When Being a "Sprinkle Sprinkle" Girl GOES WRONG - "I Married a MONSTER" OMG | Reaction

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  • @LeeLlama-gy1oc
    @LeeLlama-gy1oc 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +419

    To anyone claiming victim blaming: ​She moved her small children from one strange man's house to the next in the SAME YEAR. WATCH at 7:06, she had JUST STARTED SEEING HIM and ASKED TO MOVE HER AND HER KIDS IN WITH HIM. They then got married SHORTLY AFTER. She then got graped by him FOUR TIMES in the first few months so she knew he was a grapist. She made countless bad decisions that SHOULD NOT BE SWEPT UNDER THE RUG for the sake of not "victim blaming", other women should be warned not to do the same

    • @belladonnarose5671
      @belladonnarose5671 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      i think ppl are trying to say that "if it wasn't her, it would've been someone else". yes, she made it easier cuz she wanted to have a marriage but it seems that you're insinuating that because she did that, that's why he did it when that is not the case, he was like that and if she would've made the right decisions, he still would've graped her anyways because.. well... he's taking it by force. if she had ran and left, he would threatened her and her kids because that is what usually happens in these types of situations to scare victims from running away statistically.

    • @destinywilson3162
      @destinywilson3162 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

      Im so use to seeing deadbeat fathers that a man that’s just ready and willing to accept my kids from another man would be an obvious red flag 🚩 they barely take care of their own kids… I wonder did he have kids already 🤔

    • @artbymaree4680
      @artbymaree4680 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      She legit said her husband graped his own children with her

    • @victoriarandolph8084
      @victoriarandolph8084 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      yes but i believe the girls are biologically his. she only came into the marriage with her two sons

    • @ezanderson8834
      @ezanderson8834 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      Also she said she was graped 4x times unless it happened all in the same day but after the 1st time she stayed and kept her kids around a man who graped you 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @alyssag1983
    @alyssag1983 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +240

    she should probably get her sons checked too

    • @gloryonyeugbo5398
      @gloryonyeugbo5398 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

      I agree.

    • @tmd-w1552
      @tmd-w1552 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Facts

    • @shanellmiller-c2t
      @shanellmiller-c2t 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

      Yeah ,I wrote that under her vid before it got popular .so did others.who knows what that demon could’ve done .but because they are boys people ignore or don’t consider that happening to them

    • @asdfghj13579fly
      @asdfghj13579fly 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      And her sons may also get into therapy because even if they were not touched themselves, they may have seen inappropriate behaviors from the husband to the daughters.

  • @devin3955
    @devin3955 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +218

    She and her children probably aren’t his first victims. You don’t just get to his age and all of a sudden start doing evil things. He probably seeks out single mothers just so he has acccess to the kids.

    • @sivialove475
      @sivialove475 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      Agree💯 definitely not his first time…

    • @yolandapaulino5952
      @yolandapaulino5952 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      True, he showed his crazy early on by asking her marriage within the week and she just saw the money

    • @silvermoonstone-hu4ig
      @silvermoonstone-hu4ig 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      this is more true than you think. i used to watch this one guy on youtube who would go on the dark web to interview pdf files, and they always go after single parents or work at places that have access to children

  • @rebeccakinanga1640
    @rebeccakinanga1640 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +207

    I know ya’ll are not gonna wanna hear it because this narrator is pretty blunt, but she didn’t say not one lie. It’s not victim blaming, she made mistakes and we’re discussing them. Who knows maybe this will open some other unfortunate ladies eyes.

  • @Lauren-px7fl
    @Lauren-px7fl 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +110

    There were so many red flags in her story. The first man she was with didn’t like her kids, so she left, and ended up homeless. Then, she met her husband on a dating app, and on the first date, he asked her to be his girlfriend. She moved out of one man’s house and into this new man’s home, who she barely knew, bringing her kids along instead of taking time to focus on herself. When she was looking for a place to stay, he told her she couldn’t live with him unless they were married, so she bought him a ring. She put her kids in jeopardy just to chase the idea of love and having a man. Her decisions seem reckless, and it’s sad how much was compromised in her search for validation. Everything about this is concerning.

    • @babygirl4949
      @babygirl4949 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      That doesn’t sound like she was doing it for love, sounded like she was doing it bc she needed a place to stay and needed to be taken care of which is the downside of depending on a man to take care of you and not having your own. You rush into things bc you want to be taken care of so badly

    • @bonitabarbie
      @bonitabarbie 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Why does everyone believe her story? She has zero credibility imo. She was lying to her subscribers about how happy & perfect they were. I agree with you that it’s probably her. And false allegations are an issue in todays society. I don’t believe her.

    • @silversilver0
      @silversilver0 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You people don't understand and don't the picture as a WHOLE. If she had to resort to that ..let's put out thinking caps on...she was probably desperate or in need. What do predators do? They seek out anyone that is desperate or in a vulnerable position to take advantage of them. If it wasn't her, it would have been another woman. This is what predatory men do, they usually prey on women that have childhood trauma, were abused, lack self confidence, etc. The victim blaming is crazy because not everyone has the same level of awareness. Things that seem like red flags to you might have been nornal to her.

