You are absolutely right. Marriage market is decided by the earning power of the groom. Those men who are interested in getting married should focus on building a foundation first and then only look towards marriage. MAG
@@risinggamer3011 motivation to marry for high earning men should be to marry a high earning woman & not beauty. Beauty fades but wealth increases with time.
Earning money and being financial independent is very important being a woman or men because having money and wealth is very very important in life 💯💯💯
Wish we had this clarity some decades ago.. never mind Amit Sir.. better late than never.. hope this generation z and future generations discover the wisdom in your guru tatva elements..as you teach.. the guru appears when the student is ready .. Power punch in Gabbar's dialogue insertion btw 👍
@@Ritez_ main aapki stithi poora toh nahin lekin thode had tak samajh sakta hun mere dost... Aap sahi soch rahe hain.. 32 bohut critical age Hain hamari society mein.. aakhir main aapko hi nirnay Lena padega.. jaanta hoon bohot mushkil Hain ek raah chunna.. aapke aage aapka career, parents aur partner khade hain.. lekin jaisa Amit Ji ne bataya hain..aakhir mein ladke ka paisa hona , property hona aur achha career hona bohot maayne rakhta hai . Shanti se aapko khud decision Lena padega mere dost. Aapki tarakki ke liye shubh kaamna karta hoon.
Amazing Guruji.... vse toh guruji you said ki ladki ki nikal padhegi wheather she earns or not but In my opinion earning,cleaning and cooking are basic life skills not a gender role both men and women should have these skills .... these are basic necessities and dono milke krne chaaiye ye teeno kaam after marriage.
Yupss.. vse toh guruji said ki ladki ki nikal padhegi wheather she earns or not but In my opinion earning,cleaning and cooking are life skills not a gender role both men and women should have these skills .... these are basic necessities.
This sir is like my uncle who tells me truth right on my face...fcuk i really needed such honest advice sir. Thanks for speaking on such sensitive topics
Money is the single most important factor whether practical or impractical People are mainly there for your money and not for you as a person or may give you importance till your money is disposable through your presence
My mom is a decorated officer, like my dad. And my bhabhi is also working well. I saw both of them working so much. I want to work hard too but with financial ease of mind.
Iska Solution Yehi Hai Ki Boys Aisi So Called "Beautiful" but faltu and unemployed to be Housewives Se Shadi Hi Na Kare. Boys Bhi Choosy Bane. Only Boys Can Change this #Jungle Ka Niyam. 😊.... Tab Tak Do Not Run After these Choosy girls and focus more on career.
Boys are simps and practical as well - they will never ever become choosy. A survey did find that only married men and unmarried women are happy - this data speaks a lot in itself that men become really happy after marriage. As a result, men will readily agree to marry housewife type girls provided they are sensible - the jungle ka niyam will never change, and it will always be girls who will choose competent men to marry. All men can do is to become competent so that they finally become marriage material.
Very useful message. I have been following a girl who doesnt bothers me and wasted my precious time which i can used for studying but now i will shift my whole focus towards my goals for a period of next 5 years. Currently im 20 years old
I wish I had this video in my college time...I have ruined my life by falling in love with nonsense girl ( I came to know it later)... regretting it...so guys, in my opinion, marry a girl who never lie at any cost, & who doesn't change her stand according to situation....
Majority of us don't care bout women's careers, or financial status. We want wives submissive , but last 50 yrs everything changing which lead to huge amount of issues in one man's average life
Right. Huge amount of issues for below average men who have nothing else to bring to the table other than their income....earlier they easily used to get submissive financially dependent wives who had nowhere else to go....sed lyf 🥲
This has to change I request guys to look for a partner who earns, otherwise this thing will never change. Both partners should earn amd run their families.
Awesome ❤️😃👍.Actually , this is also applicable to girls of (18-25 )yrs . Today girls are equally career oriented as much as boys and will choose life partner based on their standards also they might choose classmate as their life partner . So everyone he/she needs to career oriented and strong to face the battle of life . Career needs to be focus of your life and stability in marriage today depends on one's income and level of thinking , lifestyle . So financial independence and standard of living are equally important in choosing a life partner😇💐❤️😃👍
You loose 20% of female population at every phase: - birth - school education - college grad, post grad - work - well settled at work Because gender ratio is skewed. Now it becomes really difficult for a male to figure out a well settled working girl Girls have options and hence the choice becomes very difficult for well settled boys.
Amit ji , same holds true for young girls also. They also have few years to work hard and get good sustainable career. Girls ka to ho Jayega kya . Jo girls is stage Mei focus nahi karegi aa Gaye ja Kar life Mei kya hi ban jayegi.Unko bhi housewife ka hi role Melega, uska contributions desh ki GDP Mei zero hi rahega
We r not comparing housewife to working women. There is a big question to stay focused towards career and not getting distracted by opposite gender that needs to be addressed for youth.
