@@carolloraine223 hahaha true that i love that my ex found another women she did me a favor happy dance i feel sorry for her .. she will wake up like i did maybe sooner then later lol
It helps because eliminates all the 'what if' possibilities. It gives you a definitive idea of the situation. That'll give you peace of mind to actually get your own life together.
In past experience...once I saw my x with someone new...that was fuel I needed to really move on...almost like the nail in the coffin...obviously its going to happen eventually...but once you see that reality how can it get any worse? you know...its like the push over the hill you need to say "well thats over"
Right on man! It confirms she has moved on, maybe she still loves you, but she is moving on. Also, who would take her back after you know for a fact someone new is pounding her haha
Him sleeping around with people just hurts me so much because the idea that I had of him is gone. He is not at all the guy I used to know, the guy I fell in love. The only thing left of him is hurt and pain.
Look at it this way. The best thing you can do is walk away. You will seem more confident and attractive. They will eventually miss you and have some regret. Then they’ll either come back or go away forever in which case they will receive the permanent gift of missing you & wondering what happened, because you just disappeared. Chasing them will make them the prize and drive them away further.
I think it helps with moving on, after a break up there is always hope and suspicion, overthinking, etc. this way you know she moved on and it can help you confirm that it’s over for sure. It also confirms it’s not a guy you know (hopefully) and it calms your mind and then you start really moving on
Birthday today. Ex messaged me the two-word birthday greeting. Immediately killed me, as she's the one that dropped me. I'm in the early "not good enough" phase, with the new relationship phase of hers. I took every bit of responsibility for the failed relationship, though it's not true. Your videos help get me through the day, even if I end up in tears... even when I can't get her out of my head, you (and Margaret) help. I....we, can't thank you two enough.
My husband was talking to a woman at work for 6 months and just left me for her 3 weeks ago. I just found out one week ago. I threatened, begged and smeared him to his co-workers who covered for him. Then I listened to you and let him go. I told him Im sorry for the way I reacted. I regret it. I love you and Im committed to work on our marriage if you decide to come home. If Not I will be fine and happy regardless. I have lost 50 lbs in 3 weeks fasting and praying. Working on myself and getting closer to God. Working on my emotional stability as well. Im from NE Washington
Sorry to hear but fasting for 3 weeks after a breakup and losing so much weight so quickly is NOT healthy and honestly that’s really concerning, especially given the circumstance
@@afterastrum ,Thanks for your concern. He came home, I gained the weight back we are very happy. Its been about a year now that he's been home. He came back soon after this post
I needed this video. My ex still hasn't grown up and regularly hits the bars. I believe she may be dating a guy who's much of the same. They sure do take you for granted.
As much as it hurts be happy for them and love yourself. There was resistance that's why it ended no matter the reason focusing and counting on your ex to possibly come back could be stopping you from getting your someone that is for you. Find a new focus you're worth it...
I have the same situation and did a lot of wrong things. But whatever you do, do not stalk them! Take it from me. I’ve been there and it felt like I dug my own grave. It’s bad for your mental and emotional health. I stopped and work on myself now. Please love yourself too.
i swear craig u need ur own tv show ive seen so many other videos but i feel tht your guys videos really do set u up for success no matter the outcome. u say the things we prob all are thinking but no one in our lives no matter how close can understand. it made me feel less alone. I think its safe to say we all that found peace in your videos owe you thankyou coach craig
My ex gf is now pregnant and allegedly engaged to her new partner even though its been nearly 5 months since she broke up with me after years of us being together. It hurt like hell but I am finding it easier to let her go and move on with my life.
Yep... broke up with my ex almost 7 months ago for mainly his cheating. Wr have a daughter together. And it kills me for some reason that he's dating some chick 10 years younger than him with a one year old. She stays alot at his new place even with her daughter and it upsets our daughter. Oh I know shes just using him.... but still. Fuck them both.
I see this happen a lot. Someone is in a serious relationship for 5, 6, 7 years, they break up and end up getting married to someone else just in a few months. My ex never understood it, even after she broke up with me, but now I wouldn't be surprised if she did just that.
How can they be with someone new when they never owned up and took responsibility for how their previous relationship failed 😔 Their just going to bring that into their new relationship..
Perfect timing Craig. I don't know how you do it, but your videos always come at the best times. I finally saw a picture of my ex and her new boyfriend last night. It hit hard, but Ive been working hard and ive managed it quite well. Im sticking to my self improvement and growth. Thanks Craig for sharing with us and helping us all so so so much. I know I wouldn't be able to handle things this well without you. I hope to get another coaching with you soon.
The right. As the idiot ex who broke up with my boyfriend a few years ago over something stupid and then had a rebound relationship, they’ll always probably compare what they had with you to the new rebound. In my case it didn’t measure up. It only lasted about a month. The only problem is some of us have to learn the hard way. And then you’re doing damage control and trying to fix it. Keep up the good work and I enjoy your videos.
These videos have helped me this past month during NC. Today I found out she is now seeing another guy. My whole world feels like it’s crashing. My anxiety has never been worse. This sucks.
My Husband of 20 yrs left on a text + hooked up with a work colleague, not sure if before or straight away. He kept it quiet for a year till he announced was going on holiday with her. This happened when our son was really ill + don’t think I could ever forgive him. Started divorce proceedings.
Happy Holidays, You guys are the best, i cant believe it. Margaret you are so right. The grass is not greener on the other side. i broke up with my partner, i was a wreak.I stumble on you guys channel i was so happy i start feeling better thank you guys so much. After a month of him dating, i applied no contact , he reach out telling me they broke up. Am back with my partner ,taking it slow. We are working on us we are both positive about the future. Thanks coaches.
Same happen to me she emotionally cheated for three months broke up with me to be with him...it hurts so much but I just want to move on and stop the hurt
@cee cee I know how you feel and I am super sorry that you are going through this, just take it one day at a time. It will get better.. I PROMISE! Sigh...if you feel like you want to cry... CRY! ALLOW YOURSELF TO FEEL WHATEVER YOU ARE FEELING..ACKNOWLEDGE IT, SIT IN THOSE EMOTIONS, but DO NOT ALLOW YOURSELF TO GET STUCK THERE and THEN MOVE FORWARD.
