The minimalistic luxury point is spot on. I’ve heard the “you look mad” and “you’re way too intense” lines about a billion times also. That being said: I’m an INFJ and I approve this message. ❤️
I am a Clinical Psychologist with 30 years of experience dealing with people. I was branded a INFJ quite sometime ago. I never really accepted that evaluation because placing 'labels' on people puts them into a box. It limits their potentiality and personal growth. At worse, it can destroy a individual's self determination and freedom. I have never encountered a 'classical' INFJ before. Why? Because certain characteristics of this personality type have many subgroups some of which overlap other MBTI personality types. That being said, I will describe the characteristics of how a 'orthodox' INFJ thinks, behaves and responds in strict accordance with the MBTI Personalty Test. Be forewarned, I find some INFJ 'stereotypes' rather funny. And will approach such in a humorous fashion. INFJ's posess a wonderfully unique sense irony and will immediately recognize the silly 'stereotypes' others have attrubuted to them.....So lts break some myths about INFJ Personalty Types. When a INFJ gives you the dreaded 'Death Stair' they are not sttempting to understand you. They are wondering if you're carrying a gun. Killing INFJ's is a pleasurable experience. Why? Because everyone hates a smart ass. INFJ's frequently experience 'Sensory Overload' issues. They love Forests, Parks and Woodland areas to recharge their batteries. Why? Because trees don't talk! A squirrel cannot complain it has 'Daddy Issues'. Pine trees do not suffer from 'gender identity' problems. And I have never seen a bunny rabbit strung out Crack Cocaine. Solitude is bliss. Never say to a INFJ, 'I do not understand', They will run away screaming or jump infront of a bus. No one understands them. INFJ's sometimes don't even understand themselves. Why does a INFJ 'Door Slam' people? Because it's called a Coping Mechanism. They dislike being emotionally hurt. There is nothing strange about this behavior. Everyone deals with stress differently. Some people become acholics others pill poppers. INFJ's will just run away and pretend you never existed. INFJ's have the psychic ability to absorb people's emotions. No. This is phenomen is called 'Transference'. If you continuously talk about your problems, a INFJ will unconsciously adopt some aspects of your emotional state. However, INFJ's posess strong identities which prevents them from going completely insane. INFJ's are the most honest, compassionate and sensative people on Earth. Not really. Mother Nature just screwed them up genetically. They're brains are hard wired to respond during crisis situations. A 'diehard' INFJ will instinctively sacrifice their life attempting to save yours. No questions asked. Why? I have no freaking idea. I didn't invent the rules. Ask God. I'm sure She knows. INFJ's think differently than others. Yes. They think outside the box. They live outside the box. They have never actually seen the box. What does it look like? Does it contain groceries? INFJ types are occasionally arrogant, cold towards others and aloof. This is actually true. Being omnipotent has its drawbacks. INFJ's have a difficult time sugar-coating the truth. Being overtly honest is their trademark. However, if they sense someone cannot handle the truth, they lie to protect that person's feelings. INFJ's are stubborn yet will openly admit to errors in judgment and making mistakes. INFJ's think too deeply. They want to solve everyone's problems. They get frustrated when people ask for advice, then completely ignore their recommendations. They do not understand why everyone keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. Eventually, a INFJ will simply give up. The phrase 'People need to learn the hard way' was invented by a INFJ. So was the 'unfriendl' button on Facebook. INFJ's do not respect authority because they have developed their own Moral, Ethical, Spiritual and Cognative belief systems. Mature (older) INFJ's care very little about how people perceive them and less about the impressions they make upon others. INFJ's enjoy approval and acceptance (like everyone else) but infrequently compromise their princepals to simply fit in. Do not mistake a INJ's confidence as egocentrism. There is a difference. INFJ hate themselves. They feel alone within the world and misunderstood. Being a INFJ a curse. Consequently, a small minority INFJ's often experience psychological Depression, Alienation issues and Avoident Behavior problems. The phrase, 'You are your own worst enemy' accurately describes a INFJ's perception of themselves. The most admirable personality traits of the INFJ are (1) INFJ's care more about other people than themselves which makes them a easy targets for emotional exploitation and abuse. Never play 'Guilt Games' with a INFJ. They already persecute themselves (subconsciously) for being different. They don't have the ability to forgive themselves for past mistakes, A INFJ's unforgiving 'Guilt Complex' is an integral part of their personality. INFJ's have occasionally been known to slowly kill themselves over time, believing they deserve such suffering. 'Hell on Earth' is their punishment and they willing accept it....sometimes. Not always. (2) Once you secure the trust of a INFJ, everything about them suddenly becomes clear. The stereotypes vanish. They are people you want within your life. They have incredible insight into human nature and will identify your weaknesses and lift you up from darkness. Seeing the world through a INFJ eyes is the greatest gift they can offer. It would be impossible to understand a MBTI typology without stating the negative traits of a specific personality group. The 'Dark Side' of a INFJ is rather frightening. Never test their 'Authenticity' or personal dignity. Do not play games with a INFJ. They have limitations like everyone else. A INFJ can determine your intentions or plans within minutes. Literally. This Hyperobservient behavior is quite unique. Avoid getting into heated arguments with a INFJ unless you are prepared to be intellectually, emotionally or psychologically castrated. They have cognitive resources almost beyond understanding. A vindictive INFJ will never stop until they destroy your life (this has nothing to do with physical murder). Such behavior is almost Psychopathic in nature (hence the concern INFJ's may be catorgized as possessing a psychiatrist disorder rather than a Personality dysfunction). INFJ's are not prone violent behavior. The good news is they give up easily, This is where the Door Slam or simply walking away from a argument comes from. If a INFJ loves you, be prepared for lengthy romantic rituals. Box's of candy, flowers, poems, lovely e-cards, teddy bears and such. But be careful. A INFJ understands how to manipulate situations to their advantage. Including the human heart. Once they reveal their true inner nature however, you will begin to understand why only 2% of the world's population are INFJ's. They are just so dam charming. INFJ's dislike small talk, idle conversations, superficial people and hypocrites. Life is too short talking to such individuals (but they understand its occasionally necessary to be socially accepted) INFJ's are not spontaneous. They just pretend to be spontaneous. Their minds are always attempting to 'connect the dots' even when there are no dots. Avoid getting into deep conversations with a INFJ. They are walking encyclopedias. They will jump from topic to topic then back again to support a idea or theory. Male INFJ's are 'scattered brained' in the worst way possible. But there is method to such madness. The are searching for the correct answer to a specific problem. And 95% of the time they will discover it... or have a complete nervous breakdown trying. Occasionally, you will notice them acting rather mysterious, doing unusual things or just behaving weird. Get used to this behavior. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. The INFJ is just going through a 'stage' or experimenting with something that interests them. Like building a Thermonuclear Bomb or discovering a cure for Herpes. Never tell a INFJ they possess a 'Old Soul'. They are terrified of being reincarnated again. INFJ's are aware that neither Heaven or Hell wants them. Why? Because God doesn't want the extra competition or deciding who should run the Universe (Him or a INFJ) and Satan can't deal with a INFJ pestering him for all eternity. That would be considered cruel and unusual punishment. Aliens will never abduct a INFJ. There are some things too bizarre even for Extraterrestrials. So next time you accidentally encounter a INFJ, break all COVID 'Social Distancing' issues and hug them. They are a endangered species. Literally. Whatever purpose they were created for has already been accomplished. I like to think they represent the noblest form of humanity. A personality type which everyone aspires to immulate....Intelligent, Wise, Caring, Altruistic and Protective.
@@sirlancealittles I’m not sure whether to take your post seriously or not. Should I? I’m bad at detecting sarcasm, and you made some great points but also said some comments which were probably jokes. So help, please. I repeat: I’m being serious.
