Shera doesn’t play about children. She tells people not to bring their kids around new men that they’re dating - unless they’re older kids. Like able-to-move-out older. So I see why she’s being harsh. If this woman ACTUALLY listened to shera, instead of just one bit of advice (“get the bag”) then she wouldn’t be in this predicament. Because shera makes it very clear to NEVER play about your kids and your own safety.
Exactly. Shera has always been very detailed with her advice and gives layers to her suggestions. Isis chose to skim through Shera's content and didn't actually fathom anything Shera said.
Yes Shera has NEVER condoned being desperate and marrying a man after a week of knowing him. I think it’s ridiculous that people are even trying to blame her.
This is what happens when you push a dangerous agenda for profit. Not everybody is going to catch every single word you say and just move off the main premise you set. But the worship of others supersedes logic these days so 🤷🏾♂️
@@SadesBD listen, even if the guy was broke this could have still happened. I don’t even understand why people are trying to bring Shera or her ‘agenda’ into this.
@@UltraMellaright,people are so delusional. I don’t care to listen to Shera or anyone. I think for myself and if anything my mother would have been enough as my reference. The relationship she and my dad have is enough
Every video I watch, I learn something new about this woman that is not good…..You should react to Aba and Preach’s second video on the topic, they also talk about a lot of the stuff that has been coming out about her
On woman read the court documents , and the man does have a restraining order on him for sexual assault and the case was moved to a higher court , that’s why he isn’t in jail yet because apparently it takes time for them to address child rape , that’s why she posted about it
I am not a fan of Shera, in fact I don't like her. I watched her years ago when I was into witchcraft and Shera NEVER said or encouraged a woman to marry 1 week after meeting a man.
@@tmd-w1552 I agree, she’s not being harsh. But to a lot of women, it would be perceived as harsh words. Women are used to other women putting things nicely to them - even when calling them out for their mess ups. I’ve got myself into some trouble with some friends of my own regarding this. You don’t even have to be insulting - just direct and to the point - and there’s a high chance that your friends who are women will still feel like you did too much or was being mean. I don’t experience that with the males around me though because they’re used to it - from other males. And time that a guy had a problem with how I talk, it’s because he was used to women coddling him and not used to a woman like me (who won’t).
Via Maryland public court records 3/2021-5/2023 The boys father files for custody and she drags it out for years. She is held in contempt of court for consistently denying father visitation during this time. 11/11/2023 - Her and her husband charged with 1 count DV 9/24/2024 - She's charged with 3 counts of DV 9/25/2024 - She files for CIVIL protective order 9/26/2024 - husband files for divorce 11/14/2024 - her attorney withdrew from case 11/15/2024 - video drops
Why do people think a person having a criminal record means pedos won't touch their kids? That man's niece outed him. She said this girl was stupid for getting on these streets and marrying just anybody. Yes, she's at fault for that, but that man must pay for touching these little girls.
@@sandradube4456 sorry when was this ever stated? Have u even looked at the crimes in particular? How every single one relates to some form of abuse within the household?? And what do u mean the niece outed him?? The niece was defending him and called the wife a liar the one she outed was the wife’s older son lol did u even watch the video? We don’t know what really happened and we don’t have any evidence either one is lying don’t be so quick to pass judgement. I’m not saying she’s lying but I don’t fully believe her either a lot of what she said doesn’t even make sense. Just like ur comment.
