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  • @rossdiamondthief6627
    @rossdiamondthief6627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +789

    “I don’t like myself sometimes. Can you help me?”
    God this scene hits me right in the heart strings

    • @thezachmarsh
      @thezachmarsh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      RossDiamondThief, I'm...a dentist.

  • @ctcrnitv
    @ctcrnitv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +683

    When he smashes the windows, the photos of the sisters all together on the left side wall, and Barry all the way across the room on the right side wall, by himself.

    • @phoenixlogan9344
      @phoenixlogan9344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      great observation. Love reading stuff like this

    • @peanutmans0
      @peanutmans0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Very nice catch

    • @ItsVinnyBoy
      @ItsVinnyBoy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      PTA is a genius

    • @krisvallejo74
      @krisvallejo74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I clocked that. They don't know him at all and make extra effort to put him down. Always on the side...

    • @33tek25
      @33tek25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good detail!

  • @gonzofernandez
    @gonzofernandez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    What's kinda sad is that they talk so much about how Barry smashed the windows rather than the fact he was building a dog house for a stray dog

    • @piloterodactyl
      @piloterodactyl ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I’m not sure it’s ever specified that it’s a stray

    • @Jacam781
      @Jacam781 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@piloterodactyl And to be fair, it's not even obvious that he WAS building a dog house - it's just something his sister says, which could've just been a throwaway comment, or perhaps a snide remark about Barry being 'in' the dog house.

  • @REDEEMERWOLF
    @REDEEMERWOLF 3 ปีที่แล้ว +619

    1:11 "Oh, a cake. We have a cake."
    I love that line it's little, but Barry went out of his way to get this nice gift for his sister and she doesn't even say thank you. Saying they already have a cake, it's like she's saying what Barry did is worthless and he wasn't good enough. That always rubbed me the wrong way lol

    • @AlystrZelland
      @AlystrZelland 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      That's the greatest part about his sisters: they clearly love him but they are clueless to how poorly they treat him most of the time, especially /that/ sister

    • @sifugurusensei
      @sifugurusensei 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I have sisters. One of them always has a comment about my hairstyle hinting that it looks like shit.

    • @glindathegoodishwitch9244
      @glindathegoodishwitch9244 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Why do you think he feels so lousy? I saw the movie eons ago and have forgotten it completely, but seems that he's always been treated like he's worthless or not good enough, the useless loser, so of course he's living up to it and feels like hell.

    • @paganpulpit
      @paganpulpit ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Then the next shot they show the cake they already have and it's huge

    • @paganpulpit
      @paganpulpit ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Then the next shot they show the cake they already have and it's huge

  • @matchbox2482
    @matchbox2482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +648

    “I don’t know if there is anything wrong because I don’t know how other people are”
    That line breaks my heart

    • @paolothorpe1461
      @paolothorpe1461 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ikr😭

    • @AlystrZelland
      @AlystrZelland 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      It's a thought I've been having a lot of lately the more that I realize I'm probably on the spectrum. Really cuts deep. I think with Barry it's just his sisters have given him a nervous disorder with their constant picking lol

    • @paolothorpe1461
      @paolothorpe1461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@AlystrZelland yeah maybe we need to stop looking at him and look at the reasons why he has those problems and the people who helped/contributed to making them

    • @Jo-bs2uu
      @Jo-bs2uu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      reminds me of Evangelion

    • @Pululapu
      @Pululapu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jo-bs2uu lol

  • @HunterL850
    @HunterL850 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    I finally understand this scene. This scene shows the lack of empathy and excessive cruelty Barry was subjected to. This mistreatment and abuse is what lead to his anxiety and distorted self image.

    • @joeyjoe308
      @joeyjoe308 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      They literally derailed his life smdh!

    • @jon8004
      @jon8004 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      There might be a lack of empathy there, but I think "excessive cruelty" is a bit much. I mean, they're pushy sisters, but plenty of people have pushy sisters. They're obviously loving sisters. Barry has emotional problems. An emotionally healthy person would not react to this kind of innocent ribbing the way he does. Could they be more considerate? Yes. But I don't think they're cruel.

