CAREER FIRST Dating Second | Dating Advice in your 20s
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ย. 2024
- Shwetabh talks about how career and focus toward stability should be the backdrop of making decisions in life when time is limited. Relationships are a full time job, and require a lot of your time, if not chosen carefully.
" Don't Dream About Beauty,
It Spoils Your Duty!"
"Dream About Your Duty,
It Makes Your Life Beauty"!
standard speech
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Good motivation line
Bhai bhai
Man gai guru
To all the young boys and girls in the age group of 18 to 25 - Dating mein kuch nahi rakha so don't waste your time in all this and focus on making your future secure. Ek baar yeh career banaane kii age nikal jaati hai toh baad mein sirf regret rehta hai.💯
Well said😃
Ok
Now i get it
Main toh kahta hu 18 se 28 age tak relationship main kuch nhi rakha.
Okay getting darker
I am single , quite well in study regularly study in library for competitive exams ,so 2 girls wanted to make friendship with me , I understood it by their expression , but I did not respond to them becz I wanted to be focused in getting a job with 0% distraction, so they passed some rude comments immediately because my rejection hurt their ego. I know the truth about life , they have many alternatives to choose boys, they can leave you at any moment once they find a better person than you. I realised this, ignored them and focused in my duty fully. In this life only your great achievements will always be with you to support you. Thanks
bhai tume thik korilo bhai tome kouthu ki
@@NaikLKumar kendrapada, Odisha
@@manojsahoo733 me - rourkela ,od
Your story is a motivation for me brother. Hope you get well settled in a job someday. Take care :)
You should have mentioned girls who are interested in a relationship and not friendship. 🙄 Dhang se khud ko express karna sikh lo bhai. That's important as well.
Zakir bhai to naam se badnam hai lekin aasli saktlounda to yehi hai .
Trance Holic hn
👌👌agree wth u...😀
Who's Zakir...?
Trance Holic Bhai logic baat kah raha h PTA chalega baad m tujhe bhi
Salman Bhai ko bhul gaye kya ??? Usne bhi toh shaddi nahi ki !!!!!
I don't have any elder brother but when he says " sun tujhse kh rha hun " , I can feel it
True ♥️♥️♥️
First breakup when I was 19 years old, after that watching shewtabh videos, now I am 22 years old, emotionally stable and still struggling in my career but hopefully will achieve success soon.
All the best bhai
My story is also same
It's 10 month brother did you have growth?
Best of luck 🤞
Kar liya hoga ab tak toh
Im very thankful to god i found this man on youtube in my 17
Me also
Me too
Now its 20s hows life bro?
I am sitting on the stairs of the college typing this. A girl wanted to move on from the special bond I shared with her. I didn't attend the 2nd hour lecture. I was really sad texting my best friend. I saw this video now. It felt like he saw through me and scolded me. Now I'm going to attend the 3rd hour lecture.
+Aayush Singh lit reply 🔥🔥🔥
The Smiling Titan good man. I am glad you made it!
Bhai bhai, sir ki motivation inspiration baato ko asr
Bro kya haal hai tere, 4years back comment kia tha aj me same vahi jagha pe hu jaha tu tha
Money = gf + family + respect
Damnnn man i needed to hear this...... Heartbreak really puts you back a lot and especially when you receive it when you are really lacking in studies..... Bhai you opened my eyes..... I loved this girl with all my heart and I received a massive heartbreak which doesn't allow me to study now... First I ignored my studies just to watch her all day and now, in thinking about her..... But I ignored the fact that I am not anything yet...... I don't afford to waste my time... Keep motivating us man hats off..
And you spread and tell this truth story to everyone and your closed ones so they are safe from the problem u faced
All the best bhai
@@Desitravellermp08 excatly 😊🤘
How are you now, brother?
I am laughing on myself after watching this .
True🔥
I'm also
Same bhai
Ikr 😂
Literally bro😂😂
Thank you shwetabh sir. Im following you since class 8 and now I'm in class 11 preparing for jee,never got distracted bcz of your words.Ill live a joyful life after building up my career.thank you:)
Bhai abhi Tak ka kya scene hai
What about now bro?
Hua
Hua
Kash ye video 5 ,6 saal pahle dekhi hoti.....
