Benjamin Zulu sets up Mwikali for a husband material l Mature men don't prioritize sex over love

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  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya  3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

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  • @lydiadavis2873
    @lydiadavis2873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +397

    After 6 months of attending Benjamin classes here on full circle, i just called off my useless relationship and now I feel so much empowered. Being single is better than relating with wrong person.

    • @debbiethekenyan3274
      @debbiethekenyan3274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yaasss,im his fun for two months now and im more focused and know my place when it comes to relationship.

    • @FM-ir2nq
      @FM-ir2nq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Congrats dear! Set yourself free.. God has something better for you!

    • @mariajackie606
      @mariajackie606 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      that's true I agree w u me bt mi it's only 3 months

    • @cocobetter2113
      @cocobetter2113 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      More power to you!

    • @themanzo7542
      @themanzo7542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fun fact: our brains can be easily manipulated

  • @francisgitau9257
    @francisgitau9257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    I would recommended anybody who is dating or is about to start to first listen to this man, he has really opened my eyes.

  • @mashaido
    @mashaido 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Benjamin Zulu should start a relationships and dating class in the Kenyan curriculum, under 25's theory pekee and over 25's practicals, with Mwikali the teaching assistant!

  • @lexmovierecaps
    @lexmovierecaps 3 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    Benjamin you transformed my life since last year.......may God bless you.......my prayer is that the youths may listen to you and impact their lives........

    • @deethequeenofvillage4512
      @deethequeenofvillage4512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's good bro since I know this am change total and I know am going far

    • @blessedmercy3036
      @blessedmercy3036 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, may he be blessed.
      🎉🎉🎉👏👏

    • @mishjemirito2671
      @mishjemirito2671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May he be blessed for being of much help to many

    • @fosterchikola1932
      @fosterchikola1932 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly...same here

    • @shanizlucymwangi
      @shanizlucymwangi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mishjemirito2671 and may God give him a long life

  • @constancesidi3386
    @constancesidi3386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The best advice ever.
    If you can not find the right man who fits your standards just stay single.
    There's nothing wrong with that

  • @motlagaboramongane2248
    @motlagaboramongane2248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    "Insist on your standards, the right one will come" mr Zulu....I thank you sir!

    • @gracejames2573
      @gracejames2573 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @Agyotis
      @Agyotis 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      watch school of affluence! standards,dont look below ,the right one will find you

  • @almaziizi7012
    @almaziizi7012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I have learnt a lot from you... Much love from Uganda 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬

    • @ntongoasha4788
      @ntongoasha4788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You not alone dear lam also here 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬 in the class of mr zulu

  • @valentinengare3022
    @valentinengare3022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This man Zulu is God sent. Thank you for blessing this country. Every kenyan needs this mans wisdom.

  • @fosterchikola1932
    @fosterchikola1932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Mr Zulu is too much ....his on fire🔥.fountain of wisdom 🧠🧠..much love from Zambia 🇿🇲

  • @yvetteebot302
    @yvetteebot302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm in 300 level in Zulu University here in Full Circle 😀😀. Am learning everyday. Thank you Zulu and Mwikali for this. You guys are impacting the whole of Africa and not only Kenya. Am watching from Dubai UAE but from Cameroon. Thank you once again

  • @akamuran
    @akamuran 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I've been following this man's conversations for quite a while, he has really transformed my understanding of relationships. He talks sense. I've learnt a lot.

  • @dorcasosano8495
    @dorcasosano8495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Wish I heard this some years back my life could be much better than now, I'll make sure my children will listen to Mr Zulu

    • @akotheffie8087
      @akotheffie8087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      All is not lost. There is hope

  • @mercyaizo2382
    @mercyaizo2382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I hope my future husband is watching this 😍,, am just 20 year's but I have really . learnt a lot ,, Benjamin always talking the truth

    • @ckb7878
      @ckb7878 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am 26 and following too

  • @abduisaa8752
    @abduisaa8752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Benjamin you are blessing to this generation

    • @yasnyne
      @yasnyne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And the effect of this man in next generation as well because this generation will be better parents and know her/his own value.

