This woman at my job told me I'm nice looking but she won't date me because she has a reputation for dealing with high value men... A week later I got promoted to management and now she's chasing me trying to give me her number. I told her I have a reputation and can't date her 😆
It's funny I got married at 23 was in the military making 39k a year in the early 2000's, wife left me for another man. Her reason and I quote, "I shouldn't be mad that she wants to be with a man that could provide for her." To add a little context, he was also in the military just a higher rank. Fast forward, I own my own cybersecurity vulnerability, and policy compliance firm. I'm in the top 5% of earners currently engaged to an amazing woman. She's twice divorced with 3 children and messages me weekly about how much of a mistake she made. All I do is thank the heavens she left me, lol.
Hey dude look Kevin would drag ur ass if he saw you telling him how ta run his shit.. so don't come barging ur ass here telling my smart role model how ta keep his own plate form damnit..
What does he mean by not talking to a woman he wouldn't date. I acknowledge the men in my presence. I don't want to date any of them but it's polite to say greeting.
@@geovanajalio4200 talk meaning she non attractive with no value to you as a man in the long run BUT SHE GOT ASS ...that's gotta stop with us men ESPECIALLY Brothas that I am and have done as well. I gotta be greater if I want greater
So true we lost a legend fellas. Way too soon for our brother Kevin to leave us, but he left us with a lot to learn from. Rest in paradise brother Kevin🙏🏾
I know a woman who is a police officer, and she was very masculine. During an argument, I asked her if she spoke to her sargeant or lieutenant like she does me. Her answer was no. She still didn't get it. Control yourself for me, like you do for them. Men speak with anger before a fight. Men have boundaries with each other, and because you're a woman, you can't do what you want to do. Most of these women do not see themselves as ghetto, but you are.... Neither of my grandmother's wore pants either.
i got a better one for ya...i'm a genX (49F) and NEITHER of my grandmothers ever drove a car nor did they ever open a car door. I also want to say that 5 yrs ago i went on a 3 dates, a 54 yr old, a 27 yr old and a 34 yr old. They all were liars and stepped over set boundaries. I'm a lady and told them all to step. Been celibate again for another 5 yrs.
@R&V what's even more pathetic is that black women like you are too hardheaded to see what they are doing wrong and why exactly they are the least married.
Bro, I get called a coon all the damn time by my family mainly from the women and it’s so damn sad. I say the same things Kevin does and they say “you must hate yourself because yo mama is black like us!”… so damn annoying. Then they wonder why I don’t even want to date black women anymore! For what? More than likely I’ll get stuck with the type of black woman that calls on here to argue with Kevin
And, to think a Black dude tried to convince me that all Black women are our wives. Which, would mean even the already married ones are obligated to submit to us. We all know how men are at playing second fiddle to another man when it comes to women, ironically😆
She is representing the Black women whether she admits it or not. We all represent that every time we present ourselves. We need to hold ourselves to a higher standard!!
“If you look like you’re going to the club you’re gonna get club behavior” Thank you!! you can wear whatever you want but don’t get mad at how you’re treated because of it
Same thing with everything. Body count, fashion, and even having children.... it is called consequences for your actions. "Yeah but, I was young and stupid" was never a valid means to regrow an amputated leg.
Woe-men ='s women. I have noticed a pattern. Women stop trying to FIND things to WORRY about. You can't control outside. Don't worry about things you can't control if it isn't personally effecting YOU. Idk how many times I have had to tell women to, " Get out of the window"......" Mind your business "......." Don't tell people your negative thoughts about other people and DON'T listen to gossip".
I'm white. I wish I had Kevin when I was in my 20s. Would have saved me a lot of grief (If I listened to him and believed). As men, no one really tells us what to expect with women. We end up learning through painful experience. And that woman who said white people control how black people are portrayed, like it's some giant conspiracy. No, we all know it's all about the money. If they could make more money portraying black people with wings flying like angels then guess what every movie would feature. They don't give a fart about what they do so long as it makes the green.
