I love how your wife life diary series always radiates chill and positive vibes despite everything you're going through Vern. It's definitely not easy going through all the emotional and mental turmoil but your life insights, realizations, and your motivation to self-acceptance and feel better will get you to the best version of yourself. It's also comforting to know how amazing your support system is. Have a happy flirty and thriving 30 soon! 🥰 May I just add, you speak Bisaya so well already! so so well! 😁
Hi, Vern! Silent viewer here and I honestly appreciate your resilience. Talking about your dilemmas and what you've been through is definitely stressful and I appreciate your sincerity. I am really hoping for your speedy recovery and mental health. I love it when you said that the things that we desire for the longest time but we haven't received yet should not define our lives. I have been praying and longing for something in my life for as long as I can remember and I also went through doubting God, getting angry, asking whys and whens but thank you for telling me that it's okay -- that we can live our lives fully amidst the lack that we think we have. More vlogs!! 💕✨
one thing this vlog made me realize is to aspire to have a great marriage life like yours vern. thank you for being a constant inspiration. i am happy to support and grow with you for 3 years now :)
I agree jud nga when it comes to fertility issue, our real battle is emotionally and mentally. 😢 married for 3yrs now trying to conceive for 2yrs and still no baby since I have pcos.
I love Vern more, because she is so real in showing her feelings and her life update. Love this couple so much too. Thank you Ben for showing that kind of love to Vern. Get well Vern.
A 100% yes to a good support system - aka your husband. With all that's happening, it's super important that your husband will help you in this journey. I've been on and off V for a while now, and grabe the effects one (not as bad as the other injectible) - just ask Ben to be very very patient with you. Ibang level hormones when you're taking V. You can message me if you have more questions about it! (I had lap na before then my OB controls my Endo with this injectible then V then back to injectible, so grabe my hormones have gone haywire).
Hi po 😊 just wanted to write this down also for myselfand for those individuals whose also having a hard time emotionally these past few days. I’m also having bad days because of external factors here and there, but thinking that God made me go all through this makes me think that maybe God knows that it’s me who can overcome this situation, I just need to put my trust in him. You are a very strong individual, someday or very soon there will be good news coming to your way after all the hardships. Praying for your fast recovery ate Vern ☺️
I also been there asking why I have to be in the hard side😢But I told myself I will do everything I can and accept whatever god planned for me. After a looooooongggg two years of everything hard I finally got the answer! I am now a momma of 8mos. old girl and one thing is for sure, everything you are facing right now will be all worth it! I know It's easy said than done but believe me there is a lot of ways(technology) to have it so don't worry too much. I'll pray for your total recovery Vern! My heart falls apart everytime I see you sad because I know feeling😢😢
Happy to see you smiling again Vern. Pagaling ka pa po mag iingat po palagi. Praying for you 🙏🏻❤️ Girls sana makatagpo din tayo ng lalake na kagaya ni Ben. Mabuting asawa sya. Good job ben alagaan mo po mabuti si Vern 🫶🏻
I also had surgery here in korea stage 4 endo and took vissane for over one year ,my last check up my ovaries were fine and i stick on diet really avoid dairy products which give inflammation . im blessed that technology here is so advance also the doctor advice me if i want to be pregnant ill stop using vissane,vissane just help slowly grow of endo. So now i stop vissane and i have one year before i go back to the doctor in that span i need to be pregnant if not then i need to go check about my fertility.
I used visanne for 1 year in a half. No other symptoms for me except I didnt get Menstruation for a year. But after that my scan is okay now. No more pain when having menstruation. Hope sooon if God allows magkaroon nadin ng baby🙏🏻 Kaya natin to💪🏽
2016 when I undergo surgery with my Endo, I was on emergency situation because it was already leaking. My left ovary was taken out, then I had a vaccine for endo just to be safe for a year on quarterly.. haist kahirap dahil 2019 i was diagnosed with adenomyosis.. and taking Visanne since then, laban lang 😅 life! Kaya relate na relate 😊 And yeah thank you for a very supportive husband, its everything ❤
I was diagnosed with endometriosis back in 2017 when I'm only 22. Surgery is never an option for me because my doctor says that it will still reoccur as long as I have a monthly period. So I chose GN-RH as medication. But the cyst only shrunk slightly after 6 months and I really can't handle the side effects. Then I switched to Hormonal Contraceptives pills. After I took it continuously for 1 year, my cyst was gone. My doctor advised me that if I still don't have any plans to have a baby, I should take pills for 6 months and then 6 months off.
