When you're a guy who's only really ever dealt with women that genuinely like you you don't understand how these guys get used for food and put in the friendzone
From my experience if a woman likes you she will do the following. 1. Hug you supertight that you can't fit a piece of paper between your bodies. 2. Get physically nervous when they are around you. 3. Laugh at your corny jokes 4. Does not care what you are doing she still wants to be around you. You can be fixing your car or running errands and she is just happy to be in your presence
Just had a female co-worker that I had to check she "what at me" twice, the 1st one i put in the bank for later the 2nd one she had to get checked in private she tried using things that took place at work, so I played ball a bit and reminded her about the 1st and told her yeah we all have those days but maturity of respect & professionalism is what keeps the mistreating the next interaction from being mistreat someone else so its not fair and I made it clear verbal conflict will be waiting so now she's all smiles and nervous body language and the simps are like huh? WTF.
Even if she text you first, if she makes it hard to meet up with her, she's not interested. A lot of women out here have no lives and could be using you for attention. If she is interested, she will not make it hard to meet up with her. Don't care she has 3 jobs and 5 kids, if she's interested, she will make time.
Not 100% true if you are at a certain level financially she could be doing it to finesse you. She spends on you knowing that your weakness is affection from a woman.
She’ll want to see you, reply fast to your text and always answers your calls, she says yes to everything, and most importantly she will express her RESPECT, ADMIRATION, and loyalty to you That last one is key Oh and this one is a sleeper. She’ll do everything to GAIN your trust Woman are natural deceivers. NEVER take indicators based on what she says ONLY HER ACTIONS
I believe that you said or someone else said that women are initiators 90% of the time. Which means she looks at you, stares you at, signaling you to approach her. But if a woman pays for the date, buys you food, coffee, little gifts, even writing a letter, that all means she likes you. It doesn't even have to be money wise, it can be her texting you to see if you're okay or how you're doing. Calling you to book another date with you. Remember, deal with women who are interested in you, not the ones who you wish to look at you, even for a second. Have respect for yourself.
lol I had 60 women.. how yk they like u? 1. they laugh @ your jokes.. yk u not funny, nigga 2. she'll touch u for no reason 3.she'll give u a look.. like an appraising look.. how u would look @ a diamond 4. she answers your calls and texts 5. she likes spending time with u
For the most part, I can usually spot when a girl is really feeling me. The key is to read non-verbal cues and also to understand why she does certain things when she’s around you.
One thing about her distance when she's talking to you or in a group settings, if she's in a 2 or 3 feet away from you, try to put yourself away from her, and see her action, if she's coming to you again after you take a few distance from her, you're in.
Girl at my job ( she’s a manager) always mentions her boyfriend that works there but when I have to talk to her she does stand super close I swear I be tryna back and up and she inches closer 😂 and she touches my shoulder sometime when we communicate.. shi crazy
At 6:42 damn Rom can’t miss. The dead giveaway is if the girl moves closer to you during conversation, like almost too close, like she is about to give you a hug or kiss
Facts. One of the managers at my last job used to do this and it annoyed me because I was in HR at the time (had to set a good example). She would be talking to me then get close while staring in my eyes. It was like she was trying to kiss me. The funny thing is she always ignored me but a year after working out she was all over me.
There's a woman at a bar I frequent that I've become more friendly with as I've built rapport. I greeted her recently and she went straight for a hug which I didn't expect. She seems to hover around me while she's there and she becomes more shy when I speak to her. I'm going to get her number the next time I see her. It's easy to forget that women who aren't interested aren't going to put themselves in your vicinity.
its funny how we can know these signs, yet often in the moment they go right over our heads. that's a good sign you're living in the now though. and it can be beneficial to getting women at times because you come off more confident and have more of a carefree attitude. as long as you don't let it go to long and eventually make the move you're usually good.
@@jedinharris-averhart8510she’ll have open body language. For instance I walked up to a random woman and complimented her calf tattoo. That lead to her bringing up her home state, her pets, life in Houston. Until the point I ended it by simply giving her number.
You know she likes you if she’s not begging. Conversely if a woman is begging you off top she’s clearly not attracted to you and senses your level of thirst so she’s out to use you.
Thank you,hearing you explain women's behaviour in detail makes me realize that I've to listen my inner sense when interacting with women.You are such a great mentor,I hope your channel gets more and many more subscribers because you have earned my respect
For me, a woman readily saying my name, is quite important. Some women who I've been involved with in the past, even sleeping with them, hardly ever mentioned my name, and they were not truly feeling me, which led to the relationships ending for various reasons. However, I met a woman the other day, who I've known for some time, and she clearly likes me, and within a minute of introducing myself, she sweetly said my name with a lovely smile. Basically, pay attention to the small details.
