not in town I feel like I am at the edge of the world! My Day by day are so LIVE. FUC THE MOVIES AND SHIT DISTRACTIONS! Yes the employ people but its,just a distraction like addiction get it! This guy has it! Thanks SO much - People don’t pay attention enough to nothing.
I’ve been trying to focus on my work. Life is very short, but you should enable yourself to know your path and the direction by which you can keep yourself going. Spirit and calmness, spend time with yourself, and don’t let the weight of the world, dictate your thoughts and your feelings and allow you to be lead astray, and feel powerless, upset, annoyed, all of these things that are acting forces against you that you have the power to say these things are not they are not me They are outside and they are not me. Allow yourself to be on the right path and enable yourself to know that which is right and feeling true honest and a sense of joy and livelihood. Don’t allow a distractions of the past to dismantle the present, the present is precious moment that is yours, and yours alone, that is sacred to you and is right here right now
I’m loving your videos. I’m learning loads. Thank you so much from England! I’d love to learn more about your learnings with regard to enduring grief and loss. Especially when it’s with regard to a sudden or tragic loss of a loved one. I know these amazing thinkers you’re teaching us about must have had helpful things to say. Wishing you great success with your channnel x
I've been at some weird point in my life for far too long. It feels like a limbo state. It's between the person I was, and the person I want to be. And yet, I still hold onto the mindless habit of numbing my mind with distractions.
Specifically, I scroll the internet for like 3hrs a day. It almost feels like an intentional form of self harm, to be aware of this yet to keep on doing it.
I'll take this as a sign that I seriously need to quit. It's not like I even like doing it anymore anyway. The algorithm already gave me the best channel on TH-cam anyway loll. With the best subscribers, too. Most of them are SO kind, and I'm so grateful I found this little corner of the internet ❤
Remarkable, you are aware of what you are doing, what you need or would like to do, and yet still do nothing.
I always say if you want something bad, enough you will do it, nothing and no one can stop you.
We only regret the things we have not done.
Something is holding you back, ask yourself what is the pay off that you are getting by not moving forward? Change can be scary, it is a lot of work, we often worry remain unhappy by not doing anything staying in a familiar situation is more comforting and safer than facing the unknown. We often complicate things by thinking too much, we talk ourselves out of the best things we can do for ourselves by not having enough faith in our ability to succeed fear of failure so we hesitate and give up even before we start, when the rewards of accomplishment you achieve could be priceless. By not moving forward, I can hear some disappointment and frustration; you are beating yourself up more than you need to. Be supportive and kind to yourself as you are with others. Once you decide to take some action, you will experience many wonderful positive emotions that will surprise and motivate you.
Wish you the best
@@Cy4nSw4n take one small step of action each day towards your goal… also stop self obsessing and find things to do for others. In some time, you’ll see a lot of progress made
This describes me from September 1st. Bizarrely the start of the new month put a spoke in my wheel and left me in this state of limbo, like permanently high.
@@EMartones Thank you very much ❤️
Im in the same boat as you, I'm 22 years old and I started to feel like this gradually at some point in the last year
“Wherever the crowd goes, run in the other direction. They're always wrong.” ~ Charles Bukowski.
❤
Crowds can be overwhelming if they’re chaotic.
When you truly face yourself daily - you make a friend for life.
I'm having my lunch in the stairwell at work while watching this. The group gets uncomfortable when I do this. I struggle to be a part of the group mind, all day long. Simply thinking of my own thoughts or taking time to learn something in this half an hour, keeps me centered. I really enjoy your channel. Thank you!
I've done it alone for many years. In highschool I would sit in the library and eat my lunch. Same at work, it's ok being alone when you get used to it.
i feel the same
Never follow the herd, lol, they drain all ones energy.
Unless you a paid for your company, as we must.
❤❤❤hi i can relate with you.
Me too
This video is art itself. The background voice, noise of footsteps, the greenery , and then the narrator who himself is a specimen of a man, speaking words that are deep , helpful and comforting.. i mean, its free therapy in some sort of live art museum
Not one person passed you on this walk. Lucky you to have such a blessed walk of solitude with nature.
If one cannot be by oneself then one cannot be with oneself.. a gem.
Agreed, this one went into my quote book.
