The Reason Why Your Hair Keeps Breaking Off. Why Your Hair Won't Retain Length. IN DEPTH Breakdown

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    How to Stop Breakage on Natural Hair. Natural hair growth. Why Your Hair Seems Like its not Growing Because it Breaks off so Fast. How to avoid or reduce breakage on natural hair
    How to stop natural hair from breaking and shedding. How to stop hair breakage and avoid 4c hair breakage or hair breakage on any hair type. In this video, I discuss how to fix breakage on natural hair through first prevention and how to properly detangle and handle natural hair, and secondly though natural hair breakage repair through things such as protein treatments for breakage and deep conditioning natural hair to avoid breakage. I also discuss the power of low manipulation and protective styling for length retention and how to retain length on natural hair or relaxed hair or any hair type through these things. Hair breakage can occur at the crown, at the nape, at the hairline, or all over. In this video I give tips on how to avoid this and discuss the things that you may be doing that are causing your hair breakage. I hope it helps you!
    Top Mistakes You Do That Cause Your BREAKAGE. HOW TO STOP BREAKAGE ON NATURAL HAIR
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  • @chinenyeb.akunne7197
    @chinenyeb.akunne7197 2 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    I just love how you broke the hair stereotype. You hair was long relaxed and now your hair is long natural. No one can make any excuse.

    • @amib6887
      @amib6887 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      literally

    • @nkroks4492
      @nkroks4492 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ow dear .... What have I not heardddddd😂. Somebody will still say. Ow she lives abroad, their weather Is different. What have I not heard from Nigerian women justifying why their hair doesn't grow.😢

  • @nazzindajudith2166
    @nazzindajudith2166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    Your smile is infectious baby girl, keep smiling...

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Thank you!!

    • @tw6873
      @tw6873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Yes, she's a beautiful girl.

    • @neilybugg
      @neilybugg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Absolutely! I LOVE her smile! Such a beauty..

    • @irenecampo8029
      @irenecampo8029 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@neilybugg7v 6

  • @Jasmine-uu2xo
    @Jasmine-uu2xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +490

    Following Seun's protective styling regimen has allowed me to retain 12" of new growth from quarantine era to now. It feels so affirming to watch her chop her hair and re-grow it and take us on her journey 🥰

    • @naturalglory6311
      @naturalglory6311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      What is Seun’s protective styling Regimen? Could you explain it please or tell me the title of the video, I’d love to try it 😊

    • @Jasmine-uu2xo
      @Jasmine-uu2xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      @@naturalglory6311 My hair maintenance routine is as follows, I learned all of this from watching Seun's videos but tailored them for my hair type:
      Products: Cantu Root Rinse.
      tea tree oil,
      lightweight oil of your choice,
      2 spray bottles,
      cloth head wrap,
      satin head wrap,
      Nairobi mouse
      (I avoid putting any products on the actual hair itself unless it is the Nairobi hair foaming mouse or mixing a nice smelling leave-in conditioner with water. Too much water on the hair will cause your real hair to pull out of the braid., so if you need a freshener MIST your hair with leave in + water
      Hair type: High porosity, dense, thin, type 4 hair
      1) whenever you are active/sweaty be sure to cleanse your SCALP after each workout/days when you sweat a lot. (I generally prefer doing this in the night time so you don't have your hair frizzy in the daytime)
      2) After your shower ( after b/c you still sweat under your shower cap sometimes) mist your hair with a water spray bottle- try to mist the scalp area and not the hair itself, do not over saturate the scalp with a a lot of water
      3) In a spray bottle, mix the cantu root rinse with water and tea tree oil. If the spray bottle is 8 oz. then use 3-4 oz of the root rinse and dilute it with water and add 10 drops of tea trea oil or whatever amount of smell from the tea tree oil you can tolerate. The product smell mixes well with the tea tree oil 😁
      4) Spray the cantu root mix directly on your scalp. DO NOT SCRATCH THE SCALP. Simply let it soak under the braid. You should feel an intense tingle similar to head and shoulders
      5) Once the solution has dried (typically 5-10 minutes) Spray the scalp area with water, let it air dry for a few minutes and then wrap your hair with a cloth head wrap so that it sets/reduces frizzing
      6) Before you go to sleep (hopefully your scalp is dry by then) use a lightweight oil of your choice and put it around your edge area and the back of your neck. Wrap the hair in satin. I say grease the edges because the bonnet/scarf is typically tightest around the edges of your hair so the oil prevents any irritation and allows your edges to slip past the scarf/bonnet. (Seun mentioned this in one of her videos)
      7) Oiling the scalp is not necessary every single day, just do this when you notice your scalp is SUPER dry, avoid using thick creams on the scalp. It is not necessary and it will cause buildup.
      8) Keep your styles in for 3 months minimum. It does not make sense to manipulate the hair so much and only keep them in for 1-2 months.
      9) To extend hair life, wash your protective style once a month and secure the tops with rubber bands (assuming you have a lot of new growth). I watched Seun Okimi's videos on how to wash box braids- I recommend that as well as her whole channel on hair growth.
      10) physical activity boosts hair growth!!!! without being active, hair grows 1/2 an inch per month. When I was active it as at 1- 1.25 inch per month, when I was inactive it as .5- .75 inches per month
      Use this regimen for any protective style, I currently have in spring twists/locs with no extensions and I still use this regimen. Recently I got a bad reaction to aloe vera which caused me to flake up so I made a stronger root rinse solution and I use anti-fungal shampoo to get rid of it. Your scalp health is far more important then your hair.
      If you get psoriasis or dandruff often, make a stronger solution or mix anti-dandruff shampoo with water and tea tree oil and put in a spray bottle-but remember to use a lot of water to get it out of your scalp.
      This helped me retain 9"-12"" of growth throughout my hair in 1 year. I chopped my dead ends and took a 4 month break from wearing extensions. I do think it's healthy to give your hair a break after wearing extensions. I give my hair 3 weeks before its back in another style,