  • @yikes8473
    @yikes8473 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +283

    well firstly, shera made it clear she is NOT a relationship coach she gives FINANCIAL advice. So using her as a guide for your own relationship is insane. But the amount of people bashing shera is even more crazy as this woman was fully capable of making her own decisions and CHOSE to let ppl on the internet influence her life at her big age. anyways i pray her daughters find healing and get the justice they deserve this is absolutely heartbreaking.

    • @jeffgeiger1
      @jeffgeiger1 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

      But she's still giving women advice on how to attract rich men which pertains to a relationship, and even gave advice on how to steal a rich man from a woman. If that's not giving relationship advice then you don't know what you're talking about. Not blaming sprinkles sprinkles , but we can't act like she wasn't giving relationship advice

    • @afrofrench-american2002
      @afrofrench-american2002 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

      And Shera frequently says to not date or bring anyone around your kids until they're older kids, at least. I've always thought it was reckless for people to have strangers around their toddlers and this is why. They can't defend themselves or communicate like that.

    • @sakpase88
      @sakpase88 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yall know yall don't be caring as long as the bread right lol

    • @PenelopezA
      @PenelopezA 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      ​@sakpase88 "don't be caring" about what? Men being PDfiles? Finish the sentence. Don't hide behind blaming women to avoid calling men what they are

    • @sakpase88
      @sakpase88 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@PenelopezA a lot of yall don't be caring until it's too late. Dude ain't like her sons to begin with, probably harmed them also and she still had kids by him cause he able to make her a trophy wife. Red flags all over and now the kids suffering cause of this creep.

  • @kya2raw
    @kya2raw 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +494

    WHY in every situation a man is wrong people find a way to blame the woman? Wtf is wrong with the world

    • @blueiris1542
      @blueiris1542 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +280

      He's all the way wrong! Nobody is denying that,but she ignore red flags which led to the bad outcome of herself and most importantly her children. Now her daughters have to deal with that trauma for the rest of their life due to their mom's pick me behavior.
      Not to mention she kept selling her audience of women a facade

    • @fefofo6193
      @fefofo6193 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +91

      its not much of blaming cause this can happen to anyone at anytime, but she was so desperate to follow sprinkle sprinkle that she wasnt thinkin bout her kids wellbeing when moving them into houses with random men that she barely knows

    • @djbobby224
      @djbobby224 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +147

      You can be a victim and be the problem at the same time. Her kids are the real victims. They had no say in the people she chose but she did. Instead of trying to find people based on their income how about look at people's character.

    • @leighsweetmelody5085
      @leighsweetmelody5085 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@fefofo6193tbf her kids weren't moving in with a random man. He raped the kids he had with her

    • @leighsweetmelody5085
      @leighsweetmelody5085 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@fefofo6193or if I'm wrong correct me but that's what I heard in a summary of it because I didn't watch her full video

  • @LeoGeminiPassyon
    @LeoGeminiPassyon 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +119

    Being a pick me is the danger. It’s not about being a trophy wife, she heard her daughter crying, saying ouch and stop, while her husband was putting her to sleep and did nothing while being on her grwm live stream. Blame him for the SA, blame her for putting her children in harm’s way for a bag. And let’s be honest, she still has yet to press charges.

    • @tmd-w1552
      @tmd-w1552 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

      Yhhh nah someone take them kids away from this woman pls

    • @lilkeyla5769
      @lilkeyla5769 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      I had no idea about this damn.. I just got recommended her video on marrying a monster and didn't know just how bad the red flags were.. in her stream is insane.. wtf

    • @kamikazeftw
      @kamikazeftw 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What video did her kids cry in?

    • @LeoGeminiPassyon
      @LeoGeminiPassyon 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@kamikazeftw in one of her get ready with me live stream. She even said, “ You can do like I do and just ignore it “. LovelyTi has a video on it released yesterday.

    • @SadesBD
      @SadesBD 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Being money hungry is the danger

  • @DemisedDill
    @DemisedDill 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +72

    As a man, I really appreciated all the comments under her videos from Black women also being concerned about her sons. A good sign to not believe all the men vs women hype. That aside, I feel horrible for this woman, and regardless of what lifestyle choices she made in no way should this be pinned on her. PDF’s are exceptionally skilled at blending in and could genuinely be anyone.

    • @chanise2218
      @chanise2218 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      What are your even talking about???

    • @S.Uranus
      @S.Uranus 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      As a man. She had sons and moved in with a strange man just because she didn't want to work. If she focused on her already existing children and cared about them, she wouldn't have married the old creep and had kids with him. The abused children wouldn't have existed and been abused by their own dad if she actually did her job as a mother. She just wants to be a rich wife, she is obsessed with being a wife and having luxuries. Shame on her.

  • @troilynjackson4683
    @troilynjackson4683 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +72

    This video left out the context that the mother was a product of r*pe (meaning her mother was a victim) and she also was a victim herself in her childhood by a family friend.
    The narrator disregards victims are predisposed to become victims again, which explains why she probably stayed when her husband r*ped her.
    I agree people should take time to determine their partner’s character and move accordingly when they see red flags, and that was a misstep on the mothers part, but taking her transparency on the trauma her daughters and family just experienced as a opportunity to use her as a poster child on “why not to be a pick me” is trifling of the narrator.

