Stop Being So Hard On Yourself | The Dr. Cloud Show - Episode 288

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  • @blgallas
    @blgallas หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dr Cloud, I’ve been saved since 1971. In 2020, God showed me about narcissism in my family. 3 sisters and mother. I was the scapegoat and once He showed me why they treated me the way they did, I almost lost it. He delivered me from the torment, but now I deal with being healed. I’m 74. He showed me when I was 70. It’s been hard but so good. Your channel is such a blessing to me. Thank you! You will have some blessings in Heaven. God bless you.

  • @Theresa-z4r
    @Theresa-z4r 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Need to remember 100% forgiven; I need to forgive myself🙏

  • @loridukes7273
    @loridukes7273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    “Get in touch with the God who is instead of the God we make up”…..so good

    • @fgbowen
      @fgbowen ปีที่แล้ว

      @Lori D - Yes Ma'am. Agreed.

  • @heatherpham9617
    @heatherpham9617 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Enjoyed this, and the manner it was explained

  • @patwhitmore302
    @patwhitmore302 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    At 74 years of age. I'm starting to understand this..I wish I had heard this when I was young..thank you so much

  • @CyndiOom
    @CyndiOom หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you. This is very helpful.

  • @HannahSquats
    @HannahSquats 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Giving myself grace is one of the best practices in my life.

  • @NicholeBump
    @NicholeBump 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Dr Cloud could you do a broadcast about recovering from spiritual abuse? What you talked about with God really helped me…I struggle to read the Word daily because I came from a very harsh legalistic bound church and honestly it’s a miracle I’m still serving God but I’m wanting to learn more about accepting how God truly loves me.

    • @Oilofmercy
      @Oilofmercy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nicole Andrew Womack has great teachings on how much God loves you, would love to hear Dr. Cloud also!

    • @NicholeBump
      @NicholeBump 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Oilofmercy Thank you! I will look him up!

    • @jom6320
      @jom6320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Believe him he does love you Nichole. I have been hurt by spiritual abuse too. God showed me there is a profound difference between religion and righteousness. The pharisees looked and acted the part but many of them were lost and miserable they why they fought with Jesus

    • @NicholeBump
      @NicholeBump 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jom6320 Thank you! Jesus is so patient with us..it’s been a slow but steady process out!!

  • @424bebe
    @424bebe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love everything that Dr. Cloud teaches and make the Bible so applicable to our struggles. He’s my distant therapist.

  • @moomoomagee
    @moomoomagee ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing. Yeah. Wow. failing doesn't make me a failure

  • @sheilaalexander7324
    @sheilaalexander7324 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That was a beautiful message that my heart and soul has yearned to hear. Thank you. God will help me apply it. God bless you.

  • @liliherndz5792
    @liliherndz5792 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MY FAVORITE TOPIC 🕯
    “ Amazing Grace How
    DAM SWEET “
    Dr Cloud ..I could LISTEN to
    this Vlog and message ALL
    DAY 🕯🕊🤍🕊🕯
    Verse: We LOVE cause WE
    been LOVED ..ENLIGHTENMENT 🕯
    the LIGHT of Un SELF LOVE thru
    GODs AMAZING & INFINITE
    GRACE and MERCIES ..AMEN
    THANK YOU LORD ..🤍✝️🤍
    HIS PERFECT REDEEMING un
    LOVE ..AMEN

  • @pattyduerr1168
    @pattyduerr1168 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for helping us through the journey of life, your calm voice and loving approach to life is really helping me through these dark challenging days as the darkness grows stronger and the hope of our Savior draws near..you just know how to simplify the complications and anchor our minds. God be with you

  • @artspeaksart4hearts443
    @artspeaksart4hearts443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I was actually driving back from my dad's place and I was really in a bad way, lots of rough things have happened, dad's passing away, I have had uterine cancer and related difficulties with acceptance, forgiveness, strangely enough I thought of yr work in boundaries after recalling yr name, I found this on my feed... honestly I feel God led me to this message.. blessings 🙏🌼🌼

    • @runningstarthierry6809
      @runningstarthierry6809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shalom art speaks, I pray for you to be totally healed of cancer and restored completely, forgiveness is key to keeping your healing, I struggled with decades of pain and depression, after I forgave my dad from a deep place after honoring my childhood pain I was able to forgive on a deeper level after I honored my agony as a child, God finally took away all my pain sickness and dis ease malease. Papa Father God is so wonderful!! Blessings to you!!

    • @leeannmartin4326
      @leeannmartin4326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Prayers for your health and wellness !

