Don't Give Your Power to Women

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  • @prestoncoie4134
    @prestoncoie4134 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    It is better to dwell in the desert land than with a contentious and troublesome woman. - Proverbs 21:19

  • @smokingcrab2290
    @smokingcrab2290 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Men give their strength to women because the men are deep down crying out for some kind of a loving connection. But really they need a loving connection with our Father in heaven. We need to receive, accept, and acknowledge his love for us CONSTANTLY so our broken and lonely hearts can heal. Then we can relate to the opposite sex the way God intended.

  • @jetmyron8494
    @jetmyron8494 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +137

    Perfectly timed video. Deleted hinge today after a no show date last weekend. Like you explained I was giving my power to these women I didnt realize it. Online dating really is a trap for a lot of us young men

    • @Infrazale
      @Infrazale 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dating apps are no good. The gender-ratios are too heavily male and will destroy your self esteem.

    • @razzendahcuben
      @razzendahcuben 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      You can get stood up by women in any dating context. You didn't "give your power" to anyone. Men need to stop blaming apps for their dating woes and own the fact that if they're not able to attract women they find attractive then they either need to self-improve or lower their standards. "Apps are rigged against men" is a cope.

    • @jetmyron8494
      @jetmyron8494 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      @@razzendahcuben Yea except I didnt say any of that. I was getting plenty of matches and did go on dates, but this weekend got stood up. Realized I was giving my power (focus) to the app and many girls that I never met. Should be focusing on myself and my faith more. None of that is cope, poorly explained in my original comment sure, not cope though.

    • @dre4ever39
      @dre4ever39 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@razzendahcubenBy this comment I feel like you use dating apps as a crutch to not approach women IRL

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You shouldn’t be doing anything online except funding your retirement accounts.

  • @JA-2
    @JA-2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    As I’ve gotten older I’ve been able to do a better job of controlling lust by being aware of my inputs and the subtle things that add fuel to the fire. Now that I’m looking to get married in the coming years I’ve noticed my standards are very different. I’m no longer swayed by physical beauty as much but what captivates me is something deeper. Her mind and soul. I notice a big difference between woman who only have something physical to offer and others who’s hearts are pure and you see something different in their eyes. These women are rare but are worth waiting for. Of course, beauty and attraction are very important but these alone are not enough to build a lasting relationship.

    • @drew227
      @drew227 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I agree with you with one exception: fat/overweight women. I see that as a lack of self-control (and yes I know we all have character flaws, no one is perfect, yeah I know), and if my goal is to lead a disciplined life of self-control, how can I be with a woman who doesn't have that control? What we value in life is different. I take my phsyical fitness seriously. I'm not expecting or wanting to date a supermodel, but at the same time I have no interest in a woman who neglects her body (temple of the Holy Spirit) and doesn't take care of it with exercise. Since I take great care of my body I feel justified in that. I'm not on the same page w/a woman who does not at least *attempt* the same. Fat/overweight is the surface-level feature I feel reveals a character issue. Therefore it is the surface-level feature I won't consider for dating.

    • @JA-2
      @JA-2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      ⁠@@drew227 I actually 100% agree with you even though it’s politically incorrect. I also highly value my health and fitness and the person I marry would also need to have a certain level of commitment to their health and maintaining an attractive physique. We can’t run away from biology.

    • @Nabs1980
      @Nabs1980 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯💯💯

    • @ALTheFreeMan
      @ALTheFreeMan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@drew227 Overweight women and single moms seem to be the only options for the average guy. It’s not easy finding decently attractive Christian women who will also treat you well.

    • @joendrsn
      @joendrsn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good luck! There's a difference between what makes sense and how you think things should be vs. what happens in reality ❤

  • @tyrkir5566
    @tyrkir5566 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Herod also gave away his power when he beheaded John the Baptist on a woman's wish and against his better judgement.
    On the other hand, Pilate gave away his power to the mob, against his wife's warning.
    Powerful message, thank you!