Nietzsche said "No price is too high to pay for the privilege of owing yourself" And the only way to own yourself is to be by yourself. Solitude is a virtue. Thank you for sharing this wisdom 🙏
I can tell your nervous system is regulated. Your energy is so calming
The winds of grace are always blowing but one needs to raise the sail
ohhh i love this
Love this saying. Not heard it before. ❤
Wow
Amen
Pretty.
I fell in love with a girl a while ago that had me turning inside-out. Once things fell through, a PJ Harvey lyrics was really resonated with me; "Let me ride on his ('her' in my case) grace for a while..." relating the depression I felt without her. Months later with the love chemicals fading, it's just clear "grace" is ever-present, not within any one thing, goal, or person.
You got me at "it's chilly, slight drizzle. In other words, the weather is perfect" 😆
Now, seriously, what a pleasure to discover somebody who thinks similarly to me about life!
“Accept the things to which Fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, with all your heart” - Marcus Aurelius
Even though it's toxic in laws and difficult colleagues? Even if it's with weak minds where you're only trying to grow... I need this explained... 😢
@@afkhoso colleagues and in-laws are a choice, not fate. If they are truly toxic, let them go. Parents , siblings , home , on the other hand, are given by fate / divine providence
@MrBboyle1 Love this quote!...I have it written on my bookmark 😊
I have always felt this and I really enjoy being alone but I get so much pushback from people when I talk about it because “we are social creatures”
Same feeling ; " We are social creatures " - a very common expression held for granted by those who are afraid of loneliness - boils down to (in my perspective) "Misery loves company"
I’m currently in High-school. I’ve struggled for three years with making friends. Everyone around me had their groups and social lives. I made a few acquaintances but they would come and go. I acquired a best friend and maintained it for a whole year. I had to push them away recently as I had out grew a lot of things. I realized I didn’t hate being by myself and that the most growth I had was when I was in my own solitude. I may have had the most social deprived and lamest high school experience but removing myself from the group allowed me to truly grow so much!
I am currently facing the same situation, but it does not create any difference inside me. I feel clueless for being like this. It is important to know what is the best thing to do at the next step. Well, I am on my way right now to creating a better understanding and grow from this.
@@mekslatte I felt pretty clueless at one point too. I wish you the best of luck. I am sure at least time will add clarity.
@@MoonlitCognition I am glad. Thanks for your warm wishes. :))
Wishing you a fruitful journey ahead
You're still young. It's good that you've learned this at an early age but please keep in mind that social interaction (+ social skills) and having a few good friends is also healthy, especially long term. A truly good friend is worth their weight in gold. Good luck
I'm so happy there are still people on this earth with a brain, like in this channel. I'm subscribed
every great man in human history every important prophetic / religious figure & every important hero in non fiction spent time in isolation it's the only way to properly grow
I feel i was meant to be a lone wolf. People and crowds give me anxiety and stress.
I love my own company.
Your voice is pure bliss for my nervous system❤
God bless you . Your just a pure angel ❤
to me, this is screaming: "the world isn't just in your phone.. it's out there"
💚💚💚
He is asking us to touch grass
Yet you are on your phone watching this video he recorded on his phone lol
This resonates with me beautifully in terms of where I am in my life right now. I ran away from my problems, from myself, for years, in various ways. I finally am at the point where I’ve realized distraction won’t make me happy. It won’t fix the problems I’ve been running from. Only by confronting myself have I been able to take steps towards genuine peace with and understanding of myself. Truly, the only way out is through. Each time you sit with yourself, you take steps towards genuine happiness and connection. It won’t always be easy. You won’t suddenly be at peace all the time. But you will be able to slowly and steadily forge a new, more fulfilling path forward. Thank you for sharing :)
It’s a journey. My ‘run away from problems’ was literally running away from my family of origin to escape narcissist abuse. I didn’t figure this out for decades. Once you understand, and accept where the sharp edges are, you can learn to sit with it, and shift that feeling. Any shift is good imo.
It felt like I was walking through the forest with you How calming nature is. It brings us back into the moment of self awareness and truth. Time alone is so precious and enriching.
Your video popped up while I was feeling overwhelmed and with anxiety ,, thank you ! 😊
im trying so hard to focus on what he says but his calmness his beauty takes over, im absorbed..
