Yup, Started a business, after grinding money started pouring in. Got married, was on top of the world, business hit a rough patch due to me never being self employed before and I had to make some adjustments to recover. Money got tight, wife filed for divorce. Amazing isn't it? Just a few short months later after the adjustments, money started pouring in again twice as much as before. Crazy part is. I was dead broke when we met, but she believed in me and my business and supported me. 6 years later I'm still in disbelief over what happened.
I dated a single mother in her late 30’s with 2 kids and she had left her husband who played professional basketball in Europe after he was forced into retirement due to a health issue. She said “he could no longer provide for me at the level I expect” then proceeded to tell me she expected any man she dated now to provide for her(and her kids).. can’t explain how quickly I left that mess.
Money is a major factor women crave for. A rich man can change a broke woman's life. But if a rich woman saw a broke man she wouldn't waste her time doing anything for him.
Unless that rich woman is 30 and Chinese. She is considered undesirable at that age. They even have a word for it. It means leftovers. Leftover women. Once a woman hits about 28, they start calling her that, no matter how attractive she is.
@@KingofNewYorkkk One bit of advice, lower your standards. I have one so ugly the room has to be super dark or it ain’t happening. But she is generous.
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I can allso atest to this. Btw, women don’t allways have the spine to break up. Many women instead start misbehaving to get the guy to beak up.
The biggest gems he drops.... "there really are no single women" and "she was never yours its just your turn".... that right there keeps EVERYTHING in perspective
"There really are no single women" - i understand what Rich means by it, but there is a difference between a 22 yo who is riding the CC and a woman who is in a 4 year long relationship with a live in boyfriend. Not exactly sure why guys dont get "if she will do it with you, she will do it to you" concept. If she cheated on her live in BF with this dude, what makes him think she will be loyal to him? Ego?
the most brutal thing about finding red pill and rational male was shes not yours... just your turn the thought u cant live with a woman ever...... makes life more difficult but saves u a TON of money pain and heartache
You sure about that? Would you be with a woman if she was fat/ugly and no sex. would you want to be with a woman that had more than 3 sexual partners and if she was lazy as fuck. Coz i wouldn't
Your mother is the only woman who will TRULY be faithful and supportive of you in good times or bad. Grandmothers and sisters are a distant 2nd. Beyond them.... forget about it.
After the financial crash of 2008, I lost my job and decided to change careers. At 37, I moved into my mom's house and went back to school. The job market sucked, but I got a shit job just to pay my bills and save some money. Aside from school and work, I took a stand up comedy course, worked out, read books, saw a therapist to help me get through this tough time. During that time, I would date here and there, but I used to wonder why women would have sex with me for a short time and then I'd get ghosted. At the time I didn't know it, but it was because to them I was a broke loser that happened to be good looking, so they had their fun with me and moved on. I'm no Brad Pitt, but I'm 6' tall, built and have decent looks. Almost two years after the crash, I met a smart, attractive woman that saw that I had a plan. She stuck around. We're now married with two kids and bought a nice house in a good neighborhood. The point of all this is, when money goes away so do most females.
I hope you stay financially blessed my brother, you hit another hard patch , who knows what this one will do. I put nothing past any of them. The hurt and pain always comes from the ones you love and don't expect to hurt you .
@@richcook2007 Exactly. This guy is strangely naive. He acknowledges that women are gold diggers and still got married. I wonder how long before he gets taken to the cleaners after divorce.
Story of my life. Two companies; $400k+ net income first company, $350k+ second company. Had wonderful happy and fulfilling LTRs during both time frames (about 8 and 5 years respectively). Lost both relationships because I supposedly became frustrated with life when the companies failed and the income streams ended. My life has been a financial rollercoaster matched EXACTLY, turn for turn, by my love life. If you think, for a fleeting second, that your wife/LTR partner will stand by you during the hard times you are diluting yourself. That shit just doesn't happen in real life. I am now rebuilding my finances and will never trust another woman again, nor lie to myself that females are looking in my direction because of my kind heart. It's all about resources gents; nothing else matters.
@@KJ-pu8dw No doubt my friend...I'll collect dogs like my exes will probably end up collecting cats. It's sad that it has to end this way but there really is no other emotionally or financially safe choice.
I lost my job in the past and my wife didn't leave. She started working. Sex did not dry up, and she still cooked and took care of things. We been together 14 years. Not All women will leave, although a lot will.
Possible she sees you as a high value man in other ways. I've seen exactly what you're talking about but at least in my experience, the guy was always good looking and relatively high status/dominant etc.
@@imzjustplayin nah. Depends on the woman. This dude hurt his back(no insurance) bedridden for months. His wife would go out clean houses 5o bring money home for him and their 3 year old son. They were living in a dump of a house. Dude had 0 status. My late mom was extremely loyal to my dad through thick and thin!!
@@alanbolton7803 If she thinks he wasn't going to recover, possible she could/would have left him. When a woman is deeply in love or attracted to their man, as long as they think their man is just in a rough spot but overall they can/will recover, they'll stick by their side. Some women are more patient than others which is why some will drop him at the first sign of failure.
My ex finally pulled the pin after I was deemed redundant of my 18 year career at 100K+. Even though got 14 months of salary continuation, that wasn't good enough. It all worked out. After we split the marital assets at 350K each, ten years later my assets are north of 1M, she has pissed her share away. Ya, and I was always the stupid one.
Depressing but True. Despite this, I'd rather live a very unhappy life that's grounded in reality than a happy one filled with comforting lies of the blue pill.
Debatable. We are not meant to be alone as men. We are meant to have families. That's why we're still here. I battle with this redpilled stuff because deep down something just feels wrong about it. Its depressing. All "redpilled" dudes claim they dont care and they're just gonna pump and dump and chase money and success......I believe inside, these guys dont really mean that and they dont really want that. The red pill is a great protest against feminism, but that doesnt mean it's right. See this is why people need God. People are becoming more animalistic and society is crashing down as a result. Yeah have frame and understand women. But dont give up on having a family one day.
@@Heisenherb I understand where you are coming from completely. Life is so much better when it is balanced, meaning healthy relationships and family. But society is out of balance and men are set to lose a lot more. On many occasions, its their lives. Redpill awareness, striving to be your best version and develop a more masculine frame, are great defenses against the war on men and feminism, but its not the silver bullet. So what do you do?! Expand your horizons! Learn another language, travel the world and meet women from other cultures! Don't be at the mercy of the feminists and feminist government in your respective country. Men have the advantage of being able to become fathers later in life. Accumulate your wealth to give yourself the option of living or retiring in another country, where its government and women treat you better. I guess every man just has to decide for himself based his current circumstances and his future potential. Women in the west have seriously become like men. When it comes to marriage, do you really want to marry a husband?
Chris Rock: Oh you lost your job? No problem baby we get through this we'll just make a few changes around here. First thing I'm going to change as YOU I'm going to get myself a new man!
I had a girlfriend 6 years, when i was broke for a while she also left. The thing that really made me accept hypergamy is that she looked at me while crying and said "sorry im weak" and i knew exactly what it meant.
The morals that men are taught in society about the necessity of faithfulness towards women when in a relationship, in addition to needing to be nice, is what in the vast majority of cases leads to heart break. Men are not taught the reality of female nature in popular culture or in formal settings. Women with options in relationships are very likely to cheat, even with men who are high value and keep a Masculine frame. The difference is that those who are Red Pill Aware are neither surprised about it, and those who are truly Red Pilled do not really care. Women are not for companionship. They are varying for sex, intellectual discourse, work (household work like interior decoration and house keeping), and for helping to raise and look after young children (past the age of puberty it is the man's responsibility to begin to form the boy), all in various combinations, depending on the extent of the relationship.
First month my now husband and I started dating, he got fired from his job and didn't have a car. Shit happens and if you care enough you're not going to leave someone over something so stupid that they can work through especially if you can help them. I have so much trouble comprehending how women can so easily leave their husband and father of their children. Hard times will happen an they should be worked through together.