  • @mscraig5147
    @mscraig5147 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Im a woman, and I agree with all words of this 100%. Thank you for this. Sharing with my 15 year old son. ❤

  • @joshuaalon496
    @joshuaalon496 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    Your segment about women desiring the powers of men reminded me of feminism: we can’t blame the creation of that erroneous ideology unto women only, but unto ourselves as well.

    • @geolbaker
      @geolbaker 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When you really get into the history of feminism, the majority of women did not want it, and it was spearheaded by socialist/communist organisations like the Fabian Society.

    • @chaseo3932
      @chaseo3932 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      This is really good. We do need to take some responsibility for it as well and I had never thought of it that way

    • @Battlefield1918
      @Battlefield1918 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@chaseo3932 Feminism has been around for a while, and Men sat back and did nothing about it, nothing to call it out

    • @aldomonti813
      @aldomonti813 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I declare myself innocent. I have always fiercely opposed that cancerous ideology, yet I have been ridiculed and called a virgin creep. Sorry but I won't own mistakes which are not mine.

  • @sexysputnik
    @sexysputnik 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    King Ahab also gave his power away when he let Jezebel take the gardener's life so they can have a garden. This event parallels to Adam's fall and shows that the fruit doesn't fall too far from the tree.

  • @ALTheFreeMan
    @ALTheFreeMan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    It’s going to be very tough finding a real Christian woman in these times. Paul tells us that it’s best to just stay single to avoid the “anxieties” that come with relationships. I think it’s time for men to forget about “romance” and focus on the things of God.
    -1 Corinthians 7:8-9, 25-28, 32-35

    • @KMANelPADRINO
      @KMANelPADRINO 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Paul said that within the context of people who also aren’t burning for a relationship. For those with such burnings he quite literally says it is better to marry.
      Paul’s take is actually a very balanced and common-sensical approach informed not just by Jesus’s teachings (like how Paul repeats Jesus’s forbidding of remarriage after divorce from a Christian found in Matthew 5), but also informed by natural observation (such as observing that widowed women tend to not remarry).

    • @ALTheFreeMan
      @ALTheFreeMan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@KMANelPADRINO Right, Paul was speaking of men “burning in their passions”, basically saying, if you desire sex, then get married to avoid be sexually immoral. I’m in my 40s, so, that scripture is a lot easier for me to wrap my mind around, I dunno what the 20 year old me would’ve though about remaining single and celibate, but, I’m pretty sure there would’ve been a chuckle or two, lol.

    • @scorptatious
      @scorptatious 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      No offense, but I find it honestly frustrating how some people use Paul's words as a way of telling men (and to a lesser extent women) to forget about romance. (Biblical romance, not worldly romance)
      God told us to love him most of all. But he also told us to love others as ourselves. He told us to be fruitful and multiply. That in of itself is part of loving him as well.
      Now for those who are single and have no desire for either of those things, I have nothing against you. (Even if I can't quite understand you) But whenever I see people telling others to give up on romantic relationships, I can't help but sense bitterness and a desire to drag others down with them.
      I know the world is far from ideal right now in regards to men and women. And I'm not sure if I'll ever get married myself. I may even stay single for the rest of my life. But the last thing I want to do is potentially steal somebody else's potential joy from them.

    • @KMANelPADRINO
      @KMANelPADRINO 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ALTheFreeMan
      He was speaking to **men and women.**
      There isn’t any warrant to separate men in that. Women burn for sex and intimacy also.
      By the way…did you actually disagree or correct with anything that I wrote? I understand your opinion. That came through the first time. But, with all respect and no malice, I don’t see your comment here illuminating any further nuance needed to what I pointed out.

    • @KMANelPADRINO
      @KMANelPADRINO 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ALTheFreeMan
      Also, currently among ages 18-29 or so, in western nations like the US, women are more sexually active than men.