    • @Jacam781
      @Jacam781 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@jon8004 Also, 'excessive' cruelty would seem to suggest that there's a 'right amount' of cruelty. We can be kind to Barry as he's the focus of the film but it would serve us best to take the view that the sister's weren't aware of how their jibes were taken by Barry.

    • @kevinsoler3731
      @kevinsoler3731 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think y'll missing the big picture here, he's autistic, the spectrum reference is all over the movie, of course he's misunderstood

    • @893loses
      @893loses 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      my main takeaway from this scene is barry needed to have a brother

  • @jefftaylor8782
    @jefftaylor8782 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    All the voices in the sound mix puts you right in his brain

  • @bwuh
    @bwuh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    Sandler is unreal in this film.

    • @Msgrpruitt
      @Msgrpruitt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This guy clearly didn’t make the right choice in acting. I know he’s hilarious and he must be worth 300$m, but if he kept doing movies like uncut gems, hustle or this, he could have easily won an oscar in his career

    • @bwuh
      @bwuh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@Msgrpruitt I disagree. He knows what he's doing. He's having fun.

    • @Whoyouwishyouwere
      @Whoyouwishyouwere ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@bwuhFùck his fun. He's making generational cinema.
      I WANT MORE

    • @nathanzonno9030
      @nathanzonno9030 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Just grateful he chose to do this

  • @habadasheryjones
    @habadasheryjones ปีที่แล้ว +417

    The first 20 seconds of him walking in and out of the door to the party is the most relatable 20 seconds in any movie for me.
    Society anxiety is a bitch.

    • @hammeredandsauteed4644
      @hammeredandsauteed4644 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Especially when, for some other people, that anxiety is like blood in the water for sharks.

    • @bespectacledheroine7292
      @bespectacledheroine7292 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I'm not even sure it *is* social anxiety. It's just not liking people treating you horribly.

    • @StevenGladden-kh4bd
      @StevenGladden-kh4bd ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah people will treat as bad as you allow them to, especially family

    • @Whoyouwishyouwere
      @Whoyouwishyouwere ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@StevenGladden-kh4bdcest la vie

    • @JarrodButali
      @JarrodButali ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He was waiting for them to stop trashing him so he could walk in and they ended up trashing him anyway. Guess that flew over your head.

  • @BudokaiTH
    @BudokaiTH 3 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    Toxic sisters. I would snap too.
    [Edit] Upon rewatching, i subtly heard one of this sisters go "c'mon Gay biy, time to eat", and the slight twitch in his look was him finally snapping yet again

    • @fighterck6241
      @fighterck6241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      It took him like 3 tries to enter the house because he knew what would happen. Sometimes family sucks. I've taken a break from mine for this reason.

    • @AlystrZelland
      @AlystrZelland 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@fighterck6241 I feel that. Hope it gets better, man

    • @598superchris
      @598superchris 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have a toxic family

    • @jon8004
      @jon8004 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Dude, that ain't a toxic family. That's a big family with a lot of people. That's a relatively healthy family. He's lucky to have that family. Toxic families do not look like that. His is just a little pushy and insensitive. But far from toxic.

    • @NB-lv8oq
      @NB-lv8oq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@jon8004They couldn't talk to him like a human being? They treated him like crap. End of.

  • @IntoTheWeeds71
    @IntoTheWeeds71 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Watching this in the context of late-in-life ADHD & ASD diagnosis. The overstimulation, the social anxiety and isolation, the masking-hello signs, I missed you.

    • @piloterodactyl
      @piloterodactyl ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That’s why I love this film. It’s a fine depiction of neurodivergence and neurosis in general

    • @WelcomingFrown
      @WelcomingFrown ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Im undiagnosed asd and adhd and if u like this i reccommend to watch submarine by Richard Ayoade, i believe they are quite similiar and i connected with them both in very similiar ways

  • @andresfontanez3016
    @andresfontanez3016 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    This scene alone is better than so many books and movies in their entirety. You don’t know how life-like this scene is and how difficult that is to write detail for detail let alone choreograph into a working movie scene

  • @davidle4936
    @davidle4936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    I don't have a sister, yet I'm the eldest brother, but this has got to be the most gut-wrenching scene I have ever seen! There's nothing more painful than being looked down by your own siblings!

