Oh Mirjam, this is the most timely video ever for me! I have had one of the worst days today after being verbally attacked over and over again, via messages, because I offered help with their living situation should they lose their job, but what I offered is not good enough for them, they want more. Shocking to be attacked in such an aggressive way and to discover I am a horrible person in their eyes. Now I need to figure out how to break the cord, and fast! Thank you so much for all the wisdom you share. Love you and with you! ❤
I attempt to remember to allow emotions and bring forth my inner sacred witness so I am just feeling and observing without reacting, going into a head spin, trying to kneel jerk fix something. As for others - impersonal humanitarian compassion. So true re cords and mess it creates. Easy for me to have compassion when I remember how much humans were taught to stuff emotions and really not taught to constructively deal with emotions. Thanks for your wonder insight as always!
This is very helpful. I am in the middle of a trying to resolve a dispute with my neighbour regarding a communal fence/wall. It has been all encompassing for a few days for sure. I try to help, but your reminder is to assist and not cord with them. I will give it my best shot. I like the idea, but not sure what the subtle difference is in reality.
how important is ancestral healing in our transformation? I feel it never ends..I am so frustratee after years of transforming, healing and still..it's apparently "not enough"....I don't know, really feel frustrated today and angry..this feeling of needing healers to tell me what still is missing and that's why there are still blockages and so on. Seems like an eternal cycle.
It is more than enough ....if you are aware , then you are transforming on a daily basis , including the ancestral healing ....feel whatever has to come up then it runs through you and is let go of ....i know its a hard one but you are doing it ...rely on your own intuition and strength more and your own heart and don't ever give yourself a hard time ...Whatever you do you in this lifetime, you are doing for your ancestors . When you are being , they are being ...They are always with you , grateful for whatever you do and LOVE YOU ❤ It is a sacred journey and YOU ARE SACRED and worthy of great respect ❤❤❤
Ps every change , everything affects your ancestral line atleast 7 generations in the ' past ' and 7 generations in the ' future ' ...in every moment ...we are multidimensiinal beings ...live , love , your ARE transforming , every moment xx
@@nanasabia becoming aware of the influence passed lives and ancestral traumas have on you you are already healing. The moment will come when you are aware but no longer corded. It will happen by itself by you intending to feel free without being corded. Since you are a human being their stories will always be part of you, but not defining you.
Your a champ!
"...and allow the other to ask for assistance". All the more-so if your Human Design strategy is to respond.
Exactly what I needed to hear today, thank you 🤗💫💞
Thankyou I am working on my reactions 💚💫🙏🏻
💚💚💚 Exactly 💚💚💚
Cords 🙏 Good reminder. Thank you 💗
Interesting......yes a challenge ❤
Thank you Mirjam. Helping does not help. You are right. 3
Oh Mirjam, this is the most timely video ever for me! I have had one of the worst days today after being verbally attacked over and over again, via messages, because I offered help with their living situation should they lose their job, but what I offered is not good enough for them, they want more. Shocking to be attacked in such an aggressive way and to discover I am a horrible person in their eyes. Now I need to figure out how to break the cord, and fast! Thank you so much for all the wisdom you share. Love you and with you! ❤
@@bookgal you offering help confirm their being in need. That is unsettling and can cause irritation or even aggression
Thank you ... 🥰
I love the empowered message you’re giving here…offer love but allow them their sovereignty.
that's it yes
Divine timing and so powerful..thank you! With you and much love.
@@ruthmartin7811 thank you!
With you ❤
🙏🏽💛 thank you
Am very grateful to you Mirijam for your insights..
You are my TrueNorth Compass.
Am certainly with you too💝⚘️💝
@@brigittedevere2669 Your inner compass resonates
But when it’s your child … one feels helpless!
❤
That will be the hardest ever yes.
Another helpful message. Thank you, Mirjam ❤
I attempt to remember to allow emotions and bring forth my inner sacred witness so I am just feeling and observing without reacting, going into a head spin, trying to kneel jerk fix something. As for others - impersonal humanitarian compassion. So true re cords and mess it creates. Easy for me to have compassion when I remember how much humans were taught to stuff emotions and really not taught to constructively deal with emotions.
Thanks for your wonder insight as always!
@@laurak.donham8374 so true. You have to learn to deal with emotions every day a little more understanding of yourself and others
This is very helpful. I am in the middle of a trying to resolve a dispute with my neighbour regarding a communal fence/wall. It has been all encompassing for a few days for sure. I try to help, but your reminder is to assist and not cord with them. I will give it my best shot. I like the idea, but not sure what the subtle difference is in reality.
@@schenelle79 the difference is
Let me help you, making you the centre of the activity or
Can you help us, making the one with the request the centre.
how important is ancestral healing in our transformation? I feel it never ends..I am so frustratee after years of transforming, healing and still..it's apparently "not enough"....I don't know, really feel frustrated today and angry..this feeling of needing healers to tell me what still is missing and that's why there are still blockages and so on. Seems like an eternal cycle.
It is more than enough ....if you are aware , then you are transforming on a daily basis , including the ancestral healing ....feel whatever has to come up then it runs through you and is let go of ....i know its a hard one but you are doing it ...rely on your own intuition and strength more and your own heart and don't ever give yourself a hard time ...Whatever you do you in this lifetime, you are doing for your ancestors . When you are being , they are being ...They are
always with you , grateful for whatever you do and LOVE YOU ❤ It is a sacred journey and YOU ARE SACRED and worthy of great respect ❤❤❤
Ps every change , everything affects your ancestral line atleast 7 generations in the ' past ' and 7 generations in the ' future ' ...in every moment ...we are multidimensiinal beings ...live , love , your ARE transforming , every moment xx
@@alisonw4632 right on Alison!
@@nanasabia becoming aware of the influence passed lives and ancestral traumas have on you you are already healing. The moment will come when you are aware but no longer corded. It will happen by itself by you intending to feel free without being corded.
Since you are a human being their stories will always be part of you, but not defining you.