    • @naturalglory6311
      @naturalglory6311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Jasmine-uu2xo Omg thank you so much. It’s so detailed 🤩💕
      I have low/medium porosity, thin/fine type 4 hair that is medium density but I’ll use a lot of the same ideas as you and Seun.
      I have a few questions to ask, hope it’s okay 🥺
      Do you use this routine for only braids styles or also on cornrow styles for weaves/wigs?
      Also what kind of exercise do you do to keep fit that has helped your hair grow and how long do you exercise for each day/week? So do you wash your hair after every workout?
      My hair gets frizzy really quickly especially if I wash, could I reduce the amount I have to wash my if i do low impact exercise where I don’t sweat?
      And what is your diet like?
      What leave in conditioner and grease do you use?
      The biggest problem I have is breakage because my hair strands are thin. Do you have any suggestions for how to reduce breakage? I’ve managed to reach bra strap length but it’s taken like 6 years because of the amount of breakage I get even though I’m gentle with my hair 😩
      My current routine is to shampoo and deep condition my hair every weekend. I wash my hair in 6 twist sections, no pre poo detangling, no detangling while shampooing or with deep conditioner. When I get out the shower I detangle each section one at a time with leave in conditioner and Shea butter then put my each twist section into a braid so I end up with 6 braids that I leave like that for the whole week and I put a wig on if I’m going out. I’m putting my hair in braids tomorrow and it’s it’s my time after 1 year but I’m excited to start my protective style journey to see how much length I retain.
      Thank you again for your reply 😊

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Aw, That makes me really happy to know!!!!❤️
      I love how much you've written out!
      I agree! And I love 2-3 month styles as well! When its a more intricate style that I only leave in for a few weeks, that's when I find that it starts becoming more manipulation to put in and take down those types of styles so often. I also talk more about protective styling in the second half of this video @NaturalGlory, and a more in this video as well!! : th-cam.com/video/prk3NpC6yqI/w-d-xo.html

    • @melaninweirdo1476
      @melaninweirdo1476 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Jasmine-uu2xo love how detailed this is! Thank you so much Jasmine 💗💗

  • @stay1ify
    @stay1ify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    1:48, I've had every hairdresser I've gone to over the last 10 years do just that. The last one, when I stopped her she said, "that's what you get for being natural". That's when I should have left. I no longer go to the hairdresser. Never again.

    • @ledladies2038
      @ledladies2038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      You right they tear up your head

    • @fionafornarina
      @fionafornarina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I also don't go to a hairdresser since fourteen years. You feel best what's good for your hair.

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      tragic that hairdressers do this to us.....it was only when I went to non-black hairstylists that I realised how rough we are on your hair and scalps. I have a Polynesian/Maori stylist now for 6 years. He never damages my hair and he always cuts it in a style that I can manage and feel confident in. My trichologists are black and mixed race. While they never damage my hair, soothe my scalp and help my hair to grow, I find that sometimes they cut it into a style that I can't manage when I get home. They can be a little rough but not that crazy kind of rip out hair rough!

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@fionafornarina I go to a white salon but my stylist has curly hair and is Maori Polynesian.

    • @fionafornarina
      @fionafornarina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@marleyhill34 Hi Marley☺ When I was at a hairstylist, there were only one in years who knew how to comb my hair. And I don't have even much curls or more. They just don't learn it in their vocational training and the one lady I trusted had gone into hiding after I came back from pregnancy and infant pause. I wanted to have hair lights again and nobody could tell me, where she went to or which colleague could manage long hair. The receptionist told me: Everybody does it his/her way. I hung up the phone and never went there again. Your Polynesian/Maori stylist sounds very good. I wish he will be around your hair forever.🤞

  • @emahpurple
    @emahpurple 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I love the fact that Seun gives actual useful tips and doesn't just dump product names.

  • @WLHMCALLNATURAL
    @WLHMCALLNATURAL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Finger detangling is great 👍🏻 for length retention.Conditioner helps a lot to reduce breakage

    • @Buggu3
      @Buggu3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Even my finger tip my hair out… it’s a matted mess if I don’t comb thru

    • @dvmn444
      @dvmn444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I second this 💗💗

    • @marshaytrue
      @marshaytrue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Buggu3 yes my hair needs a comb 😅

    • @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick
      @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Buggu3 😁 what about a combination of both? My hair loves both

  • @Juliana-tk5yf
    @Juliana-tk5yf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    YES! I'm doing everything right OMG. I've been natural all my life but my mother was rough with my hair, as an African woman used to short hair that's all she knew. But as of covid, we've been learning how to be gentle, and our hair is growing so well! I'm happy to see how your hair is growing and your natural hair journey
    From one Nigerian sistah to another!

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️🇳🇬

    • @belori.e
      @belori.e 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same! I’m on this journey on my own though but I’m willing to make a sacrifice to help my hair!