@@Irina-xm6mh I stood by my girl when she lost her job twice. However, years later when I had to nurse my uncle who was dying of cancer she cheated on me citing lack of attention. I then lost my job and she bailed. You are one in a million
As a lawyer in Australia I once practiced bankruptcy law for some years. I witnessed many times (but not always) when a man's business went broke his wife would leave, just when he was at his lowest. I heard the saying from a colleague, "When poverty comes in the door, loves goes out the window." I thought the saying sounded harsh, but there was an element of truth to it. This is a very sad fact of life. I used to wonder what happened to those old wedding vows...'for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health...' But as Cindy Lauper sang, 'money changes everything'. It sure does.
The bible is like santa claus for grown ups. Life is about survival and replication. We can`t change nature. And we can`t force attraction. People need to get this into their heads.
I remember when I was in college, me n my gf met this other couple. The girl was trying to convince her bf to take her to Jamaica since their funding for school came in. She HOUNDED him, she would tell my gf. My gf is like, he's going to have to pay that back. The girl is like BUT I get to go to Jamaica. About a week later, they're broken up (he wouldn't take her). Same scenario with another couple, she was after him to buy her a used car to make her life easier (getting to school, to his house). Once he wouldn't, off to the next guy she went.
I’m 6’6”, fit, literally built my former home, now have a home by the ocean, no debts, great network of friends, etc. I met a green-flag woman, in all ways, and she moved into my home. With a down-turn in the economy, she went from full time employed to casual, and earned a lot less. I was happy to support her as the situation was genuine and she was taking responsibility. I was working, she was also contributing a lot at home. A true compliment. After a couple years, she was working full time again and all was good. When the recession hit, My business took a huge hit, on paper anyway. With much less nett cash flow, I had a lot less discretionary money and realistically knew it’d take a year or so to swing back beyond where I was before the recession. No big deal. Sh!t happens. 14 years together. I supported her for a couple years. Two months into the recession, without even a word, she left and went into a relationship with her boss. Two weeks later, they moved in together. She did me a favour. She demonstrated her nature. It’s like the trash took itself out. Life is good.
@@matthewgardner5983 That situation was a few years back and before Covid. At the time I did own a coaching and business consultancy. Sole-trader. I lived in Melbourne, Australia, which had the longest Covid lockdown on the planet, and my business, like many 1,000’s of others, collapsed during those 2+ years. Had more than enough saved to carry myself. Working as a contractor now on rebuild. This situation was a staggering lesson: someone I’d supported for a significant time, dropped me like a hot potato the moment my finances took a hit.
So true! Happened to me. Once I lost my software sales 300K year job driving a Porsche, high rise luxury apartment and work at domino’s pizza 🍕 delivery 🚚 . No proof went the woman. Men like youth and beauty. Women like money and status! Hypergamy 101!
"The great test of a woman's loyalty is when her man has fallen on hard times. The great test of a mans loyalty is when he is killing it at life (money, fitness, game, social prestige, etc)."
Male celebrities tend to think they’ll have successful marriage due to their status. Often times it’s the woman who fails even though he can provide her with anything she desires.
@@hubertcumberdale2651 Exactly. Dre Dre, Phil Collins, 50 Cent, etc all got screwed over. At that level of fame, a woman won’t add anything to their life besides kids.
@@mpeacraft8585 As much of a hypocritical lefty he is (especially on climate change), its why I give props to Leonardo DiCaprio. He avoids all marriage traps and keeps trading in his old girlfriends for a new 24 year old every couple of years LOL!
Lost a job that provided well for my wife and family... She had to work while I rebuilt my career... She met a guy with more money through work. Apparently I'm not the first guy this has happened to.
@@rugdnit911 man= provider. It’s like men , they want a cute wife , cute face, nice body right? Men have standards I don’t see why women can’t have their own. Just saying.
@@kimkitty3914 and my standards are based heavily in loyalty. Keep promoting Hypergamy and you'll all end up with alot of cats, wrinkled and that bitter wine mom swag
I've been blind for 34 years. Now I start to awake and understand. The Blue Matrix and Disney really messed me up. I used to believe that a woman can love you unconditionally. Suffered a lot because of that!
I accepted female nature when Dr. Dre's ex wife filed for divorce. Imagine you being worth $800 million and she STILL wants out.😂😂😂 Just enjoy your life, gentlemen. After my ex left, I joined the army. Greetings from Germany.
Thanks for actually being a real man and not a poop breath Cheeto dust licker. Tired of these beta soyboys who let themselves be losers. Good day sir 👍
My ex jumped ship. I moved to Asia and started over. Went back to school for my masters and PhD. Remarried and my ex messaged me days after my wedding. Absolutely hilarious.
Been there done that. HER: "Tim, You cannot afford me." ME: "Why's that? Because I can't afford that house you want because we're so far in debt from all the partying we've been enjoying. And have no savings?" HER: "Yep." 2nd best thing she ever said to me!
I’ve concluded that being with a woman is like a recurring bill payment that never ends. No matter how much you pay the interest gets higher and higher.
Só true. I met my baby mama when I was a field tech. Out relationship was great and we even got engaged. Once I lost that job though my baby mama became a bitch. I was not able to get offered another field tech job, and had to do call center jobs for years. She eventually cheated on me with a middle aged high school drop out fork lift driver. Flash forward to today I did a career change to software development, and i’ve been investing in various investments. I got more money and more bank than I ever had in my life, and I’ve been hitting the gym. Meanwhile my baby mama got fatter and is in depression. It’s unfortunate I had a child with her, but I am glad I am the child’s favorite parent and have 50/50 custody.
@@williamj.dovejr.8613 why thank you. So true. I’ve also been refreshing my game by listening to The Black Phillip show. It’s old but it’s still useful information. Wish Patrice was still alive today. I would have loved to hear his point of view on OnlyFans lol.
Me and my wife married for 9 years and have 1 daughter. After both of my parents passed away, I've become emotional stressed, and lost my job. After 1 year of having depression and anxiety, She left me together with my daughter. After 2 years I had a great job now but still supporting them. Though, I don't want to be with her anymore. She left me on my very vulnerable situation. I'm happy now though.
Ah yes this is a fact. This is why when I got divorced I framed my divorce papers and put them above my fireplace so that when im sitting there wondering if I should start dating again, im reminded to say hell no
The leason I learned as I'm 34 years old. Never trust a woman's loyalty. They're all leave you or have a think to leave you when there is an opportunity. For all men out there, focus on your selves. Give 90% to yourself and 10% to your partner.
Women Often Leave Men When Money Goes Away. Is THAT ever the truth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It happened to me. The money didn't go completely away, but there was less of it to keep her happy, so, click, I was done.
We met when I was in my top of my career, fast forward 6 years later I already resigned from my job, started my business, these Corona ruined my business, and then after she rejected my proposal, she left me for a married banker to be his mistress
@@blasiomuhinda5913 the wrong one obviously. The thing is, for me she was 'fit like a glove' when things were fine, everything fell apart earlier this year following the outbreak, and I think that's when her hypergamy kicked in
@@consigliere4744 Sadly there is no wrong one, they're all like that to one degree or another. Once the virus is gone and we're back to same as before and you're business takes off and you're making bank, expect her to come sniffing around
A giga-chad should be spinning plates straight up, don’t settle for one when you have tons of options. Women will get sick of you and eventually leave, regardless if you’re providing what they want at the time. There’s zero value in LTR/marriage in today’s world, and us men will always lose in the end...emotionally or financially.
She wasn't sh!t testing, she was trying to nuke the relationship because she already had another guy lined up. Instead of getting the message, he clung on all the more.
That is very likely the case. The guy was probably Red Pill Aware, but still Blue Pill, and despite his probable understanding of female nature, his subconscious, as Rich mentioned, dominated him into being overcome with onenitis. That actually made him pay too much attention to her, validate her too much, and try to please her, and likely not check her on shit tests and early misbehaviour. That onenitis, also made him not look at the wealth of his options. From Rich's description of him, he has much with regards to SMV comprehensively. What he lacks or lacked is/was an overall Alpha Attitude and the deep affection that he developed for her, did not enable him to act decisively even when he red flags showed themselves early. In fact immediately: That she branched to him from another man.
