How To Make Her MISS You

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  • @Leven727
    @Leven727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6933

    Don’t be a simp boys, only give love if it is returned

  • @truework8676
    @truework8676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +963

    I needed this. I just realized how much of a simp I am because I thought being too nice was how to get a girl. Now I'm a serial killer and have never felt better

    • @Underleaf76
      @Underleaf76 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      HAHAHA.... funny comment!

    • @MoistDelta.
      @MoistDelta. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      You had me in the first half ngl

    • @juancortes85340
      @juancortes85340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Damn that’s deep 😭💔

    • @marcelloferreira3627
      @marcelloferreira3627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      you're KILLIN the game bruh

    • @SuperYtc1
      @SuperYtc1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You might think this is funny but it’s actually true that girls are more attracted to serial killers than nice guys. I’m being serious, look it up, a lot of girls dig serial killers.

  • @yvtctc5161
    @yvtctc5161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2254

    When I used to focus on myself she used to like me and when I started liking her and give her more attention she start ignoring me

    • @dad4378
      @dad4378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Happens. I could give you an insight on why if you clarify more.

    • @tovisema2567
      @tovisema2567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@dad4378 give

    • @hotsauceramen69
      @hotsauceramen69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same

    • @suchitmrzn5951
      @suchitmrzn5951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      Same, happened with me too bro when I confessed my love that's where I fucked up.

    • @jokeyboy1450
      @jokeyboy1450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Yep...freaking weird creature

  • @romans.1612
    @romans.1612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2419

    Don't. Chase. Girls.
    Don't be simp. Improve yourself 💪

    • @itzwilza7189
      @itzwilza7189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Amen brother

    • @aebious8886
      @aebious8886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      So basically. Be a girl?

    • @Soundofgrace11
      @Soundofgrace11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amen to that bro

    • @sorcus2144
      @sorcus2144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@aebious8886 Yep

    • @youareaspook5897
      @youareaspook5897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      self improvement is masturbation, self destruction however...

  • @i_know_youre_right_but
    @i_know_youre_right_but 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2761

    Alternatively:
    Stop chasing tail and caring about what women think of you and work on yourself for a while. Go to the gym and get in shape. Read books that’ll expand your knowledge. Take your career seriously and earn that damn promotion (or start a business and get on your grind). Get a good skincare routine. Learn a new hobby. Travel to new places and make friends.
    I spent my early twenties searching for a woman and nothing came of it. After a while I gave up and started doing me. Then, when I weren’t looking for it, I met the most beautiful woman who is now my wife, and she didn’t play games.

    • @devrajsingh9986
      @devrajsingh9986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      Bro thank you you save me i am 18

    • @theeternalnightmare2630
      @theeternalnightmare2630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I need the krabby patty formula on life ffs and alpha improvement im 20

    • @SperdakosGaming
      @SperdakosGaming 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good shit

    • @Kelvin_Selamatan
      @Kelvin_Selamatan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      What if you work on yourself for so long but no women likes u

    • @anonymousbird-4
      @anonymousbird-4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@Kelvin_Selamatan You have to show interest first, women wont come to you. Showing interest is not chasing. If you are a successful person, women come after your success.
      Pull away from women who start playing games. And talk to a lot of women. This is easy if you wont take anything seriously and start doing.

  • @luxnarr
    @luxnarr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1071

    I said that first. I'll say this again. IF YOU'RE CHASING SOMETHING, IT MEANS THAT THING IS RUNNING SO JUST RELAX AND YOU'LL GET THE BUTTERFLY

    • @musicavi3508
      @musicavi3508 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aaron doughty much ?😊

    • @Steffenwolff
      @Steffenwolff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This comment!

    • @luxnarr
      @luxnarr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@musicavi3508 Very much😂

    • @gregoryl5330
      @gregoryl5330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did not get a butterfly. I got Hitler !

  • @joshuaurcia1021
    @joshuaurcia1021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4875

    why do we have to go through all these just for girls.

    • @niharrane4961
      @niharrane4961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +756

      Brother this is a million dollar question

    • @joshuaurcia1021
      @joshuaurcia1021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      agree

    • @waynemulash9030
      @waynemulash9030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +204

      It is what it izzzzz

    • @arda5419
      @arda5419 4 ปีที่แล้ว +357

      Because we wanna f*ck

    • @nilenninju4709
      @nilenninju4709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +214

      Road to being ALPHA isn't easy, it needs time, patience and effort

  • @danielhohmann8452
    @danielhohmann8452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2494

    How to get a girlfriend: dont do anything
    Nice

    • @htheking92
      @htheking92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Bro he meant to play role of being precious and busy man , while you are the most empty one , that will make her feel you are cool and mysterious person

    • @raymondlim9661
      @raymondlim9661 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      No, Be you.

