Lol! I’m breaking them all! I colored my hair and decided a couple of years ago to go au naturale! It was beautiful and a mostly silver. Then came a breast cancer diagnosis last Jan and I became a survivor with chemo hair, that is NO HAIR! It’s now returning and it is pure white and I’m elated! I love white hair! Btw, I’m 64 and looking forward to another 30 or more! Thanks for your encouragement!
When my mom’s hair started growing back after chemo for breast cancer, it was gray and uneven and looked like she’d cut it herself with garden shears. Being a conservative Sunday school teacher with a brunette traditional hairstyle most of her life, she still wearing her wigs but it was summer and hot. I had to do some convincing, but she was feeling triumphant and relented to my suggestion: get an Annie Lennox inspired flattop and dye it bright red so it looked completely intentional, and buy some big chunky earrings! She looked like the warrior she had become! Although she eventually grew it back to its original look, the change was empowering at the time, and was a clear signal that she had grown into a brave survivor. Wishing you all the best, warrior!
I am so happy that you are a Survivor, congratulations as it must have been an arduous recovery. Go ahead break the rule you can always plead you were unaware there were RULES!!!😉
Many years ago, when I was in my teens, a well dressed woman in her 40’s and of mid size, told me that any woman of any age or size can wear ANYthing, provided it is worn with confidence. Own it and you will look fabulous! I have never forgotten her advice. 😊
“It’s ok to look my age.” Too right! The world needs to know this! Thank you for being so responsible and inclusive. This is the first time I’ve seen one of your videos, and I think you’re wonderful. Thank you!
thanks so much for watching! yes, it's time to embrace our age whether others think we look younger or not. it's always about your attitude and i for one am thankful for each day that's granted.
Im 56 and I love fashion. I take care of myself, eat well and excercise. I wear what makes me feel good about myself. I get many compliments about what I wear. I often watch your videos for inspiration. Keep inspiring us.
Exactly! When vintage jeans came back into fashion, I dug out my vintage levi's out and put them on. Still fit the same, still love them. Bodies don't have to change shape as we age if we take care of ourselves.
In one of Kevin Aucoin’s books he says something like, “ I only have one rule: there are no rules.” Works for me; always has, always will. Well done Beth❣️👏🏻
Love your advice, style and class! I've just lost a ton of weight and replaced it all with tremendous self confidence! Finally at 55 I'm learning what my style is, recreating myself and having a blast! So glad I stumbled onto your channel. You are truely inspiring!
I totally agree Beth! I am semi-retired and work part-time at an elementary school made up of young teachers. I get great inspiration from these young people but I cannot tell you how many times a teacher will stop and comment how much she likes what I'm wearing. It's great to be inspired as well as to inspire others no matter your age.
I love this video, Beth!!I am.like you are: free and even more and more since I turned 50. Now I am 59 and one month ago, I married a marvelous, handsome man.of 65!!!
When I turned 50, my now 86 year old Aunt told me I couldn't wear shorts in public and show my knees. I had never heard that before. Well, I break that rule all the time and I am 58 now. As a petite woman who barely hits 5 ft, I find that showing my knees makes me look taller. Thank you for the video.
I love red lipstick, and wear different shades of red. The other day at work I was told by some of my over 50 co-workers that once you are over 50 you shouldn't be wearing red lipstick. I am 54 and wear it often because I think it looks good and makes me happy. I think that so many ladies over 45, 50 look fantastic. They are fit, look great, and seem happy in their skin. Today's 50 isn't my grand-mother's or even my mother's 50 and thank goodness for that. I just discovered your channel today and subscribed. You are gorgeous and I loved hearing what you had to say. Thank you.
Gray hair, yes. I love what little gray I have. My grandmother wore red lipstick and gold lame well into her 80s (she lived to be 94). When grandma stopped coloring her hair it was silky soft and pale gray, it was absolutely lovely.
So true! I broke my own rule and let my gray hair go long this year! Plus, I've saved almost $500 this year by not cutting my hair! I read a few years ago women over 50 shouldn't wear sleeveless. What? I live in the Texas heat. Love your channel and style Beth.
isn't it fantastic the time and money you save when you let your silver or gray locks shine? i've heard the sleeveless rule too. where do they live? alaska?
Been wanting to try silver gray color.. I hate my hair.. wish I was brave enough to wear jeans so now I have semi slim jeans i.love them.. Wearing a blazer with jeans is awesome for me..
Yay Beth!! This is one of the best videos you have done!! At 63, I like to break all of the fashion rules you talk about. I’m 5’4” and like the proportions of a skirt that comes right above the knee. I think what makes us look and feel our best will always be a good fashion choice! Another rule that should be broken when it comes to hair is the appropriate length for a woman over 50. As I aged I started wearing my hair shorter because I bought into the myth that long hair ages you. Well, I finally figured out that the shorter hairstyles were too harsh for my face and that a softer, longer length looks better! I’m so glad I broke that rule! Thanks for representing women of a certain age so well and with such grace!! Can’t wait for the next video!