The little momento part made me smile. I hadn't thought about that before, but it's very true. I used to keep my girlfriend's hair pins on my desk. They reminded me of her, and they were there when she needed them. We also traded pillows so that we had something that smelled like the other person when they weren't around. It's kind of like having a blankie but more sappy and sentimental.
wow, spot on with the “being too much in the way they love” and “making it all about the other person.” i felt that so much especially when you said that we’re made to feel bad about it if the other person can’t handle it. that just clarified so much for me, thank you! also, the craving the depth part is so accurate. i can take it, if someone doesn’t share something with me, but it does bother me bc i can see it so clearly bothering them as a they try to hide it. if you can just tell me, so i can help soothe your worries, it’s okay 💜
Yes asking them so much about their lives as infjs our intuition is like “that’s easy they’re obviously not going to feel good about themselves when they can’t keep up with this deep dialogue”. So we choose not to say anything at all or keep it “bare minimum” and than what happens? We feel a bit more worse about ourselves and feel more underestimated when the other thinks we aren’t interesting. and when we have an embarrassing moment in the future we feel worse about ourselves
Wow. I’ve been talking/ kinda dating an INFJ and all these points are sooo true lol. Thank you for helping me understand because it’s gonna help me make sure she’s loved and cared about, I don’t wanna lose her.
Awesome video! I am an ENTJ male and my girlfriend is an INFJ and what you’re saying about dating INFJ’s is right on the money. Would love it if you would do some sort of video on ENTJ’s and INFJ’s!
I think my wife might be an INFJ. She's so much like what you describe. I'm an INTJ who also wants harmony more than most of my type does. I give her bookmarks because she loves to read. She keeps them in her Bible and the teaching books she reads. She also wears a locket that has my picture and her departed father's picture in it.
Spot on. You surprised me with your incredibly accurate claim that we love minimalist luxury items and living spaces. Wow. Right now I live in a house quite the opposite of that, and it makes it difficult for me to think clearly or to feel calm. I’m moving into an apartment soon with my intp and infp friends which will be an interesting development. Still, I would think this preference would be the cause of some conflict between high ne users and infj’s. Inxp’s seem especially cluttered and folksy or grunge in their styles, which is fine, but difficult to live with if you’re an infj. 😂
for the most part INTP does so much better in spaces that are "minimalist luxury" like you say. It's just that we're not very aware of our surroundings and are inclined to think they don't matter (they absolutely do though, they have a huge effect on our creativity and energy levels). I believe INFPs could be described the same way though I don't know any personally. I believe that's one of the reasons they say INTP and INFJ complement each other well, because the INFJ can help INTP understand these sorts of things that don't have an obvious logic to them (the logic should be obvious as long as you can accept that we are influenced by our surroundings but INTPs often like to think of their minds as like an impenetrable cage).
The minimalistic luxury lol so right. And omg.. you're the first person I've seen mention the significant other "momento"!!!! I can be a dreamer and have my "head in the clouds", so I do carry a picture, or a doodle she made on a scrap piece of paper... Or one of her hair ties and when I look at it or feel it between my fingers it keeps me grounded. Or during a stressful time it reminds me that I'm lucky/not alone.
@@CaDzA818 In a way I feel this is correct about male INFJs. Although I feel an ENFP female will love them. Flip side for ENFP males like me I feel very misunderstood. I am also HSP and have lots of energy. Someone once said this about me "You are an unusual combination of strength and vulnerability"
@@silentgrove7670 I honestly don't know any enfps, but on paper they seem like pleasant people. I'm aware that other factors contribute to one's character aside from mbti.
Nic Stride you know the point during a date she goes “tell me more about yourself”. I start with do you know the MBTI personalities? They say sure, or ya. When they really have no clue what an introvert is.
Very relatable video!! ♥️♥️ But I also love how well paced your sentences are. The pauses you take to think of the most appropriate words to express what you want to say are just very satisfying!!😅😛👍🏽👍🏽
At first, I was like yea those are standard INFJ stuff I hear and relate in every INFJ video but then she brought up the memento thing and I fell off my chair. I haven't found love yet but I always carry a memento in my wallet, of my brother who passed away, to feel connected to him
I'm an Intj dating an Infj. I'm absolutely fine with his space and time. He - Infj can be quiet more than 3 days. And infj can make the date all bout me so I also feel ok if he makes it bout him. But sometimes I don't know how to help him feel more comfortable. Absolutely agree with you
Oh Jesus, you just distilled the mechanics of my (me:INFJ) relationship with my better-half (she:INTJ) down to its most granular form. Personally I only care for her happiness (INFJ: Auteuristic). On the other Hand I know she needs time to recharge, more so than I do - however her life's burden is greater than mine ATM. She has a sign on her bedroom door that exclaims "You enter My room at Your own RISK!". Ain't love grand?
The space i've created for myself expresses chaos since I think my learning/ being rationally is favored by the contrast ie rescuing order from chaos works better than trying to derive order from linearity/highly periodic systems. I think best in the chaos of nature with just enough control to keep my ego distracted, my fave being picking up rocks and putting them in a bucket :) or gardening in general.
Thank you for understanding. Time, space, intense, very giving, but to keep the "theres a person on my chest" feeling i isolate. And, ideally, being with someone who gets this type would be phenomoinal. And, im not angry, this is my standard deep thought RBF.
I wouldn’t call it guilt. It is overstimulation. Not guilt. I think so many people who are “experts” are off on this type. The narcissist/sociopath attraction thing is particularly ridiculous - INFJs May attract these nutters, but are very skilled at intuitively picking up on this energy immediately, and being totally repelled by it. And they are also repelled by people who have little self awareness, lack empathy, and who are selfish. Absolutely repelled. And they also have no problem intuitively picking up on energy, so sociopathic energy they can intuit quickly as very dangerous, and when they sense danger, they want nothing to do with it. They will also try to warn others if possible. They are not afraid to tell someone to go to hell, or to put people in their place. They don’t value companionship more than their own integrity.
Dang... that momento part hit me in the feels.. I carry a keychain from an ex that was really dear to me.. I suppose I've carried it on me for around 12 years now.. and still counting.
I approve this message also. Clean uncluttered life in general. All areas need this simplicity for me. I live with someone who has too much clutter and it drives me nuts.
I wonder why ENFJ isn't often mentioned as a good INFJ match. I'm an ENFJ and I feel like my INFJ was made for me. Been together for 2+ years and no arguments or misunderstandings yet. I guess types aren't as important as shared beliefs and goals.
Absolutely right! I was dating and ENFJ girl, and it was such a messed up relationship. We both had never felt so misunderstood. It only lasted 6 months, and the aftermath was like 2 years in total. I love that girl, and want the best for her, and I know she feels the same way toward me, but we were not good for each other. I never knew a relationship could get so toxic so quickly. But like you said, shared beliefs and goals has got to be a massive one. We also were battling with some messed up attachment styles, which don't do well together.
Nice job. Looking to meet an INFJ as an ENTP so thanks for the tips lol. I understand female ESTPs are quite rare on yt so good to see your channel too.
Hey Kate, Randomly stumbled across your channel. I'm an INFJ & a Hopeless Romantic. From the way you spoke of things, I presume you're an INFJ as well? Are you also on TypeMatch? I've always loved the name, 'Kate;' very pretty - its very befitting of you, with all due respect ;). I subscribed to your channel - looking forward to more videos in the future. Keep up the great work, Kate! Most Sincerely and Respectfully, Mark B.
"Ne is a very disruptive function and INFJs can bring order to chaos". There is a method to my madness I swear - INTP. Also not gonna lie sometimes their "wanttiness" kind of makes me uncomfortable but in general they're one of the few people I can actually have decent/deep conversations with.
Conversations can be great with intps, but what many infjs ultimately desire are unconditional love, emotional intelligence, emotional presence, and reliability in their partners. The latter may be applicable to intps but I usually don't find them to be very obviously emotionally present.
