I'm glad you asked😉 The answer is to take advantage of your youth and beauty. Commit to a man with potential while you're young, and help him build. Be an essential part of his life. While you are wealthy (in beauty). As he gets older, and become wealthy, who you are will be beautiful to him, your beauty is more than skin deep. The problem is women use their wealth for themselves when they are young, trying to get the best deal, and are not willing to put in the work, trusting in a man, and in herself to build and grow. Instead they wait at the finish line for a man to be fully developed. By that time, the man has more options and will choose the best option for himself. Unfortunately, it's often not a 30-50 year old, who has squandered her wealth on other men! This is such an easy concept to understand. I don't know why noone explained it to this old woman. Another aspect of beauty is fertility. The way we mate select is biological, there seems to be double standards on both sides, but they are really not. Saying it's a double standard is like asking why a blue berry is not red, and an apple is not blue. An old beautiful single woman is like an old broke man. Both are poor in what attracts the opposite gender! Men understand this, women have been lied to.
Older women always complain about older men wanting younger women, but when they were the younger women they wanted the older men. That's the real double standard.
@@AlexMinoryounger women don't want older men...older men gravitate towards them..more like prey..older men stalked me from 16-25..they be all @ the high school..don't play like u don't know Sir
The speaker looks fabulous by the way. I’m turning 50 next month, I can’t do the pretzel bending for anybody including men to be ‘chosen’. One thing I have learned is there is no point convincing somebody else of your value if they refuse to see it. Most don’t want you to know and those people you need to remove from your life. There’s a lid for every pot and I’m focused on being the best I can be in the body I have been given than to change what I can’t do anything about, beating the ageing process.
Why didnt you lock down a man when you were fertile and youthful ??? when. men see older women, we generally assume they are married! When 50yr old man goes on dating apps and sees 25yr old young girls swiping on him, he will never turn them down for a dried up 50yr old saggy woman
Not what y'all we're telling women 😂🤣 switching it up huh... remember when y'all were saying women hit the wall at 25😂🤣 women are not going to let y'all say anything anymore and get away with it 😂🤣
@@RichgurlzYour missing the point and heard what you wanted to hear. That entire concept you speak of is about women being delusional and unrealistic with their options as it relates to men that are high earners. There are plenty of quality and average men for women to choose from, but the issue is the majority want the top 10%
@@RealNathanDaley News flash...the average male has kids. Someone been gave your average male a shot....as y'all for your preferences...why would they settle for less when they are the best? That's like telling rich men to date ugly women 😂🤣🤭
Wow that's deep --- I am 57 and I keep it pushing--- with a Whole lot of common sense, and inner child that still has witty intelligence. God Bless everything else -
My wife is 59 and im 58. She worries about this situation. I work out and im still active. She is not as much. Shes beginning to now. But like i told her, im into you and only you. To old now to play games of the heart. I like my money, my house, my color clothes with no bleach stains. I like the non scratched up, SUV that i drive. I love her meals that she cook and i dont have to taste test or smell. I like taking a shower without an electric item thrown in it. I like waking up without a gun in my face. I just love you baby.
@@jasminkelley934 Communication. Laugh. Be available for each other. Arguments will inevitably happen, but look for the humor, and *NEVER* shut out your partner.
Thank You! She sounds like an old fool. Two things cannot occupy the same space at the same time. Competition is the law of the universe. She would not think of looking at a good looking over 50 broke male. Yet, an older man is not concerned about a fit younger woman's pocket. She's upset that her leverage has diminished as her youth left the building.
FACTS!!! Generally, men (& older men) are valued for their financial resources while women (even some older women) are valued for their feminine qualities including their aesthetics.
If she is willing to take care of that young broke 19 - 26 year old she can have that trophy. But she’s not so she calls it a double standard. No there’s one common denominator and that’s money whether you’re willing to use yours to pay for what you want or not is the question & answer -
Definitely some of these women wanting to be traditional after running the streets and raising their kids. You in survival mode wanting traditional. Might as well go younger at that point.
Older men are COMPLETELY different from you as a woman. Older men aren't judged on their looks. Women have ALWAYS been judged on their looks. A man's money trumps his looks any day of the week. A man is judged by his resources, his access and what he can do more than anything not his looks.
Y’all say that older men are t judged by their looks. But if you ever listened to women talk about certain movie starships Shemar Moore is much younger than Denzel. But many more women talk about Denzel. They both are rich, but the charisma, calmness and confident in spirit of an older man attracts these women. So they are judged by their looks, character and of course ability to provide a certain type of lifestyle. But man can look more manly in time. Women can look beautiful too, but it takes work. And at times, they give up or just don’t care. But..She is not one of those women.
Yes men have been judged more vy money and looks but that formula isnt the same as it was in the past. A younger woman would often find an older mans financial stability attractive but now younger women can have their own financial stability and so many older men are in precarious financial positions..Why would i as a finacially establish led 30 year old get with a 50 something year old? That 30 year old will be a nurse and a purse in 10-20 years. Unless she has nothing going for herself, whats in it for her? Plus at 50 he will most likely have children maybe even close to.her age. Who wants to really deal with that?
B bye i guarantee you have the face. Only a mother can love and Miley Cyrus's 56 -year-old mother just married her 24 year-old daughter's ex-boyfriend. Who is 54😅 Please grow up or grow A brain ..age is just a number to people that have fully functioning brains. Unless there's are minor then that's a no go! @@94prettyme
I worked for a urologist- The one thing I don’t hear people talking about when speaking of men wanting younger women is the reality (especially with black men and high blood pressure) of younger women being dissatisfied sexually with older men, due to erectile dysfunction issues. They may want a younger woman, but can they keep her. Will she tip out occasionally to have her needs met?
By that time we’ve already accepted that and either give the pass or have another younger one you may or may not know about. My stepfather already put me on game. He’s 10 years older than my mother. Things change. An older mature man goes into it knowing that.
Thats the best answer. He has someone just for you. Maybe if we got back to teaching our young people that, it would put content creators, social media, and societal pressures out of business. People wouldn't be so damaged by past relationships and etc.
@@dccarsonmusicwomen think men is the problem,they choose to be with Tom,Harry and Dick,she kick them to curb,now she's save,waiting on God to send her the right man,now she wanna put a lock on kitty,Kervin Samuel said trade them in 35 on up with 3 are 4 kids,playing hard to get,that Why...😢
She's asking for equality even in relationships. Disgusting feminism. It's not double standards, it's the elimination of masculinity from our society through the conditioning she's talking about. Male and female relationships have always been about childbearing only. Modern systems are turning it around to leisure and sex only, that's why women want access to younger men same as what men get when they have access to resources. The problem is, it reduces population growth.
Mature women are beautiful as always. There are men that prefer women their age, not all men prefer younger women and the same goes for women. To each his own. People tend to get caught up on this thing called society programming. Robots 🤖 🤖🤖🤖🤖🤖
Definitely agree… what so many don’t remember is that there are so many other people living regular lives outside of social media. Men and women have preferences. Unfortunately some are also uneducated about pregnancy, so they will use the excuse “I date younger women only because she is more likely to still be able to have kids”. There are millions of women who cannot conceive in their 20s, have health complications, miscarriages etc. You have plenty of women who are waiting and have had beautiful healthy children in their 40s. It’s been happening for years. You won’t really know anything about that person and how their particular body works until you are with them. If people want to date women that are only 30 or younger, just say that. But please don’t blame it on beauty, health, and/or the ability to conceive.
In a mature mans mind What do you do when you marry and your both growing old together,as it's intended. Only for the mature, your wife is dealing with the fact your no longer what you use to be no matter how much cologne you splash on ,you'll be saying honey rub my back later,Stop with this nonsense a younger girl gonna bring your youth back ,she wants your money & will go spend time with a younger dude with your money,Trust that.....
Exactly. I get so tired of people looking at tv..or online thinking its real life. Bc what's presented to us on TV is usually not real. Get out in the real world and see how real people really think.
I have no interest in competing with youth or be “chosen” as I’ve chosen myself; I had my time and was chosen by others for my beauty in my youth. Now I’m in my 50’s wisdom is what my youth is being exchanged for and I wouldn’t exchange this wisdom to go back to my youth. It’s such beautiful and fair exchange. Peace is the gift of aging, and that peace is why people now choose you☺️🧘🏽♀️
I tell women all the time if u don’t want to hold your beauty standard then don’t hold me to a financial standard. They don’t like that. It’s too real. We value different things
@@aykazielenokk4022Nah, I still value beauty... it makes a difference... science has proven that beauty makes men happy.. That's why we're willing to travel the world for it.