Beth you hit this one out of the park!!!! Love your attitude on aging. Be yourself! Love yourself! Amen to the distressed jeans and gray or bold colored hair. Your channel is definitely one of my most treasured ❤️ You always lift me up. You are simply amazing! Keep them coming Beth!💝
I’m 65 & wear skinny jeans, distressed jeans, shorts (where appropriate) trendy shirts, tucks, etc. My 38 year old daughter always tells me how proud she is to be with me because I don’t dress “old”😂
We should not be consigned to shapeless dresses or square silhouettes after 50. The only reason I stopped buying from the junior's department is because junior clothing has gotten cheap, and not in a good way.
@Dela Flowers pretend to be twenty? Seriously? There is many young girls that shouldn't leave a house in mini skirt or leggings. If a 50+ woman has good legs why does she have to cover them but a young girl with bad legs can show them? Why ripped jeans are not proper for mature women? What that has to do with age?
Hi dear Beth! You are simply amazing! And your words are plenty of wisdom thanks God. So bravooooo! I am not yet in my 50's but It doesn't matter who you are listening to as far as wisdom & joy is in the text. So, congratulations, & many, many thanks for breaking the rules! 😉😉🤗🤗🌹👌👌🌹
Dear Beth! I love how you finished your video! Be kind ! To yourself , be kind to others, I super agree! Also loved what you said about shopping with your mother, I shop a lot with my daughter and I love it ! See you soon
Like you Im 61, greying graysfully, and wearing red lip stick and a de stressed jeans whenever I want...I wore it first in a convention a year ago and boy, I rock it! Thanks for those tips!
It is happening to me. I'm 54, and never received more then a few compliments on my hair; since I've gone silver in October of 2018, I've had more compliments
Just found your video and love everything you are saying, I'm 61 and let my hair go gray 2 years ago. But decided it did age me, so all I did was add some low lights and BAM!, just what I needed. My motto is if you can rock it, then do it.
I have the opposite... everyone tells me to stop coloring my hair.... NEVER! I have terrible hair and I have to color it to control it!! Best video ever!! You are relevant!!
Loved this! I am loving my grey hair (and have gotten complements), skirts right above the knee, and bolder colors. We just need to make good outfits with good fit and styling for our body type.
I'm 42, and I LOVE this message! I recently unsubscribed from a fashion channel because they were spouting all of these same 'rules' for dressing in your 40s. Thank you for being true to yourself!
Thank you so much. I am living in Puerto Rico and sear shorts and crop tops. I'm 63. I like the way I look and feel in these clothes and its wonderful to be validated like this. Great video.
Hi Beth totally agree - love a red lip and my silver white hair! I also don't mind rocking it in my 60's and feeling great about it. Have a wonderful day xo Jackie
The only 'rule' I follow is my own : go for slimming, flattering and balance. My outfits are usually eclectic...meaning a retro piece and a modern piec, or something a bit more dressy, like a blazer with something more casual, like jeans.
Just found you and am SO happy I did....I’m 60 and started a “new” career (at first part-time) as a fashion stylist about 5 years ago. I just wanted to tell you that I agree with absolutely every word you said.....I have been searching FOREVER for a fashion youtuber my own age that is gorgeous (i.e. puts in practice her own advice), has her info/act together and talks fashion sense!!!! I’m going to watch every single one of your videos right this minute.... I say that there are NO fashion rules at ANY age, wear whatever the hell you like. As long as YOU feel like your best self when you leave the house, who cares what anyone (especially younger) else thinks. My mother-in-law told my daughter-in-law that I dress “too young for my age”. What does that mean, exactly??? I tell all my clients that the only fashion rule is that there are no rules. And I too let my hair go gray (at first artificially) and now it’s naturally a beautiful silvery white and actually thicker than it’s ever been. And strangely enough, I get compliments constantly (mostly from younger folks too!). Am just excited and, to be honest, relieved that there is a gal on youtube my age that know of what she speaks. 🙏
Sitting here watching you with short shorts,my greying hair and a dark red lip. Jeans are in the closet but I wore them yesterday 😊. Time to enjoy life at 62 years young!!!
As usual, very helpful tips, Beth. I decided to grow my gray hair about eight years ago. I'm 62 now. At that moment, I received lot of critics, but I'm a very strong will woman. Now, all of them want to have their hair gray too. That's why I always do what's better for me. Thank you very much and enjoy your weekend!
When I turned 50, I was finally able to afford many many great things that I always wanted when I was younger and were not able to afford it. That is another reason why you should not stop wearing certain things when you get older. Time to enjoy your life when you can. Thanks for the great advice, you look very chic. Love your channel.