    • @sonderson6363
      @sonderson6363 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Exactly this🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @victoriarandolph8084
      @victoriarandolph8084 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      i think she said she was a product of r*pe. meaning her mom was a victim and had her

    • @dd123387
      @dd123387 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      this is my very first introduction to this woman and this incredibly tragic story. I understand your sentiment cuz the moment she said "I thought I could get past" getting ab*sed; that's where my mind went as to whether she was ab*sed before which is how oftentimes this is how this behavior is normalized. HOWEVER, having your children around STRANGERS IN A ONE YEAR was a horrible CONSCIENTIOUS DECISION. POINT BLANK. it amazes me how Fresh & Fit, K. Samuels 👿, Shera, etc have more hold on society than mental health professionals.

    • @sakpase88
      @sakpase88 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      The man ain't like her sons from the jump n she decided to still marry him which lead him to them lil girls. If she getting clowned for her decision it's whatever, only ppl yall should feel bad for is them kids

    • @shanellmiller-c2t
      @shanellmiller-c2t 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I feel for her on that part but she saw the red flags ,she looked at them and still continued to walk towards him ,basically leading her children to becoming victims too .passing in trauma cause she didn’t deal with hers and for the love of money .this is a GROWN woman .she had her own money 90k a year considering her pass is very good .she wanted more money that’s what lead to this .greed.she is a pick me .many pick mes have trauma just like her.they need validation cause of their pass

  • @soggytomales893
    @soggytomales893 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +103

    i hope and prey she gets her sons evaluated too, cause most of the time a pedo is going to touch even the boys too, so i hope she gets her sons checked and if something happen to them get them help

    • @S.Uranus
      @S.Uranus 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      This. She seems to be ignoring this. She needs to check on ALL the CHILDREN and press charges.

  • @paquetdemouchoir
    @paquetdemouchoir 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

    This woman went through a lot, i wish her healing and the best yo her kids 🙏

    • @S.Uranus
      @S.Uranus 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      She had sons and moved in with a strange man just because she didn't want to work. If she focused on her already existing children and cared about them, she wouldn't have married the old creep and had kids with him. The abused children wouldn't have existed and been abused by their own dad if she actually did her job as a mother. She just wants to be a rich wife, she is obsessed with being a wife and having luxuries. Shame on her.

    • @brandond1947
      @brandond1947 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      ​@S.Uranus cool and all but u can still want what's best for her. Thoughts and prayers to her and her family
      I think everybody gets into this weird thing of unintentionally blaming the victim (even if they r dumb) than to give them thoughts and prayers

  • @Emelllll64
    @Emelllll64 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +158

    the people blaming this on shera on unhinged.

    • @bsanon4796
      @bsanon4796 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      I agree, no one should be blamed for this sick man and he deserves the highest of consequences. We can't however ignore this "sprinkle, sprinkle" mindset puts women in tragic situations like this more than is said and should be addressed more by her.

    • @djbobby224
      @djbobby224 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

      Nah the same way people make fun of men listening to fresh n fraud for advice is the same way people should criticize Shera. Both of their advice is for people who are dumb enough to believe it. High value male and a trophy wife are the same thing with different genders.

    • @ihop1571
      @ihop1571 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Blame it on Kevin Samuels.

    • @Max-ec2dj
      @Max-ec2dj 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ⁠@@djbobby224tbh high value man or trophy wife is really idolizing a relationship and it’s often from celebrities one that came to mind was Kim kardshian and kanye west. They seem to mark all the things people would consider ’’high value’’ with looks, money, careers but we also know how it ended. I’m not saying this to be cynical but I just feel it’s the truth. I do think these tyoe of content can turn people against each other.

  • @WavyGregg
    @WavyGregg 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    i think when she said “changing her daughter” i think she was just helping her change her clothes

  • @365partybeau
    @365partybeau 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +70

    yeah this girl was just being oblivious, she ignored so many red flags. an influencer like shera seven can you advice, but at the end of the day you’re a grown woman. take accountability for your actions and decisions you made.

    • @DemisedDill
      @DemisedDill 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I think thats such bull. PDF’s could be anyone. Anyone is capable of hiding sides of themselves from the people close to them. The only way to know half the time is to come in contact with someone they have victimized.

    • @365partybeau
      @365partybeau 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

      @ like i said, she ignored red flags from the start. she became his girlfriend in one day and married him in less than one year. she moved her young boys into his home in only a few months of knowing him. he was r@ping her four months into their marriage. she then decided to have two kids with him knowing the assault he did to her. pdfs can be anyone, but this woman clearly wanted a marriage and chose to ignore his red flags. which she admits to in the video…

    • @slumpswife0593
      @slumpswife0593 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's how she was conditioned...her mum was graped producing her and she was graped before this occured... it's the cycle of abuse​@@365partybeau

    • @shanellmiller-c2t
      @shanellmiller-c2t 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@DemisedDillyes pdfs can be anyone and they are good at hiding .this man was TRIFLING from the start.he showed her when her abused her 4x earlier into her marriage.if that’s not a sign then girl something ain’t right .she saw the red flags but she only cared about a lifestyle

    • @S.Uranus
      @S.Uranus 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@365partybeauExactly.