On point video as always Rom shy women don’t make it as obvious though. Just recently I been working with this girl for like 3 months , she never said anything to me at all and never even looked my way . Then one day I just happened to ask her how her 4th of July weekend was , and I mean from that point on we just started have a really good convo and she started opening up more and more as I talked to her , but before then I would’ve thought she was completely uninterested. Eventually she told me that I made her nervous , but a good nervous cause she was attracted to me and that’s why she never said anything . The more I got to know her , shawty turned out to be a super freak too lol. Which really got me cause I really took her for innocent type, but man she suprised me
true. shy women are a different catigory . i think you have to see the details. the eyes. the body. because you can think she doesn't eve look at me. she must not like me. but study her. you will catch her lookin at you if she does like. they have to. and nptiec how she reacts when you talk to her
@@banderas2000 I've got a pretty shy friend who I want to ask out, I catch her staring sometimes and the last time I saw her we held strong eye contact one moment and she looked away quickly seeming nervous, I'll definitely ask her what's up the next couple of days if anyone wants to know how this story develops
@@banderas2000I felt that one bro. The more I've paid attention, the more Id catch her looking. Not only that I was taking time off work and she knew about it she assumed I was going to be gone for like a week and I was actually gone for almost 2. When I came back I greeted her normally as I usually do and she did as well, no indication that she misses me or a "omg welcome back!" at all which I already knew cuz shes a more laid back less expressive woman, but when I was walking back from the restroom, she called me to the side real quick and said she thought to herself yesterday that I was not coming back while having a nervous chuckle saying it. In my head I was like damn.. she really was thinking about me and missing my presence. I had to check the comments because shy girls are indeed their own category. They keep their feelings and thoughts to themselves and are usually aware enough to not show it in their body language most the time but you can catch them slipping at times because of the nervousness they're feeling.
Everyone is making great points, but remember, the signs a woman likes you will be different depending on how much she loves or hates herself and how big or small her heart is 🙏
And that’s what it comes down to…RW is giving the general foundation..But I always say it’s levels to attraction and how it’s expressed..Just recently I had two occasions where I found out some chicks I was around liked me and were interested but the times I was around them I got little to no indication…The fact of the matter is a lot of women are cryptic af with there choosing😂
damn true. if she is hating herself and u are shining. damn she may think she can't measure up. now why would u want to be with someone who can't think highly of themselves? not arrogant just highly. someone who can take a joke . someone who can help u wash ur car at the carwash?
Man I jus love his videos especially the music and the editing just automatically put my in a feeling of relaxation on top of that he’s always telling the truth
Remembering from the archives, paying attention is a key factor in addition to the choosing signals. Recently, I came in contact during the summer months of 2023, with a female who is in law enforcement having met the second the time last week she was giving that smile; not giving it away. Although she was on duty on both times. The second time, I believe, was a revelation in making it known. The third time, I believe it's a charm that I will be making the move. I will see what happens. As always, great video commentary.
I was visiting my mom in the hospital in the ATL area earlier this year(she's ok now) and I noticed a lot of hot nurses. Most under age 30. As I was pushing my mom on the wheelchair out the hospital I had 4 nurses......fine af smiling at at me. My mom was like "did you just see that? Those women really liked what they see" Made want to fake an injury to go back into the hospital
be aware, I am a male nurse and we are told to always smile at the patient and their family regardless of their gender or anything else, especially when they are healed and leaving.
It’s hard to tell. They can use you to play games with, if she knows you have a good looking friend in room with you. She’ll pretend to care to like you to only get closer to your friend.
Every Top G knows you don't ask women for their numbers because you might end up calling KFC. You give them your number and if she is interested she will do the work and reach out
Is this advice for real? I’m still sort of young but I think this goes against the mental image I was raised with. I always pictured I would have to be the one to ask for a phone number, but maybe it does make more sense to “stand out” and show that you are kind of a big deal and then hopefully they can follow. 😅
imo and experience the first one you mentioned is very very key and true. also it can depend on the woman. there was one woman who hardly looked at me. or "tensed" up around me. you would think oh she's scared or turned of. but she actually liked me. a mutual friend told me. but just for the basics as you said. you can read all the books in the world but you have to be out there and then you can just tell eventually. oh there is more light in her eye vs another who's eyes have that meh look.
This is seems so surreal to me, mainly bc I’ve never had any of it happen to me before but just the total opposite. So I can’t wait for the day when I see this happen, my mind will be blown lol
Never thought to treat women objectively and logically like a check box list - always held out a little hope that one day that girl I like might like me back, so I keep trying, but as I do that, I'm giving up on all the other girls that actually like me.
true. we hold out hope watching a video of hmm well maybe she does but because of this she's not showing more interest blah blah lol. it's just easier to deal with the ones who are making effort.
What patterns I learned this year so far with the smile thing is full blown smile = minimum high interest. Closed lip smile = mid interest, not worth your time or you can just use her as a conversation practice. Just know, they will be quite difficult, and make it solely about them. Frown? Honestly, this one is weird because I said hello to young ladies who gave me a full blown frown but I feel the heat in them after I walk pass them. Or they will be watching me work out, or want me to approach. I also had full blown frowns where I asked a question and they just straight up ignored me(rejected). I had this one young lady lose interest mid conversation, but my sexual energy started radiating as I was studying. She was sitting next to me, and came back to spark the conversation again or wanting just the D. I honestly thought I fumbled it but she came back 3 days later with her best friend quite excited to see me. Sexual energy, for me if I can make them comfortable while releasing my sexual energy. Its a double whammy for these women. It's like they go "he's cool/calm, I'm comfortable around him, and my body wants him." think about how many guys she has met that have that? Probably none or extremely extremely extremely rare.