Dear Beth, it's 6:40 am CET ( greetings from The Netherlands) I am 46 and you have just made my day. This is exactly what I am saying whole my life. Who the 30+ editor knows about me or life after 45 or 50. NOTHING. So I am breaking what ever I can and wearing what I like and suit me. Thank you very much. I am in your club. All the best
Love it! I’m 67 and wear anything I want, as long as I know it looks good on me, and it’s ‘me’. The worst thing is wearing something you just don’t feel yourself in. Thanks for your videos, Beth. Just found you & you’re great!!
I just discovered you & immediately subscribed. I love your style. I have become "suddenly single" at 59. (I prefer that to saying divorced) most people say I look 10 years younger... Wow fabulous. But I feel old, frumpy & out of style. So THANK YOU for reminding us to be rule breakers 💜. My biggest challenge is dressing fashionably while hot hot hot & flashy and living on Florida.
Wonderful! I couldn't have said it better. I break them all specially the jeans and the bright lipstick colors, although I am a fan of browns. Thanks for sharing. Blessings.
Beth, your hair is absolutely beautiful! The cut is perfect for you, which of course makes all the difference between grey that ages a woman and grey/silver that is WOW!
'TELL IT LIKE IT IS MAMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Love this video and aren't we all sick of these rules?? I totally agree with you on everything!! Thanks for an impeccable inspring fresh video and NEVER stop being Beth!! hugs,
Go Beth! I'm also 61 and, after decades of hair colour and highlights, I took the radical step and went au naturale. I have never had so many compliments!
Me too, and far more from men than women. The only people who advise me to color are my parents’ age -82. I would never change my silvers for another color. This is the only shade of hair I’ve ever loved on me. I remain the sole silver woman in all of my social circles, and always think about the needless money and time they spend coloring their hair.
Hi Beth. Just celebrated my 60th bday. I ditched the hair dye 11 months ago. I love wearing jeans of all styles and dresses, above the knee, with black tights. Also love to rock a bold lipstick. I physically feel the effects of aging (arthritis) but feel more positive about myself then when I was younger. Thank you for the encouragement👏🏻👏🏻🥰
thanks for stopping by mary! i'm so happy to hear you're embracing your age with style and grace. there are so many things out of our control like arthritis but there are so many factors like style that we can control.
Just found your channel and I love it! I am 53 and shopping for my first pair of leather (faux-leather) black pants. I have much more confidence now (aka "don't-care-idence") and have learned to turn a deaf ear to "rules" and anything Emily Post. The result I'm finding is that I like myself much more now than when I was 30!
Hello I’m 56 and I love leather pants of course wear them and sequence pants too the trick is wear them with class look for options they look great 👍 greetings from Mexico 🇲🇽
Great advice! I'm 61 and I used to color my hair red but recently I just decided to rock my greys in a short afro style. I feel liberated in many ways! Also I always experiment with lipstick with red being my favourite. I live in the tropics so I only wear jeans when it gets a bit cool but I basically wear whatever I want in a very tasteful way. Thank you for this video and stay beautiful ❤️
My hair started to gray about 3 years ago (@57) and I embraced the color coming in...I get so many compliments and younger colleagues imitating the look!
I HAVE SEEN YOU IN A LOT OF PICTURES AND STYLES YOU ARE VERY ATTRACTIVE AND I LOVE GREY HAIR I AM WORKING ON THAT NOW TRYING TO GET RID OF ALL THE COLOR OFF ANOTHER MONTH SHOULD DO IT THANKS KITTIE
Beth, great video and I love your style. I also LOVE that you said, "rock that short skirt"! I appreciate a mature woman looking and feeling their best with style and class. Throw in her personality spunk and it's elevated! I'm 50 and I struggle to find things I like that compliment my short, curvy stature. I keep finding elastic waists and awful embellishments. So hard for me to find stylish petite garments as of late.
Love you....you read my mind....it needs to be said out loud...wear it and be proud.... I could care less what other people think!! People who matter don't mind and people who mind don't matter!!!!!
I love your style. Being quite small I have to admit it has been difficult to style myself or buy some of the fashions I love. But your video is very helpful. Thank you.
You get ‘em, Beth, ha! Thanks for unlocking those ‘restrictions’ for those over 50! I just turned 60😧 & love my (slightly) distressed jeans. I am only 5’2” so look much better in above the knee dresses than a midi length. Will continue to wear these as long as the legs allow...as I continue regular workouts! You are lovely in everything that you wear & I so appreciate how you show us that we can still dress younger than our age in a stylish & classic way. Keep those videos coming. God’s blessings to you & your family.
Just love your channel and I agree with all of your fabulous rules ❤️ I’m 51 years young and still love to rock bold earrings and statement necklaces! You rock!! 👍🏻
I'm just a couple of short years behind you, but I don't think about my age unless someone else brings it up. Then it's always a surprise. My hair is still its original color, but I can see white strands that never used to be there. I like my brown and will probably color when it comes down to it, because I want to see "me" when I look in the mirror. I love your attitude about those rules! I think one of the best things about being "older" is having earned our sense of self. I know what I like, and don't like, and no one is going to pigeonhole me. I'm certainly not taking orders from some 12-year-old with a ringlight. You are a fabulous example for those of us who just are who we are, no matter what the numbers say. Thank you!