Dear Craig and Margaret. I see the philosophy behind your words and all that. I wish I could look at my situation so optimistically but the way things seem to be is just crushing... it's like I'm sure they will stay together no matter what, they look happy, they even look compatible...also introducing friends and family, everything you mention in the video is actually happening. It's incredible to see and know that.
There is only one me... when they made me they broke the mold!!! I wish all of you love.. Everyone deserves that. Thanks Craig and Margaret. You are the best!
I remmber when I was like 15 lol I was dating this girl for a year and we broke up. She was still calling me but one day I saw her with another guy and I felt like the world crushed on me... it was brutal 😂 but I learned to cope with these situations. And since then, everytime I see any ex with someone new, every small or big feeling I have for them it just vanishes, like a heavy feeling got off my chest.
Friend of mine saw my ex and the guy she monkey branched to at the store today. It actually gave me some peace in moving forward. I'll continue to work on myself, I can't control them, and if she wants to come back, that's her loss because I'm not second choice. I'll love her forever but she can't just walk back in and expect anything
Good to see you, Coaches! 😉 I actually could see it as a positive sign if my ex was ready to come out of his defeated shell and date ANYONE again- and I’m thinking anyone else he dates will pale in comparison and make him miss me!! :)
I thought you got your ex back? My ex dumped me on December 10. Since then, I've been caring less and less about my ex. Just living the good life and enjoying my single status. Why? No more drama. I don't like drama.
LaoSoftware- no, we never got back together in the real sense of the word. He only agreed to see me at his place, and only I initiated contact. Last time I saw him he told me that he thought he was incapable of being in a relationship. He’s depressed and defeated. I’ve let go. If he reaches out- I’ll talk to him with an open heart, but he’d have to come to me.
Coach Craig Kenneth -don't stress over it. Your great and we appreciate you and coach Margaret ❤ Plus could have been on accident. I watch you on my phone and accidentally pressed dislike button. When I went back to watch the video again I noticed and pressed the like button. Oops
Nevermind about that coach. Your fans are out there talking anxious attachment style But i Love the interplay between you and coach Margaret like a drama
Coach Craig Kenneth my saturday morning....listening to my coaches ...and cesar milan...the dog whisperer......it works somehow. Im in a strong relationship but i realize it can go away real quick.
Probably lol. But I don’t have any competition ;) Yes I’ve been told there are a few people copying my ideas word for word. Believe me, whoever they are... if they have no original ideas, they have no critical thinking to help anyone.
AHHHH!!! coach Craig & Margaret my husband has been in the grass is greener for awhile now and started dating a girl shortly after! This video is definitely what I needed to see 💗 thank you!
I feel absolutely hopeless at this point.. been about 6-7 months after the breakup but he still talked to me as if we were still together and said he wants a future still with me... he moved, and hit me up when he visited my town to hangout, then posted he was on a date with some girl and deleted me lmfao... what the heck do I even think of this?? He has disrespected me and done me dirty so many times !
Day 14 of no contact. We didn’t date very long, only 10-12 weeks, but we moved fast. We constantly texted, exchanged “I love yous” and kissy face emojis. She broke up with me after our first argument/disagreement. Totally blindsided. I miss her so much.
@@adrij4961 Around fall time last year, I noticed she had been looking at my Instagram stories, literally everyday. Eventually, I messaged her and asked her how she was doing. I could tell she was embarrassed because I asked her about the stalking. We exchanged pleasantries and were nice to each other, but that was it. That was the last time I heard from her. I still think about her daily though.
This is the best thing that can happen to you, if the new person is a good match you can move on, if not they will soon contact you. Trust me it happens, if they come back they do it crawling. Then you will have to tell yourself if them having sex with someone else is ok for you. You must be afraid if they don't meet no one new because it means they are recovering in the right way, to move on definitely.
@@yswen828 Yes we got back but at the end it was not the right decision and we broke 3 moths later for good. Sometimes you think it's what you want but then you discover it is not.
@Coach Craig Kenneth your videos are really amazing, simple and the best. You don't hover around new 'dating terms' or self created 'theories'. Just like a guardian you explain everything very nicely. Relationships has always been complicated sometimes and people go mad but instead of bursting their head on wall or crying before someone they can easily come to this channel and can get golden words. Thank you so much !
He told me he was trying to make it work again with us. Then a few days ago he flips and tells me he found someone else and hes never been this happy before in his life..
rexon wow this is a blast the past. Yeah I’m fantastic met a new girl shortly after this and we’re expecting a child in February 😄. Breaking up with her is the best thing to ever happen to me, I just didn’t want to admit it. But yeah I’m fantastic
It does hurt. I couldn’t sleep. I cried. But as time goes by you realise you can’t just be sad, you need to make your life better. I’m still struggling but I’m getting better.
Was dating my ex for 12 years, I broke up with him and 2 months later he’s dating someone new WITH MY NAME and tells me he’s so in love, they’re getting married and stuff like that. Idk what I should think about it. He’s was IN LOVE WITH ME, more than in love, obsessed; completely committed. could have spent his life with me and never lost an oz pf feeling. Now he says he feels nothing for me. Doesn’t love me. I call bs. He’s the type to NEED a relationship.
It’s happening to me now. She spent time with the new guy this long weekend and went to her parents house and dinner and a baseball game and though it hurts I realize there’s nothing I can do about it other than hope it doesn’t last
My thought is.... what will keep the ex from continuing the same behavior if he should want to come back once he discovers the grass not being greener?It would be temporary until the next "Shinier" comes along. Im pretty sure I won't want to risk it. He can't have his cake and eat it, too...unless it's on a different lawn! Ha Thanks!
My ex left me and started dating someone else almost immediately then moved in with him. I know it's not going well, becuase she called me crying because he beat her up. I immediately went over, helped her move back to her parents, then she said she wanted to see me soon. We made plans, but she blew me off and went back to his place. Haven't heard from her since. I got sucked back in, used, and left behind again. It's not fair.
i left my ex after 24 years … he met his new flavor of ice cream i wish them both well .. im focusing on my own dreams and goals moving forward never look back ..im loving being single no obligations or feeling drained he seriously sucked the life out of me it got so bad that even looking at him made me sick ..then it got to the point i stopped kissing him i wouldn't let him kiss me in ten years i would push him away as i felt nothing but disgust ..leaving him was the best thing i ever did for both of us
rebounds are bound to fail because they automatically compare you to them. first it's my ex never did this and then later on after they break up your still remembered.