    • @itchypen15
      @itchypen15 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      yup

    • @omaewamoushindeiru9859
      @omaewamoushindeiru9859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Noice

    • @abdurrehman32
      @abdurrehman32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I dont know it works, i just be me and sometimes im lucky

  • @kryzzt1484
    @kryzzt1484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +940

    Straight up threw away my basketball college scholarship for a girl who broke up with me a month later, lesson learned don't simp straight up.

    • @marvinmolina5997
      @marvinmolina5997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Bro the same happen to me I gave up football because she said she wanted more time with me and weeks later she started liking somebody else

    • @Fitszn
      @Fitszn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      Bro wtff?!! You don't give up a basketball scholarship up for nobody. Especially some girl🙄

    • @walteralvarez8230
      @walteralvarez8230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      What about No ....I throw out my military career for a girl ..dumb move on my part ..

    • @i_know_youre_right_but
      @i_know_youre_right_but 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      The fuck is wrong with you bro?

    • @pranabray9660
      @pranabray9660 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      A lesson learnt: be careful about the girl you sacrifice for.

  • @nissayb8003
    @nissayb8003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2996

    Bruh you just saved me from a huge mistake... Thnx a loot

    • @kullalaishram7227
      @kullalaishram7227 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I'm with you bro..... Thanks for the vid....

    • @Aaron_duckroast
      @Aaron_duckroast 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Even though I'm an introvert guy never been to party thanks a lot. Will help in future

    • @roorod_21
      @roorod_21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Same here man, Great info. I know a lot of us guys know this but also forget when we get caught up with that someone. Thanks for the remember!

    • @saidabdallah3193
      @saidabdallah3193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Lesson: FOCUS on adding value to your life. No chasing, no games. Simply give as less fuck as you can find in your pocket.

    • @086Eazy
      @086Eazy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Meee too bruh

  • @BigeuleLP
    @BigeuleLP 4 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    lol if a girl kisses you and ignores you the next day, just forget her and go on.

    • @gentlebabarian
      @gentlebabarian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Yup she probably was drunk.

  • @andr1
    @andr1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +474

    Today for the first time in my life i went up to a girl at work who i havent ever talked to and asked her out, i practiced it a bit in my head and built up confidence by talking to other people first, but it still went pretty bad, she said she needs to think about it, but i am happy i finally worked up the courage to actually do it.

    • @andr1
      @andr1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Today i plowed her

    • @paokw.s.1048
      @paokw.s.1048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@andr1 nice, don't be shy mate, they are human beings like us. Just go in and if it doesn't work, just keep on going with other girls. Once i texted a girl to go out, i ended up being with another girl on a date and i slept with an another girl. I was drunk and I don't even know the names of the last 2 girls.

    • @jacksullivan5821
      @jacksullivan5821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jazzyboy this is a W

    • @tomasgriffiths4249
      @tomasgriffiths4249 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jazzyboy absolute king

    • @skuller2032
      @skuller2032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My boi here developing himself, Good job dog.

  • @worldwidesade.
    @worldwidesade. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    I love how everyone's watching these videos simultaneously and leaving advices/tips on the comments. Hahahha it be like a brotherhood. Aim high, kings.

  • @maestroprodigy2296
    @maestroprodigy2296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Just lost a girl because I went all out in proving that I'm actually all about her . She tossed me aside and I've been confusing the last two nights .this really took the weight off my shoulders

  • @TheFailBros
    @TheFailBros 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1211

    These “games” are so exhausting tho

    • @pangwangkamhua9931
      @pangwangkamhua9931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Seems like you're going through this now

    • @acharich
      @acharich 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💯

    • @Gentamoru
      @Gentamoru 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      fr fr

    • @anonymousbird-4
      @anonymousbird-4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      very much

    • @gegedota5281
      @gegedota5281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yeah it could be a mind games that low percentage of winning

  • @yzack5521
    @yzack5521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +351

    Long story short : ignore them, focus only on YOU, its all about you not about her !

    • @reshzy3807
      @reshzy3807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      soooo... women are temporary and you are eternal?