Beth, you may never read this but....I only discovered your channel a few months ago and have been trying to watch some of your older videos. I really love this one!
I always wanted to have pixie haircut. My hairdresser said I was too fat for it. The other hairstylist told me I needed longer hair to cover up my facial features. she put her hand over her face and cringed to make an ugly face. I guess she was trying to tell me I was too far and ugly. Lol. I left and got my pixie somewhere else. I got so many compliments.
Thank you for this common sense video.. I like to try new looks .I am 72 and love fashion. I like to go out looking my best.. And it makes me feel good. I don't like to hear when buying clothes * age appropriate* really ! I do not think old and never have. As you have shown , we can look great at any age. I think your personal style is so elegant .Whatever you wear always looks so right.. Have a great day! x
Thanks, Beth. I am 76 and I still love fashion. I am short and dumpy and I try to keep up with fashion, hoping that I select the in things that help me look my best and make me feel good. I have loved my white hair since age 40 and I love red lipstick. I agree with all but 1 of your “rules to break” for my, I hate my knees but I have hated them since I was 13. Thanks again for affirming my 76 year old attitude about fashion.
You go girl! I'm 62 and just bought a beautiful, mustard yellow coat in Paris, along with a colorful scarf. Breaking the rule that dictates women over 50 shouldn't wear too much color. Hog wash.
I went grey in my 20s and colored it, which was fun back then. I decided to go natural in my 40s. Wow-I got compliments from most people. I like it a lot and I save time and money at the salon!
Lol! I’m breaking them all! I colored my hair and decided a couple of years ago to go au naturale! It was beautiful and a mostly silver. Then came a breast cancer diagnosis last Jan and I became a survivor with chemo hair, that is NO HAIR! It’s now returning and it is pure white and I’m elated! I love white hair! Btw, I’m 64 and looking forward to another 30 or more! Thanks for your encouragement!
i hope you are doing well with your cancer journey. no hair certainly keeps things in perspective so i'm so happy you are loving the new growth.
I'm so happy you're a survivor. Congratulations and break them all! ♥
When my mom’s hair started growing back after chemo for breast cancer, it was gray and uneven and looked like she’d cut it herself with garden shears. Being a conservative Sunday school teacher with a brunette traditional hairstyle most of her life, she still wearing her wigs but it was summer and hot. I had to do some convincing, but she was feeling triumphant and relented to my suggestion: get an Annie Lennox inspired flattop and dye it bright red so it looked completely intentional, and buy some big chunky earrings! She looked like the warrior she had become! Although she eventually grew it back to its original look, the change was empowering at the time, and was a clear signal that she had grown into a brave survivor. Wishing you all the best, warrior!
I am so happy that you are a Survivor, congratulations as it must have been an arduous recovery. Go ahead break the rule you can always plead you were unaware there were RULES!!!😉
Cynthia Willis You're a beautiful strong woman! God bless you and keep you💖
Many years ago, when I was in my teens, a well dressed woman in her 40’s and of mid size, told me that any woman of any age or size can wear ANYthing, provided it is worn with confidence. Own it and you will look fabulous! I have never forgotten her advice. 😊
This is so true
“It’s ok to look my age.” Too right! The world needs to know this! Thank you for being so responsible and inclusive. This is the first time I’ve seen one of your videos, and I think you’re wonderful. Thank you!
thanks so much for watching! yes, it's time to embrace our age whether others think we look younger or not. it's always about your attitude and i for one am thankful for each day that's granted.
I’m 78,my granddaughters love my clothes. They even give me their trendy but beautiful clothes. Love 💕
Im 56 and I love fashion. I take care of myself, eat well and excercise. I wear what makes me feel good about myself. I get many compliments about what I wear. I often watch your videos for inspiration. Keep inspiring us.
Exactly! When vintage jeans came back into fashion, I dug out my vintage levi's out and put them on. Still fit the same, still love them. Bodies don't have to change shape as we age if we take care of ourselves.
I was wearing distressed jeans in my thirties, due to jeans wearing out...I'm still rocking them and I'm 68!
In one of Kevin Aucoin’s books he says something like, “ I only have one rule: there are no rules.” Works for me; always has, always will. Well done Beth❣️👏🏻
Love Ruby Woo and MAC Red. Short skirts work for me at 5’. My hair has been naturally grey for many, many years.
Love your advice, style and class! I've just lost a ton of weight and replaced it all with tremendous self confidence! Finally at 55 I'm learning what my style is, recreating myself and having a blast! So glad I stumbled onto your channel. You are truely inspiring!