@@EH_888 fair enough I'm not good with emotions in general (especially not my own) and I see why INFJs would be frustrated with INTPs lack of emotional expression.
@@failedbooli6028 Everything's fine. It doesn't mean that there is something innately wrong with you for that. There are actually plenty of happy infj/intp relationships. It's all going to come down to individual preferences.
I don't see Ne as disruptive. I feel its mercurial. It can become disruptive when it cannot discharge. ENFPs are best when they have the freedom to release energy and emotion. Its like damming a river , the pressure becomes too much sometimes.
I am an infj and I dont know why but my gf somehow seems not so happy with me. She is still talking all the time about her ex. Am I really that bad? Or should I let her go? She is my first love, first crush and even first girl I spoke to about something other than work life. She is isfp. I know when she lies to me, I mean its so clear.
I’d let her go. That’s not a good sign.Try to do it so you can still be friends, having someone in your life that you shared a deep connection to can be helpful moving forward, I mean if you’re able to see her just as a friend. Sometimes in the long run its hard to be in a relationship with a fellow introvert. Just putting it out there.
If she’s alpha widowed like that, she’s not over him. If you stay with her, at least don’t marry, because she’ll subconsciously hold that you’re not her ex against you. Divorce court is no fun. Watch some Alexander Grace and Coach Greg Adams vids, and focus on improving your physical and mental self (magnesium glycinate before bed has especially worked for me), regardless whether or not you’re with someone.
Maybe she’s dismissive avoidant. They tend to have phantom exs and explain their qualities with the current partner to push away and maintain emotional distance.
I'm a ENTJ and my gf of a year is a INFJ. It's very emotionally draining for me obviously. We don't really have much in common or able to understand each other that well don't know if it will last a lifetime but it isn't a unhealthy or toxic relationship.
This is likely because your Te hero is talking to her trickster function. So, learning to communicate effectively with each other can take a little bit of work
Hey, I like your vidz lol .... I have the "infj" brain, and I remember in one of your videos, you said you're "estp", and when I listen to you, it feels like my thoughts are more "concrete" lol
I thought i had an INFJ in my class (i'm intp and he like idk talked about me and send me a note with ily on it and infj and intp are pretty good match for each other so that's why i searched more) but his room and notes aren't very clean (i don't know much about his room tbh but i once listened to a stream of one of their friends where they were talking and he was talking about having quite some stuff on his desk and his notes idk they're way neater than mine but also not extremely neat)
ENFP: I've been thinking about what you have said in that Ne Fi is a rather intense combination and likely can only be held by mature NxJ types. I have been told I have a lot of energy and a strong personality. I process deep complex ideas on a regular basis that it seems many people have never thought about. It is no wonder I like INFJs, though I do not have an INFJ friend at this time. I like watching INFJs videos. I haven't spoken to an INFJ about this , maybe they have the same experience that only NxPs can handle their Ni Fe combination. The problem might be that an ENFP probably can overload an INFJ and the INFJ might not know how to ask for space and time from them as you have suggested. I suspect I have lost friends from the intensity around my energy ideas and momentum. And yet I am HSP as well. It's a fun combination !!!
Omg this is so truee.. maybe thats why my guy friend i love kind of always read my messages without replying....😅 he didnt know how to ask for space and time to me lol
Interesting, i will be interviewing an infj tomorrow. Very valuable people to us. You need to explain why estj isnt 3rd? You have avoided pairing concrete with abstracts. I find this interesting as enfp/istp marriage is so common as is estp/infp. Though its great through modern technology like the type app we can find each other easier.
If you’re still together, just go at your own pace, and don’t worry about technical compatibility. Just enjoy one day at a time with each other. You don’t need to get married; that can understandably be a longer-term commitment than you would ever feel comfortable with. If your INFJ doesn’t understand, or is standoffish, that’s something to consider.
Physicsl attraction is #1, period. The primary reason a hetero couple comes together is to make babies, compatibility, culture, language, geograpy are important, but take a back seat to attraction.
I would disagree on this because .aking the babies is easier than giving them good childhood and raising them well. Attraction may go down from peak but at that time, it's love based on compatability and trust that drives the relationship
An adidas t-shirt.......... Ok is she trying to send us a subliminal message? A D I D A S All Day I Dream About Sex Or maybe this comment is just what happens when one lets NI run wild. Let’s keep it in check folks.
I am a Clinical Psychologist with 30 years of experience dealing with people. I was branded a INFJ quite sometime ago. I never really accepted that evaluation because placing 'labels' on people puts them into a box. It limits their potentiality and personal growth. At worse, it can destroy a individual's self determination and freedom. However, the Myers Briggs Personally Test is interesting but somewhat incomplete. I have never encountered a 'classical' INFJ before. Why? Because certain characteristics of this personality type have many subgroups some of which overlap other MBTI personality types. That being said I will describe the characteristics of how a 'orthodox' INFJ thinks, behaves and responds in strict accordance with the MBTI Personalty Test. Be forewarned, I find some INFJ 'stereotypes' rather funny. And will approach such in a humorous fashion. INFJ's posess a wonderfully sense irony and will immediately recognize the silly 'stereotypes' others have attrubuted to them.....So let's start breaking some myths about INFJ Personalty Type When a INFJ gives you the dreaded 'Death Stair' they are not attempting to understand you. They are wondering if you're carrying a gun. Killing INFJ's is a pleasurable experience. Why? Because everyone hates a smart ass. INFJ's frequently experience 'Sensory Overload' issues. They love Forests, Parks and Woodland areas to recharge their batteries. Why? Because trees don't talk! A squirrel cannot complain it has 'Daddy Issues'. Pine trees do not suffer from 'gender identity' problems. And I have never seen a bunny rabbit strung out Crack Cocaine. Solitude is bliss. Never say to a INFJ, 'I do not understand', They will run away screaming or jump infront of a bus. No one understands them. INFJ's sometimes don't even understand themselves. INFJ's feel uncomfortable being around large groups of people. However, once you get them talking, they never shut up. Adolf Hitler, Martin Luther King and Gandhi were historical INJF's. You cannot win a argument with this Myers Briggs Personality type. They will always win... until they get shot. Why do a INFJ 'Door Slam' people? Because it's called a Coping Mechanism. They dislike being emotionally hurt. There is nothing strange about this behavior.. Some people become acholics others pill poppers. INFJ's will just run away and pretend you never existed. INFJ's have the psychic ability to absorb people's emotions. No. This is phenomen is called 'Transference'. If you continuously talk about your problems, a INFJ will unconsciously adopt some aspects of your emotional state. However, INFJ's posess strong identities which prevents them from going completely insane. INFJ's are the most honest, compassionate and sensative people on Earth. Not really. Mother Nature just screwed them up genetically. They're brains are hard wired to respond during crisis situations. A 'diehard' INFJ will instinctively sacrifice their life attempting to save yours. No questions asked. Why? I have no freaking idea. I didn't invent the rules. Ask God. I'm sure She knows. INFJ's think differently than others. Yes. They think outside the box. They live outside the box. They have never actually seen the box. What does it look like? Does it contain groceries? INFJ types are occasionally arrogant, cold towards others and aloof. This is actually true. Being omnipotent has its drawbacks. INFJ's have a difficult time sugar-coating the truth. Being overtly honest is their trademark. If they sense someone cannot handle the truth, they will lie to protect that person's emotions. INFJ's are stubborn yet will openly admit to errors in judgment or making mistakes. INFJ's think too deeply. They want to solve everyone's problems. They get frustrated when people ask for advice, then completely ignore their recommendations. They do not understand why everyone keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. Eventually, a INFJ will simply give up. The phrase 'People need to learn things the hard way' was invented by a INFJ. So was the 'unfriend' button on Facebook. INFJ's