Can You Have a Glow Up After 40?
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.ค. 2024
- Use code Jen15 for $15 off when you pay in full bit.ly/Nixwhite-partners Thank you to NixWhite! Can you have a glow up after 40? Yes! In today's video I share 5 keys to looking and feeling great and having a glow up after the age of 40.
⚜️ Lessons from Madame Chic amzn.to/3piU4p4
⚜️ What I'm Wearing
Lilysilk white button-down silk blouse shrsl.com/369iy Daily15 for 15% off
Lilysilk black silk jogger trouser shrsl.com/369ji Daily15 for 15% off
SKYE Jules 18K gold crystal & pearl necklace bit.ly/3o0B660 Jennifer20 for 20% off
Nail polish Londontown Vendetta shrsl.com/37b2x JenniferS for 25% off
Spa Robe by Plush Necessities shrsl.com/37f77
⚜️ Paula's Choice Skincare
Hydrating Cleanser bit.ly/3FImz5j
Perfect Cleansing Oil bit.ly/2YKmi1j
Advanced Replenishing Toner bit.ly/30g9tfm
2% BHA Exfoliant bit.ly/3FK2ZFV
Barrier Repair Moisturizer with retinol bit.ly/3j2ylhf
Vitamin C booster bit.ly/3FMq8rm
Purifying clay mask bit.ly/3DEy8Zz
⚜️Favorite Makeup Brands
MERIT Minimalist Makeup bit.ly/2LncmUR
A'DEL Natural Cosmetics bit.ly/2vcSfAe TDC20 for 20% off
bareMinerals bit.ly/3bQsNTk
Tarte bit.ly/3FNAdnJ
Too Faced bit.ly/3lLwdwl
Charlotte Tilbury bit.ly/3lC67vo
⚜️ Intermittent Fasting playlist bit.ly/2XoTlqn
⚜️ Wardrobe Core Items Featured
SKYE Zoe tiered dress in black bit.ly/305DfTX Jennifer20 for 20% off
Lilysilk midnight blue blouse shrsl.com/2ivxk Daily15 for 15% off
Grey Mott & Bow Allan Jeans bit.ly/3tyMRkU JLS10 for 10% off
Outerknown S.E.A. Suit (jumpsuit)
⚜️ Extras (Accessories) Featured
Teddy Blake Gigi Palmetto bag bit.ly/3oKo6lh TBJennC30 for $30 Off
Oliver Cabell Dream Mule in Leopard shrsl.com/372qf
Oliver Cabell black driving loafer shrsl.com/372r1
Thursday Boots Captain Boot bit.ly/3s606c0
Mer-Sea courtside short sleeve sweater shrsl.com/35tto
Mer-Sea Lisbon sweater in eggplant shrsl.com/362fy (what I'm wearing)
SKYE Enora crystal pearl earring bit.ly/3kyIinF Jennifer20 for 20% off
Scarf by Mont Kiji www.montkiji.com/the-shop/
SKYE Coraline trench bit.ly/3AutJqr Jennifer20 for 20% off
Green Tocco Toscano handbag Tocco Toscano bit.ly/3qAOdsO
Ballet sweater Morning Lavender bit.ly/3bnE2mL
Hipstik tights shrsl.com/2892o JEN15 for 15% off
⚜️ Time Stamps
0:00 Can you have a glow up after 40?
1:30 Glowing Skin
3:44 Vibrant smile
3:55 Nix White Sponsor
5:13 Intermittent Fasting
6:37 Flattering modern makeup
8:25 Unapologetic style
⚜️ Visit my corresponding blogpost for more dailyconnoisseur.blogspot.com...
⚜️ *NEW *The Ten-Item Wardrobe eCourse is newly updated and back online the-daily-connoisseur.teachab...