    • @elizabethangel7947
      @elizabethangel7947 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same. I convinced my mom to transition to natural hair. Our hair has been making so much progress since we started being gentle with it. ❤❤

  • @obsidyenneg4333
    @obsidyenneg4333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Your facial features are beautiful. I do agree that protective style is part 1 for length retention for me. My hair is dense but my strands are super fine. I’ve retained more length after I stopped using a flat iron.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you!!! Yes!

  • @racheloshaksmusic
    @racheloshaksmusic ปีที่แล้ว +28

    “Approaching your hair like a battleground” that just makes me laugh 😂😂😂😂. This video is SO GOOD! I was really interested to hear what you’d say about breakage and you didn’t disappoint! You said what most TH-camrs do not say, maybe they are not aware of it and you said it in love and care. I appreciate the knowledge you shared, your a HUGE help to the natural hair community! Keep being a great leader, example and inspiration to us! God bless you in Jesus name amen. Thank you! ❤️🙏🏾

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aw thank you! I really glad you liked the video!❤️❤️

    • @racheloshaksmusic
      @racheloshaksmusic ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SeunOkimi ❤️❤️

  • @ms.charlotte4027
    @ms.charlotte4027 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are the greatest Hair Professor on TH-cam! Because of you, my hair is now past my shoulders. It's been years since my hair has been this long. Thank you so much!

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aw Im so glad these have been helpful to you!!

  • @tootybrgr
    @tootybrgr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I have watched a ton of natural hair videos and your description of hard hair and soft hair was the simplest and most helpful piece of information. I have soft hair that breaks easily and I thought I had to use more deep conditioners. I stayed clear of protein thinking that was the issue. Great information!!!

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Im so glad that it was helpful!!!

  • @okedorcas1727
    @okedorcas1727 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Having fine hair strands is sooo annoying😪
    It’s literally everywhere breakage 😪

  • @lynylyn316
    @lynylyn316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I like longer videos that have helpful info, like this one. Thanks for sharing!

  • @baansiin
    @baansiin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Seun is fine sha. Like, I hear all what you’ve said, but damnnn, baby yii fine mehn.
    You guys be gentle with your hair o👽👽

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😆😆 thank you!!

  • @ladydiaspora807
    @ladydiaspora807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I've tried to explain this sooooo many times to people. I'm so glad you demonstrated this so that people get the picture.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! I'm glad it was helpful!

  • @tinaallen5761
    @tinaallen5761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes, Seun, I don't mind longer videos as long as they stay on topic and the information is relevant to the purpose of the video.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome!! Noted!❤️

  • @bjmorgan3092
    @bjmorgan3092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    When I first went natural, I was losing so much hair. All I kept hearing is " you shed 100 hairs a day ". I could not accept that was my issue. I now 7 years later got the breakage under control.

    • @timothyc.8666
      @timothyc.8666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I refused to accept that too. I feel that the loss of "100 hairs a day" is the total hairs on your body and not solely the scalp. Because would have been bald a longggg time ago 😂.

    • @semoneg2826
      @semoneg2826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@timothyc.8666 Lol true

    • @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick
      @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙌🏾 that's what's up, different pace to each as long as as you progress in your hair journey. Love that for you 👏🏾 👏🏾

    • @calvinedwards2799
      @calvinedwards2799 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did you get it under control?

    • @bjmorgan3092
      @bjmorgan3092 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@calvinedwards2799 I wash my hair and then deep condition with a conditioner with slip. Before getting under the hair dryer I put it in 4 sections. After deep conditioning is complete, I detangle each section while the conditioner is still on. I retwist each section. I rinse while in section. I then add my leave in to each section on soaking wet hair. For me slip and keeping hair moist while working with it made all the difference. I wash weekly, do LCO, and sleeping in a bonnet keeps my hair from drying out. I do about 5 quick bans nightly. It sounds like a lot but it is not.

  • @ncmomof3961
    @ncmomof3961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Seun is my hero I needed a family member like her.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It makes me really really happy to be able to help!❤️

    • @ncmomof3961
      @ncmomof3961 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SeunOkimi thanks you should feature me in one of your videos 😉

  • @yakwtfgoidgafwabgtsam
    @yakwtfgoidgafwabgtsam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    this is so true hahaha. when my hair was growing the most, I consistently finger detangled. All of a sudden, I decided to use combs and brushes to detangle for some silly reason. My hair started to break so often that I was having to cut it every few months. When I realized this, I stopped using tools and being so rough on my hair, and started gently finger detangling in the shower with deep conditioner. My hair is flourishing now!

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this is so important!

  • @iiamtianaxo
    @iiamtianaxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    you’re so pretty i love your hair videos

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!

  • @eo4345
    @eo4345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’ve been natural for years and finger detangled for years. I find that no matter how many hours u spend finger detangling ur roots will never be really detangled without a tool. And this affects ur growth when ur roots are matted and tangled. I use Denman paddle brush (it’s not the classic denman, it has soft rubber cushion instead of the hard one that slides out, and the bristles are denman style without balls on the end the white needles)

  • @megriorso4516
    @megriorso4516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I don't know if it's been mentioned in this video but I recently learned a good way to take down braids and twist with minimal breakage.
    1) Spray hair liberally with water.
    2) Take a good leave in conditioner that gives slip and detangles knots (maybe a wash out conditioner if you intend to wash the hair soon after). Apply it to the strands, focusing on the beginning of the braid at the roots (that part that usually clumps up with dirt) and the ends where you will begin to loosen the braid.
    3) Leave it for a few minutes to soak in and loosen the clump.
    4) Begin to loosen hair, I recommend finger detangling. Reapply water and conditioner as needed.
    5) When done with a section, add water and leave in again and lightly finger detangle, just enough to pin it up or put it in big braids or twists or fully detangle at this point if you don't intend to do it during the wash).