Man if she came back don’t even take her serious a woman knows what she want the first time trust me. Most of them double back to something that they not really interested in only to benefit from it
Love the great insight; good videos, not misleading or over the top, you give good facts on women an how they feel towards men an what to look for and how to act with it. Thanks brotha 🙏
Love this channel. I’ve never understood how guys get rejected so much. Like there’s clear signs lol. If not, most flirtation is plausible deniability anyway. Just test the waters for reciprocation.
that's a good point. there are expections but who has time for oh maybe this maybe that. a lil shy she is? interested but acting like not? life to short. deal with the ones who are genuine
I give a girl my number, she texts me, says she’s gotta boyfriend, and proceeds to text me. My assumption is she’s attention seeking. She’s five years younger than me. I’m 25. I’d like to add that I’m not really strung up on her or anything. We actually ran into each other randomly one day at a coffee shop and kicked it for about an hour just talking. It was actually quite nice, I made sure to be respectful of the situation. I’m not really into messing around like that. Anybody got any thoughts on my situation? I’m curious to know other perspectives. Or if anyone has experienced something similar.
Nawh that’s just weird.. unless she want to be your friend. But you have to directly ask her and set boundary at the beginning. Don’t waste time playing a chess game that leads no where.
It's clear she'll be dancing around you nearly, she'll make you a snack if she got the chance, she'll be smiling in your presence. Its top shelf stuff really, especially if you never knew that was possible
What I never really understood is why do women give you one good sign that she likes you and then somewhat acts disinterested in you. You might see this woman frequently and let’s say she’ll smile at you and say HEY but that’s it. She’ll do this everyday but she won’t follow up with anything. She won’t be in your face asking you a thousand questions. I’m not even talking about a woman just being natural friendly. You legitimately believe there’s SOME interest there. I can’t be the only man that experienced that.
Sometimes it could be their way of saying “hey come approach me” you won’t know until you find out..I’ve noticed like rom said if a woman is disinterested most times she’ll avoid your existence in totality unless it’s work related
I think if a woman likes you she’d give multiple signs and make things easier for you. If I get ONE sign that MAYBE she might like me I don’t know how much work I wanna put into that off that alone. It always made me question why she would do that if she’s gonna act somewhat indifferent towards your presence.
Wisdom of Solomon 8:2 I loved her, and sought her out from my youth, I desired to make her my spouse, and I was a lover of her beauty. Wisdom is your first wife everything else falls into place
🤔I remember as a young buck og'z always told like the chick that likes you don't like the chick you look ke so I follow that here on out I score every time so everybody listening to og take notes💯
If a female calls you out of the blue. Calls you not texts Calls it’s pretty obvious. This is common sense. It’s really sad most guys can’t pick up on the little signs. Your gut doesn’t lie
Great advice 💯 I love this TH-cam Coach one of my favorites for sure! Why does an ex Girl you had a crush on Come back after she done reject you and you just simply move on and give her space?
approached her last friday and we had a great convo and got her instagram but we have a 3 week break now so Im texting her and she responds in a fun manner but im not the best at this texting stuff lol, I wanna ask her out on a date but dont wanna do it too quickly
Texting too long is bad... I hate texting... So much room for misinterpretation. Ask her out as quickly as possible and stop texting whether she says yes or no.
@@relentlesslyrelentless5477 youre right, its just we're kinda conservative (both muslim and she wears hijab) so I think it would take her longer to be comfortable enough to wanna go out with me, I hate texting too I wanna talk to her irl but we have a uni break for like 2 more weeks, you reckon I should barely text and wait til I see her irl again or should I just ask her out asap?
@@relentlesslyrelentless5477 she doesnt rlly drive the conversation but she always responds in a fun way at least, imma try to not text her anymore and just try to get on with her irl, think its way better and a bit easier to seduce someone that way, hope I can still make her interested
Ive come across a lady a few times who doesnt look at anyone. Shes always working on her laptop or on zoom calls. One time, i was dancing and turned around, i caught her looking, but she was sneaky about it, chin resting on her hand and all. i havent tried talking to her yet, but from the way she acting, is it a good idea.
She could’ve just been observing like you said you were dancing lol if I saw a person dancing at work I would look too but just start to speak to her daily just a small hello and see what type of energy she gives back you’ll be able to tell if she’s feeling you
I had a girl show all signs of attraction you mentioned and when I started to develop feelings for her and showed it and told her directly, she said things were moving too fast and that she needed time. We talked it out afterwards and I agreed to wait for her to be ready but then but then she started to distance herself from me. What could I have done wrong?
