The best way to talk about it is to come from a place of openness and understanding. If more people had an understanding of how mental health and illness impacts their own lives, it would do wonders for combating the stigma that surrounds it. It's hard to talk about because it is so taboo.
Seeking for help.. My bestie thinks she is suffering from bipolar...this hasn't been confirmed yet by a specialist though...but the symptoms are quite similar... She has had a major depressive phase..which lasted for more than an year... during which she took the most extreme step too but was fortunately saved...this was a few months back... But she's quite stable now.. in terms of having suicidal thoughts... Currently the thing is that her emotions aren't in her control...sometimes she just cries and cries literally for hours without any reason..and experiences severe headache too.. Also, there are a lot of mood swings...At a particular instant she will be very depressed, numb and cold..won't talk with anybody...and on the very same day after a few hours or on the next day she will be highly energetic and excited... Now the issue is that first of all we are in our teenage only....still at such a tender age too she is giving the best possible fight.... Secondly she hasn't informed her parents about her current symptoms for multiple reasons...as far as I have understood..the reason is she is a bit afraid of getting treated...and also she believes that if she will inform her parents then out of concern they'll start invading her privacy which she has been given currently... Another issue is that for some reasons neither can I inform them... I have been trying to convince her about informing her parents and seeking for professional help.. but she says she wants to wait.. Also..for some reasons I can't even meet her frequently...and worse...I will be going far away from her to another city in a few days.. So basically I stand almost helpless... one thing is for sure that professional help is absolutely necessary or else the condition might worsen... I don't know what to do and the only thing I could think of is seeking help through such platforms... I would be really very grateful if any professional or past sufferer can make me understand that how can I convince her for seeking professional help and also that how should I behave in her manic and low epsiodes so that I don't worsen the condition....
Education is so important. I have panic disorder so similar to ptsd people have a stereotype that your afraid of everything avoid anything you fear. This is somewhat true somewhat not depends on how you feel on the day. Most of these common issues aren't even understood so talking about it may be helpful. Some people may also have other problems there not aware of. Mental health and physical health are both important. Every 1 dollar invested in mental health results in 4 dollars ability to work, be a good partner, family member and freind etc. So why stigmatize what works? treating it like cancer, heart disease is when we know we have made progress in society. people who make fun of mental illness are sick and horrible whether joking about suicide, physcotic/hallucinations or any other mental health things/problems whether rare or common.
Thank you Dan for being open and honest. I'm working on being the same way. Depression/anxiety since 18 kept it secret out of fear and shame and took a MH leave from school had the same issue. Mental illness does not make you unintelligent or incapable.. And I was a psych major after my diagnosis and heard all the mocking (when I still kept it secret)
You are an inspiration, keep up the good work. I have bipolar 1 and it's hard, everyone I come across look down on me, my relatives, my husband...Sigh sometimes I just feel like giving up.
I don't know if you're reading this and I don't know what you've been through, but I just want to say that I'm worried about your comment and I want your well-being, if you're feeling suicidal then, please, look for a suicide hotline. I just want you to know that I care about you, and want you to feel well.
Excellent presentation Mr. Bernstein. I especially appreciate your intro to mediation. I took a community mediation training course 1995. It has been useful in my life ever since. LOVE. PEACE. God Bless
What a great talk! It's hard sometimes to step back and make room for others' stories, but it makes so much more sense. It's hard to communicate if we assume we know what is going on! I especially like the idea of respecting other people's choices. I've always wanted to do a good job of showing support for people who need it, and I can see where talking about choices is a much more empowering way to do it.
Brayan Reyes, I find you offensive. Because I rather have your diagnosis than mine. But what we have in common, we have people who believe we are violent. It doesn’t mean they are right. But I have been getting different diagnosis like stress and anxiety.