    • @shamrockshow8490
      @shamrockshow8490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have to detangle before any water or product touches my hair

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As Shamrock said.......Spraying with water first causes some people's hair to matte instantly because the cuticle swells up and locks the knot/tangle in place. A leave in detangler is safer. Some leave in conditioners do not have any slip. The rest is good advice.

    • @WarZone28
      @WarZone28 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @CheekyLovesCheeseCake:) The ACV & Water mix is the truth. They also have pre-poo's like the African Pride one that's like a jelly

    • @nickyb_dancestrongfitness6553
      @nickyb_dancestrongfitness6553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@WarZone28 The African Pride detangling pre-poo is BOMB!

  • @Meloyadina
    @Meloyadina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Always enjoy your in-depth explanation videos. Thanks Seun 💛

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm really glad it is helpful!❤️

  • @talyadraper3221
    @talyadraper3221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I love the tangle teezer! I try to avoid any brushes that have the balls on the end, because the hair will sometimes get tangled around it. I don't use a comb unless I'm cutting my ends.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yes! its definitely a good alternative!

  • @bootsmade4walking
    @bootsmade4walking 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Your skin looks so beautiful! GLOWING! Keeping glowing inside and out

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Isn't her skin just JUST!!

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thank you!!!❤️

  • @FineNaturalHairROCKS
    @FineNaturalHairROCKS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Always such excellent advice! Detangling is absolutely the worst for imparting unnecessary breakage. I’m so here for more stretched styles as opposed to letting the hair shrink up on itself. Great video Seun!!

    • @semoneg2826
      @semoneg2826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I need to stretch alot

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!❤❤

  • @msboro
    @msboro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    My hair has become so hard, feeling like wire when dry. I think it got worse after I "fried" my hair by putting shea butter on it and then blow drying on a very high heat. I planned to get a protein treatment so I'm so glad you've said deep conditioning instead of protein. Thank you very much. I'll watch anything you put out, young lady. You give very useful advice so I don't mind how long your videos are. 🇬🇭🇬🇧❤️

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank you!! It makes me happy to know that it is helpful to you!

    • @FinishTheRaceVL7
      @FinishTheRaceVL7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Shea butter is supposed to be a heat protectant

    • @tsuyuasui7297
      @tsuyuasui7297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@FinishTheRaceVL7 not really

    • @msboro
      @msboro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@FinishTheRaceVL7 really? It melted and was so hot that I burned my fingers when I touched my hair.

    • @FinishTheRaceVL7
      @FinishTheRaceVL7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tsuyuasui7297 - do a little research on shea butter & check back with me

  • @ichooseme4life
    @ichooseme4life 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Helpful! I use a detangle pick and my fingers. Keeping my hair in a stretched state is ideal. When it gets to a certain length I texturize 2-3 times a year. Less bteakage while keeping my waves, kinks and coils.

  • @naf3802
    @naf3802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Why hello stranger 😊🥰 I'm glad to see a new upload from you love. Thanks for sharing your knowledge 👸🏾

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      heyy🥰 You are very welcome❤️

  • @bee7962
    @bee7962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    hey seun! I love your hair videos because they make me really love my natural hair more ❤. I also appreciate you not trying to sell us products (lol)! Keep going + never feel discouraged!!

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Aw thank you!❤️ That makes me really really happy to know!!

  • @fountainofworshipwithelsie1325
    @fountainofworshipwithelsie1325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love longer videos. You get more in-depth knowledge on how to care for your hair. Thanks for actually demonstrating it. Most of the Hair salons available to me are very ruff with my hair. I also find it difficult and stressful washing my own hair. My last big chop was on December 2020 and sincerely I feel like chopping it again. I need Help

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm glad it was helpful!! I feel you! You got this!! I hope my wash day videos can help! And a low cut could also be a vibe if it works better for you!

  • @sarahroyer0914
    @sarahroyer0914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your skinnnnn😍 is glowing

  • @bleurose1502
    @bleurose1502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This and a couple other things has seen me retain the 0.5 inches my hair grows a month (average) for the first time in my life and I'm not even consistently eating healthy. I have no doubt I can grow long hair now. So I hope this helps my 4c sisters.
    But whenever I do my hair (I usually keep protective styles in for a month) I make sure it's a chill day I have movie marathons and put on music and podcasts.
    I have it set in my calendar and I relax and clear the weekend. I don't wait to have to rush and get stressed. Then I end up fighting for my life with detangling. Ultimately being too rough and doing more damage than good.
    I'm a 4c girl and I'm a big believer in finger detangling with lubrication. When I use a fine tooth comb after just to see if its detangles it doesn't snag/pull out hairs so I know I can detangle effectively with my fingers alone.
    I also wash in twists most of the time (big or small). When I just wash my hair all together it definitely creates so many knots all my strands start scrapping with each other under the shower. Washing in twists alone solved half my detangling problems.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love this!

  • @kemi.a.2000
    @kemi.a.2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I detangle my hair with a conditioner first before going into the shower. I use a wide tooth comb and it has worked for me. I never comb my hair dry.

  • @holly_kalonji
    @holly_kalonji ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're so beautiful!🥺 Also, I love how passionately you speak on all things hair! I wish to be as informed on it as much as you!🤞🏾❤️

  • @breekwhal
    @breekwhal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This was fantastic and really informative and made me think about things I never considered. My mom was always rough with my hair and I grew up doing the same but now I will treat it better!