Same thing to me with Teal Swan. I try to listen to her, but I just melt everytime I see her...
What is so unbearable right now? Nothing! I love this
Im 57 and thought something was wrong with me when i was younger because I liked solitude and nothing bothering me. Now I know what a great gift it has been. Ive watched many people in my life fall apart when they had to be alone for periods of time. Onthe Shortness of Life is my favorite thing ever written by anyone.
that made me tear up a bit, thanks. i was thinking of ending it all, my life i mean. now i'm not going to do it. it's weird how some random video on the internet can save a life
Please seek help, don’t choose a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Take care
Not random; these ideas are timeless and universal and they are for you as much as they are for me. Thank you for listening to them and please continue to explore them!
i love you
You were contemplating suicide, no less!
And the message that literally saved your life only made you "tear up a bit"?!?!
Wow, your life must be so important to you 🤦
@@acceptingtheuniversestart to people watch. Observing and understanding things around you will give you some form of pleasure to live
This is what i am doing right now. I am building friendship with my innerself, listening more of my intuition, and only hangout with meaningful connection once in a while with friends and family, like 90% hermit mode 10% out to social life so they still can see my existence.
This channel is so enriching & enlightening! Thank you for being here.🙌
Literally just read this morning in my Seneca book how one should avoid crowds! It’s true. Thanks for another video ❤️
Especially these days … 🎪
I've been on a self-discovery journey for the past three years, and some of the greatest moments of enlightenment and rejoice I have experienced in my life began happening when I accepted the complexity of my own thinking and capacity to mutate, to grow, and learn. I embraced "Ordo ab Chao" and "Amor Fati" as my leading principles. From whatever chaos the world may present in my surroundings, I find order because I accept the chaos from its origin, I accept what is and what is not, and I thrive from there.
Thank you so much for all the amazing content you give the world. It would be great to learn more about your own work, and research!
"Amor Fati" and "Memento Mori" actually go very well together ; can we see it ? Nothing nihilistic in them, in spite of what most people may pretend, based on fear.
Your videos are my weekly therapy.
Thank you.
Thank you, introducing me to new philosophers has really helped my life. The pure positivity of Emerson has renewed my faith in the one area I needed it most, humanity! He touches on so many inspirations, but one was that we all have God within ourselves, one who still lives and breathes. Not an old, dead or dying word, from a tired greedy pulpit, but one walking with you hand in hand in the shining sun, feeling the warmth of its rays, step by step.
Amen!
It has become an obligation for me to sleep while listening to your videos, its so calm, so self reflection! Thank you for making the internet a better place.
When you feel lonely while beeing alone, you are in bad company - Sartre
True growth begins when you step away from the crowd.
As Nietzsche once said, "The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe."
By separating yourself, you find clarity, purpose, and the strength to follow your own path.
The ASMR sound good in this is superb! As is his hair!
After removing myself from focusing on those two things, I agree- spending time with yourself is hugely beneficial. The only person you can truly rely on is you therefore you need to know yourself and take care of yourself ❤
He has amazing hair. I have serious hair envy over here.
@@lbali2896 hahahaha same lol 🤣
What a beautiful sentiment...I have been often asked how I like to be solitary...it gives me peace and the ability to reflect on my life and plan for the future..without depending on the opinions or ideas of others....thank you
I just found your channel today. You have no clue how much this subject has been on my mind and what I want to achieve for myself. The title is wonderfully written. Remove myself from the crowd. I understand how important this process will be for me. I feel a strong connection with you on this subject. Thank you, and I'm astounded at how this kind of information appears in my life exactly when I need to hear it. Perfect timing from my spirit guides!
I love that you said, I can’t believe I just said “ content”. The struggle is real. I found you on TH-cam and will likely keep watching and listening to you here. And the reason I enjoy your talks on this platform is that I feel like I’m part of a thoughtful conversation rather than a passive listener - more easily distractible.
The nature & the greeneries are so soothing💚 thank you for another gem of a video💫
loved the background greenery, trees, sounds, very therapeutic walk indeed. really resonated with what you talked about. much appreciated as always. 😉💯
".. ready to go there again and a little further and a little futher.. " I am at a very struggling stage of my life and this videos just gives the best perspective to confront those dark sides of yours and learn to be comfortable with them.
yes sir, and be anonymous. That is the greatest feeling, no wonder why many celebrities wish they could be anonymous.