I am crying while watching , I do lover her so much even if i am so much in pain but still want her to come back, I really i know i am hopeless but i just want to fix thing and want her back (LDR relationship 4 years as i was student and i was about to meet her next year) , I did begging and all for whole November but i am on no contact period from December. I hope she will return i really am praying.
This is great both of you do great. I just subscribed. My ex gf left me a week later she's with someone new. So 2 weeks fresh out of a break up. Been listening to a lot of self help videos and this by far is so helpful. Thanks again .
I had a wonderful relationship with a beautiful Italian women for one year. Unfortunately she suffers for anxiety depression and OCD. She constantly pushed to move in with me and brought all of her furniture and belongings. After two months she changed dramatically and moved back to her town house and stuck me with the moving. By the first of the next month she had another lover....
I have watched this video so many times. My ex orbits my social media every day, multiple times a day, and has been for 7 months now, even though she's dating someone new. I'm confident I can get her back.
M so happy actually crazy happy that i got more than 500 videos to watch you are an amazing person your teachings literally started working right away i mean like a min ago before i started watching i was feeling lost and worthless but now there is a big smile on my face while i am writing a comment thanks to you Craig and Margaret God bless you both. So you will get my comments more often as i am your big fan from today.
Me and my ex dated for 2 years and we broke up a week ago. She dropped all of my personal belongings at my house without telling me and I didn’t see her, she had blocked me through everything, and she jumped into a relationship within a week and I’m still single. We were each other’s first true love and idk what to do
This stuff is probably true for high school and college but I don't think adults behave like this. I don't think people get back together that much after those ages.
@@michealb8868 Not even then. I know some like that. Although if it is statistically right, then there has to be a higher chance of young couples or less serious / shorter term relationships to reconcile.
I just found you both over the last week.. Coach Margaret reminds me of my grandmother.. shes not with me anymore but i think of her when i need comfort.. its nice that you remind me of her! The person I have feelings for is a complicated character, he's quite mean but have some nice qualities underneath it all. For the last 11 months we saw each other every weekend (after the boys activities which usually involve drinking. but he is non commital. Also we only had about 10 actual dates all up, I always asked to go to dinner or something and it would take him 3 or 4 weeks to finally agree each time. Each monday or tuesday he would pull away. I would accept and let it go each time (most times this was heated) and then by the weekend he would approach me again kind of with his tail between his legs. I've been hurting for 10 months and about a month ago he called it off. He went on holiday and said he missed me and when he came back we united again for one night. Within 24 hours he was mean again telling me to literally "f off to work" in the morning. Then he was cold and mean and for one week I pleaded. Last week I stopped contact. On the 7th day he emailed me whilst drunk and I didnt respond. The next day he added a friend of mine on insta and i knew it was to get to me. I broke no contact and told him off for liking pics of her butt. He is like that, he thinks being mean and cheeky will trigger me, and it did. I blasted him for being a drunk and a drug addict and a pervert. He said he didnt want to hurt me and that he loves me. All i want to do is tell him that I love him too... but hes so mean, hes so non committal and he plays these games. When I was pleading he would reply "get gone" "scoot" "go f someone else". I need to heal. I didnt reply to the i love u message. I dont trust him with my feelings any more. He takes advantage of my forgiveness and then tosses me to the curb again. I just don't know what to do. Its so hard to move on.
Yeah, they leave you for someone else. She's sleeping with someone else for many Saturday nights while you're watching Netflix. You really want them back?
I love these videos! Thank you for your guidance! We have a child together and I was completely stuck . He is seeing someone new. I decided to just live my life and move on . Who knows the future. I am not ready to date . I am working on myself still a year later after being single
Hi Craig, she dumped me a month ago and sees someone else. Now she's posting on social of good screws,cunningly of course, and looking forward to more knowing I will see it. I am now in no contact after making a fool of myself
My ex claimed to be in a relationship just as spontaneous revenge when he assumed wrongly I had dissed him on social media. His son confirmed he was not in a relationship.
The both of you! Craig and Margaret are beautiful people and have helped me immensely during my time of no contact, my gf I was only with for 3 months! and we got a long great!? and she wanted to put a label on us and also was the first to say that "L" word! but was also the one to push me away due to jealousy on her part and saying she wasn't ready for a relationship due to past trauma with an Ex... to now I have been split up with her for just over a month and found out after probably 3 weeks of our split she is in another relationship!? I thought that was an odd way of her saying she needed to "heal" but I know better what it actually is now... made it a bit easier for me to move on since that's the closure I never got with her in person! you guys rock!
Finding out your ex is dating someone else is one thing, but having your person leave you for someone else is one of the toughest things you can go through in life. I know it does not seem like a consolation, but if you go through this once or a few times and better yourself after, you will have a stronger resolve in almost all other aspects of your life. Things will not bother you as much, you become iron and let less significant worries bounce off you like Usher's head on Nicki Minaj's butt at the 2014 VMA's. Or like an energy beam bouncing off a light saber( that one is for you, Craig lol)
I have a friend who has now been separated for 4 months and now she just met some Venezuelan guy, talking sweet, fun and kind he is, saying that she wants him to teach her his culture.
Yeah so the kind of woman i was with for 10 years dumps me out the blue , blocks me on all social media , i struggled to do NC but i managed a week or so and was improving a little , then she decides to text me from nowhere to tell me shes met someone knew. I went back to square one , why the f**k would any girl want to do this to someone. I never once treated her bad
My girlfriend just left me last of last month for someone else that they go at the same church . We've been together for three years now I don't know what to do I have trying to apologise, trying to ask her if we can meet so that we can fix things but she's doesn't want. I really appreciate to find this video on TH-cam that gives me some sense right now. .. Thanks Craig
Wow! This is my exact situation. Together for almost 3 years, and the last 2.5 years we grew apart because of work stuff. She took a new job and met someone at work that she started to like and here i am now watching your videos. Its on pause just to write this. Im glad i foumd this video. It hits very close to home. Okay back to the video now.
Thank you for the reassurance. I was with my ex 6 years and I want him back. It has been a while since we broke up and he's dating someone. Recently we've been in contact and even spent the night together, I know most people would give up but i am going to continue the marathon! I believe in our love. It makes me sick to my stomach thinking of them together.
