Thank you for your message, Kevin. Before the show, I thought 'what could a combative single woman teach me?' Then I found the lesson. Great show! I've never bashed the Black man or ever posted anything that puts Black men in a negative light. (Ever) Perception is key. Apologizing, sincerely, is so important. Keep up the great work. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
DANGER ZONE TOMI!!! Its amazing all the things shes asked men to do are warning of an unfaithful msn. They dont have to tell you they’re single if you’re not blind. The text only, the no planning etc... all red flags 🚩
Do not men expect women to provide peace, sex, stroke their ego? Like, the average man wife HAS to work because they can’t even afford to comfortably provide for their family. Nobody dating you for you providing 😂
I’m not interested in listening to an attractive woman talk about her problems with men. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again: if you’re an attractive woman living in a large metropolitan area and you still can’t find a decent guy, it’s YOUR fault!
She literally had the guy who was a 10. He was good-looking, had resources, was ambitious, and liked a career-driven woman. He put a damn ring on her finger. And she dumped him. She doesn’t get to complain about not being able to find a real man when she tossed out the guy she claims to want.
He only made 60k per year. He bought her engagement ring on his credit card and returned it. He lost his congressional run as well. I think he's coaching high school or Semi pro soccer now.
@@surly74 nope, just her hypergomous nature. That’s how females are wired. She thought she could do better so she ended it. It’s her choice but the consequences of that is being single in her late 20’s when there is a crop of younger hotter women coming behind her.
Not many 10’s out there.i can count on one hand how many I’ve seen in my whole life and I’ll be 40 this year.also none of the 10’s I’ve met ever called themselves a ten.
Lol, good one. I go the very strong impression that she had just been dumped by some chad or that he refused to commit to her: and tbh her voice sounds like a u-matic drill - I could imagine it driving anyone crazy....or away.
@@jackspring7709 this is everything that men no longer want anymore. the juice isnt worth the squeeze and you could be nailing a much younger and much hotter lady with much less baggage. reminds me of my almost 50 yo sister who still thinks she is a prize.
Yup they gave her control over the entire situation. Respect a man's time and space and he will return the favor. Trying to order around a man is good way to be ignored.
She had a high value fiance who adored her and she dumped him. She talks about what a great guy he is, yet she didn't want to marry him because he was "too nice". SMH
She is 100% the type that will divorce and destroy her family at the 70% rate we see for people under 60 years old (NOT 58% divorce rate which includes ages 60-100 plus).
1. Hmm. Treating others the way you want to be treated. I think I’ve read that somewhere before. LOL 2. Regarding “rudeness,”: Gal 4:16, “So have I become your enemy by telling you the truth?” And Prov 27:6 , “Faithful are the wounds of a friend, But deceitful are the kisses of an enemy.”
"Men don't like bossy women. Period." No truer words can be spoken. *Applause*
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@Amazing Koala For you to be a good leader, you have to have power and responsibility. Women only want power, without the responsibility that comes with it, which is why they are seen as bossy and not as a leader
Great stuff. I'm a white guy and I find a lot of black women to be very, very beautiful. No matter what your skin color, a bad attitude negates your beauty.
@@evaneichenberger845 and why a lot of Western men are going to Eastern Europe or Asia to find women. They are strong but still feminine and traditional. Feminists dupe women into thinking in order to be strong they have to be masculine.
@@demimiller8437 I was in Tunisia last year. The women there are GORGEOUS!! Only maybe 30% wore hijabs and traditional Muslim clothing, the majority wore tight blue jeans and dresses/skirts. About 14 years ago I visited Argentina - absolutely stunning women there! They all seemed to be like size 0 or 2!
Lol, I can visualize what you're describing. Now that I think about it, I agree, it's tail lights. I guess, subconsciously, I never considered dating or or had any attraction to one, but I can how they can definitely be ruled out quickly with no reservation
Sure she has a score card and if you fall below her average rating youll get the boot....She sounds whiny as hell....I stopped listening subconsciously.
Funny thing. She had a high-value man, was engaged to him, but she broke off the engagement because 'she wasn't ready'. It's not fun out in them streets 🤣
Who Tf is this chick 😂 what makes any man want her? 🙃 maybe these dudes aren’t consistent cause y’all ain’t worth the consistency ever think about that 😜
She’s misconstruing her value and trying to tell the market what it should be buying. Unfortunately for her the consumer makes the ultimate purchasing decision.
This is what happens when ego is bigger than self esteem. She’s an attractive woman but combative. If all the men she chose to entertain are trash, then that would make her a trash bin. You can’t always help who you attract, but who you entertain is always a reflection of yourself. The literal definition of insanity is doing the same thing over & over yet expecting different results. Don’t hate the players, hate the game because it’s clear she doesn’t know how to play. Didn’t she dump her fiancé for someone else just to get dumped herself? 😭
@MaVeRiCk MoDe I think even the SEAL got sick of her shit. She may have just been using his SEAL status as political posturing and dude caught on to it.
@@Thewordoftheswordmin Look, I keep tellin yall..........that's "The White Gold ": The ultimate female......🙄 What can "Thotiana" teach HER????😂 "Thotiana" probably a Sista, and Chad gon marry HER, instead!🤣
She dragged that "fiance" of hers around like a mannequin, trying to make him into something he wasn't. Ofcourse her project fell apart because it wasn't ever real. She never wanted nor respected him.
crazy im going thru that now. smfh lol. I cant wait till i move outta state and she realize the loser she had all hopes for dont really want her ass and she lost both 😂
Men don't want a quarrelsome woman. They want peace. They've been slaying dragons all day for their family, they deserve some respect and to not be nagged and hollered at when they get home.
@@mangamegs Truth. I didn't realize that until too late. It's ok though, this entire thing has made me turn my life around and make some better life choices. I am a better man because of this.
@@debbik30she wanted a guy who made more money then her. Women know if they make more their money is at risk in divorce. Exactly the reason men should never marry.
Miss this man. 😢 He was like an uncle and mentor I never got to meet. Motivated me to step my wardrobe, fragrance up and work more hours and get in the gym. I've dropped 150+ pounds in the last two years just from eating healthy and going to the gym four times a week.
@Brown Papi YOU NAILED IT!!!!! I was listening to her describe her friends , their attractiveness and their successful status in life. What she FAILS to mention is they're all narcissistic control freaks who are pampered by the society around them. One that reinforces their false belief systems. They want to BE the "Man" in a relationship and base everything around status.
They don't seem to understand that a women's Value is also based on her choices & behavior 🤷🏾♂️. We've seen her leave a H.V. guy to try to upgrade. That drops her value to F♤ckable, not Wifeable
@@R-Chillz Men are not going to sign up for something that potentially subjects them to the biased court system with a female that has displayed she has no loyalty,
Before this video I asked an old guy who has worked in psychology for years and he laughed and said it was an interesting question. I asked if white women want to take down her man and be her man, and black women marched with white women do black women want to like white men?
It goes BOTH ways... your wife is sick of u, those kids, and your family if their still alive and around. Trust and believe.... she ONLY deals with it because she loves u and don't want to hurt your feelings. She's probably just as exhausted as u are. But will never admit it.
I believe this is a cultural issue rather than a race issue. The women in my family don’t teach how to bash men or disrespect men. They teach how to be women, how to be mothers, how to be wives.
exactly right. Here in Switzerland where I live, women don't behave , don't talk, don't move like women, instead they try to be better men . . . and get really really unhappy and frustrated in the process. The culture has changed since the seventies, that's when tne man-bashing started and now our young men are so insecure and terrified of women that they prefer to play video games or hang with their male friends. When it comes to marriage and family they find their spouses in foreign countries like Thailand or Brazil etc. The Swiss are dying out slowly and that's a good thing ! (I say this as a swiss citizen . . .). I'm just glad I don't have to participate anymore, I turned sixty in January so I'm officially an old man now and I deserved the right to be cynical and grumpy . . . Greetz
It's definitely a cultural issue! That's the topic that should really be discussed at length and in-depth. It might not get the ratings though because truth and facts aren't nearly as sensational as the superficial crap people typically gravitate towards in order to console their insecurities.
@@geronimo19611 Did you ever marry? It’s a shame bc Swiss people are generally pretty good looking. French. Italian. German. A good mix. I understand why you wouldn’t marry though.
@@debbik30 You know the type of women who think like this. "I want a partner who shares my interests. I'm ambitious and career driven. I like to travel domestically and internationally. I'm looking for someone to fit into my life." She's looking for a wife instead of a husband.
I totally understand and agree and I’m am old school I come across women that have trust and insecurity issues. I have low tolerance for the kid games 💯💯
What she’s really saying is “the top 10% of guys we only go after have options and make us mad. The other 80% are completely invisible to us.” 30th birthday changes a lot of things.