I walked in the gym yesterday, and this girl I’ve had interest in immediately turned her head away before we could make eye contact A short time later, she goes out of her way to come speak to me with one of her friends. Later that day I ask her if she wants to workout sometime and she says she only workouts with her dad or a boyfriend Da f
Hey there so this happened a few days ago this girl I known for a long time came up to me when I was with my friends and stood close to me and pressed her body against me is she really interested then?
For the restaurant part i would say 50- 50 i work in some restaurant i can guarantee many time i saw waitress give their number to customer or one want to be your waitress not just for the money only just because she think you re attractive
When you're a guy who's only really ever dealt with women that genuinely like you you don't understand how these guys get used for food and put in the friendzone
true. i never got how that even works. but i don't even care to think about that type of situation.
Don’t bother trying to understand, it’s never worth it
Exactly man i don’t know why these guys make dating so complicated when all you gotta do is deal with high interest women
Guys can’t be themselves or at least trust themselves! Have a personality and stand out
@Cutthroat__ they make it difficult because they rarely encounter women that are highly interested in them
From my experience if a woman likes you she will do the following. 1. Hug you supertight that you can't fit a piece of paper between your bodies. 2. Get physically nervous when they are around you. 3. Laugh at your corny jokes 4. Does not care what you are doing she still wants to be around you. You can be fixing your car or running errands and she is just happy to be in your presence
Not even laugh at corny jokes Dey will laugh at anything literally u could have a reg convo n Dey smile n laugh so much it make u smile instantly
Stay in a cold dark room with you and watch you breathe
GUILTY! I act a fool when I like someone haha
Just had a female co-worker that I had to check she "what at me" twice, the 1st one i put in the bank for later the 2nd one she had to get checked in private she tried using things that took place at work, so I played ball a bit and reminded her about the 1st and told her yeah we all have those days but maturity of respect & professionalism is what keeps the mistreating the next interaction from being mistreat someone else so its not fair and I made it clear verbal conflict will be waiting so now she's all smiles and nervous body language and the simps are like huh? WTF.
@@pumagarrick2947 😂😂😂😂
Even if she text you first, if she makes it hard to meet up with her, she's not interested. A lot of women out here have no lives and could be using you for attention. If she is interested, she will not make it hard to meet up with her. Don't care she has 3 jobs and 5 kids, if she's interested, she will make time.
Agree
I needed to hear this. Thanks man
Facts
Big time facts. Men need to understand that woman gotta have a appetite for you like her favorite food. If not you just something to pass time
I needed this… dealing with this situation right now.
If she pays for you out of her own pocket then shes definitely into you. Cause women tend to be more selfish when it comes to money
Mann they don’t play bout they money
@@blackshadexl that’s real talk. I got a sister and she was selfish over 10$.Crazy.
@@dayvonnedawkins580heck even $5 dollar 😂
Not 100% true if you are at a certain level financially she could be doing it to finesse you. She spends on you knowing that your weakness is affection from a woman.
you're lost lol@@zpfourreact3930
She’ll want to see you, reply fast to your text and always answers your calls, she says yes to everything, and most importantly she will express her RESPECT, ADMIRATION, and loyalty to you
That last one is key
Oh and this one is a sleeper. She’ll do everything to GAIN your trust
Woman are natural deceivers. NEVER take indicators based on what she says ONLY HER ACTIONS
Best advice I’ve seen yet on these type of topics on TH-cam
Great comment
Natural deceivers, holy shit
idk why but that's been my experience aswell, women can't tell the truth for shit.
This comment deserves more like honestly. 👍
All jokes aside, work on yourself and the women will come 💯💯💯
Facts
Just some advice for the younger men.
Once a woman shows interest in you. Jump on that right away. Because her interest may be gone tomorrow.
i disagree
If a woman is really, and I mean really, into you, that feeling never dies.
Well what’s the point then….
I believe that you said or someone else said that women are initiators 90% of the time. Which means she looks at you, stares you at, signaling you to approach her. But if a woman pays for the date, buys you food, coffee, little gifts, even writing a letter, that all means she likes you. It doesn't even have to be money wise, it can be her texting you to see if you're okay or how you're doing. Calling you to book another date with you. Remember, deal with women who are interested in you, not the ones who you wish to look at you, even for a second. Have respect for yourself.
Yup they initiate 90%. They start the flirtation. A man can obviously buy it really counts if she is starting aka has some interest possibly
a girl can literally tell me she loves me and ill still be skeptical lmaoooo
Me too bro😔
And so you should be
This dude! The smooth walk up the stairs from the bottom of the crib was clean😆
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lol I had 60 women.. how yk they like u?
