And I can’t wait for your best friend to get here and for you to celebrate your love ❤️🙌🏾 marriage is such a gift, and yours will be a gift worth waiting for ❤️
Girl here to comment about the thing of boundaries!! People get extremely insulted when you exercise them which is so ridiculous. I’ve realised us a people (Zimbabweans) we are always trying to gauge how the other person is doing and comparing where they’re at with where you’re at and that’s why people are always audacious enough to ask the uncomfortable questions that cross the line. On a good day I just lie now🤣🤣because I know what they’re collecting is for gossip so I enjoy the thought of sowing confusing stories BUT on a serious note you did great and I agree with Mr Husband that next time also ask THEM invasive questions. Stand firm! Love the vlogs, they really helped me transition back home. See you two living a comfortable life made me certain it wouldn’t be all gloom when I move home to start a new chapter of my life with my future husband. Stay blessed and continue being a good example of young, healthy, Godly marriage!❤
Oh my goodness!!!!! The data collection for gossip is such a fact 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you for the new strategy too; sow confusion 🤣🤣🤣 let them get confused wherever they’ll be discussing. Henceforth, 🤣🤣 I shall be sowing confusion and also asking invasive questions 😎😎 And, so so so happy to hear that the vlogs helped you transition, in whatever small way!! We’re so honoured and grateful because impact is also something important to us, besides just the vibes. Thank you so much! I hope you’re settling in well and boss-ladying Zim out!!!! May you continue to flourish and may God continue to open doors for you, endlessly ❤️
African Culture makes it so hard to have boundaries. You are shamed and ridiculed for having them and it’s just so hard 🤣🤣 inini hangu I have started operation back to sender! Tingafe tiri vana
I have watched you guys pray over the smallest things and I have been really inspired. You have created such a beautiful habit. God bless you both and the new couch in your home.
So honoured to have inspired you in our tiny little way. Blessings are blessings, big and small ❤️🙌🏾 thank you!!! May God continue to open doors for you too 😘😘😘
Your content is amazing. I just wanted you to know that your content brings some of us closer to God. Our faith grows and we learn to keep our eyes on God. May God keep blessing you so your testimonies can change the hearts of many and bring people closer to God❤.
🥹🥹🥹 This is so sweet, and heartwarming. Thank you for sharing such lovely words ❤️ So honoured and grateful that in our small way, we get to reflect God’s faithfulness and point others to Him too. Amen Amen Amennnn!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾 May God open unexpected doors for you, too ❤️
Well done for maintaining your boundaries. Clearly she was not trying to help out of the goodness of her heart. Nosy person it seems. Your skin is glowing! That thumbnail😍
People are just out for data collection at times! And I guess that’s why there’s frustration when the answers they want don’t always come out. 🤣 Thank you so much! It’s been a while since I felt my skin was doing good, so I really appreciate it 🥰
Thank you for the timely words of wisdom😊😊and congratulations on the new set😍😍so beautiful to see your home coming together from day 1😍 Zvekuti taakuda kuzo deliver wedding gift kumba izvo ratoo drama🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I agree with you Natasha people need to have boundaries.especially if you had no relationship. She is feeling entilted and those people they want to get Information so that they can gossip.i am learning a lot from you your Faith in God is amazing. I enjoyed the vlog.❤ ❤
Fishers on information must be led astray or just told where to get off because argh!!!! And the gossip they spread is always so different from the original version 😂 so why even bother fishing?? Thank you for tuning in ❤️😘❤️😘
You wouldn’t believe me if l said l saw the notification yesterday night then l just decided to like first because l was feeling sleepy and l told myself that naaaaaah l am going to watch my favourite person tomorrow ndiri active . Gosh l love you shame. I am probably going to be stunned if l see yoh in person 😂😂or lm just going to jump on you and start crying❤
this is so heartwarming!🥹❤️ Thank you so much for cheering me on and being so supportive 🙌🏾🙌🏾 I really appreciate it. And honestly? If you bump into me, just run and jump onto me!! We’ll cry and explain later 🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 heeee where are you staying now? Wedding gift and baby gift, Such a janana lover, ngaabvepo😂. Well done Nyasha, protect your inner space and circle with your life!!