It takes a lot of courage to tell your story in a very detail way. It’s hard to say everything to everyone. People judge that might affect you too.. I also have my share in infertility issues that’s why I understand. (9 years and still waiting). Let’s keep dreaming and believe God will give our heart desire ( baby on our own) in His surprisingly sweet timing ❤️ What I always tell my patients we can predict what is going to happen and we have to still believe in miracles 💕
aaawwwwwwww Verns just thank God for giving you the means to have it all addressed quite simpler and easier compared to some people have a great recovery period ................ a fan from afar gurl God Bless you and Ben
Yes, marry the right person. During my ovarian cyst operation, kaming dalawa lang ng asawa ko sa hospital dahil uso din ang COVID. Kaya pala grabe ang bleeding ko, nag-rupture na pala ang cyst ko. Good thing , just in time ang operation hindi nag-complicate. Same age lang pala tayo hahaha enjoy nyo ang life together as husband and wife kasi pag may kid na,wala ng atrasan ahahhahahhaha
Same Vern, got my surgery last year because of cyst in my ovary, I also have endometriosis,,,,fortunately i already have 2 kids…..we all have struggles,,,,Trust our Lord❤️
Thank God you are now okay! Yes i agree, you don't need to pressure your self, just go with the flow..enjoy life. Whats important is you both understand and take care each other! In Gods Time, everything will be in place and all we are praying for will come. God Bless and take Care!🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
Hahhahaha lingawa nako ninyo ni kuya Ben uuuyyy, ma shock jod ta basta mahal diay kaayo diha Shang, pero enjoy lang gihapon! Hahaha wish you both the best, ate Vern!!!
You’re in my prayer, & never lose hope because as long as you’re positive, the Good Lord will be there to guide you & surpass this trial. This too shall pass my dear. 🙏💜😇
Continue to believe 8:25 and you will have your baby one day 😊😊 Ben and Vern just continuing for each other 😊. Sending you love and positivity 😊. Don’t worry 😉
Ms vern, just a suggestion po. Hope you can try acupuncture for your pcos, actually not just in pcos butbit can also help in any health issues. I swear it's one of the best... Sometimes, other alternatives are better
Been following your & Vernice's vlogs for quite sometime since pandemic years and always feel refreshed and relaxed watching you both. Nakaka-happy. And esp here how you handle this your given life-reality , I can see that you & Ben will get stronger ahead. You're both an inspiration to young married couples.💖 Push on! Btw, I'd just like to know what "Phillies" (wc is featured here) is about. Just curious. 🤭
D ka nagiisa Ms. Vern. I also have PCOS and endometriosis. I had laparoscopy last 2015 din.I start my IVF cycle last month. We’re waiting for the result n ngayon🙏🏽. My sister also has it,she got pregnant at the age of 40 thru IVF din. If it’s God’s will,He will make it happen. Pray lng po tau🙏🏽Good luck po sa journey nyo🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
hello 🙂 have you considered going plant based? I used to have cysts and myoma pero wla na now (no surgery) thanks God 🙏 I eat mostly plants, beef only on special occasions, pork no tlga...i pray for your healing 🙏
we have our own struggles and we think we don't deserve what's happening to us. i myself ehen my husband committed suicide because of his other woman. it hurts , the emotional and mental pain is unbearable. i focus on having two beautiful children. and you are just so lucky to have a faithful husband.
hi vern, keep the faith and never lose hope. just wanna share it took 9 years for my mother to get pregnant. sabi nya nakatulong daw ung pagpapahilot heehehe. i dont know pero ganun sila nung araw hehehe. anyways. glad that ur ok na. 😊
Yey for long vlogs!!! I am enjoying this wife life diaries so much Vern. Im a skyfam member and i look forward to your uploads, thank u for sharing your journey with us!
I always look forward to Wife Life Vlogs. It's very relaxing and relatable. I hope you are past with the worse as far as your reproductive health is concerned. On a lighter note, Funny how my top 2 most favorite vloggers are both Cebu-based. Lol
Hi Vern, coffee is not good if you have cyst bcos it triggers sabi nang OB ko. And also same sa natural medicine doctor ko never sya nagreco ng coffee sa meal program nya, chocolates too any na may sugar. Like ako natanggal na cyst ko naka 2 operation ako come and go lng ang mga cyst prang part na cla ng family body ko hehe pro i started lowcarbs and eliminate sugar at all and also coffee😢 I love coffee tho😊
Just a suggestion: I hope your video editor makes the font bigger and readable. They are quite tiny and the transition for the captions are too fast.