  • @mvrpesia
    @mvrpesia 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    She is and at the same time not a victim she put herself before her children and didn’t protect them it was TOO MANY red flags and as a mom you can not afford to ignore those things the only true victims are her daughters who got their innocence taken by their parents who only cared about their own wellbeing’s and gratifications

  • @Zoe_lolo3753
    @Zoe_lolo3753 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    When she said "Christian man," I was like please! It's always them. Plenty of them do this. But I feel bad for her babies.

  • @amen2249
    @amen2249 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    My heart goes out to her…Just deplorable- Shera doesn’t promote being foolish- dating apps- etc etc

  • @S.Uranus
    @S.Uranus 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    She's not a good mom. Period. She needs to press charges.

  • @nayatarot777
    @nayatarot777 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I can’t even say that she listens to shera’s advice apart from “date a guy with a lot of money”. Because from what I know about shera’s teachings, she’s against moving in quickly with a guy, she’s against bringing men around children (unless they’re older kids - like teenagers and about to move out older), etc. I usually watch shera’s witchy/spiritual channel, but from what I’ve heard from dabbling in her sprinkle sprinkle content, she’s big on self protection on all aspects. So did she even listen to shera’s advice apart from “get the bag”??

    • @xoliyah6553
      @xoliyah6553 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Right it seems like she watched two 30 seconds clips and ran with it. Shera never condemns this kind of foolishness

    • @nayatarot777
      @nayatarot777 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@xoliyah6553 right! She’d NEVER *condone this type of behaviour. I can imagine shera’s reaction to this. She’d probably be disgusted by the desperation that this woman showed this man. Not to say that Shera’s mean, but we know what she’s put off by. And multiple aspects of this story would’ve had her telling this woman to rethink most of her decisions.

  • @destinywilson3162
    @destinywilson3162 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    So what happened to the man?? Is he locked up unalived?? Or what ??🤔

    • @ihop1571
      @ihop1571 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Fr

    • @dd123387
      @dd123387 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I've been looking for this answer! I swear! the moment she brought her daughters to a physician and it has been concluded that they have been fondled/ab*sed; a report LEGALLY has to happen... but I mean where the details cuz he needs to pay for what he's done!!!

    • @sakpase88
      @sakpase88 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Nothing, she came to social media and made ita go fund me

    • @kamikazeftw
      @kamikazeftw 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I heard she got a temporary restraining order

  • @janeeyx5672
    @janeeyx5672 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    Hey Dee, this “mother” ain’t who you think she is. She been knew about this abuse. There are videos trending right now of her livestreams and you can hear the babies in the background saying “owww” and crying while with the husband. In one clips she says “you just ignore it”.

    • @S.Uranus
      @S.Uranus 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      For real. She had sons and moved in with a strange man just because she didn't want to work. If she focused on her already existing children and cared about them, she wouldn't have married the old creep and had kids with him. The abused children wouldn't have existed and been abused by their own dad if she actually did her job as a mother. She just wants to be a rich wife, she is obsessed with being a wife and having luxuries. Shame on her.

    • @onyeka.g3
      @onyeka.g3 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I just pity the children 😢

  • @TiaLoveex3
    @TiaLoveex3 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Shera says to wait at least a year before marrying & to wait until a child is a lot older before bringing a man until their lives. He did this to his biological children, so there’s really nothing that could have been done besides actually vetting him properly in the beginning.
    She didn’t vet him properly and even when he graped her, she still stayed. She even stated that men with money are more controlling & that women should be more accepting of them, than controlling broke men.
    Shera does not promote putting your children at risk for money. She’s a huge advocate for not being afraid to lose a man, and also leaving when necessary.

  • @akeyrabrooks
    @akeyrabrooks 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    So a few vids resurfaced of her daughters scream and crying ouch whilst she’s doing her makeup on TikTok live, it made me so sick THIS WOMAN KNEW!

  • @salmasalma2p662
    @salmasalma2p662 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    It irritates me that she still says "my husband" and as someone said, she still has the faces of her kids in public

  • @najajackson4123
    @najajackson4123 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Moving in with a man with your children after a very short period of time is odd, and dangerous for this very reason. Allowing your desperation for “love” to cloud your judgement is the worst thing you can do especially if you have children. I hope she gets the help she needs, this is very sad.

  • @sw828
    @sw828 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    The problem with selling yourself to a man in this way is that the type of man who will actually be ok with "buying" you is the type who will consider you his property. They're not dumb like these women think. It's a mutual scam but he's the one with the real power and she will figure it out real quick. I feel bad that she went through that but hopefully she will learn from it and put her safety and her kids' safety above the lifestyle she thinks she wants going forward.