A lot of women don’t believe their ishhh stink because they got a lot of yess ma’am’s (friends and associates etc esp this this government ).in their circle .. no man can work peaceful In a hostile environment 🤔🤷🏾♂️🤦🏿
Like Kevin said, coming on to a live stream being angry, argumentative, confrontational, and masculine is not a way to disprove the "angry black woman" stereotype. The first two women are so unaware of their masculine behavior. Imagine how that first woman talked to her THREE husbands. Imagine being on a date with the woman on the second date. These are the type of women who embarrass you in public and the excuse is, "I'm just like that". It's pitiful.
Yes, it is impossible to disprove the "angry black female" stereotype when you are angry, black, and female. It's also as effective to get your message across as a preacher would be able to teach about the love and joy of Jesus while standing at the pulpit giving his congregation the evil eye over a grumpy face. Also, regarding that last part, I never got the people who use that line to excuse their crazy friends... "that's just her, I don't be/think that way." (After cheering them on.)
@@Maninawig Those black guys get close to a woman A min. Then start to jab. At their very souls. So the women Put up that barbed wire fence On them. Then the men say She's crazy and call them Other degrading names. They come back if they have no place else to go. Sad men using.
As annoying and embarrassing as these women are I'm actually thankful for them. Years ago I had to make a decision. Either keep having casual sexual relationships or get married. I'm so thankful I wisely chose to get married to a traditional woman. I don't want to imagine being single today dealing with these types of modern women. I couldn't stand to be around modern women long enough to even get to the sex let alone serious relationship. Claude!
The part about the long nails and weave is so accurate. That's an instant disqualification for me. I won't even give a woman the time of day if she got weave, spider eyelashes or those raptor claws. Thats a hard pass!!
@@jamalmatthews4854 she said almost 50 and she mostly definitely there’s woman out there who look like very young for there age u ever heard of nia long or Halle berry ? Have u seen Toni Braxton there almost 50 or hit there early 50s and look good u don’t have to be face or have some money to take care of her body or have good genes and look good
We women are rebellious and prideful to the max. It's amazing to think that a wretched culture has become the" black" culture because it used not to be like that. We have fallen very far into deepest ditch. Lord help us learn to .help ourselves.
They get mad because they can’t get their way lol 😂 UPDATE: guys I truly appreciate the likes I didnt know my comment was going to get this many likes so thank all of you for them! 😎💯
@@last7509 These new females want to be equal so bad but when it’s time to move the couch they turn into cry babies lmao 😂 I really don’t get it I thought these females were strong and independent lol 😂
@fitzwilliams - Yes society has brainwashed people into believing people who wear suits are better than someone who wears jeans/ t shirt but it's just the exterior, a mask. Many preachers wear a suit and women go crazy for them but they are hustlers. Many world leaders wear suits and send their soldiers to die for no good reason and they wear suits. Not saying you're a bad guy :)
I am 1am a 75 years- young Christian woman, and I listen to you every day at some point. I have been a VOLUNTEER CHAPLAIN since 1970. I deal primarily with women, and what you say here is so TRUE!!!! I share your sessions, and this is definitely one to share!!! We couldn't leave the house without our hair combed, NO BONETS, etc. I could go on and on, but the bottom line is I'm PROUD of you as a MAN and more so, because you REPRESENT us.💕 I
@Vienna Sausage if you tell me it’s raining outside and I haven’t been out there how can I say you not telling truth🤔I don’t know her and I know several people with shifty eyes and it’s not because they telling a lie😂You bitter if you feel errrr woman telling a lie
Kevin’s facial expressions have always been priceless. If it wasn’t for that, I would turn his show off every time one of these horrible women came on. They are insufferable, terrible, selfish, disgusting individuals.
