Good advise. However twice a year is too risky. It should be every 3 months. Also responsibilities such as the above case should solely be upon a mans shoulder, women are emotional which can lead to irrationality, thats why a man needs to lead even with an iron fist when it comes to household things. Let her do the groceries as the highest order of things on her list.
Lastly, men shouldn't live life without constantly reviewing every facet of their lives. Always check up on things and people you're associated with. 3 years without checking on your wife is carelessness on steriods. You need to know her routine and break yours once in a while to "check" on her. "Check" on your finances, "check" on your children, etc. Even God has his eyes on things, how much more thina?
Gambling is a disease...ders many marriages which collapsed bcs of dis disease. I feel pity 4her n de poor man who had so much trust in her. Wish I had him as a husband
Dont ever start gambling My cousin lost hed husband her home her family She loved gambling She died a very sad and depressed individual Pls dont gamble 🙆♂️🙆♂️
Yiko umenze isithutha ngoba uphansi cha ubhedile mama usezoba phezuluke uzombona uyangicasula nje wena mama ngathi engakuxosha uyacasula hawuuuuuu mathandizinto
Ngibuhlungu ngalo baba wabantu okhipha izimali kangaka 😢😢3 years angazi ukuthi awusasebenzi hai bo mama yeka le dimoni lokuthanda imali uhlale phansi nendoda yakho uxolise kunokuthi niyohlala emqashweni nezingane 😢
Gambling adiction is a deases , ngeke kubelula ukuyeka. Kuzomele athole usizo. They must go to the bank to make arrangements and then get debt conselling to save the house.
She is what we call isdwanyampuphu. How can you gamble ngemali yomuzi. Worse of all it's not from your pocket, someone is trying to get a home for you and children?? I'm so furious. Imagine the sheriff throwing your children out to the street🤬
Wena mama uyisidwewdwe somfazi ujezisa ukuthi ubaba uphansi yikho wathatha imali eyokwenza into ebalulekile wagembula ngayo uyinto yokubuyiselwa kini nje uyisigebengu somfazi ungambulala umuntu🤞
I know what she's going through, gambling is a serious pandemic. It took God's grace through deliverance for me to stop. Gambling brings shame, I don't judge you my sister, yes what you is such a huge mistake but hold on, and give it to God ❤
It happened to my neighbour,but things are back to normal though kids missed also the vasity life. They're together after separation, i lost R15 000 as well by her but the relationship never ends just tested We are good Things might turn good to them as well
Gambling is a dangerous addiction, please seek further treatment for her Queen Stufuza❤
Mama I feel your pain…. I know what you talking about. May God come through for you and restore everything back no matter your mistakes
Uyingozi lomama futhi uthanda izinto ezisheshayo. Waqala ngokuntshontsha emsebenzini, wagembula ngemali yendlu, okulandelayo uzothwala.
Ucinisile.engikubonayo ayikho lento yokugebhula ulahlekelwa ngokukhulu.ucede ungawini.
Wayibeka mtakababa isgcino kuyalapho...
Ey kunzima bandla.
@@flowbeats_ 🤣🤣🤣
Uyisiwula lomama🤞🏿
It’s important to do inventory every six months as couples to check on things before bigger problems arise.
True, I almost lost my house to gambling but I thank God for my husband. 😢
Good advise. However twice a year is too risky. It should be every 3 months. Also responsibilities such as the above case should solely be upon a mans shoulder, women are emotional which can lead to irrationality, thats why a man needs to lead even with an iron fist when it comes to household things. Let her do the groceries as the highest order of things on her list.
Lastly, men shouldn't live life without constantly reviewing every facet of their lives. Always check up on things and people you're associated with. 3 years without checking on your wife is carelessness on steriods. You need to know her routine and break yours once in a while to "check" on her. "Check" on your finances, "check" on your children, etc. Even God has his eyes on things, how much more thina?
💯
Umfazi ohlakaniphile uyawuvusa umuzi wakhe,oyisiwula uyawubhidliza umuzi wakhe
Kunjalo nje.