@@musafawundu6718 some high SMV guys have weak game & frame. They have no trouble hooking up but turn soft in a relationship. A coworker once asked me about this, "Why do men turn into losers after a few months?"
@@northernguy8860 Yes. Because they are still largely Blue Pill. High SMV gets the women, practicing the principles of being Red Pilled keeps them. One of the things that I have learned is to limit and space interactions with women, even those that I actually like, so as to reduce the likelihood of falling into sentiment for them.
@@musafawundu6718 the redpill journey is a trial by fire, and you have to get burned badly enough to shake up your world and then make some progress. Personally, my journey wasn't through women, it was through running a business.
As soon as I started asking my wife of six years to begin contributing more - pay for a meal sometimes, etc. - because her income had increased, she got resentful and left. They're just spoiled children inside. Use them for what they're worth. You're deluding yourself if you think that they're ever going to stand by you when things get tough. They have no loyalty.
Your story doesn't quiet add up. You two got married and both still not in one boat, but she had to pay for her own and you paid for your own? What kind of a damn relationship is this? Why marry at first place? You used her for what she was worth and she knew it, that's why. Don't expect loyalty when one has none. Americans are more likr individualism. Society teach people become like that. How about pee a puddle and look at yourself to see who's better. I bet it was more than just contributing a meal sometimes.
hypergamy is biological, not personal. (same with men planting seeds.) Regret is a fool's game. take your lumps, grow, evolve, move on. and for god's sake - don't leak so much in public. he pivoted in his finances so is clearly adaptable. get a dog. do the work. the next philly is right around the corner. keep going.
His first mistake was even getting involved with a girl like this that cheated and left her old man for him. He should have known immediately she would do the same thing to him
This generation most women are too focused on themselves. Any lady that lacks values, integrity, modesty and don’t pray, are most likely to walk away from the relationship, even if things are going smoothly,. Only few women will deeply understand the struggle. Also culture does play a big role to it, western women are just too privileged and entitled.
It's no secret that most women only cares about a man's social status and/or his money. I feel that most women don't really know what it means to truly love someone.
Yep. They absolutely don't have a real clue what that truly means. Its only about their convenience, survival and opportunistic situations they can benefit from. It will never really be about you. Thats it...
Imprint her when she's young (before the party years phase), then she will love you; but for her to have genuine burning desire for you, you'll still have to be her Alpha when her hypergamy comes knocking.
We can be around for them when they broke and help them get they credit back help them student loans get paid off all that good stuff caught up and once they get on their feet they OUT..
Older chicks are low hangin fruit... Stay back oh spoiled ones! It is pretty crazy that the older they get the more demands they make. I don’t think they quite grasp leverage. They have none
Very true about the fact that when the money and status go so do the women. When I got laid off of my teaching job in a college because of district budget cutbacks, my wife of 15 years left me.
I can tell you this is absolutely the truth. You can have a great marriage for years. Living the dream, have a house, go on vacations, have a couple kids. You've given a great life to your wife and kids. Then hard times come and the guy loses his job. He might find his wife doesn't quite love him the way she used to. 6 months later she's asking for a divorce.
Rich! Beautiful video, good thing you reminded us about women not being really single. I'm meeting a lot of women who are married / living with someone who go around cheating on them. Obviously, because they have a sure thing at home and go out looking for better.
I knew an older couple that the husband and one adult son were obsessed with drag racing. The man and his wife lived in a shack, heated with firewood, ate tomato sandwiches, or just whatever she would cook up. Their only income was dual paper routes, and he did mechanic work in an old half assed dirt floor shop for extra money. All money went into the race cars. That man and his wife were one of the happiest couples I've ever seen. They lived in poverty so he could race, and she joyfully supported it. That's how marriage and LTRs are supposed to function.
Very true, happened to me while I was still Active Duty. I left the military and wanted to finish college and had everything planned out. I was never broke and plenty of cash saved up for the transition. After finishing school I landed another federal job and doing quite well for myself.
My uncle was probably the most handsome guy in the city of 100k, back in his day (and probably to this day despite his age). He inherited quite a bit, was a CEO for a while and accumulated some wealth. My auntie "captured him" among many, many women he could've been with. Unfortunately, due to the political reasons, he lost large portion of his wealth and the job / career stopped about 10 years before he was to retire. Pretty much the moment he lost his job and status, my auntie left him after 3 kids and 30+ years of marriage.
“Actions speaker louder than words” From my experience, doesn’t matter how much a woman tells you that she loves you. When the chips are down, the vast majority of women will leave you. In regards to marital vow fir generation X and Y - they may as be written in toilet paper.
What you said at 13:50 is so true that it was in a Seinfeld episode. George costanza tried breaking up with a girl and she wouldn't let him. She said that breaking up was like launching missiles from a submarine, both parties have to turn their keys which made George yell TURN YOUR KEY MURA!!!!!
My exes left me. Its Not normal. Today, nowadays. I have 3 Cars, Motorbike, traveling around the World. Never ever i will give my Money away for an sjut.
Something I picked up on early is that I always had my doubts as to whether or not a woman would stay with me if I ever lost my job. That's why you should always vet.
And continue to vet after she becomes your wife or your main squeeze. As a guy on the far side of middle age, who has been with the same woman for 30 years, my wife knows I do not grant freebies, aside from birthdays and the holiday season. If she wants me to stay, she must make it worth my while. She must do her job better than any other. That is her job security. Also, I supply all the money, for everything.
My uncle who lives in Southern US once told me: "no money no honey". At that time I was a blue pilled fool so I didn't understand it. Now it makes perfect sense.
That's is so true....it happened to me I remembered when I was going through a situation with money and she left me because I didn't have enough money at that time that was so fucked up...when I had it there was no problem but I was in my lows she left me wow....but is cool because now I have more money and doing awesome!!!🤑🤑🤑 never again I will let any one do that shit to me. This was a few years ago
I remember getting assaulted for turning a girl down who shown interest towards me when I didn't see it coming. I said "I'm not in a position to deter my focus on my financial current affairs with a new relationship right now"? SLAP! 😱 Its like the conditions of matchmaking is out of my control. If this was the other way round the legal conditions would be far more intense. Masturbating has several benefits: You don't have to beg consumes less energy No emotional blackmail Costs nothing at all No agrevation/bargaining for it No kids/eventual childsupport No marriage/divorce conditions Arguments are with yourself (I win these) Being single for over 3 years after 30 years of relationships is the best thing I ever did. I didn't need a partner what was I thinking?
Yup, Started a business, after grinding money started pouring in. Got married, was on top of the world, business hit a rough patch due to me never being self employed before and I had to make some adjustments to recover. Money got tight, wife filed for divorce. Amazing isn't it? Just a few short months later after the adjustments, money started pouring in again twice as much as before. Crazy part is. I was dead broke when we met, but she believed in me and my business and supported me. 6 years later I'm still in disbelief over what happened.
6:14 I turn 32 next month. I told my buddy (we were at the gym) I was looking for a girl who was around 22-25 (he's 30 and married to a 33 year old) because he kept seeing my eyes wonder around the gym probably. He thought 22-25 was almost pedophile and he said I should be looking for a woman that is not any younger than 27 or 28. I replied "Why should I be looking for a woman who's well past her sexual peak and in the epiphany phase? You don't understand the sexual market place." He looked all sorts of confused lol
You also left out the part about constant nagging about marriage and kids when that ripe old age of 30 is reached for women?. I have been with my significant other for 12 years now , shes about 13 years shy of my age, met in college, things are great. We also don't live together,/she comes from a large family where grandparents and everyone is still living together. She's 32 still living at home, hey I have no complaints, saves me plenty of cash/and helps to why were probably still together. Best of luck, -Cheers
@@vincewarren1271 I have found the correlation with the whole kids thing, just pointing it out in a min/Also, I am neutral on the whole subject/have kids great. Don't have children, great also. That correlation I'm bringing up, is the "nest". You live together, those little ones are right around the corner, just months or a year away.... Seen it plenty of times with my relatives/friends. No "nest" (not living together) then you avoid that whole situation/(If you want to of-course). Best of luck , hope things go well with your little ones, I hear that they can be a great addition to your life and a driver to succeed and progress. -Cheers
@@mikein60fpstwitch.tvaliber73 I was talking about my buddy. I don't have any kids. My opinion on them are the same as yours. They actually lived together for 8 years before having their first child. They both liked to party hard and in our 20's having children would have made that difficult.