I just enjoy somebody thats not afraid to hold women accountable. As soon as a man holds a black woman accountable he is crucified by black women whether she was wrong or right. Its outright embarrassing and Mr. Samuels exposes them for their BS everyday. This is so important to our culture right now
That’s why we MUST support him. He’s elevating the entire black community. A lot of women understand, but won’t speak on it. The one’s that don’t will eventually enjoy elevation of the community in the years to come.
Kevin says modern women when he’s referring to all races. But black American culture is a matriarchy at best but some would call it a gynocracy so the disfunction is ramped up. That’s why self respecting men date out of the culture.
Hello Mr. Samuels, I've been watching your channel for months and you have added to my perspective of the black community. I am a white veteran who has served with people of all ethnic backgrounds and see the actions and ways I have been treated by people from all over the world. When you speak about ethnic image you are absolutely correct about the gut reaction others have when they view certain types of dress, actions, attitude etc even before a word is spoken. When someone takes an attitude it is disconcerting but when they add being dressed as if they are looking for a brawl it is the natural reactions of anyone to avoid this person and by human nature will assume trouble follows that person. Most people of any race prefer to avoid conflict and will go out of their way to not interact. Human nature being what it is, portraying aggressiveness and/or slovenly, argumentative image negates any attempt to be social and willingness to get to know the real character of the individual. This is truth for all people. As a veteran I have lived and served with blacks who understand we are all brothers in society even with our own preferences for our own ethnic cultures, which is natural among all people around the world. If we can't find cohesiveness among our own cultures how can we find peace and respect for each other? We have more similarities than differences. When we focus on differences, perceived or real, it is labeled as racism rather than anger for being treated as if we are to blame for ... fill in the blank from the list of grievances continually cited. When you talked about suit Saturdays you pointed out that people are more responsive, agreeable and treat you better because you present yourself as being professional, which by extension assumes you will conduct yourself in a socially acceptable manner, ie non-threatening, polite, courteous to others around you. I wish more people would listen to this advice and repeat it to the people they know, it would make our society a better place. I cannot and will not speak about the black community as I am ignorant of the experience and it is not my place. My purpose in writing you was to acknowledge the truths you speak and to acknowledge those truths overlap into other cultures because they are truths. Facts are facts and cannot be displaced by any amount of wishful thinking. Keep up the good work.
Rest in Power Mr. Samuel's. Glad I was able to find you back in late 2019 when I was in the darkest, and lowest point in my life. I was on probation, living at moms house on the couch, and on the verge of losing it all. Thanks to you, I am now at a way better job I cam call a career, making $30/hr, and a whole door of opportunities just opened with alot of people who also followed you and personally socialized with you. You are truly missed in every community 😢❤👑✊🏽
I just stumbled on Kevin about a month ago just prior to his death. I am so sad he left this world too early. What a treasure. I have learned so much about the black culture. It truly is not about colour… it is all about culture. Attitude is everything.
@@EveryoneHasAVoice Heh... I get married women hitting on me almost daily... it's sad. I feel bad for the husbands whom are mostly willfully ignorant or oblivious. I believe less than 1% of women are actually loyal... and even that's being nice
I love how the girl around 20:00 who thought the evil white devil was responsible for everything really thinks she's any different than most black women. Kevin's face when he let her go off was beyond priceless
ESTHER ROLLE’S TENACITY When Lear approached Esther with the script for the show, she refused to take the job unless they included a paternal figure in the series who would be Florida’s husband and the father of her children. This is what KS is talking about. Rolle was willing to turn down her roll as Florida Evans in Good Times.
Esther was talented and skilled in the craft of acting. And the discipline to get that good can also build certain understandings of value and perspective. One of the challenges today is that there are no comparable disciplines in order to be on a 'reality' show about ratchetness. I remember when the trash tv of the 80s and 90s were soap operas, but nearly all of those shows are out of business because exec's were/are able to pay far less, to non-actors, and get as good viewership. Yet the lesser amount of money these non-actors receive is still significantly more than they (and those of their ilk) would've gotten otherwise, so there's a large amount that want in for either that money or perceived clout/fame. It's similar to sweat shops in impoverished places. If one person doesn't want to take the job, there are 10 more kids desperate for the little bit of money. It boils more down to who consumes the product. So cutting off that head is key.