Sis can’t keep a secret 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Amen, amen and amen 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Don’t know if I’d currently describe my faith as strong but hey, we only need as little as a mustard seed right? Thank you so much 😘😘😘
Hahaha you did well in setting boundaries shem. I usually just respond to them with the back to sender policy and a lil spiciness 😂. But true people need to learn boundaries
👏🏾👏🏾 Thandi, I salute you for clearly communicating your boundaries!! It is a very much needed practice! Also wise words from Mr Kay on grace 👏🏾👏🏾 Congratulations on getting your sofa set 🤩✨ They are so prettyyy 😍😍
Thank you so much, Clarisse! I am just tired of being put in awkward positions by people… so I will stand up for myself and COMMUNICATE those boundaries! Thank you for validating my stance. Most times, we feel bad for speaking up. Probably because we were raised to not do so… And thank you!!! ☺️🥰 the camera doesn’t do the set justice honestly 🤣🤣
@@nyashathandi Absolutely!!! We were not raised to do so, and that’s why we must be very intentional in implementing this habit. Enough of holding back for fear of hurting people’s feelings. They’ll get hurt and learn to do better next time.
It’s been a beautiful journey watching you build your home and watching God bless the two of you. I have learnt a lot from you (though I’m not yet married) with each vlog there is something that I get to learn. Thank you Mr and Mrs K
🥹🥹🥹 So glad, honoured and grateful to hear this from you. It’s more than just vibes for us, but a genuine desire to impact others in whatever small way… so to have you say this is just so humbling. Thank you! I used to watch content from couples when I was single, and I think I learnt so much from what I saw and it’s helping me now. I got to learn what to expect and what all this stuff may look like at a certain point. So even though you’re not married YET, the vlogs are somewhat mental prep for some of the things you’ll get to see in your own walk as a young married person. Not every marriage is the same, but we all have to build something. Praying for you to not settle, and to enjoy the blessings of your marriage when the season is here. ❤️ God is faithful
just watched the end of this, watching this literally raised my faith in a season of doubting God. Doubting if he is there for me. Thank you very much for this
1. He is there for you 2. He will come through for you 3. God works in mysterious ways 4. He has gone before you already 5. There’s nothing you will go through that God hasn’t seen already. He’s not running around, confused and worried about what you might be worried about. 6. You can trust Him. It’s alright to FEEL as though God might not come through for you, but I hope you KNOW that He will come through…. Whatever that may look like ❤️ You’re blessed 😇
I totally agree with you ....what's up with asking people's personal questions ...haii come on ....just know your place ....then yeaagh i like you draw lines quickly that os the good way you go.
I find it hard to comment… even now as im typing ndirikutoshungurudzika 😂anyway seeing you guys pray for everything that happens really assured me(THANK YOU) im married and my husband and i pray for consistency at the gym lol nothing is too small to be prayed for
Praying for you to always comment, like you’ve just done!!!! Honestly, consistency is such a gift and a grace 🙌🏾🙌🏾 especially in a world full of distractions and there’s a million things to do?? Consistency definitely is something to pray for. Hoping your gym sessions keep you mentally and physically healthy and strong!
Boundaries 👌i love the topic although some of us really struggle to implement them cause you be literally left feeling guilty for setting certain boundaries.There are people who feel entitled to know everything about your life soo irritating.
Girl, I feel you! I feel its something in how we were raised. Most of us were just raised to be diplomatic about things but not really draw the line and communicate the boundary. As a result, we find it so so so hard to voice it when we are uncomfortable because we do not want to be labelled or mis-judged. But, we move and we break free! 🥂🥂
Intrusive questions make me soo uncomfortable I hate them, and I end up lying which makes me feel worse coz now I'm sinning unnecessarily because some pple just dont know how to mind their own business, I genuinely need a proper lesson on how to draw boundaries and enforce them 😢
Honestly, I get you. Like, please, stop making me lie and grieving my conscience. I used to feel bad for drawing the line… like argh, maybe I should’ve just evaded the question and changed the topic but some people just don’t get it. Probably a starting point is convincing yourself and re-learning that you don’t owe people explanations esp when you’d prefer to not share. If you believe it, then it’ll be easier to communicate. After you’re grounded in what you stand for, it’ll be easier to communicate your boundaries firmly. Politely, but firmly. I didn’t do justice to the issue, but I’m sure there’s some therapist out there on Google with free resources to help with boundaries and communicating them. Don’t forget to look those up.