    • @CamHortalezayeah
      @CamHortalezayeah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yup, I remember seeing this scene for the first time and had to pause for a while. Hit too close to home…

    • @amandamorgan2802
      @amandamorgan2802 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sisters...need we say anything.

    • @rigajykra3159
      @rigajykra3159 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There are a lot more painful
      Things 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @davidcastro7226
    @davidcastro7226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    There's something about this movie that just hits different.

    • @paolothorpe1461
      @paolothorpe1461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Adam Sandler being sad is why😭

    • @zxbc1
      @zxbc1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Adam Sandler playing an honest version of his usual psychopathic comedy characters.

    • @davidcastro7226
      @davidcastro7226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Randy White I know right, but at the same time I feel not anyone could really appreciate it.

    • @felixtrinidad793
      @felixtrinidad793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You can relate. Just like I can and many others here, its great.

    • @jaycuthbert245
      @jaycuthbert245 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah you're right well observed. It was the tip of his foot that smashed the window this time not the hammer so something IS different! :)

  • @cullencochran2023
    @cullencochran2023 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    “I sometimes cry a lot for no reason” *instantly breaks down*

  • @Mrslykid1992
    @Mrslykid1992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    This is why I see family every half a decade at a 15 min interval per visit. I feel Barry on this!

    • @FoulMouthActual
      @FoulMouthActual ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry.

    • @Mrslykid1992
      @Mrslykid1992 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@FoulMouthActual Never be sorry in this life time. I learnt that being alone, you understand yourself better and you find people who make you stronger. You never know, those people who make you stronger can take you to levels you never would have ever dreamt of.

  • @karaokeduncan
    @karaokeduncan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Everything about this movie is deeply loveable.

  • @pringle11
    @pringle11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    The way you feel for Barry but cant help howling when he says hes a dentist 😂🙈

    • @slofty
      @slofty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Sir, this is a Wendy’s energy before that was a thing!

    • @zad0k91
      @zad0k91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The light was on

    • @amitabh4000
      @amitabh4000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That’s the genius of Paul Thomas Anderson, he never lets a scene become out and out sentimental.

    • @sacredstarlight9446
      @sacredstarlight9446 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@amitabh4000 it's more natural life isn't that poetic there will be alot of awkward uneasy moments in life

    • @lpr5269
      @lpr5269 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's an old joke. It's still funny though.

  • @MartellMedia2
    @MartellMedia2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I really like this character and Adam Sandler acting in this.

  • @Patty-ii5zu
    @Patty-ii5zu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I watched this scene when I was a kid and it brought me to tears and I remember a kind of aching feeling wash over me and an overwhelming urge to hug him. I rewatched this as an adult and it still brought me to tears but now I know what I felt was compassion. 💕

  • @HudzunDunDunDun
    @HudzunDunDunDun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    "Barry, im a dentist." killed me on my first viewing

  • @fabienzaca
    @fabienzaca 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Imagine being shy and not wanting attention brought to you and your family members says, remember we used to call you gay boy all loud and they don't drop the subject. 😬

  • @marianegiacoia3334
    @marianegiacoia3334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    4:20 ive never went from not wanting to drop a single tear to sobbing to death so quick

    • @solsirhibragusowl2221
      @solsirhibragusowl2221 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I have. It's because he's opening up about it as a cry for help. That vulnerability can bring out the tears.

  • @AlystrZelland
    @AlystrZelland 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Christ, I feel like this any time I go to a party with a bunch of people already there, especially with family. Even if you love them and they you, it's just so overwhelming: did I miss saying hi to anyone, rice or dandruff, was I stupid to bring a cake or was that fucking rude, turn around another person, turn around another person, oh I missed you yeah hey how you doin? Yeah, yeah, I don't remember. Ha ha yeah, very funny, haha let's move on...please move on. CAN I GET AWAY FROM THESE PEOPLE. gay boy? SNAP.

    • @Patty-ii5zu
      @Patty-ii5zu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Very well said! This is why I look for pets at parties. I am typically always the one in the corner playing with a cat or petting a dog.
      People who host parties without pets stress me out 🤣

    • @joeyjoe308
      @joeyjoe308 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Patty-ii5zuOr parents

  • @eddieharcourt6049
    @eddieharcourt6049 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Can we just give Sandler an Oscar? A once in a generation actor.