Agreed. Yes, but they still managed to kill him off in less than 2 seasons of Good Times. John Amos didn’t like the clown buffoonery antics producers wanted to push with Jay Jay and the cast, etc. ( “Dynomiiiite!”, etc) and wanted more serious scripts. They couldn’t have that, so they make her a single mom anyway....
Your so on point in your reply. We do good to remind ourselves of this. And, Kevin's mention of "ethnic image" is so critical because we need to understand that there is always a collective opinion about various cultures. There has been a systematic, and concerted effort to destroy the black family. Displaying blacks in a negative light is just part of it. Unfortunately, many of us have totally ignored and forgotten our traditional values. We have bought into mainstream society, and any pride, dignity and respect we once held is being washed away. We are fighting a serious battle.
@@TH-cam_Handler agreed, but the article relates to the essence of the principle KS is trying to tell us. If no one liked McDonalds, then McDonalds would cease to exist. We as individuals shape our world on a whole.
Me too now when I holla at a woman and they say they're not single I immediately say so you're married and guess what the answer is........no.....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
EVEN THOUGH THE PROFANITY IS FLYING I'M IN AGREEMENT WITH THE TRUTH, AND K.S IS TALKING REAL TRUTH, I'M A 70 YEAR OLD WOMAN I'VE SEEN MANY GENERATIONS, THIS ONE IS UNBELIEVABLE!!!!! NO CLASS, NO RESPECT, NO HUMILITY, ALMOST NOT HUMAN BEINGS
The Bible passage is not telling men to be single or that they're better off single. Its telling men the type of women to avoid. The same bible says in Gen 2:18 "it is not good for a man to be alone". Prov 18:22 "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord." and in 1 Cor 7:9 "It’s better to marry than to burn with lust.". So men don't think it's better to be single but good luck being single since there are only abusive men out there.
23:45 how did she jump to white supremacy? She is not alone in the failure to understand that you have 100% control over YOUR actions no matter what somebody else may or may not do. Yes, that was masculine energy.
It's unfortunate that aggression and offense is the learned reaction a lot of women have accepted. I still struggle, and seeing it on camera is valuable. Don't be offended, let go of control. I understand the struggle. These are MEN we are WOMEN. We are not the same. Equality does not equal we can take each other in a fight.
@@mr.fantastic1485 She may have a point, but the overarching message is that so many of our black women are aggressive and on the edge and exactly justifies the stereotype that white America puts on black women. This girl was super angry and was fighting TOOTH AND NAIL to make herself look right. That's MASCULINE ENERGY. It's very sad that our black women are this ready to fight everybody.
That 18 year old who came on briefly after the first two clowns was a breath of fresh air. I hope she's on the path to a functional committed relationship.
Genius. Kevin is genius, plain and simple. He is like a surgeon, knows exactly how to cut you open in order to sew you back up and save your life. Only a man with wisdom is capable of doing this. Only a good man, with a pinch of genius, can do this. I salute you, Sir.
Great analogy. And these women who critique him would rant about their surgeon "he cut me, it hurt and took a while for me to heal!!" But they don't realize that surgeon actually saved their life
It's called strong soft skills. Any Master salesman must possess it. He put the strong soft skills with Father energy on top. He is dealing with a generation of fatherless kids that are longing for Father's attention and understanding. That's why the people keep calling.
Bro, EVERY BLACK MAN has this exact same knowledge....you do see us NOT married to these idiots don't you?.,or did you think we have conspiracies against blk women???
Sidney Poitier never wore a dress! Dave Chappelle never wore a dress! Forest Whitaker never wore a dress! The executives tried to get Dave Chappelle to wear a dress. Dave stood his ground firmly and said nope! Everyone else from now on needs to follow: Donald Glover, Terrance Howard, etc... Just stand your ground firmly!