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad that it was helpful!!

  •  2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    My problem before was constantly dyeing my hair. I could not leave my hair alone for the life of me. Now, I have a terrible habit of putting my hands in my hair (an anxiety problem) so lately, I've been doing more protective styles so I don't have access to it 😂

    • @rhyuh
      @rhyuh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me tooooo

  • @BrittanyKatherine
    @BrittanyKatherine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved watching your videos go from permed to natural and just seeing that transition.

  • @lisaj4441
    @lisaj4441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great video. You are such a natural teacher. Keep it up sis.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!!❤️

  • @candyc6057
    @candyc6057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love ur authenticity and all the detailed information you provided in the video. Your hair has grown back so fast beautiful 🥰🥰

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you!!

  • @aishalong9735
    @aishalong9735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    your hair grew out fast. it looks awesome

  • @hilarypiril4361
    @hilarypiril4361 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love your long thorough explainations❤

  • @mingtoiisaac4623
    @mingtoiisaac4623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Always helpful info, Seun. I'm on the finer softer side of the spectrum, I may not be eating enough protein, will work on that. Also am taking a break from adding hair to my braids.
    I have about 20 twists in my
    hair now without added hair.
    I do have creamier leave ins that my hair likes too.
    Will pay closer attention to my hair now. And will switch to a brush in the shower to detangle. Thank you❤

    • @ledladies2038
      @ledladies2038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes it painful to leave out the extensions but sometimes that rough hair is too rough for finer strands.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nice! You are very welcome! External protein treatments on you hair may help a lot! I have a video on my channel dedicated to using protein as well!

    • @righteousroses
      @righteousroses 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I saw about an inch of length retention in two months using mini braids without extensions vs no length retention in a year with faux locs, crochet braids, etc.

  • @himynameiscandle7002
    @himynameiscandle7002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I have a "hand in fro" problem, I'm constantly pulling and tugging at my hair till it breaks 😭
    And I have fine hair 😭

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I had that problem until I learnt to start putting my hair away. My trichologists recommend that I don't wear my hair out so I try to remember that especially in winter! I keep it wrapped at home and in winter I keep it wrapped at work.

    • @sassouusasoo3607
      @sassouusasoo3607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@marleyhill34 Then what's the purpose of having hair if it's always away 🤔. JUST SHAVE IT .

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sassouusasoo3607 lol! I would love to shave it but I live somewhere cold in winter and hair keeps my head warm. Lol! Sometimes it's so cold I wear a wig as a hair hat in addition to my wool hat. Lol! Ok seriously the trichologists didn't say never to wear it out. Just to keep it in a protective style about 5 days out of 7. If I move to the tropics, I would have a blond buzz cut.

    • @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick
      @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sassouusasoo3607 your comment 😁😁😁 I told the same thing to my cousin. Natural for over 6 years but she swears by braids back to back. What's the point? Never got that part

    • @sassouusasoo3607
      @sassouusasoo3607 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick lol.She probably is ashamed of her natural hair. 😕

  • @YvonneOnline
    @YvonneOnline 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    22 minutes is fairly good [nods]since you’ve been hiding, hi Seun 😅 good to see you 😊

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lol, heyyy❤️ haha, thank you!!🥰

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It makes up for all the short videos we are missing. Lol! It's fine you have a life outside of TH-cam!!

  • @MoneyMagnet2222
    @MoneyMagnet2222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How do you keep all these video clips organized? The details are immaculate! 💅🏽

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!

  • @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers
    @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love longer videos because there's more to talk about in the comments.

  • @islandgyal3730
    @islandgyal3730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing growth!!! Beautiful!😍👸🏽💕💕

  • @sesordaed__8916
    @sesordaed__8916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Longer videos please I love the advice and education I get from watching your videos

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome! Noted!! Thank you!!

  • @marleyhill34
    @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yo 1:46 triggered me. Aww hell no. Lol! How
    I detangle my hair every week:
    1. take down the style and remove any shed hairs that I can feel.
    2. apply pre-poo let it sit for 30 minutes under
    3. Use a wide-toothed seamless comb before wetting my hair.
    4. After shampoo and deep conditioning, I detangle damp (not wet or dry) hair in one-inch sections with a leave-in detangler, leave-in conditioner and a medium-toothed seamless comb.
    5. every 6 weeks I use a detangling brush such as the tangle teezer.
    I have ultra-fine ultra-kinky/coily hair. I lose less hair this way and I get less knots and tangles this way. I can't finger detangle only because my hair is so fine I can't feel all the strands so I end up leaving shed hairs which leads to more knots and tangles. I don't detangle wet hair because that is when my hair is the most fragile.
    I don't do long term protective styles anymore. 7-10 days and then I take it down detangle, shampoo and deep condition.

    • @scallopsgreens1961
      @scallopsgreens1961 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      has your hair grown well and healthy since then? and do you experience less breakage? like how much a handful or??

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@scallopsgreens1961 yes my hair is healthy and high density. I do not have handfuls of breakage or shed hairs. I'm not sure handfuls are a good sign. See your doctor, stylist and trichologist.

  • @atinukeoyinbo
    @atinukeoyinbo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are so beautiful and inspirational ❤
    Excellent video as always!!

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!!