    • @bennir3297
      @bennir3297 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯💯💯💯

    • @yzack5521
      @yzack5521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@reshzy3807 I never said that but if that's how you see things, yea, I respect it

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@reshzy3807 You must be a woman to misunderstand him

    • @reshzy3807
      @reshzy3807 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Sammie551 I thought someone would get the reference

  • @DNVwicked1
    @DNVwicked1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +484

    I'm going to make it as simple as possible....mirror her actions.if she ghost you,ghost her right back and not care and this applies to every aspect.

    • @salvadorhenriquez4091
      @salvadorhenriquez4091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      GONNA DO IT FUCKING NOW

    • @aznbnn
      @aznbnn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That’s exactly how you fuck it up and lose the opportunity

    • @Rard.
      @Rard. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@aznbnn But if she ghost you then isn't the opportunity already lost

    • @aznbnn
      @aznbnn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Rard. nah, some girls ghost you for a bit cuz they never hung out with you in person and don’t know your real personality and then when you somehow do manage to meet up with her she falls in love with you

    • @Rard.
      @Rard. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aznbnn I thank you, I don't know anything about dating but I can use this to see it as a positive sign of them testing the waters but hey I want to test the waters too, any advice?

  • @brivet5049
    @brivet5049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +545

    Why am i watching this, we're just friends...

    • @habuflingo6888
      @habuflingo6888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      F

    • @pbh2720
      @pbh2720 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I said the same..

    • @Scoltren
      @Scoltren 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Bruh... i feel u

    • @tiggatar1182
      @tiggatar1182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Feel you brother :*(

    • @joshalexander4694
      @joshalexander4694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same with me 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @noahverdines
    @noahverdines 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    You’re an amazing person, don’t waste your time on a girl who doesn’t even care

  • @shinigami2669
    @shinigami2669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    Giving attention was the worst and stupid act i ever did...

    • @peterxd3558
      @peterxd3558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fr

    • @dorian_tihi5869
      @dorian_tihi5869 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey guys :), My YT channel That I started recently is almost at 100 subscribers. That is why I would appreciate it a lot if you would go and show some support if you are Interested in the content. See you there and have a nice day.
      Lets reach goals togheter.

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Guys fall in love this way
      But girls get so many options doing this same thing

  • @rain4279
    @rain4279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2402

    Why am i watching this, while ignoring my gf's messages.

    • @AL-if7fe
      @AL-if7fe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Lmao

    • @jayman618
      @jayman618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      At least you have one :(

    • @kevmadueke5671
      @kevmadueke5671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Jay Man felt😔

    • @shaun9184
      @shaun9184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      king

    • @irl.clownin
      @irl.clownin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      bc ur the one who misses her

  • @mhaluuun93
    @mhaluuun93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    It works, yo.
    Don’t worry about when/how they’d come back. They literally ALWAYS come back into your life. Somehow at some point. They always do. Don’t bug abt their absence. Do u!

    • @fighthighlights2201
      @fighthighlights2201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They come back IF you don't chase and focus on improving yourself. Otherwise they're gone forever.

  • @lambsows4168
    @lambsows4168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    Gentlemen's Game got that "Improvement Pill" Channel vibes....

    • @j-efaw
      @j-efaw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Even the voice

    • @lambsows4168
      @lambsows4168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@j-efaw
      Conspiracy theory:
      They're run by the same creator

  • @VashTheTyphonicStampede
    @VashTheTyphonicStampede 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    This video couldn't be more timely, it's just what I need right now.

  • @ChurroWaffles
    @ChurroWaffles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    The fact that we need to do games like these is a testament to how petty the human psyché can be. Yes the advice works as it worked for my ex when we weren’t officially dating yet. I was busy with my band doing shows and with work that when she texts me I hardly have time to reply. Then when we ended up together and I started giving her more of my time then she ends the relationship. Honestly if I have to keep doing this for the rest of my life just to be with someone then its not worth it.

  • @Smoothtattoos
    @Smoothtattoos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    “Like some simp”

    • @thegentlemensgame
      @thegentlemensgame  4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      stayed true to my last video haha

    • @antonartamonov3191
      @antonartamonov3191 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lmao he says it so violently

    • @tzeffsmainchannel
      @tzeffsmainchannel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wikipedia says: SIMP means simplified Chinese! So... he's saying don't chase her like a simplified Chinese! Wow! That's cold, man! :-s

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thegentlemensgame Women don't respect men who chase them, they look like they don't value themselves

  • @spaceinvader4565
    @spaceinvader4565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    "like some simp" bro i died

  • @farisSTINGrai
    @farisSTINGrai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I got friend zoned yesterday, thank you for telling me what I needed to hear! I got enough bigger sh*t to focus on atm!