    • @naomichepchumba8627
      @naomichepchumba8627 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      KAPISAAAAA

  • @susanwangui4181
    @susanwangui4181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Almost to graduate in this class 👏😂......thank you Benjamin and Mwikali

  • @maryjulius2863
    @maryjulius2863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    Who else is scrolling, reading comments while watching? 😂😂😂

  • @judygaunitz4108
    @judygaunitz4108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mwikali your laughter is very very infectious 😆🖐🏽

  • @zoe1870
    @zoe1870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    GOD BLESS ME BENJAMIN ZULU FOR BEING SO OPEN AND DEEP MINDED IN COUNSELING THE A GOOD NUMBER OF PEOPLE IN THE WORLD ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS👏👏👏

  • @amiej9934
    @amiej9934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    With the level of heartbreak I'm experiencing. Let me join these classes for my heart is gradually healing.Will date with a purpose

  • @misskaykayRSA
    @misskaykayRSA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I looooove this language. Am South African. I wish I could learn Swahili coz one day I’d like to visit Kenya

    • @dr.faithadhiambo254
      @dr.faithadhiambo254 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm a Kenyan, get in touch. I teach you. Benjamin Zulu is a great teacher, he has really changed my life. I'm 23

  • @virginiawambui7300
    @virginiawambui7300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Awaaaa..powerful, single @ 28 still waiting for a husband material

    • @trevorhorace1759
      @trevorhorace1759 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good morning, Virginia what do u really need in a relationship?

    • @mwangangi.martha7121
      @mwangangi.martha7121 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      At 35 bado nagoja mume

    • @virginiawambui7300
      @virginiawambui7300 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@trevorhorace1759 love, communication commitment etc.

  • @mercypaullifetalks1877
    @mercypaullifetalks1877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Mwikali's laughter is addictive

  • @miraclechibwe7903
    @miraclechibwe7903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Benjamin Zulu is that person who I agree with everytime 🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲

  • @patriciassebazza2682
    @patriciassebazza2682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mr. Zulu I need you as my wing man because the way you set this up for Mwikali👌🏿Well done, Sir!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @veronicawanjiku9515
    @veronicawanjiku9515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I became single and happy and am experiencing personal growth after encountering with this Gentleman zulu

  • @stormc4044
    @stormc4044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am very proud of Mrs Zulu. She had standards and refused to settle for less than she was worth😁😁

  • @patiencemuhindakazi5832
    @patiencemuhindakazi5832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This man brings back sense to my head. May the Lord bless him. Following him from 🇷🇼

  • @ernestmulenga3890
    @ernestmulenga3890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "I hope my future wife is also getting this kind of knowledge." commenting from Zambia.

  • @brayomucheru1852
    @brayomucheru1852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I love mwikalis laugh😂😂😂😂

  • @janemwaura3319
    @janemwaura3319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Always full of wisdom, you changed my ways of handling relationships, in another high level no pettiness, 👌

  • @tresiashilongo8701
    @tresiashilongo8701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    watching from Namibia, this man is changing lives. May God bless you

  • @maureengicharu4348
    @maureengicharu4348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Beautiful Mwikali. Thank you Benjamin Zulu for sharing your wisdom. Truly a rare blessing.

  • @lwn7845
    @lwn7845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Where are these men ooo😭😭😭🔥Zulu you're a blessing...

  • @lillymumbi.3969
    @lillymumbi.3969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    😂Lakini hii laughter ya mwikali🤣..
    Zulu leo umewapa dawa yao🥳 love the show ❤️

    • @ruthobaye7799
      @ruthobaye7799 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lily pia wewe uko huku.

    • @lillymumbi.3969
      @lillymumbi.3969 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ruthobaye7799 🤣🤣🤣 oh yes

  • @blessedmercy3036
    @blessedmercy3036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Benjamin
    May the lord bless you abundantly.
    Am back to school and seriously studying, not because I was in a relationship, no, it's because you said something that hit me really hard, "build up yourself pre-25's"

  • @kasivamary5958
    @kasivamary5958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Purgatory 😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Zulu's analogies are on an other level

  • @perrymatasa1581
    @perrymatasa1581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'll come back to watch this again and again until I get that one person...thanks Benjamin

  • @anne-mariekosh5010
    @anne-mariekosh5010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Benjamin has extraordinary brilliance and wit. Keep shining.

  • @rhodahbranice3379
    @rhodahbranice3379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I Love this Benjamin on how he explain things with full of wisdom. God bless him 🙏

  • @Rhymesab
    @Rhymesab 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Zulu's level of intellectuality is on another level such a fan taking notes 🔥🔥🔥

  • @zoe1870
    @zoe1870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    THANK YOU MWIKALI, LOUDER LOUDER LOUDER!!!!

  • @slyviaachando8459
    @slyviaachando8459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Only God can reward you for what you are doing.

  • @scolla81
    @scolla81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Benjamin aki you talk like 100 gentleman in one, thanks for putting knowledge to this up coming generation.