do not respect authority because they have developed their own Moral, Ethical, Spiritual and Cognative belief systems. Mature (older) INFJ's care very little about how people perceive them and less about the impressions they make upon others. INFJ's enjoy approval and acceptance (like everyone else) but infrequently compromise their princepals to simply fit in. Do not mistake a INFJ's confidence as egocentrismn. There is a difference. INFJ's are frequently interpreted as posessing a Narcissist Personalty Disorder. This stereotype is absolutely false. A Narcissist loves adoration and attention. The typical INFJ cares more about other people than themselves, sometime to their own detriment. For example, 5 military soilders are in a bomb shelter. A hand granade is thrown into the bomb shelter. One soldier immediately jumps atop the hand granade, attempting to save his comrades from the explosion. This is called self sacrifice. A Narcissist has 'Self Absorption' problems, not 'Self Sacrifice' problems. INFJ's dislike themselves. They feel alone within the world and misunderstood. Being a INFJ a curse. Consequently, a small minority INFJ's often experience psychological Depression, Alienation Issues and Avoident Behavior problems. The phrase 'You are your own worst enemy' accurately describes a INFJ's perception of themselves. The most admirable personality traits of the INFJ are (1) INFJ's care about you than themselves which makes them a easy targets for emotional exploitation and abuse. Never play 'Guilt Games' with a INFJ. They already persecute themselves (subconsciously) for being different. They don't have the ability to forgive themselves for past mistakes, A INFJ's unforgiving 'Guilt Complex' is an integral part of their personality. INFJ's have occasionally been known to slowly kill themselves over time, believing they deserve such suffering. 'Hell on Earth' is their punishment and they willing accept it....sometimes. Not always. (2) Once you secure the trust of a INFJ, everything about them suddenly becomes clear. The stereotypes vanish. These are people you want within your life. They have incredible insight into human nature and will identify your weaknesses and lift you up from darkness. Seeing the world through a INFJ eyes is the greatest gift they can offer. It would be impossible to understand a MBTI typology without stating the negative traits of a specific personality group. The 'Dark Side' of a INFJ is rather frightening. Never test their 'Authenticity' or personal dignity. Do not play games with a INFJ. They have limitations like everyone else. A INFJ can determine your intentions or plans within minutes. Literally. This Hyperobservient behavior is quite unique. Avoid getting into heated arguments with a INFJ unless you are prepared to be intellectually, emotionally or psychologically castrated. They have cognitive resources almost beyond understanding. A vindictive INFJ will never stop until they destroy your life (this has nothing to do with physical murder). Such behavior is almost Psychopathic in nature (hence the concern INFJ's may be catorgized as possessing a Psychological Disorder rather than a Personality Dysfunction). Fortunately, INFJ's are not prone to violent behavior. They give up easily, This is where the 'Door Slam' or simply walking away from an argument comes from. Once they reveal their true inner nature, you will begin to understand why only 2% of the world's population are INFJ's. They are so dam charming. INFJ's dislike small talk, idle conversations, superficial people and hypocrites. Life is too short talking to such individuals (but they understand its occasionally necessary to be socially accepted) INFJ's are not spontaneous. They just pretend to be spontaneous. Their minds are always attempting to 'connect the dots' even when there are no dots. Avoid getting into deep conversations with a INFJ. They are walking encyclopedias. They will jump from topic to topic then back again to support a idea or theory. Male INFJ's are 'scattered brained' in the worst way possible. But there is method to such madness. The are searching for the correct answer to a specific problem. And 95% of the time they will discover it... or have a complete nervous breakdown trying. Occasionally, you will notice a INFJ acting mysteriously, doing unusual things or just behaving weird. Get used to this behavior. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. The INFJ is just going through a 'stage' or experimenting with something that interests them. Like building a Thermonuclear Bomb or discovering a cure for Herpes. Never tell a INFJ they have a 'Old Soul'. They are absolutely terrified of being reincarnated again. INFJ's are acutely aware that neither Heaven or Hell wants them. Why? Because God doesn't need the extra competition on who should run Heaven (Him or a INFJ) and Satan can't deal with a INFJ pestering him for all eternity....that would be considered cruel and unusual punishment. Aliens will never abduct a INFJ. There are some things too bizarre even for Extraterrestrials. Men of all ages, groups and backgrounds fall instantly in love with INFJ women. They give the appearance of a graceful dove. Pure and innocent. No. They are just horny. INFJ's have a difficult time forming a thought or idea into words. Yes. Someday a INFJ will develop telekinesis and scare the hell out of everyone. So next time you accidentally encounter a INFJ, break all COVID 'Social Distancing' issues and hug them. INFJ's are a endangered species. Literally. Whatever purpose they were created for has already been accomplished. This Myers Briggs Personality represents the noblest aspects of humanity....Intelligent, Wise, Caring, Virtuous, Altruistic and Protective. And they have a excellent sense of humor (wink).
What exactly is the problem with INTPs? Just curious... In my experience intps are the ones who realy understand infjs and can love them, well in their weird way...
The minimalistic luxury point is spot on. I’ve heard the “you look mad” and “you’re way too intense” lines about a billion times also. That being said:
I’m an INFJ and I approve this message. ❤️
I am a Clinical Psychologist with 30 years of experience dealing with people. I was branded a INFJ quite sometime ago. I never really accepted that evaluation because placing 'labels' on people puts them into a box. It limits their potentiality and personal growth. At worse, it can destroy a individual's self determination and freedom. I have never encountered a 'classical' INFJ before. Why? Because certain characteristics of this personality type have many subgroups some of which overlap other MBTI personality types. That being said, I will describe the characteristics of how a 'orthodox' INFJ thinks, behaves and responds in strict accordance with the MBTI Personalty Test. Be forewarned, I find some INFJ 'stereotypes' rather funny. And will approach such in a humorous fashion. INFJ's posess a wonderfully unique sense irony and will immediately recognize the silly 'stereotypes' others have attrubuted to them.....So lts break some myths about INFJ Personalty Types.
When a INFJ gives you the dreaded 'Death Stair' they are not sttempting to understand you. They are wondering if you're carrying a gun. Killing INFJ's is a pleasurable experience. Why? Because everyone hates a smart ass.
INFJ's frequently experience 'Sensory Overload' issues. They love Forests, Parks and Woodland areas to recharge their batteries. Why? Because trees don't talk! A squirrel cannot complain it has 'Daddy Issues'. Pine trees do not suffer from 'gender identity' problems. And I have never seen a bunny rabbit strung out Crack Cocaine. Solitude is bliss.
Never say to a INFJ, 'I do not understand', They will run away screaming or jump infront of a bus. No one understands them. INFJ's sometimes don't even understand themselves.
Why does a INFJ 'Door Slam' people? Because it's called a Coping Mechanism. They dislike being emotionally hurt. There is nothing strange about this behavior. Everyone deals with stress differently. Some people become acholics others pill poppers. INFJ's will just run away and pretend you never existed.
INFJ's have the psychic ability to absorb people's emotions. No. This is phenomen is called 'Transference'. If you continuously talk about your problems, a INFJ will unconsciously adopt some aspects of your emotional state. However, INFJ's posess strong identities which prevents them from going completely insane.
INFJ's are the most honest, compassionate and sensative people on Earth. Not really. Mother Nature just screwed them up genetically. They're brains are hard wired to respond during crisis situations. A 'diehard' INFJ will instinctively sacrifice their life attempting to save yours. No questions asked. Why? I have no freaking idea. I didn't invent the rules. Ask God. I'm sure She knows.
INFJ's think differently than others. Yes. They think outside the box. They live outside the box. They have never actually seen the box. What does it look like? Does it contain groceries?
INFJ types are occasionally arrogant, cold towards others and aloof. This is actually true. Being omnipotent has its drawbacks. INFJ's have a difficult time sugar-coating the truth. Being overtly honest is their trademark. However, if they sense someone cannot handle the truth, they lie to protect that person's feelings.