  • @vazoth6423
    @vazoth6423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I owe my life to this man, he teached me how to be alpha, one of the worst things you can do is text roght back to the someone you like, give ot like from 30 to how much time you want to text back, she will think you have more things to do than just talk to her, show more activeness, show that she is not the most important thing in your life, she will end up missing you. You nees to care more about ypu than everyone else, chase your dreams, show social activity and she will end up liking you and respecting you.

  • @eduardhvizdak9862
    @eduardhvizdak9862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +816

    Step 1: Be attractive
    Step 2: Don't be unattractive

    • @skuller2032
      @skuller2032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Why would you say something so controversial yet so brave.

    • @Naruto-hq1nr
      @Naruto-hq1nr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well, I am fucked then

    • @ajitchandiwade8228
      @ajitchandiwade8228 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😳

    • @samarpanrai7541
      @samarpanrai7541 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So no woman 😂

    • @yaxgeez
      @yaxgeez 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samarpanrai7541 eeeyee

  • @chrisstone5683
    @chrisstone5683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are sooo right!
    Last Sunday I had a great day with a girl (and her daughter). We went rollerskating and she took a lot of pics and footage of me and her girl.
    Later at dinner she was laughing at my jokes and we really had a great time.
    The next day she sent me some pics and films she took but after I told her that I had a great time with her and said how cute her daughter was. I also asked her to hang out some time soon.
    But until now (3 days after my message) no response from her at all.
    I thought and still think “ok no problem, I’m so busy with my work and sports, so I leave her alone”.
    Now that I see this clip, I know for sure that this woman is rather strange and to be honest, it’s better she didn’t reacted anymore because a woman who Is friends with her daughter is not ok.
    She is below my values and it all clear to me now.

  • @Nellak2011
    @Nellak2011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Thank you, I have noticed lately I have been focusing too much on my Girlfriend. I need to get back on my own projects. Thank you for waking me up again. Your content is appreciated.

    • @zikimeru
      @zikimeru 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @fighthighlights2201
      @fighthighlights2201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!
      And in most cases she'll ask for it, please don't fall for it, keep making her chase your attention

  • @mahirshahriyar545
    @mahirshahriyar545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    In short: Chase excellence, not women!

    • @carl1498
      @carl1498 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How old are you my guy 😂

    • @aeiouaeiouaeiouaeiou4510
      @aeiouaeiouaeiouaeiou4510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What if I chase excellence to chase women

    • @ultraatari9298
      @ultraatari9298 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aeiouaeiouaeiouaeiou4510
      What if you chase women to chase excellence?
      Cause like me I don't really wanna even be alive in the normal sense of the word. I just want someone to be mine to love and have sex with in the woods where we hunt, crap in the woods, and kill anyone who mistakingly traverses our deliverance abode "squeal like a piggy boy!"

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ultraatari9298 Still doesn't make sense
      Women chase men who chase excellence

  • @gabrielkennedy4908
    @gabrielkennedy4908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    PSA to everyone in the comments: don't interact with any of the comments saying 'wanna be friends' or something similar - it's possible it can compromise your youtube account and it might be worth reporting them 🙂

    • @danurkresnamurti3598
      @danurkresnamurti3598 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah. what it is?

    • @Joygulplay
      @Joygulplay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for the advice there are a lot of people in my TH-cam channel telling me 'wanna be friends' and I always answer them. But now I'll know to not do it anymore.

  • @nilenninju4709
    @nilenninju4709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    8:48 this is basically the hardest, yet the most effective way to do it

  • @J5o7h9n1A3
    @J5o7h9n1A3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks for the "Dont use it all the time" advice man. Recently I get to have the courage to stop chasing this 1 girl, your advice makes me feel i didnt make the wrong choice.

  • @timetraveller9447
    @timetraveller9447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    Who is single but still watching this ?

    • @owogamingguy
      @owogamingguy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      R u the one who comment in a video a kid in Iraq messaging to the world?