@@vincewarren1271 Ah, gotcha , yep was wondering why you were talking about kids and a "she" but hey i just ran with it, ha ha Well at least you will have a close up experience of what its all about with your friend. To sum up what my good friend from high school told me after he got married/who has sense moved out of state, all he said was "don't do it" /any of it. Best of luck.
I also got blamed by my ex for her unhappiness. i m 36,she was 32. she told me I was the cause of her depression. I left and did very well. bail out if you start hearing this. it s a major red flag.
Yep, they've got no loyalty whatsoever. Not his fault he lost his job but once again to quote Rich, "women don't care about your struggles they just sit at the finish line and wait for the winners."
And not to mention, all the debt that many late 20's women bring to the table nowadays with student loans and credit card debt. I'm not saying all women are in debt, but many of them have fallen for the "Education fallacy".
One itis, it gets the best of us. He will look back on this in a year or so and wonder why the hell we was even considering this. It’s happened to me about 5 times now.
In school, first you get the lesson, then you get the test. In life, first you get the test, then you get the lesson. And you will continue to be tested until you learn the lesson. Personally, I learned the One-itis lesson only once. Admittedly it was a tough lesson.
I've been ghosted just over a week ago. I think it's because I told her I'm not going to buy her anymore gifts. She was butthurt. I know it was a beta move it was before i discovered the red pill community but I've finally put my foot down. Four years wasted.
My ex- wife’s spending drove me into bankruptcy. After that she left me and tried in her late 30’s to monkey branch to the next guy. 3 years I’ve completely bounced back and am debt free and earning 6 figures and have upgraded to a much hotter blonde whilst she’s hit the wall hard and porked up and is instead working for minimum wage. Funny thing is that she now wants to get back together 🤣
@@SenorTucano damn savage lol she probably dying in side like i fucked up! Also sorry for late reply I realize I wrote this from an account that I really don’t use often lol
I watch these vids to reinforce what I already know. Almost like a refresher course that tells me "Nope, women are still the same.. maybe even worse now"
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"When poverty walks through the front door, love goes out the window." ~ Proverb
Funny I heard that exact same quote but in spanish, and it's from spanish movies xD
which one?
NO....women go out the window.
🤣🤣🤣
Yup, Started a business, after grinding money started pouring in. Got married, was on top of the world, business hit a rough patch due to me never being self employed before and I had to make some adjustments to recover. Money got tight, wife filed for divorce. Amazing isn't it? Just a few short months later after the adjustments, money started pouring in again twice as much as before. Crazy part is. I was dead broke when we met, but she believed in me and my business and supported me. 6 years later I'm still in disbelief over what happened.
I dated a single mother in her late 30’s with 2 kids and she had left her husband who played professional basketball in Europe after he was forced into retirement due to a health issue. She said “he could no longer provide for me at the level I expect” then proceeded to tell me she expected any man she dated now to provide for her(and her kids).. can’t explain how quickly I left that mess.
Failed the interview😞
Why would you even go on a date with a single mom?? Was it just to smash?? I wouldnt even speak to a woman if I saw her with some kids.
@@DeusEx2 Seems like he kept her for a short Internship !
@mike a You'd be surprised, Mike.
@@blasiomuhinda5913 Neither would I, dude. Many men would, though.
Money is a major factor women crave for. A rich man can change a broke woman's life. But if a rich woman saw a broke man she wouldn't waste her time doing anything for him.
Unless you're Chad or Tyrone 😂 there are a lot of sugar mamas out there too 🤫
@@93RG Yeah im looking for one
Unless that rich woman is 30 and Chinese. She is considered undesirable at that age. They even have a word for it. It means leftovers. Leftover women. Once a woman hits about 28, they start calling her that, no matter how attractive she is.
Rich women can help out good looking young dudes as well... Just because you don't hear about it doesn't mean it doesn't happen
@@KingofNewYorkkk One bit of advice, lower your standards. I have one so ugly the room has to be super dark or it ain’t happening. But she is generous.
I can allso atest to this.
Btw, women don’t allways have the spine to break up. Many women instead start misbehaving to get the guy to beak up.
This is big facts!
Or reveal themselves
@@hooman008 Get a younger one now. She is past her prime. A waste of time
You mean courage.
Been there. We all need to stay focused on really important things.
To a woman. A broke man is like a broken hand. Useless.
On the flip side, we LIKE attractive broke women because they can't afford to ride the carousel on endless travel "adventures".
Hello G, I'm also G
@@hubertcumberdale2651 The flipside is a girl with kids, we want nothing to do with that
@@jugular911 Hi
What about broke women? What the quote is
His turn was over.
The biggest gems he drops.... "there really are no single women" and "she was never yours its just your turn".... that right there keeps EVERYTHING in perspective
Thx a lot to adjust my mindset
"There really are no single women" - i understand what Rich means by it, but there is a difference between a 22 yo who is riding the CC and a woman who is in a 4 year long relationship with a live in boyfriend. Not exactly sure why guys dont get "if she will do it with you, she will do it to you" concept. If she cheated on her live in BF with this dude, what makes him think she will be loyal to him? Ego?
But there are a lot of single men. So that means that there are a lot more men than women?
@@eugenb9017 It means top 20% of guys are banging several women, while 80% of guys are Incels
the most brutal thing about finding red pill and rational male was
shes not yours... just your turn
the thought u cant live with a woman ever...... makes life more difficult but saves u a TON of money pain and heartache
Only women, kids and dogs are loved UNCONDITIONALLY.....
You sure about that? Would you be with a woman if she was fat/ugly and no sex. would you want to be with a woman that had more than 3 sexual partners and if she was lazy as fuck. Coz i wouldn't
Truth
Your mother is the only woman who will TRULY be faithful and supportive of you in good times or bad. Grandmothers and sisters are a distant 2nd. Beyond them.... forget about it.
I’ll go one further only your mother loves unconditionally and your dog.
uh narcissistic mothers do not love their children or anything for that matter. they view the world as a chessboard only.
After the financial crash of 2008, I lost my job and decided to change careers. At 37, I moved into my mom's house and went back to school. The job market sucked, but I got a shit job just to pay my bills and save some money. Aside from school and work, I took a stand up comedy course, worked out, read books, saw a therapist to help me get through this tough time. During that time, I would date here and there, but I used to wonder why women would have sex with me for a short time and then I'd get ghosted. At the time I didn't know it, but it was because to them I was a broke loser that happened to be good looking, so they had their fun with me and moved on. I'm no Brad Pitt, but I'm 6' tall, built and have decent looks. Almost two years after the crash, I met a smart, attractive woman that saw that I had a plan. She stuck around. We're now married with two kids and bought a nice house in a good neighborhood.
The point of all this is, when money goes away so do most females.
I hope you stay financially blessed my brother, you hit another hard patch , who knows what this one will do.
I put nothing past any of them.
The hurt and pain always comes from the ones you love and don't expect to hurt you .
You better hope times dont get bad again......
@@richcook2007 Exactly. This guy is strangely naive. He acknowledges that women are gold diggers and still got married. I wonder how long before he gets taken to the cleaners after divorce.
@@gvis8217 lmao, aye. He's contradictory.
