What a man longs for more than sex: #5 - Respect and admiration; having a sense of value in your relationship #4 - Appreciation; how he makes you feel #3 - Having purpose and meaning; is he needed and valued as your hero? #2 - Feminine energy; vulnerability and sharing your feelings #1 - Creating a great life together; share your desires with him respectfully so he can make plans for your future together
Respect and admiration is earned. Men need to stop daying this as they are entitled to it by default. Behave worthy of respect and you will be respect. And sure as well they are needed: there is grocery to be done, bathrooms to cleanz meals to cook, dishes to wash. Doing any of that is actually controbuting. But funny how men refuse to do that...but they went to be held as heros because, when they are out with you, they hold a door open😂😂😂. Sure a 2 second act, that doesn't require any effort or planning! 😂😂😂 How sneaky men invented these standards!!
BS, women have those things. Men DON'T care. Maybe because it GOES BOTH WAYS!! Women want respect and appreciation as well. 2. Women do, men don't LISTEN. SHE CAN'T DO IT IF HE DOES NOT! Women REACT TO MEN. 1. AGAIN, MEN DON'T LISTEN OR CARE! WOMEN DO THESE THINGS and men just don't care.
I completely respect how you provided the list to save our time, you made me feel of value for doing that, you are my hero, now I have those extra minutes to go put on my flowing dress, and let me know when your doing that project which requires me to hold the flashlight for you. Phew! How did I do 😂😂😂.
I would love to feel admiration and respect, but it’s been difficult to find someone who is doing things that are admirable, like building competency at a career, having self control, and adopting a positive, growth mindset.
@@Kimberly-g7l5p These techniques will only work on good, healthy-minded men. It won't work with a man who is deeply brpoken, or narcisistic. Sounds like your guy was never really capable of caring for your heart.
I've done all the things he's suggested and I got gaslighted again after giving him a chance 🤮 They are demons behind that mask and I've experienced it twice 😢
Untrue - women equally want and deserve respect, appreciation, purpose and meaning to our lives. We are not shallowly aspiring to live on love alone? 🙄
@@carmaela2689exact. And this is true in all human relation. Nobody ( man or women) wants to respect, without being respected. Nobody wants to give admiration without receiving admiration. Such a strange way to think what a good relationship has to be.
This is why you’re having trouble with men in your life! This video is about MEN not women 😂 stop being modern and pick up traditional values and this will make you more valuable to ALL men in your life 🎉 meaning shut up and actively listen and get out your OWN WAY! 2025 lets goo!!
More coaches/therapists need to focus on helping men heal. Lots of broken men out here in the songle life arena. We women try so hard to be in our feminine energy and do all the things ypu mentioned here, but the guys ARE broken. Maybe just here in my state, but it's prevalent and even if we are trying and doing all the things, if they don't/can't reciprocate, then its pointless.
As we all get older, it becomes much more difficult to find a man who is not broken in some way shape or form. As a woman, I have definitely been broken a few times. I’m in the age group where we’re still trying to help our kids get out of the house or we’re taking care of our parents. Sometimes it’s not that the person is broken, but that they know they just can’t put in the effort towards a good relationship. I have multiple friends that are caring for family members.
True, but we rather try to practice abundance, and men will miraculously become wonderful. I was flying back home with this attitude (feeling abundance inside and not waiting for anything from outside) and men were literally magnetised by my mere presence - they were competing with each other to help me with various things ( and I wasn’t the youngest and prettiest in their surrounding) luggage, adjusting my backpack and so on so forth…. Some bought water for me while I was watching a film, and they didn’t even try to hook me unless I really wanted.
When I have had to care for others I've learnt that I can't give from an empty cup. I believe it's important to prioritise ourselves especially as you get older and you want to maintain good health mind body and soul. It's not selfish to heal yourself, taking the time to do this work is life changing not just for yourself but for your loved ones too ❤
@@gemmahart3985 the flip side is they have nothing to offer. I have experienced both. I’m working on self care…and continuing that mentality whether with or without a man.