    • @Finch-lh6lk
      @Finch-lh6lk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      69th like. Maybe I won't be single for much longer😉

    • @Aiezxd
      @Aiezxd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re not single but you are expensive same as me tho I don’t chase love I’ll just wait for a better girl to buy my heart get it?😎

    • @araceligonzales236
      @araceligonzales236 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Meee😂

    • @epicone2449
      @epicone2449 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let’s time travel to the beginning of the party

  • @ghostrender-
    @ghostrender- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Exceptionally good video, I'm glad all us men are taking that step outside of Disneyland, and entering the world of goals, freedom, aspirations, high confidence, high value and most importantly our masculinity. I am very very happy I am a man, thank you universe and the great attractor

  • @Kailova07
    @Kailova07 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    A lesson I learned later than I wish I had but sooner than I thought I would. It just dawned on me one day, “why am I desperately seeking this girl’s attention? I’ve made it through too much to settle for games like this.”
    Great video, mate!

  • @middknyte
    @middknyte 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Not gonna lie, this is some of THE best dating advice you could give a guy, in my opinion.

  • @temodeart
    @temodeart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    Before this video: Text every girl's messages back at midnight.
    After this video: Put my phone to Do not disturb mode at 10PM.
    Guess, I've found a cure to my Insomnia.

    • @Storm_x
      @Storm_x 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well done

  • @josecarioca8785
    @josecarioca8785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks! I got into my first relantionship last week and managing attention has been one of the most challenging parts of the entire affair

  • @TechLeo317
    @TechLeo317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    You never know what's happening in her mind, they have constant mood swings, no amount of such discussion will make you successful with women.... just work on yourself, increase your self worth, focus on your fitness, earnings, family, friends, creative hobbies... ultimately you will end up with the person you are meant to be with...but in the process just enjoy the journey

  • @BrianHallmond
    @BrianHallmond 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Videos like this bring so much value.
    I'd love to see more about texting. I always reply quickly even though people might take half a day to get back to me.

  • @itslittttttt7111
    @itslittttttt7111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bro, you're like my big brother that i never had. Thank you! ❤😎

  • @Brad-ne6ld
    @Brad-ne6ld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Woahhh the comment box's full of next levell "awaken the beast in you" motivation. That's what I am talkin abt brothers don't do all of these jst for a girl. Start doing you, keeep working on yourself then girls birds everything will come after yuhh maa amigoo!!!

  • @Fluzzel
    @Fluzzel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love listening to your videos at work. I just wish they came out more

    • @thegentlemensgame
      @thegentlemensgame  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Been caught up with life recently, but aiming to drop a video a week starting next month!

  • @kruolalietsurho651
    @kruolalietsurho651 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Self love.❤️
    If you can’t love yourself, how can you love others.
    Great video.✌🏻

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's basically the mindset behind girls when it comes to attraction

  • @wanzeviera
    @wanzeviera 4 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    Its easy man, just find another girl, who appreciate you more.
    No need to grind for a woman who are taken you for granted.
    Its the matter of give and take. Done.

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly why we should have options
      Date more than one girl

    • @bellehermoine3627
      @bellehermoine3627 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He thinks of me just a friend

    • @Olakk20
      @Olakk20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      change your mindset. improved yourself and don't find another girl

  • @danielivo5313
    @danielivo5313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    7:40 ... so true. It applies to other relationships as well, that's the interesting thing about it. If you're ghosted, they're not worth the time.

    • @ienderlord2983
      @ienderlord2983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Freakin’ hate when they ghost me after telling me that they like me

  • @pratikkudwalkar5923
    @pratikkudwalkar5923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The last story bought a perfect answer to the question i had right from the beginning of the video. Why should i even bother to make a girl miss me?It`s an obvious thing that if a girl likes me she wouldn`t ghost me and those who like to play such games those girls....... you should leave them alone because those games never end. So have integrity and standard and walk it off. Plus it`s better to play a sport rather than playing her game!

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately.. all girls are this way

  • @emanuelecamisa7222
    @emanuelecamisa7222 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    0:38 aaaaand stop right there.
    That's as far I've ever went.

  • @Adam-qd6wk
    @Adam-qd6wk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think what you had said relfects on most of my relationship.. it is best to prioritize yourself first than in the girl which may or may not be interested in you..a successful guy in career is often chased by lady as they found a man passionate with their work or hobbies make a girl fond on the guy..it is a true story as currently i did not put much effort on looking for the special one but in fact if you focus on what you doing and if she finds you attractive it simply means you are a successful guy..what is more important is your being yourself and get a girl to love you for what your doing, aint that great?

