Money and Marriage: 6 Principles My Husband and I Use to Manage Money as a COUPLE
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- My husband and I didn’t always know how to manage money as a couple. When we first got married, we had debt and lots of fights about money. Like a lot of married couples, we had to work together to figure out married finances.
Money conversations are difficult - but necessary for a healthy relationship. Today, we’re talking about all things money and marriage: how to talk finances with your spouse, best ways to manage money as a couple, couple financial goals, and the 6 principles we use for managing finances married.
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Thanks for watching! Do you want to see more videos on how to manage money as a couple? What questions do you still have?
Yes, I appreciate this video and the steps you guys took to achieve a sound financial plan that meets both your needs as a couple and individuals. I am year 12 in my marriage and this is still hard to talk about sometimes. Especially when "fingers" are being pointed at oneanother. The honesty is real and thus help me to realize that and how important a plan is and just having that hard conversation on a weekly basis. I would like to know what advise or tools you use to keep on track with budget and MISC. Purchases?
Also, as coming from different backgrounds in your financial literacy, how did you guys get on the same page? What helped?
Separate account or joint or both for married with kids
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So my relationship is over. Initially, he came in paying for everything. He never requested my help. Once I moved in, I asked what I would be responsible for. I held my part. After he adjusted, he added an additional expense. We spend differently. I'm a shopper but everything I buy is either on sale or cheap. He on the other hand, doesn't look at the price, and that was an issue. For example when we went out to eat, I would only order what was affordable and reasonable because you need money for tomorrow. If I took him out, he expected me not to consider the cost. I believe this was an issue for him because I watched how I spent, and he just spent until it was gone and then I was supposed to save the day for the rest of the month.
The best way to take control of your money is to keep your finances seperate. What is his remains his and what is hers remains her's. At the beginning of the marriage decide who is responsible for which bills according to income earned. Certain bills can be shared such as vacations. Take turns to pay for dates. There should be no reason to fight over money if you stick to this simple arrangement.
oh Thank you! Thank you. I am financially independent and I am about to move to the US with my fiance. I will introduce these tips to my future husband. Thank you
Thanks for sharing! Lookin to implement these tips within my marriage.
Thank you for this video! Even though we don't have financial fights, it's because I do all the work- and I don't think it's fair. Have a blessed day!😊
I hope you’re doing okay? 😅
This comment sounds otherwise, in a scary way
You mentioned your previous scarcity mindset and “avoidance patterns” with money. That’s 100% me. Even though I promise myself a million times to conquer that mindset it feels impossible. Any suggestions on how to successfully change this approach?
Start with an attitude of plenty. Make a list of ten things you are grateful to have right now. This gets you in the mindset of you are already abundant. It changes your mood dramatically 💚
Great advice. Thank you 😊
The Best video about money for couples!!
Thank you 🙏
This was very helpful! Thank you ❤
Way to share your story and lessons learned so others may benefit! Love the vulnerability and candor that this took to achieve!
Thank you so much!!
I’ve been thinking about this today and I’ve been looking for videos like this but keep finding ones about “financial abuse” instead. Thank goodness I actually found this video to get some actual sound advice 😮💨
Happy we could help!! Best of luck as you and your partner learn how to manage money together ❤
Thank you for this information
Thanks! Why don't they teach this in high school in EVERY class : - ) ???
Very practical information to act upon.
Super helpful! Thank you!
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you so much for this video! I’m about to move across the country to get married to my fiancé and money is definitely something I’m weary about! Video was so helpful
Glad it was helpful! Wishing you all the best ❤
Sorry but I have watched twice & couldn’t yet understand how you manage on a weekly basis this ! You need to provide examples
I think overtime it became something that didn’t require a lot of time, unless a new financial goal (like maybe a new(er) car) came along. It’s just checking to make sure everything is on track. Possibly also taking it one portion at a time instead of laying it completely out in one go.
Good for you ladies for doing this!! Thank you!!
You mentioned your previous scarcity mindset and “avoidance patterns” with money. That’s 100% me. Even though I promise myself a million times that I will change, it feels impossible. Any suggestions on how to move through these negative behaviors and mindset?
Yup! We have a video on scarcity mindset and how to change it in just a few weeks :)
Hello, question is it best to have one account all debt auto pays come from? Currently we two franchises and his pays goes in one and mine the other , we have debt paying from both . Would this be easier if one used fir hopefully soon savings and other for debt auto payments Thank you in advance
So #6 is to split up the tasks as you see fit? Would be nice to have a slide at the end with all 6 principles. Thanks!
Yes! Sorry about that -- didn't realize that we dropped the ball on the last point 🙈
What were some of those tasks to talk about and divide? Outside of the Income vs. Expenses, what more should be considered?
too bad John is not willing to work with me on this, but...! in recent months (after 26 years of marriage) he has been at least willing to listen and even at times contribute an opinion. Yeah! Now, I need to look at me and see if there are things I'm saying inadvertently that puts him off. If so and I can fix that then perhaps I'll finally get the help I need with our finances.
This is very helpful for me! Could you make more videos about couple & finances, for example, what is the pro and cons of having separate finances or joined finances? That'll be super helpful! Thanks guys!
Glad you found it helpful!! We're planning our next batch of videos, so we'll definitely consider that :) Let us know if you have any other video requests!
this was useful
Did you say, “he is a Virgo” and that’s why he is better at managing the nuts and bolts of the budgeting🤔? you were making so much sense and then…
13:31 lol of course u like it . Good husband
4000$ !!!! Really?
This was very boring.
Thank you for this video! Even though we don't have financial fights, it's because I do all the work- and I don't think it's fair. Have a blessed day!