4:46 Dee: "Girl.... I wanna fight" The way I laughed out loud bro😭😭😭. On a serious note, I cant stand and respect women who defend men who were accused of heinous shit. Its like a mother speaking for her son. This man is grown, let him handle his own nuts, the fuck
Lets see.... she claimed she was forced 4x in a month of being with the man. The claims only happened when the man filed for divorce ironically. She claimed she could never just leave with the kids in her home but she kept having kids with him also? So he did all this with 3 new kids, claimed she couldnt take kids to the store along with two son's prior him acting like they did dont magically just happen. Asking how the niece knows? I mean when you have a tight family you know these serious moments vs having a distant family you are correct you wont know. The same way people are critical of the nieces perspective but not able to use that same logic on the mother? This woman only decided to do this all upon the moment she realized she wouldnt be getting much during their parting. I have a niece I treat like my daughter and im her god father at that. Of course she would be around my wife and kids on a big sister level. So I am not sure how you think some big sons rubbin booboo everywhere wouldnt be known to a close niece??? like lets be grown about this seriously. Nothing that woman said added up to any level of sense from the he "graped me 4x in the first month" but stayed and had 3 kids? I feel absolutely no sympathy for the guy because he also had 3 kids with this character of a woman. She scrubbed the videos on her channels for a reason. The "receipts" are pretty sketchy also as me being an attorney I will easily be able to tell you that this woman has had some close encounters with CPS and chaotic relationships to have paperwork from more than one relationship. When you deal with family court and the law upon examination of the kids that man wouldve been done for. So the way the order is written its the affidavit part meaning its her explaining to the court.
RealTalkWithYanie another TH-camr on here looked up the case number she showed. The case is closed now. The only thing gotten out of it was a protective order, but the man is not in jail. The only case that’s open is the divorce case.
In reference to why they’re distrusting of the cousin vs the mom (initially at least), is because it’s not likely for a parent to create a heinous lie like this. But it IS likely and COMMON, for family members to protect abusers and tyrants by creating counter lies or pretending they’re a saint and calling the ex “crazy” and making the ex a bad guy/girl. Which then causes people who love drama, to start victim blaming and making the abuser a saint. Especially if the victim is a woman. The only time a male victim is mocked, is when it’s SA or grape, and sometimes domestic violence. If the DV isn’t extreme, then people look at him sideways like he’s a punk for not yoking her up or leaving. People are at least cognizant that it’s fishy for the niece to counter and not the husband or one of his more direct family members, such as a sibling whose more likely to have a close relationship and be one of his confidants. I have nieces/nephews. I’m not telling them the ins/outs of my personal life, even when they become adults. It’s more likely she’s passing along family hearsay than direct info. But either way, in my opinion she was irresponsible in regard to the children. There’s no way around that, when there was a crap ton of obvious red flags. The only victims in my eyes are the children.
@@katriana_young You would be surprised how extremely common this accusation is for mothers and wives in divorce/family court. In my 17 years of practicing I lost count after 5 years in. Its the most extreme thing to accuse to promise custody during divorce procedures and a method regularly used. Since there are zero legal consequences if the statements are unsubstantiated you will see countless women do this exact same claim. While she showed the affidavit "sworn statement" to the court and attempted to pass it off as a "judgement" from the court should really alarm anyone to the ruse she tried. I 100% agree with you on other aspects though with the kids being the true victims in the outcome of the chaos. The red flags she mentioned are most likely lies, in my years I have never heard of a woman having 3 kids with someone who graped them 4x in the first month of the relationship. So in my professional experience when someone can lie about something that wild "for no other reason than pressing the monster narrative" you better believe there are no limits on their imagination after that. I believed the niece had more of a believable claim because its not common for a pred-tor to swing on both sides of the fence let alone with their own kids they helped create and with no criminal pattern of anything close to that behavior. Can family members be hearsay advocates? sure but as I said most people who have bad family experiences relate them to the mass majority of family bonds. When you come from a family of structure you dont have to be a confidant to get information. The niece like my own or many other god kids in general will usually babysit. When you babysit you get to hear everything from the kids because you arent their parent and they naturally see you as a bigger sibling over time. The final biggest flag is the family court would never let this accusation slide without a judgement of prison time. I would say we can review the case information but juvenile cases are sealed which is explained to both parents during family court proceedings. So its another reason why if he isnt serving time its a very big red flag. If he is the "take care of my wife while she stay home" man as she praised him to be prior him filing for divorce, it would mean the sons were the primary people around the kids more than the husband/dad would ever be since he would 9/10 require long work hours. The biggest question I had for the man is why would you marry a woman with kids who left their prior man in a odd way who was instantly ready to settle down. People say the man rushed her but i highly doubt it because she was in a rush to move in due to being homeless so we can maturely deduce she nagged him none stop about the type of "caliber woman" she is and doesnt just shack up. Its how most men get pressured into quick marriages. But from the sounds of it he at least came with some form of prenuptial agreement so the moment he filed to leave thats when all the sudden she explained these events. Most mothers/wives will do these claims to retain child support, 100% custody, and with no visitation unsupervised for god knows how long. This isnt her first rodeo which we can deduce from the way she left the last man.
