This relationship is going to be tough to survive

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  • Granger Smith Podcast Episode 120: I'm so sorry you're in this situation. Dealing with a cheating spouse is a tough road, especially with a one-week-old child. I do believe it's possible for the relationship to survive, but if he breaks the commitment of counseling... You need to walk out of this. Join me as we chat about this topic and more on this week's podcast!
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  • @edhammond6911
    @edhammond6911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hey Grainger. This is Kyle‘s father. Sorry I didn’t get to meet you yesterday. I wanted to tell you that you did a fantastic job preaching and I am positive many people were blessed by your message. I don’t do social media so I used this platform to let you know. God bless you brother, My family and I are praying for you and your family.

  • @dixsigns1717
    @dixsigns1717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My husband is a recovering catholic and he still thinks God grades on a curve. Thank you so much for talking about these hard subjects. Love this vcast. Thanks!

  • @ridingwithrooster4762
    @ridingwithrooster4762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Grainger this is Jeff from Lansing (39.22)
    Thanks for walking through this with me and my wife it means so much to us. Since writing you we found a church it's great they are helping us through the fire. My daughter has gotten much better. She goes to church with us and didn't like it at first but then found there youth group and now she loves it. We are not out of the woods yet but we can see the light. . Again thank you so much for ur help.

  • @marcydavenport4411
    @marcydavenport4411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "You are Saved By Grace Through Faith" Wow, Just Wow!!!

  • @charliec9209
    @charliec9209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That lengthy answer about suicide was beautiful!

  • @junelepley502
    @junelepley502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Granger for explaining about suicide, it really relieves my heart to hear you explain it the way you did.

  • @vickieworrell2820
    @vickieworrell2820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are so relatable to all ages and you have so much humility. I just found your podcasts and U-Tube channels. I love them all and your music! I also love Amber’s “Arise with Amber”. You have no idea the audience you are reaching by truly being yourself. May God bless you and your family.

  • @Anna-kf8br
    @Anna-kf8br 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Grace through faith. It really is that simple. 🙌🏻 So grateful we don’t have to do it on our own.

  • @katiedavis5861
    @katiedavis5861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Granger, you're word is what I've been craving. Thank you 🙏 it's time that we all focus on the light and give all of our energy to God.

  • @pcwizardstech
    @pcwizardstech 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great episode, as usual great advice! Fan from Cincinnati.

  • @aggiefan3947
    @aggiefan3947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Congrats on all your work. Honestly, I’m concerned you will be burning the candle at both ends and worn out. Yes, doing hard things is the way to approach life. My life experiences make me concerned for you and the family. As always, keeping y’all in my prayers.

  • @1029tbarton
    @1029tbarton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow! What a great answer for the suicide question. I've had family die that way and one who tried but fortunately did not succeed. They had been diagnosed with mental illness or depression.

  • @--1594
    @--1594 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Granger,
    My name is Hunter and I'm 21 and from Minnesota. Two years ago I started talking to this girl and things were going great and I really fell in love with her. Then one day she just stopped having romantic feelings for and and I was just a very good friend. I respected it after a while and being heartbroken. Because I care for her so much I told her I'd be there for her even just as a friend. Pretty soon we didn't even seem like friends. Just at the begining of this year she texted me explaining that she felt bad the way she pushed me away and how things ended. She said they went to find herself but when she lost me she lost herself even more. Now, we have been hanging out again and talking for a couple weeks, but I seem to have a trust issue/barrier to conquer. Some of my friends are telling me to end it, and are saying that she is just using me to get herself out of a hole and then she'll toss me to the curb once again. Being the person I am, I refuse to believe that and I believe that we can make things work. Just looking for some insight,
    Thanks.

  • @thomascaldwell463
    @thomascaldwell463 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Telling the truth even if it hurts✌Dueces and Yee Yee!!!

  • @laurieleis2725
    @laurieleis2725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow you had a lot of really difficult questions and you crushed it. Your advice is so good I love listening to these podcasts and starting my week off great 😁♥🇨🇦

  • @cierrachristine6414
    @cierrachristine6414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I kind of disagree the woman whose husband cheated can recover the marriage. Whether or not she forgives him, she has likely lost all trust and faith in him and will constantly be wondering what he’s doing and if it will happen again. Once you lose trust in someone a very important component of a healthy relationship is now gone. In my opinion, she should leave him. I believe marriage is for life too but she had no clue this was happening until after they were married which is awful. The fact he’d do this to her for YEARS and did it with no problem or conscience then tells her a week after he married her tells me that he is a narcissist and will never treat her as she deserves, things will just get worse for her in my opinion 😢. Life is way too short to have to live like that when there are thousands of other men that would treat her like a queen.

    • @Patty747
      @Patty747 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hopefully this has never happened to you, but Granger is correct. A relationship can survive with a lot of work. You only hear about the relationships that have failed. People who reconcile, often don't share with friends or relatives the struggles they are going through. Trust was broken, but with hard work it can get rebuilt.