INFJ's are stubborn yet will openly admit to errors in judgment and making mistakes.
INFJ's think too deeply. They want to solve everyone's problems. They get frustrated when people ask for advice, then completely ignore their recommendations. They do not understand why everyone keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. Eventually, a INFJ will simply give up. The phrase 'People need to learn the hard way' was invented by a INFJ. So was the 'unfriendl' button on Facebook.
INFJ's do not respect authority because they have developed their own Moral, Ethical, Spiritual and Cognative belief systems. Mature (older) INFJ's care very little about how people perceive them and less about the impressions they make upon others. INFJ's enjoy approval and acceptance (like everyone else) but infrequently compromise their princepals to simply fit in.
Do not mistake a INJ's confidence as egocentrism. There is a difference.
INFJ hate themselves. They feel alone within the world and misunderstood. Being a INFJ a curse. Consequently, a small minority INFJ's often experience psychological Depression, Alienation issues and Avoident Behavior problems. The phrase, 'You are your own worst enemy' accurately describes a INFJ's perception of themselves.
The most admirable personality traits of the INFJ are (1) INFJ's care more about other people than themselves which makes them a easy targets for emotional exploitation and abuse. Never play 'Guilt Games' with a INFJ. They already persecute themselves (subconsciously) for being different. They don't have the ability to forgive themselves for past mistakes, A INFJ's unforgiving 'Guilt Complex' is an integral part of their personality. INFJ's have occasionally been known to slowly kill themselves over time, believing they deserve such suffering. 'Hell on Earth' is their punishment and they willing accept it....sometimes. Not always. (2) Once you secure the trust of a INFJ, everything about them suddenly becomes clear. The stereotypes vanish. They are people you want within your life. They have incredible insight into human nature and will identify your weaknesses and lift you up from darkness. Seeing the world through a INFJ eyes is the greatest gift they can offer.
It would be impossible to understand a MBTI typology without stating the negative traits of a specific personality group.
The 'Dark Side' of a INFJ is rather frightening. Never test their 'Authenticity' or personal dignity. Do not play games with a INFJ. They have limitations like everyone else. A INFJ can determine your intentions or plans within minutes. Literally. This Hyperobservient behavior is quite unique. Avoid getting into heated arguments with a INFJ unless you are prepared to be intellectually, emotionally or psychologically castrated. They have cognitive resources almost beyond understanding. A vindictive INFJ will never stop until they destroy your life (this has nothing to do with physical murder). Such behavior is almost Psychopathic in nature (hence the concern INFJ's may be catorgized as possessing a psychiatrist disorder rather than a Personality dysfunction). INFJ's are not prone violent behavior. The good news is they give up easily, This is where the Door Slam or simply walking away from a argument comes from.
If a INFJ loves you, be prepared for lengthy romantic rituals. Box's of candy, flowers, poems, lovely e-cards, teddy bears and such. But be careful. A INFJ understands how to manipulate situations to their advantage. Including the human heart. Once they reveal their true inner nature however, you will begin to understand why only 2% of the world's population are INFJ's. They are just so dam charming.
INFJ's dislike small talk, idle conversations, superficial people and hypocrites. Life is too short talking to such individuals (but they understand its occasionally necessary to be socially accepted)
INFJ's are not spontaneous. They just pretend to be spontaneous. Their minds are always attempting to 'connect the dots' even when there are no dots.
Avoid getting into deep conversations with a INFJ. They are walking encyclopedias. They will jump from topic to topic then back again to support a idea or theory. Male INFJ's are 'scattered brained' in the worst way possible. But there is method to such madness. The are searching for the correct answer to a specific problem. And 95% of the time they will discover it... or have a complete nervous breakdown trying.
Occasionally, you will notice them acting rather mysterious, doing unusual things or just behaving weird. Get used to this behavior. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. The INFJ is just going through a 'stage' or experimenting with something that interests them. Like building a Thermonuclear Bomb or discovering a cure for Herpes.
Never tell a INFJ they possess a 'Old Soul'. They are terrified of being reincarnated again. INFJ's are aware that neither Heaven or Hell wants them. Why? Because God doesn't want the extra competition or deciding who should run the Universe (Him or a INFJ) and Satan can't deal with a INFJ pestering him for all eternity. That would be considered cruel and unusual punishment.
Aliens will never abduct a INFJ. There are some things too bizarre even for Extraterrestrials.
So next time you accidentally encounter a INFJ, break all COVID 'Social Distancing' issues and hug them. They are a endangered species. Literally. Whatever purpose they were created for has already been accomplished. I like to think they represent the noblest form of humanity. A personality type which everyone aspires to immulate....Intelligent, Wise, Caring, Altruistic and Protective.
@@sirlancealittles I’m not sure whether to take your post seriously or not. Should I? I’m bad at detecting sarcasm, and you made some great points but also said some comments which were probably jokes. So help, please. I repeat: I’m being serious.
The little momento part made me smile. I hadn't thought about that before, but it's very true. I used to keep my girlfriend's hair pins on my desk. They reminded me of her, and they were there when she needed them. We also traded pillows so that we had something that smelled like the other person when they weren't around. It's kind of like having a blankie but more sappy and sentimental.
Great job explaining.😎 How'd you know that I love minimalistic luxury items??!!
wow, spot on with the “being too much in the way they love” and “making it all about the other person.” i felt that so much especially when you said that we’re made to feel bad about it if the other person can’t handle it. that just clarified so much for me, thank you!
also, the craving the depth part is so accurate. i can take it, if someone doesn’t share something with me, but it does bother me bc i can see it so clearly bothering them as a they try to hide it. if you can just tell me, so i can help soothe your worries, it’s okay 💜
Yes asking them so much about their lives as infjs our intuition is like “that’s easy they’re obviously not going to feel good about themselves when they can’t keep up with this deep dialogue”. So we choose not to say anything at all or keep it “bare minimum” and than what happens? We feel a bit more worse about ourselves and feel more underestimated when the other thinks we aren’t interesting. and when we have an embarrassing moment in the future we feel worse about ourselves
Wow. I’ve been talking/ kinda dating an INFJ and all these points are sooo true lol. Thank you for helping me understand because it’s gonna help me make sure she’s loved and cared about, I don’t wanna lose her.
Awesome video! I am an ENTJ male and my girlfriend is an INFJ and what you’re saying about dating INFJ’s is right on the money. Would love it if you would do some sort of video on ENTJ’s and INFJ’s!
Damn, girl, spot on! This Eeyore-ish infj agrees with your assessments.
Thank you!!
@@TypeMatch you are so super cute i can hardly stand it! ;)
I think my wife might be an INFJ. She's so much like what you describe. I'm an INTJ who also wants harmony more than most of my type does. I give her bookmarks because she loves to read. She keeps them in her Bible and the teaching books she reads. She also wears a locket that has my picture and her departed father's picture in it.
She’s cheating on you. Hypergamy
Aaw, she sounds so sentiment 🥹
Spot on. You surprised me with your incredibly accurate claim that we love minimalist luxury items and living spaces. Wow. Right now I live in a house quite the opposite of that, and it makes it difficult for me to think clearly or to feel calm. I’m moving into an apartment soon with my intp and infp friends which will be an interesting development. Still, I would think this preference would be the cause of some conflict between high ne users and infj’s. Inxp’s seem especially cluttered and folksy or grunge in their styles, which is fine, but difficult to live with if you’re an infj. 😂
for the most part INTP does so much better in spaces that are "minimalist luxury" like you say. It's just that we're not very aware of our surroundings and are inclined to think they don't matter (they absolutely do though, they have a huge effect on our creativity and energy levels). I believe INFPs could be described the same way though I don't know any personally.
I believe that's one of the reasons they say INTP and INFJ complement each other well, because the INFJ can help INTP understand these sorts of things that don't have an obvious logic to them (the logic should be obvious as long as you can accept that we are influenced by our surroundings but INTPs often like to think of their minds as like an impenetrable cage).