⚜️The Chic Society: Become a member of The Daily Connoisseur to get exclusive monthly live streams, access to my weekly members-only Vodcast, and more. Only $1.99 a month (upper tiers are also available) / @thedailyconnoisseur
⚜️ About me: Hello, I'm Jennifer L. Scott, New York Times bestselling author of LESSONS FROM MADAME CHIC, AT HOME WITH MADAME CHIC, and POLISH YOUR POISE WITH MADAME CHIC (Simon & Schuster) and CONNOISSEUR KIDS (Chronicle Books). On this channel you will see homemaking, capsule wardrobe (ten-item wardrobe), modern etiquette, ladylike and elegant living, and many other tips on how to become your own Madame Chic and Daily Connoisseur. I invite you to subscribe! New videos every week.
⚜️ Jennifer's Books : jenniferlscott.com
Connoisseur Kids
Lessons from Madame Chic
At Home with Madame Chic
Polish Your Poise with Madame Chic
⚜️ Popular videos:
Homemaker Playlist bit.ly/2WN4X4s
What's for Dinner? Playlist bit.ly/2Mmo2ao
Ten-Item Wardrobe Playlist bit.ly/3aYOqzH
⚜️ Jennifer's affordable e-Courses the-daily-connoisseur.teachabl...
NEW The Ten-Item Wardrobe
+
Carry Yourself with Poise
+
How to be Efficient at Home
⚜️ Daily Connoisseur Merch the-daily-connoisseur.creator...
⚜️ Connect
Author website: www.jenniferlscott.com
Facebook goo.gl/wrc2c6
Twitter: / jl_scott
Instagram: goo.gl/1H61DP
Jennifer's TEDx talk on the TEN-ITEM WARDROBE: • The ten-item wardrobe ...
Visit my Amazon page to see all of the items I recommend on the blog, including books, music, sleepwear, and more. www.amazon.com/shop/thedailyc... (affiliate store)
Copyright-free music from Epidemic Sound
End music by Borrtex
FTC: This video is sponsored by Nix White. I use affiliate links, including Amazon affiliate links which means I get a small commission from any purchases made at no cost to you. Thank you for your support. - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
Very nice video. I wanted to share my husband said one day,” Your were always pretty, but you were most beautiful in your forties.” I am now in my seventies now and I love sharing this with women who fear turning forty.
I am in the middle of a glow up and I’ll be 59 in December! It’s never too late. Actually i think you need one at every big life stage. Mine is inspired by becoming a grandma! I want to be around and vibrant for my little grandson for a long time!
I love that, Lori!
We are the same age and attitude...and I have a 4 year old grandson who adores his Nana 🍌Banana :)
❤️❤️
Love this
I clearly remember wanting a more mature, polished and pulled together look when I was approaching my 30’s. With all the procedures influencers and stars get these days, it’s incredibly refreshing to see others wanting to embrace one’s true self and lean into aging beautifully. I recently saw a quote from Jamie Lee Curtis where she stated that she feared we are wiping out a whole generation of beauty with plastic surgery🌹
Yes! We talked about the Jamie Lee Curtis quote Friday in The Chic Society 🙌
Thank you both for creating naturally inspiring content for women like me in our 30s. It is refreshing and encouraging. So appreciated. 🥰
@@TheDailyConnoisseur Apparently I'm a bit behind, haha! You know me, I still need to catch up!
I liked what you said about not wanting to get rid of the laughter lines. Audrey Hepburn was once asked if she would like her wrinkles airbrushed out of a photo. She said ‘don’t you dare. I earned every one of those wrinkles’
That's how I feel too... I earned them! :)
I love that, that's what I say when people tease that my age is younger than it really is. I worked hard through each of those years & they can't take them away from me!😂
Being over 60, I feel that a glow up is possible for your entire life! There is so much we all can do with healthy choices such as nutrition and exercise. As far as skin goes, it's very scientific these days, of course beginning with sunscreen. A healthy diet goes far with healthy skin and a healthy body. And most importantly the glow up comes from within!
I agree!
I agree, I turned 60 in August. I’m also trying to practice functional fitness. To be strong for every day activities.