  • @briannafraser6084
    @briannafraser6084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Seun, I MISSED YOU SOOO MUCH HONEY!!!! Where were you??? Oh, I've missed your videos so much🥺🥺🥺.

  • @SafeWorkouts
    @SafeWorkouts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    4C hair be like “You will take care of me like the queen I am if you want me to flourish. no good care no queening”
    love 4C

    • @okiemuteidjerhe
      @okiemuteidjerhe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Started taking of my 4c hair towards the end of last year, it’s definitely flourishing!

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      hahah, its true!!

    • @thestarinhereyes2
      @thestarinhereyes2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

    • @stay1ify
      @stay1ify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Truth 🤎

  • @winnierodriguez3764
    @winnierodriguez3764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your demo on properly caring for your hair.

  • @daysofOurcaregivingLives
    @daysofOurcaregivingLives 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like both long and short videos! Thank you for the tips!

  • @EnterOsaka
    @EnterOsaka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I cut off all of my hair in 2018, rarely used combs and my hair grew a ton. Started using combs again and I've got a lot of breakage :c I'm feeling sad, but I'll do better. It's so annoying that there are so many rules for my hair -- it's really stressful.

  • @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers
    @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I have the same issue where my hair gets super soft and easy to break, protein treatments were NOT helping and I was really worried so I looked into elasticity and tried a keratin reconstructor, that helped quite a bit. I think how long you keep water running over your hair play a big part in that, I'm going to try using less shampoo, it's taking forever to rinse it all out.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ooh! yes, with the water too! I'm glad the reconstructor you used helped a bit! Keratin is a type of protein as well!

    • @salmamukhtar1689
      @salmamukhtar1689 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have the same problem which Kerstin reconstructor did you use ?

    • @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers
      @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@salmamukhtar1689 Aphogee. My hair immediately shrunk up the way it used to and appeared/felt thicker

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers yeah I have ultra fine weak(due to genetics and medication) hair. If it wasn't for Aphogee I would be bald. I use all their products according to their instructions. So the daily green tea, the fortnightly 2 minute and once every 4-6 weeks the 2 step. People get confused between the 2-minute and the 2-step. They are not the same and can lead to damage if used incorrectly. The instructions are on Aphogee's website. In winter in London my hair can get brittle then I hold off the protein until spring and concentrate on moisture treatments but I still use the daily green tea as a very light protein treatment.

    • @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers
      @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@marleyhill34 Yeah, keratin is protein but the reconstructor is not a protein treatment. I've tried to explain it but ppl still be getting confused. Everyone should be fine if they follow instructions. It says on the bottle how often you can use it

  • @TheseWordsTouch
    @TheseWordsTouch ปีที่แล้ว

    Your skin is immaculate ❤ you are GORGEOUS

  • @mias.4840
    @mias.4840 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this was so helpful! thank you 💌 also you & your energy are so beautiful & soothing.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome! I'm really glad it was helpful!

  • @Tinablackberryrose
    @Tinablackberryrose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video as always. Ty sharing tips that can help us all with breakage.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!!!

  • @zzzilly
    @zzzilly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I learnt a lot from this video 🤗. I also found out by coincidence that increasing beef , eggs , all animal foods helped my hair to grow well.

    • @semoneg2826
      @semoneg2826 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes protein

    • @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick
      @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes food intake and diet weigh heavily on naturalhair quality as well, it's unfortunate most people are unaware of this.

  • @tiananelson9146
    @tiananelson9146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mother...everyone's mother needs to watch ths first part of this video.

  • @reneetaylor8837
    @reneetaylor8837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love the longer video! this was awesome!

  • @divinemagdalene
    @divinemagdalene 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am the first to like and comment
    YAS 👏 😍😍😍😍😍

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🎉❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @whoknew1893
      @whoknew1893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations 🎉🎉👏🎉👏👏👏

  • @nanaakosuaadutwumwaa3505
    @nanaakosuaadutwumwaa3505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love long educative videos ...thanks Seun for sharing with us ❤🇬🇭

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm really glad! Thank you as well!!❤️

  • @kittensmitten3287
    @kittensmitten3287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The longer my hair gets, I realize the more shedding I am getting. I hate it. Wash day has become unenjoyable because I lose so much hair. Why is that? But then again, I leave my hair alone for about two months but still. My strands are so fine but I still have a lot of hair. Idk, my hair is a big confusion but I do my best to take care of it.

    • @jackieburns5257
      @jackieburns5257 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A good detangler is needed

    • @kittensmitten3287
      @kittensmitten3287 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jackieburns5257 which would u recommend?

    • @jackieburns5257
      @jackieburns5257 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kittensmitten3287 i like Sveda products, Pail Mitchell has a food one. Wash the haig while itscnraded, detangle 1 braid at a time

  • @ogonwaneri5553
    @ogonwaneri5553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So happy to see your video on my feed :)

  • @ladymax68
    @ladymax68 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ever since I started the 30 day detox, I no longer suffer from breakage. The technique is having hydrated hair while detangling in the shower with conditioner. Either raking through with your hands or a hair tool. Water is a relaxer. Hydration happens when you remove the butters and oils with a clarifying shampoo then replacing moisture with a moisturizing shampoo without cones and oils and also conditioner that is almost plant base. This has changed been a game changer with my wash and go's and how my hair feels. No more unnecessary deep conditioning. Also emulsifying all the products in your hands before adding it to the hair.

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sounds great. For my hair and scalp my trichologists recommended deep conditioning but no raw oils and butters or scalp grease. I have ultra fine, high porosity hair so the deep conditoning give it more moisture and strength for me. I only do it for 30 minutes once a week. My scalp does not like long or overnight deep conditioning sessions.