One of the worst things a woman can do is be bossy or tell you what you need to do as soon as you worked a 8+ hour day at work and just walked through the door to get home.... Ladies, that will make your man start coming home late on purpose or pull into the driveway and take 30 minutes to walk in the house because he has to mentally prepare themselves with the B.S. Especially if the woman has been home all day and hasn't cleaned anything.... Sadly I've been there. Twice.
Same, with my last relationship. Found myself taking the hour long route to walk home vs the usual 20 min one, just for a mental break. All I ended up with was a mental break…down 😂
The weak women they have nothing going and never made there own big money there is nothing to be bossy about it as they always had to bee the person who took orders and never made it. Us women who make 6 figures can be bossy as we had to learn to be strong and take care of us, we have castraded, weak men in America.
Can't understand why women need either to be this or that.. i mean either weak or bossy.. what about mid way?.. Women are exactlley like men.. and men and women both need to be just who they are.. but with good character and high morality.. with mutual respect and appreciation for each other as loved life partiner.. be there for each other in good and bad times.. and always in communication as a mean to stay better connected emotionally and intelctually .. and do their best to trust and be avilable and listen to each other all the time and situations with enthusiasm hoping to be source of support happiness and left up factor for their soulmates in life who arr supposed to share with everything they have including body and soul materialistic and spiritual things till death separate them a part as God meant them to be.. amen
Kevin's calm thoughtful demeanor taught me more then anything. When you are calm and observant you can think about things much clearer. I am unsure how i feel about Tomi talking here i like her but, it seems a bit shallow the things she describes that will make her happy, the primary requirements of a successful career how that will last for long what happens if the man loses his job it's over? I find her very attractive physically to each his own, but i feel like there was a bit of callus falseness in her words not even intentional which is unfortunate. Maybe two weeks of thinking about it isn't really enough to know who you really want as a partner for the rest of your life. or Maybe her standards aren't too high, maybe they are too low.
Simple she is over accomplished and that's what she's looking 4...good luck...accomplished man are not looking for a headache or arguing non stop...and that what u get with her...at 40 she'll have 3 cats still looking. Man in general not looking for a pain in the rear....good luck Tom boy Lauren not searching to be pegged by u. Peace
Nah, she aint a Honda Accord. a Honda Accord is a well made, moderately priced, unassuming get-the-work-done car. she's an Alpha-Romeo who wants to be a Rolls Royce. and that shit dont work. not with AR's build quality.
@@jeremysears4263 You are drawn to a woman’s beauty- so you commit to her, desire to have kids with her, build a legacy with her JUST because she’s beautiful?
I’m a granny and this girl is a pain in the ass. I’ve got a long list of amazing men, including my son and grandsons, who have blessed my life. This country is full of good men. She’s the problem.
She the kind of self-centered woman i try to stay away from. It's all about her and her values when her purpose in life to find love. That's why she by herself now and will continue to be.
Now you're starting to see what men have been saying and dealing with since the start of mankind. It sucks when the rabbit gots the gun. Keep growing men. Value yourself. Put yourself first.
Hondas are reliable durable, and as long as you treat them right they will last forever. I can't say the same for Tomi. She's more like a PT Cruiser. Cute on the outside but on the inside plenty of electrical and mechanical issues.
80% of women chase 20% of men. This is the definition of hypergamy. She, and her friends, are all chasing the same type of guy. He has his choice of women, and is in no rush to settle down. Hence, he plays the field, and women get their feelings hurt. Meanwhile, the other 80% are pretty much invisible to most women, and they would actually treat her/them right. If she wants a HVM, she has to compete..
So, she and her friends are playing a game that they can't really win. No tears will be shed for them because they have the world handed to them on a platter. It ain't rocket science: She needed to get her HUSBAND in college and not play around but she chose to roll the dice and chase a career as a political pundit. Insert the fail horn from The Price is Right..
@Dah Langston don't be mistaken, the bottom 80% are constantly battling their way up, replacing those in the top 20%. But our treatment of these hypergamous women is going to be far worse, you can count on that. Men remember exactly how women were treating them when they were in the bottom 80%. It's a cycle.
And any women can be bossy, just like any men can be weak.. it has nothing to do with colorizing.. I think it's a Gender thing the issue we have today is that is almost illegal to talk about the differences between men and women thanks to the equality propaganda..
Im a low value man, i walked away from my thin blonde white woman. Even i have standards how im gonna be treated. I might be low value but im not trash!
I don’t believe you’re a low value man. I hate that now society is calling each other high or low value. That is just making everyone more crazy. You need the right woman and she will see all of your values. ❤
@ I know my value. I’m a great person, but in the context of sexual market place value I am low value. Just as if I were in a NBA line up, I wouldn’t be sought over. That doesn’t take away from my value in other aspects of life or even suggest no one would play ball with me. Reality is reality though. Ignoring that will hold you back because you’ll waste your time and energy in places you shouldn’t be.
I'm a white guy, and my ex had a very similar attitude / personality in a lot of ways to Tomi Lahren. While I did appreciate and respect her drive, career achievements and her ethical standards, and I was good and loyal to her out entire time together (about 8 years)...I was never able to truly put my heart in to the relatrionship becauase at the end of the day she was a ball breaker, and I knew deep down inside that if I married her I'd ultimately be buying in to a life of eternal misery. She constantly expected me to take steps to change who I was into the person she wanted me to be. She couldnt get along with my friends of family because they "weren't on her level". She disapproved of any hobbies I had because she felt they weren't productive. iI've always said that a relationship should never feel like hard work. It shouldn't feel like a chore. It should enhance your life, make you feel happier and more fullfilled then you do when you're single. If it doesnt do that then what's the poiint? You may as well be single.
Because of what your ancestors have done to the natives. This entitlement will not last forever, first things must be overturned here for all to thrive. We must do away with the societal norms
This poor woman doesn't realize that any possible suitor is going to watch all these videos online and wisely elude her company forever more. No man watching her video would say "what an attractive woman!" or " I can't wait for her to boss me around the rest of my life."
@Jerrell Johnson they’re only there for sex , not commitment, once they get bored of her they will move on to the next “ queen” , she’s downgraded to a fetish, that’s a fate worst than loneliness.
If even Tomi Lahren who is the quintessential westernized standard of beautiful is not getting the attention of HVM, this isn't just a colorism thing. She's infamous for her snarky attitude. She apologized, but would her opinion be any different if it weren't for needing to do damage control? Out of the heart, the mouth speaks. In a nutshell: Tomi ain't special, she's no exception to the rule.
That’s because she’s so “successful”, “intelligent”, and “has a lot going on” . 😂😂😂 She’s pathetic and not as hot as she thinks. I wouldn’t give her the time of day, if I had a watch....
Bottom line ladies, if a man is interested in you he will pursue, he will call, he will text, he will plan. If you feel like you need to tell him to do these things, then he really isn't interested in you for anything other than a booty call.
100 percent true. I am not sure why it's so hard for some women to understand. Acknowledge the red flags and if he doesn't show real interest, move onto the next one. That's exactly what I do. I like people who like me.
@@latebloomer177 it’s hard because these women believe that they should have preferences and men should not. They want certain men and they are entitled enough to think that these men should worship the ground these women walk on.
on top of that, if a man is ambitious for more and/or he is earning 6 figures he doesn’t have time to be consistent with a female and chase her every week
I am a single black man. I've been listening to Kevin Samuel for about a month now. He's a blessing to women if they're willing to listen and take heed to what he is saying. Most of the women I have met are like the ones on his show. He makes me laugh sometimes with his straight talk and honesty. I work with attorneys all the time. My son is an attorney, I have nothing against attorneys, but I will never marry an attorney. When Kevin said on one of his podcast that men run for the hills when they find out that their date is an attorney, I laughed my butt off because it's true.
@@NPDrives Because of the shit attitude it takes for them to be an attorney and what they do to become one (have a body count that rivals that of a 42nd St. prostitute in the 80's).
@@uyoebyik what are you assuming? One of a million events can make an older person single, including death of a loved one. I like how loaded your question is, like “so you’re a loser?”
All my friends are pretty, successful, and have great personalities? Yeah right?.. my mother always said "it's a poor cook that won't praise his/her own pot"
Jordan Peterson said that successful people usually end up alone because they put hard work to become successful so they don't really have time to be looking for their mate
Why is “value” only about money (regarding men), and physical attractiveness (regarding women). Literally everything else is more important and “valuable” than having a lot of money and being pretty. See yourself and others through God’s eyes. That’s the key. The unconditional love that God has for us is where we derive our REAL VALUE.
Tomi friends sound so amazing that they can take care of themselves just fine. Why even date or have a family when you are that amazing? Tomi turned down a guy that gave her a diamond ring worth 50k. Tomi and her friends can be amazing together and alone!
It's amazing how all these women who would make great husbands are single! It is almost like men don't want husbands, and no woman actually wants the few ' men ' who do want husbands.
