Before You Chase Women. WATCH THIS. Chase Excellence, NOT Women.
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- Stop chasing women, and chase excellence within yourself first. Become a top shelf man first and foremost, for yourself. Women should be a complement, not the focus.
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One time I was getting my haircut and the lady cutting my hair was telling me how she thought she was better off leaving her husband who she'd been with for 20 years and had 3 kids, youngest being 11. I told her congrats on at least a long marriage, and she goes "People always tell me that, but congrats for what? Hanging on for so long?" Then she started asking me about what I do for a living, if i had my own place etc. You think it's gonna last forever with these women, it's not. While you think everything is peachy, shes at work shopping for your replacement. Invest in YOURSELF.
Wow bro
@@wilfridjoseph5222 Holy shit bang on brother.
Yep, you're right. Been there, done that.
She was measuring you for a branch swing in the middle of your haircut? No shame.
Sadly a lot of guys would try to get her over, home wreckers. If only there was a way to give the husband a heads up that she’s shopping around....not our business though.
You’ll lose money chasing women, but you never lose women chasing money.
Simple
Yeah, but chasing money doesn't mean making money.
And the rest of life will follow
@@SerginhoSM9151 no shit, it’s a figure of speech, that goes for chasing anything. Thank you for the gaslighting.
Can u give an advice how to start chasing money
This basically what my dad told me"the better you are, the better woman will show up in your life"
Hm
He did good by you.
The most authentic, and blunt advise for men any age. Do the work".
@Lee Dawson it is what has pushed humanity up the time scale of evolution, and developed reason and morality in men. As peterson puts it, feminine like masculinity has both and probably, and certainly multi varied facets of behaviour. So, you do your work at hand, and stick to the truth. Rest let God and fate do for you.
@Lee Dawson for both genders. So we can't really predict all feminine manifestations to be eccentric.
What work? It’s so vague
Do the work and stay motivated.
@@fhowlandread his book and watch his videos.
To you younger guys who haven’t been down the path us older guys have been down already: Listen to Rich. You never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever chase women. You risk losing too much that’s important in your life and it will bite you in the ass in the long run. If you want to be with a woman, fine... but you let her come to you as you work on becoming the better version of yourself.
I second that
There's some nuance to it. You can be as excellent as can be, if you don't put yourself out there no woman is going to come at you. I'm a great example: I have a very nice wage as a software engineer, so the monetary aspect is taken care of. I'm 1.9m tall, broad shoulders and work out a lot (strongman training). Don't have the most handsome face but a manly face (strong jaw, pronounced brow ridge, big nose), so I would say the physical aspect is taken care of. Yet I'm having a hard time getting any dates. Why? Because my job is behind the computer, my side projects are also software related. I won't date women from work and I won't date women from the gym (when I go to the gym, I go to work out, not to hit on women). So where am I supposed to get dates from then? I don't meet any women outside of the gym and work, because none of my hobbies have any women in them. Online dating is a waste of time, might be lucky with 10 matches a week, and if 2 of those actually reply.
The solution would be to at least do something where I could meet women, such as take up a yoga class or whatever. But that would be "chasing women", but if I don't do something like that I just don't have any dates. So in my opinion, "generally chase excellence, but sometimes chase women" is better advice, it depends on your situation.
@@Mammel248 yeah there should be a balance..atleast we guys have to advertise ourselves
@@Mammel248 agree. work on yourself, focus on your goals, and do women on the side. not saying to chase them on the side, but have some "passive marketing"- nice social media, go out and do activities where there are women atleast once a week, but NEVER chase them. just put yourself out there but focus and work on your goals.
@@Mammel248 yeah I second that but you don't have to pick up a "feminine" hobby just to meet girls, you can go out with friends or build some kind of social media presence (not as hard as people think, not as easy either). With covid it's kinda hard to go out it's true but there's always a way to meet women without chasing them.
Unless you're a mafia boss, being fat is never acceptable to women.
Which is crazy cause there's plenty of slampigs out here with regular shaped dudes. It boggles my mind. But dudes don't complain. At this point the body positive movement was for women not to work out and be accepted as "beautiful"
Not true, perfectly acceptable.