Yupss.. vse toh guruji said ki ladki ki nikal padhegi wheather she earns or not but In my opinion earning,cleaning and cooking are basic life skills not a gender role both men and women should have these skills .... these are basic necessities.
Housewife ke role ko mazak bana diya hai.. A woman who is supporting her husband by taking care of kids and a house is far better than a woman behind money and not getting a proper investment.. See working women are good but not essential.. A woman can only earn for herself.. Either she earns or not what is the advantage the family gets about it? Girls were told to respect their own parents and cook for them and also share their earnings percentage with them. But in the case of Inlaws she will always treat them as enemies and will never give them money and also A single cup of tea will be hectic for her.
Men should not fall in love, they should struggle hard and achieve success and money. After marriage they should be kind, loving and dedicated to their wife. For women, they must struggle to look beautiful , they can like or love their boyfriend, but they must marry a rich and successful man . After marriage they must forget the past and love and remain dedicated to their husband. Rules in a progressive society.
As a woman I have one question, why aren't we encouraged to stand up for ourselves, isn't being independent applies to us ad well? Are we just for marriage and not having our own identity
Can't agree more 👍. I always tell my sons same thing. There is time to work for their carriers, their goals. Pyar mohabbat ki dukan kholne ka time nahi hai. India pyar ki pipadi bajane ke liye nahi hai! Girls move on to greenar pastures and boy tuta hua dil tashtari per lekar ghumta rahta hai. Carrier barbaad, usee time ko use karke sincere ladke apna bhavishya bana lete hai. Bilkul sahi kaha apne👏👏👏
Wah!! sir, Mazza aa gaya😊😊 please make one more video on this topic if someone is already wasted his 5/6 years actually one of my friend is in same situation his gf leave him because he is earning less than his gf ab mai usko ye hi bolta hu ki bhai yahi reason hai par vo samajhta hai nahi too app ek video banao ki if someone is him now boy apne aap ko kese sambhale kya kare agee kese focus kare
Sir I want to add a point for youth - At the stage of 12 standard in education and thereafter for next 5 years give 💯 percent of yours in whatever field you are and then enjoy life for next 50 years Else Enjoy in these 5years and struggle in life for next 50 years The choice is in the hands of individuals at this stage of life Thanks
There is nothing like you're gonna struggle if you don't do these things. You can study hard and still find joy by going for a walk in the park enjoying nature. Or you can even play sports to build discipline.
Wrong, get into relationship but do not make it no 1 priority. Also do not chase girls. Chasing takes away a lot of times and is not worth. When you become successful be choosy. Do not chose girls with past baggage.
Sango, I have listened to a lot of your videos ... and I agree to all of them but I differ here. Sometimes Boys and girls are both smart and when you meet a person whose goals are bigger than yours, they work together and achieve a bigger victory. My friend was an average doctor, met this boy who was topper. Today they both are married have 2 kids and are one of best doctors in USA. So it depends sometimes , 2 pair of hands working towards a common goal brings outstanding results.
I agree , I am currently in a relationship which helps me grow it's not timepass, but I think he's talking about the majority of people of people who don't have such internal clarity and emotional intelligence to independently find an intelligent partner
I don't completely agree with the thought. To give a background, I am an NIT (Gold Medalist), an IIM graduate and an entrepreneur and happily married. I have had 10+ relationships (not proud or ashamed) over past 15 years. While I agree that getting involved with girls at age of 18 takes away your time and energy but it also gives you a maturity about the other sex. I have seen so many males in late 20's and 30s who are afraid to talk to girls because they were always studying in schools and colleges and didn't get comfortable with females and ended up developing strong and false stereotypes. As an entrepreneur also, we literally miss out on thought process of 50% of the market because the only females we would be in touch with would be our sister, mother or would be wife.
Yes there are people who are able to manage both but the video is being made for 90% of the youth who is indulged in these activities, wasting their time and ultimately not reaching anywhere.
Woman perspective samajhne ke liye, love shove pe time waste karna zaroori nahi. Plus most of the yoyng generation give more weightage to relationships, rather than focusing on building a career, with a few exceptions which manage both. You have been happily married because you have those titles, berozgaar hote toh kuch aur baat ho sakti thi, but I hope not. This video is for those young fellows who have no career goals yet indulge in side affairs.
@@danielcruise8644 Bhai jo young ladke, ladki ke chakkar mei, drug and alcohol mei phasse baithe hai, so called 'Kabirs' unse poocho jaake, and haan un ladko ki family se, jinhone young age me ladkiyon ke chakkar mei crime or suicide tak kiya hai, unki family se bhi poochna zra ki kaunsa raasta liya hota, toh acha hota.
It's not that relationship takes your time. It's that when you are getting constant external validation, you lose motivation to get it by working on yourself.