Inja yomfaz isdomu ubulala umuzi wendoda enenqondo😭😭inja yesiwula
Amen mfundisi awekho amanye amazing angcono
Stufuza yithi kunyambose ashiye lomfazi uzombulala aze kum nabantwana❤❤❤
Wsmfaka sta_zoft kudala
"''Ikhanda lakho alihambi kahle"' 🤣🤣🤣 seconded
Nami ngi Addicted angisayifaki imali kwi Account cz ngithenga ngayo ivoucher 😢😢😢uMyeni akasanginiki ifown yakhe ngoba ngithenga ngayo ivoucher nd akasangibhalile as beneficiary ngoba usaba ukuthi ngizombulala😢😢😢😢😢😢ngi addicted kakhulu nd uMuzi uyachitheka yiGambling 😢yabona futh umuntu okufundisa leyanto usube engakuthandi
Yhooo amahloni sowuhlala emqashweni nabantwana ngento ozenze wena😮
Ayilomama uyethùsa ikhaya labantwana pho
Awuzilethe lezongane ngizigade kanye nawe ngikugade ungaze udliwe yibank
Sawubona we Ma,
Uma ufuna inhlanhla yemali,yeke Ucansi.
Hawu Ma Afrika Amahle Asibonge impilo Dankoo...
Kodwa impela ngiyavuma ukuthi amathanga ahlanzela abengenamabhodo👀
Demon of gambling
My sista in law she was once there eish you must get help mama😭😭
Nidlala ngamadoda singe awo
Hawuuu!!!!😮😮😮😮
😂😂😂😂and singenawo Simakade bandlala ngawo Jeso mmmm
Ingathi iNkosi ingangilinga ingiphe indoda
Ukube uyazi kuyimanje ngidinga ezolala la eceleni kwami ingibeke isandla
Gambling is a disease...ders many marriages which collapsed bcs of dis disease. I feel pity 4her n de poor man who had so much trust in her. Wish I had him as a husband
😮😢sbindi mfazi 😊kuyefana usazogembula noma engabhadara ubhuti
We must learn as people to stop when things are bad and tell the truth.
Haebo angi understand. Ntwe ngaka mama .Umuzi
Angikaze ngikuzwe okunjena.kunzima ukulahlekelwa umuzi.
Uzenzile akakhalelwa .mudle Kudla kwakhe😂😂😂😂
Ukugembula nje uwumuntu w4sfazane akaze kealunga even indoda vele ugcine usulala phandle ngobuwula nje nokuthandimali usumoshisa indoda amaplans ayo silima esingeneli
Ukugembula kuyiAddiction , udinga usizo sisi Stufuza Pliz
Uma ekhona ama resources sengathi angasizakala shem.
Ngyaze ngayizwela indoda nkosiyam 😢ukuthola unkosikazi onjengawe
Yho mama uthathe i advantage uyisilima somfazi 🙄
This betrayal is beyond my understanding 💔💔💔 angbaz ubuwula obunje nkos yam
Uyabona uyimoshile obaba ngeke basayikhipha imali nothengelwa idrosa no more niyo grocery
After God fear women😅💔
Dont ever start gambling My cousin lost hed husband her home her family She loved gambling She died a very sad and depressed individual Pls dont gamble 🙆♂️🙆♂️
Siyabonga Stufuza awusemuhle ntombi yakithi.lmibuzo yakho icacille.Keep it up.