Did someone say “ surprise” coz I looooooooorve surprises but also I’m terrible at guessing 🤣🤣🤣 so I am not even going to try…whatever it is, I’m already so excited 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 Thank you for that tip about asking people the same questions when they are not respecting boundaries, definitely going to use it😬 coz wow people can be very intrusive… Aaaaaaw you guys are so cute, I love how you both bless your home whenever there is a new addition 🤍🤍🤍
Mutsaaaaaaa ❤️❤️❤️ I never try guessing because I always get it wrong 🤣🤣🤣 Operation back to sender!! Also, someone commented and said they use a different strategy. Hanzi just tell people different things and let them get confused. Just don’t have no room for intrusive people anymore. We’re trying Sisi ❤️ we’ve started ka tradition and we hope to pass it on to as many people as we can!
@@nyashathandi Nyashaaaaaa I’m definitely adopting it next time we make a new purchase for our own home 😊 As for the guessing part, we’re the same 😂😂😂 I will just be on the sidelines with my posters cheering along to keep the energy high 😬 You already influenced me to try the hydro boost moisturizer from neutrogena,(it was on offer including face wash for a fraction of the retail price 🥳🥳🥳) dry skin for who?not me 😬💁🏾♀️
@muts_lady how did you like the hydro boost?? It’s honestly an amazing range for me🙌🏾🙌🏾 how’s it for you so far? I love buying things on sale or discounts especially if it’s for the first time… so I know whether to sacrifice or just skip in future. Your Next purchase will come so unexpectedly, and you’ll remember that we talked about it like a joke! May God creep up on you with a huge one ❤️ (That sounds spooky but 🤣🤣🤣 I don’t mean it in a spooky way)
@@nyashathandi I’m loving it so much, I wish I had tried it sooner😌 No worries I get you sis, when the power of the Holy Ghost hits you ka… it really feels like something has crept over you😂
MVP Squad signing in!!! 🥳🥳🙌🏾🙌🏾 thank you for always being so supportive and encouraging me ❤️ the comments really do go a long way! Have an amazing week Sis
I have a childhood friend (male) who was always in competition with me. I guess he always wants praise but lately every conversation is are you pregnant, why are you not pregnant, is it because you have a career but mari hayikwani even when I tell him its because I dont want to. He texted again about the issue and I went off on him. I told him nah fam, you cant be this daft and insensitive. What do want to do with that information. I was 8 months pregnant but I wanted it to be my moment , enjoy it with my husband and family.
Well done for standing your ground!!! And congratulations mummy!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 So so happy for you! I hate it when people come fishing for information, because it usually is not from a good place at all. And girrrrl!!! You just touched on something so real, friends who are secretly in competition with us! I do not think many of us realise it, or are even able to discern out of those friendships.
@NicholeMutsago fair points🙌🏾🙌🏾 He’s definitely mastered the art though, behind the scenes especially. He labelled last week’s video and wrote the description so so well.
@natashabeverleyzinyama6902 I agree. I think that’s something you’ll master as you go. The first step is probably mustering the courage to draw the line. Boundaries can be communicated softly but sternly, and I’m sure you’ll be able to do that. Next time you find yourself in an awkward situation like that one, just remember you said you’d work on communicating your boundaries. You’ve got this 😎🙌🏾
Update: something deep inside me said it was couches but I went with a puppy 😂😂😂 once again I should really learn to listen to my gut feeling and inner voice.
You guys make marriage so admirable. can't wait to be blessed with a best friend to celebrate small and big wins with.