My dp is with my wife and I feel very happy. Yaar apni wife ko apne saat duniya ke samne face karni ki himat kari hey isko toh appreciate karo. Sab log aajkal ek hi baat ke piche pade ya toh shadi mat karo aur kar li hey toh wife ko jayda bhav mat do😅😅😅
True. Jab aapki wife khush hoti hai to bachhe bhi khush hote hai. Meri mother aur father me cheeze sahi nahi hai shuru se kabhi mummy ko papa ne bilkul value nahi di. Jiski vaja se meri mummy bilkul khush nahi hai aur uska direct asar mere aur mere bhai ki parvarish par pada . Apni maa ko rote aur dukhi dekhne se bhot zyada man dukhta hai bachho ka. Isliye brother aap bhot achhe ho jo apni wife ke saath khush rhete ho . Please continue this for your children’s happiness also! Agar aapki wife aur aap saath me khush rahoge na to you will also have a healthy mind and healthy old age life and also a good relationship with your children. :))❤️
Please aap girls jo college Mei apne career par concentrate karne ki jagah time in ladko ke saath waste Kar rahi hai unko bhi counseling chahiye. Is par bhi video banye.
Well...the other side of this opinion is that there are guys who are average but just to impress their intelligent crush , they study hard and become something to get thier love... love can b a motivation to achieve things...ladkon ko IAS bnte dekha hai sir to ask for their gf's hand in marriage
In most other things I agree with you but in this case I think few people want a genuine partner even for that part of life to even survive, literally few people around me don't even feel the need to grow in life as they are alone no hope in life getting depressed like hell. Those people need to do this if not they won't be able to survive even.
I feel that a relationship is necessarily required to have a structure, which is provided by money gender roles and kids but its not necessary that two people who are in a structure of marriage are also in love with each other And that is because indians from their childhood are not supported or inclinated towards manifesting a true love relationship with someone and because there is such lack of emotional intelligence and clarity it becomes necessary to follow that structure of marriage otherwise people here would not even enter the family making process till wayyy latw in their life I personally feel the more evolved thing would be to wait for the right person doesn't matter how long it takes Otherwise just like our mothers bhuajis and tayijis these women will also find themselves late in life being dissatisfied with their love life and marriages except maybe for their children Extra marital affairs are already on the rise and in the future because of this Indian system of prioritising the family structure over finding true love and influences from the western culture families will break way more often than they are breaking right now Indians need to love more and earlier than when their parents did It is because of the pressure of success otherwise no wife Indian men commit suicide....this system needs to change i personally feel you should start dating as early as you can provided that you definitely don't sacrifice your career or mental health in the process Get married asap, grow for and with each other❤ ❤
Women who do not accomplish much career wise are subjected to a life of ‘gulami’. But that is acceptable to many and its okay. Those who want to avoid slavery should follow what applies for men - stay focused and run away from any form of emotional entanglement.
I am a girl who is young, just want to put it out there for ppl elder than me who are unaware of this generation : 1. They have seen their mothers facing disrespect every other day just bcoz she is a housewife so no matter what these girls don't want to become housewife.. They are more ambitious bcoz they want to be successful more quickly due to their biological clock 2. Not all girls are gold diggers.. In fact many of them are innocent and guys use them for time pass or as a sexual prey by lying them and making them fall in love with them. Promosing marriage and leaving when they get attention from sexier girl. 3. Money is important etc Not everyone, especially in colge is constantly thinking of money First love can be beautiful and innocent and many examples are there who ended up marrying their college sweetheart and are happy Its a lovely feeling to grow up with a person who has seen ur highs and lows When you are older, your feelings wont be as pure, u wont feel like adjusting which is needed for a relationship Rejection can happen anytime weather young or old if you haven't learn to deal with it early on in life in dating etc.. You will feel it harder when u r older..
Sir kisi bhi concept ko clarity ke sath kese understand kare so that hum bi utni clarity saath smjha sake . How can we DEVELOP, ENHANCE and SUSTAIN that level of clarity and understanding within us.? Thankful to you💐for sharing such useful insights.
Humari love marriage hai , hum dono kamate hai , mere husband and maine compete kiya tha ki SBI po clear karte hai , he become SBI po , but mai ni bani bt i become teacher and got married
Not aggree sir me and husband both mer during our engineering college and we both working successfully .it is totally depends person to person.We cannot generalized things.