1. they laugh @ your jokes.. yk u not funny, nigga
2. she'll touch u for no reason
3.she'll give u a look.. like an appraising look.. how u would look @ a diamond
4. she answers your calls and texts
5. she likes spending time with u
Lmao at number 1
number one made me laugh
Number one is as I’m not a joker or comedian but the whole time I was serious and chick would be laughing
Number 3 is tight AF. 😢
For the most part, I can usually spot when a girl is really feeling me. The key is to read non-verbal cues and also to understand why she does certain things when she’s around you.
then i ask her to buy me shit and use her for blo jobs lol
@@mikelisteral7863 🤣🤣 u are straightforward sir
@@mikelisteral7863playa shit
One thing about her distance when she's talking to you or in a group settings, if she's in a 2 or 3 feet away from you, try to put yourself away from her, and see her action, if she's coming to you again after you take a few distance from her, you're in.
Girl at my job ( she’s a manager) always mentions her boyfriend that works there but when I have to talk to her she does stand super close I swear I be tryna back and up and she inches closer 😂 and she touches my shoulder sometime when we communicate.. shi crazy
@davidchishimba9466 not finding out my money more important 😂
not worth it mate. if she goes to her boyfriend and tell her you hit. it will make your life hard. that proves you can get some, go find another
At 6:42 damn Rom can’t miss. The dead giveaway is if the girl moves closer to you during conversation, like almost too close, like she is about to give you a hug or kiss
Facts. One of the managers at my last job used to do this and it annoyed me because I was in HR at the time (had to set a good example). She would be talking to me then get close while staring in my eyes. It was like she was trying to kiss me. The funny thing is she always ignored me but a year after working out she was all over me.
Rom the biggest gem you dropped in here that makes perfect sense , is to “ think about the actions of the women who you had sex with “ Boom!
There's a woman at a bar I frequent that I've become more friendly with as I've built rapport. I greeted her recently and she went straight for a hug which I didn't expect. She seems to hover around me while she's there and she becomes more shy when I speak to her. I'm going to get her number the next time I see her. It's easy to forget that women who aren't interested aren't going to put themselves in your vicinity.
its funny how we can know these signs, yet often in the moment they go right over our heads. that's a good sign you're living in the now though. and it can be beneficial to getting women at times because you come off more confident and have more of a carefree attitude. as long as you don't let it go to long and eventually make the move you're usually good.
Me in Brazil where every women greet you with a hug if you're not looking like a terminal leper:
Managed to get the number?
Honestly. Good luck.
And this is why I’m really working on focusing on myself and the people who want to come around my circle
The intro walk ins be cracking me up 😂
Just pay attention to their actions. Their actions will tell you all you need to know
Can you explain more
@@jedinharris-averhart8510pay attention on non verbal cues
@@jedinharris-averhart8510she’ll have open body language. For instance I walked up to a random woman and complimented her calf tattoo. That lead to her bringing up her home state, her pets, life in Houston. Until the point I ended it by simply giving her number.
This is an extremely underrated channel and we as men really need this kind of channel and content you post
You know she likes you if she’s not begging. Conversely if a woman is begging you off top she’s clearly not attracted to you and senses your level of thirst so she’s out to use you.
Fellas I love women don’t get me wrong but y’all better be careful with these women. I seen men lose it all.
Story?
Spill the beans
indeed
Men lose it all every day B
lol a girl was smiling and then when she saw me she stopped smiling
She crazy stay away
😂😂😂
On4Nem @@CutLikeDat
Damn bruh 😂
Thank you,hearing you explain women's behaviour in detail makes me realize that I've to listen my inner sense when interacting with women.You are such a great mentor,I hope your channel gets more and many more subscribers because you have earned my respect
For me, a woman readily saying my name, is quite important. Some women who I've been involved with in the past, even sleeping with them, hardly ever mentioned my name, and they were not truly feeling me, which led to the relationships ending for various reasons.
However, I met a woman the other day, who I've known for some time, and she clearly likes me, and within a minute of introducing myself, she sweetly said my name with a lovely smile. Basically, pay attention to the small details.
On point video as always Rom shy women don’t make it as obvious though. Just recently I been working with this girl for like 3 months , she never said anything to me at all and never even looked my way . Then one day I just happened to ask her how her 4th of July weekend was , and I mean from that point on we just started have a really good convo and she started opening up more and more as I talked to her , but before then I would’ve thought she was completely uninterested. Eventually she told me that I made her nervous , but a good nervous cause she was attracted to me and that’s why she never said anything . The more I got to know her , shawty turned out to be a super freak too lol. Which really got me cause I really took her for innocent type, but man she suprised me
true. shy women are a different catigory . i think you have to see the details. the eyes. the body. because you can think she doesn't eve look at me. she must not like me. but study her. you will catch her lookin at you if she does like. they have to. and nptiec how she reacts when you talk to her
@@banderas2000 I've got a pretty shy friend who I want to ask out, I catch her staring sometimes and the last time I saw her we held strong eye contact one moment and she looked away quickly seeming nervous, I'll definitely ask her what's up the next couple of days if anyone wants to know how this story develops
@@mynamefrank6567please keep us updated. I’m curious to see what happens
@@mynamefrank6567yea keep us posted
@@banderas2000I felt that one bro. The more I've paid attention, the more Id catch her looking. Not only that I was taking time off work and she knew about it she assumed I was going to be gone for like a week and I was actually gone for almost 2. When I came back I greeted her normally as I usually do and she did as well, no indication that she misses me or a "omg welcome back!" at all which I already knew cuz shes a more laid back less expressive woman, but when I was walking back from the restroom, she called me to the side real quick and said she thought to herself yesterday that I was not coming back while having a nervous chuckle saying it. In my head I was like damn.. she really was thinking about me and missing my presence.