Happened to me. Thirty years of marriage and a lost job...she was gone in one day. 🤦♂️
I hope you are kidding.
@@Gnnesh That's how women are nowadays 🤷♂️
Something tells me it wasn't just the lost job
@@landonic81 or it wasn’t “in one day”.
Story of my life. Two companies; $400k+ net income first company, $350k+ second company. Had wonderful happy and fulfilling LTRs during both time frames (about 8 and 5 years respectively). Lost both relationships because I supposedly became frustrated with life when the companies failed and the income streams ended. My life has been a financial rollercoaster matched EXACTLY, turn for turn, by my love life. If you think, for a fleeting second, that your wife/LTR partner will stand by you during the hard times you are diluting yourself. That shit just doesn't happen in real life. I am now rebuilding my finances and will never trust another woman again, nor lie to myself that females are looking in my direction because of my kind heart. It's all about resources gents; nothing else matters.
And never forget that, and after the hate... just accept it, for what it is. No cruelty, but nature.
Key words. resources gents.
Oscar M_ at least you know this now and accept it. Once you regain wealth stay out of LTR.
@@KJ-pu8dw No doubt my friend...I'll collect dogs like my exes will probably end up collecting cats. It's sad that it has to end this way but there really is no other emotionally or financially safe choice.
@Donald Duck lol...great idea!
“Once a cheater, always a cheater.”
If this is how a relationship starts, then this how it also ends.
This headline is 100% accurate. Happened to me with both my wives. There won’t be a third.
Both your wives ? Talk about experience level pro .
Glad you learnt your lesson sir
Let's make men great again 💪🏿💪🏿 stay away from marriage
Vast majority yes, they will walk away when you'r broke
I lost my job in the past and my wife didn't leave. She started working. Sex did not dry up, and she still cooked and took care of things. We been together 14 years. Not All women will leave, although a lot will.
Possible she sees you as a high value man in other ways. I've seen exactly what you're talking about but at least in my experience, the guy was always good looking and relatively high status/dominant etc.
There are some good ones. But they are rare. Majority are opportunists.
@@imzjustplayin nah. Depends on the woman.
This dude hurt his back(no insurance) bedridden for months.
His wife would go out clean houses 5o bring money home for him and their 3 year old son. They were living in a dump of a house. Dude had 0 status.
My late mom was extremely loyal to my dad through thick and thin!!
@@alanbolton7803 If she thinks he wasn't going to recover, possible she could/would have left him. When a woman is deeply in love or attracted to their man, as long as they think their man is just in a rough spot but overall they can/will recover, they'll stick by their side. Some women are more patient than others which is why some will drop him at the first sign of failure.
I'm happy for and your statement proves you're an exception to the rule.
My ex finally pulled the pin after I was deemed redundant of my 18 year career at 100K+. Even though got 14 months of salary continuation, that wasn't good enough.
It all worked out. After we split the marital assets at 350K each, ten years later my assets are north of 1M, she has pissed her share away. Ya, and I was always the stupid one.
Great!!
I wonder what she feels and what she thinks now.
“When he lost his job he changed” no, you did...
This is exactly what happened to me.
Gentlemen: NEVER get married. Don't learn the hard way. Learn from those of us before you.
Amen. The incels always complain. But little do they understand how easy they've got it.
I’m listening
Depressing but True. Despite this, I'd rather live a very unhappy life that's grounded in reality than a happy one filled with comforting lies of the blue pill.
Blue pill happiness doesn't last either. It usually comes crashing down someday by way of divorce or something.
This.
Debatable. We are not meant to be alone as men. We are meant to have families. That's why we're still here.
I battle with this redpilled stuff because deep down something just feels wrong about it. Its depressing. All "redpilled" dudes claim they dont care and they're just gonna pump and dump and chase money and success......I believe inside, these guys dont really mean that and they dont really want that.
The red pill is a great protest against feminism, but that doesnt mean it's right.
See this is why people need God. People are becoming more animalistic and society is crashing down as a result.
Yeah have frame and understand women. But dont give up on having a family one day.
@@Heisenherb I understand where you are coming from completely. Life is so much better when it is balanced, meaning healthy relationships and family. But society is out of balance and men are set to lose a lot more. On many occasions, its their lives.
Redpill awareness, striving to be your best version and develop a more masculine frame, are great defenses against the war on men and feminism, but its not the silver bullet.
So what do you do?! Expand your horizons! Learn another language, travel the world and meet women from other cultures! Don't be at the mercy of the feminists and feminist government in your respective country.
Men have the advantage of being able to become fathers later in life. Accumulate your wealth to give yourself the option of living or retiring in another country, where its government and women treat you better.
I guess every man just has to decide for himself based his current circumstances and his future potential. Women in the west have seriously become like men. When it comes to marriage, do you really want to marry a husband?
Well said.
Chris Rock: Oh you lost your job? No problem baby we get through this we'll just make a few changes around here. First thing I'm going to change as YOU I'm going to get myself a new man!
Chris Rock said that wife goes: "we'll just get rid of a few things" then Chris Rocks goes: "SHE MEANS YOU!"
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@mann8098 I think the line of 'Von Ess' is even funier, at least with last half sentence.
*without
I had a girlfriend 6 years, when i was broke for a while she also left. The thing that really made me accept hypergamy is that she looked at me while crying and said "sorry im weak" and i knew exactly what it meant.
6 years almost same story it broke me. Now im stronger in a sense but that broken piece will forever haunt me not to care anymore!
The morals that men are taught in society about the necessity of faithfulness towards women when in a relationship, in addition to needing to be nice, is what in the vast majority of cases leads to heart break. Men are not taught the reality of female nature in popular culture or in formal settings. Women with options in relationships are very likely to cheat, even with men who are high value and keep a Masculine frame. The difference is that those who are Red Pill Aware are neither surprised about it, and those who are truly Red Pilled do not really care. Women are not for companionship. They are varying for sex, intellectual discourse, work (household work like interior decoration and house keeping), and for helping to raise and look after young children (past the age of puberty it is the man's responsibility to begin to form the boy), all in various combinations, depending on the extent of the relationship.
I was in a 5.5 years LTR and we broke up a month after I was laid off for the 1st time ever. AWALT
Man, I hope things really took off for you after that - and if they haven't yet that they do soon.
I experienced it at 6 years also. It is interesting how they run off crying leaving you at a most inconvenient time. Greatest relationship class.
First month my now husband and I started dating, he got fired from his job and didn't have a car. Shit happens and if you care enough you're not going to leave someone over something so stupid that they can work through especially if you can help them. I have so much trouble comprehending how women can so easily leave their husband and father of their children. Hard times will happen an they should be worked through together.
You are a great wife
@Private Pony-Soldier god damn whamen
@@spicybbqchicken I bagged a damn fine specimen of a man who gave me gorgeous kids
@@Irina-xm6mh I stood by my girl when she lost her job twice. However, years later when I had to nurse my uncle who was dying of cancer she cheated on me citing lack of attention. I then lost my job and she bailed. You are one in a million
@Private Pony-Soldier That says a lot about the kind of woman you value. Start there.
As a lawyer in Australia I once practiced bankruptcy law for some years. I witnessed many times (but not always) when a man's business went broke his wife would leave, just when he was at his lowest. I heard the saying from a colleague, "When poverty comes in the door, loves goes out the window." I thought the saying sounded harsh, but there was an element of truth to it. This is a very sad fact of life. I used to wonder what happened to those old wedding vows...'for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health...' But as Cindy Lauper sang, 'money changes everything'. It sure does.
The bible is like santa claus for grown ups. Life is about survival and replication. We can`t change nature. And we can`t force attraction. People need to get this into their heads.
Social media has them competing continuously to “live their best life”.
Moral of the story, dont tell them you have a business or that your rich. Anything that has to do with finance, is none of their dam business.
I remember when I was in college, me n my gf met this other couple. The girl was trying to convince her bf to take her to Jamaica since their funding for school came in. She HOUNDED him, she would tell my gf. My gf is like, he's going to have to pay that back. The girl is like BUT I get to go to Jamaica. About a week later, they're broken up (he wouldn't take her).
