I Had Post Wedding Depression | Sophie Helyn

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  • @elizabethmason3888
    @elizabethmason3888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is EXACTLY how I feel. Thank you for the validation.

    • @SophieHelyn
      @SophieHelyn  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Firstly congratulations! I promise it gets easier! Ride the wave , talk about how you feel snd know it will pass . All the best Sophie x

  • @raymoser739
    @raymoser739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m going through this right now. I also had a crappy couple days prior to the wedding which emotionally threw me. I just feel so down and miserable, and mad at myself for feeling this way. I should be elated and so over the moon. And I feel empty and lonely and just miserable.

    • @SophieHelyn
      @SophieHelyn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I totally get what your mean about feeling guilty for feeling down! I think it’s important to try and accept this is the way your feeling and that it will pass because your feelings are valid and totally explainable!

  • @sagaofsarahrose
    @sagaofsarahrose ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Married 11/19 - today, 10 days later my event drop/wedding depression is spiraling but this is the first time I've heard my feels validated. Thank you.

    • @SophieHelyn
      @SophieHelyn  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congrats on getting married. Your feelings are so valid and it will get easier . Just know I’m sending a big virtual hug though at the in between period x

  • @familymanes3816
    @familymanes3816 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks for being brave enough to share. I can identify...there is such a big lead up to your wedding day and when the party’s over you really have to readjust. It’s lovely that you enjoyed being in your wedding/honeymoon love bubble that you’re missing it. I think more pplgo through this than are willing to acknowledge it. Sending love wherever u are now in ur journey

  • @sanskarikaur9834
    @sanskarikaur9834 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have been married almost 6 months now, and I started feeling depressed immediately after coming back from the honeymoon and going back to work. I’m still suffering from anxiety and depression

  • @ScenariosOfDrea
    @ScenariosOfDrea ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah I feel sort of this way, and very emotional everyone keeps telling me "You married your best friend so no need to be sad" which I hate that

  • @starrya5647
    @starrya5647 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much for this. I got married 2 weeks ago, we only went on a 5 night honeymoon, but still when we came back it was very hard. Also having the separation anxiety! It's crazy! Really didn't expect this to hit me like it has. Anyway knowing I'm not alone helps a lot. Hope you are doing better now xxx

    • @SophieHelyn
      @SophieHelyn  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Starry A thanks for your comment and sharing your experience! With time it will ease I still don’t like being away from hubby for more than a day but I think that’s natural x

  • @laurahernandez5745
    @laurahernandez5745 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Girl you are making me cry lol. Just got back from our honeymoon. It was amazing just being with my husband I love being with him and now he is at work all day and yes it does hurt. So weird! I haven't cried much but on the verge very often. We had such a long planning process with two weddings for each side of the family. It was all so magical and of course, I don't want it to end but I know I am here to work until our next adventure. I feel you! It really comes down to being co dependent which I totally am personally. Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @leahanne7288
    @leahanne7288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks so much for this video. Been feeling so off, and I had a feeling depression was creeping in again. My husband and I have been married 2 months now and I feel like I see him as now as I did when we were dating. He runs three businesses and works such long hours. I just wish I could spend more time together, but I know there’s not much he can do to help that. I’m so happy being married to my best friend but the time away from each other is what is really getting to me. I think over time I will be able to adjust, it’s just been hard these past couple of months. Again, thank you for the video 💗

  • @yasinelkarmoudi
    @yasinelkarmoudi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a husband I could relate to this as well.

    • @SophieHelyn
      @SophieHelyn  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you for speaking out I’m sure a lot of other men will see your comment and be able to relate !

  • @sophieclarke7540
    @sophieclarke7540 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m feeling This now. From one Sophie to another thank you for this video. I feel normal now.

  • @Paige-Turnner
    @Paige-Turnner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Going thru this right now.. 🥺😞💔 so difficult to even move.

    • @SophieHelyn
      @SophieHelyn  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just know that it will pass and be easier to deal with! Congratulations on getting married and wishing you all the best in these weeks

    • @Paige-Turnner
      @Paige-Turnner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SophieHelyn thank you so much. Just knowing this is relatively normal is reassuring. Thank you for posting this very personal experience to help others. ❣

  • @rtelesz2
    @rtelesz2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We’re on week five now with a very similar wedding/honeymoon schedule. Some days I feel good but others are still really hard. I knew it would be hard after but this sucks. I know one day will be ok again but it’s going to take time

    • @SophieHelyn
      @SophieHelyn  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It will but you will work through it! Keep planning little things to look forward to!

  • @weezerr2d284
    @weezerr2d284 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I understand I suffer from anxiety/depression. Take care you two !!

  • @starshineb1951
    @starshineb1951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am going through something like that. May Allah give us all patience , contentment and happiness. Keep trying and don't give up. I pray that things get easier for all of us. Ameen

  • @karinavisser7708
    @karinavisser7708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was married 2 days and we had to go back to work. No honeymoon, due to not having any leave. And its very very crushing....
    Work is keeping my husband so busy even on this weekend after our wedding.....no romance. Just reality

    • @SophieHelyn
      @SophieHelyn  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awh congratulation on the marriage. Maybe book something the two of you can look forward to

    • @sima9949
      @sima9949 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Like me😔 what u did to go on better?

  • @Selahree
    @Selahree 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Glad you did this - I am very depressed too and have zero interest in my normal activities. Just come home and lay in bed.

    • @SophieHelyn
      @SophieHelyn  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope things have improved for you over the last week. Definitely try to talk to someone if you can x

  • @faeriesmak
    @faeriesmak 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh..Sophie. You need to go back to see your doctor. It sounds like you need an adjustment to your medication. If it was right for you things would not be as hard as they are for you right now. Please go to see your doctor, please. Post natal depression is really a hormonal crash. I suffered from it with my second child but not my first. It’s really not about a build up or anything like that.it’s all hormonal. It’s also quite debilitating. I hope that you feel better soon. I can relate. I have had anxiety and depression as well.

    • @SophieHelyn
      @SophieHelyn  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your concern. I am feeling a lot better know a couple months on. But maybe its something i'd have to consider in the future.

    • @faeriesmak
      @faeriesmak 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am glad to hear that you are feeling better. Thanks for posting this, though. I think that it's important for this information to be out there.

  • @BriBorgersen
    @BriBorgersen 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can absolutely relate

    • @SophieHelyn
      @SophieHelyn  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Firstly congratulations on getting married! It will get easier, creating small things to look forward daily or weekly too really helped me

  • @iqraaruni
    @iqraaruni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you for this video. this help me so much.

  • @Varga5
    @Varga5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wedding blues is called being selfish.