I almost laughed when l read "after 40"😄
You can have or not have a glow at any age , it's a mind set, healthy lifestyle and staying relevant!!!😊🍁
Thank you for saying this! I was watching this video with rapt attention because ever since I bought my first book of Jennifer's, I've been working at bettering myself and my surrounding...but I thought maybe this wasn't for me - I'm 63 after all.... but thanks to Bella the Reader, I will continue my path of learning. And, that was not to say, Jennifer, that you exclude us older ladies but just that I know everyone wants to feel like they have a place in this renewal and advancement! Inside I feel like I am in my thirties but I've let that slip and I am determined not to do that anymore!!
@@laurindamclean7510 After 40 includes 63 too :)
I’ll be 67 in November and just recently did a “glow up”. I’d never heard that term before but I like it! I started Intermittent fast, cut down carbs and sugar and have lost 18 lbs. That has helped me enjoy my wardrobe more for this fall. I also watched some make up tutorials on TH-cam and changed up my eye applications and my bronzer....made a big difference! Yes...you can make changes at any age.
Yes, a Part 2 inner work! (age 54 here, and at “middle age” really hitting in many ways, physical and mental, so I’m taking care of myself more than ever!)
Would love to hear more about the “inner work”. “Glow up” seems to neglect the importance of the value of inner peace and contentment and places more focus on the outer looks or impressing others with how we look. Would love to hear more about your inner process- the place that truly counts!
Forgot to say that I do LOVE that you focus on people expressing their genuine style- something that can bring so much joy to ourselves and our day!!
Agreed. I’m glad she mentioned it’s a shallow topic but I wish we could hear more about the inner work first and move into the ‘shallow’ stuff later. I recently also just turned 40 so this is all relevant to me too!
I think the “inner work” is part two of the Glow Up topic in the next video. 😊
Yes let's talk about peace, prayer, meditation and connection to Higher Power!
I always compliment well dressed stylish people! Personal style is a signature of high intelligence and creativity expressed to the world. It deserves recognition. 🏆
I had a major glow-up at 62. I put myself through "boot camp" - addressing the spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical, to emerge from a "rough patch." When you are younger and going through a tough time, you hear "Snap out of it - you have your whole life ahead of you." But in your 60s, there is no guidebook for this. I had to create my own. And it worked. Absolutely.
I’m 62 also and would love it if you would share what you did to achieve your glow up!
You are amazing!! 🎉
Oh Jennifer, I was glowing at 40, even 50, since turning 70 the glow is a tad dulled.LOL, so sure, the inner glow would be appreciated. Also, your skin care routine. I feel like I'm in a rut. You look fabulous! Your 40's are the best. Savor every moment.
“But let’s be shallow today…”
I love that this is as “shallow” as your channel gets, and discussed with such grace 👍👍
I began intermittent fasting almost three years ago. After the first four months, I was at the optometrist. When the Dr. entered the room & gasped,”oh my goodness you look fantastic!” The only thing I had changed in my life was intermittent fasting. When I tried to explain she just replied,”whatever it is keep doing it”😊
I'm glowing up at 56. This year, God willing, I'll be 57 and need to once and for all turn my poor habits around. Thank you for all your time you put into these videos. You are so lovely to watch! XOXO
My glow up tip comes from a 71 year old. Find a good hairstylist. My friends say,” I would never pay that much for a haircut “. That’s after they have told me how they can’t get a good haircut!
"Let's be shallow today!" Hahahaha! Amen to all these points. At 43, I am more healthy and aware of my body than I ever was at 23. Losing extra pounds and dressing well does wonders a person's spirit. Great video! I look forward to future videos like this. These things are okay to talk about and enjoy!❤️
I’ve only ever heard the term glow up in videos about celebrities and influencers who get fillers, Botox and plastic surgery and they all look so artificial. They usually look better in the ‘before’ photos. I like your take on it. I’m almost 20 years older than you and have my fair share of wrinkles. I’ve considered getting work done but have ruled it out. I’m embracing the aging process while still trying to look and feel my best with skin care, good food, daily exercise and sleep. And of course, dressing presentably. Thanks for always keeping it real Jennifer.
I do think that getting past the baby stage is an excellent time to start a glow up! My youngest turned 5 in August and I have so much more time and energy now than I did when I had a toddler and baby.