  • @shanellmiller-c2t
    @shanellmiller-c2t 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    THE CRAZY THING IS ,people went looking through her old videos ,in her live,the daughter was upstairs with her dad and u can hear the baby saying “ow owwww stop it “ and she starts crying bro and you can hear him talking in the background,now that may not be the time the incidents happen but it looks bad

    • @Lxqvs
      @Lxqvs 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      What the fuck??? Nah she's disgusting for allowing that

    • @TimmyTOnTheFly
      @TimmyTOnTheFly 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Now where is the actual proof of this? Not from what other people said. What you said explained is all heresy🤡🤦🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤣

  • @elsagrakin2570
    @elsagrakin2570 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    She also followed Kevin Samuels but nobody brings that up. And she didn't even follow Sprinkle Sprinkle advice.

  • @mothicbeauty
    @mothicbeauty 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    So misguided, so sad. She didn't deserve to experience what she experienced, but she is also responsible for putting her children in dangerous situations. She (along with her kids' parent) has already failed them. I pray she can get the mental help she needs and her children can grow and heal past these experiences.

  • @bsanon4796
    @bsanon4796 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Relax sprinkle, sprinkles, no one is blaming Shera or this woman for what this sick man did. We're only addressing how the dark side of this rhetoric is rarely spoken on if at all by these pro-hypergamy influencers. Only the perks, which unfortunately lead women to outcomes similar to this one.

    • @xoliyah6553
      @xoliyah6553 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      No people are blaming Shera and it’s ridiculous, this woman acted out of desperation and did not choose to put her children first. This could happen with any poor or rich man. Shera has always said to never mention your children and to never move out of desperation.

  • @peterrenemator4597
    @peterrenemator4597 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    She was spitting and idc what this comment section is saying. It’s not victim blaming it’s holding people accountable

  • @LuvBaggage
    @LuvBaggage 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    If ppl are blaming Shera they are just slow 💯

  • @S.Uranus
    @S.Uranus 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    She had sons and moved in with a strange man just because she didn't want to work. If she focused on her already existing children and cared about them, she wouldn't have married the old creep and had kids with him. The abused children wouldn't have existed and been abused by their own dad if she actually did her job as a mother. She just wants to be a rich wife, she is obsessed with being a wife and having luxuries. Shame on her.
    He probably targets single moms to get access to children.

  • @wolfscare287
    @wolfscare287 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I thinks she meant changing her clothes Dee 😂. But honestly anyone taking dating advice from a stranger online is hilarious 😂😂

  • @Medusa_Sasa
    @Medusa_Sasa 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    She hasn’t said anything about him regarding if his in jail or any progress on that however she’s asking people to donate to her GFM saying the husband has taken her car and other things, she said shes currently on food stamps but not mention the husband also she has been clapping back on people on her page.. Overall this is scary n sick she needs to get off the next and go cuddles her kids cos this is messed up big time on those kids

  • @greendro6410
    @greendro6410 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Her husband molested his own kids or his two biological daughters that's so disgusting anyway she should check her two boys that she had from her previous partner. Her husband probably molested those boys too. I wonder what her first baby daddy gotta say all about this. 🤦🏽

  • @lilypaxd
    @lilypaxd 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I don’t disagree with the criticism. She should have been more cautious. Granted this can happen to anyone it’s not necessarily the trophy wife philosophy that caused this. This is just the result of picking the wrong man in general. There are people who are able to be a trophy wife with a man who won’t abuse them/ their children or leave them but it’s luck of the draw. People live their life differently and subscribe to different philosophies. Not everything works for everyone. There are bad people in the world and just cuz someone else got something good, doesn’t mean you can do the same and get the same. Everyone take care of yourselves.

  • @mackstacks8913
    @mackstacks8913 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Halfway through the vid, I really feel sorry for her and her children. No one should have to go through that and be victimized like that regardless of how smug and naive they were.
    But I really want women to learn this lesson… speaking as a black man, I want yall to stop paying attention to these bullshit “rest in my feminine” “find me a man that is masculine” content. The goal is survival then eventually thriving. You have to do that for yourself and your loved ones first. Protect yourself and dont let your entire personality and livelihood be dependent on a man. You are only setting yourself up for the possibility to be abused, diminished, or taken advantage of. Im willing to bet that if this woman had her own autonomy, shed be more likely to run away at the first red flag and probably wouldn’t be shaming other women who didn’t live her lifestyle.

    • @elsagrakin2570
      @elsagrakin2570 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That's definitely not goals at all. Fathers wouldn't want their daughters to be struggling while married to a man.

  • @Ellie-i8c
    @Ellie-i8c วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The internal misogyny! Women blaming women.

  • @bijoohere568
    @bijoohere568 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I agree. I've dated 2 millionaires and someone who made 450k a year and they were my worst relationships. I wasn't a sprinkle sprinkle met organically, but they are awful. Make your own money so you can always walk away. Why stay at home mom os a nope for me cause if he goes rouge I'm fkd. No ma'am.

  • @BrayanPrado-x1b
    @BrayanPrado-x1b 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Why is everyone calling her the victim. The girls are the victims. In my mind she’s just as bad as him. She’s probably getting charged along with him.