    • @skehau808
      @skehau808 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even if I totally agree with what you said. I do agree with Granger too. It really is a tough situation. I'm personally not married or in a relationship but I known and heard many people in my life like this. That even the relationship that seems to be so broken, somehow, someway it CAN be rebuilt and restored. It can be so well refined that the relationship has become better. If I was the wife, I'd take it up on the cross and just trust Christ what to do in that situation.

  • @cecilberry71
    @cecilberry71 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, great job as per usual, so glad to have you doing all of the things you'll have going on all fronts. Thanks for sharing it all. Michigan here

  • @janconnolly6987
    @janconnolly6987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Morning. What a great way to start off the week. Appreciate your time, Granger.♥🙏

  • @littlejean2153
    @littlejean2153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tonight you taught me alot I am understanding more about faith thank you

  • @Faithledliving
    @Faithledliving 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great podcast as always Granger! God bless!

  • @tammiescreations4340
    @tammiescreations4340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This comment is answering Becky’s question or anyone that has the same question. You were talking about the Ten Commandments. The Bible also says if you’re guilty of breaking one Commandment then you are guilty of breaking them all. God sees sin as any sin, none is bigger or smaller than any other. I think your answer was spot on. I forgot the young woman’s name that her husband had cheated on her but wanted to say speaking from experience getting through it and staying together is tough hard work but can be done. Shortly after my husband and I married he cheated on me. We had, as I like to say, a come to Jesus talk. No yelling no name calling just talk and a lot of tears shed we got through it. It took a long time for the trust to rebuild. Twenty three years later we are still together, the road was pretty rough for a couple of years but we got through it. Thank you for sharing!

  • @Sami-jo1029
    @Sami-jo1029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great podcast as always Granger!!

  • @tammyh.5258
    @tammyh.5258 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Granger! You are such a blessing in my life!🙏💞

  • @tracyfulayter961
    @tracyfulayter961 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for another great podcast Granger and God Bless

  • @1029tbarton
    @1029tbarton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best podcast ever! And thats saying a lot!

  • @dalesanchez8356
    @dalesanchez8356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi granger ..i was dating a very sweet woman her name is amy we dated for 6 months shes going through a divorce of 30 years its all she knows he cheated ...we met through social media we just clicked but a week before new years we broke up its still breaks my heart . We still talk i know she has a few guys that she you know ...and that kills me that another guy gets to even touch her we both love each other but she needs to heal .. from her divorce..how do i walk away from someone i love with all my heart ...shes the only woman to get me to go to church and to even pick up the Bible . And im reading it for my self ...i cant walk away . Do you think theres a chance for us she is who i see in my future. Please some advice would be helpful. Thank you sorry so long ..

  • @sross7151
    @sross7151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love these episodes and the great message they bring with them!!!

  • @gaylevincent2397
    @gaylevincent2397 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoyed everything thank you for sharing 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 have a wonderful day 😊😊

  • @michelleowens2282
    @michelleowens2282 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome podcast !!
    Thank you and God Bless.

  • @pamglover2131
    @pamglover2131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you. I feel better. 🙏

  • @wendyraymond1751
    @wendyraymond1751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As always such great advice you are absolutely fabulous thanku so much love and God bless always x

  • @terrybialowas2641
    @terrybialowas2641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another great podcast.

  • @leann4925
    @leann4925 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoyed and thanks. Have a great week!

  • @cocomartin8269
    @cocomartin8269 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with you about that save by grace but i believe God forgives us siners he as a big live for is children so with are faith we are save just me

  • @giannishen
    @giannishen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    謝謝分享, thanks for sharing!👍😄👏

  • @marcos7761
    @marcos7761 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good mornin!!! Watchin before going to clock into work. Keep up the great work on the podcast

  • @1029tbarton
    @1029tbarton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    33:00 in answer to her question about returning a stolen car ......
    Those who are believers will not steal a car to begin with. If they do, they will have guilt...they will repent and turn themselves in. IMHO

  • @jennifergraham5349
    @jennifergraham5349 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was good ❤️🙏🏻

  • @JesusFreakLive
    @JesusFreakLive 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen !

  • @cjpiper2420
    @cjpiper2420 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    To the girl that husband cheated, YES you can recover the marriage

  • @cocomartin8269
    @cocomartin8269 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I believe more in that mentaly there not in there right mind its a murder its a sin and we always be sinners

  • @Deerslayer3000
    @Deerslayer3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey granger

  • @mrj10101
    @mrj10101 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you question anything this man says, do your own research--
    I recommend the writings of E.G. White

  • @lisamcgrath3132
    @lisamcgrath3132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️

  • @TLAR24
    @TLAR24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️🇨🇦

  • @wyattsimmons1023
    @wyattsimmons1023 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    3rd

  • @donnaterrell9545
    @donnaterrell9545 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The bible says thou shalt not kill. You cant kill yourself and go to heaven . You have to go to christ and ask forgiveness for all your sins