  • @michaelholliday1895
    @michaelholliday1895 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I'm just now getting out of a situation where it seems as though I've given all my free time to a woman that I know isn't Christ-like. Spending all my time either with her or thinking about her, giving her full power over my thoughts. Finally drew the line and realized how corrupting it was. I could've used this video much earlier, but better now than never I suppose!

  • @andre1987eph
    @andre1987eph 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    God began to teach me this 37 years ago. It took 30 years of horrific losses. Learned it 7 years ago. Only true Christian women will accept me repeating what you summarized here. And definitely don’t say this at work

    • @TeawithMadeleine
      @TeawithMadeleine 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He taught you that? What other voices were you hearing

  • @JP-zk6qk
    @JP-zk6qk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Samson gave up his strength for a woman.

  • @Just.arandom1
    @Just.arandom1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow dude. I always analysed the story of Adam same way. You are spot on.

  • @danielmunsaka2051
    @danielmunsaka2051 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    In short don’t be a simp

  • @jacewinkert1640
    @jacewinkert1640 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The part about Lust, and giving up my strength to that women really draws to me. Thank you for giving me that realization!

  • @Michiganman800
    @Michiganman800 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Based. The Woman question is the most important

  • @yehonatan7679
    @yehonatan7679 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This came in perfect time for me. I am going through something similar, and have been learning the same/

  • @user-ts2tl9kk2b
    @user-ts2tl9kk2b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is great content. Straightforward and concise but still so important. Thank you

  • @sherrilltechnology
    @sherrilltechnology 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Brother that was a great message!!

  • @Soru04
    @Soru04 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, God bless.

  • @emsafdari8336
    @emsafdari8336 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Much needed mission and ministry.God bless you and your family ..Strengthen by His love
    and Power .

  • @LucasSousa-pb8kh
    @LucasSousa-pb8kh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Always love these videos Isaac! As a young man looking for a virtuous girl, these videos are so edifying! God bless!

  • @elivangarde9024
    @elivangarde9024 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the edifying encouragement brother, may the Lord bless and keep us all to be evermore Christlike servant-leaders, and faithful, mighty men of God!

  • @stephensadamal7286
    @stephensadamal7286 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lovely video Isaac. You are bringing back the old school topics that are hardly preached these days... And you do it with grace.

  • @tobystamps2920
    @tobystamps2920 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I agree with a man needing to be the leader in his marriage. Growing up it was obvious that my dad was the head of the house. I thought that when I got married I would be the same. However I found out real quick how miserable a woman can make things if she doesn’t get her way. I was not prepared for that. So it’s made it difficult for me to try to lead. The church will tell men that they are to lead but then don’t want to teach godly submission for women in marriage. If a man tries to lead and his wife does not have a submissive attitude then it’s just going to be fights leaving the man not knowing how to proceed. This is what will cause a man to become passive. And then we wonder why more Christian men aren’t leaders.

    • @chrishilf
      @chrishilf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I heard wives to be encouraging the men. Submission and respect is so important. She needs not to look at it as if she is a slave, but allowing the man to lead. Ultimately, she needs to look at it as obedience to the order God set. Paul says he doesn't allow a woman to teach even 1 Tim 2:12. If you listen and do women you get blessed.

  • @danielsalac5113
    @danielsalac5113 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nice bro. God blessssss

  • @jurgeysamuel
    @jurgeysamuel 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Please, pray for me

  • @davidsampaney6429
    @davidsampaney6429 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Speaking the truth🙏🏽

  • @MurphWilds
    @MurphWilds 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Awesome vid 👏🙏

  • @kvelez
    @kvelez 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good video, great to see you adding more theology.

  • @99kakaman
    @99kakaman 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great vid brother, enjoying this! Praise God, and I pray for the proverbs 31 wife. We have to keep in our hearts verse 30: Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.

  • @edelrojas6917
    @edelrojas6917 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you

  • @deytoncoley3415
    @deytoncoley3415 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bro love your content!