Yous' guys chasing schifosas'...blahahaa!
Or rich.
Amen, Trump had to be a rich man to get his
I wish you existed in 2010, I grew without a father figure and my older brother passed away in 1999, I’m just barely learning all this stuff and I’m 32 years old
@@roastme2079 ^ fantastic comment. Everyone should take the time to read this. Stepping outside your comfort zone is the only place growth occurs.
Better late than never my friend.
They say there's always someone in a worse position than us. Well, I'm 38 and just learning this stuff now.
Glad you're here dog
@@roastme2079 Enthusiasm is key. I like to read books on the subject. There’s one by dale Carnegie that got me started on this road.
Sensitivity is also important. Toxic masculinity, as they like to call it, is all about being the type of man that you think society wants you to be. You must be sensitive to changes to adapt to them properly and decisively.
Above all, the brain can constantly be rewired. This is not a one-time deal. Complacency and comfort zones are to be avoided at all costs. One has to strive to keep moving forward and not lingering on the “coulda, shoulda, would a”s.
Spot on, btw. I like the way you think.
"Chase excellence not women." Genius.
I've always had success with women. 6'3, 240 lbs and in very good shape. Military vet, sales, entrepreneur. I didn't take the red pill until this year. The one time in my life where I hit a "rut" aka went broke from business I met "the one". Just like Rich has said "She waits for the winners and DOES not care about your struggles. " After I went through this and her starting to flake I left her and ultimately realized that they already want a man who is complete and not having any struggles and can provide everything. I love women but have learned to be careful and do not get emotionally attached especially if you are going through some struggles. I learned from my mistakes and got a huge drive to better myself. Good luck gents! life is good. Live and learn. Be better than the dude you were yesterday. Shoutout to Rich. These videos are killer
@@chad5617 ye, I feel that too.
There's this natural urge I get to take responsibility and share my pain and happiness.
@@chad5617 it's better to let go of such a woman and not be in love with her at all man.
@@chad5617 very true! learned this the hard way haha
@@chad5617 obviously for sex and toying around with. Watching them do crazy things for u thinking it’ll earn ur love will give u life long laughs 🤷♂️
It really depends on the girl. A girl with experience will tend to want a guy who’s accomplished. A young girl that still thinks love pays the bills will pick fixer uppers, granted he doesn’t dump all his problems on her every chance he gets. She’ll leave both eventually for whatever reason.
"Women don´t chase 4s"! Spot on Mr. Cooper. keep blessing us with your knowledge.
You bet
A lot of new red pill channels have opened in the past 12 months... This channel stays the realest. No fear mongering, real advice. Respect
What does red pill mean
@@metalxner5411 means that your aware and eyes wide open to the realities of the world and dating
@@jaleunbound8498 ahh ok, that makes sense. Thank u
Yes direct honest advice no bullshit and the hard route which yields results.
Make sure you’re chasing Excellence as in the betterment of yourself and not the Stripper named Excellence at Pink Pony.
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Lol
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most of these young dweeb out there are into My Little Poney anyways!😀
Wish I read this before I chased Mercedes 😔
Spot on! A woman should NEVER be the sun that your world revolves around.....more like an asteroid containing rare earth metals, it has its uses, but it is not needed to hold your solar system together.
This one is straight from the space program 🤣
Preach love this
Great analogy.
When I live this way She says Im selfish
Don't let a woman become a supernova..consumes everything.
I found a page from the Woman’s Playbook: “It’s men’s fault, I am the prize, I am the table”
Sounds like a frustrated woman for me
Richard Cooper needs his own marvel hero movie.
youre simpimg right now lol
Spot on. The hell with Bobby Rio and his text message tricks.
Ha ha I listened to him in the past
Ha ha..yeah 'do this one thing when she pull's away' etc, etc..
But those are the ads showing up as I see these videos of Rich and Rollo!! LOL
LOL!!! I bought one of his $10 programs 2-3 years ago. It couldn’t be downloaded except to some Dropbox cloud clone service, that crashed a lot or just didn’t work right. I also had to create an account I didn’t want there, so then I got hit up to upgrade to more storage. Total WASTE!!!
