EP5| Men Express financial VS Love pressure by women.

Men Express financial VS Love pressure by Women.
Host: Teboho Mthimkhulu
Guests: Siya Mkhize, Galston Anthony and Serge Cabonge
#samentalkwithtebo #samen #mentalk #relationships #love #finances #loveandmoney #loveandfinances #financialpressure

[@Slang_Forever]

keep it up

[@UncleTinYy]

You just gained a new subscriber Tebo .
This is the type of content I consume , it's informative !!

[@samentalkwithtebo]

Glad you like it and what topics would u like to be discussed on the show?

[@UncleTinYy]

@@samentalkwithtebo
1) Men coming into relationships with their traumas , for example , childhood traumas - give women an insight of how to identify such man and how to deal with him , because every hurtful act the men does , the women personalize it while it's not actually her the problem but the broken child the man is carrying around .
2 ) why some men don't feel safe to be vulnerable with their partners & how can women create a safe space for that .

[@samentalkwithtebo]

Great very Interesting… will definitely look into it 😊

[@thembimagwaza1693]

I'm probably late for this. I think Siya is right, G could be putting on a "money" vibe without meaning to.

[@AlfredChingombe]

Brilliant topic and all 3 gents bringing different viewpoints and life experiences.

[@samentalkwithtebo]

Thank you indeed it’s very different guys bringing different views

[@MissCombs1511]

Question: on the example you gave Khabazela, should women who don't actually need a man's money ask for money anyway? From a man's side, is there some importance in being actually "asked" or is that a compromise a man makes?

[@Jaquelinecronje299]

Awesome 🙌🏻

[@samentalkwithtebo]

Thank you, what do u think about what Siya said about why men ask women about their past?

[@sugar-rayluvschelsea7233]

Interesting topic ❤

[@samentalkwithtebo]

Thank you ❤️

[@nokokganakga4656]

This great!. Just need to work on the audio

[@samentalkwithtebo]

Will work on it, thank u for looking out 🤗

[@MissCombs1511]

😂 nevermind, Serge just answered my question. I assume he represents a good portion of men..

[@MissCombs1511]

G, I appreciate the "servant" quality you express. Did you learn that AFTER your 2 divorces?
Also, I didn't hear your response to Tebo's question about you being American or not?

[@robbylebotha]

Lol I also asked in another video. He doesn't sound like any American I've heard. At least I'm not the only one confused

[@MissCombs1511]

I saw in one of the episodes that he is half Portuguese half American. But now I want to know if his eyes are really blue 😊 or was it the set lights?

[@robbylebotha]

If I ask for sex from a woman and she says no, I will ask again another time. But if she says "no, it's too early in this relationship or I will only have sex with my husband", then I won't ask again.
So gents, if she asks for money too soon, don't beat around the bush, be a man who's sturdy and a leader, tell her "no, I will not give you money until we get to xyz, you asking like this comes off as you being a user, now if you wanna build to that point, I'm here, or else let's cut it right here".
The she knows what she did wrong and why. I'd you dilly dally around it or negotiate it, you're weak and you a letting that girl continue with that behavior. You are ruining the market because she will think that's acceptable and do it to the rest of us.
So in essence, this behavior we seeing in modern women is because of weak men. It's simple, reward good behavior, call out bad behavior.
And for the ladies, rich men got rich by making good investments. Be a good investment and he'll put money on you. Be an expense and he'll try to cut costs. You put more money in investments, you cut costs on expenses.