And I can’t wait for your best friend to get here and for you to celebrate your love ❤️🙌🏾 marriage is such a gift, and yours will be a gift worth waiting for ❤️
@@nyashathandi aaaaw, thank you Sis❤
Girl here to comment about the thing of boundaries!! People get extremely insulted when you exercise them which is so ridiculous. I’ve realised us a people (Zimbabweans) we are always trying to gauge how the other person is doing and comparing where they’re at with where you’re at and that’s why people are always audacious enough to ask the uncomfortable questions that cross the line. On a good day I just lie now🤣🤣because I know what they’re collecting is for gossip so I enjoy the thought of sowing confusing stories BUT on a serious note you did great and I agree with Mr Husband that next time also ask THEM invasive questions. Stand firm! Love the vlogs, they really helped me transition back home. See you two living a comfortable life made me certain it wouldn’t be all gloom when I move home to start a new chapter of my life with my future husband. Stay blessed and continue being a good example of young, healthy, Godly marriage!❤
Oh my goodness!!!!! The data collection for gossip is such a fact 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Thank you for the new strategy too; sow confusion 🤣🤣🤣 let them get confused wherever they’ll be discussing.
Henceforth, 🤣🤣 I shall be sowing confusion and also asking invasive questions 😎😎
And, so so so happy to hear that the vlogs helped you transition, in whatever small way!! We’re so honoured and grateful because impact is also something important to us, besides just the vibes. Thank you so much!
I hope you’re settling in well and boss-ladying Zim out!!!!
May you continue to flourish and may God continue to open doors for you, endlessly ❤️
@@nyashathandiamen and thank you!❤
Pamberi neoperation back to sender 😂😂. Yoh we are still learning to have strong boundaries especially in African culture.
African Culture makes it so hard to have boundaries. You are shamed and ridiculed for having them and it’s just so hard 🤣🤣 inini hangu I have started operation back to sender! Tingafe tiri vana
Followed you few days ago. As a fellow TH-camr, you are probably the best in Zim. ❤
I have watched you guys pray over the smallest things and I have been really inspired. You have created such a beautiful habit. God bless you both and the new couch in your home.
So honoured to have inspired you in our tiny little way. Blessings are blessings, big and small ❤️🙌🏾
thank you!!!
May God continue to open doors for you too 😘😘😘
Your content is amazing. I just wanted you to know that your content brings some of us closer to God. Our faith grows and we learn to keep our eyes on God. May God keep blessing you so your testimonies can change the hearts of many and bring people closer to God❤.
🥹🥹🥹 This is so sweet, and heartwarming. Thank you for sharing such lovely words ❤️
So honoured and grateful that in our small way, we get to reflect God’s faithfulness and point others to Him too.
Amen Amen Amennnn!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
May God open unexpected doors for you, too ❤️
Loving the conversations,we outgrow each other as time passes by and people should know their boundaries and not overstep .you just gained a subbiee
Well done for maintaining your boundaries. Clearly she was not trying to help out of the goodness of her heart. Nosy person it seems. Your skin is glowing! That thumbnail😍
People are just out for data collection at times! And I guess that’s why there’s frustration when the answers they want don’t always come out. 🤣
Thank you so much! It’s been a while since I felt my skin was doing good, so I really appreciate it 🥰
Been watching for a few months now outside the NTFam. You deserve a follow ❤ consistency plus you a real one
Aaaw!!! So glad to hear I earned it 😎😎🙌🏾🙌🏾 thank you for the kind words 😘😘
Thank you for the timely words of wisdom😊😊and congratulations on the new set😍😍so beautiful to see your home coming together from day 1😍
Zvekuti taakuda kuzo deliver wedding gift kumba izvo ratoo drama🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I agree with you Natasha people need to have boundaries.especially if you had no relationship. She is feeling entilted and those people they want to get Information so that they can gossip.i am learning a lot from you your Faith in God is amazing. I enjoyed the vlog.❤ ❤
Fishers on information must be led astray or just told where to get off because argh!!!! And the gossip they spread is always so different from the original version 😂 so why even bother fishing??
Thank you for tuning in ❤️😘❤️😘
You wouldn’t believe me if l said l saw the notification yesterday night then l just decided to like first because l was feeling sleepy and l told myself that naaaaaah l am going to watch my favourite person tomorrow ndiri active . Gosh l love you shame. I am probably going to be stunned if l see yoh in person 😂😂or lm just going to jump on you and start crying❤
this is so heartwarming!🥹❤️ Thank you so much for cheering me on and being so supportive 🙌🏾🙌🏾 I really appreciate it.