@Peter Jordanson ..and eventually the ladies will start chasing you..!
You're my mentor! I'm 27 yrs and I need a lot to learn. Always learn from the experience.
That's right brother I'm 5'4 and my bed hates me 😂 nonstop action. I have a great build I travel the world. I'm confident and maintain masculine frame . Never have a problem.
I dated a single mum 48 with 2 boys 11 and 13 . I did I gave I paid all the way . She had me at arms length over the 2 years . I did so much for her . After 2 years she dumped me . Yes given I am 57 it has taken me a long time to get over her . I did sell my house and bought a yacht and moved away . She stuck in a small town and I am free . I will never make the mistake of falling for these women again .
Hahaha my grandmother literally confirms exactly what Rich says, last time I simped she told me I’m meant to be King not the woman. Thanks for the content man!
I'm 5'8" and I've never had height issues with women. Albeit I don't really date women my height or taller.🤣
Gentlemen, go do fun shit! Enjoy your life, spend money on yourself and building your "tribe". Women will gravitate towards you naturally. You'll attract the ones that really want you.
Do women care about penis size
@@mabd7340 only if youre rly small or rly big
@@calebbroege1333 can u specify which size is considered rly small and which one is considered rly big?
@@mabd7340 Answer is mostly NO
Although they do
But only of you really have a small one
But you need to get her in bed in order for her to care in the first place
@@mabd7340 under 4 i would think they would notice its small and over 6 or 7 is probably considered large
The same golden advice that I listened to years ago that changed my life and is the best advice. Always be the best version of yourself and work towards being better! It's such a waste of time to chase women!
THE V10 is back baby!
"It's not the beard on the outside, it's the beard on the inside."
its the mind first
Newly divorced, (5 months) I like to think I am a 7. With that said, I checked out the dating sites briefly. Good god... What a shit show of options out there for men. The women on those sites are wounded birds. One woman seemed cool, attractive but she had more red flags than the Chinese Army. We never meet, but shortly after a few conversations she was automatically saying I miss you, I love you and said she had baby fever. Ding ding ding....that was my cue to dissolve the situation and back away from that woman who was clearly a level 10 clinger. Listen to Rich guys.
Charles Ivy . I agree, completely removed my self off online sites. Most women there made me want to puke. Ijust daygame at the coffee shops in my city while working on my business.
So, I like what I hear you saying. Having been married 38 years to a woman who like myself is interested in making our relationship work and is doing the work. My take on LTRs is that it is important to always do the work on one's internal relationship with one's self. If you are not maintaining a healthy relationship with your self, it is difficult to maintain healthy relationships with other people. My opinion is that in US society we are encouraged to be mental children, gullible and needy. This keeps us weak and dependent, and compliant to those in power. Women want men who they can trust to have the inner and outer strength they need to be there for them.
Please you shouldn’t be here, you will poison your life. GET OUT.
Ok, after getting muscles, bank, and lethality: why bother with women at all?
Don't. But they will bother with you.
@@gistfilm jesus christ, this is the best answer I've heard in years
Cuz they soft and smell nice
@TheCoffeeNut711 Not so much post divorce
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Only child, absent father, single mother-background, certified Nice Guy for the better part of my life. You are waking me up with some much needed information, what younger me would refer to as the secret I never got to get in on, or understand. Thank you man, subbed and subbed.
This brother is straight money ! I lost 57 pounds at 50 years old. Running 6-7 miles a day. 6’3” and now 230. Bringing it. When I walk into a room with a suit. Fire. Before I was insecure when I walked into a room. Just got divorced and focusing on the next 10 years. Not a woman. preach it ..
Whenever rich is in the r8 he has additional wisdom some how
You would too if you were riding in one, driving one makes you feel like a king.
Thank you brother Richard! What you teach is 100% in alignment with reality in my particular life. I have 7 years of monk-celibacy and chastity under my belt for reasons that you have espoused. SMV score below 7. Simple, sweet, and the truth. I have adapted to that truth by completely detaching from the need for relations with women until such time that I can grade myself to an 8. This freedom that I have achieved has allowed me to pursue excellence and do the work which you have so wonderfully described. I look forward to purchasing your book. And for those reading my comment, know that I am happy and content with my situation. By developing the virtue of patience, I have been able to find internal peace, and if I can do it, everyone else can as well. When the work is done, it is done, and I will enter the field with confidence and Richards guidance.
