Attracting An Ex Back. When You Should & Shouldn’t Make Dates

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  • @mangoelvis1032
    @mangoelvis1032 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    “Once she knows you will righteously leave, she will righteously stay”. Patrice Oneal

    • @comichoarder2109
      @comichoarder2109 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You sir are listening to the greatest

    • @thegamepotato1912
      @thegamepotato1912 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was thinking of doing this to see what happens, then i saw this comment and im like damn i really gotta now😂

  • @griffyrule6553
    @griffyrule6553 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Make your life so awesome that you no longer want your ex. Create options for yourself.

    • @DukeFavre
      @DukeFavre ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👍👍👍👍YEAH 👍👍👍👍

    • @carlmarch9591
      @carlmarch9591 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯💯💯💯💯

  • @EagleEye88
    @EagleEye88 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    If she leaves you for dead to be with some other guy after spending years together, forget her. I’ve been there, and it’s not worth the time and effort giving her another shot. The best thing to do is to live your life, move on, and meet someone else. Clank the weights in the gym, save money, and keep a healthy diet and lifestyle your number one priorities. It works!

    • @EricPollarrd
      @EricPollarrd ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would say get on your purpose, give her some vague responses here and there, if the opportunity arises smash her back doors in then don’t text her for a week. Rewengie my friend, good old fashioned rewengie. Oh u want an alpha beast do ya darlin, well I just turned alpha and u gonna pay 🤣

    • @carlmarch9591
      @carlmarch9591 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯 this I enjoyed rejecting my ex wife she is now a single mum of 47 good luck with that

  • @Solidsaw
    @Solidsaw ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Some heros dont wear capes. This man saved my miserable fucking life. Thanks corey

  • @chrisobrienweb
    @chrisobrienweb ปีที่แล้ว +33

    You can't make your girlfriend your therapist. That is why every man needs a real therapist he can talk to. It has been a game changer for me.

    • @EricPollarrd
      @EricPollarrd ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Then how are couples “soul mates” if 90% of subject matter is out of bounds?

    • @Rock545451
      @Rock545451 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Eric Pollard if 90% of said subject matter for you is exclusively meant for your therapist, you have a serious problem

  • @pablogiorgio7479
    @pablogiorgio7479 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I just approach a 10/10 in my gym. She LOVED it! I could see her excitment in answering my questions (altough she didn't ask for my name back). I just checked-out her instagram and she has a boyfriend. Thats it. Sometimes the 10/10 has a boyfriend rsrsrs. Keep going! Have a great day everyone!

    • @gamwsas
      @gamwsas ปีที่แล้ว +8

      bro she didnt even care to ask your name back

    • @pablogiorgio7479
      @pablogiorgio7479 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gamwsas yeah, so im gonna cry for that now...

    • @steveshelpman4239
      @steveshelpman4239 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She loved the attention...

    • @pablogiorgio7479
      @pablogiorgio7479 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@steveshelpman4239 How many 10/10's you approach with confidence by day?

  • @brandon6287
    @brandon6287 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So she’s dating a new dude but still talking to her ex-husband (email writer) about their past marriage and how he made her feel? AND hanging out with him at his place at night?!Totally disloyal behavior and total lack of integrity.
    The person writing this email should consider if he even wants her back. If she’ll do it to the new dude she’ll do it to you brother.

  • @anthonyjacksonjr4812
    @anthonyjacksonjr4812 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Integrity is key, guys. Your terms are important. 💪🏾💪🏾 Thanks Coach.

  • @evanhiggins7298
    @evanhiggins7298 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'd say he's not yet emotionally ready to move on and the two girls he's seeing aren't as gratifying for him.

  • @Enterpriseofthecollective
    @Enterpriseofthecollective ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Walk away and never look back. The best negotiation skill

    • @nicechock
      @nicechock ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thats not a negotiation. Thats more like we dont negotiate with terrorists.

  • @JamesP29
    @JamesP29 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    If he wants to get her back, just show up with another woman next time he picks up the dog... even if you have to pay some girl.

    • @jroll5858
      @jroll5858 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I did something similar to that years ago. Didn't pay a girl but showed up with a girl who was a co-worker.
      Just to make my ex jealous. Also posted tons of social media pics of me out & about & being happy.
      It was all a facade & what I didn't realize is that usually the Ex sees through that & it just reinforces to them why they left you in the first place.
      Whenever I broke up with a girl & they did that I always saw through it & it made them look pathetic in my eyes

    • @rjskum688
      @rjskum688 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lmao. At that point you are just obsessed. That’s some feminine energy right there.