How long is the break up? And do you really want to be with your ex who drop you for another girl? I would consider it a blessing because if your relationship go on and you both marry...what if he drop you for another girl when you have kids? To be honest he is showing that he isn't worth your level. You contacting him is just making him move on easily from you imo and some might agree or disagree. If I were you I rather move on and find a guy who will be committed and won't give up on us.
First I want to say thank you for your response. I wrote that comment 3 months ago and so much has happened since. 2. you are absolutely correct, I really do not want to be anyone's second choice. I was in love with the idea of him and he has shown me his true colors in the recent months. Your response opened my eyes, even more, and I choose to move on.
Nid F we are all on the same boat, my ex gf did that to me, she used to be so committed to me and suddenly she break up with me telling me she love another guy. Not only that, she chooses her parents even if they are the one bringing her down at times. Also, I was good to her, I'm not perfect but I had some flaws but can be easily fix but she gave up on me. The questions I gave you was the same questions I ask myself too. My break up is fresh but I have to move on for my own good. Idk if you heard this quote but here : "if a person can walk away from you, let them walk" if they truely care and loved you, they wouldve stayed and work out on your flaws or bad situation. Not gonna lie, I'm a guy and yes I cried after the break up but didn't cry in her face though. Every now and then it hurts but getting better slowly.
I'm sorry to hear that. I feel like I gave our relationship 110% at all times, even if it meant caring more for him then myself. He walked out on me, our house, dogs, our whole life without even trying to talk. He literally left when I was at work, didn't leave a note, no text, nothing. I was devastated. He showed up later on that night and said 'you wanted to talk, let's talk'. I said no more. He would drunk text me and message me for about 1 year. We had been through it before and I guess I got upset/jealous that he had moved on so I tried to get him back, but for the wrong reasons.
At least you are owning up to your 'flaws', he never did. I am learning that sometimes a break-up is a good lesson as to what you do and do not want in your life. It was too hard, and I really do not see how your ex can say she's in love with another when she's with you. My ex totally used me, cheated on his new gf and then blocked me..nice huh?
I like that a rebound could possibly make me look better towards her but I wouldn’t like it if she was with another man... this whole situation is horrible. 😩😞
Thank you . I feel like you helped me with this break up . Was going crazy and my anxiety was going up the roof . I do have a question my ex currently send me a email yesterday I did not reply to it he basically said I will always love you have nice life . I know what it means but didn’t know how to take it does that mean it’s done move on but I still will always cherish the time I was with you ? I was going crazy trying to see what it meant because it can be a lot of things right ?? Please help ☹️
Anxiety is really bad! But Craig Kenneth always will make you feel better! And hold on time and work on yourself! Feel free to ask anything, I’m here you not alone remember all this people here are going thru the same problem! Be strong
I love this topic coach..😍 I've seen my worth and got a clear insights of "greener grass". You two coach Margarette and coach Craig are a blessing to many people around the world. GOD bless you more and more.🙏🙏
The grass is always greener over the septic tank lol
Craig Goodie
omg! Loved your saying and SO true!!
Thanks for the Laugh!!!
The grass isn't greener on the other side ,the grass just needs some watering
@@carolloraine223 hahaha true that i love that my ex found another women she did me a favor happy dance i feel sorry for her .. she will wake up like i did maybe sooner then later lol
Haha...good one!
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Some people dont realize anything.after 5 years of Great relationship they still think the grass is greener
It helps because eliminates all the 'what if' possibilities. It gives you a definitive idea of the situation. That'll give you peace of mind to actually get your own life together.
"You could not live with your own failure... where did that bring you?... Back to me"
Thanos
In past experience...once I saw my x with someone new...that was fuel I needed to really move on...almost like the nail in the coffin...obviously its going to happen eventually...but once you see that reality how can it get any worse? you know...its like the push over the hill you need to say "well thats over"
Right on man! It confirms she has moved on, maybe she still loves you, but she is moving on. Also, who would take her back after you know for a fact someone new is pounding her haha
Lmao true same for me
I feel this comment! Well said good man
It's been a year since this comment..how have you been?? How are you?
@@baklava6138 your ex was pounded by someone else before you even met her as well, so where is the difference? this is just your hurt ego speaking.
Him sleeping around with people just hurts me so much because the idea that I had of him is gone. He is not at all the guy I used to know, the guy I fell in love. The only thing left of him is hurt and pain.
Look at it this way. The best thing you can do is walk away. You will seem more confident and attractive. They will eventually miss you and have some regret. Then they’ll either come back or go away forever in which case they will receive the permanent gift of missing you & wondering what happened, because you just disappeared. Chasing them will make them the prize and drive them away further.
Disloyalty is DISLOYAL even if it does come back!
It's an ex! They have the right to date someone else.
I have right to rejecte her
@@cheetahcat3940 but they don't have the right to treat you like shit! After the break up
I think it helps with moving on, after a break up there is always hope and suspicion, overthinking, etc. this way you know she moved on and it can help you confirm that it’s over for sure. It also confirms it’s not a guy you know (hopefully) and it calms your mind and then you start really moving on
Unless its the guy she told you not to worry about and that she chose you not them. Broke up with me and started dating them a week later
It hurts when he thought the grass was greener on the other side and it truly was greener in the end....
Birthday today. Ex messaged me the two-word birthday greeting. Immediately killed me, as she's the one that dropped me. I'm in the early "not good enough" phase, with the new relationship phase of hers. I took every bit of responsibility for the failed relationship, though it's not true. Your videos help get me through the day, even if I end up in tears... even when I can't get her out of my head, you (and Margaret) help. I....we, can't thank you two enough.
Nick Musgrave my advice is to cut all contact so you can heal.
Everyone got a plan until they get punched in the mouth
Iron Mike Tyson
Didier Mukendi 😂😂😂😂
True. Very true
Float like a butterfly sting like a bee
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My husband was talking to a woman at work for 6 months and just left me for her 3 weeks ago. I just found out one week ago. I threatened, begged and smeared him to his co-workers who covered for him. Then I listened to you and let him go. I told him Im sorry for the way I reacted. I regret it. I love you and Im committed to work on our marriage if you decide to come home. If Not I will be fine and happy regardless. I have lost 50 lbs in 3 weeks fasting and praying. Working on myself and getting closer to God. Working on my emotional stability as well.