Even middle class girls struggle to get a good husband. They are also judged harshly by their looks, family background, education and these days packages also. Why all men promoting these things.. no body speaks for middle class girls.. not every girl is exceptionally beautiful that she will be handpicked by a boy of her choice.... he is talking about those girls who are born into successful families
Good husband vo hote hai Jo successful hote hai achi job ya business, apna khud ka Ghar, earing well, look handsome, educated, good physique, choti family that's the definition of good husband 😂
Yupss.. tabhi toh middle class girls ka bhi acha earn krna zaroori hai vse toh guruji said ki ladki ki nikal padhegi wheather she earns or not but In my opinion earning,cleaning and cooking are basic life skills not a gender role both men and women should have these skills .... these are basic necessities and dono milke krne chaaiye ye teeno kaam after marriage
Guruji is right, When I was 18 I got into this nasha, and she left me. Obviously, I was broke at that time, cause I was just a student...but at 19 I started making my bank balance, and trust me when I got into the dating game at 21 it was so and so easy for me. But this time I tested the girl saying my biz is not going well and I'm failing in exams. And think what happens next, same as what guruji said she goes to someone else. YK in the end what I learned, people gonna judge you by your aukaaat. Ik it's so harsh word but it's the truth. IK it's hard to accept as a young man but what guruji is saying is right. Both party wants security in some form but as a man, you have to give it in the form of specially finance wise. Although when I was 18 guruji was not on YT I guess, but today this video randomly came into my feed I checked this and it is so real guys, trust me. Thank you guruji today you got a new subscriber.
Baat late me samajh aayi sir. Lekin jo trap ho chuke hai ar apna 10-15 saal barbaad kr chuke hai, tute, hare huye hai, unke liye to kuch bataiye ki aage krna kya hai. Kaise khud to wapas khada kare.
I will not say that stay away from women but my advice is jada dil pe mat le bhaiyo. Agar woh tujhe na kar rahi hai bhao kha rahi hai dusre pe jada interest dikha rahi hai while being in a relationship with you mere bhai yah tu use prpose kar raha hai uspe time n money invest kar raha hai aur woh tujhe reciprocate nehi kar rahi hai to tu bhi apna dekh le. Time mat waste kar. Apna career pe jayda dhyan de. Agar tu apne bap ya ma ka raisjada nehi hai to tu apna dekh pehle. Ladkia bad me aa jayegi.
"Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners."
Nice
Utter rubbish and non sense. It isn't wise to believe in such biases.
True.
Agreed
Real truth for present, unfortunately I experienced it.
In dating market, young beautiful women have higher bargaining power. In marriage market rich and successful men have higher bargaining power.
Primitive choices
Actually, both have higher bargaining power even beautiful young women
@@proudindian-73I don't think so bcoj many parents get worries for their daughters when they do not have a bf with a good job.
You are absolutely right. Marriage market is decided by the earning power of the groom. Those men who are interested in getting married should focus on building a foundation first and then only look towards marriage. MAG
It's not a guarantee that you will get a good looking girl even after decent earning , but chances that you can get a earning girl will be high.
@@risinggamer3011 motivation to marry for high earning men should be to marry a high earning woman & not beauty. Beauty fades but wealth increases with time.
@@frc_sc9114 yes brother but wealth will never be yours . It will just pass to others.
@deusphyllis so true 💯💯
Earning money and being financial independent is very important being a woman or men because having money and wealth is very very important in life 💯💯💯
Sakht Uncle ki Sakht advice to youth...100% agree
Can't we have a emotional friend who is female... it gives a feelings in cllg life like a high level drug ❤
Oh god.... you put all the right things together 😂😂
Haha truth is always bitter
Wish we had this clarity some decades ago.. never mind Amit Sir.. better late than never.. hope this generation z and future generations discover the wisdom in your guru tatva elements..as you teach.. the guru appears when the student is ready .. Power punch in Gabbar's dialogue insertion btw 👍
@@Ritez_ Clarity in terms of primary goals of life at a young age..for career, long term prosperity and happiness.
Hope this answers your query.
@@Ritez_ yes
@@Ritez_ main aapki stithi poora toh nahin lekin thode had tak samajh sakta hun mere dost... Aap sahi soch rahe hain.. 32 bohut critical age Hain hamari society mein.. aakhir main aapko hi nirnay Lena padega.. jaanta hoon bohot mushkil Hain ek raah chunna.. aapke aage aapka career, parents aur partner khade hain.. lekin jaisa Amit Ji ne bataya hain..aakhir mein ladke ka paisa hona , property hona aur achha career hona bohot maayne rakhta hai . Shanti se aapko khud decision Lena padega mere dost. Aapki tarakki ke liye shubh kaamna karta hoon.
Amazing Guruji.... vse toh guruji you said ki ladki ki nikal padhegi wheather she earns or not but In my opinion earning,cleaning and cooking are basic life skills not a gender role both men and women should have these skills .... these are basic necessities and dono milke krne chaaiye ye teeno kaam after marriage.
If the boy is successful they don't need to cook
Dono ek hi kaam karenge to dono kuch bhi dhang se nai kar payenge 😅
@@marketchlao24if the man is successful they can hire cook. But you below average can't understand because you haven't seen such things in life😂😂
If you are not contributing your finances to the marriage, then you have to do something else.. and that should be 100% not 50-50.. There is no 50-50
Yahi hai yahi hai yahi hai
Took my heart away 😊
Yupss.. vse toh guruji said ki ladki ki nikal padhegi wheather she earns or not but In my opinion earning,cleaning and cooking are life skills not a gender role both men and women should have these skills .... these are basic necessities.