  • @Da-Iceman.
    @Da-Iceman. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a perspective I haven't heard before🔥🔥

  • @SolarNinja
    @SolarNinja 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I learned a lot from this video. Thank you. Love the content.

  • @channelnoraa
    @channelnoraa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Powerful

  • @brianpraetzel5873
    @brianpraetzel5873 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This relates to a story I just saw. Something with hockey players and s assault. Lust never ends well.

  • @crimsonsr1000
    @crimsonsr1000 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well said

  • @razzendahcuben
    @razzendahcuben 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Definitely examples of men failing big time in scripture that had nothing to do with women. David counted his troops, Judas betrayed Jesus, Peter ate with Judaizers. But I agree that giving in to sexual sin is weakness. "The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak."

    • @Xannyphantom21
      @Xannyphantom21 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He’s not trying to blame women lol.

    • @moody6719
      @moody6719 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Xannyphantom21 he's trying to say, don't follow woman's bc the first sin was bc of them, but we don't blame them "women"😂
      Well yes he's blaming woman's lol

    • @Xannyphantom21
      @Xannyphantom21 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@moody6719 I will admit delivery was lacking, but I hope people didn’t take the message as “women bad men good”. If anything there should have been a call for men to be worthy of submission because many are not.

    • @moody6719
      @moody6719 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Xannyphantom21 Yeah i understand you, but he did not get his point in the right way. Can you explain to me what you mean by that men worthy of submission?

    • @Xannyphantom21
      @Xannyphantom21 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@moody6719 When I think of a solid example of a man worthy of submission I think of for one Joseph, Mary’s husband. Boaz, Moses, Joshua, to name some more.

  • @dndk5311
    @dndk5311 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lord I thank you for isaac

  • @MaskedRiderChris
    @MaskedRiderChris 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I used to be really bad about this, but that's one of the reasons I stopped dating some time ago, because it seems that modern women are fully expecting all the power to be given to them without the accountability that we men are expected to take for all but every breath we draw. I used to be bad about erring on the side of that, but nowadays, as I consider getting back into dating? I'm being more careful about this by far.

  • @gaming-kingjunior8764
    @gaming-kingjunior8764 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen

  • @user-lp9kh4ue9x
    @user-lp9kh4ue9x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hard to hear, but it's the truth.

  • @TheBushPilot
    @TheBushPilot 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    wow

  • @batsquad2046
    @batsquad2046 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Proverbs 31;3 shall set you free 😉

  • @Sl33pySage
    @Sl33pySage 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    1 Corinthians 7:8 (KJV ):
    8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.
    1 Corinthians 7:32-35 (KJV ): 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
    Matthew 19:12(KJV):
    For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
    It's best to focus on your relationship with God, for the world and the things in it are passing away.
    God bless.

    • @Sl33pySage
      @Sl33pySage หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @savedbyjesus9205 ‭Ecclesiastes 7:27-28 KJV‬
      [27] Behold, this have I found, saith the Preacher, counting one by one, to find out the account: [28] which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found.
      Doesn't this scripture indicate that it's also mathematically impossible for every righteous man to have a righteous woman?
      You say they would be rejecting God's gift but isn't Jesus saying they CHOOSE to be eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake?
      I'm not trying to argue with you as these are genuine questions/concerns but it seems rather confusing/conflicting. God's will, of course, will be done.
      ‭Matthew 6:33 KJV‬
      [33] But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
      God bless.

  • @FamilyHistoriandude
    @FamilyHistoriandude 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Don't give power to unmerciful people.

  • @jeremycarpenter5550
    @jeremycarpenter5550 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1 timothy man and a proverbs 31 woman.

  • @btnagasaki3029
    @btnagasaki3029 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Cannot lie I thought this was Marzia in the thumbnail

  • @ChadSantiago-he8xt
    @ChadSantiago-he8xt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Seems like relationship boundaries.