    • @Whoyouwishyouwere
      @Whoyouwishyouwere ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He gave a better performance than DDL and Leo.
      THIS IS ART

  • @lawanbrown16
    @lawanbrown16 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    That last “gay boy” would’ve sent me over the edge too Barry.

  • @CannibalWHORE22
    @CannibalWHORE22 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It’s really sad how he is probably bullied so profusely by his sisters or other people which I know is never really shown that he became socially awkward and is afraid to say the wrong things worrying about being scrutinized or made of fun.
    It’s a relatable depiction, I’m glad it was put in front and center because a lot of people that I know feel this same way also not to mention I have talked to many, they talk in this cadence and have broken down crying because they have nobody to talk too without feeling belittled.

  • @pillbugm8914
    @pillbugm8914 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love how there's no relief or a moment of quietness even after he breaks the window. Just goes to show his frustration and his repression at first.

  • @danielmcdermott138
    @danielmcdermott138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    The epitime of a great scene, both well written and well acted, hilarious and heartbreaking at once.

  • @josefk7437
    @josefk7437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    The sisters provoked him as a power play. His anger entertained them.

    • @dynamicdave2647
      @dynamicdave2647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      But if you think about it, barry’s sisters really care for him, especially the sister who gets most screentime

    • @310raiders
      @310raiders ปีที่แล้ว

      They love him but they F w/him, that’s just how females are

    • @Prince_Sheogorath
      @Prince_Sheogorath ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@dynamicdave2647 no, his sisters are domineering busy bodies. They don't respect his boundaries, and Adam's character doesn't exert his boundaries. He's been stepped over his whole life.

    • @piloterodactyl
      @piloterodactyl ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They provoke and tease him, sure. It’s likely it amuses them and it very well could relate to some kind of power dynamic between him and his sisters but “power play” and “his anger entertained them” may be overstating things a bit.

    • @Whoyouwishyouwere
      @Whoyouwishyouwere ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's wòmen

  • @jXmikeX
    @jXmikeX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    The guy that plays Walter The Dentist is the same guy that does the voice of Triumph the Insult Comic Dog

  • @Jack458111
    @Jack458111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I don’t really see any part of the scene as funny. I think it’s a great snapshot of people who actually feel this way.

    • @cinematicmike5323
      @cinematicmike5323 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I didn’t really laugh during this scene maybe in the smashing but then I got it and got emotional. People in the row in front of me starting laughing when he broke down and no one in the audience was laughing but them lol. I mean I understand maybe these guys are young, but I didn’t take it as a funny scene like that

    • @piloterodactyl
      @piloterodactyl ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You could see it as a form of dark comedy in that case

  • @ciberdude611
    @ciberdude611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Notice in this scene how Barry's picture is all alone on the other side of the room.

  • @ilteschio8244
    @ilteschio8244 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Underrated as It Is this Is actually my favorite Sandler Role, It shows that he have actual acting skills

  • @getheroutofthetruck
    @getheroutofthetruck 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    the way he smashes those windows is legendary.

  • @Pork_Knuckle
    @Pork_Knuckle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Man Adam really shows range in this film

  • @rivers743
    @rivers743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I never knew I would relate this strongly to an Adam Sandler character

  • @slofty
    @slofty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    This quickly became my favorite scene soon after its release and remains so to this day ahaha

    • @mattpierce97
      @mattpierce97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      youve been depressed since 2002?

    • @alyseeger834
      @alyseeger834 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mattpierce97 yes. haven't we all?

  • @christianjackson7500
    @christianjackson7500 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I read a review once that stated that this was the closest Adam Sandler would ever get to an Oscar nomination. Such a shame that an actor of such talent could not have gone on to greater things. I have always said Punch Drunk Love is one of the finest representations of mental illness in a Hollywood film. Sandler's performance here is up there with the great 'manic' performances, and I feel his contribution to film was overlooked here. I never had any respect for the man, until I saw this deeply nuanced, intelligent and truley honest porayal of a man on the very edge, hanging on by his fingernails. If only there were more films to really bring home the truth of mental illness..;)

  • @joemasters2270
    @joemasters2270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    THIS is why some ppl are introverts. Because social situations are ANNOYING.