Seeking for help.. My bestie thinks she is suffering from bipolar...this hasn't been confirmed yet by a specialist though...but the symptoms are quite similar... She has had a major depressive phase..which lasted for more than an year... during which she took the most extreme step too but was fortunately saved...this was a few months back... But she's quite stable now.. in terms of having suicidal thoughts... Currently the thing is that her emotions aren't in her control...sometimes she just cries and cries literally for hours without any reason..and experiences severe headache too.. Also, there are a lot of mood swings...At a particular instant she will be very depressed, numb and cold..won't talk with anybody...and on the very same day after a few hours or on the next day she will be highly energetic and excited... Now the issue is that first of all we are in our teenage only....still at such a tender age too she is giving the best possible fight.... Secondly she hasn't informed her parents about her current symptoms for multiple reasons...as far as I have understood..the reason is she is a bit afraid of getting treated...and also she believes that if she will inform her parents then out of concern they'll start invading her privacy which she has been given currently... Another issue is that for some reasons neither can I inform them... I have been trying to convince her about informing her parents and seeking for professional help.. but she says she wants to wait.. Also..for some reasons I can't even meet her frequently...and worse...I will be going far away from her to another city in a few days.. So basically I stand almost helpless... one thing is for sure that professional help is absolutely necessary or else the condition might worsen... I don't know what to do and the only thing I could think of is seeking help through such platforms... I would be really very grateful if any professional or past sufferer can make me understand that how can I convince her for seeking professional help and also that how should I behave in her manic and low epsiodes so that I don't worsen the condition....
Beautifully crafted presentation, authentic, real and personal. You are an inspiration to me Dan. I will remember this presentation next time I take the podium, love Lisa
My son is a masterful educator. I do no use the term disabled. Through my lens my son has an extraordinary mind unique abilities and a multi-faceted/level learning style. I respect him as the expert because he lives his unique ability. This is a magnificent journey and the conversation is open. I have learned so much. His channel is @Vondale Garrett The Slap. His unique ability is Nonverbal Learning Disability. Thank you for hearing my voice.💕
The less stigma and more education on health issues is good. I think educating your family freinds and society is great. Especially around common anxiety disorders. people looking to treat it like cancer, diabetes and heart disease understand how to create a healthier society that benefits everyone. Discrimination and stigma against vulnerable people like myself is showing more of what is wrong with society and not people who have common issues. Cancer used to have the same stigma. Many people have mental illneses and you wouldn't even realize it unless they tell you. Some are very smart and capable people no diffrent than some physical conditions. Can be treated easily if it's a common issue. Making it a part of school ciriculums is a great idea for coping skills life skills etc. Anyone any age can have it.
Seeking for help.. My bestie thinks she is suffering from bipolar...this hasn't been confirmed yet by a specialist though...but the symptoms are quite similar... She has had a major depressive phase..which lasted for more than an year... during which she took the most extreme step too but was fortunately saved...this was a few months back... But she's quite stable now.. in terms of having suicidal thoughts... Currently the thing is that her emotions aren't in her control...sometimes she just cries and cries literally for hours without any reason..and experiences severe headache too.. Also, there are a lot of mood swings...At a particular instant she will be very depressed, numb and cold..won't talk with anybody...and on the very same day after a few hours or on the next day she will be highly energetic and excited... Now the issue is that first of all we are in our teenage only....still at such a tender age too she is giving the best possible fight.... Secondly she hasn't informed her parents about her current symptoms for multiple reasons...as far as I have understood..the reason is she is a bit afraid of getting treated...and also she believes that if she will inform her parents then out of concern they'll start invading her privacy which she has been given currently... Another issue is that for some reasons neither can I inform them... I have been trying to convince her about informing her parents and seeking for professional help.. but she says she wants to wait.. Also..for some reasons I can't even meet her frequently...and worse...I will be going far away from her to another city in a few days.. So basically I stand almost helpless... one thing is for sure that professional help is absolutely necessary or else the condition might worsen... I don't know what to do and the only thing I could think of is seeking help through such platforms... I would be really very grateful if any professional or past sufferer can make me understand that how can I convince her for seeking professional help and also that how should I behave in her manic and low epsiodes so that I don't worsen the condition....
I think there's stigma attached because people don't understand it. Like out group stigma/prejudice. There needs to be more general discussion about it. Preventable mental illness costs a lot of money in wasted opportunities. People need to grow up with this taught to them like they do for other health issues (they do here anyway 😏).
5:07 No, it isn't, it's to protect the school's fiduciary duty to it's shareholders from admittance of low performing students who may have a "counterproductive" impact on other students, whose performances are a direct functional input for the school's fiduciary outputs. Straight tf up 104% just mathematical capitalism, not a single shred of empathy involved whatsoever, because it can't be, legally: fiduciary duty trumps emotion, and morality.