And honestly? If you bump into me, just run and jump onto me!! We’ll cry and explain later 🤣🤣
I like how you guys have your life centered on PRAYER, you always inspire me. 🎉❤.
We TRY. Not perfect but trying is probably good enough. 🥹
🎉 the excitement is contagious happy for you guys. 👌🏾 well said Mr K God's grace is amazing always
Thank youuuuuu!!!!
😂😂😂😂 heeee where are you staying now? Wedding gift and baby gift, Such a janana lover, ngaabvepo😂.
Well done Nyasha, protect your inner space and circle with your life!!
I was never going to get anything sha 😂😂😂 If anything, I was on loudspeaker!
🙌🏾🥂 to protecting our personal space!
Love your strong faith.May God replenish and bless your home❤.The colour of the couch is very nice and warm.
Sis can’t keep a secret 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Amen, amen and amen 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Don’t know if I’d currently describe my faith as strong but hey, we only need as little as a mustard seed right?
Thank you so much 😘😘😘
Hahaha you did well in setting boundaries shem. I usually just respond to them with the back to sender policy and a lil spiciness 😂. But true people need to learn boundaries
Spice is needed sometimes honestly, because people mistake politeness for foolishness. Happy Sunday sis ❤️😘❤️😘 I hope you are having a great one
👏🏾👏🏾 Thandi, I salute you for clearly communicating your boundaries!! It is a very much needed practice! Also wise words from Mr Kay on grace 👏🏾👏🏾 Congratulations on getting your sofa set 🤩✨ They are so prettyyy 😍😍
Thank you so much, Clarisse!
I am just tired of being put in awkward positions by people… so I will stand up for myself and COMMUNICATE those boundaries! Thank you for validating my stance. Most times, we feel bad for speaking up. Probably because we were raised to not do so…
And thank you!!! ☺️🥰 the camera doesn’t do the set justice honestly 🤣🤣
@@nyashathandi Absolutely!!! We were not raised to do so, and that’s why we must be very intentional in implementing this habit. Enough of holding back for fear of hurting people’s feelings. They’ll get hurt and learn to do better next time.
Something moved in me hearing and watching you guys ❤ Be blessed
So so honoured to hear this! May God open doors for you, endlessly ❤️
It’s been a beautiful journey watching you build your home and watching God bless the two of you. I have learnt a lot from you (though I’m not yet married) with each vlog there is something that I get to learn. Thank you Mr and Mrs K
🥹🥹🥹 So glad, honoured and grateful to hear this from you. It’s more than just vibes for us, but a genuine desire to impact others in whatever small way… so to have you say this is just so humbling. Thank you!
I used to watch content from couples when I was single, and I think I learnt so much from what I saw and it’s helping me now. I got to learn what to expect and what all this stuff may look like at a certain point.
So even though you’re not married YET, the vlogs are somewhat mental prep for some of the things you’ll get to see in your own walk as a young married person. Not every marriage is the same, but we all have to build something.
Praying for you to not settle, and to enjoy the blessings of your marriage when the season is here. ❤️ God is faithful
just watched the end of this, watching this literally raised my faith in a season of doubting God. Doubting if he is there for me. Thank you very much for this
1. He is there for you
2. He will come through for you
3. God works in mysterious ways
4. He has gone before you already
5. There’s nothing you will go through that God hasn’t seen already. He’s not running around, confused and worried about what you might be worried about.
6. You can trust Him.
It’s alright to FEEL as though God might not come through for you, but I hope you KNOW that He will come through…. Whatever that may look like ❤️
You’re blessed 😇
@@nyashathandi thank you very much for this!
I'm super excited for you 💃💃💃 this is beautiful
We will watch the ads so you can get your shopping spree too ❤.May God continue to bless your family
Aaaw! 🥹❤️ That would really be sweet you know. Thank you so much! May God open doors for you this week 😘😘
Boundaries Boundaries 😊..and on God, well said Sir👏
They are very important 🙌🏾🙌🏾
I finally came to the comment section for the first ever to say 📢 Wholesome!!!.