This sir is like my uncle who tells me truth right on my face...fcuk i really needed such honest advice sir. Thanks for speaking on such sensitive topics
Money is the single most important factor whether practical or impractical
People are mainly there for your money and not for you as a person or may give you importance till your money is disposable through your presence
My mom is a decorated officer, like my dad. And my bhabhi is also working well. I saw both of them working so much. I want to work hard too but with financial ease of mind.
Iska Solution Yehi Hai Ki Boys Aisi So Called "Beautiful" but faltu and unemployed to be Housewives Se Shadi Hi Na Kare. Boys Bhi Choosy Bane. Only Boys Can Change this #Jungle Ka Niyam. 😊.... Tab Tak Do Not Run After these Choosy girls and focus more on career.
Boys are simps and practical as well - they will never ever become choosy. A survey did find that only married men and unmarried women are happy - this data speaks a lot in itself that men become really happy after marriage. As a result, men will readily agree to marry housewife type girls provided they are sensible - the jungle ka niyam will never change, and it will always be girls who will choose competent men to marry. All men can do is to become competent so that they finally become marriage material.
Sakht launda, is the right answer.
Yes, 😋
🤣😂🤣😂
Reality - Girl dates hero type , marries सेठ type
That's true
Very useful message. I have been following a girl who doesnt bothers me and wasted my precious time which i can used for studying but now i will shift my whole focus towards my goals for a period of next 5 years. Currently im 20 years old
Good sense of humour ! Practically this is what happens!!!
I wish I had this video in my college time...I have ruined my life by falling in love with nonsense girl ( I came to know it later)... regretting it...so guys, in my opinion, marry a girl who never lie at any cost, & who doesn't change her stand according to situation....
And bro what about friends... Kya wo last tak sath dete hai?
@@Risha8h only few remains forever.... that's the reality.
@@NILESHGCEK thx brother for replying
Good message to youth sir..message for youth who are living in virtual life..thank you sir
Very practical advice. Bachelors need to hear this.
Majority of us don't care bout women's careers, or financial status. We want wives submissive , but last 50 yrs everything changing which lead to huge amount of issues in one man's average life
Right. Huge amount of issues for below average men who have nothing else to bring to the table other than their income....earlier they easily used to get submissive financially dependent wives who had nowhere else to go....sed lyf 🥲
This has to change I request guys to look for a partner who earns, otherwise this thing will never change. Both partners should earn amd run their families.
Awesome ❤️😃👍.Actually , this is also applicable to girls of (18-25 )yrs . Today girls are equally career oriented as much as boys and will choose life partner based on their standards also they might choose classmate as their life partner . So everyone he/she needs to career oriented and strong to face the battle of life . Career needs to be focus of your life and stability in marriage today depends on one's income and level of thinking , lifestyle . So financial independence and standard of living are equally important in choosing a life partner😇💐❤️😃👍
Not many very few are interested in working. Jisko bethe bithaye sab mil raha ho usko mehnat kyun karna.
☕
You loose 20% of female population at every phase:
- birth
- school education
- college grad, post grad
- work
- well settled at work
Because gender ratio is skewed.
Now it becomes really difficult for a male to figure out a well settled working girl
Girls have options and hence the choice becomes very difficult for well settled boys.
भाई पर सबसे ज्यादा ट्रक तो इसी उमर में होती है ना 😂😂
True 💯💯
Amit ji , same holds true for young girls also. They also have few years to work hard and get good sustainable career. Girls ka to ho Jayega kya . Jo girls is stage Mei focus nahi karegi aa Gaye ja Kar life Mei kya hi ban jayegi.Unko bhi housewife ka hi role Melega, uska contributions desh ki GDP Mei zero hi rahega
We r not comparing housewife to working women. There is a big question to stay focused towards career and not getting distracted by opposite gender that needs to be addressed for youth.
Yupss.. vse toh guruji said ki ladki ki nikal padhegi wheather she earns or not but In my opinion earning,cleaning and cooking are basic life skills not a gender role both men and women should have these skills .... these are basic necessities.
Housewife ke role ko mazak bana diya hai.. A woman who is supporting her husband by taking care of kids and a house is far better than a woman behind money and not getting a proper investment.. See working women are good but not essential.. A woman can only earn for herself.. Either she earns or not what is the advantage the family gets about it? Girls were told to respect their own parents and cook for them and also share their earnings percentage with them. But in the case of Inlaws she will always treat them as enemies and will never give them money and also A single cup of tea will be hectic for her.
Reality hai
Reality @@adarshdwivedi1950
Sir,
How you could be so blunt. 3:42
I feel your blunt pieces of advice could save teenagers of falling prey to fantasies of films.🙏
Not only men should avoid but most importantly woman should avoid falling in men's love trap in any age applicable .
Girls never falls in men's love trap, even if they do , they are serious about their career, only boys are like that
Even if women falls in love trap still she can marry a rich man even if she remains unemployed..