I totally agree Beth! I am semi-retired and work part-time at an elementary school made up of young teachers. I get great inspiration from these young people but I cannot tell you how many times a teacher will stop and comment how much she likes what I'm wearing. It's great to be inspired as well as to inspire others no matter your age.
that's exactly how it should be! each age has something to offer and it's fun to share.
I love this video, Beth!!I am.like you are: free and even more and more since I turned 50. Now I am 59 and one month ago, I married a marvelous, handsome man.of 65!!!
congratulations! wishing you many years of wedded bliss.
Congratulations! Always great to hear of a "mature" romance ♥️
Thank you
When I turned 50, my now 86 year old Aunt told me I couldn't wear shorts in public and show my knees. I had never heard that before. Well, I break that rule all the time and I am 58 now. As a petite woman who barely hits 5 ft, I find that showing my knees makes me look taller. Thank you for the video.
thanks so much for stopping by and sharing your thoughts! keep on rocking those shorts.
I love red lipstick, and wear different shades of red. The other day at work I was told by some of my over 50 co-workers that once you are over 50 you shouldn't be wearing red lipstick. I am 54 and wear it often because I think it looks good and makes me happy. I think that so many ladies over 45, 50 look fantastic. They are fit, look great, and seem happy in their skin. Today's 50 isn't my grand-mother's or even my mother's 50 and thank goodness for that. I just discovered your channel today and subscribed. You are gorgeous and I loved hearing what you had to say. Thank you.
Gray hair, yes. I love what little gray I have. My grandmother wore red lipstick and gold lame well into her 80s (she lived to be 94). When grandma stopped coloring her hair it was silky soft and pale gray, it was absolutely lovely.
I have an aunte that will be 87 this year and has always been an elegant lady . She mostly wears dresses above her knees.
So true! I broke my own rule and let my gray hair go long this year! Plus, I've saved almost $500 this year by not cutting my hair! I read a few years ago women over 50 shouldn't wear sleeveless. What? I live in the Texas heat. Love your channel and style Beth.
isn't it fantastic the time and money you save when you let your silver or gray locks shine? i've heard the sleeveless rule too. where do they live? alaska?
@@BethDjalali Yes! Being Gray is also healthier. I also love your cut! Ha Ha. They must live in Alaska.
I like what Beth said. She is the best style advisor on the TH-cam.
I love your gray hair color and the cut,can’t image it any other way.
awww, thanks helena! i have a fab stylist that keeps me at the top of my game. xo
@@BethDjalali Agree, I'm gonna show my stylist your cut!
Been wanting to try silver gray color.. I hate my hair.. wish I was brave enough to wear jeans so now I have semi slim jeans i.love them.. Wearing a blazer with jeans is awesome for me..
I love breaking the “no long hair for a woman of a certain age!” Just found you & enjoyed your style and video. Thank you.
Yay Beth!! This is one of the best videos you have done!! At 63, I like to break all of the fashion rules you talk about. I’m 5’4” and like the proportions of a skirt that comes right above the knee. I think what makes us look and feel our best will always be a good fashion choice!
Another rule that should be broken when it comes to hair is the appropriate length for a woman over 50. As I aged I started wearing my hair shorter because I bought into the myth that long hair ages you. Well, I finally figured out that the shorter hairstyles were too harsh for my face and that a softer, longer length looks better! I’m so glad I broke that rule!
Thanks for representing women of a certain age so well and with such grace!! Can’t wait for the next video!
Hello janie
Thanks for your video Beth. So proud of women like you who are writing their own rules in their Fab 50's .
Beautiful message about kindness, Beth, to ourselves and others.
Agree with all your 5 rules Beth! Wear what you feel great in and rock it. You live only once and better have fun with that.
Beth you hit this one out of the park!!!! Love your attitude on aging. Be yourself! Love yourself! Amen to the distressed jeans and gray or bold colored hair. Your channel is definitely one of my most treasured ❤️ You always lift me up. You are simply amazing! Keep them coming Beth!💝
I’m 65 & wear skinny jeans, distressed jeans, shorts (where appropriate) trendy shirts, tucks, etc. My 38 year old daughter always tells me how proud she is to be with me because I don’t dress “old”😂
hip, hip hooray! and how wonderful it is for your daughter to be supporting your choices every step of the way.
Ditto! Although I'm 74! Hah!
We should not be consigned to shapeless dresses or square silhouettes after 50. The only reason I stopped buying from the junior's department is because junior clothing has gotten cheap, and not in a good way.
@@barbarak8158 count me in im 67.
@Dela Flowers pretend to be twenty? Seriously? There is many young girls that shouldn't leave a house in mini skirt or leggings. If a 50+ woman has good legs why does she have to cover them but a young girl with bad legs can show them? Why ripped jeans are not proper for mature women? What that has to do with age?
Hi dear Beth! You are simply amazing! And your words are plenty of wisdom thanks God. So bravooooo!
I am not yet in my 50's but It doesn't matter who you are listening to as far as wisdom & joy is in the text.