@@Rome__king I don’t disagree in regard to the mother being an issue and likely liar. My response was more answering why many people aren’t taking the cousin’s statement into consideration. But I feel BOTH parents were red flags and were irresponsible in choosing one another. They BOTH had selfish and foolish intentions in choosing one another. I didn’t listen to any follow up videos from the mother. So I didn’t hear her explain her “receipts”. Because I was suspicious of why she would run to the internet so quick about a subject as touchy as this. My first thought would be to protect my family’s well being in a moment such as this. And I wouldn’t share it as a means to out the man, I would LATER share it publicly (likely many years later) to help inform others of red flags to protect themselves. I never got that intention from the mother. The red flags I was referring to in my previous comment, were in regard to her explanation of how their connection started and how she revealed he was quick to enter into a connection and move her in. Like who in their right mind would not find that concerning in some way? But it was apparent her motives were not pure and were self-serving across the board…so OF COURSE she wasn’t looking out for red flags of a possible toxic connection. 🙄 But I’m reading other comments that mention these “receipts”. And you’re correct. If there are people who are fully watching these videos and follow ups…they should put things together. Honestly, I think both sides are untrustworthy to different degrees and for different reasons. The cousin shouldn’t have outed the son. None of the adults are properly protecting these girls and their unfortunate experience!! They’re just focused on drama and outing one another 🤦🏾♀️… I believe there is truth and lies to various degrees from both parties. Because both parties aren’t focused on the right things. And I feel that healthy AND unhealthy families communicate but in different ways. Because we confuse close families for also being healthy…and they’re not synonymous. And just because families may be selective of who and how they share information, doesn’t mean they’re not close. I feel a healthy family supports while ALSO holding the family member accountable and will provide wise counsel that helps protect and guide towards amicable, mature solutions as much as possible. Unhealthy families will communicate and simply just blindly support, never hold their family member accountable to how they contributed to their own stressor, spread family gossip, and rile up drama versus focusing on creating a peaceful environment that’s conducive to maturely handling things.
3:11 when kids are smearing themselves and their surroundings with their own poop - it’s a self defensive mechanism kids use to protect themselves from being abused physically or $exually. It’s a subconscious mechanism they use to make themselves “unappealing” and disgusting to their abuser so that their abuser is hopefully so grossed out by the child that they stop coming near the child and stop touching the child. Also mentally ill in insane asylums that are now proven to have $exually abused and r*ped the inmates in them also have a reputation of smearing themselves and their surrounds in their own feces. So yeah - if you ever have a kid smearing themselves in poop, sure it can just be the kid being “naughty” but you might want to keep an eye on what is going on with that kid and who is coming into contact with that kid when adults who can protect that kid is not watching. Almost always in cases where a boy starts acting out out of nowhere - something deeper is going on with him. However most little and even older boys are so ashamed of being $exually abused by a man or woman bc of the perception they are raised with that boys need to be tough or that being touched by a man might mean they are gay (kids use something being gay even to this day as an insult) so they will stay silent or refuse to divulge the truth even when you question them. You need to help them open up to you gently and without shaming or stressing them out and if you can’t do it then take them to a child psychologist. I saw this happen in my male cousins case - people labelled him a weirdo or an abnormal child but some very freaky messed up stuff was going on at the Catholic all boys school he went to that he never told his parents about.
3:09 true I looked it up . They feel a sense of control of their own body . Way of seeking attention or some unrelated issues.she shouldn’t have brought the kids issues on the internet.its not like she was a big family influencer . She had a channel about herself.why bring your kids issues just say that you’re changing your channels message that’s it . Talk about YOUR abuse , not your kids.she knows her content is controversial and that there are people who won’t agree.she didn’t bring in evidence at first , apparently he ain’t in jail .so what’s the point of telling your audience?