I love how your wife life diary series always radiates chill and positive vibes despite everything you're going through Vern. It's definitely not easy going through all the emotional and mental turmoil but your life insights, realizations, and your motivation to self-acceptance and feel better will get you to the best version of yourself. It's also comforting to know how amazing your support system is. Have a happy flirty and thriving 30 soon! 🥰 May I just add, you speak Bisaya so well already! so so well! 😁
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Hi, Vern! Silent viewer here and I honestly appreciate your resilience. Talking about your dilemmas and what you've been through is definitely stressful and I appreciate your sincerity. I am really hoping for your speedy recovery and mental health. I love it when you said that the things that we desire for the longest time but we haven't received yet should not define our lives. I have been praying and longing for something in my life for as long as I can remember and I also went through doubting God, getting angry, asking whys and whens but thank you for telling me that it's okay -- that we can live our lives fully amidst the lack that we think we have. More vlogs!! 💕✨
Just be positive, Vern. Everything's gonna be okay. We are all rooting for you w
So pretty! Kinda look like bea alonzo too. Wishing you a speedy recovery I aspire to be like you and verniece❤ XOXO
Wife life is rly my go to chill vlogs. I could repeat the entire series again and again
Everytime Vern talks about Ben, it made me cry. I really can feel sooooo much love!
one thing this vlog made me realize is to aspire to have a great marriage life like yours vern. thank you for being a constant inspiration. i am happy to support and grow with you for 3 years now :)
I agree jud nga when it comes to fertility issue, our real battle is emotionally and mentally. 😢 married for 3yrs now trying to conceive for 2yrs and still no baby since I have pcos.
Been following you since A Shoe Tale! You've come so far Vern!! Love you! Hugsss! Praying with you, that the Lord gives your heart's desire.
I love Vern more, because she is so real in showing her feelings and her life update. Love this couple so much too. Thank you Ben for showing that kind of love to Vern. Get well Vern.
Much Peace & Blessings to you and your husband!! 💟
Refreshing to see that you are very positive in the entire journey. God Bless Vern and amping pirmi!
A 100% yes to a good support system - aka your husband. With all that's happening, it's super important that your husband will help you in this journey.
I've been on and off V for a while now, and grabe the effects one (not as bad as the other injectible) - just ask Ben to be very very patient with you. Ibang level hormones when you're taking V. You can message me if you have more questions about it!
(I had lap na before then my OB controls my Endo with this injectible then V then back to injectible, so grabe my hormones have gone haywire).
Laban lang Vern!!! 🫶🏻
Vern, you are an amazing woman that is why God bless you an amazing husband,Ben. You will be healed.
Praying for you Vern. Sending warm hugs♥️♥️♥️
Vern, your test becomes your testimony that is why you’re on the hard side😊
Hi po 😊 just wanted to write this down also for myselfand for those individuals whose also having a hard time emotionally these past few days. I’m also having bad days because of external factors here and there, but thinking that God made me go all through this makes me think that maybe God knows that it’s me who can overcome this situation, I just need to put my trust in him.
You are a very strong individual, someday or very soon there will be good news coming to your way after all the hardships. Praying for your fast recovery ate Vern ☺️
Hello. May i ask for the title of the song played at 25:19? I've tried searching for it but couldnt find. Thank you so much!
I also been there asking why I have to be in the hard side😢But I told myself I will do everything I can and accept whatever god planned for me. After a looooooongggg two years of everything hard I finally got the answer! I am now a momma of 8mos. old girl and one thing is for sure, everything you are facing right now will be all worth it! I know It's easy said than done but believe me there is a lot of ways(technology) to have it so don't worry too much. I'll pray for your total recovery Vern! My heart falls apart everytime I see you sad because I know feeling😢😢
Love you, Vern! You're an inspiration. Very very strong
Happy to see you smiling again Vern. Pagaling ka pa po mag iingat po palagi. Praying for you 🙏🏻❤️
Girls sana makatagpo din tayo ng lalake na kagaya ni Ben. Mabuting asawa sya. Good job ben alagaan mo po mabuti si Vern 🫶🏻
get well soon ❤❤❤❤ because u have a good heart God will give what you want!
Praying for you Vern! Just don’t lose your belief. It’s just God timing. ❤
I also had surgery here in korea stage 4 endo and took vissane for over one year ,my last check up my ovaries were fine and i stick on diet really avoid dairy products which give inflammation . im blessed that technology here is so advance also the doctor advice me if i want to be pregnant ill stop using vissane,vissane just help slowly grow of endo. So now i stop vissane and i have one year before i go back to the doctor in that span i need to be pregnant if not then i need to go check about my fertility.