Your videos are beyond great knowledge, it's also relaxing and peaceful to watch
I feel much more relaxed, thank you! 💛 I am struggling with motivation right now. I am learning of being ok with feeling like this. I am in hermit mode and have disabled all the social media , except for TH-cam. Feeling much lighter !
Thank-you for your insights.The importance of solitude is lost on so many.I value those times and understand and need it daily .Your gift, the gift of the ancients is here to remind us, if we allow. To enlighten us, if we allow. Go well in your days.🙏🌏
This popped up on my feed exactly when I needed to hear this. I’ve been on a beautiful yet challenging (at times) introspective journey for the past year. I had a moment today of feeling like I maybe needed the crowd. This helped to reinforce me, that I do not.
Thank you! 🙏🏿
As you say..."This is the work of life." Thank you for the gentle walk outside and the thoughtful musings.
very kind of you for taking the time to share this...
Reminds me greatly of some of Epictetus, who’ve I’ve been reading through everyday, where he says that our life is the material we use to create our art of living.
Wonderful video friend.
the goal is indeed to be far from the maddening crowd
Thank you! Grateful for you and this video... And Marcus! ♥️😊
I wholeheartedly appreciate hearing that...I've spent so much time alone, relatively at peace, good to know there's some virtue in it- definitely feel more connected to source.
as someone who is in their own head alot it does bring alot of peace when you ask what is so unbearable right now? nothing. thank you, ive been watching for a couple months now, keep goin
We are such a switched-on society 24/7 information overload where noise is the King! Solitude pleasant escape is essential, people who thrive in solitude can have a greater sense of self awareness. Most of us have parts of ourselves that need to be healed and carry feelings that are insurmountable. Working on it in solitude provides immense peace and comfort. Solitude air of stillness and tranquility can help us explore our thoughts and emotions, help tap into our creativity and explore new ideas, rejuvenate mentally and emotionally, we flourish and grow. Awareness of the finite nature of one’s own existence and the limitations of experiencing only a small portion of the world, realizing that there are countless places, experiences, and perspectives beyond one’s reach. Our desire to be a better version of ourselves, always curious, thirsty for knowledge we gather to watch the intellectual, informative videos you create for us, driven by your values and beliefs. Thank you
Looking forward to listening to this on my way home from work. Keep up the great work.
I found your channel, or rather your channel found me close to a year ago when I was in a dark place in life. Your videos made me reflect on many things in life and go on a self-healing journey. I am in a much healthier place now, both physically and mentally, but realizing that the work of self-improvement never ends.
Thanks to your videos I read and journaled on Aurelius’s Meditations and am now doing the same with Seneca’s letters. So wanted to say thank you for creating something valuable and meaningful in the world and sharing your knowledge and passion for philosophy, because it truly can be a life-changing discovery for everyone. Cheers!
Thank you for the kind words and for taking the time to write them; very humbling. It's great to know you're there!
When hearing about the distractions and social norms that take us away from who we essentially are, I was reminded of a passage in "Histoire du silence" by the French historian Alain Corbin (a favorite of mine): "We speak only in the hours in which we do not live , wrote Maeterlinck, true life, and the only one that leaves any trace, is made only of silence."
For those who are interested, Alain Corbin is quoting Maeterlinck's work "Le Trésor des humbles".
New subscriber from watching this video. Thank you for this message. Solitude is delicious, but like everything, it will get old too. I’ve been on this spiritual journey since 2010, and there are days when I feel like I need to go out and connect with people, but a few hours later, I’m dying to get back to my room/ house etc, to be alone again 😆🙏🏼… blessings and greetings from California
Beautiful video! Great points and very well articulated as usual!
It is definitely something that I think a lot of people need to embrace more. Allowing themselves to experience all that this human life has to offer ! It's often the things that people avoid the most that will fuel their transformation the most too !
Apprectiate the content. It's needed !