So glad you finally did! And thank you!!!
Thank you for a wonderful and informative vlog. Tirikudzidza zvakawanda from you guys. Keep it up!!!
Thank you so much for cheering us on! It really goes a long way, more than you probably realise.
God speed 😊 too true, to God we always seek for blessings. Loved the vlog always looking forward to them. Sorry abt the fall hope you all better now.
I got a few scratches which are probably going to scar, but nothing too drastic. Thank you so much sisi ❤️❤️❤️
Congratulations on the new purchase 🤗❤️
A lady who knows how to keep a secret 🙌🏾🙌🏾 thank you so much! ❤️❤️
Surprise 🤔 kkkkkk hanzi no baby but we think baby maybe kkkkkk we love you and your personality Nyasha😊😊😊😊♥️
Haaaaa maybe a baby shark 🦈 !!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for tuning in and dropping me some love ❤️😘
Congratulations guyyys! Love how you pray and bless your home 🙏
Thank you so much!!
Congratulations on your new furniture sis!! Love this for you!
Thank you so much sisi!!
May your union be forever blessed. Learning a lot from you guys 🙏🏾
Thank you so much 🥰🥰 So so honoured to be sharing something worth learning.
Congratulations on the new and beautiful purchase. I love your love.. ❤❤❤
A lady who knows how to keep a secret!!! Love the phrasing, and thank you so so much ❤️❤️❤️
😂😂😂I just put my phone on airplane mode when people start saying things I don’t like
This move!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 very sleek, and definitely to be added to to the list of solutions!
I loved that you prayed for the couches🙏🏾
Right? Always essential to bless the things we bring into the home. 😊
You guys are so amazing ❤
I totally agree with you ....what's up with asking people's personal questions ...haii come on ....just know your place ....then yeaagh i like you draw lines quickly that os the good way you go.
Operation Stand your ground and communicate those boundaries is in full swing now! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Congratulations to you two! Very inspiring. God bless you with more!
Thank you very much! May God bless you abundantly, too.
Another day , Another Dowllar!!❤️
Im late but si lah📍
Yebooooo!!!! Ngenani ngenani 🗣️🗣️ 🙌🏾🙌🏾
May God continue to bless your home, I'm learning a lot from you guys
Amen amen and Ameeeeen!! Thank you so much for speaking blessings over us and our home, and cheering us on. May God continue to bless you!
My All time favorite's congratulations on the new set
Thank you so much Sisi ❤️☺️
Aaaww this is so beautiful to watch 🥹😍
So honoured to hear that...thank you so much 🥰🥰
I find it hard to comment… even now as im typing ndirikutoshungurudzika 😂anyway seeing you guys pray for everything that happens really assured me(THANK YOU) im married and my husband and i pray for consistency at the gym lol nothing is too small to be prayed for
Praying for you to always comment, like you’ve just done!!!!
Honestly, consistency is such a gift and a grace 🙌🏾🙌🏾 especially in a world full of distractions and there’s a million things to do?? Consistency definitely is something to pray for.
Hoping your gym sessions keep you mentally and physically healthy and strong!
@@nyashathandi thank you so much 😊
When it's meant to be it happens. Nice lounge suite!
Couldn’t have said it better! Thank you 😀
Another week, another vlog!!!
You know the drill!!!🥳🥳🙌🏾🙌🏾
Boundaries 👌i love the topic although some of us really struggle to implement them cause you be literally left feeling guilty for setting certain boundaries.There are people who feel entitled to know everything about your life soo irritating.
Girl, I feel you! I feel its something in how we were raised. Most of us were just raised to be diplomatic about things but not really draw the line and communicate the boundary. As a result, we find it so so so hard to voice it when we are uncomfortable because we do not want to be labelled or mis-judged.
But, we move and we break free! 🥂🥂
Love you guys❤
So heartwarming! Thank you for cheering us on ❤️❤️
Hie Nyasha❤ absolutely loved the vlog.
Im kindly asking for confirmation of the name and location of the couch company, is it ZigZag?
Hey Chantel, yes, Zig Zag. You can look them up on Facebook. Noticed they still have some pieces up that have been further reduced.