I 100 percent agree with this video, I used to be very overweight and the typical nice dude. I had to put soo much effort into getting chicks and they never lasted more then a month. As soon as I started to focus on myself, lose weight, workout, not over eat anymore (cutting out sugars), and take care of myself. Woman started to throw themselves at me. Honestly men when you hit that 20% it becomes effortless. Woman will put themselves in your orbit. For the amount of effort I had to put in before, It was way more efficient and worth while to work out myself and reap the benefits. Before this lock down started, I would go to a club and woman would approach me.... A couple months ago I went to a house party and there was this attractive blonde girl there, I checked her out and like 30 minutes later her friend comes up to me and says "are you single? My friend over there is into you", we ended up hooking up that night. I don't mean to sound way to much of a douche, but it's true.
Needless to say, but excellence is subjective to the individual man
Objective excellence markers include character health, wealth.
If excellence for me is to sit on my ass and compete in videogames then i cant complain about woman not wanting to smash
Let the women you want be the judge of that.
@@forwardpaunganwa4135 lol why? All that’s doing is putting her wants and expectations over yours
What a cope of a comment.
It's like what Chris Rock's boss said in the movie, I Think I Love My Wife, "You'll always lose money chasing women, but you'll never lose women chasing money." Words for all of us men to live by, especially in these times.
Blunt and to the point. THIS is the advice men need. Actual Tinder data shows it's more like the top 10% than the top 20% though lol. The point remains. Excellent stuff Rich.
I'm 33 yrs old mother of 3 not educated I have no.problem with dating men because they need someone who has money and not burden that's why I'm single now for 8 yrs but I stay more peaceful with no stress just working in Lebanon as a nanny earning small money but I'm happy with it and life goes on.muck love from 🇰🇪
You're absolutely right. I know I'm a 5 on my best self - and I don't chase women at all. I've taken myself out of the game entirely until such time as I can get off medications and get in shape. And carve out a career rather than just a string of crappy jobs.
Thanks for your brutal honesty. I need to exercise more and this has kicked me into it. Most people probably mean well but being too nice prevents you making that difficult step of starting what you need to improve.
Before I had a stroke, I would always feel bad or feel like I effed up if I didn’t workout everyday or every other day. It just felt wrong. I’ve heard other people say they feel this way too. Good vid!👍
Yep, this is the video I've been looking for! I'm watching this every morning for motivation.
Realest channel out there, keep killing it!
Be the best version of yourself! Wise words Coach Cooper
Found you a week ago. Definitely enjoy the content. Looking forward to the future 43, two years single, once divorced. You're definitely a positive TH-cam influencer. Thanks for your hard work.
Best advice I ever gotten. The exact words. Opened my eyes
Thank you, Rich needed to hear this, I moved from a small town to San Diego two weeks ago, and I haven't gone out and put myself out there for this exact reason, I have been working out 6 days a week and cleaned up my eating, cut my alcohol consumption and I am looking for a decent paying job (I'm 24). Until I feel confident in my skin and walk around chin up chest out, I will stay inside and do the work, women come after and only then-- remember fellas we are the prize not them, women are like the seasons, they come and go, a dime a dozen!
ps: if anyone wants to link up for a gym sesh or have a beer let me know I don't know anyone out here
Cheers!
That Snatch reference was fantastic. Thanks for the content. Red pill's hard to swallow, but worth it everyday.
who else feels like unsubscribing to all the other channels and come here to watch all the videos. this is the most real staff i have listened to. thanks man.
Cheers from Windsor Rich! Thanks for all the Excellent Content you put out!
Thank you Richard, you're really showing the right path for men.
Uncle Rich delivering the truth! My favorite quote, “can you make it rain?”. Great content
Make it rain? Like Melvin Franklin of the Temptations? Make it rain?
Keep dropping fire my G
It is quite true. I would also refer people to your other video about changing your belief system, make better choices, get better results. Great input in this video too.
So many need to hear this. REALLY hear this. Good video.