Same scenario with another couple, she was after him to buy her a used car to make her life easier (getting to school, to his house). Once he wouldn't, off to the next guy she went.
Smart man they are!
She’ll move the goal post next time to an even bigger dollar figure to see what she could get away with.
I’m 6’6”, fit, literally built my former home, now have a home by the ocean, no debts, great network of friends, etc.
I met a green-flag woman, in all ways, and she moved into my home. With a down-turn in the economy, she went from full time employed to casual, and earned a lot less. I was happy to support her as the situation was genuine and she was taking responsibility. I was working, she was also contributing a lot at home. A true compliment. After a couple years, she was working full time again and all was good.
When the recession hit, My business took a huge hit, on paper anyway. With much less nett cash flow, I had a lot less discretionary money and realistically knew it’d take a year or so to swing back beyond where I was before the recession. No big deal. Sh!t happens.
14 years together. I supported her for a couple years. Two months into the recession, without even a word, she left and went into a relationship with her boss. Two weeks later, they moved in together.
She did me a favour. She demonstrated her nature. It’s like the trash took itself out.
Life is good.
What type of business do you own?
@@matthewgardner5983 That situation was a few years back and before Covid. At the time I did own a coaching and business consultancy. Sole-trader. I lived in Melbourne, Australia, which had the longest Covid lockdown on the planet, and my business, like many 1,000’s of others, collapsed during those 2+ years. Had more than enough saved to carry myself. Working as a contractor now on rebuild. This situation was a staggering lesson: someone I’d supported for a significant time, dropped me like a hot potato the moment my finances took a hit.
Escorts are cheaper and hotter. You knowingly pay them to leave, no deception, and no feelings are hurt.
They’re paid to stay, not leave.
Escorts are rented,girlfriends are leased and brides are financed.
You don't pay prostitutes for sex. You pay them to leave.
He’s got a point
go.go..goo.gonorreah! lol
So true! Happened to me. Once I lost my software sales 300K year job driving a Porsche, high rise luxury apartment and work at domino’s pizza 🍕 delivery 🚚 . No proof went the woman. Men like youth and beauty. Women like money and status! Hypergamy 101!
At his age I would just enjoy women coming and going and stay away from any attachments. ... especially if he's a Chad
"The great test of a woman's loyalty is when her man has fallen on hard times. The great test of a mans loyalty is when he is killing it at life (money, fitness, game, social prestige, etc)."
that's a great quote
Male celebrities tend to think they’ll have successful marriage due to their status. Often times it’s the woman who fails even though he can provide her with anything she desires.
@@mpeacraft8585 Why in the hell would a male celebrity marry anyways? They can have whatever woman they want (within reason).
@@hubertcumberdale2651 Exactly. Dre Dre, Phil Collins, 50 Cent, etc all got screwed over. At that level of fame, a woman won’t add anything to their life besides kids.
@@mpeacraft8585 As much of a hypocritical lefty he is (especially on climate change), its why I give props to Leonardo DiCaprio. He avoids all marriage traps and keeps trading in his old girlfriends for a new 24 year old every couple of years LOL!
Focus on owning and growing assets and cash flow. Lease depreciating assets - new cars and women.
I can confirm that this is true. My divorced single mother always told me and my sister: “Love goes out the window when there’s no money.”
Its sad but its life ...
Natalie nice heritage you got there... If that is all she taught you..
@@Ematuresco never said I was proud of my heritage. But that’s what life it all about: overcoming the cards life dealt you.
@@nataliebowen2007 and how's that working out for you? Are you, too just as loyal as his bank account...
@@Ematuresco Why so much hate 😂 Just cause I was raised by a single mother. I don’t even agree with half the things she says
When the going gets tough, -the tough get- women leave.
Correction. All women leave when the money's gone
You're not meeting HER, you're meeting her REPRESENTATIVE. - Chris Rock
a woman leaving is always a relief. dude should be happy that she bailed and he didn't have to deal with the breakup anxiety and drama.
or 18 years of pain
Lost a job that provided well for my wife and family... She had to work while I rebuilt my career... She met a guy with more money through work. Apparently I'm not the first guy this has happened to.
Good for her!! That’s what happens when you let the woman in charge financially, she will find somebody better outside.
@@kimkitty3914at least you've just admitted that you don't love men. You only love what they provide.
@@rugdnit911 man= provider. It’s like men , they want a cute wife , cute face, nice body right? Men have standards I don’t see why women can’t have their own. Just saying.
@@kimkitty3914 and my standards are based heavily in loyalty. Keep promoting Hypergamy and you'll all end up with alot of cats, wrinkled and that bitter wine mom swag
If you want true love you have to get women with your looks.
I've been blind for 34 years. Now I start to awake and understand.
The Blue Matrix and Disney really messed me up.
I used to believe that a woman can love you unconditionally. Suffered a lot because of that!
I accepted female nature when Dr. Dre's ex wife filed for divorce. Imagine you being worth $800 million and she STILL wants out.😂😂😂 Just enjoy your life, gentlemen. After my ex left, I joined the army. Greetings from Germany.
I think that she is out because of that .. You have to close the deal someday ;)
Freedom to some women is more impossible than any money.
Good man.
Thanks for actually being a real man and not a poop breath Cheeto dust licker. Tired of these beta soyboys who let themselves be losers. Good day sir 👍
My ex jumped ship. I moved to Asia and started over. Went back to school for my masters and PhD. Remarried and my ex messaged me days after my wedding. Absolutely hilarious.
‼️⚠️. Always comes back for narcissistic supply!
Happened to me. I lost my health. Lost my ability to work. Wife took off and even cheated with a coworker at a job I helped her get
Been there done that.
HER: "Tim, You cannot afford me."
ME: "Why's that? Because I can't afford that house you want because we're so far in debt from all the partying we've been enjoying. And have no savings?"
HER: "Yep."
2nd best thing she ever said to me!
I’ve concluded that being with a woman is like a recurring bill payment that never ends. No matter how much you pay the interest gets higher and higher.
In other words water is wet
Lol or dry to a fish
Só true. I met my baby mama when I was a field tech. Out relationship was great and we even got engaged. Once I lost that job though my baby mama became a bitch. I was not able to get offered another field tech job, and had to do call center jobs for years. She eventually cheated on me with a middle aged high school drop out fork lift driver.
Flash forward to today I did a career change to software development, and i’ve been investing in various investments. I got more money and more bank than I ever had in my life, and I’ve been hitting the gym. Meanwhile my baby mama got fatter and is in depression. It’s unfortunate I had a child with her, but I am glad I am the child’s favorite parent and have 50/50 custody.
The sweetest thing is when they think they can swing back and the door shuts in their face. Bravo, Sir!
@@williamj.dovejr.8613 why thank you. So true. I’ve also been refreshing my game by listening to The Black Phillip show. It’s old but it’s still useful information. Wish Patrice was still alive today. I would have loved to hear his point of view on OnlyFans lol.
Me and my wife married for 9 years and have 1 daughter. After both of my parents passed away, I've become emotional stressed, and lost my job. After 1 year of having depression and anxiety, She left me together with my daughter. After 2 years I had a great job now but still supporting them. Though, I don't want to be with her anymore. She left me on my very vulnerable situation. I'm happy now though.
Ah yes this is a fact. This is why when I got divorced I framed my divorce papers and put them above my fireplace so that when im sitting there wondering if I should start dating again, im reminded to say hell no
Yup like a casino machine, when you are out of money, the machine won't let you play
The leason I learned as I'm 34 years old. Never trust a woman's loyalty. They're all leave you or have a think to leave you when there is an opportunity. For all men out there, focus on your selves. Give 90% to yourself and 10% to your partner.
Only stupid women would settle for you. Women don't trust the men loyalty too. Fair enough.
Women Often Leave Men When Money Goes Away. Is THAT ever the truth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It happened to me. The money didn't go completely away, but there was less of it to keep her happy, so, click, I was done.