She made valid points. She said be determined, successful, driven, goal, and put in work not just text her is Gold! I would think men would consider that a quality woman, if that's what you are looking for. Now if you looking for fun she said thotianna 🤣🤣🤣 I found nothing wrong with what she said. I think the problem is when a woman doesn't know her worth, that's when yall have some real damn problems. I said know worth not be arrogant or talk shit about decent men, the 2 don't equate. I agree with him when said women have lowered the dating standard. I see it frequently. Once again. Women have to know their worth as in God, spirituality. Women are to prepare while men are the seekers. Get yourself prepared to be sought. That means work on YOU, God will send you a proper seeker. Careful not to trash the men you are preparing for. Now how is God going bless that???
@@BlaydeAlabama the problem is what she put value on in women: careers. She didn't mention God, cooking, or being pleasant. Honestly that is something that women seem to have totally forgotten, women used to be proud of their social skills and ability to make pleasant conversation with anyone, rather than expecting men to chat them up. Anyway, her negative descriptions of thotianna were not based on character, but lack of career, her thotiannas were probably better wife material, while her together girls probably includes REAL thotiannas. It's like guys complaining that no woman wants nice guys, they just want creeps who happen to have great careers.
@@vidard9863 sad those are the things men put women down for. With men constantly using woman as the punch line of their jokes for those traits can you be surprised women want to be better than that? Do you like being a joke??
@@noneyabusiness33 alright, so you have established that you are not a man and don't know what men say or joke about. Cool. What's your point? You think that I will stop working out because someone makes a joke about Meatheads? I'll stop liking what I like because someone makes a joke about nerds? If what you said was true no women would get jobs, because career women are the jokes, and the ones we text at two in the morning after the bar closes. If you laugh at me, the world is just a more pleasant place, you smiled and I cut you out of my life, we both win. Again what's your point?
As a father of 3 young children, 1 boy and two girls not older than 13 yrs old, I find this videos from KS extremely educational. He passed away, but have left his mark for others to follow, learn and teach. I'm learning so I can pass this knowledge unto my kids as they'll reach adulthood. Thank you.
Women have been duped by the system. The system has taught Women to earn because the system is flawed bad. Women are innately nurturing but the system has taught them to be hard earners as men historically have been. It doesn't work when the 2 meet.
My experience is women never date down. Money,education or looks. They want the bigger better deal. They've made their own bed. They don't want good guys who are loyal. While bad guys abuse them.
Men never have to worry about "making plans," with a woman who is totally interested in him and wants to be with him. His time is precious to her and her window of affection for him is always open or can be opened. It's never closed when you are important to her.
Honestly @davis Sinclair that’s BS. I can’t tell you how many times I got women by PLANNING and being ASSERTIVE with what I wanted to do with a woman v fly by night spontaneous BS dudes. It was easy- those other dudes weren’t in my league and it showed. You want your time respected- RESPECT other ppl’s time
@@hanselbeckfordjr7530 Being assertive with your intentions is one thing. Planning a date on the whims of her interest level for you is another thing. Nowadays, she's gotta meet me half way at least, the first time out that is. No smart man in todays dating climate goes by the extravagant date planning methods of yesteryear when you don't even have a fraction of knowledge of her being worthy of your efforts. Ain't no BS about it.
What Tomi and other women don’t realize is when men have access to sex so easily now you have to really stick out to be considered a mother type of figure. That’s the game now.
No Man wants to come home to a Boss Woman who will constantly criticize and compare every aspect of their being to other Men. We want Peace, Love & Appreciation :)
What? She's hot, smart, rich and successful. Owns several of her own homes, cars and a plane. So if she's a Honda what are you dating? Did she hit a nerve with you?
The closest one, who also talked a lot with Kevin and gives him a lot of credit, is Stephen Ronald Bell. But he’s not trying to do a similar thing online. His perspective is a little different, but his message is very similar.
this woman is complaining about everything women have been doing to men. flaking, not being consistent, talking to 7 guys at once with different occupations. its a mess but its our faults as men.
100%. I have had so many times where a woman will constantly text me and any time I try to make plans to meet up (usually the first or second time meetup), they aren't about it, but will keep texting. Women are also crazy inconsistent and flakey. Tomi talks about planning days in advance, yet that doesn't work out a lot and the woman is "busy" when the day comes, even though 2 or 3 days ago, her schedule was open.
@@btw-3006 I am having that happen now... she KEEPS texting off and on. We were suppose to meet last Sat at 4pm... 5 hours later.. give me a little longer ..lol, told her "We're going to reschedule.. I'm going out with a 'friend'" ... two days later, ..more texts... I am scheduled to go out with next Sat... let's see how this goes. If she doesn't come this Saturday I will be calling her out on it.
I really think she made good points. She addressed a real problem. There are women who don’t want to be played with, and are looking for a solid relationship. She was addressing a lackadaisical type of man, who likes easy women. She really wasn’t poking at all men. She was addressing some great points. Great list.
I agree. She is happily married now. But people in this comment section are so bitter, they are not listening. They prefer to hate on women with standards. Except for the "men are trash" comment, I see nothing wrong with her list. Men need to level up.
Naw the Bottom line is she is white.. Differnet cultures have different issues based off different demographics.. Im from the hood but went to high school and college with ALL white ppl. Its totally different circumstances..... They have different issues dealing with white men who are deemed and propagated the savior of society.. Shes dealing with white men who are successful.. They have ALOT of women... & she having trouble dealing with that....
It has the same energy as sensory overload. High value women are like that chick that wolverine had to kill, all the stuff you have wade through just for a taste
Strange...........When men say this to women..........we are told its not enough. Karma is hitting in 2020 for these females from the poorest to the richest. Her reaction is showing that they are starting to realize that men are DONE with the foolishness.
She doesn’t understand that she’s masculine, has attitude, is a career woman…everything we don’t want…so instead of correcting her behavior she’s going to act like it’s a man’s fault…gimme a break…
`she keeps talking about how her circle are all ambitious and successful. that's why they all single. because they have it all and wont compromise. men wants to come home to a wife, NOT another job. she sounds & looks like a job.
I don't think I'd go that far, that "we gotta get these likes up" part made him seem not genuine to me. I do acknowledge that he makes a lot of valid points a lot of the times, but he does go for buzz words and "slaps" which ... seems childish kinda. I guess I can't say anything though, cause I'm what you would consider an "unmotivated beta male", so... eh
@@notsure6222 your comment perfectly fits the unmotivated beta male stereotype, too overly sensitive to the details and judgemental to those actually doing the work. I'm glad he swears, slaps, memes and laughs at things. This is how it's done.
@@yoloswag6242 Wtf are you on about mate, I'm not against slapping or mocking people when it fits. I'm saying he does it even when it doesn't, he takes hours to collect his thoughts, he makes up a statement on the go and in such an obvious manner that it's actually anxiety inducing. I'm not overly sensitive to anything, objectively speaking, I am unmotivated. I mentioned it, since I am aware of the audience he attracts, ensuring the incoming comments, would have to look for some other angle on my character. Use your head, I shouldn't have to explain this, we all saw the video, we're commenting under it..
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Thank you for your message, Kevin. Before the show, I thought 'what could a combative single woman teach me?' Then I found the lesson. Great show! I've never bashed the Black man or ever posted anything that puts Black men in a negative light. (Ever) Perception is key. Apologizing, sincerely, is so important. Keep up the great work. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@ogadinma01 nice message sis
@@mrakw7364 Thank you!
DANGER ZONE TOMI!!! Its amazing all the things shes asked men to do are warning of an unfaithful msn. They dont have to tell you they’re single if you’re not blind. The text only, the no planning etc... all red flags 🚩
@@carlforpresidentanthony4574 they get bad boys and they want them to be good boys with them
"only women, children and dogs get loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something." - Chris Rock
What the phuck does he do.
Real Spill McGrill right there
🙌🏽💎🙌🏽
Facts
Do not men expect women to provide peace, sex, stroke their ego? Like, the average man wife HAS to work because they can’t even afford to comfortably provide for their family. Nobody dating you for you providing 😂
I’m not interested in listening to an attractive woman talk about her problems with men. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again: if you’re an attractive woman living in a large metropolitan area and you still can’t find a decent guy, it’s YOUR fault!
AMEN!
That's it- you hit the nail on the head.
TRUTH!!!!!!
Preach
Thank you for your knowledge, big facts!
I love how women have an apartment and a car and that’s what they deem “successful”. No ma’am, that’s just normal adulting.
Amen!
"A pay my own bills"......who else was supposed to pay em?
True lol
koreylr LOL. Your right.
@@koreylr a wealthy man is supposed to pay her bills apparently. However,Tomi passed that option along like a blunt in Snoop Dogg's trailer.😂
Some scream as they see the wall coming, some cry after they hit the wall. This one is screaming as she sees the wall getting closer and closer.