@@icycici6191of course you didn’t catch the functional equivalent..but You’re being judged on your looks the way We’re being judged by finances regardless
Nah, they prefer stable men. Older men are usually more put together and helpful to a woman's life than a younger man still going off of ego and strength. Trust and believe old broke dudes aint getting younger women. Its the older dudes that actually made something of himself that is attractive. There are hella old dudes who arw lonely af cuz they never grew up.
She enjoyed the “double standard” when she was young. I’m assuming she dated men older than her and more established. Now men are chasing the younger version of herself, she wants to get rid of the dating dynamics.
This is true. I had an ex who played me long ago But it helped me bc I stay in the gym and watch what I eat..the skin care regimen whole 9.. He saw me years later and frowned his face up like "why you still look young n s***?" 😂😂😂bc he looked like life had been whooping his a**😂😂😂 Sweetest victory ever. Money couldn't buy that.
😂😂😂😂 n I was trying to vision what you were speaking too.when u said it looked like life had whooped dat ass... damn...I think that was the look of acknowledging what let get away...😁
This is what's left out on these conversations....when two ppl grow old together u get used to all the things that happens to the human body but as you grow older so does your love.
Say so! That’s what my momma and daddy did and that’s not something that many men today can even comprehend; Women know are realizing that we picked wrong Ns and it’s sad!!!
@@1fancychik4God Actually, it's women who don't wanna go the long haul in marriage. We know a woman's looks won't last....but that's also why she should be a virgin when she gets married and do so, young, so that the husband can have her best years and be fine with the TRADEOFF of staying with her til the end. Women initiate 70-80% of divorces, aren't virgins, don't give their best years to their husbands, and then wanna blame men...it doesn't work that way.
Thank you! My parents have been married over 60 years- men who spend their lives chasing the freshest, youngest tail will die alone. My parents are in their 80’s and they have each other. It’s a beautiful thing to love someone your entire life.
Women God says you are Chosen Beautiful Blessed Forgiven Powerful Gifted Loved Duaghters of the most high DON'T Compete against other women, put oneanother down, fight for any man, degrade yourself, shame yourself, believe toxic double standards, supress your talents, walk with the devil instead of God, invite pain over peace, never put any man or anyone opinion, feelings, thoughts over God or what God says about you. The Lord is your God no one else and he loves you all dearly 💪🏼 God bless
You guys can have them. I'm not interested. If I'm going to put up with a woman, it's going to be a younger one. No doubt, they all come with their own problems. Ain't got time for no old head set in her ways. I'm set in my ways. I want someone who wants to get on my page. Most older women are just getting smashed by men their age. Most men their age ain't trying to get at them for a serious relationship. Her trophy is just looking to smash and dash. You guys out her tagging older women are the exception, not the rule.
When you are as lovely as the Sister here, and don’t care about dying your hair to look younger and are aging so gracefully, you don’t have worries about attracting younger or men who are the same age!
Most real women today honey, have their own money usually more than many men; stop thinking mens' wallets are the bottom line... Being a stand-up man supercedes the money you THINK all women focus on... We're consistently desired for our looks and youth; NO human being gets chronologically younger... AND as an older woman, half these men are broken down, unhealthy and many times uninterested in real intimacy, and that includes a healthy libido!!💥 FACTS
Respectfully Ma'am, You have that beatitude. Of the most rarest flower in the garden. Over 50 wow is an understatement❗God bless you and your family. In the Marvelous Mighty name. Of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. You are a blessed lady, Amen 🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾
She doesn’t bring up how there are wayyyyyyy more double standards that women benefit from than men. Women get so mad when something benefits men it’s crazy
That's all us older guys want is to love on the sweet, young tenders... we're tired of the fighting and power struggle... we been there, done that... the older women still want to resist and they often don't have the beauty and body for us to put up with that. This woman in the video is very beautiful, but her energy comes across as dark and not light. After a certain age, we want light energy as much as possible....and we're willing to pay for it.
@KtotheG People get set in their ways with older age, and that is a relationship killer. Younger women may be more carefree and spontaneous, but lack wisdom or patience. So, a younger woman may appeal to a older man at first, but there may be no long term relationship potential there. Some younger women may seek older men due to bad relationships with young men or they may like a older man to guide them. Maybe they may have daddy issues, but every woman is not the same.
@@Slim1423 A young woman doesn't need wisdom.. she just needs obedience and we're good.. I have enough wisdom for the both of us. I don't do the new age "partnership" relationships, which is a term that was stolen from the LGBTQ+ community... in my sphere, it's either "man/woman" or "husband/wife"... I'm also not going back and forth or negotiating with any woman. My word is the law. And as far as "long term" vs "short term" commitments, that's a bad argument for single older women to make, since many of them are chronically single and don't believe in long-term commitments themselves. If they did, they would be married in their 40s and 50s for 25+ years instead of out hunting and complaining about their paltry options.
And those same older men want to tell women not to be picking about how much money a man make🤨.... when you’re chasing after young women that’s 10 or 20 yrs younger than you, you better have something to keep her interested other than a pop belly and a receding hairline🤨🤨
@@makebacarter2702 Same here I kept my body fit and I'm not dating no man my age that didn't do the same these pot belly's are a No No...turn off. belly's a mile in front of them
Says another woman. I agree she looks great for her age, but I bet she looked better at 25. To be honest her current self isn’t as attractive as the the average 25 year old, but I bet when she was 25 she was a legit superstar for any age
Then you need to date her. Majority of men regardless of race don't have children, don't want to deal with women that going through menopause, and life long trauma that was completely unnecessary to be going through.
There is no double standard. Men have to compete as well. Women have always been tied to beauty and youth. Men have always been tied to resources. Provide and protect. Thats western culture.
I guess being valued for youth and beauty is frightening because those are fleeting. You can gain wealth as you age. Generally, women like taller and stronger men. We are far less visually stimulated than men but if I had to choose between an older average looking billionaire or a handsome upper middle class guy. I may actually choose the upper middle class guy because if the billionaire us really old that means I may be in caretaker very soon.
@immanueleburne3216 To each it's own. The path for you versus someone else is possibly and hopefully different. Life will never be a one size fits all. But we can share our version of our own journey. That's all. Everything in context isn't a right or wrong. It's a testament. So yes, brother, it's accurate based on her experience.
@@desireesimmons842 although your comment may be correct with old proverb and cliché, her assessment is not accurate because she can also talk to younger men which would sure the thought of there being a double standard. Her journey is her own. I only mentioned the double standard or the lack thereof
Phyllica Rashaad has been married 3 times and Claire Huxtable is a fictional character. So basically this "glow," is completely fabricated. 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
I just remembered when growing up, people who were in their 50s were mostly married and had kids, and were expecting grandkids. I want to know what changed from 30 years ago?
Women stop wanting families and want a promiscuous lifestyle instead of, now many 40’ish men want younger women instead of the women that rejected them 20 years ago
Regardless of your age... If you take good care of yourself, you are GOD fearing & you have good feminine energy, then a good man is waiting nearby to pick you up... Make sure you are authentic... You don't have to compete with anyone...
N not all of their bank accounts grow. These younger males are making a lot more money due to entrepreneurship and etc… So, being an older man being equated to him having money is getting a lil played out right now.
@@Wonderwoman79GI’ve noticed that too! A friend of mine is 28 making $82k and is about to get promoted soon! I saw another video of a 25 year old that paid $35K for good finances wedding ring. He said he bought it because money is of no consequence to him.
Actually it isn't. A man's highest earning potential is between the ages of 45 - 60. Young guys may make a lot of money, but do they know what to do with it? In fact, the report found that 49% of individuals making over $100,000 per year were living paycheck to paycheck this April. It's not what you make, it's what you keep. In accounting, you would never look at income alone. What's their networth? What does their balance sheet say? What does their statement of cash flows say? Don't be swayed by big numbers. It's all relative.
Umm.... what??? From the millennial gen on down, men are on the whole making LESS than their parents did. Successful entrepreneurs are typically over 40y/o. Young, high earning entrepreneurs are mostly an internet myth, they exist in such miniscule amounts they have no bearing on median or average earnings. The generational earnings/wealth gap is growing and it certainly doesn't favor the youth.
Those younger Men don't want you. You're a 70 year old Woman. Stop with that BS. If they're " peeping you out" it's probably because they have a fetish, and want to fu@k an old Woman. Kind of like Kellen Winslow jr.
Most women become really nice people when they are about 50, but they tend to forget about the previous 35 years when they treated everybody else like trash!
Yep! And many of them spend alot of time purposely corrupting and misleading the younger women. If younger women have successful relationships, it would make those very women have to eat all the nonsense they've been spreading. Misery loves company!