So, congratulations, & many, many thanks for breaking the rules! 😉😉🤗🤗🌹👌👌🌹
Dear Beth! I love how you finished your video! Be kind ! To yourself , be kind to others, I super agree! Also loved what you said about shopping with your mother, I shop a lot with my daughter and I love it ! See you soon
Hello Veronica
Like you Im 61, greying graysfully, and wearing red lip stick and a de stressed jeans whenever I want...I wore it first in a convention a year ago and boy, I rock it! Thanks for those tips!
At age 72 I finally decided to go gray and an loving it. Never before received so many compliments on my hair.
It is happening to me. I'm 54, and never received more then a few compliments on my hair; since I've gone silver in October of 2018, I've had more compliments
Good girl going natural. Enjoy it.
Just found your video and love everything you are saying, I'm 61 and let my hair go gray 2 years ago. But decided it did age me, so all I did was add some low lights and BAM!, just what I needed. My motto is if you can rock it, then do it.
Hello Wendy
I have the opposite... everyone tells me to stop coloring my hair.... NEVER! I have terrible hair and I have to color it to control it!! Best video ever!! You are relevant!!
Thanks for sharing!!
Loved this! I am loving my grey hair (and have gotten complements), skirts right above the knee, and bolder colors. We just need to make good outfits with good fit and styling for our body type.
I'm 42, and I LOVE this message! I recently unsubscribed from a fashion channel because they were spouting all of these same 'rules' for dressing in your 40s. Thank you for being true to yourself!
I agree with all you say Beth, if you feel comfortable "wear it."
thanks for watching, francesca!
@@BethDjalali You're welcome Beth.
Thank you so much. I am living in Puerto Rico and sear shorts and crop tops. I'm 63. I like the way I look and feel in these clothes and its wonderful to be validated like this. Great video.
Your silver hair is fabulous. The style is fresh and current. You convinced me to embrace my silver locks and so glad I did.
i'm so happy to hear this, mary! going grey saves lots of time and money that's for sure.
I’m 54 and I LOVE your blogs, videos and fashion sense!!!
Hi Beth totally agree - love a red lip and my silver white hair! I also don't mind rocking it in my 60's and feeling great about it. Have a wonderful day xo Jackie
i bet you look gorgeous with that bold red lip color and silver-white hair. rock on!
The only 'rule' I follow is my own : go for slimming, flattering and balance. My outfits are usually eclectic...meaning a retro piece and a modern piec, or something a bit more dressy, like a blazer with something more casual, like jeans.
Just found you and am SO happy I did....I’m 60 and started a “new” career (at first part-time) as a fashion stylist about 5 years ago. I just wanted to tell you that I agree with absolutely every word you said.....I have been searching FOREVER for a fashion youtuber my own age that is gorgeous (i.e. puts in practice her own advice), has her info/act together and talks fashion sense!!!! I’m going to watch every single one of your videos right this minute.... I say that there are NO fashion rules at ANY age, wear whatever the hell you like. As long as YOU feel like your best self when you leave the house, who cares what anyone (especially younger) else thinks. My mother-in-law told my daughter-in-law that I dress “too young for my age”. What does that mean, exactly??? I tell all my clients that the only fashion rule is that there are no rules. And I too let my hair go gray (at first artificially) and now it’s naturally a beautiful silvery white and actually thicker than it’s ever been. And strangely enough, I get compliments constantly (mostly from younger folks too!). Am just excited and, to be honest, relieved that there is a gal on youtube my age that know of what she speaks. 🙏
Love your jacket! You are so beautiful! Thanks for helping us gals 50+ feel great!🌺
Thanks for encouragement. I'm 64 & still 2 piece in summer since still quite slender. Clothes from yrs ago still fit. Hair still. No gray
Sitting here watching you with short shorts,my greying hair and a dark red lip. Jeans are in the closet but I wore them yesterday 😊. Time to enjoy life at 62 years young!!!
couldn't agree more gwen!
As usual, very helpful tips, Beth. I decided to grow my gray hair about eight years ago. I'm 62 now. At that moment, I received lot of critics, but I'm a very strong will woman. Now, all of them want to have their hair gray too. That's why I always do what's better for me. Thank you very much and enjoy your weekend!
Hello Blanca
THANK YOU for saying it. I'm with you Sister!!!
When I turned 50, I was finally able to afford many many great things that I always wanted when I was younger and were not able to afford it. That is another reason why you should not stop wearing certain things when you get older. Time to enjoy your life when you can. Thanks for the great advice, you look very chic. Love your channel.
I am 35 year old and I love your fashion sense and I definitely follow all your tips about fashions.
Love that! Thanks for being here.