    • @JamesP29
      @JamesP29 ปีที่แล้ว

      @JRoll Definitely true sometimes but would probably work better than kissing her ass...

    • @EagleEye88
      @EagleEye88 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bodybuilding and fortifying your body is more effective than doing that.

    • @rjskum688
      @rjskum688 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@EagleEye88 exactly bro. These dudes are sitting here asking women to be their fake girlfriends to make some woman jealous, meanwhile the girl they want is drooling over the dude who is improving himself in the gym and focused on his goals.

  • @garysmylie975
    @garysmylie975 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just thought of something here.. he should let her have the dog completely.. NO CONTACT WHATSOEVER... and the dog may actually break up her current relationship... He could even call by her place to call the dog when she's not there to really wind the dog up..

  • @edgarsserugo2436
    @edgarsserugo2436 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much for this topic, I realize what's vital is sticking to your plan of note being taken as an option

  • @JohnyZman
    @JohnyZman ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So hard to let her go....I get it man, but for your sanity and your life you have to try and do it. You will waste years of your life. I wasted 3 and probably missed out on great women because of it. Listen to coach and it will be better in the long run!

  • @ConesuelaLadyTailor
    @ConesuelaLadyTailor ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Giving up the girlfriend is one thing, but giving up the dog is a step too far.😃

  • @Americanpatriot-zo2tk
    @Americanpatriot-zo2tk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don’t doubt one bit at all that I made some mistakes in my relationship to my fiancé Becky. However, I am sixty years old and she’s 57 we both have kids we have families and we’ve open married before let’s face people come with baggage. In my opinionI don’t agree with the fact that she broke it off but I understand her reasons and in the end what I’m looking for is a girl that loves Jesus more than anything because it’s a love Jesus they’re gonna love me. I know the coach doesn’t ever go into the religious point of it but I thought I’d mention that thank you. By the way coach thank you for your videos you want my opinion you get solid advice.

    • @Randomperson11121
      @Randomperson11121 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You’re SIX? that’s statutory rape bro report ber

  • @SuperNintendoChalmers1
    @SuperNintendoChalmers1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "30 times" 😂. Love you, coach!

    • @higgolini
      @higgolini ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Guy should read some Tolstoy or Evola. Might get some new insight on human nature rather than reading the same fucking self-help book 30 times.

    • @johngarbellano5851
      @johngarbellano5851 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@higgoliniorgrod

  • @saurabhsavita6062
    @saurabhsavita6062 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Corey Wayne, really nice video! I was wondering if I can help you to edit
    your videos and create some highly engaging shorts out of them. Looking
    forward to hear from you. Thanks

  • @scottmontoya6329
    @scottmontoya6329 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One of the best books ever

  • @danieltrottier8599
    @danieltrottier8599 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She is coming over tomorrow night to cook supper together.
    On my 12th read.
    Your awesome Corey.

    • @13sprintuser
      @13sprintuser 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Update? What ended up happening? About to start my 7th read in 7 weeks

  • @revolutionaryfrog
    @revolutionaryfrog ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I miss the intro music :(

  • @tpyro1396
    @tpyro1396 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I know it’s an video. But that guy was using the dog as an excuse to keep her close to him and some kind of connection.

  • @TheColtonStreeter
    @TheColtonStreeter ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's stupid that it works this way.

    • @TheColtonStreeter
      @TheColtonStreeter ปีที่แล้ว

      And being a beta male orbiter, what if you just like their presence? Sure you can want to have sex, doesn't mean that's the only thing you like about them or want.

  • @salihoz3822
    @salihoz3822 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I dated for 6 weeks a girl that i was friends with for 2 years
    She went cold and dumped me
    I did everything right without any guidance from anyone
    I dont know if it was a mistake but sometimes when i saw her i wouldnt kiss or touch her
    This isnt an excuse for a break up
    Bottom line some bitches are damaged

    • @EagleEye88
      @EagleEye88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Never agree to friendship in the beginning. If you like her and want to sleep with her, give her an ultimatum. If she says no to intimacy and isn’t into you on an intimate level, walk away.