  • @RobertMclaren68
    @RobertMclaren68 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I regret bn off track with God and not ready to meet the girl He gave me to marry

  • @hollikrebs
    @hollikrebs หลายเดือนก่อน

    Adam put Eve before God. He knew not to eat the fruit but put Eve before God.

  • @Jon-on6dt
    @Jon-on6dt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I really enjoy a lot of the things you share however I disagree with your first example, the first one because I've understood your message to be largely because David was lustful over this woman that he gave his power to her but I belive it to be the case that he gave his power up to temptation and sin and therefore the devil, not the woman. Again, I love the things you share and appreciate the effort put into these videos as a ministry

    • @jdkayak7868
      @jdkayak7868 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The crazy part is when you read that story enough times in connection with the law and Bathsheba innocence you realize there was most likely coercion involved.

    • @heathersnyder8789
      @heathersnyder8789 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@jdkayak7868not to mention that Bathsheba was very young. The story gives her no relevance, agency, and only two words were uttered from her mouth. “I’m pregnant.” She had no power. David abused his power to get her. She had no choice. No power.

    • @madisonmeyers5493
      @madisonmeyers5493 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@heathersnyder8789Thank you for pointing this out! I recently studied that story and came to similar conclusions. Hearing that it as David giving away his power to Bathsheba didn’t sit well with me

  • @musicianethanhopper
    @musicianethanhopper 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How is this video perfectly timed?

  • @stevenwebb3475
    @stevenwebb3475 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The best story for this is Samson who gave up his secret to his wife and lost his strength. His story is found towards the end of Judges and should he studied by all men.

  • @sporter527
    @sporter527 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    basiert

  • @brienmcchesney3548
    @brienmcchesney3548 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hmm.. I dont this can be taken as something against women, but against some men’s lust. Unless I missed it, these were only examples of romantic or sexual relationships? Do we think that Christian men can have nonsexual, nonromantic relationships with women like how Jesus did? If so, where is that in this conversation? If not, where is that assumption drawn from?
    Jesus clearly accepted influence from his mother. (John 2:1-8)
    I imagine that is normative in many of our personal lives and the life of the church on a congregational level, or vast, historic level. Even in traditions/ denominations where female leadership is prohibited, I imagine there are significant ways that women are needed and their insights are needed to effectively be the hands and feet of Jesus.

  • @Makise3
    @Makise3 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This hits too close to home for me. My dad literally gave up on everything and let my mom take over just because he felt like it was her fault that he had to resign from his assistant principal job and everything has gone down the craper since then. He ruined our family and he doesn’t even care.

  • @lindsayceara
    @lindsayceara 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a woman, I approve this message 😂

    • @lindsayceara
      @lindsayceara 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@trevrockrock16 hope you find happiness🤍

  • @vivien7586
    @vivien7586 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No need to worry bro. Just say to women what you're talking about rn and they'll naturally go away

  • @henryphillips3150
    @henryphillips3150 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God made woman and it all went downhill from there.

    • @akiram6609
      @akiram6609 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And here I am thinking it all went downhill when Lucifer chose to rebel.

  • @Mat14651
    @Mat14651 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    To you reading this Jesus can help with whatever problems, hardships, and issues you have. Believe in him and what he has done on the cross for your salvation. You can not save yourself he came to save us. Turn from your sins, repent, which is changing your life to follow the way of God and not your way, your way will lead you into a pit of despair I know it, my way lead me in a pit to hell but Jesus rescued me and he can rescue you. He can grant a peace and joy unfelt, and be your closest friend always there, This is the gospel.
    Jesus Christ, son of God, died for our sins, was buried, and rose again on the third day. After he went to his tweleve disciples and many others before ascending into heaven eternally triumphant over all his enemies and making it so that there is now no condemnation for sin to all those who believe in him, but only everlasting joy. John 3:16

  • @waltervondervogelweide
    @waltervondervogelweide 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That example of david isn't a good point for me, he rather put sexual Lust over love and justice than giving his poverty to a woman... And there are also good examples of inpowert women, the judge Deborah led the army's successfully into battle... I would say that all of us (Galatians 3;28) should put the love to God and our next aboth all else especially stuff like sexual Lust. But I don't see a divine family hierarchy, one must always find the right amount of trust, no matter if you are men or woman...