When a person looks like they like themselves, their view is priceless. The package is the view of those that like themselves. To not work on ones appearance, physically and mentally, how to be attractive isn't conducive to being able to understand enough about ones selfworth of ones worth. A person who looks like they like life, they become more attractive to be a choice made; character is priceless...
To be honest young and old come with headaches. Young ones want you to buy them nice things while nagging you an if she already have child package deal. Old ones want you to rebuild her house, fix her roof and toilet leak as well want nice things while nagging you an if she have a grown son that lives with her gone be problems for you.
Of course men and women are different. When a woman gets angry she may not talk to you or talk about you in her support groups. When a male gets angry he's just going to end up trying to ki** the girl so we know.
Its not a Double Standard. Its a Preference. Not all Men prefer younger Women. Its whomever you're attracted to for whatever reason. Im an older Gentleman but even when i was young i was attracted to More Mature Women.... Like yourself. You're Amazing. We all need to stop judging each other based off what we like or prefer and just seek Healthy, Faithful and Loyal Relationships based on Love. IMO.
Couldnt see your pic. There’s 2 kinds of over 50. The one who’s fit, healthy & handsome and then the one who has let themself go. Which would you consider yourself to be? Genuinely curious
@@Yolanda-lr4pq I work out and try to eat healthy. Women do say I am handsome. Rolanda is a very beautiful woman. As a man over 50 Id prefer to date women closer to my age. We tend to share the same values and goals at this point in our lives.
@@rb7915-v9k thats the key. I got time today and everyone is entitled to their preferences. But if we’re going to tell then we’re gonna tell it all. Cause some of these cats are not the prize. And some of us over 50 are still holding it down. Put some Respek on us seasoned to perfection women. We Outchea and we ain’t thirsty either. (We ain’t gon keep waiting for y’all to come to your senses. When you realize you can’t dance to the Migos 😩
I’ve observed people enough to know that that is a lie, and if you believe it, you’re not paying attention. The average women don’t like old ass men,some of them just be using the ones with money, just like they would use ANYBODY with money. That’s not the same as actually being attracted to someone. By and large, women are attracted to men their own age…
Exactly…if she was 25 and I was 25 and NOT financially successful she may date me but look for a better option …fast forward to when im 50 and now have built myself up into a good income why would I see her as my reward when I can attract younger females who are a better option than she is
@@sweetwonkahallelujah7016your first problem is thinking some younger girl would want some 50 year old needing Viagra prescription.... she's got preferences as well
Forget western women. To the men remember these two things. First, women out number men. That means as a man you have the advantage in your options. Choose wisely. Secondly as a man you can simply renew your passport and get an attractive, friendly, respectful, family oriented in shape woman.😅 You win!
My wife is 15 years older and after 34 years of marriage, she still Wonder Woman strong. When you are older, you know what you want and it's the heart and mind of a person that matures and matters.
My wife is older than me and I hold it down paying Mortgage, car payments, bills, etc. We’ve been together 20 years and I pursued her. I’m 39 now and still have plenty more years and fight left in me. She brought out the best in me so every situation is different.
What she forgot to mention is, majority of men at 50 look 35-40 and have secured themselves financially. She older and fine but, that ain't gonna keep a young nigga. Moral is, get married and be with who wants you. That way by the time your this age. NONE of this matters.
Its not actually a double standard because an older man and a younger woman can still have children together whereas an older woman can't have a child regardless of how old the man is !!! We're not the same and to think so is beyond delusional !!!!
A woman’s true and most important assets are not her looks. And a man’s true and most important assets are not his wallet. This world is full of superficial numb nuts.
It's the culture, today a woman can be rich as f, truth men gonna hit and run with other young chicks. When men get they still run with the same young chicks.
Bs, it’s too many women with broke men and even taking care of them to say that. They be loving the men’s dirty draws, and just be happy to have a man in their bed or face !
Her face is still youthful looking and attractive no doubt about that, especially for 50. I would agree the suppleness of her skin is still in the 30's category.
All women must compete, especially if u want a high value man, or a high value man with money, plus if u want to be married, hopefully u were raised to be a wife.
Truth is, men of all ages choose the women who aren't thinking about this type of shit at all. We want women who are in a totally different thought process than the 98.5% of other women in society. We sleep sleep with women who are the norm but, choose the women who have the desire to operate purely in their own unique existence. BE YOU because comparison is the killer of joy
@vfree4579 killer of Joy says the ancient Africans who Theodore Roosevelt stole it from! Stand down and stay on code it's not a contest and your need to correct my text is exactly what the quote is about.
It's hard to say with her. But. If I were to guess. She was playing the field when she was younger. Hit that wall. And couldn't get into a serious relationship, because many of the men her age are involved. Or, she still has the 20 year old mentality. Chasing young meat. And is using the double standard as a scapegoat. If she perfers younger men. That's fine. But let's stop the b.s. We all get old. But many of us men and women aren't trying to get with a younger person.
She looks very healthy, in mind, body, and spirit. 50 plus is an age where you have the face you deserve. She clearly is NOT crazy and a piece of work. She could be divorced or widowed.
Why are you projecting a life on a complete stranger? Even married women talk about the double standard. And at 50 men are bad too is the point. No young woman looks at older men for love.
As a older woman 47 years old who dates even older men who are usually 15 years or 20 years older than me I can vouch for what she's saying. Men in their fifties and sixties and who claim they still have the same stamina as a 25/30 year old male all the lies LOL😅 energy is not the same as it used to be and mind you these are usually men who work out and take care of themselves but still all of us will meet our Fate when it comes to getting older in fact I embrace it I think the key in life is to have a youthful outlook on life I'm staying in tune to your inner child I don't mean be immature I just mean always have a adventurous mindset that's what keeps Young,
I was talking to a man who was explaining why he preferred younger women., I asked him when was the last time he dated a younger woman, he immediately malfunctioned. He was pissed when I told him, “see, your preference is irrelevant.”
I love me an older woman. I practice what I preach, my wife is nine years older and we are married heading into 10 years. I love her world without end.❤️
If Idris Elba worked at McDonald's a successful older woman wouldn't look his way but if Rihanna was on frys a man wouldn't hesitate to scoop her up we aren't the same
Men value looks, women value books. But a man wouldn't pick a woman with "potential" beauty, so why should women pick potential. Unequally yoked is high risk
I am over 50. My last date was with an amazing 33 yr old young man. He kept asking me for an entire year until I said yes. He was perfection ... but too young. My kids are almost his age. SIGHHH
Life is all about Competition....right from the strongest spermatozoon that succeeds in fertilizing the ovum at the expense of millions of "losers" that failed. Winners don't quit and losers don't win.
She Made A Great Point About Men Aging & I’ve Neva Heard That Brought Up. Most Of These Guys’ Looks & Libido Go Right Out The Window Around The Same Time Women Hit Menopause. I’ll Be So Glad When We All Grow Up & This Man Vs Woman Nonsense Is Done
With Men it gradually declines women's seggs drive falls of a cliff once menopause hits. The low levels of testosterone for seggs is gone. Testosterone which makes them attracted are very low levels or non existent. But to each there own some like young some like old fine Man or Woman.
Women will accept an older man who is less than handsome if he has other attractive attributes like money, status, leadership, protection, etc. Our looks don’t matter to the same degree as a woman’s looks.
I never bought into this. Yes, I wanted to be considered attractive, but it was always too one-sided to me. I also believe that there is far more to be attracted to than looks. I was taught that looks needed to be backed by intelligence, virtue, sweetness, and common sense.
If you're confident in oneself you exude that in the things you do without making yourself look slutty per say for example. You look in mirror on a daily basis tell you that you are beautiful and you are attractive period...your confidence will prevail an you may start to attract not just any man guy young boy etc you will attract the kind of quality man you need not want...if he meets your criteria and passes your tests then you move accordingly so you don't leap out on faith and guy turns out not to be for you. Watch for games period...
stop gassing up old ass women like thats what men want. this is why men should never listen to women when it comes to dating and what men should be attracted to.
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I'm glad you asked😉 The answer is to take advantage of your youth and beauty. Commit to a man with potential while you're young, and help him build. Be an essential part of his life. While you are wealthy (in beauty). As he gets older, and become wealthy, who you are will be beautiful to him, your beauty is more than skin deep. The problem is women use their wealth for themselves when they are young, trying to get the best deal, and are not willing to put in the work, trusting in a man, and in herself to build and grow. Instead they wait at the finish line for a man to be fully developed. By that time, the man has more options and will choose the best option for himself. Unfortunately, it's often not a 30-50 year old, who has squandered her wealth on other men! This is such an easy concept to understand. I don't know why noone explained it to this old woman. Another aspect of beauty is fertility. The way we mate select is biological, there seems to be double standards on both sides, but they are really not. Saying it's a double standard is like asking why a blue berry is not red, and an apple is not blue. An old beautiful single woman is like an old broke man. Both are poor in what attracts the opposite gender! Men understand this, women have been lied to.