RealTalkWithYanie another TH-camr on here looked up the case number she showed. The case is closed now. The only thing gotten out of it was a protective order, but the man is not in jail. The only case that’s open is the divorce case.
Protective order ain't no damn receipt. She basically threw all her business on the table, but didn't show any REAL receipts like photos, police reports, text messages, audio/video footage, and etc. This don't add up at all.
@@RD-nm2xj Come on now, I'm talking about video or audio footage of a discussion or argument between the two. Photos of bruising, and etc. She had the mentality to post all her business on social media, but not make sure she has obvious proof.
Do you really think she would nuke her whole online presence, in an embarrassing humbling way, having to admit her mistakes, out her self, if all this wasn’t true? This ‘niece’ has no business yapping. Sticking her nose in, no proof. She needs kindness, she’s alone with 5 kids, and dealing with a lot. Don’t be mean to her. This is huge, terrifying, traumatic, and she’s not got a mom or anyone with her. Shes alone. 🎉Don’t be mean, she needs to be mentally stable and well to look after the kids.
@@LIVEFRMNYC Thats still super weird. You want photos of her little girls bruised up…? Who are you? She doesn't owe u anything. She already went to the police and the confirmed everything she said hence the documents she provided
She should've never put this shit out publicly in the first place. These kids never chose to be public figures and now her kids' traumas and abuse is public knowledge to the whole world. More importantly, it's public knowledge to the people in her social circle (people who actually know her kids). It's incredibly hard for survivors to open up about their traumas, now everybody knows about it before they can even understand it themselves.
Ok so another content creator. Pulled court records for Isis and her husband. There were multiple closed cases Isis filed. Soooo. Just bc he wasn’t arrested doesn’t mean he wasn’t arrested. I’m sure this man is well connected. Y’all victim shaming..
$90k a year is not a lot of money when you have 2 kids and want to provide them a comfortable life. I have no kids I make 6 figures it’s not a lot of money in this economy these days
Maybe you should listen to the niece. Her story sounds a lot more plausible. And don’t be lying. If your brother who you know deep down is being accused of something like this you would come out and defend him. With receipts of course.
2 things can be true at the same time.....all this ish sound wild af. And all that the niece wasnt there so why believe her talk is 100 percent correct, but who is closer to the situation...us or the niece lol. Because not 1 damn soul in this comment section was there either so our opinion means exactly as much as hers if not less lol
If she lied she lied 🤷🏽 tell the truth and shame the devil 👿💯 money is the root to all evil 💯 y'all going to be in a basement cashing money 🤦🏽 God honest truth 💯 y'all don't need kids because you don't know the value of life 🧬 Not even your own!!!
Sprinkle, sprinkle said don't put her name on that foolery. 😂😂
And they shouldn’t!!! If you really watch her videos she literally gives us game
Tbh i wouldn't follow advice of dating from nobody but Jesus but its not the lady fault though
Shera doesn’t play about children. She tells people not to bring their kids around new men that they’re dating - unless they’re older kids. Like able-to-move-out older. So I see why she’s being harsh. If this woman ACTUALLY listened to shera, instead of just one bit of advice (“get the bag”) then she wouldn’t be in this predicament. Because shera makes it very clear to NEVER play about your kids and your own safety.
Exactly. Shera has always been very detailed with her advice and gives layers to her suggestions. Isis chose to skim through Shera's content and didn't actually fathom anything Shera said.
Yes Shera has NEVER condoned being desperate and marrying a man after a week of knowing him. I think it’s ridiculous that people are even trying to blame her.
This is what happens when you push a dangerous agenda for profit. Not everybody is going to catch every single word you say and just move off the main premise you set. But the worship of others supersedes logic these days so 🤷🏾♂️
@@SadesBD listen, even if the guy was broke this could have still happened. I don’t even understand why people are trying to bring Shera or her ‘agenda’ into this.
@@UltraMellaright,people are so delusional.
I don’t care to listen to Shera or anyone.
I think for myself and if anything my mother would have been enough as my reference.