Yes, we love simplicity, order, cleanliess and keeping everything sorted.
The minimalistic luxury lol so right. And omg.. you're the first person I've seen mention the significant other "momento"!!!!
I can be a dreamer and have my "head in the clouds", so I do carry a picture, or a doodle she made on a scrap piece of paper... Or one of her hair ties and when I look at it or feel it between my fingers it keeps me grounded.
Or during a stressful time it reminds me that I'm lucky/not alone.
Any time I tell a female I’m an INFJ, they look at me like I have 2 heads. I stoped trying to date and kept working on myself.
Same here, recent I discovered I am INFJ, I thinks that personality suits females much more...
@@CaDzA818 In a way I feel this is correct about male INFJs. Although I feel an ENFP female will love them.
Flip side for ENFP males like me I feel very misunderstood. I am also HSP and have lots of energy. Someone once said this about me "You are an unusual combination of strength and vulnerability"
@@silentgrove7670 I honestly don't know any enfps, but on paper they seem like pleasant people. I'm aware that other factors contribute to one's character aside from mbti.
Did they ask or are you just like "Lol I'm an INFJ" in the middle of ordering coffee and she'll like "Yeah, this is gonna be interesting"? :)
Nic Stride you know the point during a date she goes “tell me more about yourself”. I start with do you know the MBTI personalities? They say sure, or ya. When they really have no clue what an introvert is.
Great video. So true on the minimalist luxury. My latest obsession is Japandi interior design. Yes, I'm INFJ.
Awesome video :) as an INFJ I believe everything you said was quite accurate.
as an INFJ, your adidas shirt is tripping me out. Respect.
Very relatable video!! ♥️♥️
But I also love how well paced your sentences are. The pauses you take to think of the most appropriate words to express what you want to say are just very satisfying!!😅😛👍🏽👍🏽
At first, I was like yea those are standard INFJ stuff I hear and relate in every INFJ video but then she brought up the memento thing and I fell off my chair. I haven't found love yet but I always carry a memento in my wallet, of my brother who passed away, to feel connected to him
It's true
I'm an Intj dating an Infj. I'm absolutely fine with his space and time. He - Infj can be quiet more than 3 days. And infj can make the date all bout me so I also feel ok if he makes it bout him. But sometimes I don't know how to help him feel more comfortable. Absolutely agree with you
Oh Jesus, you just distilled the mechanics of my (me:INFJ) relationship with my better-half (she:INTJ) down to its most granular form. Personally I only care for her happiness (INFJ: Auteuristic). On the other Hand I know she needs time to recharge, more so than I do - however her life's burden is greater than mine ATM. She has a sign on her bedroom door that exclaims "You enter My room at Your own RISK!".
Ain't love grand?
Well that kind of depend on the type of risk? 😉
A fine presentation of our quirkiness. Well done and thank you for not editing this video
The space i've created for myself expresses chaos since I think my learning/ being rationally is favored by the contrast ie rescuing order from chaos works better than trying to derive order from linearity/highly periodic systems. I think best in the chaos of nature with just enough control to keep my ego distracted, my fave being picking up rocks and putting them in a bucket :) or gardening in general.
I love the way you talk...I can tell you're so in love with somebody. Yeah, I'm an INFJ.
As an INFJ I completely approve this message 😎😎❤️
that "minimalistic luxury" omg, you know too much! =)
Thank you for understanding. Time, space, intense, very giving, but to keep the "theres a person on my chest" feeling i isolate. And, ideally, being with someone who gets this type would be phenomoinal. And, im not angry, this is my standard deep thought RBF.
So, we like reading souls. Sorry, its a caring thing.
I wouldn’t call it guilt. It is overstimulation. Not guilt. I think so many people who are “experts” are off on this type. The narcissist/sociopath attraction thing is particularly ridiculous - INFJs May attract these nutters, but are very skilled at intuitively picking up on this energy immediately, and being totally repelled by it. And they are also repelled by people who have little self awareness, lack empathy, and who are selfish. Absolutely repelled. And they also have no problem intuitively picking up on energy, so sociopathic energy they can intuit quickly as very dangerous, and when they sense danger, they want nothing to do with it. They will also try to warn others if possible. They are not afraid to tell someone to go to hell, or to put people in their place. They don’t value companionship more than their own integrity.
This was really well explained thank you
Thank you!
Oh my gosh, "minimalistic luxury" is so beautifully said!!
Dang... that momento part hit me in the feels.. I carry a keychain from an ex that was really dear to me.. I suppose I've carried it on me for around 12 years now.. and still counting.
I approve this message also. Clean uncluttered life in general. All areas need this simplicity for me. I live with someone who has too much clutter and it drives me nuts.
I love this, so true ❤ Thank you! /INFJ
Glad you agreed with it!
Did you just make a Winnie the Pooh reference 😂 That’s so true .... and my favorite character 😊
I wonder why ENFJ isn't often mentioned as a good INFJ match. I'm an ENFJ and I feel like my INFJ was made for me. Been together for 2+ years and no arguments or misunderstandings yet. I guess types aren't as important as shared beliefs and goals.
Absolutely right! I was dating and ENFJ girl, and it was such a messed up relationship. We both had never felt so misunderstood. It only lasted 6 months, and the aftermath was like 2 years in total. I love that girl, and want the best for her, and I know she feels the same way toward me, but we were not good for each other. I never knew a relationship could get so toxic so quickly. But like you said, shared beliefs and goals has got to be a massive one. We also were battling with some messed up attachment styles, which don't do well together.
Nice job. Looking to meet an INFJ as an ENTP so thanks for the tips lol. I understand female ESTPs are quite rare on yt so good to see your channel too.
Hey Kate,
Randomly stumbled across your channel. I'm an INFJ & a Hopeless Romantic. From the way you spoke of things, I presume you're an INFJ as well? Are you also on TypeMatch? I've always loved the name, 'Kate;' very pretty - its very befitting of you, with all due respect ;). I subscribed to your channel - looking forward to more videos in the future. Keep up the great work, Kate!
Most Sincerely and Respectfully,
Mark B.
You're beautiful. 😘🖤 Great video and very accurate! I'm a textbook INFJ
"Ne is a very disruptive function and INFJs can bring order to chaos". There is a method to my madness I swear - INTP.
Also not gonna lie sometimes their "wanttiness" kind of makes me uncomfortable but in general they're one of the few people I can actually have decent/deep conversations with.
Great comment!
Intps wouldn't be able to give me what I desire/require for a sustainable/comfortable relationship. Maybe fellows NTs would complement you all better.
Conversations can be great with intps, but what many infjs ultimately desire are unconditional love, emotional intelligence, emotional presence, and reliability in their partners. The latter may be applicable to intps but I usually don't find them to be very obviously emotionally present.
@@EH_888 fair enough I'm not good with emotions in general (especially not my own) and I see why INFJs would be frustrated with INTPs lack of emotional expression.
@@failedbooli6028 Everything's fine. It doesn't mean that there is something innately wrong with you for that. There are actually plenty of happy infj/intp relationships. It's all going to come down to individual preferences.
Have you been reading my journal? That was incredible.
This is really wonderfully put together - great work and many thanks 💛😊
Found your Channel last night, awesome stuff! Keep it up also subbed😀
thank u for making this video!
I don't see Ne as disruptive. I feel its mercurial. It can become disruptive when it cannot discharge. ENFPs are best when they have the freedom to release energy and emotion. Its like damming a river , the pressure becomes too much sometimes.
Minimalist luxury is so true
I hate being this type tbh. It's exhausting giving all u got to someone and its not reciprocated anymore.
YAY!!! This will be journeyfun :) Subscribing right away! You're such an ENTP! 😎 Great insight on us.