Dear Beth, it's 6:40 am CET ( greetings from The Netherlands) I am 46 and you have just made my day. This is exactly what I am saying whole my life. Who the 30+ editor knows about me or life after 45 or 50. NOTHING. So I am breaking what ever I can and wearing what I like and suit me. Thank you very much. I am in your club. All the best
Thanks for that reminder and tips.Ms. Beth I'm over 50 and l love fashion
Love it! I’m 67 and wear anything I want, as long as I know it looks good on me, and it’s ‘me’. The worst thing is wearing something you just don’t feel yourself in. Thanks for your videos, Beth. Just found you & you’re great!!
Hallelujah!! Finally...someone speaking the truth!
Hey Beth!! I agree on all of these!! 🥰 Lisa
You are gorgeous! Thanks for celebrating our individuality!
I just discovered you & immediately subscribed. I love your style. I have become "suddenly single" at 59. (I prefer that to saying divorced) most people say I look 10 years younger... Wow fabulous. But I feel old, frumpy & out of style. So THANK YOU for reminding us to be rule breakers 💜. My biggest challenge is dressing fashionably while hot hot hot & flashy and living on Florida.
Hello Nina
Amen, sister!!!
Hello Gray
Thank you thank you thank you!!! This is the best of these videos on style for women our age! I just turned 60 and its so good to hear this! TFS!
Hello
Wonderful! I couldn't have said it better. I break them all specially the jeans and the bright lipstick colors, although I am a fan of browns. Thanks for sharing. Blessings.
Thanks for sharing!!
Beth, your hair is absolutely beautiful! The cut is perfect for you, which of course makes all the difference between grey that ages a woman and grey/silver that is WOW!
I love your attitude. I couldn’t agree more!!
thanks lynette! thanks for stopping by.
Your video is right on target & you are a great example for what you speak!! I am 73 yrs. Of age & I appreciate your attitude. Yay
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'TELL IT LIKE IT IS MAMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Love this video and aren't we all sick of these rules?? I totally agree with you on everything!! Thanks for an impeccable inspring fresh video and NEVER stop being Beth!! hugs,
you are always the best, shannon! thanks so much for the encouragement.
I was sold on the "avoid dark shades of lipstick." It does not stop me from wearing them. Time to break out the reds...
Excellent !!!! I'm all in at 65 ! Looking forward to watching more videos. Many thanks !
You nailed it ........ you spoke my mind. I am 48 south Indian, based in chennai, I wear what I want ........
keep on rockin' in chennai! thanks so much for stopping by.
I love your tips and your personal style. Very inspirational and educational.
thanks so much, janice for watching!
As a short woman, I will always wear shorter skirts. Above the knee looks best on me.
Me too. Skater skirts, matching tights, and heals or boots are my favs.
But you have still a beauty sexy look 1♥️4ever young and attractive beauty hair 🌹🌹🌹💋💋💋💨💨💨💨💨💨from Holland
Galactic Vibrations Me too! Great comment!
I totally agree! I refuse to be invisible because of my age!
keep on rockin' veronique!
Im so happy I found you!! I constantly see your pictures on ads and your such a classy woman and I love your chic and elegant style.
Go Beth! I'm also 61 and, after decades of hair colour and highlights, I took the radical step and went au naturale. I have never had so many compliments!
isn't it fantastic to rock your natural locks?!
Me too, and far more from men than women. The only people who advise me to color are my parents’ age -82. I would never change my silvers for another color. This is the only shade of hair I’ve ever loved on me. I remain the sole silver woman in all of my social circles, and always think about the needless money and time they spend coloring their hair.
I would love to try the natural look. Maybe when I retire
Finally. Some great advice for women who want to feel free. I love all the rules to break.
Hi Beth. Just celebrated my 60th bday. I ditched the hair dye 11 months ago. I love wearing jeans of all styles and dresses, above the knee, with black tights. Also love to rock a bold lipstick. I physically feel the effects of aging (arthritis) but feel more positive about myself then when I was younger. Thank you for the encouragement👏🏻👏🏻🥰
thanks for stopping by mary! i'm so happy to hear you're embracing your age with style and grace. there are so many things out of our control like arthritis but there are so many factors like style that we can control.
Just found your channel and I love it! I am 53 and shopping for my first pair of leather (faux-leather) black pants. I have much more confidence now (aka "don't-care-idence") and have learned to turn a deaf ear to "rules" and anything Emily Post. The result I'm finding is that I like myself much more now than when I was 30!
Thank you so very much for reenforcing these rules for us! I break them all, all the time!
so glad i have a partner in crime. gotta keep our fashion game strong no matter what age.
Hello I’m 56 and I love leather pants of course wear them and sequence pants too the trick is wear them with class look for options they look great 👍 greetings from Mexico 🇲🇽
Great advice! I'm 61 and I used to color my hair red but recently I just decided to rock my greys in a short afro style. I feel liberated in many ways!
Also I always experiment with lipstick with red being my favourite.
I live in the tropics so I only wear jeans when it gets a bit cool but I basically wear whatever I want in a very tasteful way. Thank you for this video and stay beautiful ❤️
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My hair started to gray about 3 years ago (@57) and I embraced the color coming in...I get so many compliments and younger colleagues imitating the look!