The relationship she and my dad have is enough
Shera read that lady for filth! She roasted her. I’m DEAD!!! 💀
Every video I watch, I learn something new about this woman that is not good…..You should react to Aba and Preach’s second video on the topic, they also talk about a lot of the stuff that has been coming out about her
On woman read the court documents , and the man does have a restraining order on him for sexual assault and the case was moved to a higher court , that’s why he isn’t in jail yet because apparently it takes time for them to address child rape , that’s why she posted about it
she deleted them all, lol
I am not a fan of Shera, in fact I don't like her. I watched her years ago when I was into witchcraft and Shera NEVER said or encouraged a woman to marry 1 week after meeting a man.
Thnkuuuuuuu
Shera is being harsh, but it’s cause she don’t play about children.
I don’t think she’s being harsh at all I don’t even like her or her content but I agree trying to blame her for any of this is stupid
@@tmd-w1552 I agree, she’s not being harsh. But to a lot of women, it would be perceived as harsh words. Women are used to other women putting things nicely to them - even when calling them out for their mess ups. I’ve got myself into some trouble with some friends of my own regarding this. You don’t even have to be insulting - just direct and to the point - and there’s a high chance that your friends who are women will still feel like you did too much or was being mean. I don’t experience that with the males around me though because they’re used to it - from other males. And time that a guy had a problem with how I talk, it’s because he was used to women coddling him and not used to a woman like me (who won’t).
No she not being harsh she bein real tht mom stupid
Via Maryland public court records
3/2021-5/2023 The boys father files for custody and she drags it out for years. She is held in contempt of court for consistently denying father visitation during this time.
11/11/2023 - Her and her husband charged with 1 count DV
9/24/2024 - She's charged with 3 counts of DV
9/25/2024 - She files for CIVIL protective order
9/26/2024 - husband files for divorce
11/14/2024 - her attorney withdrew from case
11/15/2024 - video drops
Interestingggg her attorney dipped??? That’s crazy this is getting ridiculous
Wait what??
Why do people think a person having a criminal record means pedos won't touch their kids? That man's niece outed him. She said this girl was stupid for getting on these streets and marrying just anybody. Yes, she's at fault for that, but that man must pay for touching these little girls.
@@sandradube4456 sorry when was this ever stated? Have u even looked at the crimes in particular? How every single one relates to some form of abuse within the household?? And what do u mean the niece outed him?? The niece was defending him and called the wife a liar the one she outed was the wife’s older son lol did u even watch the video? We don’t know what really happened and we don’t have any evidence either one is lying don’t be so quick to pass judgement. I’m not saying she’s lying but I don’t fully believe her either a lot of what she said doesn’t even make sense. Just like ur comment.
4:46
Dee: "Girl.... I wanna fight"
The way I laughed out loud bro😭😭😭. On a serious note, I cant stand and respect women who defend men who were accused of heinous shit. Its like a mother speaking for her son. This man is grown, let him handle his own nuts, the fuck
I love Dee she is my fav TH-cam girly. I have watched for years.she doesn’t change her true self❤
This is spiritual.
I agree. God protect all victims involved 🙏🏾
The tea is too bitter
Shera will sue you if foolishness is attached to her name, she said this a few days ago yall be careful 😂
I feel like Shera and Dee would make great friends 😂 idk why
Lets see.... she claimed she was forced 4x in a month of being with the man. The claims only happened when the man filed for divorce ironically. She claimed she could never just leave with the kids in her home but she kept having kids with him also? So he did all this with 3 new kids, claimed she couldnt take kids to the store along with two son's prior him acting like they did dont magically just happen. Asking how the niece knows? I mean when you have a tight family you know these serious moments vs having a distant family you are correct you wont know. The same way people are critical of the nieces perspective but not able to use that same logic on the mother?
This woman only decided to do this all upon the moment she realized she wouldnt be getting much during their parting. I have a niece I treat like my daughter and im her god father at that. Of course she would be around my wife and kids on a big sister level. So I am not sure how you think some big sons rubbin booboo everywhere wouldnt be known to a close niece??? like lets be grown about this seriously. Nothing that woman said added up to any level of sense from the he "graped me 4x in the first month" but stayed and had 3 kids?