RIP Godfather. You gave helped our community more than you know. The truth is any person that heard your message knew it was true the moment it hit their ears and it pulled the veil back to women about reality and life. Your message was about connection, love and family. The things that actually matter in this existence while we're here on Earth. Life's not about how much money you have, or what things you can buy. It's about your family your husband, your wife your children.. it's about the connection you have with the people you love. That's all you were trying to teach us this whole time. It worked! Your message will live on as long as there's electricity. Thanks brother.👍🏽💯
Kevin is so right about the way black women dressed and left the house back in the day…. I have pictures of my grandparents and great Aunts and Uncles to prove his point. Even though the pics are black and white I am POSITIVE there was no purple hair.
My first experience of a Nubian Queen was Sade. First time I saw a video of that long, elegant, and arresting woman, heard that still one of a kind music, and heard that voice, i realized that THIS is what a 10 is These girls at school have a lot of catching up to... Sade is what a woman is like when she levels up to Master Level These girls couldn't even get past stage 1 of that game
@@DavidBaronStevensPersonal I had a roommate in college from Nigeria. She was well spoken and and was turned of by the loud and aggressive behavior of so many American black women and this was before social media and the extreme behavior and image this has engendered.
I remember when wearing something like these tights they commonly wear (that show everything) would have been frowned upon. Anklets too, lol. If I didn’t know any better I’d think some of these women were having a contest to see who can look the most ridiculous! (Spider lashes, colored hair passed their butts, facial rings, make up competition with the trans man after encouraging him, spandex on bad build, no regard for diet)
My goodness, the way this 50 year old “woman” was laying down full well knowing she will be viewed by a large amount of strangers NOT a private FaceTime with her other laid out girlfriend. She then goes on to act like a spoiled child with a nasty attitude. It is true what Kevin is saying about feeling uncomfortable around a real man, I’m telling you my man still makes me a bit nervous but in a great way because those nerves are what has me understand the energy of an alpha male vs. a beta male. It keeps me on my toes in regards to our relationship and the things I need to keep up and cont to grow on to keep him and I’m happy to do so, I can honestly say this is the only relationship out of many that I can say without a doubt I feel whole in as a female and I never had that understanding prior to. It’s very powerful once you just let go of all the crap we are perverted by as women and just live by nature’s truth as it’s intended for a female. Once again I found this channel recently and I’ve binge watched so many video conversations and I just adore the content. Mr. Samuels thank you for the love you show to all women even if many still have blinders on and cannot see that you want to help women, intern you are also helping the men in our society. Everything comes back around full circle. 🙏🎶🙏🎶🙏🎶🙏
Currently dating outside of my race for the first time. This woman pursued me like I was the prize, automatically gave me respect as man without playing games or making me "earn" it, is willingly submissive and plays her feminine role with no issue. I may have been picking wrong this whole time, but it's a shame I've never experienced this once with any of the black women I've dated. This isn't to trash black women, I don't believe any compare to them in their true femininity. Just sharing my thoughts.
The family name meant something. I felt that. My mom was one of 8 girls and when I was growing up we were all recognized as part of my pop pops bloodline. We carried ourselves as such.
@@johnapparicio well in my case my mother's father's seed. My father died when I was a baby leaving my mom as a widow. . His family was broken and dysfunctional. But thank God for my Pop Pop.
@@blessedblessed5018 I don't understand your question since that wasn't ny experience I shared. Make yourself proud and those you love if your father walked away. My father's family wasn't I'm my life except grandmother, until after I became an adult. But I made those proud who raised and loved on me
I grew up in a small diverse city in the 80’s . All the dads , all the moms had similar looks , economics and homes . We all identified with each other . It’s not like this any longer .