Agree, Failure to uphold fiduciary duty can result in legal consequences, such as lawsuits for breach of duty and financial penalties. BS. Nothing to do with duty of care or empathy. It's all about liability/capitalism.
I have panic disorder it's not as stigmatized but people with that disorder still commit suicide or have physical health problems if untreated. it's very common like gad ptsd, panic disorder and depression. Talking about it with facts and stats is important along with science. If you find yourself avoiding places that shouldn't be scary because of fear it may be a anxiety disorder your experiencing.
@@adamdomenicpacione7574 I have social anxiety and fear of public speaking since young. Even though better now, feelings of anxiety can still creep in from time to time. Will have burning sensations on my legs
This is essentially just a guy rambling on about how having a mental illness creates his identity. Doing so creates a picture that the theory of the pathology is a fixed concept, "you dont suffer from bipolar, you are bipolar". Much like... being a certain race or gender. Mental illness - bipolar - is too abstract, fluid and misunderstood of a concept to be portrayed in a manor that it is as fixed as an identity attribute as categorical as race or gender. He portrays it that way by introducing himself that way.
Your openness and thoughtfulness is so moving AND useful.
The best way to talk about it is to come from a place of openness and understanding. If more people had an understanding of how mental health and illness impacts their own lives, it would do wonders for combating the stigma that surrounds it. It's hard to talk about because it is so taboo.
Seeking for help..
My bestie thinks she is suffering from bipolar...this hasn't been confirmed yet by a specialist though...but the symptoms are quite similar...
She has had a major depressive phase..which lasted for more than an year... during which she took the most extreme step too but was fortunately saved...this was a few months back...
But she's quite stable now.. in terms of having suicidal thoughts...
Currently the thing is that her emotions aren't in her control...sometimes she just cries and cries literally for hours without any reason..and experiences severe headache too..
Also, there are a lot of mood swings...At a particular instant she will be very depressed, numb and cold..won't talk with anybody...and on the very same day after a few hours or on the next day she will be highly energetic and excited...
Now the issue is that first of all we are in our teenage only....still at such a tender age too she is giving the best possible fight....
Secondly she hasn't informed her parents about her current symptoms for multiple reasons...as far as I have understood..the reason is she is a bit afraid of getting treated...and also she believes that if she will inform her parents then out of concern they'll start invading her privacy which she has been given currently...
Another issue is that for some reasons neither can I inform them...
I have been trying to convince her about informing her parents and seeking for professional help.. but she says she wants to wait..
Also..for some reasons I can't even meet her frequently...and worse...I will be going far away from her to another city in a few days..
So basically I stand almost helpless... one thing is for sure that professional help is absolutely necessary or else the condition might worsen...
I don't know what to do and the only thing I could think of is seeking help through such platforms...
I would be really very grateful if any professional or past sufferer can make me understand that how can I convince her for seeking professional help and also that how should I behave in her manic and low epsiodes so that I don't worsen the condition....
Education is so important. I have panic disorder so similar to ptsd people have a stereotype that your afraid of everything avoid anything you fear. This is somewhat true somewhat not depends on how you feel on the day. Most of these common issues aren't even understood so talking about it may be helpful. Some people may also have other problems there not aware of. Mental health and physical health are both important. Every 1 dollar invested in mental health results in 4 dollars ability to work, be a good partner, family member and freind etc. So why stigmatize what works? treating it like cancer, heart disease is when we know we have made progress in society. people who make fun of mental illness are sick and horrible whether joking about suicide, physcotic/hallucinations or any other mental health things/problems whether rare or common.
I have a very good friend who has a good heart and cares. He wants to help but always pushes me to talk and that is not always what I need
Thank you Dan for being open and honest. I'm working on being the same way. Depression/anxiety since 18 kept it secret out of fear and shame and took a MH leave from school had the same issue. Mental illness does not make you unintelligent or incapable.. And I was a psych major after my diagnosis and heard all the mocking (when I still kept it secret)
It’s so hard to talk about mental health because once you do, people stop listening and ask no questions, but instead tell you to be positive.
Boy, so true, in my experience.
Yeah u even can’t tell people they are crazy
You are an inspiration, keep up the good work.
I have bipolar 1 and it's hard, everyone I come across look down on me, my relatives, my husband...Sigh sometimes I just feel like giving up.