I had to check the comments because shy girls are indeed their own category. They keep their feelings and thoughts to themselves and are usually aware enough to not show it in their body language most the time but you can catch them slipping at times because of the nervousness they're feeling.
Respect what she shows and displays . It’s all in her response how she views you accordingly then you move forward accordingly 💯
I swear unc took me from a zero to a hero but we ain’t stopping now!!
Ultimately it comes down to to her actions.
Hell no are you drunk?
Duh!
Everyone is making great points, but remember, the signs a woman likes you will be different depending on how much she loves or hates herself and how big or small her heart is 🙏
And that’s what it comes down to…RW is giving the general foundation..But I always say it’s levels to attraction and how it’s expressed..Just recently I had two occasions where I found out some chicks I was around liked me and were interested but the times I was around them I got little to no indication…The fact of the matter is a lot of women are cryptic af with there choosing😂
damn true. if she is hating herself and u are shining. damn she may think she can't measure up. now why would u want to be with someone who can't think highly of themselves? not arrogant just highly. someone who can take a joke . someone who can help u wash ur car at the carwash?
Real OG Spill Brother Rom. Things have changed so much with men these days, even moreso than women IMO.
Basic knowledge but on a more advanced level 💯
This dude intros be funny af
This guy is missing a lot of basic facts especially when it comes to girls getting intimidated and shutting down around the guys that like.
@@xxxsully420 like what
@davidchishimba9466I think he meant they instead of that idk.
Rom got that silver fox going🔥🔥
Tilt your head down and look her in the dead in the eye. Don't try to hide any desire. How she holds the look, how her body shifts will tell.
hell yeah bro. i don't hide desire if i think she's attractive.
Man I jus love his videos especially the music and the editing just automatically put my in a feeling of relaxation on top of that he’s always telling the truth
Remembering from the archives, paying attention is a key factor in addition to the choosing signals. Recently, I came in contact during the summer months of 2023, with a female who is in law enforcement having met the second the time last week she was giving that smile; not giving it away. Although she was on duty on both times. The second time, I believe, was a revelation in making it known. The third time, I believe it's a charm that I will be making the move. I will see what happens. As always, great video commentary.
This is the only dude who's video i will pause to watch another one of his videos.
Rom Out Here Saving Lives Man💯
I was visiting my mom in the hospital in the ATL area earlier this year(she's ok now) and I noticed a lot of hot nurses. Most under age 30. As I was pushing my mom on the wheelchair out the hospital I had 4 nurses......fine af smiling at at me. My mom was like "did you just see that? Those women really liked what they see" Made want to fake an injury to go back into the hospital
be aware, I am a male nurse and we are told to always smile at the patient and their family regardless of their gender or anything else, especially when they are healed and leaving.
@@MenOn13😂
@@MenOn13 damn 💀
@@MenOn13don’t tell him that let him feel like he’s finally getting attention from a female 🤣🤣🤣
@@Kinglion33333let him have his win bro😂
It’s hard to tell.
They can use you to play games with, if she knows you have a good looking friend in room with you.
She’ll pretend to care to like you to only get closer to your friend.
Every Top G knows you don't ask women for their numbers because you might end up calling KFC. You give them your number and if she is interested she will do the work and reach out
BIG FACTS! 💯
Exactly!
Good point
Lmfao calling kfc is so crazy 😂
Is this advice for real? I’m still sort of young but I think this goes against the mental image I was raised with. I always pictured I would have to be the one to ask for a phone number, but maybe it does make more sense to “stand out” and show that you are kind of a big deal and then hopefully they can follow. 😅
I already know this one gone blow up
imo and experience the first one you mentioned is very very key and true. also it can depend on the woman. there was one woman who hardly looked at me. or "tensed" up around me. you would think oh she's scared or turned of. but she actually liked me. a mutual friend told me. but just for the basics as you said. you can read all the books in the world but you have to be out there and then you can just tell eventually. oh there is more light in her eye vs another who's eyes have that meh look.
I guess so
@@jeffdarkwah2676 keep interacting
@@jeffdarkwah2676 don't guess. JUST KNOW
@@jeffdarkwah2676 you know so
the goat, hope you make a healthy recovery
This is seems so surreal to me, mainly bc I’ve never had any of it happen to me before but just the total opposite. So I can’t wait for the day when I see this happen, my mind will be blown lol
Dude, you’re such a good supporter for so many people. Thanks for the channel. -Adam
Low interest vs medium interest vs high interest. I think guys would need to analyze which one they’re dealing with.
damn best comment.
i really like how you deliver your content. this is my 2nd video i’ve seen & i’ll now Subscribe ❤
Never thought to treat women objectively and logically like a check box list - always held out a little hope that one day that girl I like might like me back, so I keep trying, but as I do that, I'm giving up on all the other girls that actually like me.
true. we hold out hope watching a video of hmm well maybe she does but because of this she's not showing more interest blah blah lol. it's just easier to deal with the ones who are making effort.