Yes, totally agree with you. Literally you are talking about sexual selection in human.
Pranam gurujee...
U have change my life...
Thanks..for clearity n wisdom..
Live from bottom of my heart..
Men should not fall in love, they should struggle hard and achieve success and money. After marriage they should be kind, loving and dedicated to their wife.
For women, they must struggle to look beautiful , they can like or love their boyfriend, but they must marry a rich and successful man . After marriage they must forget the past and love and remain dedicated to their husband.
Rules in a progressive society.
How men work hard whereas women love but whom?🤔🤔🤔🤨
Hahah..bhai Human hai yaa Robot
@@bondpond2388😂 sach meh
Bhai itna sach nhi kahana tha ! 😂
As a woman I have one question, why aren't we encouraged to stand up for ourselves, isn't being independent applies to us ad well? Are we just for marriage and not having our own identity
Sahi baat
Maan gaye saare point pakad lete ho aap sango saab 😀
Great advice for youth ,
Rightly said Guruji
Thank you for showing me right path.
Can't agree more 👍. I always tell my sons same thing. There is time to work for their carriers, their goals. Pyar mohabbat ki dukan kholne ka time nahi hai. India pyar ki pipadi bajane ke liye nahi hai! Girls move on to greenar pastures and boy tuta hua dil tashtari per lekar ghumta rahta hai. Carrier barbaad, usee time ko use karke sincere ladke apna bhavishya bana lete hai. Bilkul sahi kaha apne👏👏👏
I wish I had your advice when I was a young man.
Aag sirji 🔥🔥🔥
A much needed video as my college is starting next month
Wah!! sir, Mazza aa gaya😊😊 please make one more video on this topic if someone is already wasted his 5/6 years actually one of my friend is in same situation his gf leave him because he is earning less than his gf ab mai usko ye hi bolta hu ki bhai yahi reason hai par vo samajhta hai nahi too app ek video banao ki if someone is him now boy apne aap ko kese sambhale kya kare agee kese focus kare
Sir I want to add a point for youth -
At the stage of 12 standard in education and thereafter for next 5 years give 💯 percent of yours in whatever field you are and then enjoy life for next 50 years
Else
Enjoy in these 5years and struggle in life for next 50 years
The choice is in the hands of individuals at this stage of life
Thanks
Only thing to be known is don't be in serious or committed relation so that you can be free to think and act for life in future
There is nothing like you're gonna struggle if you don't do these things.
You can study hard and still find joy by going for a walk in the park enjoying nature.
Or you can even play sports to build discipline.
Wrong, get into relationship but do not make it no 1 priority. Also do not chase girls. Chasing takes away a lot of times and is not worth.
When you become successful be choosy. Do not chose girls with past baggage.
Really very good advice
@@khushalingole5931 past baggage means what?
What about girls ? Should they choose guys with past baggage ?
@izoldics Then why should women choose guys with past baggage?
@izoldics I'm a man not a woman!
Sango, I have listened to a lot of your videos ... and I agree to all of them but I differ here.
Sometimes Boys and girls are both smart and when you meet a person whose goals are bigger than yours, they work together and achieve a bigger victory.
My friend was an average doctor, met this boy who was topper. Today they both are married have 2 kids and are one of best doctors in USA.
So it depends sometimes , 2 pair of hands working towards a common goal brings outstanding results.
I agree , I am currently in a relationship which helps me grow it's not timepass, but I think he's talking about the majority of people of people who don't have such internal clarity and emotional intelligence to independently find an intelligent partner
I usually send your videos to my sons to open their eyes 🙏🙏
I don't completely agree with the thought. To give a background, I am an NIT (Gold Medalist), an IIM graduate and an entrepreneur and happily married. I have had 10+ relationships (not proud or ashamed) over past 15 years. While I agree that getting involved with girls at age of 18 takes away your time and energy but it also gives you a maturity about the other sex. I have seen so many males in late 20's and 30s who are afraid to talk to girls because they were always studying in schools and colleges and didn't get comfortable with females and ended up developing strong and false stereotypes. As an entrepreneur also, we literally miss out on thought process of 50% of the market because the only females we would be in touch with would be our sister, mother or would be wife.
Yes there are people who are able to manage both but the video is being made for 90% of the youth who is indulged in these activities, wasting their time and ultimately not reaching anywhere.
Woman perspective samajhne ke liye, love shove pe time waste karna zaroori nahi. Plus most of the yoyng generation give more weightage to relationships, rather than focusing on building a career, with a few exceptions which manage both. You have been happily married because you have those titles, berozgaar hote toh kuch aur baat ho sakti thi, but I hope not. This video is for those young fellows who have no career goals yet indulge in side affairs.
videos are for the 95% of the public, congrats u r in 5%.. LOL
@@SapiensIndica women perspective janane ka iske alava koi rasta nhi h
@@danielcruise8644 Bhai jo young ladke, ladki ke chakkar mei, drug and alcohol mei phasse baithe hai, so called 'Kabirs' unse poocho jaake, and haan un ladko ki family se, jinhone young age me ladkiyon ke chakkar mei crime or suicide tak kiya hai, unki family se bhi poochna zra ki kaunsa raasta liya hota, toh acha hota.