She literally had the guy who was a 10. He was good-looking, had resources, was ambitious, and liked a career-driven woman. He put a damn ring on her finger. And she dumped him. She doesn’t get to complain about not being able to find a real man when she tossed out the guy she claims to want.
He only made 60k per year. He bought her engagement ring on his credit card and returned it. He lost his congressional run as well. I think he's coaching high school or Semi pro soccer now.
@@cedricnicholson7446 are you justifying her decision?
@@surly74 nope, just her hypergomous nature. That’s how females are wired. She thought she could do better so she ended it. It’s her choice but the consequences of that is being single in her late 20’s when there is a crop of younger hotter women coming behind her.
She's now dating J.P Arencibida.
Former Baseball player and now a sportscaster.
@@cedricnicholson7446 you would know exactly what happed To him lmao. Rent free.
"If everyone you meet and talk to are trash, you might actually be the trash."
-Sun Tzu
Lmao!!! Cited straight from the new edition of the Art of War
Don't sound like Sun Tzu.... I need to look this up😏
😲 lmao holy shit
the art of dating.
@@feelingnether158 you guys tell them "get over here!" 🦂
She is the kind of woman that would continue talking to you when have fallen asleep.
she would keep talking to you even if you were dead
😂😂😂
Lol
😂😂😂
Show up at ur house after not responding for a few texts...
We don't care if you're a 10! Having those kinds of attitudes will leave you single forever 🙄
Not many 10’s out there.i can count on one hand how many I’ve seen in my whole life and I’ll be 40 this year.also none of the 10’s I’ve met ever called themselves a ten.
10s dont exist. Dont ever say you seen a 10.
8 at best. 9s are unicorns. 10s arent real
@@erikkibler3466 10s aren't real.
Again 8s at best, 9s are unicorns, 10s are a figment of the scale.
And she's NO 10
She needs to take off the rose colored glasses and see herself for what she is. A 5 at best.
"It'll be a cold day in hell before I chase a man"...men everywhere breath a sigh of relief.
Ironically she'll be in that hell because she refuses to chase a man on her level.
Lol, good one. I go the very strong impression that she had just been dumped by some chad or that he refused to commit to her: and tbh her voice sounds like a u-matic drill - I could imagine it driving anyone crazy....or away.
@@jackspring7709 this is everything that men no longer want anymore. the juice isnt worth the squeeze and you could be nailing a much younger and much hotter lady with much less baggage. reminds me of my almost 50 yo sister who still thinks she is a prize.
So true, she's too much into herself, and why ain't she married to a high value man already?
@@daveelcock9476 I believe she was engaged to a successful guy and she decided to leave him.
The sad truth is, there has been hundreds of men that followed her advice. She friend-zoned all of them…
Very likely facts.
Yup they gave her control over the entire situation. Respect a man's time and space and he will return the favor. Trying to order around a man is good way to be ignored.
She had a high value fiance who adored her and she dumped him. She talks about what a great guy he is, yet she didn't want to marry him because he was "too nice". SMH
Facts
Oh SHIT!!! 🤣🤣😂😂
She is the type of women that would wake up the whole family in the middle of the night to tell them she's going to sleep
😅🤣😂💀
She is 100% the type that will divorce and destroy her family at the 70% rate we see for people under 60 years old (NOT 58% divorce rate which includes ages 60-100 plus).
She is a liar..Lie,lie,and more lies.Then this hypocrital liar sits there and backpedals while she lies..
google images of her without make up, then go to sleep, youll wake up the whole house if she enters your dream without clown paint on.
@@kastelvetro1491 that sounds too scary..Maybe I will peek and then call the police
1. Hmm. Treating others the way you want to be treated. I think I’ve read that somewhere before. LOL
2. Regarding “rudeness,”: Gal 4:16, “So have I become your enemy by telling you the truth?” And Prov 27:6 , “Faithful are the wounds of a friend, But deceitful are the kisses of an enemy.”
Married 58 years. It has been a great ride and it is not over. No check list. Just mutual respect, common goals and common sense.. 😊
That's what is lacking in my marriage
No respect, no common goals, no common sense...
W
That is a phenomenal achievement! Much kudos to you sir!👍👏😊
❤️❤️❤️
Bless king
"Men don't like bossy women. Period." No truer words can be spoken. *Applause*
@Amazing Koala For you to be a good leader, you have to have power and responsibility. Women only want power, without the responsibility that comes with it, which is why they are seen as bossy and not as a leader
That's so very true.
I love how women throw away their gender roles and still expect men to keep theirs. Hypocrisy at its finest.
@@dicebagdaryl Well said.
I have never met a woman that wasn't bossy.
Great stuff. I'm a white guy and I find a lot of black women to be very, very beautiful. No matter what your skin color, a bad attitude negates your beauty.
And thats why black and white girls / western girls arent worth the time of day.
@@evaneichenberger845 and why a lot of Western men are going to Eastern Europe or Asia to find women. They are strong but still feminine and traditional. Feminists dupe women into thinking in order to be strong they have to be masculine.
Demon Fox 095 what about the continent of Africa ? I'm sure they have very beautiful feminine women there as well.
Caoimhín Ó Caoimh Lol 😂 what?
@@demimiller8437 I was in Tunisia last year. The women there are GORGEOUS!! Only maybe 30% wore hijabs and traditional Muslim clothing, the majority wore tight blue jeans and dresses/skirts. About 14 years ago I visited Argentina - absolutely stunning women there! They all seemed to be like size 0 or 2!
When a woman talks loud and fast, I’m out. I don’t do women who love to hear themselves talk.
Chatty Kathy
Amen
Me either
Lol, I can visualize what you're describing. Now that I think about it, I agree, it's tail lights. I guess, subconsciously, I never considered dating or or had any attraction to one, but I can how they can definitely be ruled out quickly with no reservation
Talking loud, fast and smacking her hands.
I hate seeing a lady do that ish
Dating her would be like having a second job, you'd probably get monthly evaluations.
@HERSEY BERRY They don't understand that most men start losing interest about 30 seconds after we've blown our loads.
Sure she has a score card and if you fall below her average rating youll get the boot....She sounds whiny as hell....I stopped listening subconsciously.
Her "good looking" friends being the commitee/jury. 😄
Nah even a second job ain't that stressful 😂
On the wrong five days at that
Funny thing. She had a high-value man, was engaged to him, but she broke off the engagement because 'she wasn't ready'. It's not fun out in them streets 🤣
😭
Facts!
She was ready. She just wants to see if she could do better.
@@BlackandGoldRanger she said it herself.
Oh God😂😅😅
All I have to say is, watching a few of these videos have made me hug my husband a little tighter, and appreciate him more then I already did.
Absolutely!!!!
Same!!! It is absolutely crazy out there!
than*, and AMEN to that!! 🙏🏾
Thank you for the extra love you’ll be giving him queen
A pair bonded man will always reciprocate your love.
She's the type of woman that would ask you if you're cheating while you are sleeping and take your silence as an admission of guilt.
😂😂😂😂
I’m no mathematician but if her and her friends had problems with men for the past 5 years, they’re the common denominator in those situations... 🥃🚬
facts
Lol she breaks down that equation and I immediately thought "the logical answer is your are the problem". Lol
“Sip and smoke”
What value does she have?
Who Tf is this chick 😂 what makes any man want her? 🙃 maybe these dudes aren’t consistent cause y’all ain’t worth the consistency ever think about that 😜
If you’re over 30 still complaining about men, it might be you
Facts
And if you're a man over 30 still complaining about women then it might be you.
@@sayitlikeitis1155 only one of us will ultimately be able to survive out here 🤷🏾♂️
Its not age, it's the other A; its attitude..Attitude can drive away anybody with common sense..
Amen brother. Preach it.
She’s misconstruing her value and trying to tell the market what it should be buying. Unfortunately for her the consumer makes the ultimate purchasing decision.
I wasn’t ready for the moonwalk🤣 🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️
Free market 100%.
And the consumer isn’t shopping for her
Well put
Looks ok
has an expensive label
But the quality is ordinary &
Not fit for purpose
Wear it once
she wants to talk to the manager of the sexual market place
Them F*cking Red Bulls killed Kevin...
100pc true
Yep.
NOPE!
The combination of RB & Viagra took Him out, along with riding under Toxicatholic females.
Red Bull, Viagra and a player lifestyle will be detrimental to your health. His cardiologist would have told him the same thing. Older men beware....🥺
@@JamesWhite-mb8mg
Erectile dysfunction meds + energy drinks will fast track you to an aneurysm, coronary, stroke, or retinal detachment.