Amen, sister!
Same! My youngest just turned 5 in November and this is the first time I feel like I have some space for this
Ah, Jennifer! Perfect! I’m actually finding myself in the middle of a “glow up” at the age of 42. For me, it’s not wanting to waste anymore time worrying about what others think, and finally having the gumption to look and feel the way I’ve always wanted. Goodbye all day workout clothes! Hello suede blazers, well made shoes, and vintage dresses! It’s so liberating! I feel like a new woman. My husband LOVES it- even my 4 teenagers. It’s amazing how it has changed my daily routines and attitudes.
Of course I would love for you to do a part 2 on our inner glow ups. ;) thank you for posting this! Makes me feel good that I’m not too old after 40 to experience this.
That’s amazing!!! Good for you!!
I have also been doing intermittent fasting for 18 months and am close to 30 pounds lighter as well. I feel so much better and healthier. Combined with a fall capsule wardrobe I created with new clothes that fit (after taking your class), I would say I've had a glow up. I didn't know it was a thing! Thank you so much for your videos! -Lynnette
Amazing! Congratulations 😍
Thank you Jennifer for this message today. It’s a bright spot in a dreary internal day I’m having and yes I am in my 40s. I took my son to a birthday party on Saturday at a bounce house. I wore a long skirt and blouse and a pretty watch. I actually felt quite chic. almost everyone else had on jeans leggings and sneakers. When I got home I felt so silly and ashamed. I thought why didn’t I just dress “normal.” I thought I must have stood out and people must have thought me weird. but your message today really touched me. It’s ok to look different and dare I say stylish when others aren’t “rocking” their style. Thanks for brightening my day Jennifer, teaching me so much and affirming that I’m not alone. 🤍
My son asked to wear a tie and nice shirt, pants to a class Thanksgiving performance for parents. Every single other kid wore graphic sweatshirts, brand names on display, and other informal clothes. Their parents did , too. I hope my son keeps the confidence to show respect through his clothes for an event
Loved this video. When you were talking about good skin care and embracing our wrinkles (yours are completely invisible by the way) I remembered a sweet interchange between the actress Sandra Bullock and her little son that I had read of in an article many years ago. He was very young at the time, possibly three or thereabouts. She told him she would always love him even when she got older and more wrinkly than she was then. He asked her why she had wrinkles and she replied that she hoped it was from laughing so much. He said "Mommy you're not old, you're just happy." That just melted my heart.
This was fun! I agree with you on everything. I would also add: find a healthy diet that works for you while still enjoying delicious food, and walk or exercise daily, preferably in nature. By the way, I loved your “jewel box decorating “ video especially!
I’m 50 and have a mother living with dementia and a son who lives with autism. My glow up was to take ballroom dance and a public speaking course. Also I got a new hair color. I’m a massage therapist and esthetician so this year I decided to go back to being both. Just a MT for many years and so tired so starting facial clients again. I feel like my feet, fingers and face will feel better while I am working too. Also I’ve started taking tea at noon and I buy loose tea and have a pot at work. I’m also at a new gal. 💜
Here's to taking good care of ourselves! I will just laughingly add that the aging process from 30 to 40 was much more graceful and gradual than 40 to 50. I speak from experience! It's like a snowball picking up speed!
Wait until you experience the speed of that snowball between 60-70!
You are SO beautiful, inside and out Jennifer! Such an inspiration to me and my life as a homemaker ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much, Diana!
Very nice, Jennifer! I'm sure you're going to mention Audrey Hepburn when you discuss inner work. A beautiful lady with a kind smile and who truly cared about other people.
Here I am watching this video, in my 20's saying "yes yes yes!!"... I feel born out-of-era so much, but I enjoy it. I wear Pioneer Prairie dresses every day, have miniature dairy goats and do all the Little House things. I have 4 little Farmer Boys that the Lord has blessed our family with and my husband and I love every minute of it! Our boys are so thrilled to have their turns reading the Connoisseur Kids book and the Little House books, and I really enjoy the Madame Chic series after they all go to bed for the evening. Thank you Mrs. Scott for all the hard work you put into making these videos for us! May the Lord bless you and your sweet family!!