What patterns I learned this year so far with the smile thing is full blown smile = minimum high interest.
Closed lip smile = mid interest, not worth your time or you can just use her as a conversation practice. Just know, they will be quite difficult, and make it solely about them.
Frown? Honestly, this one is weird because I said hello to young ladies who gave me a full blown frown but I feel the heat in them after I walk pass them. Or they will be watching me work out, or want me to approach. I also had full blown frowns where I asked a question and they just straight up ignored me(rejected).
I had this one young lady lose interest mid conversation, but my sexual energy started radiating as I was studying. She was sitting next to me, and came back to spark the conversation again or wanting just the D. I honestly thought I fumbled it but she came back 3 days later with her best friend quite excited to see me. Sexual energy, for me if I can make them comfortable while releasing my sexual energy. Its a double whammy for these women. It's like they go "he's cool/calm, I'm comfortable around him, and my body wants him." think about how many guys she has met that have that? Probably none or extremely extremely extremely rare.
How do you radiate sexual energy while studying bro?
Man if she came back don’t even take her serious a woman knows what she want the first time trust me. Most of them double back to something that they not really interested in only to benefit from it
How do you radiate sexual energy?
@@OurSalvationIsNigh I made a video since it’s easier to explain
@@OurSalvationIsNighsemen retention
I didn’t realize when a female asks you when you get off or if you work all night, that’s a come on. #whysonervous
i’ve had 36 yr old woman ask me this. i’m a good 15yrs younger, that ain’t no come on. sometime they’re being friendly or making convo
Love the great insight; good videos, not misleading or over the top, you give good facts on women an how they feel towards men an what to look for and how to act with it. Thanks brotha 🙏
Love this channel. I’ve never understood how guys get rejected so much. Like there’s clear signs lol. If not, most flirtation is plausible deniability anyway. Just test the waters for reciprocation.
This is a great video and the thumbnail fits perfectly with the title! Peace and blessings, Uncle Rom!
that intro hit the soul
I literally just watched this video to see the intro when Rom walked out
If you are having to wonder if she’s into you then she’s not. Girls that like you will make it obvious and easy. Stay hard kings
that's a good point. there are expections but who has time for oh maybe this maybe that. a lil shy she is? interested but acting like not? life to short. deal with the ones who are genuine
What if I’m oblivious as shit though?
Not true
I liked the video just because of the intro 👌🏾
Yup everything in this video is facts.
Kevin Samuels lives on!
I give a girl my number, she texts me, says she’s gotta boyfriend, and proceeds to text me. My assumption is she’s attention seeking. She’s five years younger than me. I’m 25.
I’d like to add that I’m not really strung up on her or anything. We actually ran into each other randomly one day at a coffee shop and kicked it for about an hour just talking. It was actually quite nice, I made sure to be respectful of the situation. I’m not really into messing around like that. Anybody got any thoughts on my situation? I’m curious to know other perspectives. Or if anyone has experienced something similar.
Don't commit adultery
Homewrecking aint it brotha
Best to move on. Maybe later on she’ll contact you if it doesn’t work out with the current bf but don’t wait for it.
Nawh that’s just weird.. unless she want to be your friend. But you have to directly ask her and set boundary at the beginning. Don’t waste time playing a chess game that leads no where.
Unc Rom in da cut🔥🔥🙏
2nd time watching this video, this time I'm showing my nephew.
It's clear she'll be dancing around you nearly, she'll make you a snack if she got the chance, she'll be smiling in your presence. Its top shelf stuff really, especially if you never knew that was possible
Very interesting to see this perspective
If you have to question if a woman likes you then it's obvious she do not...simple...if she likes you she gonna make it obvious....
i be acting dumb to make sure of it
What I never really understood is why do women give you one good sign that she likes you and then somewhat acts disinterested in you. You might see this woman frequently and let’s say she’ll smile at you and say HEY but that’s it. She’ll do this everyday but she won’t follow up with anything. She won’t be in your face asking you a thousand questions. I’m not even talking about a woman just being natural friendly. You legitimately believe there’s SOME interest there. I can’t be the only man that experienced that.
Sometimes it could be their way of saying “hey come approach me” you won’t know until you find out..I’ve noticed like rom said if a woman is disinterested most times she’ll avoid your existence in totality unless it’s work related
I think if a woman likes you she’d give multiple signs and make things easier for you. If I get ONE sign that MAYBE she might like me I don’t know how much work I wanna put into that off that alone. It always made me question why she would do that if she’s gonna act somewhat indifferent towards your presence.
@@fuhyou3223 I'm with you, but a lot of relationship coaches advise playing hard to get.
Wisdom of Solomon 8:2 I loved her, and sought her out from my youth, I desired to make her my spouse, and I was a lover of her beauty.