This is what happens when ego is bigger than self esteem. She’s an attractive woman but combative. If all the men she chose to entertain are trash, then that would make her a trash bin. You can’t always help who you attract, but who you entertain is always a reflection of yourself. The literal definition of insanity is doing the same thing over & over yet expecting different results. Don’t hate the players, hate the game because it’s clear she doesn’t know how to play. Didn’t she dump her fiancé for someone else just to get dumped herself? 😭
@MaVeRiCk MoDe I think even the SEAL got sick of her shit. She may have just been using his SEAL status as political posturing and dude caught on to it.
@@Thewordoftheswordmin Ww typically don't.
MaVeRiCk MoDe American Soccer Player
@@Thewordoftheswordmin
Look, I keep tellin yall..........that's "The White Gold ": The ultimate female......🙄
What can "Thotiana" teach HER????😂
"Thotiana" probably a Sista, and Chad gon marry HER, instead!🤣
Yup..the game came full circle on her
She tried to upgrade her fiancée but the other guy didn’t want anything serious. So she lost out on both ends 😆
She dragged that "fiance" of hers around like a mannequin, trying to make him into something he wasn't. Ofcourse her project fell apart because it wasn't ever real. She never wanted nor respected him.
crazy im going thru that now. smfh lol. I cant wait till i move outta state and she realize the loser she had all hopes for dont really want her ass and she lost both 😂
@Chris Surdak exactly
Since that SAME scenario so many times. Bro... I honestly think they would rather get nothing.
This woman want a man on a dog leash
Men don't want a quarrelsome woman. They want peace. They've been slaying dragons all day for their family, they deserve some respect and to not be nagged and hollered at when they get home.
I love that
Why I left my wife, absolutely relentless with me and I pay for everything, she doesn't have to do a thing!! 0 respect.
Amen key word "Peace"
@@pelagic6 a woman will let you give her everything you have and not appreciate you because you did it.
@@mangamegs Truth. I didn't realize that until too late. It's ok though, this entire thing has made me turn my life around and make some better life choices. I am a better man because of this.
"My ex-fiance is a saint, he didn't do any of those things - which is why I dumped him."
Exactly! I’d love to know the reasons he told her the wedding was cancelled. I can guess 😂😂😂
Did she really dump him or was it the other way around? Her attitude is terrible and men would rather choose a younger less mouthy woman.
@@debbik30she wanted a guy who made more money then her. Women know if they make more their money is at risk in divorce. Exactly the reason men should never marry.
Miss this man. 😢 He was like an uncle and mentor I never got to meet. Motivated me to step my wardrobe, fragrance up and work more hours and get in the gym. I've dropped 150+ pounds in the last two years just from eating healthy and going to the gym four times a week.
YES.
Do you bruh💯💯💯😎😎😎
damn D, props!
Good for you!
Love the success story. Keep it up
She doesn't realize that she and her friends are side chicks at best.
Agreed, she was dating a pro futbol player and he proposed to her and tomi said no
Why are they the side chicks? Their attitudes?
28 and 30 plus year old side chicks.
😂😂😂😂😂
@Brown Papi YOU NAILED IT!!!!!
I was listening to her describe her friends , their attractiveness and their successful status in life. What she FAILS to mention is they're all narcissistic control freaks who are pampered by the society around them. One that reinforces their false belief systems.
They want to BE the "Man" in a relationship and base everything around status.
She was engaged to a high value dude then left him to try to upgrade. Now shes pissed nobody wants her for more than a smash
They don't seem to understand that a women's Value is also based on her choices & behavior 🤷🏾♂️. We've seen her leave a H.V. guy to try to upgrade. That drops her value to F♤ckable, not Wifeable
@@R-Chillz Men are not going to sign up for something that potentially subjects them to the biased court system with a female that has displayed she has no loyalty,
@@daddywarbuxx5194 Oh, you already Know. 😂
@@R-Chillz Yep
@@daddywarbuxx5194 great point
Yes I am an older man and I think you were calling me trash even though I'm not in your financial bracket
These women want to take the place of a man, and then complain, a man, is not a man, she needs therapy.
She Might Start Swirling...
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
She might've swirled already...peep the body language
@@BluEx22329 classically trained wratchet...that attitude
Before this video I asked an old guy who has worked in psychology for years and he laughed and said it was an interesting question.
I asked if white women want to take down her man and be her man, and black women marched with white women do black women want to like white men?
I have a wife and three kiddos. The thing I value most at home is some peace and quiet. That’s the ‘value’ I value.
Your wife should know this
Agree
Yes sir big facts
It goes BOTH ways... your wife is sick of u, those kids, and your family if their still alive and around. Trust and believe.... she ONLY deals with it because she loves u and don't want to hurt your feelings. She's probably just as exhausted as u are. But will never admit it.
She prob cheating if your not
It’s crazy she never thought that her and her behavior are to blame. She’s a bossy, argumentative woman that most definitely is annoying to be around.
Lol ikr
A narcissist of the lowest order. Interesting just how quickly she retracted much of what she said on that video
She always on the attack mode, when she's on TV. LOL.
Well said man.
Her attitude is pretty much in alignment with most women. She’s the trash. Ignore her.
Can you imagine what it would be like to be married to someone like that, that is self selective torture
Don’t ever take advice from a woman. “You can’t learn how to catch a fish by asking the fish” RIP Patrice
Agree
Lol very true bro
🤔 hey hey Mr. Fish how did you get caught 🐋 no comment 😂😂
Patrice O'Neal was ahead of his time. Especially his analogy about the shark and the Penguin.
Facts bro. No logic, no reasoning
I believe this is a cultural issue rather than a race issue. The women in my family don’t teach how to bash men or disrespect men. They teach how to be women, how to be mothers, how to be wives.
exactly right. Here in Switzerland where I live, women don't behave , don't talk, don't move like women, instead they try to be better men . . . and get really really unhappy and frustrated in the process. The culture has changed since the seventies, that's when tne man-bashing started and now our young men are so insecure and terrified of women that they prefer to play video games or hang with their male friends. When it comes to marriage and family they find their spouses in foreign countries like Thailand or Brazil etc. The Swiss are dying out slowly and that's a good thing ! (I say this as a swiss citizen . . .).
I'm just glad I don't have to participate anymore, I turned sixty in January
so I'm officially an old man now and I deserved the right to be cynical and grumpy . . . Greetz
You are a 'rare bird' indeed. My compliments to your parents.
You are a 'rare bird' indeed. My compliments to your parents.
It's definitely a cultural issue! That's the topic that should really be discussed at length and in-depth. It might not get the ratings though because truth and facts aren't nearly as sensational as the superficial crap people typically gravitate towards in order to console their insecurities.
@@geronimo19611 Did you ever marry? It’s a shame bc Swiss people are generally pretty good looking. French. Italian. German. A good mix. I understand why you wouldn’t marry though.
This brother has a great tailor. His suits are properly built. Respect
The tailor is trash like the man.
@@SeriousV7 man yall women trolls are really butt hurt 😆
I think the same thing every time I see him I can't wait to get this weight off like I want so my suits fit like they use to
@@SeriousV7 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
@ramesh anand he looks like Malcolm X I thought it was his grandson
This Tomi Lahren is a legend in her own mind.
She's the man that she's looking for 💯
😂😂😂😂Yup
😆😆🤣
@@antoinewarren8869 true 😂
@@debbik30 You know the type of women who think like this. "I want a partner who shares my interests. I'm ambitious and career driven. I like to travel domestically and internationally. I'm looking for someone to fit into my life." She's looking for a wife instead of a husband.
“Once I’m turned off, I’m turned off” -TL
Imagine marrying her and then losing half your shit because her erratic mood changed.
Sum Scary shit
@@joreljebre if literally with her. Things would be different coz you'd be getting half of her stuff instead of the other way around.
I totally understand and agree and I’m am old school I come across women that have trust and insecurity issues. I have low tolerance for the kid games 💯💯
Yeah she'd be fun on the weekends but no way I could live with her.
@@kledmohd4230 97% the time it goes to women. Also she won't marry anyone making less than her but nice try
What she’s really saying is “the top 10% of guys we only go after have options and make us mad. The other 80% are completely invisible to us.” 30th birthday changes a lot of things.
😂😂😂😂😂
Can this woman still have kids!? If not, she has absolutely no use.
80% + 10% = 90%
What happened to the other 10%? 🤔
The wall comes regardless of "who you are"
hahhaha GREAT comment. very true
One of the worst things a woman can do is be bossy or tell you what you need to do as soon as you worked a 8+ hour day at work and just walked through the door to get home.... Ladies, that will make your man start coming home late on purpose or pull into the driveway and take 30 minutes to walk in the house because he has to mentally prepare themselves with the B.S.
Especially if the woman has been home all day and hasn't cleaned anything....
Sadly I've been there. Twice.
Same, with my last relationship. Found myself taking the hour long route to walk home vs the usual 20 min one, just for a mental break. All I ended up with was a mental break…down 😂
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.👍
The weak women they have nothing going and never made there own big money there is nothing to be bossy about it as they always had to bee the person who took orders and never made it. Us women who make 6 figures can be bossy as we had to learn to be strong and take care of us, we have castraded, weak men in America.