I’m so happy you’re enjoying Connoisseur Kids! Please tell your boys I said hello ✨
I loved this video! I just turned 30 this month, and I was honestly looking forward to it. I have heard so many women say their thirties were way better than their twenties. I had baby, after baby, after baby from age 20-25. Finally at 30, my youngest is almost five and I finally feel like myself again - not in the fog of babyhood - but also I feel way better than my former self before the babyhood years! I think you, Jennifer, are one of the most beautiful, classy, youthful looking 40 year old women I have ever seen. I am so looking forward to watching you age. Honestly, you blow me away with how well you have aged. I remember when I found out how old you were last year I was shocked! So please make a part 2 video.
Thank you so much, Hannah!
Funny, I had never heard the term "glow Up". but my thirteen year old daughter had. LOL She said, "Your watching about a glow up?" With eye brows raised. Yes, I'm not too old for one. LOL Actually, I've been doing a "glow up" for months now and didn't even know it. Changing my wardrobe to suit me, even wearing makeup again. I'm 58, and struggle with chronic health issues and had allowed myself to get into a rut. Well no more! I'm back and better than ever, thanks to your encouragement Jennifer. Thank you!
I love getting older. So much happier with myself and so much more confident. I love this video and look forward to the next one.
I look better in my 40s than I ever have thanks to keto and intermittent fasting. I've learned so much from TH-cam. I love your channel for homemaking inspiration, Wayne Goss channel for makeup, and Petite Dressing channel for learning how to dress proportionately for my body type.
Wayne Goss is great!
Elana Kinda is a
Great petite channel, as well.
Same here! Keto & IF have helped me tremendously!
Of course you have a skin care routine. You lived in France! I used my COVID downtime to get my own "glow up" going, even though I had never heard the term. I started IF because of you and my doctor is thrilled. Another TH-camr, Angie from Hot and Flashy sold me on Curology. Those products have really helped my skin texture. And Angela Mashelle suggested clothing by FARM Rio that's helping me find my southern Florida style. Then there are Bob and Brad whose exercise routines I'm now following...TH-cam has really been a savior for me the past year and a half. Thank you.
I agree with finding your style. I love wearing dresses, skirts and accesorizing. It's my personal style. I may be the only woman in the room wearing a dress but I don't care. Funny thing is, now people want to know where I buy my outfits and how to coordinate.
59 here and I've had a glow-up by changing my diet, IF, and adding Pilates to my daily exercise. Also my daily walk (and prayer) outdoors. I have nine grandkids and nine reasons to be active and feeling young at heart! I look forward to your part 2 of Glow-up!
I use organic coconut oil every day as a moisturizer, hair conditioner and as a body moisturizer. Great skin allows me to use less makeup. Goodbye $100 creams. The coconut oil which I buy at costo lasts 4 months and is around $20.
You are so lucky ☺️ Coconut oil breaks me out into cystic acne, oil is not for everyone's skin type, but it's great that it works for some.
Thank you so much for your videos. I luckily stumbled across your channel and it has inspired me. I have done IF a few times and it never stuck because I was doing keto, too. I saw that you were doing it with normal food and now I have been doing it for 6 months and don’t ever expect to go back. My weight loss inspired my husband and now has been doing iIF for 4 months. This is a man who said he would never diet. What did it was weight loss, plus normal food. He also told me, “You just look so much better and at that point I was only down 8 lbs. IF truly is a glow up. I am getting much more ruthless with my wardrobe, too. Life is too short to wear bad clothes. Thanks! You rock!
A huge part of maturity is relying less on physical beauty and focusing on self confidence and mental agility.
Growing into yourself.
If this segment wasn't sponsored by a beauty product company it would have greater impact.
“It’s time for you to express yourself.” YES!! This is what it’s all about, feeling good about yourself and being your best self at any age. 💕🙏🏻💕
I am turning 40 in the spring. This will coincide with weaning my 4th. So this is right to my alley. Ready to have my body to myself, have a glow up, and enjoy my new decade.