It’s not double standards lol
@@nostalgicfuture7955 Right, someone should have explained it to the 👵
Older women always complain about older men wanting younger women, but when they were the younger women they wanted the older men.
That's the real double standard.
@@AlexMinoryounger women don't want older men...older men gravitate towards them..more like prey..older men stalked me from 16-25..they be all @ the high school..don't play like u don't know Sir
The speaker looks fabulous by the way.
I’m turning 50 next month, I can’t do the pretzel bending for anybody including men to be ‘chosen’. One thing I have learned is there is no point convincing somebody else of your value if they refuse to see it. Most don’t want you to know and those people you need to remove from your life. There’s a lid for every pot and I’m focused on being the best I can be in the body I have been given than to change what I can’t do anything about, beating the ageing process.
Why didnt you lock down a man when you were fertile and youthful ??? when. men see older women, we generally assume they are married!
When 50yr old man goes on dating apps and sees 25yr old young girls swiping on him, he will never turn them down for a dried up 50yr old saggy woman
@@KarenGriffith_SoulfulCoaching That's because she's Rolanda Rochelle!
@@KarenGriffith_SoulfulCoaching word
@KarenGriffith_SoulfulCoaching lmao so you want a man to imagine u have value
@@darylsmith808exactly😆💯
If that old man doesn’t have money nobody is following him anywhere. Remember it’s older men WITH money.
Lol...that SSI good enough for some of these gals 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@TamaraBoddie exactly
Or with Fame.
They old asses still cheap 😂😂
Honey even with the Gray hair ,your personality and your honesty makes you priceless ,something young women would not get .....thank you .
Beauty is the woman’s burden. Not the man’s. Money is the man’s burden. Not the woman’s.
~Mike the philosopher
You don’t lose your beauty you lose your youth! You’re over 50 and definitely beautiful
Indeed 👍
Not what y'all we're telling women 😂🤣 switching it up huh... remember when y'all were saying women hit the wall at 25😂🤣 women are not going to let y'all say anything anymore and get away with it 😂🤣
@@RichgurlzYour missing the point and heard what you wanted to hear. That entire concept you speak of is about women being delusional and unrealistic with their options as it relates to men that are high earners. There are plenty of quality and average men for women to choose from, but the issue is the majority want the top 10%
@@RealNathanDaley News flash...the average male has kids. Someone been gave your average male a shot....as y'all for your preferences...why would they settle for less when they are the best? That's like telling rich men to date ugly women 😂🤣🤭
But men her age don't want her
She's stunning
Right!
I thought so too. Over 50 looks great on her❤
@@CandaceJDunkleyright!
She truly is!
She really is 😍
Over 50 and STILL looking AMAZING!
Makeup
Don't care!
lol delusional she’s an old woman
Until that bodysuit, and makeup come off.
Not make up, melanin!!! Stop insulting her and pray you look this good after 50
Wow that's deep --- I am 57 and I keep it pushing--- with a Whole lot of common sense, and inner child that still has witty intelligence. God Bless everything else -
My wife is 59 and im 58. She worries about this situation. I work out and im still active. She is not as much. Shes beginning to now. But like i told her, im into you and only you. To old now to play games of the heart. I like my money, my house, my color clothes with no bleach stains. I like the non scratched up, SUV that i drive. I love her meals that she cook and i dont have to taste test or smell. I like taking a shower without an electric item thrown in it. I like waking up without a gun in my face. I just love you baby.
Lmaoooo. Smart man. Blessings to you and your wife💯
Avoidance of drama and uncertainty FTW!
I just love that❤ oh next year for your anniversary. Ask her to guess where y'all going to go eat and the first place she says take her there.
Beta
😂😂😂 so you’re settled
Always loved older women. Married a woman 7 years older than me. We just celebrated 38 years together :)
I’m dating someone 8 years younger and it’s the first time with such a large age gap . Any advice?
@@jasminkelley934 Communication. Laugh. Be available for each other. Arguments will inevitably happen, but look for the humor, and *NEVER* shut out your partner.
@@RDrakeSans1 thanks! 😊 🙏🏾
@@jasminkelley934 You are entirely welcome 🤗
That's dope brother❤Congratulations 🎉
It’s not a double standard, it’s a DIFFERENT standard.
Exactly. That’s what they seem to ignore
Thank You! She sounds like an old fool. Two things cannot occupy the same space at the same time. Competition is the law of the universe. She would not think of looking at a good looking over 50 broke male. Yet, an older man is not concerned about a fit younger woman's pocket. She's upset that her leverage has diminished as her youth left the building.
FACTS!!! Generally, men (& older men) are valued for their financial resources while women (even some older women) are valued for their feminine qualities including their aesthetics.
Exactly, a beautiful older woman can easily get a younger man based on looks alone😂😂😂
If she is willing to take care of that young broke 19 - 26 year old she can have that trophy. But she’s not so she calls it a double standard. No there’s one common denominator and that’s money whether you’re willing to use yours to pay for what you want or not is the question & answer -
The difference between the older man and older woman is that the man has to pay
It's only a double standard when it doesn't work in you favor.
Definitely some of these women wanting to be traditional after running the streets and raising their kids. You in survival mode wanting traditional. Might as well go younger at that point.
and it took her 50 years to nitice it because her looks not playing in her favor no more womp womp womp find somebody yo age cuz time expiring!
I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS SIDE BAR…. THANSK GUYS👌🏾
@@SoCalOnTheBeatHence the conundrum she stated; men her age don’t want women her age.🤷🏾♂️
Truest thing ever said. 💯
Older men are COMPLETELY different from you as a woman. Older men aren't judged on their looks. Women have ALWAYS been judged on their looks. A man's money trumps his looks any day of the week. A man is judged by his resources, his access and what he can do more than anything not his looks.
Y’all say that older men are t judged by their looks. But if you ever listened to women talk about certain movie starships Shemar Moore is much younger than Denzel. But many more women talk about Denzel. They both are rich, but the charisma, calmness and confident in spirit of an older man attracts these women. So they are judged by their looks, character and of course ability to provide a certain type of lifestyle. But man can look more manly in time. Women can look beautiful too, but it takes work. And at times, they give up or just don’t care. But..She is not one of those women.
But men WITHOUT MONEY, still think they should be able to pull a younger woman. THATS THE JOKE!!😂😂😂 AND THE MAJORITY.
And she still doesn't understand this.
Mans metrics are money, power and strength. Women's metrics are beauty and ability to pop out a gremlin
Yes men have been judged more vy money and looks but that formula isnt the same as it was in the past. A younger woman would often find an older mans financial stability attractive but now younger women can have their own financial stability and so many older men are in precarious financial positions..Why would i as a finacially establish led 30 year old get with a 50 something year old? That 30 year old will be a nurse and a purse in 10-20 years. Unless she has nothing going for herself, whats in it for her? Plus at 50 he will most likely have children maybe even close to.her age. Who wants to really deal with that?
A older man isn’t judge by his looks. He’s judge by his status, his money, and his ability to make a woman feel safe.
She doesn't have a clue
she has a head full of GRAY HAIR SHE IS OLD 😂😂
I just said this in a conversation yesterday.
@@Necronomicon88383some people are born with gray hair.
I like older women . 🤷🏿♂️they just gotta stay fit .
" It should be the inner beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which , in God's sight, is very precious. "
She look better than a lot of people in their 20’s lmao! Her personality seems so sweet and fun too
It don’t matter she’s not young
@@94prettyme oh well get over it
@@AyyRalphy you and her need to get it over it
B bye i guarantee you have the face. Only a mother can love and Miley Cyrus's 56 -year-old mother just married her 24 year-old daughter's ex-boyfriend. Who is 54😅 Please grow up or grow A brain ..age is just a number to people that have fully functioning brains. Unless there's are minor then that's a no go! @@94prettyme
Right! She looks good!
I worked for a urologist-
The one thing I don’t hear people talking about when speaking of men wanting younger women is the reality (especially with black men and high blood pressure) of younger women being dissatisfied sexually with older men, due to erectile dysfunction issues.
They may want a younger woman, but can they keep her. Will she tip out occasionally to have her needs met?
By that time we’ve already accepted that and either give the pass or have another younger one you may or may not know about. My stepfather already put me on game. He’s 10 years older than my mother. Things change. An older mature man goes into it knowing that.
We (older women) talk about it but we are told that we are jealous, bitter and haters. ED starts in the 30s for some men. We just deal with it.
@@bunchielove6893You are bitter. Most men will never deal with ED and there's Viagra and countless others.