Ben is so funny when he calculates the price of the fish! So natural! Mahalan d i sad mo nu. I thought you wont mind the price 😂
I used visanne for 1 year in a half. No other symptoms for me except I didnt get Menstruation for a year. But after that my scan is okay now. No more pain when having menstruation. Hope sooon if God allows magkaroon nadin ng baby🙏🏻 Kaya natin to💪🏽
It breaks me everytime I see you sad. I dunno, I really can connect with you even though I'm not in a same position as you. We love you, Vern❤
2016 when I undergo surgery with my Endo, I was on emergency situation because it was already leaking. My left ovary was taken out, then I had a vaccine for endo just to be safe for a year on quarterly.. haist kahirap dahil 2019 i was diagnosed with adenomyosis.. and taking Visanne since then, laban lang 😅 life! Kaya relate na relate 😊 And yeah thank you for a very supportive husband, its everything ❤
Glad to see you're okay now. Praying for your total healing and for answered prayers for all of us 🙏🙏🙏
thank God you are well na..praying for your complete recovery...
I was diagnosed with endometriosis back in 2017 when I'm only 22.
Surgery is never an option for me because my doctor says that it will still reoccur as long as I have a monthly period. So I chose GN-RH as medication. But the cyst only shrunk slightly after 6 months and I really can't handle the side effects.
Then I switched to Hormonal Contraceptives pills. After I took it continuously for 1 year, my cyst was gone. My doctor advised me that if I still don't have any plans to have a baby, I should take pills for 6 months and then 6 months off.
It takes a lot of courage to tell your story in a very detail way. It’s hard to say everything to everyone. People judge that might affect you too.. I also have my share in infertility issues that’s why I understand. (9 years and still waiting). Let’s keep dreaming and believe God will give our heart desire ( baby on our own) in His surprisingly sweet timing ❤️ What I always tell my patients we can predict what is going to happen and we have to still believe in miracles 💕
Pray. Hope. And dont worry. - Padre Pio
aaawwwwwwww Verns just thank God for giving you the means to have it all addressed quite simpler and easier compared to some people have a great recovery period ................ a fan from afar gurl God Bless you and Ben
Yes, marry the right person.
During my ovarian cyst operation, kaming dalawa lang ng asawa ko sa hospital dahil uso din ang COVID. Kaya pala grabe ang bleeding ko, nag-rupture na pala ang cyst ko. Good thing , just in time ang operation hindi nag-complicate.
Same age lang pala tayo hahaha enjoy nyo ang life together as husband and wife kasi pag may kid na,wala ng atrasan ahahhahahhaha
Yah!! thats part of our life journey in this world Ms Vern due to inperfection we sick,old and die so we must acept it🙏🙏
Same Vern, got my surgery last year because of cyst in my ovary, I also have endometriosis,,,,fortunately i already have 2 kids…..we all have struggles,,,,Trust our Lord❤️
Praying for you and Ben! Fighting, Vern ❤
Get well soon Ms Vern luv u💜
Just be strong, Vern! You are loved be soooo many. ❤
I enjoy your wife life diaries 😍
Laban lang gyud vern 😇😇 praying for you
Thank God you are now okay! Yes i agree, you don't need to pressure your self, just go with the flow..enjoy life. Whats important is you both understand and take care each other! In Gods Time, everything will be in place and all we are praying for will come. God Bless and take Care!🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
I love your large hair clamp! Where can I get it?
So nice seeing you recovering well. 😊
Hello Vern! Keep going and always have faith ❤ my mom had me after 16yrs of trying 🤗
You deserve more subscribers and viewers 🙏🏻
aksyon kabalaka si Ben unsa na club hahahaha happy to see you vlogging again Vern! pag amping pirmi
Hahhahaha lingawa nako ninyo ni kuya Ben uuuyyy, ma shock jod ta basta mahal diay kaayo diha Shang, pero enjoy lang gihapon! Hahaha wish you both the best, ate Vern!!!
You’re in my prayer, & never lose hope because as long as you’re positive, the Good Lord will be there to guide you & surpass this trial. This too shall pass my dear. 🙏💜😇
I miss you so much Vern!💗
Hi Miss Vern, Praying for you and Sir Ben to have a baby na po :)
Sis hndi lhat god will give u there will always be trails
praying for your fast recovery ms Vern hugs & kisses❤😊
Continue to believe 8:25 and you will have your baby one day 😊😊
Ben and Vern just continuing for each other 😊.
Sending you love and positivity 😊.