I can so relate
Thank you for this, it's right on time. I'm quickly approaching 40, and have been low key depressed about it. I've been glowing up over the past couple of years, but always feel remorseful that I didn't start much sooner. In many ways I feel that my time has passed for certain things, the focus is now on my kids. I wish so badly that I could have a "do over" for my entire 20s and early 30s, but that's not possible, so I can only do better going forward. I am so appreciative of what you said about aging gracefully. I've started to notice changes in my face, my metabolism, and my energy level. This has been a season of recalibration for sure. But I'm glad to see that it's not all negative.
Looking your best is NOT shallow! Bring on the glow up videos🤩
I’ve had glow-ups at different stages...in my 30’s, 40’s, and now at 55 a post-pandemic glow-up is desperately needed!! 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for your thoughtful and insightful videos. You have been a large art of my journey to live an intentional, elegant life over the years. It is so important that those of us on the other side of 40 continue to refine our looks, our style, our health, and our lives. I appreciate the reminder that we too can glow up, in our own special way.
I would love a makeup routine video--especially on how you achieved your look today. So beautiful and natural!
I just turned 29 this year and for a few years now, I’ve left behind the phase of looking juvenile/literally effortless and moved into looking more elegant, polished, and wearing my nice clothes on the daily. I’ve had comments about looking dressy or questions about where I’m going “looking like that” along with strange looks when I say this is just how I dress! I’ve also had comments about how refreshing it is to see someone dressing elegantly. But none of these comments and questions ever made me feel uncomfortable because I love my style! It suits me very well and I feel so good. I really love how people once dressed elegantly rather regularly, but in recent decades, we’ve really lost sight of that as a whole. In my area, I’m quite unique in the way I style. I also noticed that people take me a little more seriously now even though I still do look rather young. I’m excited for the years to come and the things I will learn!
I’m 44 and find that I wear less makeup than I used to. It’s more natural and more flattering. But I do love a red lip and wear it almost every day!
I am in the middle of a glow up in my 60s!! It can happen at any time.
I really like to watch a night and also a morning rutine.
Jen you look amazing in this white shirt 💜
I just turned 65 this summer. I’m finding that less foundation is best. Concealers accentuate lines badly. I’m not ready to go gray yet. Some form of movement each day is essential as well as good sleep. So there’s my 2 cents. Still alive at 65!!
Love this! I just turned 40 this year and I felt so blessed to have found your TH-cam last year to prepare me as I was going through this! You’re my inspiration, Jennifer! Thank you so much!
Welcome!
Love 💕 the topic, Jennifer! I’m in an odd stage, trying to recover from a serious illness! I definitely need a glow UP but will be patient as my body heals. Can’t wait to watch Part 2 of this video as internal work may sometimes be more important than fixing the outside! Thanks for speaking to this topic 🙏🏻
Per usual, loved everything you had to share and agree! Thank you for taking the time to share it with us..
Hey, I’m 67 and I glow up everyday. It’s an attitude, just be your awesome self! Love your channel, Jennifer.
Yes pls would LOVE a full skin care update Jennifer!
I can't wait to see the "inner work" video. This was a pleasant video to watch. I have to agree with you, Jennifer on the comment made about being in your 40's and knowing we have less time. For me that means living mindfully and taking care of myself.
Love this and I would love the second video about the inner glow up!
I get better every year. My glow up started at 37
Really appreciated this content on the “Glow Up!” I didn’t know there was a name for it, but I’m on the cusp of 60 and decided recently to embrace this idea for the upcoming decade! More content on this subject would be so welcomed and appreciated, Jennifer! Thank you! (And “Yes, please” to your skincare routine being shared.)
I truly enjoy your content. You’re such a breath of fresh air and sanity in these crazy times.
Absolutely want a part 2!
I am almost 44 and there is always a hope! Thank you for this video
At 66 I'm finding that 96 oz of water a day makes a huge difference! I drink 4- 24 oz glasses each day, 1 before breakfast, 1 before lunch, 1 before dinner and I take one to bed with me and finish it by morning. Also vegan and IF! My energy feels more like 40 than 66! Very grateful! Loved this Jennifer... let's get our glow on!