Women hit menopause mid 40s
@@bunchielove6893 starting at 25 now, but talking about a "wall". WELL Y'ALL ARE POLE-VAULTING OVER IT!
Yes because they 5 min old asseslol 😂😂
I feel zero pressure I want who God wants for me.
Thats the best answer. He has someone just for you. Maybe if we got back to teaching our young people that, it would put content creators, social media, and societal pressures out of business. People wouldn't be so damaged by past relationships and etc.
That’s key. What God has for you is what you should want. Folks act like they are in the produce section trying to pick the best tomato! 😂
The best comment
Amen
@@dccarsonmusicwomen think men is the problem,they choose to be with Tom,Harry and Dick,she kick them to curb,now she's save,waiting on God to send her the right man,now she wanna put a lock on kitty,Kervin Samuel said trade them in 35 on up with 3 are 4 kids,playing hard to get,that Why...😢
You haven’t lost anything! Ms.Rochelle 💪🏾
Women have zero issues with older men dating younger women until they are no longer that younger woman.
Facts
Damn 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She's asking for equality even in relationships. Disgusting feminism. It's not double standards, it's the elimination of masculinity from our society through the conditioning she's talking about. Male and female relationships have always been about childbearing only. Modern systems are turning it around to leisure and sex only, that's why women want access to younger men same as what men get when they have access to resources. The problem is, it reduces population growth.
Bingo
Well said hence why it makes no sense debating with women, they are never accountable
Mature women are beautiful as always. There are men that prefer women their age, not all men prefer younger women and the same goes for women. To each his own. People tend to get caught up on this thing called society programming. Robots 🤖 🤖🤖🤖🤖🤖
Not society
Biology
@@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 No. I disagree. To each his own. No worries.
Definitely agree… what so many don’t remember is that there are so many other people living regular lives outside of social media. Men and women have preferences. Unfortunately some are also uneducated about pregnancy, so they will use the excuse “I date younger women only because she is more likely to still be able to have kids”. There are millions of women who cannot conceive in their 20s, have health complications, miscarriages etc. You have plenty of women who are waiting and have had beautiful healthy children in their 40s. It’s been happening for years. You won’t really know anything about that person and how their particular body works until you are with them.
If people want to date women that are only 30 or younger, just say that. But please don’t blame it on beauty, health, and/or the ability to conceive.
In a mature mans mind What do you do when you marry and your both growing old together,as it's intended. Only for the mature, your wife is dealing with the fact your no longer what you use to be no matter how much cologne you splash on ,you'll be saying honey rub my back later,Stop with this nonsense a younger girl gonna bring your youth back ,she wants your money & will go spend time with a younger dude with your money,Trust that.....
Exactly. I get so tired of people looking at tv..or online thinking its real life. Bc what's presented to us on TV is usually not real. Get out in the real world and see how real people really think.
Meanwhile, sis look better than some women in their 20's.
I rather have an obese 18 year old than a woman over 30 any day no matter how fit she is
No she doesn't
@@alonzosmithpowergog4946She's absolutely gorgeous
@@alonzosmithpowergog4946no one asked you. She made a statement not a question! Now get off your mama’s internet and go seek employment
Them eggs son....Them eggs will tell you just how old she is. Ain't used a maxi in 10 years, trying to catch a ninja??? For what???
I have no interest in competing with youth or be “chosen” as I’ve chosen myself; I had my time and was chosen by others for my beauty in my youth. Now I’m in my 50’s wisdom is what my youth is being exchanged for and I wouldn’t exchange this wisdom to go back to my youth. It’s such beautiful and fair exchange. Peace is the gift of aging, and that peace is why people now choose you☺️🧘🏽♀️
The DOUBLE STANDARDS. I'm 28, and every time a man over 50 looks at me in that way, I'm like you're old enough to be my daddy.
😂 don’t blame you
You're already at the wall talking nonsense 😂
That's totally understandable.. the problem is it's shifted so much that I'm 38 and women around your age seem to still be uncomfortable 😅
@@fightsims1252Ignant AND public about it. Whew... the embarrassment!
@@ericah.3906 So because I'm at this hypothetical wall, I'm supposed to entertain somebody my parents' age? Absolutely not.
I tell women all the time if u don’t want to hold your beauty standard then don’t hold me to a financial standard. They don’t like that. It’s too real. We value different things
I don’t value beauty just tight kitty and fact is younger is better. Not RKellys version of younger but you get the idea.
@@aykazielenokk4022Nah, I still value beauty... it makes a difference... science has proven that beauty makes men happy.. That's why we're willing to travel the world for it.
Great excuse to stay broke!! 😂
@@icycici6191of course you didn’t catch the functional equivalent..but You’re being judged on your looks the way We’re being judged by finances regardless
@@smurf_n_wesson9064 That comparison is as old as time. Women have a right to be gold diggers because men are "beauty diggers"‼️
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 these convos are hilarious RIP mr samuels “ you really can’t make this ish up” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly, these women see themselves as the younger women, at 50 trying to compete with younger women only to go home and battle hot flashes
F Mr Samuels. He's the one who sold men a delusion and they will be old and alone with those attitudes
You definitely didn’t lose the beauty and only the youth in time. You look amazing.
Okay!?! They be battling gout and sleep apnea, got a belly as round as the globe talking about “Women my age have too much baggage.” Um, SIR 👀
😂
Lmao, right with all these health problems, wearing the latest trying to hold onto their youth
😂😂
@@HumbleBeauty679 wearing track suits & can’t even run to the mailbox without getting winded.
@@Yolanda-lr4pqlol
But no one wants to talk about the fact women have always preferred older men! The hypocrisy is crazy
Not me prefer a lil bit younger and that’s what I got in the end . Depends on how you age too as there’s rough 25 year olds
Nah y’all mature slower and that’s facts so a few years older is better for us
Nah, they prefer stable men. Older men are usually more put together and helpful to a woman's life than a younger man still going off of ego and strength. Trust and believe old broke dudes aint getting younger women. Its the older dudes that actually made something of himself that is attractive. There are hella old dudes who arw lonely af cuz they never grew up.
The world is full of hypocrisy
Gross 🤢 no young woman wants to f@#k Grandpa 👴🏿. They want his money
She enjoyed the “double standard” when she was young. I’m assuming she dated men older than her and more established. Now men are chasing the younger version of herself, she wants to get rid of the dating dynamics.
😂😂 because we are naturally selfish when we are younger. Probably never thought about older women much
No woman I know has dated much older.
@@catherineball7584 Nobody cares. Are you a narcissist and think the world revolves around you? It happens.
@@catherineball7584then you must be really sheltered, because a lot do.
@@odog76543 not according to the stats. The average age gap is tiny.
Mrs. Rolanda u have not lost anything. Any man that doesn't see your beauty. Is a fool.u r a very beautiful and attractive woman. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
😂😂being beautiful is not her problem 😂😂😂
This is true.
I had an ex who played me long ago
But it helped me bc I stay in the gym and watch what I eat..the skin care regimen whole 9..
He saw me years later and frowned his face up like "why you still look young n s***?" 😂😂😂bc he looked like life had been whooping his a**😂😂😂
Sweetest victory ever.
Money couldn't buy that.
This ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Good for you
😂😂😂😂 n I was trying to vision what you were speaking too.when u said it looked like life had whooped dat ass... damn...I think that was the look of acknowledging what let get away...😁
What I’m trying to say ta get
Hmm? Then he helped you along your journey. He was that spark that motivated you to work on the relationship you have with yourself.
Proudly Repping the 50 and over club. Speak on it Ro! 🙌🏽
Speak on it, she should have handled business at a young age. This is pathetic she is fifty still talking about relationships like a teenager.
IM WITH YOU 💯💯
This is what's left out on these conversations....when two ppl grow old together u get used to all the things that happens to the human body but as you grow older so does your love.
Exactly!
Say so! That’s what my momma and daddy did and that’s not something that many men today can even comprehend; Women know are realizing that we picked wrong Ns and it’s sad!!!
@@1fancychik4God Actually, it's women who don't wanna go the long haul in marriage. We know a woman's looks won't last....but that's also why she should be a virgin when she gets married and do so, young, so that the husband can have her best years and be fine with the TRADEOFF of staying with her til the end. Women initiate 70-80% of divorces, aren't virgins, don't give their best years to their husbands, and then wanna blame men...it doesn't work that way.
Thank you! My parents have been married over 60 years- men who spend their lives chasing the freshest, youngest tail will die alone. My parents are in their 80’s and they have each other. It’s a beautiful thing to love someone your entire life.