Well done…I’m also Catholic great to see Catholic couples doing well in marriage.
Thank you! I hope you attended mass 😅
All is in God’s time 🙏🏾
Always, and amen! 🙏🏾
Thank you 😊 u guy for teaching me something new today
You’re welcome ☺️ so honoured that we taught something small! Thank you for tuning in and dropping a comment
This is so beautiful❤
🥹🥹 thank you so much ❤️❤️
Love your bubbly personality....love you guys
Thank you!!!❤️😘 happy new week!
Congratulations...I have just discovered your channel..🎉🎉
Welcome home! 🥳🥳🥳 I hope you like it here!
Thank you so much 😅😅
Intrusive questions make me soo uncomfortable I hate them, and I end up lying which makes me feel worse coz now I'm sinning unnecessarily because some pple just dont know how to mind their own business, I genuinely need a proper lesson on how to draw boundaries and enforce them 😢
Honestly, I get you. Like, please, stop making me lie and grieving my conscience.
I used to feel bad for drawing the line… like argh, maybe I should’ve just evaded the question and changed the topic but some people just don’t get it.
Probably a starting point is convincing yourself and re-learning that you don’t owe people explanations esp when you’d prefer to not share. If you believe it, then it’ll be easier to communicate.
After you’re grounded in what you stand for, it’ll be easier to communicate your boundaries firmly. Politely, but firmly.
I didn’t do justice to the issue, but I’m sure there’s some therapist out there on Google with free resources to help with boundaries and communicating them. Don’t forget to look those up.
Do agree with u big brother … 👌
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Did someone say “ surprise” coz I looooooooorve surprises but also I’m terrible at guessing 🤣🤣🤣 so I am not even going to try…whatever it is, I’m already so excited 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Thank you for that tip about asking people the same questions when they are not respecting boundaries, definitely going to use it😬 coz wow people can be very intrusive…
Aaaaaaw you guys are so cute, I love how you both bless your home whenever there is a new addition 🤍🤍🤍
Mutsaaaaaaa ❤️❤️❤️
I never try guessing because I always get it wrong 🤣🤣🤣
Operation back to sender!! Also, someone commented and said they use a different strategy. Hanzi just tell people different things and let them get confused. Just don’t have no room for intrusive people anymore.
We’re trying Sisi ❤️ we’ve started ka tradition and we hope to pass it on to as many people as we can!
@@nyashathandi Nyashaaaaaa I’m definitely adopting it next time we make a new purchase for our own home 😊
As for the guessing part, we’re the same 😂😂😂 I will just be on the sidelines with my posters cheering along to keep the energy high 😬
You already influenced me to try the hydro boost moisturizer from neutrogena,(it was on offer including face wash for a fraction of the retail price 🥳🥳🥳) dry skin for who?not me 😬💁🏾♀️
@muts_lady how did you like the hydro boost?? It’s honestly an amazing range for me🙌🏾🙌🏾 how’s it for you so far?
I love buying things on sale or discounts especially if it’s for the first time… so I know whether to sacrifice or just skip in future.
Your Next purchase will come so unexpectedly, and you’ll remember that we talked about it like a joke! May God creep up on you with a huge one ❤️
(That sounds spooky but 🤣🤣🤣 I don’t mean it in a spooky way)
@@nyashathandi I’m loving it so much, I wish I had tried it sooner😌
No worries I get you sis, when the power of the Holy Ghost hits you ka… it really feels like something has crept over you😂
Nyasha Thandi gang gang here😁😁😁.
Yaaaas!!!! The Squad signing in!!! 🙌🏾🥳
I am late today but as always l can't leave without commenting ❤😂
MVP Squad signing in!!! 🥳🥳🙌🏾🙌🏾 thank you for always being so supportive and encouraging me ❤️ the comments really do go a long way! Have an amazing week Sis
@@nyashathandi You are we welcome Sis❤️Have a blessed week too❤️
I have a childhood friend (male) who was always in competition with me. I guess he always wants praise but lately every conversation is are you pregnant, why are you not pregnant, is it because you have a career but mari hayikwani even when I tell him its because I dont want to. He texted again about the issue and I went off on him. I told him nah fam, you cant be this daft and insensitive. What do want to do with that information. I was 8 months pregnant but I wanted it to be my moment , enjoy it with my husband and family.