Simply put....where whatever makes you feel fabulous at any age.💕
I love everything you covered in this video! I am 62 and love, love , love my jeans and bright lipstick.
This is by far your best video. I love that you are letting ladies know to throw away the rules and just be yourselves. ♥️♥️♥️
Hello Tracy
Your new hair style is amazing !!!
Hello Liudmila
I HAVE SEEN YOU IN A LOT OF PICTURES AND STYLES
YOU ARE VERY ATTRACTIVE AND I LOVE GREY HAIR
I AM WORKING ON THAT NOW TRYING TO GET RID OF ALL THE COLOR OFF
ANOTHER MONTH SHOULD DO IT THANKS KITTIE
Beth, great video and I love your style. I also LOVE that you said, "rock that short skirt"! I appreciate a mature woman looking and feeling their best with style and class. Throw in her personality spunk and it's elevated! I'm 50 and I struggle to find things I like that compliment my short, curvy stature. I keep finding elastic waists and awful embellishments. So hard for me to find stylish petite garments as of late.
Love you....you read my mind....it needs to be said out loud...wear it and be proud.... I could care less what other people think!! People who matter don't mind and people who mind don't matter!!!!!
Gracias estimada Beth. Tus videos de gran ayuda para todas las mujeres de más de 50 que e inspiran en tu estilo.
I love your style. Being quite small I have to admit it has been difficult to style myself or buy some of the fashions I love. But your video is very helpful. Thank you.
Colleen Christen we are small but perfectly formed!
You get ‘em, Beth, ha! Thanks for unlocking those ‘restrictions’ for those over 50! I just turned 60😧 & love my (slightly) distressed jeans. I am only 5’2” so look much better in above the knee dresses than a midi length. Will continue to wear these as long as the legs allow...as I continue regular workouts! You are lovely in everything that you wear & I so appreciate how you show us that we can still dress younger than our age in a stylish & classic way. Keep those videos coming. God’s blessings to you & your family.
workouts help keep our legs strong! thanks so much for stopping by and sharing your thoughts.
Linda Simpkins I love Ruby Woo and MAC Red! Works great on darker skin tones.
Gray hair is liberating, and the highlights are amazing.
Just love your channel and I agree with all of your fabulous rules ❤️ I’m 51 years young and still love to rock bold earrings and statement necklaces! You rock!! 👍🏻
I'm just a couple of short years behind you, but I don't think about my age unless someone else brings it up. Then it's always a surprise. My hair is still its original color, but I can see white strands that never used to be there. I like my brown and will probably color when it comes down to it, because I want to see "me" when I look in the mirror. I love your attitude about those rules! I think one of the best things about being "older" is having earned our sense of self. I know what I like, and don't like, and no one is going to pigeonhole me. I'm certainly not taking orders from some 12-year-old with a ringlight. You are a fabulous example for those of us who just are who we are, no matter what the numbers say. Thank you!
Beth, you may never read this but....I only discovered your channel a few months ago and have been trying to watch some of your older videos. I really love this one!
Wow, thank you!
I always wanted to have pixie haircut. My hairdresser said
I was too fat for it. The other hairstylist told me I needed longer hair to cover up my facial features. she put her hand over her face and cringed to make an ugly face. I guess she was trying to tell me I was too far and ugly. Lol. I left and got my pixie somewhere else. I got so many compliments.
Thank you for this common sense video..
I like to try new looks .I am 72 and love fashion. I like to go out looking my best.. And it makes me feel good. I don't like to hear when buying clothes * age appropriate* really ! I do not think old and never have. As you have shown , we can look great at any age. I think your personal style is so elegant .Whatever you wear always looks so right.. Have a great day! x
Thanks, Beth. I am 76 and I still love fashion. I am short and dumpy and I try to keep up with fashion, hoping that I select the in things that help me look my best and make me feel good. I have loved my white hair since age 40 and I love red lipstick. I agree with all but 1 of your “rules to break” for my, I hate my knees but I have hated them since I was 13. Thanks again for affirming my 76 year old attitude about fashion.
Thank you thank you!! As an over 60 gal, your video hit home,..I’ll bet your mom was a beautiful woman inside and out!!♥️
You go girl! I'm 62 and just bought a beautiful, mustard yellow coat in Paris, along with a colorful scarf. Breaking the rule that dictates women over 50 shouldn't wear too much color. Hog wash.
I break them all. Always have and always will. Thanks for the great advice.
I went grey in my 20s and colored it, which was fun back then. I decided to go natural in my 40s. Wow-I got compliments from most people. I like it a lot and I save time and money at the salon!
So glad to have found you. You are a breath of fresh air. I am always breaking the “fashion rule” after 50. I love it. 😍
Love your style. Totally agree x
Ps I’m 72 x
Can't never could...lol I wear what makes me happy. I appreciate your informative advice.
Thank you for showing us how to look fabulous!