Don’t worry 😉
Ms vern, just a suggestion po. Hope you can try acupuncture for your pcos, actually not just in pcos butbit can also help in any health issues. I swear it's one of the best... Sometimes, other alternatives are better
Hi Ms. Vern, what brand are you wearing? the longsleeves black top? please 🙏
Ms Vern what kind of tortoises you guys have, they’re so cute been wanting to have one😍
Hugs ate Vern 🤗🤗♥️
Been following your & Vernice's vlogs for quite sometime since pandemic years and always feel refreshed and relaxed watching you both. Nakaka-happy. And esp here how you handle this your given life-reality , I can see that you & Ben will get stronger ahead. You're both an inspiration to young married couples.💖 Push on!
Btw, I'd just like to know what "Phillies" (wc is featured here) is about. Just curious. 🤭
Hi Vern where did you buy your terno baby blue outfit during your trip in Mactan?
where can we try the bear brick activity? 😍
Enjoyed this nice lifestyle goals vlog so much! 🤩😍💖💖💖🤍🤍
binge watching wife life diaries
D ka nagiisa Ms. Vern. I also have PCOS and endometriosis. I had laparoscopy last 2015 din.I start my IVF cycle last month. We’re waiting for the result n ngayon🙏🏽. My sister also has it,she got pregnant at the age of 40 thru IVF din. If it’s God’s will,He will make it happen. Pray lng po tau🙏🏽Good luck po sa journey nyo🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
hello 🙂 have you considered going plant based? I used to have cysts and myoma pero wla na now (no surgery) thanks God 🙏 I eat mostly plants, beef only on special occasions, pork no tlga...i pray for your healing 🙏
check out Dr Neal Barnard, Dr Michael Greger, Dr Dean Ornish's book Undo It
Watching old Wife Life vlogs coz I miss Vern.
whats the brand of your bolster bag
13:55 so cute!! HAHAHA reality!! Supportive Ben 😂❤
Lol Ben holding my fave book The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo
we have our own struggles and we think we don't deserve what's happening to us. i myself ehen my husband committed suicide because of his other woman. it hurts , the emotional and mental pain is unbearable. i focus on having two beautiful children. and you are just so lucky to have a faithful husband.
Lingawa sa reaction ni Ben sa iyahang bayran for isda oy. Hahahahaha
I also had Endometriosis at 29 y/o and was operated both my ovaries was removed even my uterus and cervix (TAHBSO as they call it).
Vern where did you get that perfume display?
What hotel is this in mactan
Shangrila
Praying for you 🙏🏽
hi vern, keep the faith and never lose hope. just wanna share it took 9 years for my mother to get pregnant. sabi nya nakatulong daw ung pagpapahilot heehehe. i dont know pero ganun sila nung araw hehehe. anyways. glad that ur ok na. 😊
*NO RICE, MAHAL RICE*😂😂
-Ben Lim
Hi po! Hope you feel better and your so blooming Ate! ☺️
Hugs verns!!! ❤❤❤
Yey for long vlogs!!! I am enjoying this wife life diaries so much Vern. Im a skyfam member and i look forward to your uploads, thank u for sharing your journey with us!
I always look forward to Wife Life Vlogs. It's very relaxing and relatable. I hope you are past with the worse as far as your reproductive health is concerned. On a lighter note, Funny how my top 2 most favorite vloggers are both Cebu-based. Lol
Buti pa turtle may vacation 😭🤣🤍✨
Vern saying alkanse, so bisaya cuteee 😍😍
Hi Vern, coffee is not good if you have cyst bcos it triggers sabi nang OB ko. And also same sa natural medicine doctor ko never sya nagreco ng coffee sa meal program nya, chocolates too any na may sugar. Like ako natanggal na cyst ko naka 2 operation ako come and go lng ang mga cyst prang part na cla ng family body ko hehe pro i started lowcarbs and eliminate sugar at all and also coffee😢 I love coffee tho😊
Visanne? I was also given that pill and it gave me severe chills and fever plus the MOOD SWINGS and HORMONAL IMBALANCE. Huhu
12:09 "piste" 😭🤣
more of this pleaseeeee
Take folic acid vitamins and eat healthy foods.Pwede rin mag pa hilot
gwapaha vern ui
Chewy is so cute 😁😍🥰
sending love from 🇨🇦
Whose with me watching while drinking beer alone? Haha
Natawa ako sa reaction ni ben sa presyo ng pag kain haha budol is real haha
Kataw anan kaau si Ben reklamo sa presyo😂😂
By Jesus named we are healed 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yung bigla mong hiniling na sana ikaw nalang yung tortoise nila Vern and Ben so you can go on a vacation also. HAHAHHAHAHA
Bisaya d I ka?hehhe karon pako 😊
No! Her husband is.
JEREMIAH 29:11 ISAIAH 60:22.. Praying for you 😊🙏