Wisdom is your first wife everything else falls into place
rom w da gangsta walk intro
the seduction secret is looking at her lips when she talks
yes i looked at a girl's lips who friendzoned me, but she also did the same..im still in the friendzone
If you ever have to question if your girl love you or not it’s either she never did or she loves you but not the way you love her.
Subscribed !
unc speaking facts
A lot of men need to listen up bc you dropping great game bruh…
All facts Unc💯
🤔I remember as a young buck og'z always told like the chick that likes you don't like the chick you look ke so I follow that here on out I score every time so everybody listening to og take notes💯
To tell you the truth bro they're so hard to read
liked the video for the intro ngl
Thanks, Unc.
He is like the father I never had. Which is sad cuz he sat in the living room.
If a female calls you out of the blue. Calls you not texts Calls it’s pretty obvious. This is common sense. It’s really sad most guys can’t pick up on the little signs. Your gut doesn’t lie
bruhhhh unc u spittin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Great advice 💯 I love this TH-cam Coach one of my favorites for sure!
Why does an ex Girl you had a crush on Come back after she done reject you and you just simply move on and give her space?
Attention and validation. There is a reason why things didn’t work. Move on
Cause you don’t look desperate and needy. It’s a good test to reject and see how he acts. Some guys will literally talk trash right then. F-. 😂😂😂😂
Cd-rom back at it
Great video
that is the HARDEST INTRO ive seen in this platform
I like it when a woman comes up to me and says "I like you, and i want you. Now we can do this the easy way, or the hard way. The choice is yours"
That's not a woman G 🤣💀
@@rayramirez8776 So, it's a dude then.
@@xtrm2009 hell yeah 🤣💀
@@rayramirez8776 lmao
approached her last friday and we had a great convo and got her instagram but we have a 3 week break now so Im texting her and she responds in a fun manner but im not the best at this texting stuff lol, I wanna ask her out on a date but dont wanna do it too quickly
Texting too long is bad... I hate texting... So much room for misinterpretation. Ask her out as quickly as possible and stop texting whether she says yes or no.
@@relentlesslyrelentless5477 youre right, its just we're kinda conservative (both muslim and she wears hijab) so I think it would take her longer to be comfortable enough to wanna go out with me, I hate texting too I wanna talk to her irl but we have a uni break for like 2 more weeks, you reckon I should barely text and wait til I see her irl again or should I just ask her out asap?
@@flacko92 I wouldn't say much tbh
@@flacko92 the 2 week break is tough but try to let her drive the conversation if she's not driving it end it
@@relentlesslyrelentless5477 she doesnt rlly drive the conversation but she always responds in a fun way at least, imma try to not text her anymore and just try to get on with her irl, think its way better and a bit easier to seduce someone that way, hope I can still make her interested
Ive come across a lady a few times who doesnt look at anyone. Shes always working on her laptop or on zoom calls. One time, i was dancing and turned around, i caught her looking, but she was sneaky about it, chin resting on her hand and all. i havent tried talking to her yet, but from the way she acting, is it a good idea.
She could’ve just been observing like you said you were dancing lol if I saw a person dancing at work I would look too but just start to speak to her daily just a small hello and see what type of energy she gives back you’ll be able to tell if she’s feeling you
Yes bro talk to her don't put her on front street thou
@@Vonneedawood sorry i dont quite understand that. Front street?
@@brandonwilson9101 Just saw this. Sure man, np!
I had a girl show all signs of attraction you mentioned and when I started to develop feelings for her and showed it and told her directly, she said things were moving too fast and that she needed time. We talked it out afterwards and I agreed to wait for her to be ready but then but then she started to distance herself from me. What could I have done wrong?
Next time don’t openly dump your feelings on her, just ask her out casually and if she says no then back off completely and let her make the next move
Yeah woman don’t wanna hear your feelings bro we all learn the hard way
You won, cause you just dodged a bullet.
a real OG
Like singer Shanice said, i Like your smile.
Smart fella
I walked in the gym yesterday, and this girl I’ve had interest in immediately turned her head away before we could make eye contact
A short time later, she goes out of her way to come speak to me with one of her friends.
Later that day I ask her if she wants to workout sometime and she says she only workouts with her dad or a boyfriend
Da f
Bruhhh
You popped that question too fast my boy shouldn't asked her yet bro
@@Vonneedawood u rite!
@@jasminedtucker I’m going to try this for sure
@@jasminedtucker I’m not sure which of the three it is but I’ll be cool call collected.
Hey there so this happened a few days ago this girl I known for a long time came up to me when I was with my friends and stood close to me and pressed her body against me is she really interested then?
People should js start sayin sexually attracted a women dat gotchu inna friendzone can LIKE YOU
Salute Good Brotha... 💯
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For the restaurant part i would say 50- 50 i work in some restaurant i can guarantee many time i saw waitress give their number to customer or one want to be your waitress not just for the money only just because she think you re attractive
Yup, compare the actions to the women you were intimate with. When women want something, they let it be known