I've been somewhat of a hermit for most of my life, but especially since 2017. Thanks for reminding me that this time solo has been useful. I feel as an introvert, I was taught that I should be more extraverted. So I kept telling myself that I should be more social. Yet I can accomplish much more by myself, or sometimes with just with one or two people. I have learned to rely on my own self-love and self-care as my main sources. I find your videos relaxing and grounding. Your voice and presence are calming, and I enjoy the wisdom you share. 💚🙏
Very profound ideas in this video that I appreciate greatly for you bringing them to my attention - however, the "I can't believe I just said content." at the end was a real treat.
It wouldn’t break my heart if Mr. Universe cancelled the IG account. I set up my first account just to follow him. Fear of missing out 😅
Thank you so much for this deep and helpful words, it's like a little therapy! ❤️🌹
Your videos explain my way of moving through the world. It’s taken me hundreds of hours in silent contemplation and moments void of thought but I am in a place of neutrality and peace. Thank you for sharing this insightful, useful information at a comfortable pace. The last year of my life has been extremely enriching as I no longer give in to other’s requests. I use to give away my energy and have nothing left for myself. Now, I graciously decline invitations because I am benefitting so much from my free time alone. My life is organically shifting for the better with surprisingly little effort. Making healthy choices is a no brainer. The present is a treasure trove of self discovery and personal evolution. Being in silent stillness sparks ideas and inspiration. Be well, friends and Thank You for reading ✨
Listening to you speak calms my nervous system. Thank you for this beautiful video
I’m currently meditating on Schopenhauer and his philosophies on solitude and self sufficiency. Thank you for this confirmation.
Beautifully done! 🙏
I love your videos, i love this channel and the community and i'd love to meet the kind of people who also watch your videos but in real life and have a nice talk
I have a highly stressful event this Sunday for a program I’ve started, and I’ve found myself absolutely glued to my phone (while anxiety insidiously mounts) with distractions, albeit sprinkled with moments of addressing the task, but nevertheless fewer than ideal. Now I know why…thank you. The stronger you train the muscle that helps you confront discomfort, the more we can effectively navigate these important moments.
YES, I've been thinking since I discovered your channel that you should start a podcast. Can't wait to start listening. Great video man
My favorite so far. Thank you for these messages today.
When we successfully exist in the moment, that moment feels eternal. That's a good way to extend your lifespan 😉
Your channel came by. Beautiful. I live like this and it all resonates.
Sitting in a crowd at an airport, getting goosebumps halfway through the video because I'm engrossed in your message. Thank you for these videos man, I really appreciate them, especially at this time in my life. Much love and excited to follow the Insta account!
Watching your video while I’m on a walk myself 🫶🏼
Great Speech,thank you for letting me into your inspiring thoughts.❤
Thanks!
Thank you!
Time, space, nourishment & love are the greatest gifts we can give to ourselves to learn from the past, to be in the present & to prepare for the future. This true full inhabitant liver of Life thanks you for your powerful message. ✨🌲🍂🌑🌙⭐️☀️✨
I randomly stumbled on your video and felt the urge to put my two cents to it.
Firstly, I was very delighted about your precise share of mixed wisdom from the stoics and yourself.
Seems like you have been going through some stuff and you are challenging the way of life. Not just accepting it the way it’s presented to us.
To my share:
I have been depriving myself from basically all my connections, for many months now.(for different reasons)
I use to be the accommodator and loved hosting people with my pleasing and generous persona.
Today I am very happy to be with myself and find it difficult to connect with people.
I kinda alienated myself from society. Also I am transitioning from middle class and artistry, to the higher society, since I have intention to create a business.
So my playground became hotels like The Ritz, or Hilton.
What’s interesting is, people seem to quickly figure out that I am not belonging in there. Every time I become the Center of attention, and it seems that people try with active manipulation(noise) to make me conform to their beliefs. It’s quite judging and heartless and in my opinion flawed as much as the middle class. (Just nicely packaged )
Though, it’s not bothering me, I even thrive on that and become pretty much always the most interesting/confident person in the room.
Downside:
That awakens my arrogant side (for protection)
Once reached that point, it’s hard to get an eye for the people with the heart at the right spot and that carries on, even outside of the hotels.
That’s the cause for my alienation, I have trouble to recognise “my people “, or I have become hesitant on approaching someone, to not get another disappointment.