As we get older the availability of relationship ready men are very limited. Alot of broken men in the dating pool. I don't try to find someone I just let people be and trust that right people will be added
I had to laugh when I read how people are saying that I need to think positive. My family makes fun of me about that. I have read the book the secret multiple times. I would tell you I credited for many of the positive things that have happened in my life. I always believe in thinking positive. And as much as that can draw someone wonderful to me. It can also draw the narcissistic jerks. They do love bomb you. Oh they’re wonderful in the beginning. One man actually jumped out of his car, cause he was following me to a gas station and pumped my gas for me. They play the hero until one day they’re not. The short story is, be yourself. Be mindful of what that magnetized to you. I tend to be too nice, which is how I end up with the narcissists. This year I’m working on putting myself first so the narcissists aren’t interested.
I would love to hear a training video on what exactly a broken man is. I know that sounds silly, but it would be nice to know what you mean by this for clarity. Because I always have hope for people, and that's been one of my challenges is giving men too many chances.
As we all get older, it becomes much more difficult to find a man who is not broken in some way shape or form. As a woman, I have definitely been broken a few times. I’m in the at the age where we’re still trying to help our kids get out of the house or we’re taking care of our parents. Sometimes it’s not that the person is broken, but that they know they just can’t put in the effort towards a good relationship. I have multiple friends that are caring for family members. Here’s a question: I’m friends with a man that I dated. He has multiple family members he has to take care of. He has an open door policy with me. But it is just friends. That’s by his choice. Do I ask to come over or do I do as he said and just show up whenever? I think this just leads me into nowhere.
What if you gave a man all this, and he still didn't adore you and cheated and was never available when you needed him but available for everyone else and left after almost a year without saying a word and blocked you from everything?
When we get better at identifying good men, we are better at choosing men that deserve this type of treatment. I made this mistake before, broke it off, learned to love myself, learned who I am, and learned to value me. Now I can more readily identify men that deserve respect, admiration, etc. and readily reciprocate that to me ❤
What all relationships need is openness and honesty to communicate with each other to have boundaries and respect for each other boundaries likes and dislikes and trust and trying bring out the best in each other is a foundation for a healthy relationship that will last forever. Love isn’t always about the physical intimacy that people classify as love is just the emotional intimacy and feelings and lust This is important also but commitment and dedication and caring for each others needs to be a key factor to success in a long lifetime relationship. Many people base their relationships on sexual interaction with no commitment or communication skills and boundaries. They will obviously fail in the end and separate or stay together in a loveless relationship and trapped together for the codependent relationship with not being able to afford to move forward and separate if children are involved.
Do you have courses? I left my husband of 14 years for good reason i have been single 5 years but dating here and there. Id love a course with you guys. I am in Sydney Australia . Im ready to get serious this new year. I hope to hear from you. 💫
sometimes you are dating a guy, and they actually don't want to help you. Despite being officially bf/gf, they are kind of resentful when you ask for help. It seems that frequently men don't want to feel obligated to help. I feel like maybe these types of men aren't the norm.
No one has to make a man do what he is supposed to do. If he understands himself and knows his purpose automatically that which he seeks will come once he does his part. No one has to caress him who. He just need to do what is innate. If he needs help he needs to go get therapy. He also needs to know himself before entering a relationship, and not come being needy. Or else he will become obsessive, possessive, abusive and draining of his partner The same goes for the female. We tend to enter relationships without dealing with our trauma and understanding ourselves, that's what affects relationships..
I know there are mature, respectful men but what I see most of the time with my physical eyes is that men long for girls who don't respect them and only rarely and under many conditions show a very little verbal respect, and the man loves them so much and tries more and more to make such a girl happy. Even they directly criticize the appearance or any aspect of the man or compare him to othef men even of lower levels. It seems that these men are also really loyal to such disrespectful girls. Not in one or two case, I see it frequently and talking to my female friends, they also admit.