  • @xiamariansupreme72
    @xiamariansupreme72 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Wild that people are blaming Shera, considering Shera has repeatedly advocated for not marrying within a year, not bringing men around young kids, not leaving kids alone around your partner that's not their biological dad. Shera is a financial advisor, but has also told women not to be so trusting with men around young kids and has also told women to not rely on men's income alone, so obviously, people didn't actually listen to Shera.

    • @Jeremy-wp4yh
      @Jeremy-wp4yh 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Marriage actually protects women and children. If you're not married, dont be a live-in girlfriend

    • @xiamariansupreme72
      @xiamariansupreme72 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @Jeremy-wp4yh
      Marriage doesn't protect jackshit. Literally, more married women are assaulted by their own husbands than single women get assaulted by men they do or don't know. Is that protection? Be for real of begone.😒 Its definitely not protecting girls that, more often than you know, get assaulted by their own dads and the commonality of some moms that know, but are too afraid to speak up, outta fear of their husband. Is that protection? Male, kindly shut up. I wasn't even asking for an opinion, I gave an affirmative statement. End of story, we're done here.

  • @hiphopson
    @hiphopson 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    She’s 34 so he’s like mid to late 50s but he looks older nonetheless.

    • @sakpase88
      @sakpase88 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Now old yall think sugar daddies be yall me wanting lol

    • @hiphopson
      @hiphopson 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @ I’m sorry but what are you saying?

    • @Nai-robi0871
      @Nai-robi0871 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@sakpase88 Stroke?

  • @mermaidreviews4693
    @mermaidreviews4693 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    The daughters are his actual kids she only had boys be the marriage that man is sick

  • @GreeneTV
    @GreeneTV 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I ain't never caught a Dee video this early 😂

  • @hanniefaerie
    @hanniefaerie 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Watch Shera’s response to this and she wants to have her name nowhere near this drama bc it’s nothing that she’s ever stood for. Shera has NEVER promoted the stuff she’s done.

    • @MrSquaky
      @MrSquaky 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      shera promotes being a gold digger, that sprinkle lady can kick rocks. only imecibles follow her

  • @sec008987
    @sec008987 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I dont think she is a "pick me" However, a woman who wanted to be married. I dont understand how women get on here making a video further embarrassing themselves. This is terrifying and could have happened to anyone.

    • @ihop1571
      @ihop1571 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      She watches kevin Samuels definitely a pick me, doesn’t mean she deserves any of this though.

  • @mrworkowt5419
    @mrworkowt5419 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    Being a pick me has nothing to do with a PDF file. Whoever is narrating this is Off the Mark

    • @BreeIsMeTV
      @BreeIsMeTV 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      He r@ped her 4 times in the first few months of their marriage. She KNEW he was violent. She KNEW he was sexually violent. She KNEW he was sexually violent toward females. And she put her daughter in the SAME HOUSE AS HER R@PIST. She is many things and being a pick me is one of them 😐 Your sympathy doesn’t erase reality.

    • @debinseemoyre1700
      @debinseemoyre1700 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@BreeIsMeTVDo you know even know what a pick me is? Everybody keeps throwing that word around with no clue in the world. That word has no relation to her or her situation whatsoever 🤨

    • @kamikazeftw
      @kamikazeftw 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@BreeIsMeTV*their daughter. The daughters didn't exist till after the wedding

    • @thecosmicchild8947
      @thecosmicchild8947 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@debinseemoyre1700
      Have you seen her older videos that resurfaced?

  • @S.Uranus
    @S.Uranus 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    She had sons and moved in with a strange man just because she didn't want to work. If she focused on her already existing children and cared about them, she wouldn't have married the old creep and had kids with him. The abused children wouldn't have existed and been abused by their own dad if she actually did her job as a mother. She just wants to be a rich wife, she is obsessed with being a wife and having luxuries. Shame on her.

  • @gxrminahmamii4650
    @gxrminahmamii4650 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    React to Aba and preach - update this changes everything

  • @YesserSirMrSir
    @YesserSirMrSir 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    When you start off by saying “ I don’t have to settle cause I look good” I already knew she locked herself in with some trash. Nobody that talks like that, looks at a persons character first and foremost.

  • @theanimerapper6351
    @theanimerapper6351 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Sometimes Dee seems like the only rational woman on TH-cam. Most of em love that sprinkle sprinkle stuff and don't realize that men with that type of money usually view women as property

  • @Jahani31
    @Jahani31 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +84

    I swear people will blame everyone except the p3dophile, smh. Im so tired of the black community running to absolve these monsters and blame everybody else but them for their actions. they were together for 5 YEARS and had children together. He MOLESTED HIS OWN KIDS. Her being a "trophy wife" has nothing to do with his sickness.

    • @LeeLlama-gy1oc
      @LeeLlama-gy1oc 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +78

      Get out your feelings, the POINT is to help other young women who glorify this lifestyle and make themselves susceptible to men like this. Obviously he's horrible and is to blame, but this woman made several mistakes that could've avoided this. That's why it's called a cautionary tale, to caution other women. It's not about blaming, it's about HELPING others

    • @365partybeau
      @365partybeau 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

      the husband is the bad guy here, but this whole situation could’ve been prevented if she wasn’t being desperate for a wedding ring. she already had two young children prior to being with this monster.