Well done for standing your ground!!! And congratulations mummy!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 So so happy for you!
I hate it when people come fishing for information, because it usually is not from a good place at all.
And girrrrl!!! You just touched on something so real, friends who are secretly in competition with us! I do not think many of us realise it, or are even able to discern out of those friendships.
Dentist check up for what?
Mushonga wemazino ane mhango🗣️Mushonga wemazino ane mhango 🗣️🗣️🗣️
🗣️🗣️🗣️ Gonorrhoea Tea mushonga wema Acids 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dental checks are essential because early detection saves lives 😀😀
12:52 it’s giving Greenleaf 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Pastor Sir
thank you for the words of woisdom Mr k
Haaaaa gender bias amana 🤣🤣🙌🏾 Ko inini?? it’s okay kwacho.
Mr K does spill some wise words though, I agree 🙌🏾
@@nyashathandi 🤣🤣girl we love you already. Gotta motivate the Mr , Content creation isn't as easy as it seems .
@NicholeMutsago fair points🙌🏾🙌🏾
He’s definitely mastered the art though, behind the scenes especially. He labelled last week’s video and wrote the description so so well.
God bless you 🙏
Thank you 😊 and May God bless you too!
A baby 😅😍
Amen bro thank you very ….🤝
You’re welcome 🤝🏾
(On his behalf 🤣)
Not me cutting onions most parts of the video I'm such an emotional being❤😭
I can bet 100% that there was no wedding gift coming 😂😂
😹😹😹 remember when we talked about this??
I should’ve offered to do an in-store collection for the gift 😹
you cant put gynea and surprise in the same sentence and not expect us to think baby!!
🤣🤣🤣 why!?!?! Do people only go to the doctor when they are sick?? Sometimes it’s just routine checks
Guessing a car
😂😂😂 I would've put that on the thumbnail oh my days!! But I get you, so many new cars on TH-cam!
Surprise is you’re getting a new car
Not this time around 🤣🤣 but God just might pull a number sometime soon!
I have social anxiety I just sweat through intrusive questions and then go vent to my husband after 😭
And that’s okay too ❤️ so happy that you have someone to vent out to and you don’t keep it all in.
@@nyashathandiThank you but I need to work on communicating my boundaries because people will think I’m a walk over
Btw love love love your vlogs🔥❤️
@natashabeverleyzinyama6902 I agree. I think that’s something you’ll master as you go. The first step is probably mustering the courage to draw the line. Boundaries can be communicated softly but sternly, and I’m sure you’ll be able to do that.
Next time you find yourself in an awkward situation like that one, just remember you said you’d work on communicating your boundaries.
You’ve got this 😎🙌🏾
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I.js.love yr voice tone gal
Thank you! 😀
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You are coming back with a puppy🙈🙈🙈🙈
Update: something deep inside me said it was couches but I went with a puppy 😂😂😂 once again I should really learn to listen to my gut feeling and inner voice.
If we had a new puppy 😅😅😅 I’d have swamped everywhere with pictures!
Listen to your gut Sisi ❤️😅🤚🏾 always!!!
Ooop nope 😂😂😂not a baby
🤣🤣🤣 would’ve shocked you with a baby goat or something
@@nyashathandi not the baby goat 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Also if you don’t mind 🌺please share in the next vlog if you found a new sheet face mask that works well
I saw your ex 🤡🤡🤡
I saw yours too 😎😎😎 Did mine show signs of missing me?? An ex does not deserve happiness 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Tese tiri maXmen wangu 😂😂😂
Inini handina ex
They were just friends 🤣🤣🤣
Surprise is you are getting a pet
I wish!!! Would be so happy to get a golden retriever 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
🥹❤️🥰🙌I want what you guys have when the time is right and if God permits. Komborerwai🥹❤️
And you will have something even better and so much more, all in God’s time ❤️
Thank you so much ☺️
A baby 😅😍
Nope 🤣🤣🤣
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