@carolinechitra_888 I can't agree with that since it's not only me who sees such things. And there have been dramatic changes in society, at least in mine, that have led to malfunctioning in many aspects of people's lives.
Not true you can be perfect wife do all those things respect love care cooking clean home helping with $ service etc... at the end of the day if he not getting sex he will cheat evin if he is getting sex may not be with the hottest women he can manage to land or may not be the weirdo sex he might be into. Look for a man that has a thankful appreciative Godly spirit
I think it’s funny how men keep tying to give advice to women and they are always full of bs. This video is by far the most accurate and informative advice I’ve seen given to women ABOUT MEN from a man. He’s not wrong either. I don’t appreciate the men giving other men advice about women… however they have provided me, at least on a more personal basis, the way that those men are thinking and getting horrible bs advice from these men who are insane and should not in any type of way be giving anyone advice about anything… so sad for those men out there who took the advice from the wrong men because they just set themselves up for failure and disappointment in every relationship that they use that information for.. This is a good video at least
Thank you very much for your insightful video ! However I disagree with you on a very fundamental truth about all filial love regardless of whether it is from the masculine or the feminine in the love relationship/ marriage. ALL LOVE is rooted in Respect, trust, admiration , adoration/cherishing, appreciation and gratitude regardless of the sexual gender. You cannot feel genuine authentic love for another without some measure of these basic components to some measure being present in the love felt and expressed toward the other. The starting point is always RESPECT which earns TRUST and why betrayal and infidelity will always destroy a love relationship as it destroys the core foundation on which the investment of love is expressed safely in that relationship. We have to truly start moving away from these patriarchal and rather outdated chauvinistic attitudes that men and women experience love differently. Men have learnt wrong behaviour over Eid of conditioning not to over invest in their emotional body and too keep it more in their mental intellect body which means that they do not invest as fully as most women do due to this conditioning but fundamentally experience true love in exactly the same manner when they do invest fully in the relationship and feel the loss of it then as acutely when it ends.
In my religion a husband is someone who reserves very high respect! A husband is someone who is placed on a very high pedestal who deserves obedience, loyalty, devotion, dedication, love and honor!
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What a man longs for more than sex:
#5 - Respect and admiration; having a sense of value in your relationship
#4 - Appreciation; how he makes you feel
#3 - Having purpose and meaning; is he needed and valued as your hero?
#2 - Feminine energy; vulnerability and sharing your feelings
#1 - Creating a great life together; share your desires with him respectfully so he can make plans for your future together
Respect and admiration is earned. Men need to stop daying this as they are entitled to it by default. Behave worthy of respect and you will be respect. And sure as well they are needed: there is grocery to be done, bathrooms to cleanz meals to cook, dishes to wash. Doing any of that is actually controbuting. But funny how men refuse to do that...but they went to be held as heros because, when they are out with you, they hold a door open😂😂😂. Sure a 2 second act, that doesn't require any effort or planning! 😂😂😂 How sneaky men invented these standards!!
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@@catb8661 funny how men never offer the same, ever!
BS, women have those things. Men DON'T care. Maybe because it GOES BOTH WAYS!! Women want respect and appreciation as well. 2. Women do, men don't LISTEN. SHE CAN'T DO IT IF HE DOES NOT! Women REACT TO MEN. 1. AGAIN, MEN DON'T LISTEN OR CARE! WOMEN DO THESE THINGS and men just don't care.
I completely respect how you provided the list to save our time, you made me feel of value for doing that, you are my hero, now I have those extra minutes to go put on my flowing dress, and let me know when your doing that project which requires me to hold the flashlight for you. Phew! How did I do 😂😂😂.
I would love to feel admiration and respect, but it’s been difficult to find someone who is doing things that are admirable, like building competency at a career, having self control, and adopting a positive, growth mindset.
I did all the things he said, but I got nothing in return. 11 years and 2 kids later, I was accused of cheating when I stopped giving the respect.