Im from NE Washington
Best revenge to live your best life and be happier! I am in similar situation! Just let go and the universe will bring something better.😊
Sorry to hear but fasting for 3 weeks after a breakup and losing so much weight so quickly is NOT healthy and honestly that’s really concerning, especially given the circumstance
@@afterastrum ,Thanks for your concern. He came home, I gained the weight back we are very happy. Its been about a year now that he's been home. He came back soon after this post
@@tiffanycontreras6614 update?
@@Byku010 been back together soon after. He quit drinking and our marriage is better than ever.
Don’t think you could forgive them when they have been somewhere else.
I needed this video. My ex still hasn't grown up and regularly hits the bars. I believe she may be dating a guy who's much of the same. They sure do take you for granted.
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I believe I have always been good with him, he'll realize that soon
As much as it hurts be happy for them and love yourself. There was resistance that's why it ended no matter the reason focusing and counting on your ex to possibly come back could be stopping you from getting your someone that is for you. Find a new focus you're worth it...
Please.. I don't know why I feel this way.. I thought I recovered from it.. But then I saw it.. And now I feel like I'm back to square one..
Mademoiselle Mia how are you holding up??
I feel that currently. It’s been a week from hell for me. I’m blocked on all social media and my phone number too. 💔 it hurts so much
Same here
@@chinitawithabs624 Any positive updates, guys?
I have the same situation and did a lot of wrong things. But whatever you do, do not stalk them! Take it from me. I’ve been there and it felt like I dug my own grave. It’s bad for your mental and emotional health. I stopped and work on myself now. Please love yourself too.
i swear craig u need ur own tv show ive seen so many other videos but i feel tht your guys videos really do set u up for success no matter the outcome. u say the things we prob all are thinking but no one in our lives no matter how close can understand. it made me feel less alone. I think its safe to say we all that found peace in your videos owe you thankyou coach craig
Great video! You should add: Feelings can change but love never dies!
Love it!!!!!!!!!!
My ex gf is now pregnant and allegedly engaged to her new partner even though its been nearly 5 months since she broke up with me after years of us being together. It hurt like hell but I am finding it easier to let her go and move on with my life.
Yep... broke up with my ex almost 7 months ago for mainly his cheating. Wr have a daughter together. And it kills me for some reason that he's dating some chick 10 years younger than him with a one year old. She stays alot at his new place even with her daughter and it upsets our daughter. Oh I know shes just using him.... but still. Fuck them both.
I see this happen a lot. Someone is in a serious relationship for 5, 6, 7 years, they break up and end up getting married to someone else just in a few months. My ex never understood it, even after she broke up with me, but now I wouldn't be surprised if she did just that.
Tarantula Fangs I’m currently going through this
My ex is pregnant with her new man after only 2 months after the break up
I feel Like crap 24/7:(
That shit hurts bro. U ok?
R-e-b-o-u-n-d. Be glad it's not you.
Never mind her... I’m dating someone new
you didn't really love her !
How can people forget that person that you do anything for get her back
The sudden need to be with someone new to cover up the pain is the reality all will not admit. Hang in there all of you wonderful people
How can they be with someone new when they never owned up and took responsibility for how their previous relationship failed 😔
Their just going to bring that into their new relationship..
Watching this video is like sitting down with two good friends who give great advice.
Thank you both!
Perfect timing Craig. I don't know how you do it, but your videos always come at the best times. I finally saw a picture of my ex and her new boyfriend last night. It hit hard, but Ive been working hard and ive managed it quite well. Im sticking to my self improvement and growth. Thanks Craig for sharing with us and helping us all so so so much. I know I wouldn't be able to handle things this well without you. I hope to get another coaching with you soon.
General Mills hang in there brother. Going through something similar myself.
General Mills dame here we lost our baby 2 months ago and after dump me and now she is dating someone and moving in with him
Same here boys it sucks ass
Its just hurt so much
General Mills did you get her back
"The grass is greener where you water it."
Wxzxapp me.
The right. As the idiot ex who broke up with my boyfriend a few years ago over something stupid and then had a rebound relationship, they’ll always probably compare what they had with you to the new rebound. In my case it didn’t measure up. It only lasted about a month. The only problem is some of us have to learn the hard way. And then you’re doing damage control and trying to fix it. Keep up the good work and I enjoy your videos.
These videos have helped me this past month during NC. Today I found out she is now seeing another guy. My whole world feels like it’s crashing. My anxiety has never been worse. This sucks.
How are you now?
My Husband of 20 yrs left on a text + hooked up with a work colleague, not sure if before or straight away. He kept it quiet for a year till he announced was going on holiday with her. This happened when our son was really ill + don’t think I could ever forgive him. Started divorce proceedings.
Fuck that piece of shit. Eventually he will come to regret his actions
Happy Holidays,
You guys are the best, i cant believe it. Margaret you are so right. The grass is not greener on the other side. i broke up with my partner, i was a wreak.I stumble on you guys channel i was so happy i start feeling better thank you guys so much.
After a month of him dating, i applied no contact , he reach out telling me they broke up.
Am back with my partner ,taking it slow. We are working on us we are both positive about the future.
Thanks coaches.
Saw their pictures - so devastated ! Cheated on me then dumped me - they look really happy on the pics
Same happen to me she emotionally cheated for three months broke up with me to be with him...it hurts so much but I just want to move on and stop the hurt
Donny & Allison Davis how are you holding up?
That feeling when the broken hearted never return to give updates again.
@cee cee I know how you feel and I am super sorry that you are going through this, just take it one day at a time. It will get better.. I PROMISE! Sigh...if you feel like you want to cry... CRY! ALLOW YOURSELF TO FEEL WHATEVER YOU ARE FEELING..ACKNOWLEDGE IT, SIT IN THOSE EMOTIONS, but DO NOT ALLOW YOURSELF TO GET STUCK THERE and THEN MOVE FORWARD.
How are you doing now?
Dear Craig and Margaret. I see the philosophy behind your words and all that. I wish I could look at my situation so optimistically but the way things seem to be is just crushing... it's like I'm sure they will stay together no matter what, they look happy, they even look compatible...also introducing friends and family, everything you mention in the video is actually happening. It's incredible to see and know that.
Coach Margaret, what a woman 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👌🏽
There is only one me... when they made me they broke the mold!!! I wish all of you love.. Everyone deserves that. Thanks Craig and Margaret. You are the best!