  • @kspades2530
    @kspades2530 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Our sinful flesh follows what our father Adam, did. Fell because of a woman too. We abandoned our masculine lead Damn it 😭 1:20 there it isss lol

  • @smokingcrab2290
    @smokingcrab2290 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Eve was responsible for her own actions. Adam was not responsible for that. Adam was only responsible for not protecting and leading Eve. He should have smacked the fruit out of her hand, killed the serpent, grabbed her by the hand and said "babe were getting out of here. What are you doing? Let's go back to God, back to safety. God told us not to be here so let's go"

  • @savedbyjesus7365
    @savedbyjesus7365 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Sounds a little Andrew Tate-y with some elements of Christianity.
    I'm all for Biblical leadership of men in the home and in church. When done in a God-honoring way, it's a beautiful thing.
    But I don't see how sins like lust are about giving your power to women... It's your own sinful heart and choice. Women aren't empowered (given power) by being lusted over. You aren't giving them anything. Lust is more about you giving your heart over to Satan for him to pervert and corrupt. Fighting lust shouldn't be motivated by ego and keeping your "power" over a woman. It's about honoring another image bearer and upholding the beauty of intimacy in marriage. And what about women who struggle with lust and porn? Are they giving their power over to a man?
    Again, Biblical headship in the home and church is great. But why has everything become about men's power and a woman's lack of power? I think so much red pill crap has infected Christianity way beyond what is Biblical roles for men and women. Why dont we just call sin "sin" instead of adopting terminology from the world?

    • @case.johnson
      @case.johnson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think a lot of what you said above could be helpful, but I think some of this fellow’s terminology here is legitimately derived from Proverbs 31:3, where perhaps “women” means something along the lines of “fixation on women”. And I would think that in many cases women are unhealthily desiring such attention, making it seem all the more appropriate to call it strength being “given to them”.

    • @savedbyjesus7365
      @savedbyjesus7365 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@case.johnson I actually read that verse a few days after posting my comment, and my mind was brought back to it! That makes sense what you're saying. I think that verse is more in regard to women who are being sexually manipulative (like in Proverbs 7) or warning against acquiring multiple wives like was common in that time (like how Solomon's heart was led astray by all the pagan wives).
      But I still think with all the red pill stuff that is so prevalent right now, we have to be super careful with how we approach this stuff. I rewatched Isaac's video and still disagree with several points he makes, but I certainly still think he is a great man so it's nothing against him at all.

  • @jeremycarpenter5550
    @jeremycarpenter5550 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Adam and eve but it was adam it was his fault it was an actual commandment it was before the ten commandments . God commanded adam to not eat of the fruit of the tree .

  • @revioli493
    @revioli493 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    bro you need to give you're shirt over to a woman, so she can iron it for you, its wrinkly. lol. In all seriousness good points though.

    • @biancadukes5311
      @biancadukes5311 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      As a woman that was the first thing I noticed. 😂

    • @cartoonrush5660
      @cartoonrush5660 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Honestly, this had me distracted like I was mentally ironing his shirt for him the entire video. 😂

  • @christiegibson1315
    @christiegibson1315 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I know I'm in the minority but I believe that woman's desire for man (not his position) is why he "rules over" (not leads) her. A woman who stays through physical abuse, neglect or stays in spite of her children being abused, is staying because that relationship and what she gets from it is more important than her, or their safety.
    I just think men don't have the courage to believe that a woman's desire for him could be bad.
    However, she must desire God more and first. That does include submiting and respecting but does not mean obeying into commiting sin.

