I mean, if you’re with somebody that you barely know and you hear your kid crying in the background, why would u not atleast check up on her for yourself? Everytime my mom heard a loud noise she would call me and ask what’s going on. Men like this know who they can get away with this stuff with. People that aren’t attentive and discerning shouldn’t be parents
@rosieosabutey1448 I don't need to cry about it because most women in my country don't have hair on their hands For somebody that does not give a fuck you seem triggered. Not giving a fuck does not change reality moron
The pick me is the one who should be at fault for everything. She knew what she was doing from the get go and she let whatever happened to her kids happen. To busy trying to stunt for other people and show off her "loving husband, just for him to be doing pedo stuff to his own kids.
There is a documentary on Jimmy Saville on Netflix and let me tell you something it is disturbing. That man was a monster who covered up his bad deeds through being a philanthropist. Absolutely heartbreaking the things he did to women and especially children and even when it all came out some people still looked up to and wanted to defend him. It's an awful situation for the victims.
Aint no kid going to be screaming and saying “ow” or “how” when you up them to bed she screaming so loud that you can hear him all the way downstairs no ma'am.Knowing what he did to her .
Wait-she’s on food stamps with her multiple children..? Definitely not the brightest bulb😅. If you’re going to live this lifestyle idk why you wouldn’t ensure that you can continue to live it without the rich man. If you don’t pocket some of the money he throws at you-
EXACTLY. if she ACTUALLY listened to shera, then she would’ve been stacking up a savings account from every allowance that he gave her. And also investing his money into a venture of her own.
@ I don’t follow Shera or her teachings but even the regular SAH parents/spouses should be doing this imo. It’s just the smart thing to do. And if they hit you with the “you don’t trust me?” you don’t even need to proceed with marriage/long term commitment.
@@kikialeaki1850 THANK YOU. It’s common sense for any woman who’s a housewife or SAHM. But for some reason a lot of the women who fit into that category lack that common sense 🙃
She a whole lie. "I watch my kids like a hawk" Really? Is that why we saw you so calm while sitting and your kid is yelling? 😅 My mom had 4 kids with my dad, she still would still check on us even if our dad was there. My mom never got touched as a kid either. 😕 she didnt even know her own sisters got touched by their foster brother until her own kids were grown already..😢 The trauma doesnt do anything but make you anxious and paranoid. It does not teach you to be an attentive parent. Thats something you do on your own.
A great mom? Girl bye. Great moms dont move in with strange men and start having their kids. 😂😅 Thats a desperate mom. You were a target and easy to manipulate and thats why this "high value" man wanted you. You fell into his lap perfectly. Braincells have left the building.
There’s no way I can hear a baby cry and a man say stop softly and me not be concerned 😧. Not even sexually just like…what is she doing lol 😂 you’re right the daughter could be just being a child but I’m nosy and I needs to know what my daughter getting into lol
Except it was not just a baby and a man, it was a father and a daughter. And it’s normal for kids to cry and parents tell them to stop. It’s not her fault that she didn’t notice that, that man is a just disgusting
@@Stargarl I agree with that statement, but I’ve never known a parent who would just sit by and ignore their child saying "ouch," "stop," or even yelling for help. Any mother would come to check on what’s wrong.
@@Deshun01 kids yell all types of things when they’re being fussy, but that baby did not yell for help or her mom, in which case any normal person would have definitely checked. It’s just funny to me how everyone is all of a sudden perfectly cautious with the biological father of their kids. It’s not a normal thing to do so stop blaming this lady for trusting a man with his own daughters
@@Stargarl ehhh... some women are cautious with the fathers of their children. but you can't know what you don't know. but procreating with him AFTER he SA'd her multiple times shows that she couldn't protect herself therefore she is ill-equipped to protect her future children.
Honestly, hindsight is 20/20. It’s questionable that they’re crying with their dad but children do that. I’m glad Dee didn’t jump to assumptions with that like some people would.
@ right but this isn’t the first sign. Nor is it the most obvious sign of malice. He violated her multiple times and she still stayed with him. It’s also not good for you or the children to be so anxious all the time (which you’d have to be if you’re placing their father as a suspect). Honestly, I’d wish people would get their affairs in order before having children. Or at least teach their children EARLY.