  • @checkmate1284
    @checkmate1284 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve definitely made the mistake of being too available. Stay on the grind and you will eventually be victorious.

  • @MsModernwarefare2
    @MsModernwarefare2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I needed this my ex left me for her plug that got her hooked on coke and I don’t need this it hurt at first but this video opened up my eyes

  • @reezy_madona
    @reezy_madona 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are good, really good.
    Thank you and keep it up.

  • @michaelbrown8745
    @michaelbrown8745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    To me personally, if a certain girl that ignores your messages, phone calls and starts to ghost you on any social media. You're probably better off cutting any contact with her completely. Its probably better to connect with women who are kind-hearted, loving, caring and have genuine love feelings for you.

  • @saimadeit
    @saimadeit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bro... fr love ur channel. great stuff, i smashed the FUCK out of that like button

  • @charlesh817
    @charlesh817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Bro when you are high value and your ex or the girl you used to "like" comes back. You wont want her anymore...

    • @Underleaf76
      @Underleaf76 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Girls abuse their power over men, often times when they do come back it's because they realize they messed up... don't give them the satisfaction, let them learn their lesson the hard way, you both will be better off as a result. You do you!

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well that's cause you're emotional and girls don't want that
      She was just "testing you"
      Every girl will do it
      Just learn to not worry if she's pulling away for the first time, just worry and move on if she does it twice
      As for the exes, they're not worth respect if they dumped you it was to cheat on you

  • @KezOFM
    @KezOFM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im happy this came in my recommended just the right time,my girl is playing hard to get so im just gonna do the same.

  • @hussnainrana3645
    @hussnainrana3645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Being too much available for her will make her start losing interest in you, and ignoring her will make her find someone else

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Most people misunderstand what we mean by ignoring lol
      Ignoring means waiting for her to do the chasing and rewarding her for it because you have other commitments too

  • @davidgelnar5241
    @davidgelnar5241 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Literally just what I needed. If it’s meant to be it’ll be!

  • @tyronemasheke
    @tyronemasheke 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you deserve more subscribers king

  • @javiercruz9019
    @javiercruz9019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I rather just have a girl who likes me for who I am in all honesty.. rather than playing games, or for her missing her ex, personally isssues etc whatever the case may be, but thank you for this advice. Really! It is good advice. For all the guys out there do your own thing focus on yourself don’t worry about girls/women JUST DO YOU! Lol keep it real and stay true to yourselves kings ✊🔥💯

  • @kasitrends3420
    @kasitrends3420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nice, you are my inner voice that helps me to improve myself.

  • @amomothibi1460
    @amomothibi1460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    you are honestly preaching so much truth that you need your own bible chapter. PERIODT!!!!

  • @chasemcgath3725
    @chasemcgath3725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Saved my relationship g appreciate it

  • @montaellis2860
    @montaellis2860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I completly agree, i lived everything that was in that video, and i'm living it right now... The best thing is to focus on yourself and you will find somebody sooner or later.

  • @banhanter
    @banhanter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much bro. I kinda wish that I've learned this sooner. I think that's one of the reason why my ex leave me so easily because I gave to much of my Love and Time to her. You're the best man. You've just gain a subscriber bro ;)

  • @mrmm2261
    @mrmm2261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so funny, this video explains why the girls i liked backed away from me and the girls i didnt like chased me

  • @jaydread6324
    @jaydread6324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Actually really good advice, I was worried it was going to be manipulative

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      To girls..
      Being nice is also manipulative

  • @benedictbaawa3463
    @benedictbaawa3463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was sooo right to subscribe to your channel , your advices are the advices that i really want to hear from someone , thanks for this infos bro

  • @ric8931
    @ric8931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You’re the best, I just had a situation like this, and I’m ngl I was about to be a simp, but u saved me with your inspirational words, definitely subscribing to you and turning on the bell for more future videos of yours 😌💯✅

  • @vegitoblue2187
    @vegitoblue2187 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Earned enough unmatches to understand how corrosive even a tiny drop of neediness can be

  • @bdgregorybd
    @bdgregorybd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I loved the last 5 mins of this, and was laughing so hard when you said “maybe she’s bipolar” lmao cause it’s true. When she walks away like that she’s doing you a favor

  • @frantic996615
    @frantic996615 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally the right video and not the other one that lead you to a stuck up girl that you always need to play a game! Ya'll need someone who truly love you!