😂😂😂SAME HERE BHAI BT ABI BHI DER NI HUI
Wrigt
Oohh
😕😕
😥ryt bro Kash mein yeh video 3 months pehle dekhe hote...😑
Behind every successful MEN der is a women.dats true as women never follow unsuccessful MEN😀
Vandan Lodha Haa hahaha that's true
True . . . .. .
Mostly it is mum who pushed you to that level l.
Ya rightly said bro😀
@@samiirahmed534
Nope , It's wife.
Read RDJ'S Biography.
Read Christino Thompsan Fat to good wright story.
Mein ek ladki hu bhai aur aapko full support Karti dam hai aapki bato mein best motivational speaker 👍👍👍♥️♥️
Don’t get fantasised by love
Trust me its lot deeper
Not only applied on boys..some girls also thinks the same way. Ladka dil tod de to that doesn't mean to go to your male bestfriend for shoulder to cry. Take this opportunity as a step to achieve something great in life taaki us ladke ko bhi pata chale ki kya khoya usne. Girls bhi hurt hoti hai, they too crush their dreams for their loved ones. Encourage them as well.
Thankyou!
Lol😂😂🤣
Ladki kuch nhi kar sakte.. tumlog uneducated illiterate hote ho.. your life always revolves around love relationship.. that's y i never like love relationship anyway.. i don't care about emotions.. that's y I'm very much successful.. and will definitely achieve next target soon... Subhuman ladkis
Hamari life jyada affect karti hai mam.😀
Sir promise us that you will never stop teaching and helping us to become the best version of ourselves.
Meri gf bolti thi tere bina reh nhi Sakti,mar jaungi tu nhi mila to.....Aj ek welsettled ladka mil gya...Bhul gyi muze😏😂😂😭
😂😂😁😁
😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
Gold digger
Thanks for sharing your experience. Many can learn from it. I appreciate you 👏
Thnx rocky bhai
*"MODERN CHANAKYA* "
jai ho🙏💃
Gaurav Shrivastava agree !!!
Bro are u from U.P
Sameer biruly 👍👍
anant879 nah..what made you to think that?
Gaurav Shrivastava you used guru in your first sentence.... In U.P people say guru to friends
I have never seen like this motivation, thank you so much sir you said 101% true
y scheme ldkiyoon k liyai ni h
I'm 23, and I wish that you were there when I was 19. I would have saved so much time. But even today, I was feeling a bit low because of a female friend of 3 years back, we don't talk anymore, and it was making me sad and pissed at the same time. Your continuous motivation helps keep these insignificant distractions behind, and that's kind of imperative for me right now because I've final exams coming in 2 months. So, thank you for the reminder. You're awesome.
shubham mathur th-cam.com/video/Y3-kuBvDzWU/w-d-xo.html watch bhagvat gita ...... i know it sounds silly ....... but even i was in ur situation after breakup ...... but it solved all my problems ...... it helps people rise from emotional drawbacks ... try it .... hope it helps 😉
Finally i can say proudly someone had mind and thinking just like me, keep going bro ...
Bhai bhai ❤❤❤
Edited : I have seen this vdeo at least a 20 times . Whenever I strt falling for someone , I wtch this vdeo . Career is important bro. Money feeds🔥🔥
bhai college ke baad ladkiya kaha milengi...? yeh sawal mujhe bhot pareshaan kar rhi hai kya karu?😐
@@pradhanan9413 bhai ladkiyon k piche bhag hi Matt!!
Jiwan mein jo karna chahte ho , jo andar se karne ka Mann hai wo karte jao!!