@@Kimberly-g7l5p These techniques will only work on good, healthy-minded men. It won't work with a man who is deeply brpoken, or narcisistic. Sounds like your guy was never really capable of caring for your heart.
I've done all the things he's suggested and I got gaslighted again after giving him a chance 🤮
They are demons behind that mask and I've experienced it twice 😢
Untrue - women equally want and deserve respect, appreciation, purpose and meaning to our lives. We are not shallowly aspiring to live on love alone? 🙄
Exactly. He doesn't know what he's saying. And men want to be loved too. Both want love and respect. All humans want both of those things.
@@carmaela2689exact. And this is true in all human relation. Nobody ( man or women) wants to respect, without being respected. Nobody wants to give admiration without receiving admiration. Such a strange way to think what a good relationship has to be.
But that's not women's main need, ugh...
Exactly women equal need respect, praise, admiration, compliments
This is why you’re having trouble with men in your life! This video is about MEN not women 😂 stop being modern and pick up traditional values and this will make you more valuable to ALL men in your life 🎉 meaning shut up and actively listen and get out your OWN WAY! 2025 lets goo!!
More coaches/therapists need to focus on helping men heal. Lots of broken men out here in the songle life arena. We women try so hard to be in our feminine energy and do all the things ypu mentioned here, but the guys ARE broken. Maybe just here in my state, but it's prevalent and even if we are trying and doing all the things, if they don't/can't reciprocate, then its pointless.
American men are broken.
Yes, and Just because you give doesn't mean you're going to get.
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Women want security and respect 1st. The Iove and loyalty comes easily after that.
If he doesn't deserve these gifts, and they ARE gifts, GET AWAY FROM HIM. 🏃♀️👟💨 Run like the wind! 🌬️
As we all get older, it becomes much more difficult to find a man who is not broken in some way shape or form. As a woman, I have definitely been broken a few times. I’m in the age group where we’re still trying to help our kids get out of the house or we’re taking care of our parents. Sometimes it’s not that the person is broken, but that they know they just can’t put in the effort towards a good relationship. I have multiple friends that are caring for family members.
True, but we rather try to practice abundance, and men will miraculously become wonderful. I was flying back home with this attitude (feeling abundance inside and not waiting for anything from outside) and men were literally magnetised by my mere presence - they were competing with each other to help me with various things ( and I wasn’t the youngest and prettiest in their surrounding) luggage, adjusting my backpack and so on so forth…. Some bought water for me while I was watching a film, and they didn’t even try to hook me unless I really wanted.
When I have had to care for others I've learnt that I can't give from an empty cup. I believe it's important to prioritise ourselves especially as you get older and you want to maintain good health mind body and soul.
It's not selfish to heal yourself, taking the time to do this work is life changing not just for yourself but for your loved ones too ❤
@@gemmahart3985 the flip side is they have nothing to offer. I have experienced both. I’m working on self care…and continuing that mentality whether with or without a man.
As we get older the availability of relationship ready men are very limited.
Alot of broken men in the dating pool.
I don't try to find someone
I just let people be and trust that right people will be added
I had to laugh when I read how people are saying that I need to think positive. My family makes fun of me about that. I have read the book the secret multiple times. I would tell you I credited for many of the positive things that have happened in my life. I always believe in thinking positive. And as much as that can draw someone wonderful to me. It can also draw the narcissistic jerks. They do love bomb you. Oh they’re wonderful in the beginning. One man actually jumped out of his car, cause he was following me to a gas station and pumped my gas for me. They play the hero until one day they’re not.
The short story is, be yourself. Be mindful of what that magnetized to you. I tend to be too nice, which is how I end up with the narcissists. This year I’m working on putting myself first so the narcissists aren’t interested.
We are not wired so different. Men and women BOTH want to be respected and loved. One not more than the other.
Woke stuff?