  • @SoarseX
    @SoarseX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Simple: just don't let her hit you

  • @spiritDragoon009
    @spiritDragoon009 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This channel is one of the most useful ones 💯

  • @LimitlessXform
    @LimitlessXform 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    So basically if I’m correct. Just mainly focus on myself and my goals when I’m not with her then when I’m with her, have a great time with her and make her really enjoy herself so she will want more the next time. Am I right?🧐. And also pres8 the vid ✨

  • @calebgoodner1899
    @calebgoodner1899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I'm thinking to much into this me and this girl hung out one night and in the morning her attitude started to change out of no where thx for the video

  • @remuvs
    @remuvs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It seems the general consensus is that giving girls attention is like a favourite dish; you need to space out the favourite dish. If you feed someone their favourite dish for every meal, every day for the next week, they’ll grow to not appreciate it and want to seek other things.
    It’s funny because the optimal play actually is to not chase girls, rather get THEM to chase YOU for attention. You’ve got nothing to lose, there’s this thing I’m seeing more of where more older men are likely to be in a marriage compared to older women. Something like men gain value over time where as women lose value over time. Especially when the good guys don’t waste their energy chasing and live their lives. They achieve stability while others are playing games, trying to tame the exciting bad girl/boy until they mature and realise that isn’t sustainable. They have to settle down with a sensible person who can give them the opportunity to retire, live comfortably, and be in a safe/healthy environment.

  • @chiiv999
    @chiiv999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I made the same mistake what you did in the video. Now I will take this advice and improve myself for next time :)

  • @siddharthrangankar9119
    @siddharthrangankar9119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was the person in the start
    But
    Video like yours changed my game a lot
    Thanks buddy.....

  • @butvi0663
    @butvi0663 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is the most important video i ve ever seen. This is the same situation im living rn. thank you

  • @dinikase2691
    @dinikase2691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I was once told... Love is more like" action reaction force..."

    • @TTD94
      @TTD94 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      “For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction…” it’s genius

  • @all_african
    @all_african 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Being a simp is so messed up... Thanks for the video man

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some end up getting abused

  • @funwithshay5945
    @funwithshay5945 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    0:56 then you wake up as if it's never happened😂

  • @franzhulk2947
    @franzhulk2947 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i like that you call it "the most likely way" not the "only or save way" liked this explanation much. got structure and the animations make it even more understandable.

  • @wolvex7141
    @wolvex7141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Been waiting for this man you are the besttttt relationship coach I've ever listened to I am getting a girl I really liked bcz of your advise so thanks man big props

    • @Lone_Coyote
      @Lone_Coyote 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So how was it?

    • @IzleCheerCuizon
      @IzleCheerCuizon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      what advice is that?

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True to that, and don't let girls tell you otherwise

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IzleCheerCuizon Did you not watch

  • @alexbolton9492
    @alexbolton9492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im not even talking to a girl. these type of videos just pop up on my recommended and im intrigued

  • @MythicalPlays
    @MythicalPlays 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This really helped me a lot. Everything said in this video is true and effective.

  • @buju2139
    @buju2139 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ladies always know the winner..no matter how hard you chase/commit if it is not you it will never be you...simple

  • @jacobcelmer4928
    @jacobcelmer4928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I think we've all been there. I feel like usually it's the first girl we meet who reciprocates those same feelings of attraction, we're guys and I think we get overwhelmed by these emotions, nor how to handle them so they ultimately lead to us coming off as needy or coming off way too strongly and that ruins the mutual feeling of interest. It's a cruel lesson but one I think all men need to go through, it makes us wiser in the game of love.

  • @tylerniles7330
    @tylerniles7330 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro you saved my fucking livelihood. Actual fucking genius right here. You dropped this 👑

  • @enjoyerofalotofthings
    @enjoyerofalotofthings 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Moral of the story is dont be a SIMP

  • @jan-rw2qx
    @jan-rw2qx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is amazing, especially the part where you don't recomend it👍
    Thank you

  • @somkhandagumbi
    @somkhandagumbi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This video is so convenient cause I’m going to a party this Saturday 😳

  • @Mm-br8vp
    @Mm-br8vp 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of my favorite people in the world , gentleman’s game - killed it

  • @Jvega001
    @Jvega001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So cool how this is true when I've put it into practice