  • @shellyt7173
    @shellyt7173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    EXCELLENT Counsel. Thank you for your commitment to the One true, living GOD and His living, active today-WORD.

  • @denisesimmons8896
    @denisesimmons8896 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much Dr.Cloud for sharing this. Definitely right on time and very encouraging to hear for my current healing journey 🙏🏾

  • @rosemarieschleupen747
    @rosemarieschleupen747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you so much for the explaination. I really really appreciate you. I've been reading your materials since Boundaries. Love how you pull scripture into everything.

  • @sh6460
    @sh6460 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Must understand who is for you and who is not. Your teachings on safe people have helped me a lot. Some are good a hiding their desire to see you fail, it's good to recognise it and disconnect if destructive even if it's family. Others may not see it, don't understand what the problem is, that's been difficult.

  • @elsagrace3893
    @elsagrace3893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some people need to be more hard on themselves when it comes to the agreements and shared arrangements with others. Be a lazy Slacker in your own space and with your own things that don’t involve others if you choose but realize and uphold agreement you have with others and with shared arrangements.

  • @frankagliotti3626
    @frankagliotti3626 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for providing perspective & wisdom in faith, hope and love Dr Henry. Blessings, Frank

  • @bridgeegibson2790
    @bridgeegibson2790 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thankyou that was excellent. Very therapeutic

  • @debrap947
    @debrap947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Boy did I need to hear that today! Thank you.

  • @liliherndz5792
    @liliherndz5792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    WE LOVE ..BECAUSE HE FIRST LOVED US ..with HIS PERFECT REDEEMING LOVE 🕊👩🏻‍🦳✝️👩🏻‍🦳🕊

  • @tonyaraisch6502
    @tonyaraisch6502 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So good! Thank you for all you do! I glean a lot from what you teach.

  • @PrayersfromtheRedwoodForest
    @PrayersfromtheRedwoodForest 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your spirit is so sweet and kind Doctor. Your gentleness is making me well

  • @DianeArrington-s8c
    @DianeArrington-s8c 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Less difficult than the Machivalian imposed actuality invading one's essence-whoaaaa.

    • @DianeArrington-s8c
      @DianeArrington-s8c 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Dr. Cloud listen to T.D.Jakes song on Grace.

    • @DianeArrington-s8c
      @DianeArrington-s8c 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I internalized seeing you again😅.

    • @DianeArrington-s8c
      @DianeArrington-s8c 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wait until I tell you about my 6 month Encounter resurrection . My parents, grandparent, uncles, aunt(?) are deceased, the rest are relative accepted Clones on paper in the Illery Warren-IDA., Conflict 🙄.

  • @BodyLanguageAnalysisInterrogat
    @BodyLanguageAnalysisInterrogat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of your BEST 👌 TY so much!

  • @loisthiessen9134
    @loisthiessen9134 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dear Dr. Cloud, thank you for being so real! Even your casual look and approach in your sessions is so helpful to me..it makes me smile and want to hear what you're saying because i know it's authentic and also sincere. I read your book Changes that Heal last year and it is always sitting alongside my bible. I can randomly open a page and read a section out loud and it brings life to my soul. Of course most of it is underlined too :) I'm so grateful for your love for folks that you would put out your wisdom freely almost like a pastoral gift to us. God bless you, Dr. Cloud

  • @jeaneerhodes3622
    @jeaneerhodes3622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If they aren't hard on themselves maybe they had good examples or maybe they have a higher level of anademine. I hope I am spelling this correctly. I was taught that it is the neurotransmitter that thc mimics. I found this interesting. The instructor asked us to imagine someone that alway seems chill. She stated that these people are likely to have higher level of this neurotransmitter. I'd love to hear your thoughts on this. I appreciate your heart and your work Dr Cloud! Blessings

  • @annecampbell2891
    @annecampbell2891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Dr Cloud for telling the truth from the bible. I have been reading your books and listening to the videos from both yourself and Dr Townsend for years.They have helped me so much.

  • @judithrossouw807
    @judithrossouw807 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dear Dr Cloud, please help. I havehad a horrific life with lots a d lots of losses. I am now struggling to trust God.....

  • @Deba7777
    @Deba7777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you, Dr. Cloud,, this was really helpful. God bless you!

  • @francesbrown850
    @francesbrown850 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So good.

  • @margaretg.1740
    @margaretg.1740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for this message this truly blessed me today.

  • @lilianaortner9104
    @lilianaortner9104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Soooo good 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 Thank you Dr Cloud for the message ! I needed it 🙏🏻

  • @conniemoravec713
    @conniemoravec713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wish you could counsel me ☺️

  • @pbfloyd5757
    @pbfloyd5757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow. That's encouraging!!! Thank you so much!