I am an infj and I dont know why but my gf somehow seems not so happy with me. She is still talking all the time about her ex. Am I really that bad? Or should I let her go? She is my first love, first crush and even first girl I spoke to about something other than work life. She is isfp. I know when she lies to me, I mean its so clear.
I’d let her go. That’s not a good sign.Try to do it so you can still be friends, having someone in your life that you shared a deep connection to can be helpful moving forward, I mean if you’re able to see her just as a friend. Sometimes in the long run its hard to be in a relationship with a fellow introvert. Just putting it out there.
If she’s alpha widowed like that, she’s not over him. If you stay with her, at least don’t marry, because she’ll subconsciously hold that you’re not her ex against you. Divorce court is no fun. Watch some Alexander Grace and Coach Greg Adams vids, and focus on improving your physical and mental self (magnesium glycinate before bed has especially worked for me), regardless whether or not you’re with someone.
Maybe she’s dismissive avoidant. They tend to have phantom exs and explain their qualities with the current partner to push away and maintain emotional distance.
I'm a ENTJ and my gf of a year is a INFJ. It's very emotionally draining for me obviously. We don't really have much in common or able to understand each other that well don't know if it will last a lifetime but it isn't a unhealthy or toxic relationship.
That makes sense. As an infj, I can see how such a relationship could be uncomfortable for both parties at times.
This is likely because your Te hero is talking to her trickster function. So, learning to communicate effectively with each other can take a little bit of work
@@TypeMatch Exactly!
@@TypeMatch Thank you for the advice love your channel. So important
Keeping mementos, huh? Ayayai. I've been read like a book.
Hey, I like your vidz lol .... I have the "infj" brain, and I remember in one of your videos, you said you're "estp", and when I listen to you, it feels like my thoughts are more "concrete" lol
I thought i had an INFJ in my class (i'm intp and he like idk talked about me and send me a note with ily on it and infj and intp are pretty good match for each other so that's why i searched more) but his room and notes aren't very clean (i don't know much about his room tbh but i once listened to a stream of one of their friends where they were talking and he was talking about having quite some stuff on his desk and his notes idk they're way neater than mine but also not extremely neat)
ENFP: I've been thinking about what you have said in that Ne Fi is a rather intense combination and likely can only be held by mature NxJ types. I have been told I have a lot of energy and a strong personality. I process deep complex ideas on a regular basis that it seems many people have never thought about. It is no wonder I like INFJs, though I do not have an INFJ friend at this time. I like watching INFJs videos.
I haven't spoken to an INFJ about this , maybe they have the same experience that only NxPs can handle their Ni Fe combination. The problem might be that an ENFP probably can overload an INFJ and the INFJ might not know how to ask for space and time from them as you have suggested.
I suspect I have lost friends from the intensity around my energy ideas and momentum. And yet I am HSP as well. It's a fun combination !!!
Omg this is so truee.. maybe thats why my guy friend i love kind of always read my messages without replying....😅 he didnt know how to ask for space and time to me lol
INFJ here,
If you have any questions do ask. 😁
@@TheCanonApologist um hi there, im enfp too can i ask how to make the infj guy not doorslammed me anymore? :"
Sorry for bad english and thankyou🙏
@@ris4430,
Why were you door slammed originally?
@@TheCanonApologist because of being so clingy, and needy
spot on! :D
INTP, INFP, ENFP are the best matches for me.
so me.. thank you for this.
INFP here but these all hit hard 🥺 😂
How?
Interesting, i will be interviewing an infj tomorrow. Very valuable people to us.
You need to explain why estj isnt 3rd? You have avoided pairing concrete with abstracts. I find this interesting as enfp/istp marriage is so common as is estp/infp.
Though its great through modern technology like the type app we can find each other easier.
Kaitlyn, I like your videos
that's not my name but thank you!
Oh you're making app good idea
Why thank you! Check out the link in the description!
It’s so true, I know an infj who wears a locket with her mom’s ashes in it.
Let them be them...🙏💖🌻
Kinda scary how accurate you are with these on intj's
My mom called me Eor until i was probably in my 20s. I hated it, lol.
I love your energy. You must be ENFP
I'm old so I like the clock. 🧐💬👍
When is the app launching?
In the next few weeks!
lol "the infj is right, okay". why thank you hahaha
Eor was my favorite character in poohs friends but tigger was fantastic! T I double G ER 😃😃😃😃😃😃
2 30- good points, 4-6 40, 7 45-
People drain my energy
u the creator of typematch? app sounds pretty kool
Yes, I am! Thank you! It launches on Android tomorrow and on iOS in a couple of weeks 👍
can ppl that use ios get matched with ppl that use android? or is it separate profiles etc
I am an Isfp-a and my about to be boyfriend is Insj -T.
I'M a bit worried bc mbti show we won't be a good couple together..
If you’re still together, just go at your own pace, and don’t worry about technical compatibility. Just enjoy one day at a time with each other. You don’t need to get married; that can understandably be a longer-term commitment than you would ever feel comfortable with. If your INFJ doesn’t understand, or is standoffish, that’s something to consider.
What is the author's type? :)
ESTP :)
💕💖‼️yes.
Why INFJ/INTP as couple work?
Thanks for the answer:)
Katie kate kate
Infj dating ENTJ
Nice!
Yes plz 😀
Good luck preventing him from offending people
I think that's a tough match, but I believe tough matches give you and your partner more opportunities to grow healthy.
@@MrTrickster5 I wouldn't say that it allows for growth. Instead, you'd probably just resent one another.
Does this clock do this every hour?
unfortunately, yes
This INFJ doesnt really care for ENP types. The 24/7 Ne spew wears me out
I adore ENFPs, if they're not with me 24/7.
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Narcissist INFJ killing him/herself because he/she doesn't want to be close to a narcissist.
Wait wtf?
Physicsl attraction is #1, period. The primary reason a hetero couple comes together is to make babies, compatibility, culture, language, geograpy are important, but take a back seat to attraction.
I would disagree on this because .aking the babies is easier than giving them good childhood and raising them well.
Attraction may go down from peak but at that time, it's love based on compatability and trust that drives the relationship
Ew, sounds so -- animalistic. Completely disregard asexual but romantic couples and of course, gay and trans.
@@LittleMew133 That's the truth....can't speak to gay and Trans experience since I haven't walked that path.
how the hell do you know that .....
oh i love too hard no wonder i want to die when someone betrays me ..
She's an enfp ... isn't she ?
she's and ESTP
An adidas t-shirt.......... Ok is she trying to send us a subliminal message?
A D I D A S All Day I Dream About Sex
Or maybe this comment is just what happens when one lets NI run wild.
Let’s keep it in check folks.
What is the biggest frustations you've had regarding dating sites as an INFJ?
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#twinflamesoulmatewarriorpriest #chicanoinfjheyokaempathmedicineman
I am a Clinical Psychologist with 30 years of experience dealing with people. I was branded a INFJ quite sometime ago. I never really accepted that evaluation because placing 'labels' on people puts them into a box. It limits their potentiality and personal growth. At worse, it can destroy a individual's self determination and freedom. However, the Myers Briggs Personally Test is interesting but somewhat incomplete. I have never encountered a 'classical' INFJ before. Why? Because certain characteristics of this personality type have many subgroups some of which overlap other MBTI personality types. That being said I will describe the characteristics of how a 'orthodox' INFJ thinks, behaves and responds in strict accordance with the MBTI Personalty Test. Be forewarned, I find some INFJ 'stereotypes' rather funny. And will approach such in a humorous fashion. INFJ's posess a wonderfully sense irony and will immediately recognize the silly 'stereotypes' others have attrubuted to them.....So let's start breaking some myths about INFJ Personalty Type
When a INFJ gives you the dreaded 'Death Stair' they are not attempting to understand you. They are wondering if you're carrying a gun. Killing INFJ's is a pleasurable experience. Why? Because everyone hates a smart ass.