I feel absolutely no sympathy for the guy because he also had 3 kids with this character of a woman. She scrubbed the videos on her channels for a reason. The "receipts" are pretty sketchy also as me being an attorney I will easily be able to tell you that this woman has had some close encounters with CPS and chaotic relationships to have paperwork from more than one relationship. When you deal with family court and the law upon examination of the kids that man wouldve been done for.
So the way the order is written its the affidavit part meaning its her explaining to the court.
RealTalkWithYanie another TH-camr on here looked up the case number she showed. The case is closed now. The only thing gotten out of it was a protective order, but the man is not in jail. The only case that’s open is the divorce case.
In reference to why they’re distrusting of the cousin vs the mom (initially at least), is because it’s not likely for a parent to create a heinous lie like this.
But it IS likely and COMMON, for family members to protect abusers and tyrants by creating counter lies or pretending they’re a saint and calling the ex “crazy” and making the ex a bad guy/girl. Which then causes people who love drama, to start victim blaming and making the abuser a saint. Especially if the victim is a woman.
The only time a male victim is mocked, is when it’s SA or grape, and sometimes domestic violence. If the DV isn’t extreme, then people look at him sideways like he’s a punk for not yoking her up or leaving.
People are at least cognizant that it’s fishy for the niece to counter and not the husband or one of his more direct family members, such as a sibling whose more likely to have a close relationship and be one of his confidants. I have nieces/nephews. I’m not telling them the ins/outs of my personal life, even when they become adults. It’s more likely she’s passing along family hearsay than direct info.
But either way, in my opinion she was irresponsible in regard to the children. There’s no way around that, when there was a crap ton of obvious red flags. The only victims in my eyes are the children.
@@katriana_young You would be surprised how extremely common this accusation is for mothers and wives in divorce/family court. In my 17 years of practicing I lost count after 5 years in. Its the most extreme thing to accuse to promise custody during divorce procedures and a method regularly used. Since there are zero legal consequences if the statements are unsubstantiated you will see countless women do this exact same claim. While she showed the affidavit "sworn statement" to the court and attempted to pass it off as a "judgement" from the court should really alarm anyone to the ruse she tried.
I 100% agree with you on other aspects though with the kids being the true victims in the outcome of the chaos. The red flags she mentioned are most likely lies, in my years I have never heard of a woman having 3 kids with someone who graped them 4x in the first month of the relationship. So in my professional experience when someone can lie about something that wild "for no other reason than pressing the monster narrative" you better believe there are no limits on their imagination after that.
I believed the niece had more of a believable claim because its not common for a pred-tor to swing on both sides of the fence let alone with their own kids they helped create and with no criminal pattern of anything close to that behavior. Can family members be hearsay advocates? sure but as I said most people who have bad family experiences relate them to the mass majority of family bonds. When you come from a family of structure you dont have to be a confidant to get information. The niece like my own or many other god kids in general will usually babysit. When you babysit you get to hear everything from the kids because you arent their parent and they naturally see you as a bigger sibling over time.
The final biggest flag is the family court would never let this accusation slide without a judgement of prison time. I would say we can review the case information but juvenile cases are sealed which is explained to both parents during family court proceedings. So its another reason why if he isnt serving time its a very big red flag. If he is the "take care of my wife while she stay home" man as she praised him to be prior him filing for divorce, it would mean the sons were the primary people around the kids more than the husband/dad would ever be since he would 9/10 require long work hours. The biggest question I had for the man is why would you marry a woman with kids who left their prior man in a odd way who was instantly ready to settle down.
People say the man rushed her but i highly doubt it because she was in a rush to move in due to being homeless so we can maturely deduce she nagged him none stop about the type of "caliber woman" she is and doesnt just shack up. Its how most men get pressured into quick marriages. But from the sounds of it he at least came with some form of prenuptial agreement so the moment he filed to leave thats when all the sudden she explained these events. Most mothers/wives will do these claims to retain child support, 100% custody, and with no visitation unsupervised for god knows how long. This isnt her first rodeo which we can deduce from the way she left the last man.