I remmber when I was like 15 lol I was dating this girl for a year and we broke up. She was still calling me but one day I saw her with another guy and I felt like the world crushed on me... it was brutal 😂 but I learned to cope with these situations. And since then, everytime I see any ex with someone new, every small or big feeling I have for them it just vanishes, like a heavy feeling got off my chest.
Global me too. Jealousy does not work turns me off
Friend of mine saw my ex and the guy she monkey branched to at the store today. It actually gave me some peace in moving forward. I'll continue to work on myself, I can't control them, and if she wants to come back, that's her loss because I'm not second choice. I'll love her forever but she can't just walk back in and expect anything
update?
Agree being cheated on Sucks and I wish there was medicine for a broken heart and soul.
Good to see you, Coaches! 😉 I actually could see it as a positive sign if my ex was ready to come out of his defeated shell and date ANYONE again- and I’m thinking anyone else he dates will pale in comparison and make him miss me!! :)
I thought you got your ex back? My ex dumped me on December 10. Since then, I've been caring less and less about my ex. Just living the good life and enjoying my single status. Why? No more drama. I don't like drama.
LaoSoftware- no, we never got back together in the real sense of the word. He only agreed to see me at his place, and only I initiated contact. Last time I saw him he told me that he thought he was incapable of being in a relationship. He’s depressed and defeated. I’ve let go. If he reaches out- I’ll talk to him with an open heart, but he’d have to come to me.
I’m so so scared. They dated for longer than we have now and I hate itttttt
Another great vid! So glad Margaret is FINALLY part of the team doing coaching sessions. :)
Someone disliked the video again before they could watch it lol pathetic
Coach Craig Kenneth -don't stress over it. Your great and we appreciate you and coach Margaret ❤
Plus could have been on accident. I watch you on my phone and accidentally pressed dislike button. When I went back to watch the video again I noticed and pressed the like button. Oops
Nevermind about that coach. Your fans are out there talking anxious attachment style
But i Love the interplay between you and coach Margaret like a drama
Coach Craig Kenneth my saturday morning....listening to my coaches ...and cesar milan...the dog whisperer......it works somehow. Im in a strong relationship but i realize it can go away real quick.
Some competitors maybe 😂😂
Probably lol. But I don’t have any competition ;)
Yes I’ve been told there are a few people copying my ideas word for word. Believe me, whoever they are... if they have no original ideas, they have no critical thinking to help anyone.
OR they realized the grass IS greener, at least for them, and they don't miss you at all. This seems to be my case unfortunately.
Trust me the grass is never greener. Especially if during the breakup they treated u like u were nothing. Karma doesn't skip a beat.
For the time being it seems that way- but nothing is temporary and it all comes crashing down.
AHHHH!!! coach Craig & Margaret my husband has been in the grass is greener for awhile now and started dating a girl shortly after! This video is definitely what I needed to see 💗 thank you!
Kathleen Hrdlicka how are you holding up? Any updates?
I feel absolutely hopeless at this point.. been about 6-7 months after the breakup but he still talked to me as if we were still together and said he wants a future still with me... he moved, and hit me up when he visited my town to hangout, then posted he was on a date with some girl and deleted me lmfao... what the heck do I even think of this?? He has disrespected me and done me dirty so many times !
Hope you doing fine , any updates?
It does feel like the worst feeling in the world. I hate it so much. I’m so glad I watched this video. Thank you!
It is gut wrenchingly painful. Worse than death
Day 14 of no contact. We didn’t date very long, only 10-12 weeks, but we moved fast. We constantly texted, exchanged “I love yous” and kissy face emojis. She broke up with me after our first argument/disagreement. Totally blindsided. I miss her so much.
@@adrij4961 Around fall time last year, I noticed she had been looking at my Instagram stories, literally everyday. Eventually, I messaged her and asked her how she was doing. I could tell she was embarrassed because I asked her about the stalking. We exchanged pleasantries and were nice to each other, but that was it. That was the last time I heard from her. I still think about her daily though.
This is the best thing that can happen to you, if the new person is a good match you can move on, if not they will soon contact you.
Trust me it happens, if they come back they do it crawling. Then you will have to tell yourself if them having sex with someone else is ok for you.
You must be afraid if they don't meet no one new because it means they are recovering in the right way, to move on definitely.
Ugo did you get your ex back?
@@yswen828 Yes we got back but at the end it was not the right decision and we broke 3 moths later for good. Sometimes you think it's what you want but then you discover it is not.
Ugo did you do coaching with Craig Kenneth or you went through this on your own? How did you two become broken up?
@Coach Craig Kenneth your videos are really amazing, simple and the best. You don't hover around new 'dating terms' or self created 'theories'. Just like a guardian you explain everything very nicely. Relationships has always been complicated sometimes and people go mad but instead of bursting their head on wall or crying before someone they can easily come to this channel and can get golden words. Thank you so much !
Sounds like the Law of (Cognitive) Consistency, where their thoughts, beliefs and attitudes begin to change based on decisions they've made.
He told me he was trying to make it work again with us. Then a few days ago he flips and tells me he found someone else and hes never been this happy before in his life..
Hey Craig, I 'd love to see a video on an ex dating someone new after months apart. Thank you!
Margaret is so enduring... Love her!
I told him in a text he took to long to come back so I moved on and happy because he has someone new
Just found out my ex has been dating a new guy for a week and i’am really falling to pieces, just found out today and I’m distraught it hurts so bad
U good now?
rexon wow this is a blast the past. Yeah I’m fantastic met a new girl shortly after this and we’re expecting a child in February 😄. Breaking up with her is the best thing to ever happen to me, I just didn’t want to admit it. But yeah I’m fantastic
It does hurt. I couldn’t sleep. I cried. But as time goes by you realise you can’t just be sad, you need to make your life better.
I’m still struggling but I’m getting better.
Was dating my ex for 12 years, I broke up with him and 2 months later he’s dating someone new WITH MY NAME and tells me he’s so in love, they’re getting married and stuff like that. Idk what I should think about it. He’s was IN LOVE WITH ME, more than in love, obsessed; completely committed. could have spent his life with me and never lost an oz pf feeling. Now he says he feels nothing for me. Doesn’t love me. I call bs. He’s the type to NEED a relationship.
Margaret makes me feel so safe
It’s happening to me now. She spent time with the new guy this long weekend and went to her parents house and dinner and a baseball game and though it hurts I realize there’s nothing I can do about it other than hope it doesn’t last
What’s your update did she come crawling back?