@@crowing3886that’s just not logical tho is it? babies scream they cry if they get hurt they will make sure u know because they want attention or to be cuddled from those clips alone I don’t blame her for not immediately jumping to the conclusion that he’s abusing his own children let’s not be silly now
@@kikialeaki1850now him assaulting her MULTIPLE times in the first couple of months is a HUGE sign I don’t think it could get anymore clear than that honestly
@@tmd-w1552 bingo. I feel so sad for her but she still needs to be held accountable. I agree *100% with what Dee said about her saying it can happen to “anyone.” She really needs to be more vigilant and I hope the people trying to open her eyes to her mistakes get through to her.
Men like that know which type of women to approach sadly. I've seen this ish irl (not the child abuse). I witnessed a friend get manipulated into playing house with a man that will probably never marry her and who her son looks up to but I just know he doesn't actually care about that kid. He might care about the baby he and my friend have but even then its not a happy situation.
Shes not filing a report cause shes still hoping to either 1 get back with him or 2 get something out of him. Shes a sick monster too and she will definitely sacrifice her kids to maintain the lifestyle she brags about.
The husband’s niece came out with a video stating that it’s actually the oldest son that’s the predator and the trophy wife is lying to cover up for him
The daughter's upstairs with your husband and 4 other kids....that's not enough to say that's the husband abusing her, also when did this woman ever consider that this childs cry was a distress cry - NEVER! You mean to tell me nothing in her could discern that? And the other children stated to the grandmother the brother touched her and his little brother also said that. Let's just wait and see who's the real monster here.
I feel bad for her also. I definitely feel bad for the children because they may be the next her. Unfortunately in real life there’s almost always blowback from evil. She a product of it herself. I think she has some sort of mental or, and behavior disorder. This is what the aftermath looks like,it’s raw and ugly. There’s probably no happy ending
you got it wrong dee... she met her predator husband first... they went on a date and he immediately wanted to start a relationship... she said ill think about it then got into a relationship with the dude who didn't like her kids... so basically she curbed this dude to move in with another dude, then when that situation didn't play out how she wanted she called her backup plan and ended up marrying dude... she settled for a man she didnt even like for money and shelter and it backfired in the worst way possible.
Is he the father of the kid who was screaming ? The screaming itself could be explained as kids being kids except…if he’s not the father and it’s man they barely knew then even a certain type of discipline is inappropriate for them to experience from him, if that makes sense
Thank you, seems like everyone just lost common sense. She’s with her DAD, I’ll blame her if it was a stepdad. A normal person wouldn’t think “oh he’s probably touching her”, like??
I think you have to be really slow to think a parent would assume a child crying while being put to bed means it's getting abused or molested. Smh. Literally any reason to blame this woman instead of the man who r*ped his own kids, smh. NORMAL PEOPLE DO NOT THINK LIKE THAT. Especially if you have no inkling that the other person would do something like that. This woman literally left that man the day she found out and y'all are still putting this off on her more than him because she had the nerve to be a black trad wife, smh. This is why these men are allowed to basically move freely throughout our communities. Because black people will victim blame out the gate. These videos are disgusting.
This. Anyone that's had kids knows they will throw a fit over anything they don't want to do. There's nothing there that sounded out of the ordinary unless you know what's happening already. In fact, to further illustrate this point, we don't even know for a fact, that that was happening in these clips. It may have been totally different times, and that was GENUINELY the sounds of them being upset about being put to bed.
@@amarianaja-vq4qv “especially if you have no inkling that the other person would do something like that”… girl she said the man raped her 4 times when they first got married.
Calm down, this woman is the one who decided to share this sensitive information for people to judge and observe. A lot of you are using these buzz words like "victim blaming" to avoid accountability. She made shocking bad decisions that led to this so it should be called out
Only feel bad for the children. It’s shameful, it’s disgusting and triggering
one of the biggest signs that someone is going to be abusive is if they want to rush things. especially moving in & marriage!! they want to trap you
she didnt vet his behavior she vets his finances and lifestyle
I feel terrible for the kids. I never understood these people
As a mom my if my child is crying in the other room with someone I’m still going to check on my baby 🤷🏾♀️ that’s my baby period
I mean, if you’re with somebody that you barely know and you hear your kid crying in the background, why would u not atleast check up on her for yourself? Everytime my mom heard a loud noise she would call me and ask what’s going on. Men like this know who they can get away with this stuff with. People that aren’t attentive and discerning shouldn’t be parents
Neglectfulness is the easiest crime to commit because it requires zero effort.
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@@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed A WORD!!
“I’m not shaving shxt” 💀
I am a man and men absolutely don't like hair on women's hands it looks masculine
@@omarhosam8880cry about it, we dgaf 😂
@@omarhosam8880 your name is omar. ur not a man, u a boy
@rosieosabutey1448 I don't need to cry about it because most women in my country don't have hair on their hands
For somebody that does not give a fuck you seem triggered.
Not giving a fuck does not change reality moron
@@minach7482 Just an Arab name I am from Egypt
The pick me is the one who should be at fault for everything. She knew what she was doing from the get go and she let whatever happened to her kids happen. To busy trying to stunt for other people and show off her "loving husband, just for him to be doing pedo stuff to his own kids.
She watches her kids like a hawk she says
Her talking about arm hair reminds of ninja turtle dude from pop the balloon
Ha ha ha ha
Yes queen
There is a documentary on Jimmy Saville on Netflix and let me tell you something it is disturbing. That man was a monster who covered up his bad deeds through being a philanthropist. Absolutely heartbreaking the things he did to women and especially children and even when it all came out some people still looked up to and wanted to defend him. It's an awful situation for the victims.
Aint no kid going to be screaming and saying “ow” or “how” when you up them to bed she screaming so loud that you can hear him all the way downstairs no ma'am.Knowing what he did to her .
Awee Dee finally reacts to a video i recommended 😩 this situation is so unfortunate but i love your reactions Dee ❤
I dont feel bad for the woman idc about any hate response 😂
Dee Said she's a Bum Bro. 😂😂
she is
Wait-she’s on food stamps with her multiple children..? Definitely not the brightest bulb😅. If you’re going to live this lifestyle idk why you wouldn’t ensure that you can continue to live it without the rich man. If you don’t pocket some of the money he throws at you-
EXACTLY. if she ACTUALLY listened to shera, then she would’ve been stacking up a savings account from every allowance that he gave her. And also investing his money into a venture of her own.
@ I don’t follow Shera or her teachings but even the regular SAH parents/spouses should be doing this imo. It’s just the smart thing to do. And if they hit you with the “you don’t trust me?” you don’t even need to proceed with marriage/long term commitment.
@@kikialeaki1850 THANK YOU. It’s common sense for any woman who’s a housewife or SAHM. But for some reason a lot of the women who fit into that category lack that common sense 🙃
She a whole lie. "I watch my kids like a hawk"
Really? Is that why we saw you so calm while sitting and your kid is yelling? 😅
My mom had 4 kids with my dad, she still would still check on us even if our dad was there. My mom never got touched as a kid either. 😕 she didnt even know her own sisters got touched by their foster brother until her own kids were grown already..😢 The trauma doesnt do anything but make you anxious and paranoid. It does not teach you to be an attentive parent. Thats something you do on your own.
A great mom? Girl bye. Great moms dont move in with strange men and start having their kids. 😂😅
Thats a desperate mom. You were a target and easy to manipulate and thats why this "high value" man wanted you. You fell into his lap perfectly. Braincells have left the building.
There’s no way I can hear a baby cry and a man say stop softly and me not be concerned 😧. Not even sexually just like…what is she doing lol 😂 you’re right the daughter could be just being a child but I’m nosy and I needs to know what my daughter getting into lol
I absolutely agree with you
Except it was not just a baby and a man, it was a father and a daughter. And it’s normal for kids to cry and parents tell them to stop. It’s not her fault that she didn’t notice that, that man is a just disgusting
@@Stargarl I agree with that statement, but I’ve never known a parent who would just sit by and ignore their child saying "ouch," "stop," or even yelling for help. Any mother would come to check on what’s wrong.
@@Deshun01 kids yell all types of things when they’re being fussy, but that baby did not yell for help or her mom, in which case any normal person would have definitely checked. It’s just funny to me how everyone is all of a sudden perfectly cautious with the biological father of their kids. It’s not a normal thing to do so stop blaming this lady for trusting a man with his own daughters
@@Stargarl ehhh... some women are cautious with the fathers of their children. but you can't know what you don't know. but procreating with him AFTER he SA'd her multiple times shows that she couldn't protect herself therefore she is ill-equipped to protect her future children.
Honestly, hindsight is 20/20. It’s questionable that they’re crying with their dad but children do that. I’m glad Dee didn’t jump to assumptions with that like some people would.
Considering what he ended up doing to the kids i wish people jumped to conclusions.
@ right but this isn’t the first sign. Nor is it the most obvious sign of malice. He violated her multiple times and she still stayed with him.
It’s also not good for you or the children to be so anxious all the time (which you’d have to be if you’re placing their father as a suspect). Honestly, I’d wish people would get their affairs in order before having children. Or at least teach their children EARLY.