She was bangin and slangin for a buck.
@@Rome__king I don’t disagree in regard to the mother being an issue and likely liar. My response was more answering why many people aren’t taking the cousin’s statement into consideration.
But I feel BOTH parents were red flags and were irresponsible in choosing one another. They BOTH had selfish and foolish intentions in choosing one another. I didn’t listen to any follow up videos from the mother. So I didn’t hear her explain her “receipts”. Because I was suspicious of why she would run to the internet so quick about a subject as touchy as this. My first thought would be to protect my family’s well being in a moment such as this. And I wouldn’t share it as a means to out the man, I would LATER share it publicly (likely many years later) to help inform others of red flags to protect themselves. I never got that intention from the mother.
The red flags I was referring to in my previous comment, were in regard to her explanation of how their connection started and how she revealed he was quick to enter into a connection and move her in. Like who in their right mind would not find that concerning in some way? But it was apparent her motives were not pure and were self-serving across the board…so OF COURSE she wasn’t looking out for red flags of a possible toxic connection. 🙄
But I’m reading other comments that mention these “receipts”. And you’re correct. If there are people who are fully watching these videos and follow ups…they should put things together. Honestly, I think both sides are untrustworthy to different degrees and for different reasons. The cousin shouldn’t have outed the son. None of the adults are properly protecting these girls and their unfortunate experience!! They’re just focused on drama and outing one another 🤦🏾♀️…
I believe there is truth and lies to various degrees from both parties. Because both parties aren’t focused on the right things. And I feel that healthy AND unhealthy families communicate but in different ways. Because we confuse close families for also being healthy…and they’re not synonymous.
And just because families may be selective of who and how they share information, doesn’t mean they’re not close. I feel a healthy family supports while ALSO holding the family member accountable and will provide wise counsel that helps protect and guide towards amicable, mature solutions as much as possible. Unhealthy families will communicate and simply just blindly support, never hold their family member accountable to how they contributed to their own stressor, spread family gossip, and rile up drama versus focusing on creating a peaceful environment that’s conducive to maturely handling things.
3:11 when kids are smearing themselves and their surroundings with their own poop - it’s a self defensive mechanism kids use to protect themselves from being abused physically or $exually. It’s a subconscious mechanism they use to make themselves “unappealing” and disgusting to their abuser so that their abuser is hopefully so grossed out by the child that they stop coming near the child and stop touching the child.
Also mentally ill in insane asylums that are now proven to have $exually abused and r*ped the inmates in them also have a reputation of smearing themselves and their surrounds in their own feces.
So yeah - if you ever have a kid smearing themselves in poop, sure it can just be the kid being “naughty” but you might want to keep an eye on what is going on with that kid and who is coming into contact with that kid when adults who can protect that kid is not watching.
Almost always in cases where a boy starts acting out out of nowhere - something deeper is going on with him. However most little and even older boys are so ashamed of being $exually abused by a man or woman bc of the perception they are raised with that boys need to be tough or that being touched by a man might mean they are gay (kids use something being gay even to this day as an insult) so they will stay silent or refuse to divulge the truth even when you question them. You need to help them open up to you gently and without shaming or stressing them out and if you can’t do it then take them to a child psychologist.
I saw this happen in my male cousins case - people labelled him a weirdo or an abnormal child but some very freaky messed up stuff was going on at the Catholic all boys school he went to that he never told his parents about.
3:09 true I looked it up . They feel a sense of control of their own body . Way of seeking attention or some unrelated issues.she shouldn’t have brought the kids issues on the internet.its not like she was a big family influencer . She had a channel about herself.why bring your kids issues just say that you’re changing your channels message that’s it . Talk about YOUR abuse , not your kids.she knows her content is controversial and that there are people who won’t agree.she didn’t bring in evidence at first , apparently he ain’t in jail .so what’s the point of telling your audience?
RealTalkWithYanie another TH-camr on here looked up the case number she showed. The case is closed now. The only thing gotten out of it was a protective order, but the man is not in jail. The only case that’s open is the divorce case.