    • @jaquriajohnson
      @jaquriajohnson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@marleyhill34 Great points!!!👏I'm have high porosity hair also and have found my hair does better with moisturizer, tea, acv rinse, and more water based product than oily! The oils don't allow me to hydrate my hair daily which we all need in order to make it stronger. And being more gentle with the way I handle my hair also. It's fine a complete 360.

    • @scallopsgreens1961
      @scallopsgreens1961 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you know any good products you could list for a shampoo, conditioner and deep conditioner similar to what you listed about being plant based and good for 4c hair?!?!

    • @jackieburns5257
      @jackieburns5257 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lack of protein and other nutrients

  • @janeirohaywood8681
    @janeirohaywood8681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your content -- Longer videos for me are fine 😄 I love the in-depth information -- I have truly learned a lot from your videos -- My hair is now just at BSL and I keep doing my protective styles -- braids, sew-in's and understand -- that patience with taking my hair down is key.. My hair has been put up for months and that I MUST be rested and take my time. I have watch your video "How to properly take down hair from a protective style" Love it.. Thank you Seun ☺

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! I'm so glad!❤️

  • @nkosikadzi6273
    @nkosikadzi6273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very informative Seun. Learnt something 💕❤️

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm really glad!

  • @lucilleokonkwo5821
    @lucilleokonkwo5821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seun on the natural hair train, what I've been waiting for 😩
    Cant wait for tips on detangling, SSKs and the rest.

  • @yahushasdaughter9106
    @yahushasdaughter9106 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Welcome back sis....thank you for posting

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you too❤️

  • @sinqobilemabuza8145
    @sinqobilemabuza8145 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re so beautiful inside and out, there’s just a beautiful aura about you. I’m taking notes 📝

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw thank you!!

  • @blameitoncapitalism
    @blameitoncapitalism 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't even understand the concept of detangling the hair with A BRUSH. like, before youtube, I never even seen it, nobody ever in my country does that. I tried it, my mom tried it, my friend tried it. the brush can oy go with your hair if it's already detagled, like, if the tangles are there, how is the brush even getting in?????? if it's already difficult for the comb to get through the hair, imagine a brush which is basically a bunch on combs at once lol. it only makes everything super difficult and it immediately breaks the hair strands, even if you start with the very end, like 3cm. I really can't even imagine how people can think of putting a whole brush into their hair if it's tangled up like, how??? and why??? lol I know it's soundibg crazy for lots of yall but honestly, that is so weird to me

  • @star0138
    @star0138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Right …, we need to be patient and take our time.

  • @ellakraneuche5382
    @ellakraneuche5382 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t even understand what she’s saying coz the skinnnnnnnn whaattty😍😍😍😍ever since she got back from Nigeria sis has been glowing …drop the skincare routine 😅 🥺❤️

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😆😆 thank you!!!

  • @nashira222
    @nashira222 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video! You've helped me and my son take it to the next level. Also, I've noticed that I can't wash my hair in hot water. Thank you much ❤ from baltimore.

  • @mahtemefeleke9648
    @mahtemefeleke9648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your long videos!

  • @killahkurlz7157
    @killahkurlz7157 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is so true. one day i realized how rough i was and how hard i was gripping my strands.

  • @Keepupwithakosua
    @Keepupwithakosua 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My hair is coarse plus doesn't like anything 😭 it just wants to be left alone I'm sure it needs prayers🤣

    • @prettymagdou2512
      @prettymagdou2512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Prayer works for some people. Lol! I saw a trichologist. The trichologists told me to moisturise my hair daily and deep condition weekly. That works. I keep it in twists that I detangle every week.

  • @carmenbailey3218
    @carmenbailey3218 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoy your videos and yes longer videos are a plus factor. Thank you for sharing your knowledge 🧚

  • @mel-an-ie
    @mel-an-ie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are very beautiful. I love your content. Thanks for the tips.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much!❤️ You are very welcome!

  • @Aishamanga
    @Aishamanga 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm glad i came across this video, I've been suffering from hair breakage for over a year now, my hair has reached a plateau. I noticed that i have mixed strands some are thick while some are thin. When i compare the broken strands, i noticed they are mixture of thick and thin, but more of thin hair strands. I do not know what to attribute to the cause of the breakage.

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Get a full blood panel done. I discovered that my hair is actually genetically weak due to me being a Thalessemia carrier. It affects your iron and your blood....two things that you need to build strong hair. Also re-visit your styling techniques and hair care. My hair is very dry. If I don't moisturise it daily and deep condition it weekly it will break. I mainly wear my hair in twists, flat twists or two or three french braids. If I want to change the style I might wear a hair piece one week, a faux puff the next week and a week the next week. I do not wear any other styles regularly because of the tension on my ultra-fine strands. exercising and scalp massage also helps. Any illness like Covid or something hormonal like pregnacy/menopause will affect your hair. You can take hair vitamins too.

    • @Aishamanga
      @Aishamanga 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marleyhill34 i was also thinking about doing a complete blood count, even though i don't have any signs and symptoms of iron deficiency. I wash my hair every two weeks, in between wash days i moisturise using fenugreek tea leave in conditioner and sweet almond oil to seal it up. Thanks for your feedback

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Aishamanga What kind of deep conditioner do you use? Does your deep conditioner have protein in it? Does you leave in have protein in it? do you use heat or steam with your deep conditioner? How do you style your hair?