Can't understand why women need either to be this or that.. i mean either weak or bossy.. what about mid way?..
Women are exactlley like men.. and men and women both need to be just who they are.. but with good character and high morality.. with mutual respect and appreciation for each other as loved life partiner.. be there for each other in good and bad times.. and always in communication as a mean to stay better connected emotionally and intelctually .. and do their best to trust and be avilable and listen to each other all the time and situations with enthusiasm hoping to be source of support happiness and left up factor for their soulmates in life who arr supposed to share with everything they have including body and soul materialistic and spiritual things till death separate them a part as God meant them to be.. amen
Jesus
Again, thank you Mr. Samuels 💯👏 A gentleman elegantly delivering life's messages... RIP my friend.
"I'm a communicator".
[TRANSLATED]
"I never, ever stop talking."
chitchat critter - that is.
😂😂😂
😂shut up and listen!
That's why god gave her "six lips, and only two ears." (Entitled: "privilege." The third leg, of narci- schism. ;-)
😂😂😂
To the last guy that was able to get away from her, you need to send her a thank you card every xmas. You dodged a bullet.
AGREED.
Actually she has to pay him for wasting his time.
Def, what a horrible and poisonous creature
😁🤣🤣😭
Yessss lmao
Kevin's calm thoughtful demeanor taught me more then anything. When you are calm and observant you can think about things much clearer. I am unsure how i feel about Tomi talking here i like her but, it seems a bit shallow the things she describes that will make her happy, the primary requirements of a successful career how that will last for long what happens if the man loses his job it's over? I find her very attractive physically to each his own, but i feel like there was a bit of callus falseness in her words not even intentional which is unfortunate.
Maybe two weeks of thinking about it isn't really enough to know who you really want as a partner for the rest of your life.
or
Maybe her standards aren't too high, maybe they are too low.
When she's talking about happening to her "friends," she really means it happened to her.
This is what immature people do when they try to support their argument with "most of my friends" or "I know a lot of people who" etc etc....
@@calidag At least she protects her head from the sun 😀
@@calidag immature and stupid . Because they don’t have the Bain power for it
Simple she is over accomplished and that's what she's looking 4...good luck...accomplished man are not looking for a headache or arguing non stop...and that what u get with her...at 40 she'll have 3 cats still looking.
Man in general not looking for a pain in the rear....good luck Tom boy Lauren not searching to be pegged by u.
Peace
Yep. 'All the women I talked to...' Don't believe for a moment she seriously talked to any.
I’m glad I’m watching Kevin at 21 saved me a lifetime of Trouble 🙏🏿
Your troubles just started listening to him
@@letgomyego your profile name suits you! Lmao
huh? please go to therapy if you really wanna save yourself a life time of trouble
@@letgomyego how do lol he can live in peace and do what he pleases. Nothing wrong with that.
@Sasha Gareau-Davis congrats you’ll be 17 at your next birthday! Fucking facts don’t care about feelings
"She's a solid Honda Accord and she wants Mercedes prices." I love car analogies that totally hit the mark.
Honda civic
Nah, she aint a Honda Accord. a Honda Accord is a well made, moderately priced, unassuming get-the-work-done car. she's an Alpha-Romeo who wants to be a Rolls Royce. and that shit dont work. not with AR's build quality.
@@bluemoondiadochi She's a Chrysler 300 thinking she's a Rolls Royce
She's a bee. Always buzzing in someone's ear.
Dodge neon
Nice room, nice desk, very nice suit... Sir you got style
"that woman has such a nice career on her"....said no man ever
Oh shiiit her degrees just send me 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Lol. Look at the morals on that broad. I could smell her good intentions from across the room. Haha. Men are visual creatures 1st.
I know men that are drawn by beauty and only stayed because she was ambitious and intelligent.
@@HiitSquadTv That's not the norm. There are exceptions to every rule but those dont negate the standard.
@@jeremysears4263 You are drawn to a woman’s beauty- so you commit to her, desire to have kids with her, build a legacy with her JUST because she’s beautiful?
This man is a legend. He will be dearly missed
I remember catching the live every time he broadcast. TH-cam isn’t the same without him.
what happpened with him??
@@scorpioninjutsu697 He died
When where how he died??
@@scorpioninjutsu697 I think may 5th, he had hypertension
There’s a real reason why she’s unmarried at her age, and she just sat there and displayed it for the whole world to see.
Mr. Samuels, your work is very much needed during these times - A breath of fresh air in a world where people are afraid to breathe
It’s very much needed. May he Rest In Peace. We really need him now more than ever.
Wait he's passed?! 😢 I just recently found him so I didn't know
I’m a granny and this girl is a pain in the ass. I’ve got a long list of amazing men, including my son and grandsons, who have blessed my life. This country is full of good men. She’s the problem.
let's go granny
She the kind of self-centered woman i try to stay away from. It's all about her and her values when her purpose in life to find love. That's why she by herself now and will continue to be.
I had a GF like this IN HIGHSCHOOL WHEN I WAS A YOUNGIN, shame she's acting the same way, except she's an adult lmao
Preach it, Gran!
Let's Go Granny!
Damn I wish I would have discovered this guy sooner. Seriously a tragic loss.
Maybe his legacy will be a reason to change the whole dynamic between men and women to the better end.
Me too wished I had found out about him much sooner.
Yep. He fulfilled his mission
Yes sir he was awesome! I come back this video often!
He is legend! Legends die early!
She was engaged and ready to get married! Hypergamy kicked in, dumps her fiancé, trades up for Chad then gets pumped and dumped after a month....🤣🤣
maybe...
maybeee ... i can do better xD
@@reinoldi1097, exactly!🤣🤣
Unfortunately, the wall is undefeated!
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I don't feel sorry for her...let her know Trumps about to be single...tell her 2 head on over
@@yungstar006, 🤣🤣
yep she handed back a $50k engagement ring, looking for a $150k engagement ring probably
She telling Chad to be like Brad- but blaming Brad for not being Chad.
Now you're starting to see what men have been saying and dealing with since the start of mankind. It sucks when the rabbit gots the gun. Keep growing men. Value yourself. Put yourself first.
Thank you sir. That’s the dam truth.
RIP my boy Kevin Samuel... i come back and tap in every here and there.. his content was just golden.
Yes it was
Not was, it still is golden, and it will always be, because it’s truth.
@@meathead207 a truth some can't handle
@@meathead207 you absolutely right bro
This man passed away???! I just started following him a few days ago. Dang it 😢
“She’s a solid Honda Accord and wants Mercedes prices” 🤣
😂😂😂that took me out
I think she’s a Mercedes. High maintenance charges and in the shop too often. Lemme get that accord 😉
Most are
Not even that my boy Ford ranger 90 s edition
Hondas are reliable durable, and as long as you treat them right they will last forever. I can't say the same for Tomi. She's more like a PT Cruiser. Cute on the outside but on the inside plenty of electrical and mechanical issues.
I'm 11 minutes in, and her voice, demeanor, cadence, wow... I can't do it
80% of women chase 20% of men. This is the definition of hypergamy. She, and her friends, are all chasing the same type of guy. He has his choice of women, and is in no rush to settle down. Hence, he plays the field, and women get their feelings hurt. Meanwhile, the other 80% are pretty much invisible to most women, and they would actually treat her/them right. If she wants a HVM, she has to compete..
So, she and her friends are playing a game that they can't really win. No tears will be shed for them because they have the world handed to them on a platter. It ain't rocket science: She needed to get her HUSBAND in college and not play around but she chose to roll the dice and chase a career as a political pundit. Insert the fail horn from The Price is Right..
she wants to talk to the manager of the sexual market place
@Dah Langston don't be mistaken, the bottom 80% are constantly battling their way up, replacing those in the top 20%. But our treatment of these hypergamous women is going to be far worse, you can count on that. Men remember exactly how women were treating them when they were in the bottom 80%. It's a cycle.
@Dah Langston
Where in his comment is he "complaining"?....So telling the truth is complaining??
@Tiren Mickens
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"Men don't like bossy women...period". Hit the nail right on the head.
And any women can be bossy, just like any men can be weak.. it has nothing to do with colorizing.. I think it's a Gender thing the issue we have today is that is almost illegal to talk about the differences between men and women thanks to the equality propaganda..
@@lilamayoral1031 obviously
@@metalstorm45 it's not that obvious for those who think she sounds like a black woman.. sounds just like many women..
@@lilamayoral1031 you still haven't said anything I disagreed with.
@@metalstorm45 it's hard to tell sometimes on comments
Imagine coming home from a hard day at work and you have to deal with a woman like her.
I’d draw and make art and eat and say yes while I draw and paint 😂🤦♂️💀🙄.