  • @daunetteokoroh6658
    @daunetteokoroh6658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Benjamin I just came across your blog. You are so informed on relationship. I wish I had this sort of information when I was a few years back. The world today needs more like you. Keep spreading the truth. God bless you.

  • @oluwaseunodunsi8142
    @oluwaseunodunsi8142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love is shown by even communicating with respect. Preach it sir!!!

  • @Sir._Kip
    @Sir._Kip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    What fascinates me about Zulu is that he also laugh at his jokes 😃

  • @richauntie316
    @richauntie316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Always here for the wisdom and to learn on a daily 🥂🥂🍾💝💓💓💓🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬 representative

  • @WairiG
    @WairiG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Enjoying Dynamic Duo 2.0 thoroughly...and a new body shape has been discovered "The Drum"...as always much wisdom shared. Thank you!

  • @lumani_._784
    @lumani_._784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Sometimes when fools talk be thankful" great words zulu

  • @carolinekimani3696
    @carolinekimani3696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When dating let the man do the talking,take note of deal breakers

  • @candyphillipchipopa7879
    @candyphillipchipopa7879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Benjamin is the best....I just love his wisdom and sense of humor

  • @atohtenguhsamuella7769
    @atohtenguhsamuella7769 ปีที่แล้ว

    I Always listen to the end because every word from Benjamin Zulu is full of wisdom👌. God bless

  • @karennjeri7257
    @karennjeri7257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's amazing Mr. Zulu you are knowledgeable and smart am learning alot. Am single and happy I need a husband material. Keep up

  • @shakezmontash
    @shakezmontash 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You have taught me much about relationship that I never knew.

  • @zoe1870
    @zoe1870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    HUSBAND MATERIAL!!!!!! not boyfriend material please🤣🤣🤣. THANK YOU BENJAMIN.

  • @summayyahkizito8382
    @summayyahkizito8382 ปีที่แล้ว

    i have seen men trying to drag me down but no never
    am happy i found mr zulu before me drowning in low class men thank you so much
    assertive women like me are becaming scarce in uganda due to a large class of boys

  • @coachanniewamwiri3399
    @coachanniewamwiri3399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This class....got me from a level of reasoning to another...

  • @rhodahmayavi
    @rhodahmayavi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    We want this man to be our guest speaker in the upcoming women's conference 😂😂😂😂

  • @rhodamunee2245
    @rhodamunee2245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I like following you.. Because you make my eyes to see far.... Am 24 am learning a lot.
    I think by the time I am ready for marriage and rlp... I will know what am looking for..

  • @oluwaseunodunsi8142
    @oluwaseunodunsi8142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly this man is really teaching me what to work on personally with myself and what to look out for in my next relationship.

  • @colettejanine2023
    @colettejanine2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just tell me where to send my offering because Pastor Zulu is preaching 🙌🏾

  • @candacesmith5572
    @candacesmith5572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love Benjamin when he gets upset. I am like get them Benjamin lol. His personality is on point.

  • @judahjoy7247
    @judahjoy7247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ohhh Benjamin Zulu... You have no idea hw am filled with wisdom abt relationships and its bse of u. Ur changing lives here💯❤.

  • @trachelleallen9958
    @trachelleallen9958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love Zulu Benjam's energy and I love the show!!! Very helpful videos!!! Thank you for sharing 💕

  • @mercynakandi286
    @mercynakandi286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Benjamin is such an inspiration all the things I keep hearing from him keep assuring me that am on the right path. Thanks this show is great.

  • @moureenk2442
    @moureenk2442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks God 🙏🙏 for this kind of lessons ....be blessed Zulu and mwikali....am 24 really learning alot

  • @nellydigital254
    @nellydigital254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    If it were not for this man I would still be tangled in mehemehe za Pre 25 ..... and the explorers....

  • @sallynduta7155
    @sallynduta7155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Zulu Zulu, God bless you for me. The kind of advice I get from you I've never heard it elsewhere. God helped me to discover you just when I need these kind of talks more.

  • @evegachui3871
    @evegachui3871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gosh Zulu, you were sent from heaven aki

  • @milicentimbuchi272
    @milicentimbuchi272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Zulu Benjamin napenda wewe bure tuuuu, nimelearn mob xana kutoka kwako...keep up....