    • @598superchris
      @598superchris 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know the feeling VERY WELL!!

  • @FoulMouthActual
    @FoulMouthActual ปีที่แล้ว +10

    2:51 through the right smashed window you can see a picture of Berry... wearing the same suit. 😂

  • @josueorgoaway
    @josueorgoaway ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We gotta be there for people like this.
    We see someone do something like this and immediately judge them and think that they are perpetrators when in reality they could be victims.
    Always be slow to judge and compassionate.

  • @j.b.8546
    @j.b.8546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Haven't seen this movie in over a decade but the red/blue dynamic always reminds me of Eyes Wide Shut. It's quite beautiful to look at

  • @toddpinkstonisgod
    @toddpinkstonisgod 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    How would anyone NOT have anxiety growing up in a house full of these harpies as sisters 😂

  • @delrey874
    @delrey874 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    PTA films are always masterpieces.

  • @WarrenWebber
    @WarrenWebber 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    One of the easiest ways to become a misogynist is to have sisters like that, but Barry still won't be one.
    Barry's a good guy!

  • @cfs7338
    @cfs7338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    this entire scene is just fantastic. I was howling when he broke the glass 😂

  • @edcomicking393
    @edcomicking393 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This film just hits too close to home it hurts to watch. I really cant bear to watch it. Incredible film tho

    • @pisisouls
      @pisisouls 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why specifically?

  • @METALMAN4Wii
    @METALMAN4Wii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    His best movie in my opinion.

  • @LacoSinfonia
    @LacoSinfonia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    My friend described this to me perfectly. The first time you watch it it seems like a tragedy. The second time you watch it it’s hilarious

    • @youtubecom32
      @youtubecom32 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I had quite the opposite experience.

    • @LacoSinfonia
      @LacoSinfonia ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@youtubecom32 it’s all relative

    • @REDEEMERWOLF
      @REDEEMERWOLF ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For me it was funny and sad the first time lol

    • @Whoyouwishyouwere
      @Whoyouwishyouwere ปีที่แล้ว

      It's both for me.

  • @altorres4967
    @altorres4967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    It doesn’t make sense why his sisters treat him like shit

    • @juanchocorleone
      @juanchocorleone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Families are complex and weird like that sometimes.

    • @nikitaegorov3993
      @nikitaegorov3993 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Because that's the way they always treated him, and he didn't confront them about it. We see him confronting his sister for the first time when he finds love.

  • @quarantinebored1427
    @quarantinebored1427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    “Business is very food” 😂😂😂

  • @boozycruze7679
    @boozycruze7679 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    if i grew up with a bunch of sisters like that id have emotional problems too

  • @cypressneedles
    @cypressneedles ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The dentist is played by Robert Smigel, most famously the performer of Triumph the Insult Comic Dog but also a longtime writer for SNL, Conan, TV Funhouse, the Dana Carvey Show, and many other projects. Sandler isn't the only one showing their dramatic chops here.

  • @girlvagabond
    @girlvagabond ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love this movie! It is a bit quirky and poignant. It is wonderful to see Barry find love in the end.

  • @stazandhissnes2428
    @stazandhissnes2428 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Barry consoles to someone he mistakes for a psychologist and has a breakdown. Worse, the next day or so, one of the sisters confronts him about his episode which tells him that he cant talk to nobody because they just shamelessly gossip and slander about him openly or behind his back. Barry was a lonely heart through and through and this *family* of his couldnt be mature and considerate toward him.

  • @tmcl6522
    @tmcl6522 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have the same anxious feeling anytime I have to go home. Just the constant noise and yelling and tension always made me feel kinda sick. My family has changed a lot and it's not as bad as it used to be but the feeling of going home still stresses me out for days before. This film really helped me understand my own feelings. I have 3 sisters and I come from a family of mostly women, it can be so exhausting sometimes. I've never lost it however. I did once but my sister laughed at me because I'd never released anger before. It felt like I only let out 50% at the time but her reaction seemed to lock down something inside me. Family ay!