    • @OLDPEDOJOE
      @OLDPEDOJOE 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Read the book 10-15 times, write down all the mistakes you made and learn from it, those mistakes add up and slowly bring her attraction down. I did this after a girl that I was dating for 4 months got turned off and cancelled a date on me; turned out I did pretty much everything wrong because I was all dopey for her. I was able to identify a lot of issues within myself and my game.

  • @Venkman24
    @Venkman24 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice Channel. Greetings from Germany.

  • @D3ltaFreedom
    @D3ltaFreedom 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just to clarify, so the guys ex girlfriend was in a relationship with another man?

  • @EricPollarrd
    @EricPollarrd ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “Belongs in the streets” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Rock545451
    @Rock545451 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sounds like he just mechanically read the book instead of actually internalizing what it means on a deeper level and the context, attitudes, etc behind the book's teachings.

  • @303cris
    @303cris ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The dog turned into a scape goat 🤣

  • @jeffleverence4554
    @jeffleverence4554 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    What is this obsession with getting ex girlfriends back?? Cut the fukking cord and NEXT!!!!’

  • @gabrielrod1253
    @gabrielrod1253 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach please make a vid on discussing whether men are hardwired to be beta males and we're fighting our own nature ?

    • @OLDPEDOJOE
      @OLDPEDOJOE 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're conditioned based on your childhood and the media you consume, I grew up with an overbearing Mother who had terrible anxiety and was afraid to let me do anything, so most of my life was spent in a frantic, anxiety-filled world where I never felt safe. I have been given the gift of an Anxious attachment from my parents and it has plagued every relationship in my life as I had become a people pleaser (to women) and approval seeker which is beta behavior. You have to find your inner masculinity and overthrow your "natural" instincts, just follow the fundamentals in the book and practice NO FAP/ go to the gym.

  • @justin-kp7kr
    @justin-kp7kr ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How about if you’re forced to live with each other due to having kids together and she not being able to afford her own place?

    • @higgolini
      @higgolini ปีที่แล้ว

      No idea of the situation you're in but just kicking her out is an option.

    • @JackGordon86
      @JackGordon86 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She broke up with you? Make her pay rent or kick her out. No girlfriend privileges.

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Then she should find a place she can afford. Even if it means sharing accommodations. It's time for her to grow up. It's part of adulting. Stop treating her as a child.

    • @edgarsserugo2436
      @edgarsserugo2436 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's using you!!. I think you can take care of the kids as a divided responsibility.

  • @SomeDumbGuy01
    @SomeDumbGuy01 ปีที่แล้ว

    None of the red pill channels I subscribe to talk about or even mention hypergamy.

  • @littleanimalchannel1
    @littleanimalchannel1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Help, so i had 2 dates with this girl and both dates hooked up and after the second date i told her "text me" and then 2 days later i see her at gym and she chose the machine next to me and we talked for a bit but because i was with a friend there i didnt asked for a date... its been 3 days since the date and she still hasn't reached out eventhough i told her text me! What now? Btw she reached out after the first date but why not after the 2nd?

    • @jacobstheory
      @jacobstheory ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is tricky. Personally in the beginning I never say "Text me" ,"Call me" etc. I always call or text to set the date (Better call..especially if she is over 24-25). Now instead of having control of the interaction you gave it to her and her actions make you unsure. You have to set a date once per week, sometimes women forget or they are not that attracted to you in the beginning. I would call and set the next date after 2-4 days. If she refuses, you move on with your life and make a last effort 2 weeks later.

    • @MixyTheGreat86
      @MixyTheGreat86 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      #1 You said to her "text me", instead of classic "I had a great time, too.". Did you go for the kiss?
      #2 You didnt use opportunity at gym to arrange next date.
      Have you even read the book?

    • @littleanimalchannel1
      @littleanimalchannel1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MixyTheGreat86 we kissed and hooked up on botv dates and i was at the gym with a friend

    • @littleanimalchannel1
      @littleanimalchannel1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks yalm gonna text her in 2 day which is then 5 days after the last date

    • @prototype-bh9xs
      @prototype-bh9xs ปีที่แล้ว

      Get a passport travel

  • @TheTurnerBot
    @TheTurnerBot ปีที่แล้ว

    There is no way that this guy read the book 30 times.

  • @secondsof-ym9di
    @secondsof-ym9di ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is having seggs on first and second date a good sign? What level of attraction is that?