  • @fgbowen
    @fgbowen ปีที่แล้ว

    What a blessing this video is.

  • @mentorsgarden969
    @mentorsgarden969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great message!!
    I am so blessed to hear this insightful teaching

  • @dianedemarino3908
    @dianedemarino3908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dr. Cloud thank you so much for your videos .

  • @vernakroeker2330
    @vernakroeker2330 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for that encouragement!

  • @karenjones2708
    @karenjones2708 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When is Dr. Cloud coming back on his daily shows I mean is he off for three months or is this it will he be back I enjoy watching the daily shows but what I’m saying is repeat that are made into shorts which are wonderful but I am wanting to call and I have been trying for a year I’m not sure when I can do that the time is wrong I live in Indiana I would really like to speak with him just for a minute so I will keep trying I try every day. God bless

  • @hope46sf
    @hope46sf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you!!

  • @robinsmith4499
    @robinsmith4499 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    After being abused by my brother in law who got caught by his wife (my sister) I had to set boundaries. The abuse started when I was 13 yr.there were 4 more women from the church that he had what he calls friendly female relationships. I am the evil sister living in sin because I accept his moment of yelling I AM SORRY. But accountability for years of abuse continues is hasn’t been deal with. There are steps for biblical healing after abuse. My brother in law explained I would never ruin his reputation. I live in a different state and live and have no contact with any of them. I believe in forgiveness with ACCOUNTABILITY.

    • @Lightonahill25
      @Lightonahill25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Im so sorry for what you went through. Find a safe competent person to help you deal with the pain, you were not wrong.

    • @noreenstarck992
      @noreenstarck992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You were young and a child. You are innocent. You need healing and strength and receive God's love and grace. Take care of you . ❤️

    • @noreenstarck992
      @noreenstarck992 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your brother in law is a sick man and this is trauma and this is against the law. It's outright Rape. You need to have strong Boundaries and an Order of Protection against him. He raped you and brainwashed you repeatedly . You need Jesus as your Savior and Lord. I am sorry you weren't protected. I'm sorry your Mom didn't protect you or your Dad. You were a child. Where was your Mom? You need deliverance, healing , counseling , and Christian Fellowship. ✝️ Amen.

  • @marinatherincourt7368
    @marinatherincourt7368 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @godnuggets9148
    @godnuggets9148 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @baobeixiaozhuzai
    @baobeixiaozhuzai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👍👍👍Thank you

  • @thebattleworthfighting
    @thebattleworthfighting 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great share

  • @yolandevanzyl8475
    @yolandevanzyl8475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My son is homosexual, we have an open relationship and as a parent I have no other option but to forgive and to love my child... please help me understand how I can uphold my faith and still be a good parent 😪

    • @yolandevanzyl8475
      @yolandevanzyl8475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My moral values are crashing...it goes against everything I ever believed.

    • @judyi799
      @judyi799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      you are a good parent. You have forgiven your son and you are choosing to love him. You are not responsible for his decisions. The Lord understands. In the name of Jesus, I pray that your son be set free from the spirit of homosexuality and be filled with the spirit of God. May God give him a new heart and a new spirit in Jesus Christ.

  • @vynedvyne59
    @vynedvyne59 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    He is perfecting…..pheu

  • @snav575
    @snav575 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God uses our mistakes and our failures as much as he does our successes - else why would we need redemption? those are truly the most amazing and moving stories. Read it. In every man and woman mentioned in the Bible.

  • @cypresstreemic2001
    @cypresstreemic2001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    free will isnt true cuz God is 1 and his purpose is eonian and not eternal like it was changed to over 190 times in 150 ad by the latin transcribers of pauls letters because it didnt fit their fore-ordained ideas of free will and earthly pursuits and making up hell doctrines and again free will instead of God's doing errythang including their disbelief haha ps in store for the sequel it all is and a comedy of errors on purpose for character creation hehe

  • @djmar1027
    @djmar1027 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am a very regular follower of yours and try to learn everything I possibly can from you but the one thing I ask is that you don’t buy into the bearded men that look like beasts instead of humans. It is really disgusting to us, particularly as women. Please take the time to shave. Just reference back to the greatest generation of all time after after the war and how clean cut those men always were, including my father who worked as a contractor. Thank you.

  • @pattyduerr1168
    @pattyduerr1168 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for helping us through the journey of life, your calm voice and loving approach to life is really helping me through these dark challenging days as the darkness grows stronger and the hope of our Savior draws near..you just know how to simplify the complications and anchor our minds. God be with you

  • @bevsofroniuk1193
    @bevsofroniuk1193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you!!