Exactly...if you can't enjoy peace and quiet in your own home...time to remove all the negativity.
This woman is a GPS straight to your side chicks house.
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Im a low value man, i walked away from my thin blonde white woman. Even i have standards how im gonna be treated. I might be low value but im not trash!
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The fact that you know you are low value already puts your value above these women
I don’t believe you’re a low value man. I hate that now society is calling each other high or low value. That is just making everyone more crazy. You need the right woman and she will see all of your values. ❤
@ I know my value. I’m a great person, but in the context of sexual market place value I am low value. Just as if I were in a NBA line up, I wouldn’t be sought over. That doesn’t take away from my value in other aspects of life or even suggest no one would play ball with me. Reality is reality though. Ignoring that will hold you back because you’ll waste your time and energy in places you shouldn’t be.
Salute!!
I'm a white guy, and my ex had a very similar attitude / personality in a lot of ways to Tomi Lahren.
While I did appreciate and respect her drive, career achievements and her ethical standards, and I was good and loyal to her out entire time together (about 8 years)...I was never able to truly put my heart in to the relatrionship becauase at the end of the day she was a ball breaker, and I knew deep down inside that if I married her I'd ultimately be buying in to a life of eternal misery.
She constantly expected me to take steps to change who I was into the person she wanted me to be. She couldnt get along with my friends of family because they "weren't on her level". She disapproved of any hobbies I had because she felt they weren't productive.
iI've always said that a relationship should never feel like hard work. It shouldn't feel like a chore. It should enhance your life, make you feel happier and more fullfilled then you do when you're single. If it doesnt do that then what's the poiint? You may as well be single.
So in less words you waisted 8 years of your life and hers on something you knew it wasn't going to work. Wow, that is a crazy level of stupid.
Because of what your ancestors have done to the natives. This entitlement will not last forever, first things must be overturned here for all to thrive. We must do away with the societal norms
@@numbers5796 Wtf are you on man ? 😂
Damn it took 8 years to realize that tho? It took me a month to realize similar toxic traits
U weren't equally yoke at all
This poor woman doesn't realize that any possible suitor is going to watch all these videos online and wisely elude her company forever more. No man watching her video would say "what an attractive woman!" or " I can't wait for her to boss me around the rest of my life."
true
Ikr?!
Dam you hit that on the head. Totally unattractive
@Jerrell Johnson they’re only there for sex , not commitment, once they get bored of her they will move on to the next “ queen” , she’s downgraded to a fetish, that’s a fate worst than loneliness.
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If even Tomi Lahren who is the quintessential westernized standard of beautiful is not getting the attention of HVM, this isn't just a colorism thing. She's infamous for her snarky attitude. She apologized, but would her opinion be any different if it weren't for needing to do damage control? Out of the heart, the mouth speaks. In a nutshell: Tomi ain't special, she's no exception to the rule.
Bingo. Women should strive to be feminine to get good men.
@Cairo A. It's about gender, not race. The narrative is the same: man bad, woman victim.
I love this, keep going strong independent women, I can’t get enough of women reaching for the stars and getting lost in space
Left her fiance for a bigger catch and got dumped! She's so mad!
That’s because she’s so “successful”, “intelligent”, and “has a lot going on” . 😂😂😂
She’s pathetic and not as hot as she thinks. I wouldn’t give her the time of day, if I had a watch....
As a woman that look she gave at start of video had so many red flags haahha she looks demented
You called it!
I believe Jp actually made a post appreciating her. I actually wished it was that he dumped her, because how she treated the guy she was before.
What is simpin?
Bottom line ladies, if a man is interested in you he will pursue, he will call, he will text, he will plan. If you feel like you need to tell him to do these things, then he really isn't interested in you for anything other than a booty call.
TRUTH!!!
100 percent true. I am not sure why it's so hard for some women to understand. Acknowledge the red flags and if he doesn't show real interest, move onto the next one. That's exactly what I do. I like people who like me.
@@latebloomer177 it’s hard because these women believe that they should have preferences and men should not. They want certain men and they are entitled enough to think that these men should worship the ground these women walk on.
on top of that, if a man is ambitious for more and/or he is earning 6 figures he doesn’t have time to be consistent with a female and chase her every week
Amen! Amen! Amen! Amen
I am a single black man. I've been listening to Kevin Samuel for about a month now. He's a blessing to women if they're willing to listen and take heed to what he is saying. Most of the women I have met are like the ones on his show. He makes me laugh sometimes with his straight talk and honesty. I work with attorneys all the time. My son is an attorney, I have nothing against attorneys, but I will never marry an attorney. When Kevin said on one of his podcast that men run for the hills when they find out that their date is an attorney, I laughed my butt off because it's true.
Out of curiosity, why?
@@NPDrives Because of the shit attitude it takes for them to be an attorney and what they do to become one (have a body count that rivals that of a 42nd St. prostitute in the 80's).
So you're an old single man?
@@uyoebyik what are you assuming? One of a million events can make an older person single, including death of a loved one. I like how loaded your question is, like “so you’re a loser?”
I know why, because them bitches gonna argue about everything 😆
After 3 min listening, i have a headace🤦♂️
Her rant just made her the poster child of TOXIC FEMINITY. Call her out, call them all out, name what it is and share it with everyone.
Thank you never even thought about that, its time to call them all out on their b.s
I posted Tomi Lauren’s rant on my Facebook page to bait the single women on my friends list. Now I know who I can date and who I can’t. 😂😂😂😭😭😭😝😝😝😜😜😜
I prefer the term "Toxic Feminist" but I agree 👍
All my friends are successful, pretty and have great personalities - yet they are all still single and lonely 😭🤣
lol well that's mens fault ofc
They have great personalities to you the type of men they want probably don’t feel that way lol…
All my friends are pretty, successful, and have great personalities? Yeah right?.. my mother always said "it's a poor cook that won't praise his/her own pot"
@@terrickjohnson6376And her and her friends are 10 kinds of crazy!
Jordan Peterson said that successful people usually end up alone because they put hard work to become successful so they don't really have time to be looking for their mate
“She wants a high value man and she wants to be treated like a high value man” 😂
well worded!
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😂that tickle me lol🤣
😂 the delusion
Why is “value” only about money (regarding men), and physical attractiveness (regarding women). Literally everything else is more important and “valuable” than having a lot of money and being pretty. See yourself and others through God’s eyes. That’s the key. The unconditional love that God has for us is where we derive our REAL VALUE.
I don't know who you are, but I couldn't agree more. I'm not a rich man, but I am a man!
@@KimDsmom Absolutely
@@adamgd34 Not all of us! (There's a whole other "world" out here. You can choose the one in which you want to participate.)
@@adamgd34 😉👍🏼
Tomi friends sound so amazing that they can take care of themselves just fine. Why even date or have a family when you are that amazing? Tomi turned down a guy that gave her a diamond ring worth 50k. Tomi and her friends can be amazing together and alone!
It's amazing how all these women who would make great husbands are single! It is almost like men don't want husbands, and no woman actually wants the few ' men ' who do want husbands.
She made valid points. She said be determined, successful, driven, goal, and put in work not just text her is Gold! I would think men would consider that a quality woman, if that's what you are looking for. Now if you looking for fun she said thotianna 🤣🤣🤣 I found nothing wrong with what she said. I think the problem is when a woman doesn't know her worth, that's when yall have some real damn problems. I said know worth not be arrogant or talk shit about decent men, the 2 don't equate. I agree with him when said women have lowered the dating standard.
I see it frequently. Once again. Women have to know their worth as in God, spirituality. Women are to prepare while men are the seekers. Get yourself prepared to be sought. That means work on YOU, God will send you a proper seeker. Careful not to trash the men you are preparing for. Now how is God going bless that???
@@BlaydeAlabama the problem is what she put value on in women: careers. She didn't mention God, cooking, or being pleasant. Honestly that is something that women seem to have totally forgotten, women used to be proud of their social skills and ability to make pleasant conversation with anyone, rather than expecting men to chat them up. Anyway, her negative descriptions of thotianna were not based on character, but lack of career, her thotiannas were probably better wife material, while her together girls probably includes REAL thotiannas. It's like guys complaining that no woman wants nice guys, they just want creeps who happen to have great careers.
@@vidard9863 sad those are the things men put women down for. With men constantly using woman as the punch line of their jokes for those traits can you be surprised women want to be better than that? Do you like being a joke??
@@noneyabusiness33 alright, so you have established that you are not a man and don't know what men say or joke about. Cool. What's your point? You think that I will stop working out because someone makes a joke about Meatheads? I'll stop liking what I like because someone makes a joke about nerds? If what you said was true no women would get jobs, because career women are the jokes, and the ones we text at two in the morning after the bar closes. If you laugh at me, the world is just a more pleasant place, you smiled and I cut you out of my life, we both win. Again what's your point?