@@crowing3886that’s just not logical tho is it? babies scream they cry if they get hurt they will make sure u know because they want attention or to be cuddled from those clips alone I don’t blame her for not immediately jumping to the conclusion that he’s abusing his own children let’s not be silly now
@@kikialeaki1850now him assaulting her MULTIPLE times in the first couple of months is a HUGE sign I don’t think it could get anymore clear than that honestly
@@tmd-w1552 bingo. I feel so sad for her but she still needs to be held accountable. I agree *100% with what Dee said about her saying it can happen to “anyone.” She really needs to be more vigilant and I hope the people trying to open her eyes to her mistakes get through to her.
Men like that know which type of women to approach sadly. I've seen this ish irl (not the child abuse). I witnessed a friend get manipulated into playing house with a man that will probably never marry her and who her son looks up to but I just know he doesn't actually care about that kid. He might care about the baby he and my friend have but even then its not a happy situation.
Example of setting up your kids for failure. No victims except the children that’s all
Shes not filing a report cause shes still hoping to either 1 get back with him or 2 get something out of him. Shes a sick monster too and she will definitely sacrifice her kids to maintain the lifestyle she brags about.
The husband’s niece came out with a video stating that it’s actually the oldest son that’s the predator and the trophy wife is lying to cover up for him
@@ashb71934 this is a whole mess omg
Wait what 😭😭😭?? Where the video
@ th-cam.com/video/vwLxGcrjlcU/w-d-xo.htmlsi=ijLT9Ldmc4D-TrXx is where I saw it, it’s on another channel
You & Aba are so much alike , yall literally say the exact same thing lol
The daughter's upstairs with your husband and 4 other kids....that's not enough to say that's the husband abusing her, also when did this woman ever consider that this childs cry was a distress cry - NEVER! You mean to tell me nothing in her could discern that? And the other children stated to the grandmother the brother touched her and his little brother also said that. Let's just wait and see who's the real monster here.
I knew something was off
I feel bad for her also. I definitely feel bad for the children because they may be the next her. Unfortunately in real life there’s almost always blowback from evil. She a product of it herself. I think she has some sort of mental or, and behavior disorder. This is what the aftermath looks like,it’s raw and ugly. There’s probably no happy ending
you got it wrong dee... she met her predator husband first... they went on a date and he immediately wanted to start a relationship... she said ill think about it then got into a relationship with the dude who didn't like her kids... so basically she curbed this dude to move in with another dude, then when that situation didn't play out how she wanted she called her backup plan and ended up marrying dude... she settled for a man she didnt even like for money and shelter and it backfired in the worst way possible.
wow so this is the woman people have been talking about jfc
Bragging on the cash that he gave you is a front! If you gonna brag make sure it’s your money you flaunt! -Destiny’s Child 😂
Is he the father of the kid who was screaming ? The screaming itself could be explained as kids being kids except…if he’s not the father and it’s man they barely knew then even a certain type of discipline is inappropriate for them to experience from him, if that makes sense
Thank you, seems like everyone just lost common sense. She’s with her DAD, I’ll blame her if it was a stepdad. A normal person wouldn’t think “oh he’s probably touching her”, like??
there is an update to the story, look up the niece of the husband
Oh so this is what people were talking about wtf..
I think you have to be really slow to think a parent would assume a child crying while being put to bed means it's getting abused or molested. Smh. Literally any reason to blame this woman instead of the man who r*ped his own kids, smh. NORMAL PEOPLE DO NOT THINK LIKE THAT. Especially if you have no inkling that the other person would do something like that. This woman literally left that man the day she found out and y'all are still putting this off on her more than him because she had the nerve to be a black trad wife, smh. This is why these men are allowed to basically move freely throughout our communities. Because black people will victim blame out the gate. These videos are disgusting.
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This. Anyone that's had kids knows they will throw a fit over anything they don't want to do. There's nothing there that sounded out of the ordinary unless you know what's happening already. In fact, to further illustrate this point, we don't even know for a fact, that that was happening in these clips. It may have been totally different times, and that was GENUINELY the sounds of them being upset about being put to bed.
@@amarianaja-vq4qv “especially if you have no inkling that the other person would do something like that”… girl she said the man raped her 4 times when they first got married.
Calm down, this woman is the one who decided to share this sensitive information for people to judge and observe. A lot of you are using these buzz words like "victim blaming" to avoid accountability. She made shocking bad decisions that led to this so it should be called out
@@dillondenman6446 I mean yeah but she is young maybe she thought that he wouldn't do it to his own biological children
Y'all....yall are disgusting for down play this woman's feelings