  • @bobcostas5094
    @bobcostas5094 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Reminds me of my sisters. They light a bunch of fires, and as soon as I react, they are all surprised at the consequences.

  • @altorres4967
    @altorres4967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is personally my favorite Sandler movie 🎥 it was a different movie from his other movies his performance is this was amazing he should of won the Golden Globe in 2002

  • @GOsborn-o6x
    @GOsborn-o6x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This scene is so relatable it’s scary

  • @actremix
    @actremix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    when I speak my mind about something that's bothering me, I start to cry

  • @markstiburski9136
    @markstiburski9136 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I remember seeing this in a theatre and the teenagers infront of me complaining and totally not getting it cause they were expecting something like happy Gilmore or mr deeds

  • @jacksobrooks
    @jacksobrooks ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This might be my favorite scene in any movie.

  • @Medina_Y2K
    @Medina_Y2K 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This movie is so underrated!

  • @JarrodButali
    @JarrodButali ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can relate to Barry so much. Thoughtful sweet guy surrounded by ahhholes. The gaslighting makes him insane n sadly thinks somethings wrong with him.

  • @sampyannotti
    @sampyannotti 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ladies and Gentlemen, the great Paul Thomas Anderson in his prime.

  • @mikevicchiarelli2369
    @mikevicchiarelli2369 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Comedy is the hardest to write and act. That’s why comedians like Jim Carrey and Sandler could surprise everyone and crush dramatic roles

  • @bernielomax4702
    @bernielomax4702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    What an oddly cast movie. Robert Smeigel? Awesome. Can't believe this movie happened.

    • @toddpinkstonisgod
      @toddpinkstonisgod ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sandler (as Smigel’s old buddy from the SNL days) must have vouched for him to Paul Thomas Anderson. Smigel was great in this scene, too (“Barry…I’m a dentist”, lol)

    • @piloterodactyl
      @piloterodactyl ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s PTA and Sandler joining forces for you

    • @troylee4196
      @troylee4196 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Southland Tales is the weirdest cast movie imo

  • @MutatedPizzaBoi
    @MutatedPizzaBoi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Barry Cries
    *reach out to console, but recover by awkwardly palming own belly*

  • @OfficialXdaC
    @OfficialXdaC 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The crying part was just so great...

  • @OggyisCool
    @OggyisCool ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Literally me with my sisters who all have kids and I'm the single weird loner

  • @jonshaqqir4575
    @jonshaqqir4575 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was Adam’s funniest film, I’m so glad I watched it

  • @rustygazes256
    @rustygazes256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why can I relate to this scene. Many times I've been a hair away from flipping out like this dude lol. I'm sure many others do to. Lol🤣😂

    • @solsirhibragusowl2221
      @solsirhibragusowl2221 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel the same way about my family. Always poking and proding and then are surprised when you blow up on them or pretend they don't exist.

  • @frempy4426
    @frempy4426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love Sandler's performance as Gay Boy

  • @JAdkins-u3d
    @JAdkins-u3d ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That door double take

  • @joeyjoe308
    @joeyjoe308 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    2:50 Literally any 49ers fan when their team lost the Super Bowl (minus the broken TV)

  • @r.rodriguez4991
    @r.rodriguez4991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "Gay boy" sounds like a place holder that was supposed to be replaced with something more realistic before filming started.

  • @Tom-rg2ex
    @Tom-rg2ex 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The casting did such a good job finding actresses who look like Adam Sandler.

  • @tjmoon1857
    @tjmoon1857 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What is a scene for you that you didn't understand when you were younger but came to understand as you got older? For me, it's the window smashing scene in punch drunk love. I can't really explain it, but I've been so frustrated I've wanted to break every window in sight.

  • @sifugurusensei
    @sifugurusensei 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Sandler should do more drama instead of silly ass comedy. He's capable of acting. This and Click are two of my favorite Sandler film

    • @VoltUni
      @VoltUni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      uncut gems, reign over me, the meyerowitz stories

    • @nekitamol1k242
      @nekitamol1k242 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He was the original choice for Jamie Foxx's role in Collateral but dropped out because pre-production took too long

    • @SmoothCriminal12
      @SmoothCriminal12 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@nekitamol1k242 which led to Sandler joining Spanglish instead. So all in all, it worked out for everyone.