As a father of 3 young children, 1 boy and two girls not older than 13 yrs old, I find this videos from KS extremely educational. He passed away, but have left his mark for others to follow, learn and teach. I'm learning so I can pass this knowledge unto my kids as they'll reach adulthood. Thank you.
High value for men doesn’t mean the same for women. For women it’s money for men it’s beauty and women skills
Women have been duped by the system. The system has taught Women to earn because the system is flawed bad. Women are innately nurturing but the system has taught them to be hard earners as men historically have been. It doesn't work when the 2 meet.
@@marcusmackerl6601 Ion think they heard you bro 🤝
You right
@@True_Judah you know the saying “ A HARD HEAD, MAKES A SOFT BUTT!!!!” Now, she wants to clean it up. OK!!!!
Replication quotient
My experience is women never date down. Money,education or looks. They want the bigger better deal. They've made their own bed. They don't want good guys who are loyal. While bad guys abuse them.
Usually these type of women are no fun. Relationships seemed forced and boring, almost like a horrible job where you hate your boss.
Horrible bosses was a good movie😉
exactly, every guy who sees that video will view dating her as torture
Yes because it's so structured. Someone like her is a pain in the @$$
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Yo! That is so true. Basically, you are there to meet her financial agenda or life goals, so she cracks the whip.
Men never have to worry about "making plans," with a woman who is totally interested in him and wants to be with him. His time is precious to her and her window of affection for him is always open or can be opened. It's never closed when you are important to her.
Facts
That is a fact..she will MAKE herself available to you.
Honestly @davis Sinclair that’s BS.
I can’t tell you how many times I got women by PLANNING and being ASSERTIVE with what I wanted to do with a woman v fly by night spontaneous BS dudes.
It was easy- those other dudes weren’t in my league and it showed.
You want your time respected- RESPECT other ppl’s time
@@hanselbeckfordjr7530 Being assertive with your intentions is one thing. Planning a date on the whims of her interest level for you is another thing. Nowadays, she's gotta meet me half way at least, the first time out that is.
No smart man in todays dating climate goes by the extravagant date planning methods of yesteryear when you don't even have a fraction of knowledge of her being worthy of your efforts. Ain't no BS about it.
Is it the same vise versa
What Tomi and other women don’t realize is when men have access to sex so easily now you have to really stick out to be considered a mother type of figure. That’s the game now.
I’m sorry can you expand? Not being rude but wondering what you mean stick around to be considered a mother type figure.
@@KierraLovesHipsters you might understand better if you learned how to read. He said stick out not stick around
@@coryhill6575 why are you being rude? It was just a question lmaoo and I would still like him to expand
@@KierraLovesHipsters it's also rude to misquote people. Read carefully and then ask questions
@@coryhill6575 ok my question is still their lmao
No Man wants to come home to a Boss Woman who will constantly criticize and compare every aspect of their being to other Men. We want Peace, Love & Appreciation :)
"She's a solid Honda Accord and she wants Mercedes-Benz prices." - Kevin "The Godfather" Samuels.
Nice name.
Gold
The Honda gets better with age , modern Mercs hit the wall early.
What? She's hot, smart, rich and successful. Owns several of her own homes, cars and a plane. So if she's a Honda what are you dating? Did she hit a nerve with you?
Kevin’s death feels like losing the captain in the team. There’s hardly 20 men in the world speaking bravely for masculinity
Right? What a coincidence that he dropped dead in his prime.
More like the captain of captains around our collective circles.
Unfortunately we might not run into alot in the real world but there’s a few solid ones online
The closest one, who also talked a lot with Kevin and gives him a lot of credit, is Stephen Ronald Bell.
But he’s not trying to do a similar thing online.
His perspective is a little different, but his message is very similar.
Try the Greenskin: Undead Chronic
this woman is complaining about everything women have been doing to men. flaking, not being consistent, talking to 7 guys at once with different occupations. its a mess but its our faults as men.
100%. I have had so many times where a woman will constantly text me and any time I try to make plans to meet up (usually the first or second time meetup), they aren't about it, but will keep texting. Women are also crazy inconsistent and flakey. Tomi talks about planning days in advance, yet that doesn't work out a lot and the woman is "busy" when the day comes, even though 2 or 3 days ago, her schedule was open.
Big facts. I took my notes seeing how women were navigating the dating market and started to do the same thing. Can’t get mad at a playa playing.
himode you summed it up perfectly. All the things Tomi claims men are doing are things that many women do.
himode That Accountability 😀
@@btw-3006 I am having that happen now... she KEEPS texting off and on. We were suppose to meet last Sat at 4pm... 5 hours later.. give me a little longer ..lol, told her "We're going to reschedule.. I'm going out with a 'friend'" ... two days later, ..more texts... I am scheduled to go out with next Sat... let's see how this goes. If she doesn't come this Saturday I will be calling her out on it.
I really think she made good points. She addressed a real problem. There are women who don’t want to be played with, and are looking for a solid relationship. She was addressing a lackadaisical type of man, who likes easy women. She really wasn’t poking at all men. She was addressing some great points. Great list.
I agree. She is happily married now. But people in this comment section are so bitter, they are not listening. They prefer to hate on women with standards. Except for the "men are trash" comment, I see nothing wrong with her list. Men need to level up.
Her voice and the tone is screaming “ I am the queen of Karens”
She really is tho
Naw the Bottom line is she is white.. Differnet cultures have different issues based off different demographics.. Im from the hood but went to high school and college with ALL white ppl. Its totally different circumstances..... They have different issues dealing with white men who are deemed and propagated the savior of society.. Shes dealing with white men who are successful.. They have ALOT of women... & she having trouble dealing with that....
According to her, her orbiting simps called to agree with her. LOL
...BEFORE THAT THEY WERE ALL...''B-E-C-K-Y-S---'''...!
That’s just who that racist is
For every woman that is of high value and a 10, there is a man who is tired of hitting it.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂that's true and it's tiring and unrealistic
DAMN YOU SPOKE SO MUCH TRUTH THEY READ YOUR COMMENT AND KEPT STROLLING👈🏿😂😂
It has the same energy as sensory overload. High value women are like that chick that wolverine had to kill, all the stuff you have wade through just for a taste
Strange...........When men say this to women..........we are told its not enough. Karma is hitting in 2020 for these females from the poorest to the richest. Her reaction is showing that they are starting to realize that men are DONE with the foolishness.
Sir It Is The RED Pill Revelation...
Millie Damus She sounds like one
Of course you would believe her words.
@@milliedamus888 Mr. Samuels is tryna tell yall Sistas..................................but....Ok Millie. Believe that dream they sold you.
Millie Damus 🤡🤡🤡
She doesn’t understand that she’s masculine, has attitude, is a career woman…everything we don’t want…so instead of correcting her behavior she’s going to act like it’s a man’s fault…gimme a break…
`she keeps talking about how her circle are all ambitious and successful. that's why they all single. because they have it all and wont compromise. men wants to come home to a wife, NOT another job. she sounds & looks like a job.
"She sounds and looks like a job" Gonna have to remember that one
Facts!!
Finish work and come home to enter an arena to have combat with a feminist, no thank you.
@@LiftOffLife 😅
Her whole squad are side chicks or probably the ones you call when no one else is available lol everything about her screams entitled and annoying
He tried to elevate the standards for BOTH men and women.... thanks for your insights and teachings... REST IN POWER 🙏
Why do people say Rest in Power?
@@xokelis0015 don't think she would know ppl tend to copy and paste
@@xokelis0015that's our thing. Don't try to understand lol
This man is a national treasure. He actually tells women the truth and gets away with it. Props.
I don't think I'd go that far, that "we gotta get these likes up" part made him seem not genuine to me. I do acknowledge that he makes a lot of valid points a lot of the times, but he does go for buzz words and "slaps" which ... seems childish kinda.
I guess I can't say anything though, cause I'm what you would consider an "unmotivated beta male", so... eh
@@notsure6222 your comment perfectly fits the unmotivated beta male stereotype, too overly sensitive to the details and judgemental to those actually doing the work. I'm glad he swears, slaps, memes and laughs at things. This is how it's done.
@@yoloswag6242 people learn less when you try to dance around their emotions i appreciate the boldness in his speach.
@@yoloswag6242 Wtf are you on about mate, I'm not against slapping or mocking people when it fits. I'm saying he does it even when it doesn't, he takes hours to collect his thoughts, he makes up a statement on the go and in such an obvious manner that it's actually anxiety inducing.
I'm not overly sensitive to anything, objectively speaking, I am unmotivated.
I mentioned it, since I am aware of the audience he attracts, ensuring the incoming comments, would have to look for some other angle on my character. Use your head, I shouldn't have to explain this, we all saw the video, we're commenting under it..
@@notsure6222 i think he uses those things for entertainment aswell. It is a show after all.
She back peddled so fast.....the chain on her bicycle fell off !