My thought is.... what will keep the ex from continuing the same behavior if he should want to come back once he discovers the grass not being greener?It would be temporary until the next "Shinier" comes along.
Im pretty sure I won't want to risk it. He can't have his cake and eat it, too...unless it's on a different lawn! Ha
Thanks!
My ex left me and started dating someone else almost immediately then moved in with him. I know it's not going well, becuase she called me crying because he beat her up. I immediately went over, helped her move back to her parents, then she said she wanted to see me soon. We made plans, but she blew me off and went back to his place. Haven't heard from her since.
I got sucked back in, used, and left behind again. It's not fair.
Tyler Johnson woahhhhhh that’s so foul of her :/
i left my ex after 24 years … he met his new flavor of ice cream i wish them both well .. im focusing on my own dreams and goals moving forward never look back ..im loving being single no obligations or feeling drained he seriously sucked the life out of me it got so bad that even looking at him made me sick ..then it got to the point i stopped kissing him i wouldn't let him kiss me in ten years i would push him away as i felt nothing but disgust ..leaving him was the best thing i ever did for both of us
rebounds are bound to fail because they automatically compare you to them. first it's my ex never did this and then later on after they break up your still remembered.
Best coach ever and I love and respect margaret!
I am crying while watching , I do lover her so much even if i am so much in pain but still want her to come back, I really i know i am hopeless but i just want to fix thing and want her back (LDR relationship 4 years as i was student and i was about to meet her next year) , I did begging and all for whole November but i am on no contact period from December.
I hope she will return i really am praying.
This is great both of you do great. I just subscribed. My ex gf left me a week later she's with someone new. So 2 weeks fresh out of a break up. Been listening to a lot of self help videos and this by far is so helpful. Thanks again .
Same here bro
If it's that close she was cheating on you
@@tr9809 maybe she already started liking the guy
Same here. He left me and week later he’s in relationship with this girl from his class😑
Anyone else laugh out loud when she goes “We better try strawberry” even though the point was to go back to vanilla 😂
Crack up
Lmao my ex would go to another flavor not come back. So what she said was lowkey accurate too 😆🤣
I’m really angry and disappointed I can’t sleep... I can barely eat... idk how to get over this feeling it sucks
Hang in there.
I know exactly how you feel I was there a month ago
How u doing now?
Same. Doing the most basic thing such as going to the shop is excruciating. They are with you everywhere
The grass is not greener on the other side
I had a wonderful relationship with a beautiful Italian women for one year. Unfortunately she suffers for anxiety depression and OCD. She constantly pushed to move in with me and brought all of her furniture and belongings. After two months she changed dramatically and moved back to her town house and stuck me with the moving. By the first of the next month she had another lover....
Like the Italian guy I dated
I have watched this video so many times. My ex orbits my social media every day, multiple times a day, and has been for 7 months now, even though she's dating someone new. I'm confident I can get her back.
M so happy actually crazy happy that i got more than 500 videos to watch you are an amazing person your teachings literally started working right away i mean like a min ago before i started watching i was feeling lost and worthless but now there is a big smile on my face while i am writing a comment thanks to you Craig and Margaret God bless you both. So you will get my comments more often as i am your big fan from today.
can you do alot more videos on ex girlfriend dating someone new please?
Me and my ex dated for 2 years and we broke up a week ago. She dropped all of my personal belongings at my house without telling me and I didn’t see her, she had blocked me through everything, and she jumped into a relationship within a week and I’m still single. We were each other’s first true love and idk what to do
This stuff is probably true for high school and college but I don't think adults behave like this. I don't think people get back together that much after those ages.
Failed marriages almost never get back togeather, unless kids are involved
@@michealb8868 Not even then. I know some like that. Although if it is statistically right, then there has to be a higher chance of young couples or less serious / shorter term relationships to reconcile.
I just found you both over the last week.. Coach Margaret reminds me of my grandmother.. shes not with me anymore but i think of her when i need comfort.. its nice that you remind me of her!
The person I have feelings for is a complicated character, he's quite mean but have some nice qualities underneath it all. For the last 11 months we saw each other every weekend (after the boys activities which usually involve drinking. but he is non commital. Also we only had about 10 actual dates all up, I always asked to go to dinner or something and it would take him 3 or 4 weeks to finally agree each time. Each monday or tuesday he would pull away. I would accept and let it go each time (most times this was heated) and then by the weekend he would approach me again kind of with his tail between his legs. I've been hurting for 10 months and about a month ago he called it off. He went on holiday and said he missed me and when he came back we united again for one night. Within 24 hours he was mean again telling me to literally "f off to work" in the morning. Then he was cold and mean and for one week I pleaded. Last week I stopped contact. On the 7th day he emailed me whilst drunk and I didnt respond. The next day he added a friend of mine on insta and i knew it was to get to me. I broke no contact and told him off for liking pics of her butt. He is like that, he thinks being mean and cheeky will trigger me, and it did. I blasted him for being a drunk and a drug addict and a pervert. He said he didnt want to hurt me and that he loves me. All i want to do is tell him that I love him too... but hes so mean, hes so non committal and he plays these games. When I was pleading he would reply "get gone" "scoot" "go f someone else". I need to heal. I didnt reply to the i love u message. I dont trust him with my feelings any more. He takes advantage of my forgiveness and then tosses me to the curb again. I just don't know what to do. Its so hard to move on.
I have such anxiety everyday about this and it’s killing me!
I feel like my ex is just moving future and future away from me and getting more and more attached when this new guy. I don't know what to do.
Xxx Tentacion go to college and you’ll find some quick
Sea full of women there
Apex Animal I agree with you
And get a better looking chick then her that loves you for who you are and will appreciate your good treatment.
Update?
Yeah, they leave you for someone else. She's sleeping with someone else for many Saturday nights while you're watching Netflix. You really want them back?
Absolutely not! My ex crossed the line with me. Never want him back!
No way. I just want them to want me back so I can say get lost.
Coach Craig & Margaret you hit me on point. That’s how I feel now and what I’m dealing now.