Relationship mein aana koi buri baat nhi hai , agar wo insaan jo tumhare liye soche .. tumhare future gathan mein apne future gathan jaisa intrst de ... Toh aao na relationship mein
Par problem yeh hai ki aise insaan milte nhi hai , jyada tar apne kisi selfish motive k liye aate hain aur hmra tym aur energy choos kar le jaate hain
Acchi ladki mili toh aana relationship mein(koi buri baat nhi hai)
Par hamesha sabse upar apna career aur future ko rakhna(agar koi obstacle bane usmein toh nikaalne ka dam hona chahiye...wahi bass)
Edit : ladkiyan tumhre office mein , kaam k jage pe... ghoomne k jage pe ... Bhtt jaga mil jayengi...aisa kuch nhi hai ki college k baad milengi hi nhi
@@rupamsarma3248 thank you so much bhai...😊😊
Even I have watched this video more than 20+ times bro... It's like an energy shot for me😎😂
Same bro I watch this again nd again whenever I want to be in a realtionship ,nd this stop me to doing that foolish thing
04:17 life changing moment
Speechless.... Just in love with your videos, jab v insecure feel krta hoon apki video dekh leta hoon... Jab v lonely feel krta hoon toh apki video dekh leta hoon.... You are God for me 💕💕💕💕👌👌🙏🙏
Bhai, i am MBA grad, and i have secured job in one of best company now, but one of girl in our class which i used to date left me for another guy, she was dating many guys but i had fallen for her. But she is not having job now, and i can relate this directly with her. I am focused, but shes not
@@shrisub881 Symbiosis University, SIHS, Pune
@@Tushar_Sawant great all the best
@@NitishKumar-xv1fw speaking simple English should also be appreciated.
@@NitishKumar-xv1fw uski angrezi zyada maslay aapki angreji main dikhe
@@jalalameerzai ho skta hai bhai...I am not so eloquent in speaking English.
I am from Pakistan , big fan of you AP ki videos baar baar dekhta hoon , too much motivational ,
Phaar do 💪💪
Kaha se ho ?
Indian are best
Tu Hindu hai??
bitter truth.Listening to shwetabh bhaiya changes my mood...🥰✨✨
@Arjun Warrior Prince nope
@Arjun Warrior Prince who u are btw?
@Arjun Warrior Prince come on u stalker !!!!
@Arjun Warrior Prince then what? Why u commented lol on my video?why u made assumption that i am heartbroken/lonely?
@Arjun Warrior Prince no i am not having any bf
4:18 lag rha tha bhai personaly mujhe hi keh rha tha😂
Bt you are amazing brother life ka karwa sach bahr rakh diya aapne
I was 20 y/o when I this video was released and I first watched this video. #MENKIBAAT #MENSUTRA
I was going through a major break-up back then.
Today, I am 25 y/o and thankful that I found him and his channel at the right time.
Whatever he says in his videos is 110% practical. TRUST HIM BLINDLY my friends.
जिन जिनका दिल टूटा है, कोई बात नहीं, दिल को जोड़ो और तिनका तिनका जोड़ो। आगे बढ़ो, तुम्हारा मेरा हम सबका आज और कल बहुत अच्छा है।
Mensutra is the most genuine and connecting TH-camr I love you brother
Got a dating app advertisement at the start.
Wo ads wale ka ghata hogya fir toh 😂
@@nikhilthapa2012 😂😂
This is true. When you are focused and financially strong things will get alright
Nothing's wrong, Nothing's right.
Make a decision,prove it right.
Thank you bhai for these tips.
thank you so so much sir jo meri psychiatrist na possible kar saki vo aapne kiya thanx a lot😘😘
Psychologist aurat thi kya?
Launde ki problem launda hi solve karta hai
Academic Titans hmm medanta ki
This is the best video I have ever seen on TH-cam 🔥🔥🔥🔥... Thanks shwetabh bhai 🙏🙏❤️
Me laughing on my friend who can't think of life without girls😂
😂😂
@@shitalvaidya9573 Girls bhi dekhti h kya yeh Channel 😂
@Jashan Jaiswal are bete.. moj krdi 😆😆😆
Same🤣
Without girl is life 😂 gone chutiyapa
This man, guiding generations!
It's called real experience 😘😘 proud of me ur channels team.. thanks bhai ji.. I'm now 20 thank you for teaching..
I feel the same fighting for my career against marrying a rich ass family.
These all videos prove that our parents are correct in many ways and realization of their advices increase day by day by these videos🙏🙏😇
Maitray Parikh so true. 😌
Being single is awesome ❤focus on career and family
Best advice. Apne peeche itna tagda achievement rakho ki koi tumhara morale down na kr paye.