Facts, i knew my wife from the age of 15, I'm 43 now ...but I wouldn't at this time my life if single, wouldn't want a older woman
Women God says you are
Chosen
Beautiful
Blessed
Forgiven
Powerful
Gifted
Loved
Duaghters of the most high
DON'T
Compete against other women, put oneanother down, fight for any man, degrade yourself, shame yourself, believe toxic double standards, supress your talents, walk with the devil instead of God, invite pain over peace, never put any man or anyone opinion, feelings, thoughts over God or what God says about you. The Lord is your God no one else and he loves you all dearly 💪🏼 God bless
Lies😂 why haven’t this worked yet
I'm 45 and I love women my age.
😊🥹🙏🏾 I’m not 45 but I love that you appreciate your age category
I'm 48 yr old, n my cousin in their late 20's n 30's but look older than me n weight more than me....I SMH!
Im 40 and i approve
You guys can have them. I'm not interested. If I'm going to put up with a woman, it's going to be a younger one. No doubt, they all come with their own problems. Ain't got time for no old head set in her ways. I'm set in my ways. I want someone who wants to get on my page. Most older women are just getting smashed by men their age. Most men their age ain't trying to get at them for a serious relationship. Her trophy is just looking to smash and dash. You guys out her tagging older women are the exception, not the rule.
I'm 47 and have means. I won't look twice at a women in her 40's. He'll no!
When you are as lovely as the Sister here, and don’t care about dying your hair to look younger and are aging so gracefully, you don’t have worries about attracting younger or men who are the same age!
Women are not looking at the man the same way. They are looking at his wallet.
Read “Atomic Attraction,” by Chris Canwell.
@@shedparker Thanks for the tip.
Most real women today honey, have their own money usually more than many men; stop thinking mens' wallets are the bottom line... Being a stand-up man supercedes the money you THINK all women focus on... We're consistently desired for our looks and youth; NO human being gets chronologically younger... AND as an older woman, half these men are broken down, unhealthy and many times uninterested in real intimacy, and that includes a healthy libido!!💥 FACTS
The young women are looking at the older men for money however, women 45 and up are looking for companionship but its hard for us.
@@teatime635 well all women(and men) are looking for companionship, it's just that young women are also broke 😂
Respectfully Ma'am, You have that beatitude. Of the most rarest flower in the garden. Over 50 wow is an understatement❗God bless you and your family. In the Marvelous Mighty name. Of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. You are a blessed lady, Amen 🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾
She doesn’t bring up how there are wayyyyyyy more double standards that women benefit from than men. Women get so mad when something benefits men it’s crazy
True
Someone hurt you
Facts
@@keep_grindin_uppathetic shaming tactic. Silly move
@@nyakwarObat you a damn AI program 🤫
My Grandma said it’s better to be an old man’s sweetheart than a young man’s fool! 😂😂😂 Where the granddaddies at!!!
That's all us older guys want is to love on the sweet, young tenders... we're tired of the fighting and power struggle... we been there, done that... the older women still want to resist and they often don't have the beauty and body for us to put up with that. This woman in the video is very beautiful, but her energy comes across as dark and not light. After a certain age, we want light energy as much as possible....and we're willing to pay for it.
@KtotheG People get set in their ways with older age, and that is a relationship killer. Younger women may be more carefree and spontaneous, but lack wisdom or patience. So, a younger woman may appeal to a older man at first, but there may be no long term relationship potential there. Some younger women may seek older men due to bad relationships with young men or they may like a older man to guide them. Maybe they may have daddy issues, but every woman is not the same.
@@Slim1423 A young woman doesn't need wisdom.. she just needs obedience and we're good.. I have enough wisdom for the both of us. I don't do the new age "partnership" relationships, which is a term that was stolen from the LGBTQ+ community... in my sphere, it's either "man/woman" or "husband/wife"... I'm also not going back and forth or negotiating with any woman. My word is the law. And as far as "long term" vs "short term" commitments, that's a bad argument for single older women to make, since many of them are chronically single and don't believe in long-term commitments themselves. If they did, they would be married in their 40s and 50s for 25+ years instead of out hunting and complaining about their paltry options.
😂😂😂now that’s a fact jack 😂😂😂😂
Wow I never heard it put that way 😂😆😂
The difference is, we’re picking youthfulness, they’re picking resources. It’s just natural selection. Get over it.
Then don't cry about it
Lol. So you're crying for?
👏👏👏👏
@@josephdubois5290when some gold digger cleans you out
Exactly They can't handle Men with options
Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙌🏽🙌🏽🤩
And those same older men want to tell women not to be picking about how much money a man make🤨.... when you’re chasing after young women that’s 10 or 20 yrs younger than you, you better have something to keep her interested other than a pop belly and a receding hairline🤨🤨
😂
Right. Exactly why I don’t date older men. I don’t care how much money they have, I don’t find most of them attractive
@@makebacarter2702 post wall coping mechanisms 😂
Them pot belly's...just NO !! like you pick a fine time to get picky......🙄🙄
@@makebacarter2702 Same here I kept my body fit and I'm not dating no man my age that didn't do the same these pot belly's are a No No...turn off. belly's a mile in front of them
The gray don’t take away nothing from this gorgeous woman. It accentuates her beauty and wisdom.☮️😁👍🏽❤️
Says another woman. I agree she looks great for her age, but I bet she looked better at 25. To be honest her current self isn’t as attractive as the the average 25 year old, but I bet when she was 25 she was a legit superstar for any age
Then you need to date her. Majority of men regardless of race don't have children, don't want to deal with women that going through menopause, and life long trauma that was completely unnecessary to be going through.
@@xclusive40what does this have to do with anything. LMAO??? She is stunning.
@@kb1594 So says another woman. I gave a man’s perspective. Often women just don’t want to hear or care how we think
@@xclusive40Hmm.. I wonder why? 😂 Have a blessed day!
She is ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS! 💯 and her inside from the little I see here is BEAUTIFUL TOO !
Then she shouldn’t have any complaints right. She should be swept up off the market in no time. Less than 50 years at least 😂 right
There is no double standard. Men have to compete as well. Women have always been tied to beauty and youth. Men have always been tied to resources. Provide and protect. Thats western culture.
That’s humanity in general.
Western? My grandfather married 4 wives, and they were younger as they came. It's the nature of men.
@@Nobodyisgreat123ewww
I guess being valued for youth and beauty is frightening because those are fleeting. You can gain wealth as you age. Generally, women like taller and stronger men. We are far less visually stimulated than men but if I had to choose between an older average looking billionaire or a handsome upper middle class guy. I may actually choose the upper middle class guy because if the billionaire us really old that means I may be in caretaker very soon.
Get your passports fuck western culture lol 😆 😅
I’ll be 60 next year and the person who’s pursuing me is 42! He loves it. I do take very good care of myself because I always have.
Will you commit too him if I may ask?
He’s just like smashing because you can’t get pregnant
He has limited options. If he were a top g, he would be pursuing a 22 year old woman.
@@kennethg5460 he definitely doesn't like young women.
@@ALtheelectrician it's a little scary and I really like him
He has talk about marriage down the line
Many women over 50 are looking snatched and better than some 30 and 40 year olds. 😂🎉❤😂
That's a pretty inaccurate statement, but yes, there are women over 50 that still have good looks.
So so sooooo TRUE!!!
ALOT of women over 40 and fifty look waaaay better and carry themselves waaay better!!!!
Classy FACTS👍🏾👍🏾
I rather have an out of shape sloppy 18 year old...than any 50 year old woman.
Where? 😅
Cap Cappy wassup it’s been a while. I see you still Cappin 🧢 🤦🏾♂️
You're an excellent spokesperson and very much accurate in your assessment.
Not accurate, was it a double standard when she was young?
@immanueleburne3216 To each it's own. The path for you versus someone else is possibly and hopefully different. Life will never be a one size fits all. But we can share our version of our own journey. That's all. Everything in context isn't a right or wrong. It's a testament. So yes, brother, it's accurate based on her experience.
@@desireesimmons842 although your comment may be correct with old proverb and cliché, her assessment is not accurate because she can also talk to younger men which would sure the thought of there being a double standard. Her journey is her own. I only mentioned the double standard or the lack thereof
@@immanueleburne3216 Okay.
damn this woman is absolutely stunning. doesn’t look her age at all
Not at all!! I thought she may have dyed her hair grew on purpose. I know that was a trend at one point in time, but she is absolutely gorgeous ❤.
@@Qbabe2448 me too ! honestly thought she dyed her hair grey too lol
Oh wow, seriously? Just..wow. Smh.
I'd like to see her non gray that def gives it away . Skin and face is perfect
Yes she do all you see is hear face
She definitely did not lose her youth at all, she's beautiful. Reminds me of mom. 💯🥰
Umm sounds a bit weird.