  • @afeahstacy9543
    @afeahstacy9543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your hair is so long now,more natural hair videos pls🥰

  • @TiarreaB.Naturally
    @TiarreaB.Naturally 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very nice video Queen.

  • @victoriadime9057
    @victoriadime9057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow you’re aging so beautifully 🥰

  • @nusaibaumarmadaki3418
    @nusaibaumarmadaki3418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seeing you use comb today make me realize I have never seen you use comb on your natural hair.

  • @fionamilanoi5957
    @fionamilanoi5957 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so gooodddd😭🥰 Thank you!
    A question; what's the importance of hair masks and ayurveda oils?

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm really glad you enjoyed it! And I dont use them personally, but you definitely can!

  • @ayomibh
    @ayomibh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Battleground Vs a part of your body 😂🧡

  • @deborahthompson5041
    @deborahthompson5041 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are very knowledgeable. I have done of the issues you mentioned. Not anymore. Thank you soo much. 4c girl with relaxed hair..

  • @akanibaone7082
    @akanibaone7082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks very helpful content, and greatly appreciated. I've got super soft thin 4c hair and with gentle handling and have applied all your tips, it ends up as broken clumps at the tips of my hair. Help. Also going back to the Motherland, loadshedding, Data, and if the length of your contents are too long, may be a challenge.😪 But great 👍 content. Stay blessed ❤️✌️

    • @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick
      @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Go get yourself checked, it could be you have an internal issue that's not noticeable from outside impacting the quality of your hair.

  • @acmcgowan751
    @acmcgowan751 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have very strong , thick gorgeous hair.

  • @ememokuku807
    @ememokuku807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Seun, gud to ve u back. I rily nid ur advice on my hair issues cos they break a lot no matter wat I do. I ve practiced all u say about fine hair but mine just refuses to stop breaking. I don't do extensions no wigs nothing still, they break. My hair is very fine and coils not curls o....coils. Pls talk to me

    • @melaninweirdo1476
      @melaninweirdo1476 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you know your hair porosity? You might be using the wrong products and your protein: moisture balance is off, most likely.

  • @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers
    @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You're hair is much longer than even just 3 months ago, so it must be working

  • @ndumifakudze
    @ndumifakudze 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your hair is amazing. OMG😍. You are amazing.

  • @ethallial3217
    @ethallial3217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A great video 💖this advice and advice from your earlier videos helped me a lot. But I want to put in my 2 cents worth.
    Additionally, I cut my hair every 3 months. When I do this I am careful not to cut all growth. I measure it so I know how much I can cut. I never could get past my shoulders (I tried everything even the tips in the video) now I am down to BSL. It took 2,5 years from the middle of my neck to BSL. Retaining 12 cm a year. So my hair grows 1.25- 1.33 cm in a month.
    PS: When I say cut I don't mean the cutting while it is in twists or so. I make sure to cut every section so the damage can't travel up the hair strands and cause breakage. Now it can also handle more manipulation, although I am still carefully watching my hair. If it is too much manipulation I'll adust. I restyle it every week. Anything else does not work for me.
    I hope this comment helps somebody🥰 This is why I reposted it even though it was shadowbanned😬

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My hair never grows past my shoulders but that's because it is genetically weak. The sun alone can make my hair spilt and strip the cuticle! However it is thick, 90% healthy and all my edges are full! I have to cut/trim my hair every 12 weeks also. at 6 weeks I dust the ends myself but at 12 weeks I have my Maori/Polynesian stylist cut it to give a nice looking and easily manageable shape. Knots and split ends have to go. No point having long hair if it's all straggle-y and thin and see-through. Also a trim makes my hair easier to manage!

    • @jaquriajohnson
      @jaquriajohnson 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marleyhill34 try using natural green tea, rosemary tea, in your hair and use an application bottle. That has helped me get stronger hair past that length. Plus it costs less to make than buying products that don't work. Use it for 3-4 days out the week. For me it works better than spraying hair with plain water or water/ conditioner.

    • @ethallial3217
      @ethallial3217 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@marleyhill34 Wow that with the sun does not sound so good. Have you tried to see a physician or something? Maybe you have a deficiency. Even though I believe it can be genetics.
      For everybody who reads this, I also want to mention that it's not sufficient to look at relatives and give up. Maybe they haven't figured out the right haircare for their hair. I want to mention that except for a woman, of whom I heard stories that she had long hair when she was younger, nobody in my family has long hair.

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jaquriajohnson That stuff gives my scalp an allergic reaction, unfortunately. No more DIYs for me.

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ethallial3217 I'm a thalassemia carrier. My sister is not and her hair is down her back. It makes me suffer with fatigue also. I have to take a very high dose of vitamins to even be barely functioning. Any type of blood disorder will affect the hair.

  • @kemi.a.2000
    @kemi.a.2000 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Seun. I missed this episode but thank God I i am here. I have always been scared using the brush and i see naturals use it and not flinch. I am.used to.using the wide tooth comb. How do i transition to the use of a brush without the scare. Also, what brushes do you suggest for me to use?

  • @rosemakeupxo8221
    @rosemakeupxo8221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is sooo helpful thank you for your knowledge ❤

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  ปีที่แล้ว

      You're so welcome!❤️❤️

  • @Hannah-um5fp
    @Hannah-um5fp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    love your videos!❤️

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm so glad!!!

  • @TheElay30
    @TheElay30 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this very useful video!! You look FINE girl!!