I am 24.kaash main pahle ye sab advice mila hota. I am a graduate in engineering.
its never too late bro
I'm also 24, undergraduate, Still studying. ye baatein kash pehle pata hoti. but it's never too late.
avi mar ni gye ho
abi life baki h
Same here
24. Mechanical Engineer. Single. King 👑
Jb tk india m cenema rhega log chutiya bante rhenge
(Gangs of wassepur)😀
Haa bc yeh movie youngsters ki marne m lagyi hui hai
Aajkal tho politicians bhi Bollywood mein akar logo Ko chutiya banarahe hai
Yes
Ramadhir Singh
Ek dam sahi
Best career advice I have heard from someone
Whenever i feel like my friends are enjoying their life while dating.
And i am fucking here studying.
Then i see this video again and agian
Love you Shwetabh. You changed my thoughts and with this I changed my way of living. Keep this work up
This Generation doesn't belongs to any relationship! Just focus on yourself and your Growth. Life will move along with a settled pace..💕
Again hats off... Contents always awesome... In short study hard get job.... Grow up boys... Salute sir
EVERYONE KNOW THAT BUT
THEY FALL IN LOVE
AND LIFE DESTROYS
THEN WATCHING MOTIVATION VIDEO
AFTER 1 DAY SAME WORK 🤣🤣😂
श्वेता भाई आपका यह वीडियो देख कर मुझे फिर एक अलग सी पॉजिटिविटी मिली है इस वीडियो को 1 साल पहले मैंने देखा था और आज किसी कारण मैं खुद बहुत लो फील कर रहा था पर इस वीडियो को देखकर मुझ में फिर से वह जोश आ गया है मैं आपका किस तरह से शुक्रिया अदा करूं आई एम वेरी थैंकफूल टो यू थैंक यू सो मच ब्रदर थैंक यू सो मच
I feels like all his talk is belong to me.. Ur not only spread inspiration u give me determination ..👑
First time m commenting on a youtube video... Inspiration for today's generation in their way😍😍
Only 6k needed to hit one million
Keep it up guru ❤️
Hi aaj mera birthday hai😅😆😆😆
Thank you for this gift ❤
happy birthday bhai
deepak Sharma thank you bhai🤗
happy birthday 🎂
Smit Panchal Happy birthday dost
Happy birthday
I will listen everyday 1 of your video...
Day 1 started.
11 din ho gye ?
Iam in my early 20's now. Totally distracted from my path. De-motivated and totally immature. Day by Day Iam getting more immature.
Edit: its been an year. My GPA increased to 8.01 from 6.86 with a back subject. Gave a pause to the relationship drama now. Giving more time to studies now.
But still not that strong mentally. Insecure and lack of confidence prevails. Anyway thankyou dear, wish I had a friend like you.
@Aryan Sharma @Aryan Sharma bhai, on a serious note, kya ye sach baat hai ki himachal pradesh me kaafi shareef ladkiyan hain because I want to do arrange marriage and after reading your comment, ab kuch confidence aaya hai ki now I can found a loyal, honest, beatiful, virgin girl for myself. #NoOffence
@Aryan Sharma baat to tumne bilkul sahi boli bhai. But what if I'm an Human Resource Officer in Coal India Limited then? Is there any possibility? Sorry to disturb you lekin bhai itne saare cases dekh rha hu ki shaadi ke baad bhi bahut saari ladkiyan loyal nhi hain for their husbands. Bas isiliye itni curiosity hai aur kaafi tension bhi hai. Aur virgin ladki isliye chahiye kyuki wo maximum cases me loyal hi hoti hain. By the way thank you for your kind advice.
@Aryan Sharma Thank you bhai for your honest suggestion. Himachal ka to nhi hu lekin ek idea lag gya wahan ka.
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@Kaustubh Kumbhar dammm i had no idea that an year i had comment here. Lol. Also people replied to my comment. Hope you are doing well.
*Modern chanakya*
🙏🙏🙏🙏😂🙏🙏🙏🙏
dont compare him with chanakya he was a legend
bhai college ke baad ladkiya kaha milengi? yeh sawal mujhe bhot pareshan kar rhi hai kya karu😣
@@pradhanan9413 Bhai sb milega .....
At the end of the day it is the Resource and Power matters.