@@macalpha5499Very 🎯
@@macalpha5499😂😂
😂 I was about to hit that like 👍 button on your comment until you put. "Remind me of mom"
This has to be a woman saying this
She can never lose her glow. She shares the same vibes as ( Claire Huxtable) ❤❤❤❤
Great comparison!
She already lost it, now her old washed up a** is over 50 still complaining 😂😂😂
Phyllica Rashaad has been married 3 times and Claire Huxtable is a fictional character. So basically this "glow," is completely fabricated. 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
She does have those vibes spot on.
She looks amazing. But she even knows back in the day she was way badder.
Ro. Always on point.
I just remembered when growing up, people who were in their 50s were mostly married and had kids, and were expecting grandkids. I want to know what changed from 30 years ago?
Crack cocaine and Hoetry!
Feminism
Women stop wanting families and want a promiscuous lifestyle instead of, now many 40’ish men want younger women instead of the women that rejected them 20 years ago
A big gov sponsored program called immorality. And empowerment. A big lie on society. It's ruined their minds
Black men stopped proposing marriage at younger ages. MEN PROPOSE marriage and it has been very low in the community for generations now.
Regardless of your age... If you take good care of yourself, you are GOD fearing & you have good feminine energy, then a good man is waiting nearby to pick you up...
Make sure you are authentic...
You don't have to compete with anyone...
N not all of their bank accounts grow. These younger males are making a lot more money due to entrepreneurship and etc…
So, being an older man being equated to him having money is getting a lil played out right now.
True.The younger guys are gradually earning more money than the older guys.
@@Wonderwoman79GI’ve noticed that too! A friend of mine is 28 making $82k and is about to get promoted soon! I saw another video of a 25 year old that paid $35K for good finances wedding ring. He said he bought it because money is of no consequence to him.
Especially when the old guys mismanaging their money their whole lives and have nothing to show for it
Actually it isn't. A man's highest earning potential is between the ages of 45 - 60. Young guys may make a lot of money, but do they know what to do with it?
In fact, the report found that 49% of individuals making over $100,000 per year were living paycheck to paycheck this April.
It's not what you make, it's what you keep. In accounting, you would never look at income alone. What's their networth? What does their balance sheet say? What does their statement of cash flows say?
Don't be swayed by big numbers. It's all relative.
Umm.... what??? From the millennial gen on down, men are on the whole making LESS than their parents did. Successful entrepreneurs are typically over 40y/o. Young, high earning entrepreneurs are mostly an internet myth, they exist in such miniscule amounts they have no bearing on median or average earnings. The generational earnings/wealth gap is growing and it certainly doesn't favor the youth.
Ro you ain't lost no beauty believe THAT!!💯🔥
Why we not talking about how gorgeous she is and what she just said about being over 50!!!!😮
@@chammybanks3516 I would let her fart all in my face honey
I would let her fart all in my face honey
She looks average
@@professionalpookieShe looks average over 50? I don't think so.
@@professionalpookieFacts
I'm 68 years young and YOUNGER MEN ALWAYS PEEPING me out because I take care of myself ... btw my man is 69 years young and we Rock !!
#60'sthenew40's
they just want sexual experience from an old women so that they can take that experience and use it with the younger women. stop coping
Those younger Men don't want you. You're a 70 year old Woman. Stop with that BS. If they're " peeping you out" it's probably because they have a fetish, and want to fu@k an old Woman. Kind of like Kellen Winslow jr.
What do "YOUNGER MEN" want from a 68 year old woman?
@@FunkyFanthom nothing but a NUT. They never stop to ask themselves that question
Ma’am you have about 12 years left. 60 is not the new 40
Most women become really nice people when they are about 50, but they tend to forget about the previous 35 years when they treated everybody else like trash!
Yep! And many of them spend alot of time purposely corrupting and misleading the younger women. If younger women have successful relationships, it would make those very women have to eat all the nonsense they've been spreading. Misery loves company!
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Facts 💯
😅💀😅
Becoming nice is 1 of many byproducts of hittin the infamous yet undefeated wall 😅
When a person looks like they like themselves, their view is priceless. The package is the view of those that like themselves. To not work on ones appearance, physically and mentally, how to be attractive isn't conducive to being able to understand enough about ones selfworth of ones worth. A person who looks like they like life, they become more attractive to be a choice made; character is priceless...
Keep the youngins..I'm not one of those men..I love a beautiful mature woman, mind body and soul.
Only 20 likez humm...
I feel but older women can come with a lot of baggage
kid older then you lol @@TGT2012
To be honest young and old come with headaches. Young ones want you to buy them nice things while nagging you an if she already have child package deal. Old ones want you to rebuild her house, fix her roof and toilet leak as well want nice things while nagging you an if she have a grown son that lives with her gone be problems for you.
Until she go thru changes and can't keep up with you. Shit only sound good and be good for temporary situations. Trust ya boi.
She looks younger than some women that are actually younger
She’s still in menopause though.. she can’t reproduce
No………she doesn’t! 👊🏽😒
@dennissmith7214 not that she young but a lof of women in their 30s look much older than her
Absolutely true, she look younger than a lot of women in there late 3/9's early 40's
Yes that's natural beauty
Over 50 and still doesn’t understand that women and men are different.
Bingo !!!!
And it's sad, really
Of course men and women are different. When a woman gets angry she may not talk to you or talk about you in her support groups. When a male gets angry he's just going to end up trying to ki** the girl so we know.
She can’t compete with females anymore, so she competes with men. Sad
Any time I hear double standard I think the same thing.
Its not a Double Standard. Its a Preference. Not all Men prefer younger Women. Its whomever you're attracted to for whatever reason. Im an older Gentleman but even when i was young i was attracted to More Mature Women.... Like yourself. You're Amazing.
We all need to stop judging each other based off what we like or prefer and just seek Healthy, Faithful and Loyal Relationships based on Love. IMO.
I'm over 50 and I would date Rolanda in a heartbeat......
Couldnt see your pic. There’s 2 kinds of over 50. The one who’s fit, healthy & handsome and then the one who has let themself go. Which would you consider yourself to be? Genuinely curious
@@Yolanda-lr4pqI'll give you a hint. An in shape 50 year old doesn't see women like her
@@fightsims1252 Are you referring to Rolanda ?
@@Yolanda-lr4pq I work out and try to eat healthy. Women do say I am handsome. Rolanda is a very beautiful woman. As a man over 50 Id prefer to date women closer to my age. We tend to share the same values and goals at this point in our lives.
@@rb7915-v9k thats the key. I got time today and everyone is entitled to their preferences. But if we’re going to tell then we’re gonna tell it all. Cause some of these cats are not the prize. And some of us over 50 are still holding it down. Put some Respek on us seasoned to perfection women. We Outchea and we ain’t thirsty either. (We ain’t gon keep waiting for y’all to come to your senses. When you realize you can’t dance to the Migos 😩
It’s not a double standard, it’s a different standard. MEN AND WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO DIFFERENT THINGS!!!
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Exactly!!!
I’ve observed people enough to know that that is a lie, and if you believe it, you’re not paying attention. The average women don’t like old ass men,some of them just be using the ones with money, just like they would use ANYBODY with money. That’s not the same as actually being attracted to someone. By and large, women are attracted to men their own age…
Exactly…if she was 25 and I was 25 and NOT financially successful she may date me but look for a better option …fast forward to when im 50 and now have built myself up into a good income why would I see her as my reward when I can attract younger females who are a better option than she is
@@sweetwonkahallelujah7016your first problem is thinking some younger girl would want some 50 year old needing Viagra prescription.... she's got preferences as well
Forget men! Love the ones who love you. Those kind will die alone. Like the old man on Martin said "Old fools used to be young fools".
No Man has ever told her This. She's been told this By Other Women
Forget western women. To the men remember these two things. First, women out number men. That means as a man you have the advantage in your options. Choose wisely. Secondly as a man you can simply renew your passport and get an attractive, friendly, respectful, family oriented in shape woman.😅 You win!
@@ericb9655You are 100% RIGHT! #Passport BROS.
Ro speaking facts!!!!💎
My wife is 15 years older and after 34 years of marriage, she still Wonder Woman strong. When you are older, you know what you want and it's the heart and mind of a person that matures and matters.
And she probably takes care of you.
@@begoode2385😂😂😂💯💯💯💯
@@begoode2385 - you don’t know that...maybe not.
Are you the beta in the relationship or the leader?
My wife is older than me and I hold it down paying Mortgage, car payments, bills, etc. We’ve been together 20 years and I pursued her. I’m 39 now and still have plenty more years and fight left in me. She brought out the best in me so every situation is different.
Younger men love older women believe that! 😘
That part❤
Tell prepare to be a Pay Master that's the only way to gone keep that young piece of shit Bitches you not Pattie LaBelle
EXACTLY
Why they aren’t marrying those women either!