True words ...I resonate with you
It's not that relationship takes your time. It's that when you are getting constant external validation, you lose motivation to get it by working on yourself.
Sir you are speaking truth I have experience it...
We should rise in love 🔥🔥
Falling in love at college level faltu ki cheez hai. It is dangerous to your pocket and career as well 🤣😀😀
My dp is with my wife and I feel very happy. Yaar apni wife ko apne saat duniya ke samne face karni ki himat kari hey isko toh appreciate karo. Sab log aajkal ek hi baat ke piche pade ya toh shadi mat karo aur kar li hey toh wife ko jayda bhav mat do😅😅😅
True. Jab aapki wife khush hoti hai to bachhe bhi khush hote hai. Meri mother aur father me cheeze sahi nahi hai shuru se kabhi mummy ko papa ne bilkul value nahi di. Jiski vaja se meri mummy bilkul khush nahi hai aur uska direct asar mere aur mere bhai ki parvarish par pada . Apni maa ko rote aur dukhi dekhne se bhot zyada man dukhta hai bachho ka. Isliye brother aap bhot achhe ho jo apni wife ke saath khush rhete ho . Please continue this for your children’s happiness also! Agar aapki wife aur aap saath me khush rahoge na to you will also have a healthy mind and healthy old age life and also a good relationship with your children. :))❤️
Very nice video.....pls make such videos for university and high school kids. They really need guidance. 🙏
Best advice
If you like someone talk to them
But don't attached
Don't have regret
Someone should have told me this 10 yrs back .
100% right but some time you can't control your feelings
Hard hitting but true
Yahi hai , yahi hai ….ye jeevan hai 😊👍
Please aap girls jo college Mei apne career par concentrate karne ki jagah time in ladko ke saath waste Kar rahi hai unko bhi counseling chahiye. Is par bhi video banye.
Ye toh un ladkiyo ko khud sochna chahiye...bus Oyo me Jake maze karna hai bus
Wish I had your channel in my youth
Well...the other side of this opinion is that there are guys who are average but just to impress their intelligent crush , they study hard and become something to get thier love... love can b a motivation to achieve things...ladkon ko IAS bnte dekha hai sir to ask for their gf's hand in marriage
1%
@@fhojihsrawat0.1%💀
It's more addictive than alcohol and cigarette
Nobody was there to advise me about this topic in my youth. 😮
Great perspective 👍
Why it's call fall in love rather than raise in love😊
"rise" not "raise".
Ladko ko hi ye baat smjhne ki jroort h, ladkiya smjhdar hoti h
Very much needed video❤❤
In most other things I agree with you but in this case I think few people want a genuine partner even for that part of life to even survive, literally few people around me don't even feel the need to grow in life as they are alone no hope in life getting depressed like hell. Those people need to do this if not they won't be able to survive even.
ek dam sahi kahaa guru ji
I feel that a relationship is necessarily required to have a structure, which is provided by money gender roles and kids but its not necessary that two people who are in a structure of marriage are also in love with each other
And that is because indians from their childhood are not supported or inclinated towards manifesting a true love relationship with someone and because there is such lack of emotional intelligence and clarity it becomes necessary to follow that structure of marriage otherwise people here would not even enter the family making process till wayyy latw in their life
I personally feel the more evolved thing would be to wait for the right person doesn't matter how long it takes
Otherwise just like our mothers bhuajis and tayijis these women will also find themselves late in life being dissatisfied with their love life and marriages except maybe for their children
Extra marital affairs are already on the rise and in the future because of this Indian system of prioritising the family structure over finding true love and influences from the western culture families will break way more often than they are breaking right now
Indians need to love more and earlier than when their parents did
It is because of the pressure of success otherwise no wife Indian men commit suicide....this system needs to change i personally feel you should start dating as early as you can provided that you definitely don't sacrifice your career or mental health in the process
Get married asap, grow for and with each other❤ ❤
Amitji aap sahi baat kar rahe hain
Thanks you sir
Women who do not accomplish much career wise are subjected to a life of ‘gulami’. But that is acceptable to many and its okay. Those who want to avoid slavery should follow what applies for men - stay focused and run away from any form of emotional entanglement.
Yehi hai........👏👏👏
Mature content
I feel, atleast One punch is required in early age ,to b a pure gold.
I am a girl who is young, just want to put it out there for ppl elder than me who are unaware of this generation :
1. They have seen their mothers facing disrespect every other day just bcoz she is a housewife so no matter what these girls don't want to become housewife.. They are more ambitious bcoz they want to be successful more quickly due to their biological clock
2. Not all girls are gold diggers.. In fact many of them are innocent and guys use them for time pass or as a sexual prey by lying them and making them fall in love with them. Promosing marriage and leaving when they get attention from sexier girl.