I’m sorry. You’re loved and youcan get through this. God loves you, God bless. I believe in you!❤️❤️
Never give up, there are others who see value in you ❤️❤️❤️
I don't know if you're reading this and I don't know what you've been through, but I just want to say that I'm worried about your comment and I want your well-being, if you're feeling suicidal then, please, look for a suicide hotline. I just want you to know that I care about you, and want you to feel well.
Excellent presentation Mr. Bernstein. I especially appreciate your intro to mediation. I took a community mediation training course 1995. It has been useful in my life ever since. LOVE. PEACE. God Bless
What a great talk! It's hard sometimes to step back and make room for others' stories, but it makes so much more sense. It's hard to communicate if we assume we know what is going on! I especially like the idea of respecting other people's choices. I've always wanted to do a good job of showing support for people who need it, and I can see where talking about choices is a much more empowering way to do it.
I’m diagnosed with bipolar disorder too and I also protect my sleep.i never knew others did too
Brayan Reyes, I find you offensive. Because I rather have your diagnosis than mine. But what we have in common, we have people who believe we are violent. It doesn’t mean they are right. But I have been getting different diagnosis like stress and anxiety.
But I don’t know you. I didn’t say that I don’t like you.
thank you for sharing! it's so important to open up about these things and talk about mental health.
Thank you Dan Berstein!! Your tedtalk deserves more thumbs ups! This is great knowledge and valuable perspective 💯👍🏻
Thank you! You share important tips to help me understand how to help my loved one with Bp2. I need more of this kind of videos. 😌
Seeking for help..
My bestie thinks she is suffering from bipolar...this hasn't been confirmed yet by a specialist though...but the symptoms are quite similar...
She has had a major depressive phase..which lasted for more than an year... during which she took the most extreme step too but was fortunately saved...this was a few months back...
But she's quite stable now.. in terms of having suicidal thoughts...
Currently the thing is that her emotions aren't in her control...sometimes she just cries and cries literally for hours without any reason..and experiences severe headache too..
Also, there are a lot of mood swings...At a particular instant she will be very depressed, numb and cold..won't talk with anybody...and on the very same day after a few hours or on the next day she will be highly energetic and excited...
Now the issue is that first of all we are in our teenage only....still at such a tender age too she is giving the best possible fight....
Secondly she hasn't informed her parents about her current symptoms for multiple reasons...as far as I have understood..the reason is she is a bit afraid of getting treated...and also she believes that if she will inform her parents then out of concern they'll start invading her privacy which she has been given currently...
Another issue is that for some reasons neither can I inform them...
I have been trying to convince her about informing her parents and seeking for professional help.. but she says she wants to wait..
Also..for some reasons I can't even meet her frequently...and worse...I will be going far away from her to another city in a few days..
So basically I stand almost helpless... one thing is for sure that professional help is absolutely necessary or else the condition might worsen...
I don't know what to do and the only thing I could think of is seeking help through such platforms...
I would be really very grateful if any professional or past sufferer can make me understand that how can I convince her for seeking professional help and also that how should I behave in her manic and low epsiodes so that I don't worsen the condition....
Beautifully crafted presentation, authentic, real and personal. You are an inspiration to me Dan. I will remember this presentation next time I take the podium, love Lisa
My son is a masterful educator. I do no use the term disabled. Through my lens my son has an extraordinary mind unique abilities and a multi-faceted/level learning style. I respect him as the expert because he lives his unique ability. This is a magnificent journey and the conversation is open. I have learned so much. His channel is @Vondale Garrett The Slap. His unique ability is Nonverbal Learning Disability. Thank you for hearing my voice.💕
You have the best speech of all time.
The less stigma and more education on health issues is good. I think educating your family freinds and society is great. Especially around common anxiety disorders. people looking to treat it like cancer, diabetes and heart disease understand how to create a healthier society that benefits everyone. Discrimination and stigma against vulnerable people like myself is showing more of what is wrong with society and not people who have common issues. Cancer used to have the same stigma. Many people have mental illneses and you wouldn't even realize it unless they tell you. Some are very smart and capable people no diffrent than some physical conditions. Can be treated easily if it's a common issue. Making it a part of school ciriculums is a great idea for coping skills life skills etc. Anyone any age can have it.