💯 I'm 42 and have always been attracted to older women.
What she forgot to mention is, majority of men at 50 look 35-40 and have secured themselves financially. She older and fine but, that ain't gonna keep a young nigga. Moral is, get married and be with who wants you. That way by the time your this age. NONE of this matters.
100% correct.
No these men don’t look good and you’re lying if you say she ain’t a beautiful older woman
True
Majority of men at 50 do not look 35 or 40 that is incorrect.
@oncode7735 she still less valuable to a younger man, rather than an older man to younger woman WAKE TF UP baby girl
Its not actually a double standard because an older man and a younger woman can still have children together whereas an older woman can't have a child regardless of how old the man is !!! We're not the same and to think so is beyond delusional !!!!
A woman’s asset is her looks whereas a man’s asset is his wallet, so it’s not a double standard!
Thank you
It's the reality unfortunately among sensual people. It's all transactions and trade
A woman’s true and most important assets are not her looks. And a man’s true and most important assets are not his wallet. This world is full of superficial numb nuts.
If he's old and ugly wit it aint no body checking for his wallet either. 🤣
It's the culture, today a woman can be rich as f, truth men gonna hit and run with other young chicks. When men get they still run with the same young chicks.
Women love a man with looks until his paper ain’t right….. then it’s the best man available….
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Bs, it’s too many women with broke men and even taking care of them to say that. They be loving the men’s dirty draws, and just be happy to have a man in their bed or face !
Seems like most guys that have paper are not lookers. This is why you see pretty women with unattractive men.
The money is way more important
Money doesn’t make the man or determine the success of the relationship. Looking for a man for money, is a shallow pursuit.
She's gorgeous!! She still looks like she's in her 30's.
Makeup
She looks great but not 30 though maybe 40.
Her face is still youthful looking and attractive no doubt about that, especially for 50. I would agree the suppleness of her skin is still in the 30's category.
@@rashb3994 🧢 I seen her in person without all the filters she definitely don’t look thirty. She definitely looks like an older woman.
@@rashb3994 my wife is 31 she took a picture with her and she looks significantly younger 🤷♀️
All women must compete, especially if u want a high value man, or a high value man with money, plus if u want to be married, hopefully u were raised to be a wife.
It be the pregnant men!!😂😂😂
😂 sometimes with triplets.
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Yeah...they be looking at you because your body may be changing..but sitting there looking like an old gray double chin pregnant man
But would you talk to yo hippo friends that way? 😂
Truth is, men of all ages choose the women who aren't thinking about this type of shit at all. We want women who are in a totally different thought process than the 98.5% of other women in society. We sleep sleep with women who are the norm but, choose the women who have the desire to operate purely in their own unique existence. BE YOU because comparison is the killer of joy
Facts
@vfree4579 killer of Joy says the ancient Africans who Theodore Roosevelt stole it from! Stand down and stay on code it's not a contest and your need to correct my text is exactly what the quote is about.
Real talk💯
amen
Word
She hasn't lost a thing !! Sis bad !! ❤❤❤
Its all about mind-set and maturity. Things work fine when like-minded, mature people meet.
At 50+ she’s bad!! What was she doing at 20 if she’s trying to be chose at 50?😢
Playing the field. And trust me, she could probably get a man of means but most men know she's a "piece of work".
She was OUTSIDE ‼️‼️‼️😅😅😅😅😅
It's hard to say with her. But. If I were to guess. She was playing the field when she was younger. Hit that wall. And couldn't get into a serious relationship, because many of the men her age are involved. Or, she still has the 20 year old mentality. Chasing young meat. And is using the double standard as a scapegoat. If she perfers younger men. That's fine. But let's stop the b.s. We all get old. But many of us men and women aren't trying to get with a younger person.
She looks very healthy, in mind, body, and spirit. 50 plus is an age where you have the face you deserve. She clearly is NOT crazy and a piece of work. She could be divorced or widowed.
Why are you projecting a life on a complete stranger? Even married women talk about the double standard. And at 50 men are bad too is the point. No young woman looks at older men for love.
As a older woman 47 years old who dates even older men who are usually 15 years or 20 years older than me I can vouch for what she's saying. Men in their fifties and sixties and who claim they still have the same stamina as a 25/30 year old male all the lies LOL😅 energy is not the same as it used to be and mind you these are usually men who work out and take care of themselves but still all of us will meet our Fate when it comes to getting older in fact I embrace it I think the key in life is to have a youthful outlook on life I'm staying in tune to your inner child I don't mean be immature I just mean always have a adventurous mindset that's what keeps Young,
I was talking to a man who was explaining why he preferred younger women., I asked him when was the last time he dated a younger woman, he immediately malfunctioned. He was pissed when I told him, “see, your preference is irrelevant.”
That's bc it's difficult to get those younger women. It's not easy unless she's mentally challenged.
If you provide and protect you will be granted more perks
Men compete against each other too. We just do it in a way that makes us both better.
We dont compete we compliment each other
@@denny414CAP🧢 all day who you think you're fooling. 🤣🤣😆
I love me an older woman. I practice what I preach, my wife is nine years older and we are married heading into 10 years. I love her world without end.❤️
Yes, cos she was the best you could do.
Wait until you're 51 and she's 60.
If Idris Elba worked at McDonald's a successful older woman wouldn't look his way but if Rihanna was on frys a man wouldn't hesitate to scoop her up we aren't the same
That’s facts plus tax
That older woman would definitely sleep with him
🎯 they need to add you on this panel..
@Saint_Darius her days are over tho again old woman
Men value looks, women value books. But a man wouldn't pick a woman with "potential" beauty, so why should women pick potential. Unequally yoked is high risk
She is definitely on point!
First of all she’s stunningly beautiful.
Second, all my men been 7-9 years younger than me, so definitely not the case for everyone.
Yes, I’m 40 with a 30 year old provider boyfriend 🎉
@@biancalord488 Thought y'all had an issue with age gap 😂
Women...
@@fightsims1252 When the age gap is more than 10 years most of us tend to have an issue with it.
I am over 50. My last date was with an amazing 33 yr old young man. He kept asking me for an entire year until I said yes. He was perfection ... but too young. My kids are almost his age. SIGHHH
me too!
The minute anyone puts you in a position to have to compete, run.
Thats a loser's mentality.
@@AWesker99 no it’s not if you want to protect yourself.
@@Key-Key444ur right about the run part. They should run from u!
@@damionm944 they definitively should, because games/manipulation I do not play😊
Life is all about Competition....right from the strongest spermatozoon that succeeds in fertilizing the ovum at the expense of millions of "losers" that failed.
Winners don't quit and losers don't win.
She Made A Great Point About Men Aging & I’ve Neva Heard That Brought Up. Most Of These Guys’ Looks & Libido Go Right Out The Window Around The Same Time Women Hit Menopause. I’ll Be So Glad When We All Grow Up & This Man Vs Woman Nonsense Is Done
With Men it gradually declines women's seggs drive falls of a cliff once menopause hits. The low levels of testosterone for seggs is gone. Testosterone which makes them attracted are very low levels or non existent. But to each there own some like young some like old fine Man or Woman.
Women will accept an older man who is less than handsome if he has other attractive attributes like money, status, leadership, protection, etc. Our looks don’t matter to the same degree as a woman’s looks.
Ro is the exception! 🙌🏾
I never bought into this. Yes, I wanted to be considered attractive, but it was always too one-sided to me. I also believe that there is far more to be attracted to than looks. I was taught that looks needed to be backed by intelligence, virtue, sweetness, and common sense.
If you're confident in oneself you exude that in the things you do without making yourself look slutty per say for example. You look in mirror on a daily basis tell you that you are beautiful and you are attractive period...your confidence will prevail an you may start to attract not just any man guy young boy etc you will attract the kind of quality man you need not want...if he meets your criteria and passes your tests then you move accordingly so you don't leap out on faith and guy turns out not to be for you. Watch for games period...
Be fit, feminine, friendly and cooperative first and all the other traits will be icing on the cake.
Men also compete with each other with physical appearance, power (status), and money. It's not just a women's thing.
@MB-iv4mqMen literally but cars and go to the gym to look more jacked and be the "best man" against other men to get women
Females (black) don't compete at all. They wait at the finish line for the winner. They are waiting for that man to just knock on their door.
Energy doesn’t have an age.. you could be over 50 and have a youthful lighter energy than a 20 year old
I know ladies that are older and they have more youthful lighter energy than 20 year old.
Bingo
@@MissLadyG99true
stop gassing up old ass women like thats what men want. this is why men should never listen to women when it comes to dating and what men should be attracted to.
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You spoke the truth sister and by the way you look amazing.