  • @suebey3953
    @suebey3953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This man zulu,if only I knew him when I was dating

  • @poulapoula6354
    @poulapoula6354 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow after listening to this wise words now dont regrate breaking up with my boyfriend who was hurting me occasionally and i was afraid of loosing him thank you mr zulu and mwikali

  • @fre4jesus316
    @fre4jesus316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I like this man. . . From 🇪🇹Ethiopia

    • @ckb7878
      @ckb7878 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome

  • @hellespont1
    @hellespont1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Zulu you always provide lots of insight and wisdom. But only an observation.. You provide a very high cutting edge for a husband to be. Lots of commitment and hard work, love for the wife and family,trust, providing a stable home, making sure family is fed and taken care of, vision and promise of the future for whole family, leadership, sacrifice, understanding and lots more. At the risk of seeming naive.. What does the man actually gain from all this endevour and toil? I ask that question not with spite but an attempt to gain wisdom, as more young men seem to shy away from true commitment coz no one explains to them what value is there for them, they are only told what they have to give, provide, and behave to be considered 'worthy men'

  • @maledimotau4610
    @maledimotau4610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watching from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @annnjeri7176
    @annnjeri7176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this guy for free,too much sense in one person, let me take notes for future use

  • @jaeljuna7023
    @jaeljuna7023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    U blessing to my life. Thanks Mwikali for bringing Benjamin,. Am happy i runned very early to my boyfriend material thank God for that,. For know am too much better than having him around.., waiting for my husband material..

  • @SimonPeterthe12
    @SimonPeterthe12 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aki nimecheka yangu yote Leo
    Lessons learned are lifelong, thanks guys!

  • @oliviamuthoki
    @oliviamuthoki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the way benjamin says the truth🙌

  • @dudumthimkhulu2615
    @dudumthimkhulu2615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aaah this man, I want to be like him when I grow up. Such wise powerful advices Benjamin

  • @jemimahsibonje391
    @jemimahsibonje391 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had to come look for Mr. Benjamin videos, old is good. Good knowledge.

  • @lucynyamai6854
    @lucynyamai6854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Here i am Mwikali... Tuko wengi seeking and waiting for mature MEN....ambia Benjamin hivyo!

  • @georginaayiemba683
    @georginaayiemba683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Benjamin Zulu you always real napenda shows zako sanaah

  • @joanneonyancha8502
    @joanneonyancha8502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just insist on your standards the right one will always come...taking notes ✍✍

  • @sharonjerutoolengo571
    @sharonjerutoolengo571 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Graduating next year from this class 😂 God bless Benjamin have learned alot 🙏

  • @kingkeng8560
    @kingkeng8560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    hapo pa Men should also be beautiful hapo na disagree kidogo, Men's beauty is responsibility stability(financially and emotionally) commitment.
    Mwishowe Beauty is in the eyes...
    very educative Zulu

    • @shirleygabriella8511
      @shirleygabriella8511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He means you should be well groomed. Brush your teeth, smell good, clean socks, shave, iron your clothes etc. There are men who are stable but are negligent with their looks

  • @pendochristfarian2606
    @pendochristfarian2606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Zulu ua an eye opener, thanx sana, mwikali/ Zulu u looking good

  • @faithnduku869
    @faithnduku869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Benjamin Zulu you're God sent,,you have really helped me,

  • @gabezek
    @gabezek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great video! Definitely agree with most points. However, it would be nice if he does a "girlfriend vs wife material" video. I like the way he said the man should end his marriage if the wife stops being a wife. That's a very bold statement. Is there a way to "detect" such women way before the wedding?

  • @speciozaayieko59
    @speciozaayieko59 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Learning alot .....no more mistakes 😊. I keep insisting on my standards always.

  • @julietdickson3123
    @julietdickson3123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just love this man's teachings

  • @tarirohungwe4971
    @tarirohungwe4971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mwikali, your laugh is contagious lol. This program is such a blessing though

  • @apolotbetty8057
    @apolotbetty8057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wooow, iam really love with the conversation today. God bless you my people.

  • @graceooko3778
    @graceooko3778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u Benjamin...always making me wiser
    Mwikali nakupenda bure:)

  • @vivianmunene4867
    @vivianmunene4867 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is exactly what I want to hear. Have been approached by boyfriend materials but I need husband material. Thank you Benjamin and mwikali for the show

  • @kui5245
    @kui5245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Quality is always persecuted by mediocrity 💯💯💯💯

  • @phaniceariviza2719
    @phaniceariviza2719 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice to meet you mwikali and Zulu ,,,you too are educative

  • @mercynjeri8415
    @mercynjeri8415 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The conversation is educative and enlightening. Benjamin you came the right time.

  • @doreennyongesa7785
    @doreennyongesa7785 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! I've heard you loud and clear guys 😄👍👏👏👏