I would love to hear a training video on what exactly a broken man is. I know that sounds silly, but it would be nice to know what you mean by this for clarity. Because I always have hope for people, and that's been one of my challenges is giving men too many chances.
Hopelessness, lack of vision, lack of purpose, depression, lack of energy and desire to be protectors, providers, lovers etc
Weakness, co dependent, emotionally immature.. needy etc etc
I understand all of these broken behaviors that ppl have been listed above. However, I know many people who have healed & they're not broken anymore.
I love respect my husband ❤so much from the bottom of my heart ♥️ he is the rock 🪨 of our family 21yrs marriage ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
As we all get older, it becomes much more difficult to find a man who is not broken in some way shape or form. As a woman, I have definitely been broken a few times. I’m in the at the age where we’re still trying to help our kids get out of the house or we’re taking care of our parents. Sometimes it’s not that the person is broken, but that they know they just can’t put in the effort towards a good relationship. I have multiple friends that are caring for family members.
Here’s a question: I’m friends with a man that I dated. He has multiple family members he has to take care of. He has an open door policy with me. But it is just friends. That’s by his choice. Do I ask to come over or do I do as he said and just show up whenever? I think this just leads me into nowhere.
It goes both ways. When you have children with them it adds to the chaos. If they don't respect you then how do you respect them???
We all want something more than just sex. At least for normal serious minded humans.
What if you gave a man all this, and he still didn't adore you and cheated and was never available when you needed him but available for everyone else and left after almost a year without saying a word and blocked you from everything?
He’s not your person. Sounds like he didn’t reciprocate.
Sounds like a broken man unfortunately
That excuse of a man should not have wasted your time!
When we get better at identifying good men, we are better at choosing men that deserve this type of treatment. I made this mistake before, broke it off, learned to love myself, learned who I am, and learned to value me. Now I can more readily identify men that deserve respect, admiration, etc. and readily reciprocate that to me ❤
Sounds like a narcissist. Not your fault. He is not the one.
I had to find a man I admire and respect first and that isn’t based on his bank account.
This is helpful ❤
Glad it resonated with you!
Great tips for a man and woman if they are healthy and have worked thru their respective baggage.
Thanks for yet another profoundly informative video. All points are accurate
If I trust and feel safe with a man it helps with everything else
Wow, great video! 👏🏻 Just subscribed, thanks!
Wonderful. Thank you
Welcome Julie!
Thank You So much,I had forgotten this in my 41+ marriage ❤❤❤
Same for women 😅
What all relationships need is openness and honesty to communicate with each other to have boundaries and respect for each other boundaries likes and dislikes and trust and trying bring out the best in each other is a foundation for a healthy relationship that will last forever. Love isn’t always about the physical intimacy that people classify as love is just the emotional intimacy and feelings and lust This is important also but commitment and dedication and caring for each others needs to be a key factor to success in a long lifetime relationship. Many people base their relationships on sexual interaction with no commitment or communication skills and boundaries. They will obviously fail in the end and separate or stay together in a loveless relationship and trapped together for the codependent relationship with not being able to afford to move forward and separate if children are involved.
yes
What does "don't be his therapist" mean, exactly? Hopefully it's not the same as being his confidante (which I think is a good thing)!
Therapist is trying to help solve problems for him, confidant is just connecting and empathizing
@@MagnetizeYourMan Thank you for the clarification! In other words: listen sincerely but do not offer solutions unless asked?
Thank you 😊🙏
Absolutely! Glad you liked it
Do you have courses? I left my husband of 14 years for good reason i have been single 5 years but dating here and there. Id love a course with you guys. I am in Sydney Australia . Im ready to get serious this new year. I hope to hear from you. 💫
Yes you can get that here: MagnetizeYourMan.com/YT
Merry. Christmas and a . Happier . New. Year . Especially in finding somebody special.❤❤
sometimes you are dating a guy, and they actually don't want to help you. Despite being officially bf/gf, they are kind of resentful when you ask for help. It seems that frequently men don't want to feel obligated to help. I feel like maybe these types of men aren't the norm.