Love this, can’t wait for part 2. PLEASE share your full updated skincare routine!! 🥰 Also I’m a new member of your chic society! I’m enjoying your weekly vodcasts 💕💕
Yes to part 2. Shallow but a beginning 😊
Of course, the answer is yes :) I'm 41 and I've never felt comfortable in my own skin until now - partly due to your videos on cultivating a wardrobe and embracing elegance. Thanks for the video and looking forward to the next one!
I would love to hear about your full skin care routine! And of course about the inner beauty work 😊
You are such an inspiration to me. Im so happy I found your channel.
"How little time we have left." So true... I look forward to learning more. THANK YOU for your inspiring words about being in our prime. I needed to hear that today. xo
I love and appreciate this video so much! I just got 3 of your books and am reading “Lessons from Madame Chic”. I am halfway and loving it! (Your voice reading it is what I hear in my head!)
Your segment on your facial routine (though you warned you were “neurotic” about how detailed your are!) gave me such a huge sigh of validation and relief, because I too am very particular about my skincare! I have a towel that I only use for my face, and ever since I was 13 I’ve been very diligent about cleansing and nurturing my skin with good products.
Thank you so much for your encouragement about truly owning your personal style.
I had previously felt that I was “locked” into a style that everyone thought was “my style” - I was a bit bohemian in my 20s, with flowy skirts, peasant blouses, chunky necklaces, and I liked the Anthropologie/Free People look. But now in my 30s and having 4 children, I find I am drawn towards more conservative, classic style - collared shirts, A-line or pencil skirts, simple pearls, and more of a New England/ Ralph Lauren look.
It’s kind of weird to merge these styles and I hope that one day, people will recognize a picture and think of it as something I would wear in my current feminine preppy style, ratter than my older romantic bohemian style.
I honestly had been struggling to give myself permission to make such a significant wardrobe transition, thinking that I was changing who I was, rather than realizing that my lifestyle & needs had evolved, and that I was still stuck in a style that I’d worn a decade ago, and it did not currently reflect my personality! There are so many elements about me that are still the same - I have always loved a Safari look, and I have a mini capsule wardrobe with just my favorites that I’ve kept.
My QUESTION is:
Have you ever had people because you were well-dressed?
Recently a mom just stopped wanting to hang out with me. Every time we’d get together for a play date or babysitting, I’d be dressed in my “mom uniform” of a nice shirt, skirt, perhaps a belt & scarf, minimal makeup, and some elevated shoes like flats or loafers. She was always commenting that I’d gotten dressed up, in a way that made me think she was intimidated by me, and I’d kindly reply how getting dressed for myself was a form of self care and I felt better when I did this. She was always wearing black yoga pants, a graphic tee, and I think she felt stressed out comparing herself to me, and just stopped wanting to get together. I’m the ONLY mother I know in my area who breaks the “frumpy” stereotype and makes an effort (though I am terrible at styling my hair, and other moms are awesome at a quick, ornate braid) and I feel like so many other women are judging me negatively by how I show up for the world by dressing nicely. It’s like they already have made up their minds on whether or not they feel comfortable around me or are intimidated by me.
For the occasional church activities, I dress like I normally do, in my “mom” uniform, but nearly all the other moms show up in the “Hot Mess” look and there are times where I kind of feel ostracized, like they think my life must be so easy if I got a blouse and skirt/nicer jeggings and did my makeup. But I have 4 kids in the space of 6 years- my life is a hot mess too!
Any thoughts?
I knew I would be turning 70 in 2021 so thought it would be a good time for some soul searching. I had had knee replacement surgery the previous year and had in place my schedule of 30 minutes a day on my recumbent exercise bike. I wanted to grow and maintain strength and flexibility in my legs. From that routine I added success in numerous other routines, my devotional life, my menu planning, my music practice, my “ministry” of writing letters and notes to be an encouragement to others. Also reading fiction and nonfiction books, a chapter a day, to keep learning. Watching educational and encouraging you tube videos keeps me motivated. (Thank you, Jennifer) I have chronic health issues so my routines are tools to battle discouragement and passivity. I want my husband to have an interesting and pleasant companion and my grandchildren to have positive memories of their Grandma Carolyn.