I love these videos! Thank you for your guidance! We have a child together and I was completely stuck . He is seeing someone new. I decided to just live my life and move on . Who knows the future. I am not ready to date . I am working on myself still a year later after being single
My wit & charm! Love Coach Margaret 😙
Hi Craig, she dumped me a month ago and sees someone else. Now she's posting on social of good screws,cunningly of course, and looking forward to more knowing I will see it. I am now in no contact after making a fool of myself
MARGET SMILE LOOKS LIKE THE SUN ON A BEAUTIFUL DAY 🥰🥰🥰
My ex claimed to be in a relationship just as spontaneous revenge when he assumed wrongly I had dissed him on social media. His son confirmed he was not in a relationship.
He went back with his new wife again. Very cool and straight it will be so nice if you could PLEASE leave him alone. Rachel Rio Hernandez thank you.
The both of you! Craig and Margaret are beautiful people and have helped me immensely during my time of no contact, my gf I was only with for 3 months! and we got a long great!? and she wanted to put a label on us and also was the first to say that "L" word! but was also the one to push me away due to jealousy on her part and saying she wasn't ready for a relationship due to past trauma with an Ex... to now I have been split up with her for just over a month and found out after probably 3 weeks of our split she is in another relationship!? I thought that was an odd way of her saying she needed to "heal" but I know better what it actually is now... made it a bit easier for me to move on since that's the closure I never got with her in person! you guys rock!
Remember your worth
Finding out your ex is dating someone else is one thing, but having your person leave you for someone else is one of the toughest things you can go through in life. I know it does not seem like a consolation, but if you go through this once or a few times and better yourself after, you will have a stronger resolve in almost all other aspects of your life. Things will not bother you as much, you become iron and let less significant worries bounce off you like Usher's head on Nicki Minaj's butt at the 2014 VMA's. Or like an energy beam bouncing off a light saber( that one is for you, Craig lol)
I have a friend who has now been separated for 4 months and now she just met some Venezuelan guy, talking sweet, fun and kind he is, saying that she wants him to teach her his culture.
Yeah so the kind of woman i was with for 10 years dumps me out the blue , blocks me on all social media , i struggled to do NC but i managed a week or so and was improving a little , then she decides to text me from nowhere to tell me shes met someone knew. I went back to square one , why the f**k would any girl want to do this to someone. I never once treated her bad
My girlfriend just left me last of last month for someone else that they go at the same church . We've been together for three years now I don't know what to do I have trying to apologise, trying to ask her if we can meet so that we can fix things but she's doesn't want. I really appreciate to find this video on TH-cam that gives me some sense right now. .. Thanks Craig
Wow! This is my exact situation. Together for almost 3 years, and the last 2.5 years we grew apart because of work stuff. She took a new job and met someone at work that she started to like and here i am now watching your videos. Its on pause just to write this. Im glad i foumd this video. It hits very close to home. Okay back to the video now.
You both are amazing. Your videos have helped me soooo much and I am so glad I found you both on TH-cam!
Coach Craig and Margaret.. May you live 🍎🎵🍎🎵longer...and happier.💮🌻💮🌻You both deserve more Love and Blessings EVER..💮💮
I've been scared of this but I think it would help with constantly hoping she comes back. You know for sure she is not.
What about long distance relationship? After our breakup she is now dating the boy living in her city.
Thank you for the reassurance. I was with my ex 6 years and I want him back. It has been a while since we broke up and he's dating someone. Recently we've been in contact and even spent the night together, I know most people would give up but i am going to continue the marathon! I believe in our love. It makes me sick to my stomach thinking of them together.
How long is the break up? And do you really want to be with your ex who drop you for another girl? I would consider it a blessing because if your relationship go on and you both marry...what if he drop you for another girl when you have kids? To be honest he is showing that he isn't worth your level. You contacting him is just making him move on easily from you imo and some might agree or disagree. If I were you I rather move on and find a guy who will be committed and won't give up on us.
First I want to say thank you for your response. I wrote that comment 3 months ago and so much has happened since. 2. you are absolutely correct, I really do not want to be anyone's second choice. I was in love with the idea of him and he has shown me his true colors in the recent months. Your response opened my eyes, even more, and I choose to move on.
Nid F we are all on the same boat, my ex gf did that to me, she used to be so committed to me and suddenly she break up with me telling me she love another guy. Not only that, she chooses her parents even if they are the one bringing her down at times. Also, I was good to her, I'm not perfect but I had some flaws but can be easily fix but she gave up on me. The questions I gave you was the same questions I ask myself too. My break up is fresh but I have to move on for my own good. Idk if you heard this quote but here : "if a person can walk away from you, let them walk" if they truely care and loved you, they wouldve stayed and work out on your flaws or bad situation. Not gonna lie, I'm a guy and yes I cried after the break up but didn't cry in her face though. Every now and then it hurts but getting better slowly.
I'm sorry to hear that. I feel like I gave our relationship 110% at all times, even if it meant caring more for him then myself. He walked out on me, our house, dogs, our whole life without even trying to talk. He literally left when I was at work, didn't leave a note, no text, nothing. I was devastated. He showed up later on that night and said 'you wanted to talk, let's talk'. I said no more. He would drunk text me and message me for about 1 year. We had been through it before and I guess I got upset/jealous that he had moved on so I tried to get him back, but for the wrong reasons.
At least you are owning up to your 'flaws', he never did. I am learning that sometimes a break-up is a good lesson as to what you do and do not want in your life. It was too hard, and I really do not see how your ex can say she's in love with another when she's with you. My ex totally used me, cheated on his new gf and then blocked me..nice huh?
I like that a rebound could possibly make me look better towards her but I wouldn’t like it if she was with another man... this whole situation is horrible. 😩😞
Thank you . I feel like you helped me with this break up . Was going crazy and my anxiety was going up the roof . I do have a question my ex currently send me a email yesterday I did not reply to it he basically said I will always love you have nice life . I know what it means but didn’t know how to take it does that mean it’s done move on but I still will always cherish the time I was with you ? I was going crazy trying to see what it meant because it can be a lot of things right ?? Please help ☹️
Anxiety is really bad! But Craig Kenneth always will make you feel better! And hold on time and work on yourself!
Feel free to ask anything, I’m here you not alone remember all this people here are going thru the same problem! Be strong
I love this topic coach..😍 I've seen my worth and got a clear insights of "greener grass".
You two coach Margarette and coach Craig are a blessing to many people around the world. GOD bless you more and more.🙏🙏
Thank you i needed to hear this 🤗