@@leogoddess9996Plunder is amazing with her research.
8:51 she should’ve had that anger and protection when that baby was crying in the background of that video.
Exactly that niece is a damn lie. SHES NOT EVEN IN THE SAME STATE
Lets start the count on Dee telling everyone to GO 2 HELL. BEGIN 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 didnt take long
Protective order ain't no damn receipt. She basically threw all her business on the table, but didn't show any REAL receipts like photos, police reports, text messages, audio/video footage, and etc. This don't add up at all.
It's literally a court document by the judge. You want a CP video?
Why do u need photos & videos of him committing SA on a child?
@@RD-nm2xj Come on now, I'm talking about video or audio footage of a discussion or argument between the two. Photos of bruising, and etc. She had the mentality to post all her business on social media, but not make sure she has obvious proof.
Do you really think she would nuke her whole online presence, in an embarrassing humbling way, having to admit her mistakes, out her self, if all this wasn’t true?
This ‘niece’ has no business yapping. Sticking her nose in, no proof.
She needs kindness, she’s alone with 5 kids, and dealing with a lot. Don’t be mean to her. This is huge, terrifying, traumatic, and she’s not got a mom or anyone with her. Shes alone. 🎉Don’t be mean, she needs to be mentally stable and well to look after the kids.
@@LIVEFRMNYC Thats still super weird. You want photos of her little girls bruised up…? Who are you? She doesn't owe u anything. She already went to the police and the confirmed everything she said hence the documents she provided
I really wanna know if the auntie wants to fight..because who tf is she.
Receipts! 🧾
I feel like the real issue here is because she coined herself a trophy wife.
What Dee said…I don’t know who these woman are
I guess we'll see what happens. No opinion at the moment, wait and watch 0_0
Same I’m not making no type of judgements the information from the comments alone have me side eyeing this lady tho I must say
This bird went to my high school in Stafford Va
She should've never put this shit out publicly in the first place. These kids never chose to be public figures and now her kids' traumas and abuse is public knowledge to the whole world. More importantly, it's public knowledge to the people in her social circle (people who actually know her kids). It's incredibly hard for survivors to open up about their traumas, now everybody knows about it before they can even understand it themselves.
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Ok so another content creator. Pulled court records for Isis and her husband. There were multiple closed cases Isis filed. Soooo. Just bc he wasn’t arrested doesn’t mean he wasn’t arrested. I’m sure this man is well connected. Y’all victim shaming..
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$90k a year is not a lot of money when you have 2 kids and want to provide them a comfortable life. I have no kids I make 6 figures it’s not a lot of money in this economy these days
Spinale is doing this for attention money, sad! The niece is right unfortunately!
If selling your soul was a person
You should watch one of the videos on tommorows teachings
But Isis seems like a liar so
How do y’all think? It’s crazy for you to say this
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She traded her children for a penny and a gfm.
Maybe you should listen to the niece. Her story sounds a lot more plausible. And don’t be lying. If your brother who you know deep down is being accused of something like this you would come out and defend him. With receipts of course.
wdym? both stories are a lot. and if YOU want to defend a relative, then go ahead. but that doesn't go for everyone else.
2 things can be true at the same time.....all this ish sound wild af. And all that the niece wasnt there so why believe her talk is 100 percent correct, but who is closer to the situation...us or the niece lol. Because not 1 damn soul in this comment section was there either so our opinion means exactly as much as hers if not less lol
I think your anger towards the niece is misplaced.
I don't believe her I think it was the son
This so so weird people are acting like only rich people touch kids like huh do not know the stats
Yall block women hate black men
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His birthday is 10/09 which is also my mothers birthday who is also abusive REASON #698 of why not to trust a libra and this isnt even a joke
You’re so smart
Not a joke? It should be.
If she lied she lied 🤷🏽 tell the truth and shame the devil 👿💯 money is the root to all evil 💯 y'all going to be in a basement cashing money 🤦🏽 God honest truth 💯 y'all don't need kids because you don't know the value of life 🧬 Not even your own!!!