When the flower blooms the bees come uninvited
Great video ! Have a blessed day guys
This is what I need in my life. I've been trying my best to focus on ME and most of my life so far, I have had a hard time to doing so. I just turned 26 and I realize that I NEED to change. Always been afraid of it.
I look at it like this. When you don't focus on making a ton of money in whatever field you are in but instead focus on just being the best at what you do money just becomes a by product of that. The same goes with being a better man doing what is necessary to improve your resume in life, women will simply come along. The more you focus your energy on the very thing you wish and desperately crave the further you will get from having it. This is my perspective.
One of your best Rich !! Keep up the great work.”doin the work”
All facts ... listen to this man 💯
Believe it guys - i am almost 30 and it took me this long to figure it out - never too late to start! Put the work in!
Been watching your vids for about a month now. Some really good content, but I've gotta admit the engine growl of some of your rides is sweeeeet!
Rock On Rich! Hope the youngers are taking notes!
Strong observations! Inside-out is the way!💯
Rich, I really appreciate content like this, where you focus on the self-improvement aspect of Red Pill philosophy, rather than what's wrong with women. Our gender needs to realize that we're biologically driven to hyper-focus on female attention. We can all do better by stop chasing them period. Do the work, make a good life for yourself, and you can have fun with women when they come after you. Good stuff, keep it coming 👍🏻
Pocket Hercules lmfao, you know their boy was a legend.
Yo, what do you think of this variation on a theme:
You're not hers, it's just her turn.
You're the prize...
Rooster Carousel
We change our mindset and quit with a defeated mindset....establish your code men
You are making yourself property or an object.
all successful people have 50+ women they have fucked before that they can hook up with.... Why do ya'll act like this is some new concept?? Keep incelling it boys!!
Great video..as well as all of your content. Thanks for all the work you do and bringing to light of the hidden blindspots around this difficult subject hidden from many men. Much appreceited.:)
A great video, and pointed study of answers to the questions that are presentd.
Thanks, boss. I'm definitely improving on excellence. I have to continue to be better.
your best video yet. 110% spot on
Man, have you been monitoring my TH-cam watch history over that last couple of days? You explained the exact videos I have been watching.
I got to admit, ive been slacking and forget how to be a better version of myself. Thanks for reminding me that
Watching you and AMS became my norm
Great video Rich!!
Cold hard truth as always, keep it up man
I love true authentic people that genuinely care for others the world needs more mentors like this
Excellent Advice!
Daddy Bro Alpha... this is excellent advice. I am thankful that i found you! honestly, watching your vides is helping me move on from a painful toxic relationship.
Real Shit. Thanks Brother!
Your manual shifted whip is sickkkkk keep it rolling ^^
Excellent men live excellent lives!!! FRAME YOUR MINDSET MEN 🔥🔥
This is a very good template. I have had a number of red pill moments but resisted the lessons. The final straw has me awake. Blue pill tells you to take her seriously, but not yourself. The ability to walk away is essential.
This video is gold!
Great advice. Love your channel. Keep it up.
Gotta appreciate the reminder.
This is exactly what I needed to hear , time to become the best version of myself and watch them chase me ;) !
All game no cut Bravo bro!!!
Audi sounding SWEEEET again! Besides your advice ...that is obviously spot on
This guy ! Hey, thanks Rich
Great video!
Love the analogy of the "build the car up around the engine"
Thanks Rich for all of the blunt advice! You have been a consistent advocate for men's rights in this world of out of control feminism. As a side note, I love it when you use the phrase "Zee Germans", from my favorite movie "Snatch"!
I'm doing the work, Rich. Yeah, there are pullbacks, but the overall trend is up. I'm definitely not the best version of myself, but I am working on it and making progress.
Thanks for another important pre-3rd-period locker room speech Rich.
Might be the best video on this subject.
Very good information, and Makes me feel better about myself! I've got 2 out of 3! and Working on making it rain
Thank you again for a great video
Though this channel caters to men. I want to thank you for what you post. Helps me be a better person. I continue to chance excellence. Thanks again.
Even tough succes is a lonely path i'dd still choose growth over company.
Love ur channel bro