Very helpful, thank you for your experiential knowledge, Dan Bernstein.
Great talk, thank you so much. I have Bipolar disorder too
Wow, thank you very much for sharing with us 🙏🏾
Seeking for help..
My bestie thinks she is suffering from bipolar...this hasn't been confirmed yet by a specialist though...but the symptoms are quite similar...
She has had a major depressive phase..which lasted for more than an year... during which she took the most extreme step too but was fortunately saved...this was a few months back...
But she's quite stable now.. in terms of having suicidal thoughts...
Currently the thing is that her emotions aren't in her control...sometimes she just cries and cries literally for hours without any reason..and experiences severe headache too..
Also, there are a lot of mood swings...At a particular instant she will be very depressed, numb and cold..won't talk with anybody...and on the very same day after a few hours or on the next day she will be highly energetic and excited...
Now the issue is that first of all we are in our teenage only....still at such a tender age too she is giving the best possible fight....
Secondly she hasn't informed her parents about her current symptoms for multiple reasons...as far as I have understood..the reason is she is a bit afraid of getting treated...and also she believes that if she will inform her parents then out of concern they'll start invading her privacy which she has been given currently...
Another issue is that for some reasons neither can I inform them...
I have been trying to convince her about informing her parents and seeking for professional help.. but she says she wants to wait..
Also..for some reasons I can't even meet her frequently...and worse...I will be going far away from her to another city in a few days..
So basically I stand almost helpless... one thing is for sure that professional help is absolutely necessary or else the condition might worsen...
I don't know what to do and the only thing I could think of is seeking help through such platforms...
I would be really very grateful if any professional or past sufferer can make me understand that how can I convince her for seeking professional help and also that how should I behave in her manic and low epsiodes so that I don't worsen the condition....
Thank you for sharing
Thank you 🙏
I think there's stigma attached because people don't understand it. Like out group stigma/prejudice. There needs to be more general discussion about it. Preventable mental illness costs a lot of money in wasted opportunities. People need to grow up with this taught to them like they do for other health issues (they do here anyway 😏).
I really appreciate this insight of yours!!! Thank you!!
Desidional Balances and Evaluation
Great presentation! Thank you :)
Wonderfull talk.
THANK YOU!
Great presentation. Thank you!
5:07 No, it isn't, it's to protect the school's fiduciary duty to it's shareholders from admittance of low performing students who may have a "counterproductive" impact on other students, whose performances are a direct functional input for the school's fiduciary outputs. Straight tf up 104% just mathematical capitalism, not a single shred of empathy involved whatsoever, because it can't be, legally: fiduciary duty trumps emotion, and morality.
I was wondering about that too.
Agree, Failure to uphold fiduciary duty can result in legal consequences, such as lawsuits for breach of duty and financial penalties. BS. Nothing to do with duty of care or empathy. It's all about liability/capitalism.
Great story! Storytelling always work
Yesterday, late night, my daughter told me she seen images that her father passed out on the floor at their house.
WoW!
I am offended because I feel that my diagnosis is more stigmatized.
I listen more. He makes sense. I think he’s bright.
I have panic disorder it's not as stigmatized but people with that disorder still commit suicide or have physical health problems if untreated. it's very common like gad ptsd, panic disorder and depression. Talking about it with facts and stats is important along with science. If you find yourself avoiding places that shouldn't be scary because of fear it may be a anxiety disorder your experiencing.
@@adamdomenicpacione7574 I have social anxiety and fear of public speaking since young. Even though better now, feelings of anxiety can still creep in from time to time. Will have burning sensations on my legs
Dude...! Anything is possible...! Medical diagnosis is always inaccurate...
This is essentially just a guy rambling on about how having a mental illness creates his identity.
Doing so creates a picture that the theory of the pathology is a fixed concept, "you dont suffer from bipolar, you are bipolar". Much like... being a certain race or gender.
Mental illness - bipolar - is too abstract, fluid and misunderstood of a concept to be portrayed in a manor that it is as fixed as an identity attribute as categorical as race or gender. He portrays it that way by introducing himself that way.
G G he has every right to talk about it. Don't like it? Who cares. Not me. Don't watch it if you think he's just rambling.
G G. Do you suffer from racism? It sounds like you feel like what you wrote was important.