    • @christiegibson1315
      @christiegibson1315 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I believe women desire a man’s love, attention, time, affection, presence, affirmation and assurance that she is the best woman EVER for him. I don’t think this goes against your verse comparison, although it is very hard to personify sin and it’s desires.
      This video was telling men not to place women before God. Women also, ought not to place men before God.
      Feminism in America cannot be used to examine what the Scripture meant back when it was written. Feminism started to overcome real abuses. From having watched life, I would suspect it is daughters of abused women who are the most hateful of men. They watch that and say, “H… NO!”. I’ve never been one and spoken against it’s extremes for years.
      Being a woman who has never wanted a man’s position, and watching women for years, I don’t think they want a man’s position. They want a real man of God (They just don’t know what that is or looks like.). When they put him before God and don’t receive the affirmation they need from God, they will want excess of a man’s time, attention, affirmation and such.
      Men are too busy thinking women want to rule them, when they really want to be well loved and cared for. A woman of God will fall in line behind a man who loves God first and loves her well.
      Too many Christian men are looking in the world for their wives and judging women by worldly standards. Too many godless men are turning to the Church to find submissive virgins (or low body count women), to make their wives. This is a disaster for both.
      And absolutely, desire for another person can be sinful and grotesque in the sight of God. It can be idolatry.
      @@trevrockrock16

    • @christiegibson1315
      @christiegibson1315 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Idolatry brings the curse. Just because something is good, doesn’t mean it can’t be bad in excess or out of bounds. Too much food, too much money seeking, too much power grabbing, too much shopping or spending are a few examples. Food isn’t bad but the excess is and does bring a curse.
      The curse is that he will “rule over” her. This is not the loving, self-sacrificial leadership he is called to. This is a rude, tyrannical, arrogant, self-seeking leadership. It’s very much the opposite of love (1 Cor. 13). The Father did not “rule over” the Son the way men try to rule over women. He led and guided. God does not exert control to get us to submit. He gives many admonitions and warnings and then does what is necessary for the good of others and His Great Name. Controlling is very much the opposite of how He operates with us. He gives us the best counsel and rules and leaves us to build or crash our own lives based on our obedience.
      If your parent commands you to let them molest you, or cheat on your taxes or steal and then threaten you, that is “ruling over”. They are forcing you to do what is sin. Even if it is not sin but it is only for their own gain and to your detriment, that is “ruling over”. If someone is happy to do it, they don’t need to be ruled. A wife well loved and cared for, won’t need to be ruled. She will gladly submit and serve her husband. If a wife lets a husband molest the children, beat and neglect the children and does not seek help from her husband’s authorities, she is in sin against her children and God.
      The woman is not commanded to desire her husband. She has desire that will keep her from doing what is right and necessary. A man has zero authority to have her desire. He either has it or he doesn’t. She can’t make herself love vomit if he is vomit. All she can do is submit (as unto Christ, not unto sin).
      You comment, “Yes, women placing men before God is placing God first, as God. Because God delegated authority to men.”, is utter nonsense. No woman should ever place any man before God. Submitting to a man is obedience to God and pleasing to Him, unless she is sinning against God to obey her husband. No, she shouldn’t steal, cheat, lie, kill, abuse for him. She is guilty before God if she does. In the same manner a man would be guilty before God for doing such things even if the Government or Elders of his Church, told him to. Yes, he is to submit to the government, to a point, but never when it crosses God’s commandment. A man who won’t submit to either the government or his elders is a godless man. Scripture commands him to submit. Do you put your Government and elders before God? Are you respecting your governmental heads as you ought and giving them the honor they are due?
      It's odd that you think that in the secular world women march into feminism every single time, but in the pagan world (logically the same exact world) men rule over women and don’t allow feminism. Secular and pagan worlds are ruled by demonic doctrine. It’s all wickedness and absence of God and His ways. Also, women are not commanded to submit to all men. They are to submit to their husbands, not their boyfriends or other men.
      @@trevrockrock16

  • @NotSteveCook
    @NotSteveCook 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You do a good job of marrying red pill perspective with Biblical worldview.