Yhoooh... Mama unesibindi yeer,mama
Siganwe noma sthenge imoto aii ngeke labantu baneyimfohlo
Mmmm nkosyami ngidabukela lendoda oyiganile mama isgaxa senkinga phela lesi😢
Ey nkos igambling iyisqalekiso emindenin kwaze kwasad ngobaba nkos yam locv unezimfihlo usegambule u3yrs eth 7yasebenza😢phephisa bhuty nkos yam uzamela umnden wakho
Yhoooo ndiyayazi le yegambling yisickness
Uyinkinga mama
Yiko umenze isithutha ngoba uphansi cha ubhedile mama usezoba phezuluke uzombona uyangicasula nje wena mama ngathi engakuxosha uyacasula hawuuuuuu mathandizinto
Ngibuhlungu ngalo baba wabantu okhipha izimali kangaka 😢😢3 years angazi ukuthi awusasebenzi hai bo mama yeka le dimoni lokuthanda imali uhlale phansi nendoda yakho uxolise kunokuthi niyohlala emqashweni nezingane 😢
Yhoo ibuhlungu gamble kunzima uphuma Bethuna yhoo 😢😢😢ndazi kum
Mama ukhohlakele yoo
😮😮😮😮😮
Le eyokuvuka zonke izinsuku uthi uya emsebenzini for 3yrs 😂😂😂 kunzima kanje ukuvuka
Woza kimi Nyambose nabantwana ngizokuthanda mina😂😂😂😂
Hai uyingozi lomama sekumele bayohlala emgwaqeni ngenxa yobudedengu bakhe
Yooh cc bathi isotsha lifela emsebenzini walo singasho nje sithi akwehlanga lungehlanga sesizwela ubaba wasekhaya kubuhlungu ukudlala ngomuntu othulile ngoba uyingozi nami bengingakuxosha Shem umuntu uvuna akutshalile cha cc umbulele ephila bandla
Gambling adiction is a deases , ngeke kubelula ukuyeka. Kuzomele athole usizo. They must go to the bank to make arrangements and then get debt conselling to save the house.
Nope the man has to divorce this woman, she was fired for stealing money now this
Yhuuuu bethuna sisifundo esi soba amaga akazange alunga nkosiyam
Waze wangawucabangeka umndeni wakho umyeni wakho engasebenzi nakahle ezama njengendoda,3 years uqambela umyeni wakho amanga aay kukhona okuwrong ngalomama,ungasaba ukutshela umyeni wakho ukuthi uphelelwe umsebenzi.
Yey waze wadlala ngaye mama kodwa Nkosi yam
Gambling is an addiction, and it is unfortunate 😢
She is what we call isdwanyampuphu. How can you gamble ngemali yomuzi. Worse of all it's not from your pocket, someone is trying to get a home for you and children?? I'm so furious. Imagine the sheriff throwing your children out to the street🤬
Ukube kulo 3 years wawufuna umsebenzi ngabe kade wawuthola
Wamuhle dali Stufuza end uhlalumuhle sheim
Ngyabonga Macingwan❤
Stufuzaa❤always beautiful..kube awushadile ngabe sengbekile amaganyana😊
Kanti-ke oyidlile udle ICALA. Shona khona Mshana 😂
🙆jehova okulandelayo uzogembula ngaye uqobo umyeni wakho ingqondo yakho imfishane unesbindi ungambulala nomuntu ishelter yonke 😭😭
3 full yrs usla imali ngabe uyģqibile indlu ukuybhatala.
Cha wasaba into engelutho mama abantu bahlezi bephelelwa imisebenzi akulona icala lelo
Hayiii engathi akuhambanga kahle kumama uNyambose😂😂😂😂
udlala ngendoda sisi yoo what a humble man
Cha mama wadlala ngelikusasa labantwana kuyo kwentakalani nje ngo muzi
Ngidinga umuzi ucc u gamble ngawo💔😭
Nami ngiyamazi ukhokho wami, she passed on when i was 12 yrs old 😊
Tjooo mama phezu kwezinto zonke waxolela kuthi kudliwe umuzi uyisilima xem and ayikho into oyixolisayo uyabheda
Nyambose mhlampe neyingane akusezona ezakho sekweze Bank 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Inkinga yabantu abakhulele la eMadolobheni abakwazi ukuhlukanisa uGogo noKhulu noKhokho , ungathola ukuthi uSisi ukhuliswe uGogo kodwa uthi ukhokho.
Nami ngibona kanjalo, bavele baphambanise
Nami ngibona kanjalo ukhokho cha angivumi 😂😂😂
I think it is important for the two couple to approach the bank ASAP, to make arrangements for payments, to avoid the repossessing of the house.
Mmm wadlala lomama ngaloBaba
Yhooo lomama thixo caba akawini kengk 😢wandikhumbuza makaz wam kwakungebuhlungu ethathelwa indlu ukthanda kwethu imali
Kodwa mama baningi abantu abangasebenzi naniyolithetha lidlule kunokudliwa komuzi.