@@prateekbajpai2083 matlab mai abhi studies aur carrier pe focus karu aur relationship mai enter na karu? I am 18 now
@@pradhanan9413Bhai tumpr depend krta h ki tumko kya bnna h ...
1st thing
Partner ko bht dhayan s choose krna agr relationship m aana hi hai kyuki agr glt k sath aagye toh apki lanka lgna nischit h ....
If u r 18 and whatever u want to be in life just be that first.
Being in Relationship is not Oxygen, you can live without it.
Great human and great work sir. You just deliver eye opening speeches and give other side of thought process.
Sab yei kr re tu mt kr best line said.... It's absolutely true bcoz all are involved in such stuffs now
i am eldest in my family, also among my friends I am like the advisor of all since i discuss a lot with them about their problems, hence that's why i never had someone who can advise me or someone i can look upon as a big brother, but your videos fulfill that feeling, Thank you shwetabh and hope for your mother's speedy recovery..
Dude I think it time for you to finally do a Ted talk.you are awesome bro.
I'm so glad ki mera breakup 14 years mai and rejection 15 years old mai he ho gaya... Now I can focus on my career 🔥❤
Lolipop dene se mana kar diya ya pogo ka subscription last diya?😂
@@anu917 😆😆😆😆😆
@@anu917 oh boi not funny
@@diptangshudey568 😂😂oh bhai..jake tables padle😂😂..ja beta ja..bahut jaldi agaye ho tum
@@anu917 👍🏻
make more video bhai....you are osm...thank you so...much...me aapke har video dekhta hu.....me study me kafi brilliant hu but ladki ki vajah se....dipression me chala gaya..tha...aur ab dheere dheere bahar aa gaya...ab only focus apne goal par he...tysm
Love you Boss!!😍
This video helped me much..
I will work very very hard...
Aapni jindegi ascha banaungga...
Ladki ki piche abhi nehi vagungga..
Love from Bangladesh ❤
I am a girl Shwetabh bhaiya ... the strange part is ..you abuse and i still like whatever u r advising ..because aapka motive itna pure hai ..keep it up bhaiya ..ye duniya jis bhasha me samjhe vaise samjhaiye ..lekin sudhre to kam se kam ....kahin se to relate kr paye ..or successful ho sab . LOTSS OF SUPPORT ...keep it up bhaiya :)
Sir...you changed my life completely...thank u
Your videos should come on national tv...Our youth are going in wrong direction and only people like you can save us🙏
thanks for saving my life and help me getting out from a toxic relationship 💪🙏🙏🙏
Wish this video would have come when I was in my 20's.. thanks for guiding the youth in right direction..It's needed..!!
U changed my life ....my mindset.....thank u man fr everythng.....
I am an IES , i am here just to enjoy his gali😃😂😂😂😂
Sach main bhai 😂😂👌👌
are Swetabh's word real? (Want to know your opinion)
Bhai aapko ab mensutra ke channel main interview dena Chahiye
TP Singh bhai , made easy ka product lg rha tum, are u made easy students?
Jhuth bolta sala ,
This applies to women too.
Age 18-25
So girls we listen to it as well.
Becoz a guy might want you for physical thing at early age, so we girls got to build our own empire too.
So a guy comes to us for real relationship or nothing short than that.
😊
now that's topG woman
🔥
gali Dene Wala sandip maheswari
Sandeep
Spelling galat hain mere bhai😉
He is better than Sandeep . I ignore sandeep’s video but I want mensutra’s video
Better than Sandeep and I can prove it anytime anywhere anyway
Sandeep never gives practical advice
😂
sir aap boht kamaal ke hon aapke ek video ne puri dimaag ka tension gaayab kardiya.
Thanks for keeping us alive and focussed
I m girl but i also loved it.....thanks alot
Bhaiya we can also inculcate our mind by thinking that when all the mediocrity is busy having a relationship i can be above mediocre by building my career or becoming the best version of myself
Mai pehle ye videos dekhta tha shwetabh ki toh samajh hi ni aata tha ye iss topic pe itni baat kyu ho rhi. Abhi jab similar situation experience kr rha hu, toh bohut clarity mil rhi hai.
Sometimes I think how come you and sirhud kalra are really good friends having contrary thoughts about relationships!
Roj subah bhajan ki tarha sunta hu ❤️
Jab yeh video ayi thi to main 17 k tha aur love ko lekar desperate tha aur ajj main 20 ka hu aur one of the top engineering college of India main baitha hu aur yeh video totally relatable realize after cracked entrance exam
5:30 touched me. Thanks
*Lines of Swetabh :- Apni coices khatam hone ka wait mat karo uss waqt ko mat aane do jab tumse tumhari choices cheen li jaye tab tum majboor rahoge kisi bhi kaam ko karne ke liye andr se wo sprit nahi rahegi kaam karne ki so Go and GET SHIT DONE*
vivek narayan singh very good job bhai
Anime Lover 17 thanks 2 swetabh bhai
How to comment with these dark lines?
Anonymous alien brother starting or ending me ye 👉 * laga dena
*jiyo*
Feelings pe control nahi ho pata bro i am single and try it upto my job 😂❣️
Thank u so much sir for such a great advice .i wish i had found this channel when i was 18 could have saved my whole career but still i found it at 22 and will surely give my best to follow your genuine advice ..
☺
One of my friend (18) commited suicide just because a girl rejected him or something 🙁
Just thinking about what his mom would be feeling coz' she always used to come for his school complaints etc. She might have felt one day he'll do something good but this guy committed suicide!
Your parents are the one's who gave you everything right from the childhood and you take your own life for a girl who doesn't even give a shit (she made another BF after a couple of weeks from his demise 😑) and left your parents, brother in pain for life...
It's not that all relationships are bad, but I'm just jaying this also can be an outcome...
🥺😢😥😥
Well if his parents were more upfront and would've created a family atmosphere where he could share his feelings, probably it would've been easier for him. We all face rejections however it becomes tougher when we have no one to share it with and no, sharing with friends doesn't help cz they r just as immature.
I'm sorry but just because someone can't handle rejection, doesn't mean the girl can't continue her life.
@@gargeebasak9648 she can but so early??
M to 28 ka hu bhai, kaash aap Pehle Aa jate. 😌 Ab to m samajh gya 😂
Bhai ab bhi moka hai.
Kam krna ke koi age nhi hoti
I'm also 27 ... Understood it now ...
@@yourshelper2479 Ab toh sab samajh me aagya bhai.
@@sameeradwani2162 chalo der aaye durust aaye
Eye opening video man, seriously!!!
Lovely advice had similar thoughts sitting in an average it job now you just made me realise what is good and important for yourself 💓💓
Thank you brother
Finally I cleared my doubts
Aab apka bhai kuch krkey he manega aur ek din apse jarur milega
Its my promise.
U r amazing Sirrr Big Respect to You Grand Salute I always needed a brother like u to advice me 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
bhai main kasam se ro pda
i love you
broo
It really kicks me up😅whenever he abuses in between
Lagtay koi apna advice deray... keep going bruh🙌💓
Sir your awesome
u make us realize the true reality of life
huge fan sir
A big salute and a huge respect for u sir
Your advice r golden and they r really applicable in everyday life !
In an age where many of us get confused or lost in life
u gave us the proper guide and taught us the real way to live to the fullest
your every word was true and i could relate to
and i find myself laughing at me when thinking about these silly thought
i thank u a lot for the work u r doing
u really change my mindset towards success
Thank you sir
I m 17 and I have experienced 2 toxic relationships😔
Iam 18 and me too bro 😂 tumne 2 try kiya mera toh ek hi mein phat gayi thi bc I used to get suicidal thoughts
@@noonaaa6489 maine is liye try bhi nhi kiya🤣
@@noonaaa6489 mujhe ye nahi samajta bc girlfriend boyfriend khelne se kya milta life me
@@pranitp.29 Bhai aajkal ka relationship 80-90% sirf physical needs ko fulfill krne k lie bnate hain
@@noonaaa6489 hey I want to ask u something ? Can u reply to this msg so that I can be assured that u will reply 😐
Bhai abhi age 18 ka hunn tumhare video dekh k self motivated ho jata hunnn girl ki koi distraction nahi hai
Love u unlimited bro