We met when I was in my top of my career, fast forward 6 years later I already resigned from my job, started my business, these Corona ruined my business, and then after she rejected my proposal, she left me for a married banker to be his mistress
Thats messed up. What kind of woman were you dating?? Damn
@@blasiomuhinda5913 the wrong one obviously.
The thing is, for me she was 'fit like a glove' when things were fine, everything fell apart earlier this year following the outbreak, and I think that's when her hypergamy kicked in
@@consigliere4744 Sadly there is no wrong one, they're all like that to one degree or another.
Once the virus is gone and we're back to same as before and you're business takes off and you're making bank, expect her to come sniffing around
@@blasiomuhinda5913 I was thinking the same thing wow bro
Damn.Where on earth did you pickup that low life, must make sure I avoid that area real quick
Blame our fathers! This is the talk everyone of us needs to have with our sons. I wish someone had schooled me in this knowledge when I was younger.
A giga-chad should be spinning plates straight up, don’t settle for one when you have tons of options. Women will get sick of you and eventually leave, regardless if you’re providing what they want at the time. There’s zero value in LTR/marriage in today’s world, and us men will always lose in the end...emotionally or financially.
@Inconceivable Disputes facts
She wasn't sh!t testing, she was trying to nuke the relationship because she already had another guy lined up. Instead of getting the message, he clung on all the more.
That is very likely the case. The guy was probably Red Pill Aware, but still Blue Pill, and despite his probable understanding of female nature, his subconscious, as Rich mentioned, dominated him into being overcome with onenitis. That actually made him pay too much attention to her, validate her too much, and try to please her, and likely not check her on shit tests and early misbehaviour.
That onenitis, also made him not look at the wealth of his options. From Rich's description of him, he has much with regards to SMV comprehensively. What he lacks or lacked is/was an overall Alpha Attitude and the deep affection that he developed for her, did not enable him to act decisively even when he red flags showed themselves early. In fact immediately: That she branched to him from another man.
@@musafawundu6718 some high SMV guys have weak game & frame. They have no trouble hooking up but turn soft in a relationship. A coworker once asked me about this, "Why do men turn into losers after a few months?"
@@northernguy8860
Yes. Because they are still largely Blue Pill. High SMV gets the women, practicing the principles of being Red Pilled keeps them. One of the things that I have learned is to limit and space interactions with women, even those that I actually like, so as to reduce the likelihood of falling into sentiment for them.
@@musafawundu6718 the redpill journey is a trial by fire, and you have to get burned badly enough to shake up your world and then make some progress. Personally, my journey wasn't through women, it was through running a business.
I was that guy. Now two years later she’s back after me. I
As soon as I started asking my wife of six years to begin contributing more - pay for a meal sometimes, etc. - because her income had increased, she got resentful and left. They're just spoiled children inside. Use them for what they're worth. You're deluding yourself if you think that they're ever going to stand by you when things get tough. They have no loyalty.
You should have asked her to pay for a meal that’s a boundary system.
least u didnt hav kids
It makes you wonder who deserves more rights
Exactly!! Just pump 'em and then dump 'em. Period.
Your story doesn't quiet add up. You two got married and both still not in one boat, but she had to pay for her own and you paid for your own? What kind of a damn relationship is this? Why marry at first place? You used her for what she was worth and she knew it, that's why. Don't expect loyalty when one has none. Americans are more likr individualism. Society teach people become like that. How about pee a puddle and look at yourself to see who's better. I bet it was more than just contributing a meal sometimes.
hypergamy is biological, not personal. (same with men planting seeds.)
Regret is a fool's game. take your lumps, grow, evolve, move on. and for god's sake - don't leak so much in public.
he pivoted in his finances so is clearly adaptable.
get a dog. do the work. the next philly is right around the corner.
keep going.
This
His first mistake was even getting involved with a girl like this that cheated and left her old man for him. He should have known immediately she would do the same thing to him
How it starts shows how it ends. Sometimes as guys, we make stupid mistakes. She isnt to blame, we are to blame. She already showed her true colours.
@@blasiomuhinda5913 hard truth
This generation most women are too focused on themselves. Any lady that lacks values, integrity, modesty and don’t pray, are most likely to walk away from the relationship, even if things are going smoothly,. Only few women will deeply understand the struggle. Also culture does play a big role to it, western women are just too privileged and entitled.
This is trad con stuff. Women are all Jerry Maguire these days "SHOW ME THE MONNNEEEYYYYY!!"
I joke you not I did day game yesterday and spoke to a girl who I noticed spoke about herself for 15 mins and didn’t once ask me about myself
Look at eastern men. Pure alpha masculinity and beta chivalry. The perfect mix. There are various names for these concepts too
Awesome Rich ! Wish you were around 20 years ago. Your the greatest !
The Jedi had it right: Do not form attachments. Miss them do not. Mourn them do not. The shadow of jealousy that is.
It's no secret that most women only cares about a man's social status and/or his money. I feel that most women don't really know what it means to truly love someone.
Yep. They absolutely don't have a real clue what that truly means. Its only about their convenience, survival and opportunistic situations they can benefit from. It will never really be about you. Thats it...
For them love is a dopamine hit that wears off eventually. That's why they fall out of love quickly
Not if you keep them chasing
That’s why there’s a say “I love you, but I’m not in love with you”
Imprint her when she's young (before the party years phase), then she will love you; but for her to have genuine burning desire for you, you'll still have to be her Alpha when her hypergamy comes knocking.
Strong and independent women don't exist then?
Nope they always want a man who makes more than them if they have income more than men it’s often because men gave them that income
@William Taittinger she'll be crying soon ...
The feminist fat, unattractive, lesbian looking , those are strong and independent, I guess you might not be attractive to them!!!
And men should leave a woman when her sexual attraction stops.
👏
Amen brother
Its been said before, but needs to be said again.
“She’s NEVER yours. It’s just your TURN...”
My wife stood by me for almost two years without a permanent job while we were in our 30s. I guess not all women are the same.
Congrats on the unicorn.
We can be around for them when they broke and help them get they credit back help them student loans get paid off all that good stuff caught up and once they get on their feet they OUT..
I’m 32 and my boyfriend just turned 27😭SSSHHH I want to keep my younger man, don’t make them more aware😅
Older chicks are low hangin fruit...
Stay back oh spoiled ones!
It is pretty crazy that the older they get the more demands they make.
I don’t think they quite grasp leverage.
They have none
Why is this so true ? Facing same issue with my girl. Their love evaporate when you start not making money
Leave her before she leaves you. Then you may have a chance
Very true about the fact that when the money and status go so do the women. When I got laid off of my teaching job in a college because of district budget cutbacks, my wife of 15 years left me.
They have a saying in the UK , ' When the money stops coming through the front door , love goes out the window ' .
I can tell you this is absolutely the truth. You can have a great marriage for years. Living the dream, have a house, go on vacations, have a couple kids. You've given a great life to your wife and kids. Then hard times come and the guy loses his job. He might find his wife doesn't quite love him the way she used to. 6 months later she's asking for a divorce.
"Due to hypergamy, women will leave men when his financial situation worsens..."
This only reaffirms my indifference to women. Less hassle for me.
Rich! Beautiful video, good thing you reminded us about women not being really single. I'm meeting a lot of women who are married / living with someone who go around cheating on them. Obviously, because they have a sure thing at home and go out looking for better.
I knew an older couple that the husband and one adult son were obsessed with drag racing. The man and his wife lived in a shack, heated with firewood, ate tomato sandwiches, or just whatever she would cook up. Their only income was dual paper routes, and he did mechanic work in an old half assed dirt floor shop for extra money. All money went into the race cars.
That man and his wife were one of the happiest couples I've ever seen. They lived in poverty so he could race, and she joyfully supported it.
That's how marriage and LTRs are supposed to function.