Isgebengu somfaz sidlala ngendoda eyyy ukuba wazthathela mina baba nkos'yami😂😂😂😂😂😂
Stufuzaa ni phuzani lapho 🍹🍹🍹🍹🍹🍹😂😂😂😂
Inebhadi lendoda yalomama,empeleni nje yafulathelwa yidlozi noma singaty ke phecelezi inesimo sokubangwa yizidalwa
Let your husband contact the bank and make arrangements either to extend the period or increase monthly payment instead of losing the house
Ulungile nangu Baba bakithi
Uhlulwe yin ukubonisana kuqala cha wawubhidliza umuzi mfazi oyisiwula haw😢😢
Kuningi😅😅
Yoo 😭😭😭 uyisilingo somfazi
Awnaqondo wena ungadlisa umuzi awsacabangeli nabatwana
Yemukela Jesu mama xem
Kha ufake ucinge Shelter kwintozonke😭😭😭
For 3 year no no mama😮😅
angijaji kodwa eyi 3yrs mama is too long😢😢
Unedimoni lokntshontsha namanga sisi. Aliphelanga ngokuxoshwa emsebenzini. Yilwa nenhliziyo engaphandle nenkohlakalo. Waze wayckela phansi indoda iyzamela slima ngempela
Wayekade engahlali ngani phansi kusaqala uSangene logogo ophambene
Wena mama uyisidwewdwe somfazi ujezisa ukuthi ubaba uphansi yikho wathatha imali eyokwenza into ebalulekile wagembula ngayo uyinto yokubuyiselwa kini nje uyisigebengu somfazi ungambulala umuntu🤞
Dingiswayo se FOOT wenza indoda islima
Please those who want to advise this man to leave her ,don't do so because he's obviously going to leave silently
Sengathi ungasizakala dadewethu
Sanibona Stufuza
Mhlawumbe uBlaqLife angabasiza ngokubaxhumanisa baxoxe neBank labo kanye nenkampani yeDebt Review
Jesu kwanzima ngenze njani ngiyeke kugembula Jehovah noma ngiqhubeke yho inzima lento yokugembula kodwa ngoba angikho kakhulu heeeeee ngimelwe ikhanda aibo
Eish uphakathi nawe uhamba ama casino...?
I know what she's going through, gambling is a serious pandemic. It took God's grace through deliverance for me to stop. Gambling brings shame, I don't judge you my sister, yes what you is such a huge mistake but hold on, and give it to God ❤
Hhayi mama ugembule for three years😮
Minamina bengingeke.ngiphinde ngikunike imali yonke into bengixozenzela bengokunika 100 kuphela uthenge drink ngishintshe ama pin namba ama khadi igcobo zakho ngaba 500 kuphela uma ungafuni sehlukane
Fear umuntu wesfazane
Upphila amanga nje lo mama😮
Tiga temfati🙆🙆🙆
It happened to my neighbour,but things are back to normal though kids missed also the vasity life.
They're together after separation, i lost R15 000 as well by her but the relationship never ends just tested
We are good
Things might turn good to them as well
Abashiswe abantu besifazane kade baqala ukuba izinja
Kodwa lena yona iyaxoleka imali nje not cheating
Ay labomama ngibazi kahle ngize ngizibuze ukt izingane Gisele nobani ekhaya sigibela nabo amabhasi ngo ten ebusuku nd zonke izinsiku kukhona no baba abenza lento nd izima kakhulu
Yah kulabantu abalenkinga zamampela phandle lapho sembona lezami zincono
Yoo bafazi gamble gsme. Oyenza nge spare money ngadluli ku r200 or r500 per month uma kubalule ngalendlela. Kunzima thina sifidula sodwa, sakha mizi yengane, ngaphandle kwamadoda, ngoba singenawo. Wena obenenhlanhla uyayikhahlela.
Kodwa ngake ngizitholele unyambose
Uyaythanda imali wantshontsha nasemsebeñzini into esheshayo uyaythanda
Zininzi iziyatha eziphethwe kakuhle