I clearly see that the majority of the people has lost touch to themselves and connecting on a deeper level would be nearly impossible.
So that makes my search for a business partner 99% harder by feel. I think even if there were 100 people in the room, it would be probably hard to find one person which is a perfect match. Since I am not just after money and I don’t want to connect with people which are actively playing zero sum.
I guess what I desire is basically family, which are unquestionably loyal and vice versa. Something people have lost faith in by the feel of my observations.
Reading through my own comment, gives me the feeling of a victim mindset.
Something must change, that’s certain.
I don’t want to blow this more, though I got way more to say about what has been going on.
Grateful for your content and time if you read through my “two cents”
Thank you, i just needed a reminder, and your words popped in.🎉
I needed to hear this from someone else, especially today
Thank you🙏
I spend most of my time with myself by myself and enjoy the company.
I must thank the algorithm for recommending me your video now having returned from a hard day of work, not because of my teaching duties, not at all, but it was made all the harder having heard news of my Italian grandmother being released from Alzheimers and she has been returned as our beloved Epictetus says. I had written a letter to her a few weeks ago inspired by Seneca's Letters. I did not do enough in my life to help her, but as Seneca says "You cannot choose your [grand]parents, but you can choose to be the [grand]child that you would want."
Thank you again for reminding me of the value of Seneca and the Stoics who if not physically with us, they are still alive with us in the writings they lovingly provided for us. Carla too is still alive and well in the logos. Her memory and her legacy will live on even if her physical body has decayed.
Thanks for this beautiful message and reminder brother
I remember a year ago when my husband traveled, and I stayed home alone for six weeks. While I wasn't completely isolated-I still went to the gym and did groceries-I spent most of the time by myself. It turned out to be a blessing. Although it felt overwhelming at first, I had trauma to work through, and I allowed my thoughts and feelings to flow without judgment. During that time, I felt closer to God than ever. Being with your own thoughts is nowadays a luxury and if you feel scared, go for it!
You’re a good looking bastard, mate . No diddy. Great content , thanks from random internet Australian 😂
I am soo glad I came across this ... answers many questions especially as you are facing a transition to midlife.
The real talk is appreciated. The world has so much noise and a lot of bad actors. Keep it up we all spend some time in limbo.
randomly clicked on this video and this is exactly what I needed to hear. thank you I will try my best implementing these values
Thank you - another really useful and timely video. Thanks for sharing.
Thank You for this video! Exactly what I needed this morning.
Thank you. This has helped me today, and going forward, more than you will ever know.
I love your videos. So much wisdom and you are very well spoken. I have much to learn
Thank you for sharing.. sending love from Egypt❤❤
The morning is so fucking peaceful i wish schools didn't ruin the waking up early experience😭
find a park near you to walk in early in the morning & go @5am before everyone wakes up
I got goose bumps cause this is how I am living RIGHT NOW! I still work BUT! Not in town I feel like I am at the edge of the world! My Day by day are so LIVE. FUC THE MOVIES AND SHIT DISTRACTIONS! Yes the employ people but its,just a distraction like addiction get it! This guy has it! Thanks SO much - People don’t pay attention enough to nothing.
i wish to find someone as handsome , mature and wise as you are
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I found ur account a few days ago and ur videos really bring me peace, thank u... And now ur in my neighbours country, the world is fascinating
I’ve been trying to focus on my work. Life is very short, but you should enable yourself to know your path and the direction by which you can keep yourself going.
Spirit and calmness, spend time with yourself, and don’t let the weight of the world, dictate your thoughts and your feelings and allow you to be lead astray, and feel powerless, upset, annoyed, all of these things that are acting forces against you that you have the power to say these things are not they are not me
They are outside and they are not me. Allow yourself to be on the right path and enable yourself to know that which is right and feeling true honest and a sense of joy and livelihood.
Don’t allow a distractions of the past to dismantle the present, the present is precious moment that is yours, and yours alone, that is sacred to you and is right here right now
I’m loving your videos. I’m learning loads. Thank you so much from England! I’d love to learn more about your learnings with regard to enduring grief and loss. Especially when it’s with regard to a sudden or tragic loss of a loved one. I know these amazing thinkers you’re teaching us about must have had helpful things to say. Wishing you great success with your channnel x