Very true, happened to me while I was still Active Duty. I left the military and wanted to finish college and had everything planned out. I was never broke and plenty of cash saved up for the transition. After finishing school I landed another federal job and doing quite well for myself.
When the going gets tough, the tough get going... In this case the tough-hearted hypergamist that you are better off without.
My uncle was probably the most handsome guy in the city of 100k, back in his day (and probably to this day despite his age).
He inherited quite a bit, was a CEO for a while and accumulated some wealth. My auntie "captured him" among many, many women he could've been with.
Unfortunately, due to the political reasons, he lost large portion of his wealth and the job / career stopped about 10 years before he was to retire.
Pretty much the moment he lost his job and status, my auntie left him after 3 kids and 30+ years of marriage.
“Actions speaker louder than words”
From my experience, doesn’t matter how much a woman tells you that she loves you. When the chips are down, the vast majority of women will leave you.
In regards to marital vow fir generation X and Y - they may as be written in toilet paper.
What you said at 13:50 is so true that it was in a Seinfeld episode. George costanza tried breaking up with a girl and she wouldn't let him. She said that breaking up was like launching missiles from a submarine, both parties have to turn their keys which made George yell TURN YOUR KEY MURA!!!!!
My exes left me. Its Not normal. Today, nowadays. I have 3 Cars, Motorbike, traveling around the World. Never ever i will give my Money away for an sjut.
Chris Rock already covered this.
Something I picked up on early is that I always had my doubts as to whether or not a woman would stay with me if I ever lost my job. That's why you should always vet.
And continue to vet after she becomes your wife or your main squeeze. As a guy on the far side of middle age, who has been with the same woman for 30 years, my wife knows I do not grant freebies, aside from birthdays and the holiday season. If she wants me to stay, she must make it worth my while. She must do her job better than any other. That is her job security. Also, I supply all the money, for everything.
Explains why after 6 weeks of dating I started teasing her about how cheap I was and less than a week later she was gone lol
My uncle who lives in Southern US once told me: "no money no honey". At that time I was a blue pilled fool so I didn't understand it. Now it makes perfect sense.
Men are only loved if they can only provide. Chris Rock
That's is so true....it happened to me I remembered when I was going through a situation with money and she left me because I didn't have enough money at that time that was so fucked up...when I had it there was no problem but I was in my lows she left me wow....but is cool because now I have more money and doing awesome!!!🤑🤑🤑 never again I will let any one do that shit to me. This was a few years ago
I remember getting assaulted for turning a girl down who shown interest towards me when I didn't see it coming. I said "I'm not in a position to deter my focus on my financial current affairs with a new relationship right now"? SLAP! 😱
Its like the conditions of matchmaking is out of my control.
If this was the other way round the legal conditions would be far more intense.
Masturbating has several benefits:
You don't have to beg
consumes less energy
No emotional blackmail
Costs nothing at all
No agrevation/bargaining for it
No kids/eventual childsupport
No marriage/divorce conditions
Arguments are with yourself (I win these)
Being single for over 3 years after 30 years of relationships is the best thing I ever did.
I didn't need a partner what was I thinking?
How do you lose an argurment with yourself? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@jasonjr376 im challenged there too. 😉
Yup, it hurts. But its better to find out now. Not many good women out there.
Yup, Started a business, after grinding money started pouring in. Got married, was on top of the world, business hit a rough patch due to me never being self employed before and I had to make some adjustments to recover. Money got tight, wife filed for divorce. Amazing isn't it? Just a few short months later after the adjustments, money started pouring in again twice as much as before. Crazy part is. I was dead broke when we met, but she believed in me and my business and supported me. 6 years later I'm still in disbelief over what happened.
6:14 I turn 32 next month. I told my buddy (we were at the gym) I was looking for a girl who was around 22-25 (he's 30 and married to a 33 year old) because he kept seeing my eyes wonder around the gym probably. He thought 22-25 was almost pedophile and he said I should be looking for a woman that is not any younger than 27 or 28. I replied "Why should I be looking for a woman who's well past her sexual peak and in the epiphany phase? You don't understand the sexual market place." He looked all sorts of confused lol
You also left out the part about constant nagging about marriage and kids when that ripe old age of 30 is reached for women?. I have been with my significant other for 12 years now , shes about 13 years shy of my age, met in college, things are great. We also don't live together,/she comes from a large family where grandparents and everyone is still living together. She's 32 still living at home, hey I have no complaints, saves me plenty of cash/and helps to why were probably still together. Best of luck, -Cheers
@@mikein60fpstwitch.tvaliber73 she didn't want kids. Turned 31 and wanted them. Now she wants a 2nd one soon.
@@vincewarren1271 I have found the correlation with the whole kids thing, just pointing it out in a min/Also, I am neutral on the whole subject/have kids great. Don't have children, great also. That correlation I'm bringing up, is the "nest". You live together, those little ones are right around the corner, just months or a year away.... Seen it plenty of times with my relatives/friends. No "nest" (not living together) then you avoid that whole situation/(If you want to of-course). Best of luck , hope things go well with your little ones, I hear that they can be a great addition to your life and a driver to succeed and progress. -Cheers
@@mikein60fpstwitch.tvaliber73 I was talking about my buddy. I don't have any kids. My opinion on them are the same as yours. They actually lived together for 8 years before having their first child. They both liked to party hard and in our 20's having children would have made that difficult.
@@vincewarren1271 Ah, gotcha , yep was wondering why you were talking about kids and a "she" but hey i just ran with it, ha ha Well at least you will have a close up experience of what its all about with your friend. To sum up what my good friend from high school told me after he got married/who has sense moved out of state, all he said was "don't do it" /any of it. Best of luck.
I also got blamed by my ex for her unhappiness. i m 36,she was 32. she told me I was the cause of her depression. I left and did very well. bail out if you start hearing this. it s a major red flag.
Many of them are not attractive but still have options and are able to move on pretty fast
Yep, they've got no loyalty whatsoever. Not his fault he lost his job but once again to quote Rich, "women don't care about your struggles they just sit at the finish line and wait for the winners."
And not to mention, all the debt that many late 20's women bring to the table nowadays with student loans and credit card debt. I'm not saying all women are in debt, but many of them have fallen for the "Education fallacy".
Too bad they don't have a degree that educates you on how not get into debt by acquiring a useless degree. Lol.
They have zero self control when it comes to money
One itis, it gets the best of us. He will look back on this in a year or so and wonder why the hell we was even considering this. It’s happened to me about 5 times now.
In school, first you get the lesson, then you get the test. In life, first you get the test, then you get the lesson. And you will continue to be tested until you learn the lesson. Personally, I learned the One-itis lesson only once. Admittedly it was a tough lesson.
you got this down to a science, i love the ending
I've been ghosted just over a week ago. I think it's because I told her I'm not going to buy her anymore gifts. She was butthurt. I know it was a beta move it was before i discovered the red pill community but I've finally put my foot down. Four years wasted.
1) Marriage is IPO for women
2) Divorce is cashing out.
3) Children produces passive income for women enforced by the government
What's "IPO"?
My ex- wife’s spending drove me into bankruptcy. After that she left me and tried in her late 30’s to monkey branch to the next guy.
3 years I’ve completely bounced back and am debt free and earning 6 figures and have upgraded to a much hotter blonde whilst she’s hit the wall hard and porked up and is instead working for minimum wage.
Funny thing is that she now wants to get back together 🤣
Lol thats crazy how does she know ur doing better ? And now wants to crawl back
@@arthuntley8551 I see her regularly as we share custody of the kids.
Revenge is a dish best served cold
@@SenorTucano damn savage lol she probably dying in side like i fucked up! Also sorry for late reply I realize I wrote this from an account that I really don’t use often lol
Yup. That's true. It really happens...
They allways know how you are doing. Even more then you lol
He is so lucky for real, it takes a long time for some to learn this lesson. I know from experience.
What has your experience been?
I too learned the hard way but better late then never.
I watch these vids to reinforce what I already know. Almost like a refresher course that tells me "Nope, women are still the same.. maybe even worse now"