Very interesting 😊
Thank you so much 🙏🙏🏾🙏🏼🙌🙌🙌⭐⭐⭐
Absolutely! Glad you liked it
No one has to make a man do what he is supposed to do. If he understands himself and knows his purpose automatically that which he seeks will come once he does his part. No one has to caress him who. He just need to do what is innate. If he needs help he needs to go get therapy. He also needs to know himself before entering a relationship, and not come being needy. Or else he will become obsessive, possessive, abusive and draining of his partner The same goes for the female.
We tend to enter relationships without dealing with our trauma and understanding ourselves, that's what affects relationships..
I know there are mature, respectful men but what I see most of the time with my physical eyes is that men long for girls who don't respect them and only rarely and under many conditions show a very little verbal respect, and the man loves them so much and tries more and more to make such a girl happy. Even they directly criticize the appearance or any aspect of the man or compare him to othef men even of lower levels. It seems that these men are also really loyal to such disrespectful girls. Not in one or two case, I see it frequently and talking to my female friends, they also admit.
You’ll only ever see what you focus upon ~ LOA
@carolinechitra_888 I can't agree with that since it's not only me who sees such things. And there have been dramatic changes in society, at least in mine, that have led to malfunctioning in many aspects of people's lives.
Not true you can be perfect wife do all those things respect love care cooking clean home helping with $ service etc... at the end of the day if he not getting sex he will cheat evin if he is getting sex may not be with the hottest women he can manage to land or may not be the weirdo sex he might be into. Look for a man that has a thankful appreciative Godly spirit
Sex is an important part of marriage. If the other elements are not in place, then it would be a miserable experience.
I am not affraid to say I don’t have a father on Earth and this is sound biblical instruction! James 1:27 for widows and orphans
🌈🌟🌻ThankYou! So very helpful 💞
You're welcome! Glad it is helpful to you :)
I think it’s funny how men keep tying to give advice to women and they are always full of bs. This video is by far the most accurate and informative advice I’ve seen given to women ABOUT MEN from a man. He’s not wrong either. I don’t appreciate the men giving other men advice about women… however they have provided me, at least on a more personal basis, the way that those men are thinking and getting horrible bs advice from these men who are insane and should not in any type of way be giving anyone advice about anything… so sad for those men out there who took the advice from the wrong men because they just set themselves up for failure and disappointment in every relationship that they use that information for..
This is a good video at least
So, only give what you would give if you knew ahead of time that you'd receive nothing back. ❤❤❤
So true. Yes and then you have.no reciprocal expectations.
Can a man say if those things are true?
Thank you very much for your insightful video ! However I disagree with you on a very fundamental truth about all filial love regardless of whether it is from the masculine or the feminine in the love relationship/ marriage. ALL LOVE is rooted in Respect, trust, admiration , adoration/cherishing, appreciation and gratitude regardless of the sexual gender. You cannot feel genuine authentic love for another without some measure of these basic components to some measure being present in the love felt and expressed toward the other. The starting point is always RESPECT which earns TRUST and why betrayal and infidelity will always destroy a love relationship as it destroys the core foundation on which the investment of love is expressed safely in that relationship. We have to truly start moving away from these patriarchal and rather outdated chauvinistic attitudes that men and women experience love differently. Men have learnt wrong behaviour over Eid of conditioning not to over invest in their emotional body and too keep it more in their mental intellect body which means that they do not invest as fully as most women do due to this conditioning but fundamentally experience true love in exactly the same manner when they do invest fully in the relationship and feel the loss of it then as acutely when it ends.
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Oh my gosh I don’t want to understand male heart 😮 so much drama 😂
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But you are here Marcia, so there is hope right!!!😂❤
In my religion a husband is someone who reserves very high respect! A husband is someone who is placed on a very high pedestal who deserves obedience, loyalty, devotion, dedication, love and honor!
What religion is this?