    • @Jahani31
      @Jahani31 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      There's nothing wrong with that lifestyle though. The lifestyle didn't r*pe her children- that man did. Her lifestyle had nothing to do with it. P3dophiles exist in every lifestyle and tax bracket. Thats just dumb. And as usual, the black community will focus on and blame everyone but the actual offender, smh​@LeeLlama-gy1oc

    • @unbrokensmoke4380
      @unbrokensmoke4380 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

      They're blaming both I swear people are fucking stupid she saw the red flags and ignored them cause she wanted to follow people's advice online like a idiot always trying to be a victim is insane

    • @Jahani31
      @Jahani31 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@365partybeau they were together for 5 years before she found out he was r*ping his own children. Its dumb af to think anyone would know that at the beginning of a relationship

  • @alexkarehu9549
    @alexkarehu9549 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is literally an SVU episode

  • @lilkeyla5769
    @lilkeyla5769 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Oh my god, i just finished watching her video and then see youve reacted to it..
    It was my first time watching her so ig theres sm i dont know damn.. yeah living w/ two different men within same year WITH kids is risky
    18:19 exactly this!

  • @roshodsingleton1615
    @roshodsingleton1615 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The judge gave her the house and cars and child support

  • @martha6773
    @martha6773 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Didn’t know all of this before I saw the video saying she left him… this is actually insane good luck to those kids hopefully she learned a valuable lesson from this experience and presses charges

  • @jadanrichardson6463
    @jadanrichardson6463 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    A MAN SHOULD NOT BE TELLING WOMAN WHAT THEY NEED TO DO FOR A MAN OR TO GET A MAN OR KEEP HIM

  • @AkyrahD
    @AkyrahD 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    4 year old wearing diapers didn’t make sense to me either. Maybe she meant pull up 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @AkyrahD
      @AkyrahD 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Or maybe she meant the younger one . Either way that’s terrible . Terrible story. After raping her I wouldn’t have trusted him around my kids

    • @slumpswife0593
      @slumpswife0593 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Some children learn to control their bladder in their later years ..I know my family has a history of that

    • @kamikazeftw
      @kamikazeftw 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@slumpswife0593 true. Some children also still need diapers when they sleep

    • @teecreativeplace
      @teecreativeplace 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@AkyrahD he raped her the wife?

  • @andrewjacksonbr
    @andrewjacksonbr 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    When you sell your soul for money and clout, you invite evil into your life.

  • @tunde6159
    @tunde6159 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It does not have anything to do with Pick Me nor does it have to do with the age difference, the man was just a horrible choice she made based on her own selfish desires. There are good men and being a pick-me isn't a bad thing.

  • @Onyinye4175
    @Onyinye4175 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I don't see what Shera has to do with this. Isis was a huge Kevin Samuels fan, married her husband in two weeks, and bought her own engagement ring. Shera would not get behind this nonsense 🥴

    • @TiaLoveex3
      @TiaLoveex3 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Exactly. And the Universe Guru, is someone who actually promotes marrying super fast. Isis did mention that she’s a big fan of her too. Shera would not advocate for marrying fast, let alone buying a man a wedding ring.

  • @misstiff29
    @misstiff29 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The sick part is that Kevin samules that MOTHERS shouldn't believe the children first if they are being abused. That's why women shouldn't date single mothers. They choose their children first. IT was sick then and SICK now!!!

  • @hanniefaerie
    @hanniefaerie 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Shera needs to tell her to keep her name out her mouth cuz uh… was she even watching the videos?

  • @tathow1218
    @tathow1218 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yeah her choices in who she picked wasn’t the best, but it doesn’t excuse his behavior. He touched a child! Let’s focus on that bro. Two babies for sure and we just have to hope his sons wasn’t also victims in this situation.

  • @sportsman23
    @sportsman23 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Dee react to Update... This Changes Everything by Aba and Preach.

  • @sooshibun
    @sooshibun 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Pick mes are the most annoying thing imo, the absolute worst. We spit on them, hack-phoo!! >:T

  • @caesarorape2983
    @caesarorape2983 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It seem like she was in survival mode and would have dated anybody willing to take care of her.

    • @Jeremy-wp4yh
      @Jeremy-wp4yh 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I doubt it. She seemed to have skipped the good men with average income and went straight to the rich abusive men

  • @odesseyg4179
    @odesseyg4179 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Obviously he’s to blame but I’ve seen videos on tiktok of her daughter REPEATEDLY screaming owwww owwww ouchhhh and she continues to do her makeup on live or whatever it was. COUNTLESS videos of her daughter screaming and crying in paint “owww” idk but if I was a mother I’d IMMEDIATELY run to my child cause why’re you saying ow so many times when ur “stepfather” is supposed to be putting u to bed… like specially when u can here the his voice in the background too…. Something is off.

  • @alexandervelez9507
    @alexandervelez9507 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i just fail to see how any of this is shera’s fault? the issue was that she allowed strange men to stay with her children. it could have happened whether that man was wealthy or broke, young or old.

  • @Zulu-Lemon
    @Zulu-Lemon 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Why when women see other women put kids in harms way with full knowledge never want them held accountable or even called out for it?

  • @ravenskyys3648
    @ravenskyys3648 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Your kids lived with 2 different men in the span of the year.

  • @tylerhackner9731
    @tylerhackner9731 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    People find a way to blame everyone except the monsters who do this stuff

    • @kamikazeftw
      @kamikazeftw 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It's seems to be always like this. "What did you do to get yourself victimised?" rather than calling out the perpetrators. Just sad...

  • @rhaynbowbritesb43
    @rhaynbowbritesb43 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is the problem with people that think just because you're in shape or staying fit that all your problems will be solved when it comes to relationships... you women or men always want the hot and handsome men, but all these men or women always cheat on you or give you some kind of STDs...

  • @terenon49
    @terenon49 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I must not know what a pick me is. I don’t think agreeing with Kevin Samuels makes you a pick me

  • @MollyMoon-j3f
    @MollyMoon-j3f 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    America is filled with Pick Me women just look at the clowns that voted for the giant orange. Also this woman is very sus

  • @royalty9538
    @royalty9538 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Also im confused when women talk about being young and men wanting that, do they not realize they will age?you don’t stay young forever

  • @np-gi6vz
    @np-gi6vz 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    In this world of high value men and sprinkle sprinkles and the self prioritization that both preach , when do we start thinking about the children

  • @artbymaree4680
    @artbymaree4680 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    At least be smart and just have him deposit money in your account so you can "buy" what you want. And put it aside for emergencies. Like dont be dumb in love

  • @AmberLawliet71
    @AmberLawliet71 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    In Kevin Samuels whould have said she shouldn't have immediately believed them because "kids lie" 🤷‍♀️
    I'm glad she at least left as soon as she found out. A lot of moms won't

  • @ashleenicole6359
    @ashleenicole6359 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can you watch the original full video to? I thought she was gonna show the fully video

  • @kareemyoung7379
    @kareemyoung7379 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No matter the age, if the guy is making millions she is there for the bag. Marriage benefits women. Women divorce a man and gets half or something from him

  • @mrworkowt5419
    @mrworkowt5419 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    A good man with character is not hard to find that you're just not physically attracted to him to even get to know him.

  • @duhhmoe4313
    @duhhmoe4313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We both said red flag at the same time..

  • @kwilliams3161
    @kwilliams3161 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    9:40 it’s plenty of valid men like that but it was the money that attracted you please be honest with yourself for once .

  • @EAN444
    @EAN444 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can you react to "A Deep Dive Into The Purple Heart 💜 Core Memes" by Joe Regrets?

  • @duhhmoe4313
    @duhhmoe4313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Glad she got out

  • @Bnonca
    @Bnonca 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Changing her clothes…her undies

  • @duhhmoe4313
    @duhhmoe4313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Red flags dont notice red flags

  • @getoffmygrass4857
    @getoffmygrass4857 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I dont believe ish she talking about lol

  • @jaheimtheophile6154
    @jaheimtheophile6154 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ngs is siiiiicckk

  • @crowing3886
    @crowing3886 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The narrator is kinda scummy. Acting like a pick me is anything remotely close to this type of behavior is insane.
    This mother is straight insane for all the behaviors she's shown. She didn't even press charges!

  • @misstiff29
    @misstiff29 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Also the creator is a pick me, so of course she's getting the same energy back. Why is this a surprise. She doesn't deserve dragging. However this ideal that traditionalism protects women in kids need to be addressed!!!

  • @kofig8357
    @kofig8357 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Damn I wish I didnt watch this

  • @umarlassi4330
    @umarlassi4330 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can you react to little Britain?

  • @napajiii
    @napajiii 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How in the entire fuck? Is she a pick me? Please explain this to me like seriously I really wanna know 😂

  • @Rome__king
    @Rome__king 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why do women use the word "pick-me" ?

  • @Iambunny-ry2os
    @Iambunny-ry2os 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I don’t like this video bc she did everything right when she found out about her kids. She took action. A pick me would’ve stayed and helped cover it up. She should not be shamed for being honest abt her experience and warning other women.

    • @shanellmiller-c2t
      @shanellmiller-c2t 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      she made pick me content for a living.she did a very good job for leaving but that doesn’t erase that part.

    • @kamikazeftw
      @kamikazeftw 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@shanellmiller-c2tat least her making this video spread awareness, like a cautionary tale showing that her previous content was misguided

  • @ChrisSh-k9d
    @ChrisSh-k9d 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Bruh the sprinkle sprinkle lady is a damn "con artist." Her husband already put her out there bruh. She feedin yall these lies, talkin bout he needs to take you here and there. But she still shops at "TJ Maxx" and "Marshalls" and she doesnt even live the life she tells and act like she lives. Dont get me wrong its nothing wrong with them places, but at the same time, dont get online and portray a character your not. She talks like she's too good for them places, but shops there ON A DAILY, im pretty sure her husband said to everybody she is not who you think she is. That lady yall listen to is a big reason why dating is a waste of time because yall eat that crap up. You kno what!!! Soft Guy Era Activated 😂😂😂