INFJ's frequently experience 'Sensory Overload' issues. They love Forests, Parks and Woodland areas to recharge their batteries. Why? Because trees don't talk! A squirrel cannot complain it has 'Daddy Issues'. Pine trees do not suffer from 'gender identity' problems. And I have never seen a bunny rabbit strung out Crack Cocaine. Solitude is bliss.
Never say to a INFJ, 'I do not understand', They will run away screaming or jump infront of a bus. No one understands them. INFJ's sometimes don't even understand themselves.
INFJ's feel uncomfortable being around large groups of people. However, once you get them talking, they never shut up. Adolf Hitler, Martin Luther King and Gandhi were historical INJF's. You cannot win a argument with this Myers Briggs Personality type. They will always win... until they get shot.
Why do a INFJ 'Door Slam' people? Because it's called a Coping Mechanism. They dislike being emotionally hurt. There is nothing strange about this behavior.. Some people become acholics others pill poppers. INFJ's will just run away and pretend you never existed.
INFJ's have the psychic ability to absorb people's emotions. No. This is phenomen is called 'Transference'. If you continuously talk about your problems, a INFJ will unconsciously adopt some aspects of your emotional state. However, INFJ's posess strong identities which prevents them from going completely insane.
INFJ's are the most honest, compassionate and sensative people on Earth. Not really. Mother Nature just screwed them up genetically. They're brains are hard wired to respond during crisis situations. A 'diehard' INFJ will instinctively sacrifice their life attempting to save yours. No questions asked. Why? I have no freaking idea. I didn't invent the rules. Ask God. I'm sure She knows.
INFJ's think differently than others. Yes. They think outside the box. They live outside the box. They have never actually seen the box. What does it look like? Does it contain groceries?
INFJ types are occasionally arrogant, cold towards others and aloof. This is actually true. Being omnipotent has its drawbacks. INFJ's have a difficult time sugar-coating the truth. Being overtly honest is their trademark. If they sense someone cannot handle the truth, they will lie to protect that person's emotions.
INFJ's are stubborn yet will openly admit to errors in judgment or making mistakes.
INFJ's think too deeply. They want to solve everyone's problems. They get frustrated when people ask for advice, then completely ignore their recommendations. They do not understand why everyone keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. Eventually, a INFJ will simply give up. The phrase 'People need to learn things the hard way' was invented by a INFJ. So was the 'unfriend' button on Facebook.
INFJ's do not respect authority because they have developed their own Moral, Ethical, Spiritual and Cognative belief systems. Mature (older) INFJ's care very little about how people perceive them and less about the impressions they make upon others. INFJ's enjoy approval and acceptance (like everyone else) but infrequently compromise their princepals to simply fit in.
Do not mistake a INFJ's confidence as egocentrismn. There is a difference.
INFJ's are frequently interpreted as posessing a Narcissist Personalty Disorder. This stereotype is absolutely false. A Narcissist loves adoration and attention. The typical INFJ cares more about other people than themselves, sometime to their own detriment. For example, 5 military soilders are in a bomb shelter. A hand granade is thrown into the bomb shelter. One soldier immediately jumps atop the hand granade, attempting to save his comrades from the explosion. This is called self sacrifice. A Narcissist has 'Self Absorption' problems, not 'Self Sacrifice' problems.
INFJ's dislike themselves. They feel alone within the world and misunderstood. Being a INFJ a curse. Consequently, a small minority INFJ's often experience psychological Depression, Alienation Issues and Avoident Behavior problems. The phrase 'You are your own worst enemy' accurately describes a INFJ's perception of themselves.
The most admirable personality traits of the INFJ are (1) INFJ's care about you than themselves which makes them a easy targets for emotional exploitation and abuse. Never play 'Guilt Games' with a INFJ. They already persecute themselves (subconsciously) for being different. They don't have the ability to forgive themselves for past mistakes, A INFJ's unforgiving 'Guilt Complex' is an integral part of their personality. INFJ's have occasionally been known to slowly kill themselves over time, believing they deserve such suffering. 'Hell on Earth' is their punishment and they willing accept it....sometimes. Not always. (2) Once you secure the trust of a INFJ, everything about them suddenly becomes clear. The stereotypes vanish. These are people you want within your life. They have incredible insight into human nature and will identify your weaknesses and lift you up from darkness. Seeing the world through a INFJ eyes is the greatest gift they can offer.
It would be impossible to understand a MBTI typology without stating the negative traits of a specific personality group.
The 'Dark Side' of a INFJ is rather frightening. Never test their 'Authenticity' or personal dignity. Do not play games with a INFJ. They have limitations like everyone else. A INFJ can determine your intentions or plans within minutes. Literally. This Hyperobservient behavior is quite unique. Avoid getting into heated arguments with a INFJ unless you are prepared to be intellectually, emotionally or psychologically castrated. They have cognitive resources almost beyond understanding. A vindictive INFJ will never stop until they destroy your life (this has nothing to do with physical murder). Such behavior is almost Psychopathic in nature (hence the concern INFJ's may be catorgized as possessing a Psychological Disorder rather than a Personality Dysfunction). Fortunately, INFJ's are not prone to violent behavior. They give up easily, This is where the 'Door Slam' or simply walking away from an argument comes from. Once they reveal their true inner nature, you will begin to understand why only 2% of the world's population are INFJ's. They are so dam charming.
INFJ's dislike small talk, idle conversations, superficial people and hypocrites. Life is too short talking to such individuals (but they understand its occasionally necessary to be socially accepted)
INFJ's are not spontaneous. They just pretend to be spontaneous. Their minds are always attempting to 'connect the dots' even when there are no dots.
Avoid getting into deep conversations with a INFJ. They are walking encyclopedias. They will jump from topic to topic then back again to support a idea or theory. Male INFJ's are 'scattered brained' in the worst way possible. But there is method to such madness. The are searching for the correct answer to a specific problem. And 95% of the time they will discover it... or have a complete nervous breakdown trying.
Occasionally, you will notice a INFJ acting mysteriously, doing unusual things or just behaving weird. Get used to this behavior. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. The INFJ is just going through a 'stage' or experimenting with something that interests them. Like building a Thermonuclear Bomb or discovering a cure for Herpes.
Never tell a INFJ they have a 'Old Soul'. They are absolutely terrified of being reincarnated again. INFJ's are acutely aware that neither Heaven or Hell wants them. Why? Because God doesn't need the extra competition on who should run Heaven (Him or a INFJ) and Satan can't deal with a INFJ pestering him for all eternity....that would be considered cruel and unusual punishment.
Aliens will never abduct a INFJ. There are some things too bizarre even for Extraterrestrials.
Men of all ages, groups and backgrounds fall instantly in love with INFJ women. They give the appearance of a graceful dove. Pure and innocent. No. They are just horny.
INFJ's have a difficult time forming a thought or idea into words. Yes. Someday a INFJ will develop telekinesis and scare the hell out of everyone.
So next time you accidentally encounter a INFJ, break all COVID 'Social Distancing' issues and hug them. INFJ's are a endangered species. Literally. Whatever purpose they were created for has already been accomplished. This Myers Briggs Personality represents the noblest aspects of humanity....Intelligent, Wise, Caring, Virtuous, Altruistic and Protective. And they have a excellent sense of humor (wink).
Selflessly selfish
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swithc the INTP with ISTP and it will be more accurate.
Istp is are great conversationalists in my experience
@@EH_888 yup. or put ENFJ instead of INTP.
@@dseer13 I'd definitely probably prefer an enfj over an intp.
What exactly is the problem with INTPs? Just curious...
In my experience intps are the ones who realy understand infjs and can love them, well in their weird way...
@@annachaos8010 that "way" doesn't really vibe with me.
I mean it's ok but many others are better.
Where is the gorgeous doggy in the video? 🥲
I wanna see doggy too 🐕🦺