Thank you for this video Jennifer! I actually don’t think this is shallow at all. I think it is definitely key to the overall growing/glowing up experience and I also think it frees us up to focus on the inner work too:)
Thank you Jennifer for encouraging us to ACCEPT our wrinkles! It’s so nice to have someone say they don’t mind them. Aging can be done gracefully even with out any work done on our body.❤️
Thanks Jennifer, I'm looking forward to more of this.
Thank you for this beautiful video, Jennifer!! I would definitely love a video on the inner work and your skin care routine. I have always struggled with this, but I am so motivated for a glow-up after hearing you! ❤️ Thank you and all the best always!!!
I’m glad you started with the outer glow, because that is how we present ourselves the world initially. I think many of us want to hear about your inner glow, as well, which pulls everything together. The inner glow is a special radiance we project from our own unique ways of living and being. Yes, please consider this second part as another video. Jennifer, your skin is lovely and thank you for sharing all your tips with the products.
Jennifer, thanks for your videos they are so inspiring, they always encourage me to want to be a better version of myself
I am having a great over 50 glow up right now! Revamping my whole wardrobe to eco-responsible, high quality investments items that really reflect my lifestyle and values, intermittent fasting, meditation and inner work for serenity, consciously throwing away some conventions that make me feel boxed in and yeah! The glow up is real! #GameOfCrones #ThroneOfTheCrone ~Take care and thank you for inspiring!
I just turned 41 and also love Paula's Choice! I worked in the cosmetics industry as a makeup artist and skin care consultant for many years and they've been my favorite for years. Thank you for all your advice and insight-- I love your channel, Jennifer!
Yes part 2 please. I enjoy watching your channel very much. Thanks for your great content 🥰
Love this video thank you so much!
Jennifer, I just love your video! What a great one today, so encouraging. And yes, I would love a part two, on the inner “Glow”. Thanks so much, love ya, Cindy 🌻💗
Wonderful video, Jennifer!
Would love a part two!! Great tips!
I would love a part 2 on this video!
I love this video so much. So applicable for me and very interesting. Thank you!
Thank you for this- yes, more please! 💗
Great video!
My first 'glow up' came about from reading Lessons From Madame Chic right after I turned 51. Ten years later I still refer to it when I need some motivation. This video came at the perfect time - I definitely need a diet and exercise glow up! I would love to see a video on having an inner glow up. As we mature things tend to come up that we've tucked away but now need to work on.
I really enjoyed this video, Jennifer! Especially the style suggestion at the end-I’m going full prep this year because I’ve always wanted to! Lol
Thank you Jennifer 💓 I would love a part 2!
I subscribed to a plastic surgeon’s TH-cam channel and he says that it’s more important to take care of your skin than to try to fix the neglect later with surgery. My skin is not perfect but I have taken good care of it. No one believes I’m in my 60’s.
Thanks for the discount code. I placed an order just now and got 40% off on top of the Jen15 so it was only $104. Yay! Can’t wait for it to arrive.
I just finished one of your books from the library, I'm so hooked! Thank you for this video, I feel so inspired!
Loved this! All of these were so good❤
We are all works in progress so yes, a “glow up” is possible at any age. Enjoyed part one and am looking forward to part ii
Great video Jennifer& I would love a part 2 on deeper things😍
Jennifer, besides your intelligence, charisma, beautiful smile and adorable laugh, it's all so much more enhanced by your inner beauty as well as your gorgeous outer beauty. You look absolutely amazing!!! So very youthful!!! Your glow is truly radiant!!!
Would love a part 2! Thank you 😊
Love this! You look stunning 😍 Please film a Part 2 and also an updated skincare video. Thank you!
Love this video Jennifer! Please, please continue this series!! And I, personally, would love it if you shared a more in depth skin care video.