3. Money is important etc
Not everyone, especially in colge is constantly thinking of money
First love can be beautiful and innocent and many examples are there who ended up marrying their college sweetheart and are happy
Its a lovely feeling to grow up with a person who has seen ur highs and lows
When you are older, your feelings wont be as pure, u wont feel like adjusting which is needed for a relationship
Rejection can happen anytime weather young or old if you haven't learn to deal with it early on in life in dating etc.. You will feel it harder when u r older..
baba jane man ki bat............ gareebo wale baba ki jai
Bitter truth but better life
Sakth Uncle ki Sakth advice for youth to become Sakth Launda.❤❤❤❤❤❤
Sir kisi bhi concept ko clarity ke sath kese understand kare so that hum bi utni clarity saath smjha sake .
How can we DEVELOP, ENHANCE and SUSTAIN that level of clarity and understanding within us.?
Thankful to you💐for sharing such useful insights.
Humari love marriage hai , hum dono kamate hai , mere husband and maine compete kiya tha ki SBI po clear karte hai , he become SBI po , but mai ni bani bt i become teacher and got married
You married him becoz he is successful else. You will never marry
What if he did not clear any exam ?
Sir aap bhagwan ho Sir aap bhagwan ho
The BEST VIDEO
Thanks for sharing 🙏
Sir please make a video on the age gap between two partners in a relationship or marriage. What's the saffer gap .
3:32 okay
Guys Don't think that girls are choosy Girl's Parents are choosy.
Not aggree sir me and husband both mer during our engineering college and we both working successfully .it is totally depends person to person.We cannot generalized things.
Aapko sayd samjh me nahi aya
When did he said that he is generalising.?
You are right....
Iss video ko dekhne ke baad mujhe bohot lagta hai hum sahi kar rhe hain life main 😅
Even middle class girls struggle to get a good husband. They are also judged harshly by their looks, family background, education and these days packages also. Why all men promoting these things.. no body speaks for middle class girls.. not every girl is exceptionally beautiful that she will be handpicked by a boy of her choice.... he is talking about those girls who are born into successful families
Depends on the definition of "good husband"
Good husband vo hote hai Jo successful hote hai achi job ya business, apna khud ka Ghar, earing well, look handsome, educated, good physique, choti family that's the definition of good husband 😂
So go to hell
Yupss.. tabhi toh middle class girls ka bhi acha earn krna zaroori hai vse toh guruji said ki ladki ki nikal padhegi wheather she earns or not but In my opinion earning,cleaning and cooking are basic life skills not a gender role both men and women should have these skills .... these are basic necessities and dono milke krne chaaiye ye teeno kaam after marriage
guru ji but kya karoon vo bahut sundar hai
Guruji is right, When I was 18 I got into this nasha, and she left me. Obviously, I was broke at that time, cause I was just a student...but at 19 I started making my bank balance, and trust me when I got into the dating game at 21 it was so and so easy for me. But this time I tested the girl saying my biz is not going well and I'm failing in exams. And think what happens next, same as what guruji said she goes to someone else. YK in the end what I learned, people gonna judge you by your aukaaat. Ik it's so harsh word but it's the truth. IK it's hard to accept as a young man but what guruji is saying is right. Both party wants security in some form but as a man, you have to give it in the form of specially finance wise. Although when I was 18 guruji was not on YT I guess, but today this video randomly came into my feed I checked this and it is so real guys, trust me. Thank you guruji today you got a new subscriber.
An Intelligent girl will always choose a financial stable person rather than a chapri😅
Acha bahut lagata hai let me tell you is best line
Girls are good but as a man I don't think I can cope up with responsibility so I rather stay single
Thank You!
Absolutely true
Thanks sir ji
Well said sir
baba aapka gayn pa ke ham dhayne ho gaye. ham es duniya ke moh chhod ke aapke saran me aana chhhate. kripya kar ke aap mera marg darshan kigiye
Aayi nahi baby!!!!😂
Yes sir ❤
Baat late me samajh aayi sir. Lekin jo trap ho chuke hai ar apna 10-15 saal barbaad kr chuke hai, tute, hare huye hai, unke liye to kuch bataiye ki aage krna kya hai. Kaise khud to wapas khada kare.
I will not say that stay away from women but my advice is jada dil pe mat le bhaiyo. Agar woh tujhe na kar rahi hai bhao kha rahi hai dusre pe jada interest dikha rahi hai while being in a relationship with you mere bhai yah tu use prpose kar raha hai uspe time n money invest kar raha hai aur woh tujhe reciprocate nehi kar rahi hai to tu bhi apna dekh le. Time mat waste kar. Apna career pe jayda dhyan de. Agar tu apne bap ya ma ka raisjada nehi hai to tu apna dekh pehle. Ladkia bad me aa jayegi.