  • @makotroid108
    @makotroid108 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is the scene i refer people to when they say Adam can't do dramatic parts.

  • @davemustaki134
    @davemustaki134 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I watched this movie as a teenager when it came out and hated it but now I totally can relate to Barry's character....

  • @TripleB-nb8en
    @TripleB-nb8en ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have 4 sisters. They arent this bad but they are tremendously unaware. I can only take them in small doses a few times a month. This is in my top 5 films of all time. I relate way too much to Barry.

    • @paytongutierrez5723
      @paytongutierrez5723 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A few times a month sounds like a normal amount to me.

    • @TripleB-nb8en
      @TripleB-nb8en 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@paytongutierrez5723 I had to cut down

    • @paytongutierrez5723
      @paytongutierrez5723 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TripleB-nb8en once every few years sounds about right

    • @TripleB-nb8en
      @TripleB-nb8en 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@paytongutierrez5723 a price I have to pay to see my nieces

  • @homergaijin7572
    @homergaijin7572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is me during the holidays 🎉🎉

  • @dewfall56
    @dewfall56 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Those women were horrible, selfish, oblivious demons in human form. They could not see the total harm they were doing to him.

  • @dothebartman9156
    @dothebartman9156 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What always hits is when he finally acts out, he is just immediately screamed at and insulted with not even a moment of quiet shock from the sisters or concern for him doing something so out of character. Not that I expect one to be pleased with having their glass doors broken, but it is straight to instant belligerence at him. It just shows how out of whack the power dynamics that he cant even respond without immediate repression.

  • @klas425
    @klas425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Happy to see Smigel.

  • @aintnuthinbutathang1646
    @aintnuthinbutathang1646 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless Paul Thomas Anderson for knowing how to get this performance out of Sandler

    • @gdbssa
      @gdbssa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My old man was an actor and despised Sandler because of this role. Not because he hated it, because he wished this was the Sandler he always got.

  • @vicroberts3080
    @vicroberts3080 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can’t believe this is the same dude who played a dude trying to graduate from
    Like grammar school

  • @spencerhensley5495
    @spencerhensley5495 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I need to rewatch this movie.
    I think I found it a little too slow when I first saw it. Nonetheless Sandler was incredible in it. Just watching him here I was very impressed with his acting.

  • @thegamingkirby8696
    @thegamingkirby8696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a man who's had only 4 sisters and no brother...
    Ouch.
    I can't fully relate (mainly to the violent outburst) but I can definitely relate on well-being gestures but get overshadowed and being shy and alone because you don't have Brothers and only sisters. My sisters learned to accept me for what I am and will help me when I need it but damn, watching this... ouch.

  • @Kevincarlloven
    @Kevincarlloven ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the scene where you find out why Barry is the way he is...jesus christ, growing up must have been a nightmare for him.😂

  • @2H2521
    @2H2521 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excellent film!

  • @misfitdanzig8152
    @misfitdanzig8152 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My sister and cousins always pick on me and tease me to the point we're I wanted to do something . But think God this film and this scene happen. You see they can tease you but when you did it to them they call me all kind of names .... Adam Sandler is awesome and my hero.

    • @billyin4c514
      @billyin4c514 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah they want to abuse you and then admonish you for being bad, it's straight manipulation.

  • @darrencampbell638
    @darrencampbell638 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Incredible. 10/10.

  • @xbxbxb5814
    @xbxbxb5814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Barry you can't go to other ppl house breaking windows. But I love you

  • @Melvorgazh
    @Melvorgazh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    From 01:41 that woman...
    I think she got some slavic name.
    She was the geek assistant of Jack Bauer in 24.

  • @stephaniegrimshaw80
    @stephaniegrimshaw80 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He needs love. I love this movie ❤

  • @AndreKing4
    @AndreKing4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This scene was the best part of the movie

  • @redmondo42
    @redmondo42 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Business is very food, thank you

    • @GrigorB.2.5
      @GrigorB.2.5 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What's very food?