  • @joshsaundh4851
    @joshsaundh4851 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Coach Corey should I tell my crush how I feel about her

    • @joshsaundh4851
      @joshsaundh4851 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nathantinsley07 so do not tell her

    • @prototype-bh9xs
      @prototype-bh9xs ปีที่แล้ว

      No never

    • @joshsaundh4851
      @joshsaundh4851 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nathantinsley07 yup but she is always smiling around me and she likes me is that a good sign that she likes me

    • @joshsaundh4851
      @joshsaundh4851 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@prototype-bh9xs so telling my crush 😻 is not good

    • @prototype-bh9xs
      @prototype-bh9xs ปีที่แล้ว

      Women in the Western world look at that like weakness. I don't date in America anymore. I travel to different countries where men are respected, u will lose ur life in America looking for a wife material.

  • @ProjectN64
    @ProjectN64 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Got led on and ghosted by coworker because I was plan B. I keep my cool and keep it moving, several months later she's really throwing herself in my orbit coming to my desk to talk. I figure I keep a level of indifference and see what happens but I'm guessing she will expect me to ask her out again because women can't take rejection? Don't think I can bring myself to ask her out again after getting ghosted. Maybe she's genuinely interested or just seeking attention/validation from me. What do?

    • @zzomzzomaro7720
      @zzomzzomaro7720 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fvck her bro. Like litterally penetrste her. I have a coworker that came o to my some years ago, married but they hooked up with other people. I slept with her countless times. Eventually she lost interest as mine grew. I thought I was like the only other guy outside her marriage. As I knew her marriage was failing. She had this other guy as well as me. She ended up dating that other guy after she left her husband. I obviously fucked off and didn't speak to her. Luckily we work jn different floors and in different areas of the job. But a year later we had to collaborate. I can tell she was flirting but I played aloof. This year I congratulated her on something that turned out to not have happened. OOPS ... later that night she texted me, I got bored and texted back. she basically wanted me Bad, I still haven't fvcked her ; because I'm too busy with other things. But we talk more often and I know she would invite me over anytime she was available. In the bag FWB 🎒

    • @ProjectN64
      @ProjectN64 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Zzom Zzomaro thanks for the response, I'm DTF but not sure if I should play along and let her try to "fix things" as Corey says or try one final time asking her out (which I think is a bad idea)

    • @zzomzzomaro7720
      @zzomzzomaro7720 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Eduardo just invite her to go do something you already would want to do even on your own. Preferably in the evening near your place. Or if she has already been over to your place and it's not too weird invite her over for a meal or something.

    • @zzomzzomaro7720
      @zzomzzomaro7720 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ProjectN64 she should be showing a higher level of interest in you before you allow yourself to genuinely bite on the line. Just hang out and have fun and make the appropriate moves when they present themselves 2 steps forward one step back.

    • @ProjectN64
      @ProjectN64 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Zzom Zzomaro guess I should of made it clear, we only went on lunch twice during work hours. Plans were made whwn I got her number but she ghosted me.

  • @KeVEGAN
    @KeVEGAN ปีที่แล้ว +1

    M 34 ( Scorpio ) my ex gf F 31 ( Sagittarius ) my ex broke up w/ my on 11/12/22 " She told me I love you, but not in love w/ you " It's so
    weird she invited me to visit her parents & bff on 10/26/22 - 10/30/22 & came home move in w/ her for barely a week than she keep me out her appt than she broke up w/ me. We were together 1 year & 4 months

    • @patrickhaug1157
      @patrickhaug1157 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sagittarius Females are the Geminis of the fire signs my guy!. One minute cold the next warm back to cold and flighty.

  • @ruby-rose5729
    @ruby-rose5729 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's an ex for a reason. Pigs go back to their old trash, humans don't need to be doing that. Company policy, never re-read a book, the last page still reads the same. Sayonara sweetie, have a lovely life 💕

    • @johnnycalderon9951
      @johnnycalderon9951 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol so I guess u don't believe in self improvement

  • @ishowedyouthat2575
    @ishowedyouthat2575 ปีที่แล้ว

    30 times lmao

  • @modernman7576
    @modernman7576 ปีที่แล้ว

    Read the book 30 times.....um no lol

  • @TheADRIANOVALENTINO
    @TheADRIANOVALENTINO ปีที่แล้ว

    Obviously this guy is not experienced
    Probably has read the book 30 times
    But just doesnt listen to what the book says..
    Life experiences are invaluable