    • @TheStarshipGarage
      @TheStarshipGarage 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      The Christ-pilled perspective.

    • @lindakainja2136
      @lindakainja2136 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This!! Literally every video he has done on women

  • @at0knight188
    @at0knight188 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Adam was right next to eve and then blamed her,

  • @edithnaike
    @edithnaike 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I would like to disagree with the aspects of this video. David gave into sexual sin and inherently the devil not to a woman. There was no trade of power. I think it is best to read the Bible and not go out of context. There are many examples that you are giving that don't mean giving power to a woman but the devil.

  • @armandvega2752
    @armandvega2752 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Strongly disagree with the part about Adam & Eve. Eve didn’t act as the spiritual head when she ate the apple. She simply made a mistake and Adam was sitting right there and did nothing. However just because Adam also ate from the apple doesn’t mean he sacrificed his position as the head. He simply made a bad judgment call. A husband complying with the requests of his wife does not mean he is putting himself beneath her. That logic is in the same vein as a wife believing that submission to her husband is akin to slavery.
    Eve was not leading Adam when she ate the fruit and convinced Adam to partake as well. She wasn’t a slave either, otherwise she wouldn’t have been able to eat from the Tree of Knowledge in the first place.
    Neglect and irresponsibility =/= Sacrificing power and authority. You still have power and authority, you’re just not using it.
    Submission and compliance =/= slavery and the absence of autonomy. You still have autonomy, you’re just choosing to follow some else’s lead.
    Choose your words carefully Isaac.

    • @inquisitiveferret5690
      @inquisitiveferret5690 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thats part of my biggest gripe with him. He's waaaay too fast and loose with his terms. He also just asserts and very rarely substantiates his points. Most of the time its a nothing burger.

    • @inquisitiveferret5690
      @inquisitiveferret5690 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@youtubeKathy *Some* theologians. Its contested. Also depends if you take a highly literal interpretation of Genesis.
      So no Isaac is not necessarily right.

    • @owusuphilipable
      @owusuphilipable 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol a mistake 😂 it was rebellion read genesis again, God punished them according to the crime

    • @moody6719
      @moody6719 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agree

  • @im_just_victor
    @im_just_victor 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Adam was the original simp, satan was the first chad. I choose to be like Paul and be too focused to be either such morally weak figures.

    • @sporter527
      @sporter527 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      eve was stacy

    • @tomkingg
      @tomkingg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We've all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. The Holy Ghost alone keeps us from sin

    • @caribbaviator7058
      @caribbaviator7058 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I don't know why I laughed at this comment but this sums it up.

  • @aelfredrex8354
    @aelfredrex8354 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I worship Freya, one of the Love Goddesses. She doesn't take my power, She fuels it.

    • @sporter527
      @sporter527 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      uhhhhhhhh

  • @smokingcrab2290
    @smokingcrab2290 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dude. The accusations that men are just lazy and want to be led are false. You can't tell me to "be men" just by telling them to "do better". Men need to be connected to God's Fatherly love in their lives. Because when we receive and accept God's fatherly love, he shows us how to be men - through love. Don't focus on "masculinity". Focus on living in God's love and transferring it to others and even your own self. Because that's the life Jesus paid for.

  • @melchysomba9690
    @melchysomba9690 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Phew, for a sec I thought bro had turned redpill 😅

  • @GabrielleTollerson
    @GabrielleTollerson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    AWWWW,poor baby has mommy issues

  • @peterbaldwin1881
    @peterbaldwin1881 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    broski is insecure about strong women 😂

  • @evangelistjoseph7
    @evangelistjoseph7 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen

  • @gab1172
    @gab1172 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen