Pyaar ki Asli Aukaat Samjho | Logical Way of Seeing Love
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- Shwetabh talks about how life and happiness is much more than love and relationships and dating. They are about self respect, which is earned by doing productive, valuable things in life.
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I have ordered
I have ordered
Bhaiya ladki kabhi kabhi kehti hai ke i am not able to express my feelings ache se toh kya sachai hai??
Ordored today
Sir please make a video on retroactive jealousy can't accept girlfriend past life
Shwetabh is that person who saves me emotionally and motivated me to do something in life
th-cam.com/video/0Od-tGMglbs/w-d-xo.html watch it
Kya kiya abhi tk bro
Bhai abhi to student hi hu
@@feminismiscancer827 Bhai itna extreme jaane ki zaaroot nhi hai ye foreign countries me hota hai ulta yaha abhi bhi girl child ko maar dete hai Indian states me aur sab ladki buri nhi hoti.
Sexism is the oldest cancer in the world!
If you wanna be happy don't run after anyone..be Positive and treat them like a human and not like a special person of your life.
Right dost I salute u
Yes even I salute you bro
100%
Will try 😊
how u r doing in life now ?
I've really noticed the Self Respect thing Since I've Started Working on Myself.
My bf used to judge my character and he is over possessive but after seeing this man finally I broke up with him
@@anushkagupta9567 meri gf ka to reason hee smjh nahi aaya
khti gutfeel hai ki effective nahi hai
bolti ki i hv decided and its my ri8 to decide
koi sign thodi kiya tha tumhare sath.
@@memifier007 Kya kr sakte h duniya me bahut se vichitra prani h sabko samajhne thodie baithege bhad me jaye
@@anushkagupta9567 And the most regretful thing is the amount of time and energy I spent on the wrong person trying to understand her and fixing the relationship...If I had put it in so much time building myself, I would have reached great heights:(
@@manoj3813 nevermind bro it's never too late you can improve noww:)
India ki new generation ko bigadne me 90% bollywood movies ka hath hai but this guy is best
Bollywood romantic movies=Shit
Yupppp
100 and 2 % right Bro
हिंदुओं को kaamchor बनाने की कोशिश करता है बॉलीवुड जिससे विदेशी कंपनियों का माल बिकता है और हम लोग अपना कैरियर का बढ़िया टाइम इश्कबाजी में निकालने
Srk ka
Who think shwetabh is their big brother hit like😍
Bro for me Swetabh is not just like a big brother, he is like a father figure. Jitna Swetabh sir ne mujhko sikhaya hai, utna toh mere khud ke baap ne nahi kiya. I wish Swetabh best for his life. THANK YOU SWETABH.
Virat Singh not Krishna He is rawan
@gaurav verma Iska mtb apne abhi jyadatar videos miss kardi he Shwetabh bhaiya ki.Unhone kahi sare topic pe baat ki he pyar ke alava bhi.😊
@gaurav Verma motivation comes from within, ye help karta shi rasta batakar baki apne ap par h...tabhi change ayega jab tum lana chahoge
@gaurav verma He is solving common problems of majority of Youth. You should watch *Sandeep Maheshwari Sir* Videos. You'll inspired not motivate.
“Zindagi khokli ho toh ek insaan ko hum zindagi banaa dete hai” this wisdom comes only after gaining experience.
💯
sahi baat.
Ek yahi bnda hai jo meri life sahi raaste par daal rha hai ❤
Meri bhi dear
Tera shaadi ho gya
Bhai♥️
"Fark padna bohot hi negative cheez ho sakti hai agar samne wale ko fark nhi padta tumhare baare mein" ✌🔥
"BHAAW MAT DO "😂♥️
-Shwebath Gangwar 2019
Apne account name thoda samjhaoge dost
Bro wat u have named Ur channel is not right nor good
If u are hurt by someone in someway or situation .....I feel u it happens with everyone but blaming a gender or community on the name of that is silly and illogical , imagine something same written for men .....that is not cool in anyway
World consists both good people and bad people .......A wise person knows this thing.....and doesn't run blaming communities for deeds of a single person ...
Like most toxic feminists do ......I hope u Understand wat I mean........and spread love
@@mahiwahi8300 well written 💙
@@mahiwahi8300 !
What's so bad about the name !? I think this isn't nearly as bad as what Feminists on Twitter and tumbler commented about men before ( as a whole ) You would've burst in anger if saw any of them. !! And i dont regret it defending this guy.
"भावनाओं से बाहर निकलो,ये इंसान आपको सच्चाई से रूबरू कराता है।"
Give this guy an OSCAR 🙏🙏
You are truly life saviour 👊🙌
Acting ka oscar?
Oscar toh Chutiyon ka award hai
He is not an actor. He is the real deal.
@Sharan DD oscar is only for America or western countries, they doesn't care about indian movies
At least Bharat Ratn to banta hai
This man said great truth. 1min mai hi isne sahi bola.. meresaat asa hua hai.. this guy is experienced.
Mene us ladki se breakup ki karlia. Or kabhi v betichod relationship mai nai gaya chance milne k baujut v...
Shwetabh sir u have saved me from emotional and mental breakdown .
Thank u so much sir 💖💖
Teri har ek baat me ekdam reality hoti hai.... Kabhi kabhi to lagta hai... Tu insaan hai ya bhagwan... Love you swetabh 😘
Post my breakup last month, I've seen most of your videos. I don't even know how I might thank you for showing me a better picture and greater perspective to life. Massive respect Shwetabh bhai 🙏🙏
The man who thinks of ways to sleep with a women is a slave of lust, powerful is he who thinks of how he can overcome the desire of sleeping with that woman - Marcus Aurelius (roman emperor)
Exactly!
Earn money sleep with any girl you want
Perfectly described bhai🤪
Applicable not only for girls but also every aspect.
Don't care for anyone except mummy papa
We are Shwetabians.
Army of Titans.
No we are RED-PILLERS !
Shwetabians are best.
Then I am Eren Yeager
@@luffywest otakus are everywhere
Gangwariest
Shwetabh apne mujhe itne bar save kiya hai ki main bata nhi sakta... May u gain best prosperity in life and all the happiness in life....
That moment when you realise you were right most of the times....bliss...pure bliss..
Sweatabh is my elder brother.... I'm improving in every aspects of my life day by day.... I'm progressing... You doing great brother... Love you
Shwetabh*
You can't Change a Girl's mind.
YOU CAN ONLY CHANGE HER MOOD.
She is not yours, It's your turn. -- MGTOW
Take the Redpill
@@feminismiscancer827
Redpill is the new Oxygen.
Chot laga bro... Par sahi bola
@@Psychosat redpill kya h bhai..thora hme jagrup karo
@@mitthuaashu2079 yeh padhlo bhai-
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_pill_and_blue_pill
4 Things to Improve my FutureSelf:
1. Personality Development.
2. Focusing on Programming.
3. Focusing on Singing.
4. Stay away from Love.
Cool
लेकिन 1 बात है अगर कोई ब्रेकअप वाला आपके सामने आके रोयेगा तो भाई तुम तो सीधा उसको कूट दोगे😂😂😂
Ekdum bhai mere dost ne bahut koota tha mujhe
@@rkmusic5767 होता है 1 साल पेहले मुझे भी लगा था कि अब उसके बिना मेरा कुछ नहीँ होगा .. लेकिन अब लगता है सही हुआ अब उसका नया बॉयफ्रेंड पेहले से ही शादीसुदा निकला 😂😂😂😂 जैसी करनी वेसी भरनी 😍🙅✌✌✌✌
😂😂
@@deepaksingh2823 😉😁😁
sahi baat mai dono condition m tha
kutai bhi hua aur koota bhi
Here's my story. I was in a relationship with a guy. Everytime I tried to make him understand my situation he acts like I'm complaining. Whenever we fought he never tried to fix it, in fact it was me who always Pampers him. I thought he'll understand some day that I need love and care too. But one day I decided that no, I'm not going to fix it this time. If he comes then it's good and if he doesn't it's even better. These days I'm focusing on my studies and other things. He's there but I barely contact him. And I'm not going to sacrifice my happiness for someone again.
One day
You will find your tru lob
Update?
@@wtf_zquad hope so
@@sakshamshukla3424 same as before we just like eachothers' post that's it
What happened to you & ur boyfriend then? How you guys broke up??
Finding your channel was THE BEST Thing, I ever did. That pyar thing, Thanks to you, I have left that wayyyy beyond me. I've been listening to you for a whole year and I understood, it takes consistency even in letting go of a thought and belief aswell. Dude, I am working on myself and I owe you a big thanks for that.
You are right... I found out about this channel 6 months ago.... Following it regularly now
Definition of love
👇
Pyar=Vyapaar😍
Online texting me jo v launda h ek baat suno... Wo ladki 10+ladko se baat kr rhi h... You're just an option..... Being nice to her will not get you anywhere..... Apne pei kaam kro like mensutra said..... Ladkiyo ka ajkal itna option hai ki tm soch v ni skte.... Use mt ho kisi ladki se....
Just think about it, Eminem is trying to tell me ....wo b in hindi
More than that.
Aaj kal ladkiya bhot zyada cheating karti he. Har ladki apna 2-3 backup man toh rakhti hi he. Ek gya toh dusra. Dusra gya toh 3sra 😂 NO worries." ..... agar koi iss chutiyap me fasa he to jald se jald niklo BC ! ...
Upar se Feminism- Agar Zyada hi obsessed ho to harrassment ka case alag se. Phir jail me gote khelna ! 😂
tabhi to sirhud bolta hai potty karne wali ladki 😂😂😂😂
You are just an option.... Sahin kaha...
Sb girls esa ni krti.tm galt ho....
i'll be purchasing your book soon.You're a next generation gautham buddha! Truly a inspiration for all of us.
*One of the most sensible talk ever on TH-cam* . 👈
Sir, ek app hi ho jiska videos dekhke dilko sukun milta hai or sahi rasta dikhne lgta hai ... Thank You bhai dilse Thank You ❤️❤️ ❤️
💯% real truth, every indian aashiq should watch it, i suggest my younger self to watch it very first
This guy is awesome.. My inspiration for failures in life.
Now I m doing job in decent firm.. Thank u bro
No words to describe your skill of educating people 🙏🏻
He doesn't motivates people, he educates them
After I become successful in life, 50% contribution behind it will be of Shwetabh bro
Shwetabh is back with a banger! More like bangers! Really glad that you're uploading videos after a long time bro
Shwetabh you are a champ bro! You are helping the youth deal with very practical problems. Your content is amazing. Lots of good wishes!!
Like who found Mensutra after breakup. I did.
I also
@Akash Ingle Rejected by a bitch?
Me too from Nepal
MENE to apni ex ko shwetabh bhai ko dek ke hi chod diya tha.
@@sachinbhardwaj9246 chod dia ki chor dia 😜😝😆😆😄😄 (jk)
We should not let the world see our emotions ... whether it's our tear or pain ......I strongly believe we should control our emotions.... people used to tell me rashmi u are such a egoistic but deep inside I know it will save me from mental trauma ❤️🌼
Did it save you?
@@cs2874 always 🙂
Egoistic
Attitude
Selfish
Self centred
18 October 2019: the day finally got rejected and this video was uploaded.
Whatever he said was exactly my situation on that day.
Biblical name...cool
Bhai matlab kya bole...every word of this man gives me goosebumps.
Perfect vedio at perfect time
U r a legend🙌
This is exactly what I was doing wrong. Not only my mental health , but my studies were also getting affected by all this shit.
Everything you said felt so relatable.
Thanks Shwetabh Bhai.
Bhai.... 😭😭😭💔
Maine kab se ladki ka chakar chod diya.... Abhi only career pe focus.... next target SBI PO 2020
Ibps clerk also
Bhai korona aa gya ab to
Issal nhi aega 😂
Nikal gaya kya bhai ?
Nikl gya exam?
“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” - Ernest Hemingway.
I recently read this, and your video addressed it in very first line. It's my second comment from books where I could connect your content to the given quote. Appreciable. :)
Mensutra is not only a community for men but also women❤️ I love watching your videos and follow them.
Achaa ji sacchi.. .....
I got inspired by your videos and Finally My research paper got accepted for international conference.
Thank You Shwetabh bhaiya
Love is important in a person's life. Had it not been important then marriages would not have been a traditions for centuries. Let's face it our parents wont live with us forever, so we need a companion for fulfilling our emotional, physical and financial needs. Hence, without money it's not possible to sustain a relationship or marriage. Even in order to live we need food, clothing and shelter. Nowadays even luxury is a need. And nothing comes for free. Even for wedding ceremony you need money even if you dont go for a grand wedding. People nowadays look for a well educated and well earning match. No one wants to settle for less. So if you want love then focus on your career and make money because at the end of the day you have to pay your bills. So make something out of yourself!
Bhai yr aap kya insaan ho sacchi aap mare hue insaan me bhi jaan daal dete ho.grt yr.....bilkul usi point ko touch krte ho jisme problem chl rhi ho
Legend ho bhai aap yr
Bhai tunne jo bhi bola iss video main SB MERE PE APPLICABLE.. RONNAA AAGAYA YAAAR.. APNI ZINDAGI KE BAARE MAIN SOVH KR LIFE.... MAIN KUCH CHLHI NAI RAHA HAI..
SHUKARAA BHAI.. DIL SE.. JB APNE NOTEDOWN WALI BAAT BOLIN MAIN PEN OR BOOK LEKE BETH GAYA.. OR LIKHA BHI MAINE..
THANKS. MERI AANKHON KHOLNE KE LIYEE...
What a timing ! Thank u bhai.. I ' m grl.. nd Ur videos help each and every individual. I m very hardworking but kind of emotional fool. But u help me alot . Thanks bhai thanks alot!
Emotional fool, too 🙋🏽♂️🤷🏾♂️🤕
Moral of the story is that one should never belittle themselves just in order to get validation from the opposite sex.
Self respect kho kar kuch nahi paa sakte ho!
New year 2020 p resolution liya tha ki iss saal ek bhi ladki ko text nhi krunga.. and i have maintained it till now!! Thnx mensutra for this amazing video.. Now i am focussing on my studies to get a govt job. I fully utilized this lockdown period and its surprising to believe that studied about 7-8 hrs daily with keen dedication.. bhle hi selection ho ya na ho ye matter nhi krta lekin khud ki nazro mein izzat bn gyi h meri.. Ek aur cheez.... bhaad mein jaaye ladkiya.. jinhone mujhe ignore kiya wo tarsengi meri ek jhalak paane k liye.. pyaar ki maa ka bhosda..
Aap mere Jindegi badal diya hai .
Aapne mujhe ch*du se Damdaar bana diya hai!
Thank you very much Sir!
Love you ❤
Hrishikesh Medhi 👌👌👌🤘🏻🤘🏻
Bht hard'
✌️✌️
Thanks Shwetabh! Being a girl I listen to you and it has helped me emotionally. Even I am in a relationship with a man for the last 8 years, supported him through all his lowest and few issues he was having. Now everything is sorted and now when it is about marriage, he does not to stating the inter caste marriage is very difficult and he no more needs any more problems in his life. I am shattered. Trying to get out of the situation.
Shwetab Bhai same as happen in my life but I move on due to having self-esteem now I feel very happy with that such a hard decision .
Kbhi ksi ke video pe ajtk Maine like cmnt ni Kiya but tmhri ye authentic Batein Dil me ghr kr gyi bro u r doing such a great job keep it up thanks a lot.👍
You are really doing best for youth in nowadays India. Thank you sir.....
Most realistic and logistics things you have delivered....this is far better than many Baba's idealistic solutions of life.
Shwetabh is god's gift to my mental health
@@CivilServicesExamination sister* but shwetabh bhai's videos transcend gender needs. He speaks to all.
@@CivilServicesExamination yeah
I've been waiting for this video since a long time ! And guys he's so right ! I've been in the same situation once and that girl started to push away from me even further and then i started to shower her with love and gifts even more and more thinking that I can't let her go away and she is my first and only relationship and then one day she cheated and left me . I felt so fucked up back then. You guys gotta understand this era is not for the *true lovers*. One can only survive in a relationship if he thinks about it psychologically and not by his heart. Also if your girl has ever cheated on you or lied to you in a relationship then she is gonna do it again and again because that will give her a kind off kick. So never ever trust her again.
Update : she again had sex with me .... When before she was talking how much she is in love with her new boyfriend . I mean can you guys believe the words we use "true love" in today's world is how much fake. Bhagwan pyar krne valo ko please honest partner dena bas yahi boluga. 🙏☹️
You shouldn't have had sex with her while she was in a relationship with someone else. Ismein koi garv ki baat ni hai ki jisne tumhein dhokha diya uske saath tumne mauka milte he sex kar liya. Male prostitite thodi hai bhai tu. Apni izzat rakhni thi aur seen kar ke chorr dena chahiye tha usko.
Lage raho
Arey Bhai...kitni baar Dil jitoge yrr. Hr video complete reality h. Hats off man 👍👍
Muze bhi ek ladke ne dhokha Diya tha hum 2 years relationship mein the fhir mein study pe focus Kiya yaad aati thi uski pr gussa bhi muze pr ata tha kuyki mein ne study pe Kam focus Kiya uske liye mein topper thi but uski vaje se mein focus nhi kr payi
Pr...mein than liya krna hai kuch Zindagi mein iske jaise 1000 milenge life mein Meri family ne muze bahot support Kiya Meri family ko vi pata tha hai hamare bare mein.
Meine NEET me 575 score Kiya...aur aaj mein ek mbbs student hu..wo waps aya Meri life mein lekin meine Chata Mara usko😂😂 muze ghanta farak nhi padta usse
Aur uski gf hai bhi hai ...10th fail hai o
Literally muze bahot hasi aati hai😂😂....
Dhokha diya mtb? Dusri ladki ke sath affair tha?
@@ayushsrivastava1672 yes
Aara bhen... congratulations 🎊.. meri wali na bhi breakup kiaa tha.. 12th ka baad.. now i am in ramjas , du north and she is in private college.. i am like - abh mujha nhi chaiyee wohh
I'm a pakistani and I'm following shwetabh or sirhud ka bht bra fan hoon. ye log sch mn males k liye aik blessing hain
Generally i don’t comments on videos so i just want to say thanks for teaching such good life lessons, you made me a better person , human being thank u bhai ❤️
Same bhai
Maan gye sir aapko sunke dimag khul gya...aaj se sab jaye bhad mein..sirf kaam krna hai..apne upar kaam....😎
I needed this video bro! You are literally like God's own voice to me!
Comrades reject gods! Lol
Ye to esa lag rha h ki mere liye hi banayi h aapne ye video😦😦 thanks 💯♥️
This man's thoughts are ultimate🔥
Bhai meri problem ka solution aapke videos me dhoodh raha tha,aur solution is video me mil gaya muze...shwetabh bhai you are awesome
6:28 best part
♥️. Sahi bole apne
Dil ko touch kr gyi
Man you are really great after listening you again you a new hope in life after getting depressed 🤩
You are a life saviour 💯
3:56 listen carefully 👂
More like 3:55
I love u bhaiya apne bahut ladko ki jindgi bacha li bhagwan apko bahut lambi umer aur health de♥️♥️♥️😍
You are great coach & life and life adviser ... saving millions young life... thanks from core of my heart....
Bhai Mai subah sabse phle tumhara ek vedio dekhta hu fr padhne baithta hu
Now this is what the real REDPILL KNOWLEDGE sounds like ♥️💪
Sir,,,bahut time bad apka video dekhrahu...aj se takriban 6 months pahele apka video dekhta tha...tab mera break up hua tha....... aur ab main bahut a66a huin...pyar ki bare mai sochta vi nahi huin.....sirf apne career aur goal pe focus hai..... Aur e sab srif apke liye apke videos ke liye possible huan hai.....Thank you so much sir for changing my life and thoughts too....
Are u a psychologist .. .. ....
U seriously are awesum ......honest thoughts ........
Dada aap kehte ho ki tu relate kar pa raha hoga, thoda bahut teri life se match kar raha hoga! Yaha to apki poori baat hi match ho gayi,relate to kya hi hoga😌. Aur isiliye ab me apni izzat sabse pehle karunga. THANKS A LOT👍
Liked before watching !!
Bhai Forever 😍😍
The Real Truths And Lessons I learnt From a Breakup, And Shwetabh Sir's Words Are So Very Connected.......
Bhak
I agree with you. Self work is very important. I found not one but two amazing guys one after the other, literally magical. But still it felt incomplete and i was always unhappy somehow. It was because i lacked the connect with myself. Until you connect and bond with your own self, you cannot feel complete no matter what. Kudos bhai. Amazingly explained 👏🏻
Bhaiya aapki batein Kaafi chije sikhati hy..thank you so much❤
2:15 .. the moment for which I've watched this video like 5 times 🤣🤣🤣
most valueable person i found on youtube today....... nyc job bro.... ur work is awsome.......
Bhai Acha hua tu humare generation me aaaya 🙏🙏🙏 thode saal barbaad gye par aane wale saal bacha liye tere vajh se bhai 🙏🙏🙏
Bohot sahi..bohot sahi lines sikhne ko mili.. Ap humesha sahi waqt me sahi advice deke jate ho.. thank u sir 😊
Aaj meri shadi wale aaye the.,, but mai successful hone ke baad hi married 💒 karoonga....insha. Allah
सही decission लिया ।
Abhi successful ho ?
are sahi mulla bhai ..
@@ramg658 hindu muslim ab ek se ek bdh@@@we hai
One of the few people who aren't feeding us bullcrap. Lots of respect!
Bhai apne mjhe is sb chutiyape se nikala yr thank you soo much ❤❤ Allah apko hmsha khush rkhy 😊😊 Luv from pakistan 🇵🇰🇵🇰
Bhai, se sab mere saath ho chuka hai...agar ye video mai tab dekh leta aur implement karata to mai uski nazaron me Chep insaan bana na hota... Lekin aaj mujhe meri galatiyon ka realisation ho gaya hai... Than you so much Mensutra👍
U r just amazing, ur method of speaking is fabulous, Allah bless you a lot.
आप जो कर रहे हैं।। उसकी इस भारत में सबसे ज्यादा जरूरत है,
एक बात
ये सन 1975 से होना चाहिए था।।
Real Facts Swetabh Sir,I love You Attitude and Personalty Swetabh Sir,Hats Off
Bhai ayi gyi bohot life me but kabhi ruka nahi aane wale ko roka na jaane wale ko kabhi toka nahi, life must go on, everything is in part of life girls also but it doesn't mean if we broked with someone then we will stop, no broh mujhe mere career aur mere dream se bohot pyar hai, wo song sahi hai boss
Duniya me aye ho to kaam karo pyaare.. ye kaam he tha jo Ratan Tata Ji Ko The Industrialist Banaya Aur Modi Ji President Without Any Women Behind They Are single, and Successful.
Video start hone se pahile like,
Ekdum yahi situation mere saath ho rahi hai,
bhai aap ki ''rudest book ever'' kharidi aur padhi and I can say best book ever read.......! respect for you ... !