Vidar D The left is always pushing for communism, the right is always pushing for things to stay static. We actually had a good culture in the west, and the biggest fail that we had was leading the left guilt trip all white people into believing that they were affectively inherently born evil. As if we all don’t know if a certain percentage of people does it matter the race better just evil sons of bitches
Yes, she seemed really nice. I felt a bit sorry for her when he was describing the "women" who could actually be biological males and one indicator was the big nails. Poor girl tried to keep them hidden after that....too late 😄
Kevin "It makes your face fat, And you are laying down, You are 50" God how I wish a lot men have this kind of balls to say their mind that will solve a lot of problems
I LOVED the Data Analyst! Now THAT was a conversation. She was very willing to learn and take accountability. Very pleasant personality overall. I was nodding my head the whole time.
He is not lying people. I am from the streets. I use to wear baggy pants, and everything our image pushed out to us. As I got older I started to change my attire I wore nice dress pants and a nice shirt and dress shoes. For business, but I just started wearing it regularly. The respect I got was night and day. People opened doors for me didn't matter the race. People would say I look nice. People smiled at me. I felt like I was viewed with respect. It really is our image and when we change it things truly happens and I can say that as a black man because I seen it with my own eyes. I even got pulled over by the police! When I was in my youth they would try and pull me out the car and pat me down. When I changed how I look things changed. I was speeding the other day and got pulled over. Not only did the cop not pull me out the car, he ain't even give me a ticket. I told him I was going to my office. He just told me to be safe, and slow down alil bit. We even started a conversation off topic. I gave him my business card and might even have made a potential client! Our image is truly everything and I do challenge everyone to just try it. Ladies where a dress and your natural hair. Men wear a suit one day all day. I bet my bottom dollar you will get treated so much different.
I had the same realization when I was 18. I’m white and was a punk when I was younger. Got several speeding tickets, never got a break from teachers because I was disrespectful. I started taking accountability, being respectful, slowed down while driving. No tickets in 12 years, people give me benefit of the doubt when I make a mistake. Always honest and I look presentable. Everyone is respectful to me and me to them. Wasn’t so when I looked and acted like a punk
She said she keep a husband .. Because she looks young and behave like a teen .. but can't KEEPa husband .. She'll be on husband number 4 in three years! 🙄
The conversation with the data analyst was just that. A CONVERSATION. Why can't women be like her and just have amicable and decent conversations with Kevin?
This isn't an only black community issue. people should dress up a bit when they go out, it just shows that you think its important, and you will attract the right people that think the same way as you.
Here's a simple solution: lose the claws, lose the weight, lose the attitude. It will greatly improve your outcomes. However, it requires enormous DISCIPLINE. Very doubtful ya'll have that...
Democrats are miserable hateful horrible racists and always have been. “The community” has been voting 95% democrat for so long that this is just how it is. It’s sad to be honest.
I have to comment on the way women dress. I used to club every weekend in my early 20s. I wore half naked outfits with no problem. I'm now 35 and feel uncomfortable with my stomach out. I realized one day that it was attracting the wrong kind of attention, not the kind I thought I would get. I dress very much classy now, I love the a-line styles of the 50s and 60s. Ladies, it matters! I'm very conscious of what I wear because I represent my man.
and their works followed them. you are what you eat. you are what you did and think. the heart is deceitful above all things,it desperately wicked and perverse who can know it! every way of a person is right in their own eyes,but it's not so.
Very good points. However, you nailed it early in your comment. You were in your early twenties, so that was the normal and it was a part of growing we all go through. Like I can look back at things I did or wore when I was that age and I'd be saying the same thing. The key is, and I know you know this, to understand that is what you were attracting and maturity and self accountability changed you. Good points.
Word of advice, fellas: Don't exclude Black women but definitely INCLUDE other races of women. Marriageable, beautiful and incredible women come in more than one shade.
Yall need to stop getting offended. He just wants the women to know that they have to live up to the standards they put on men. It's alright to want the best thing, but are you the fit for that "best thing" is the question we all should ask ourselves before getting into relationships.
I have little hope in the future of the world, but things like this give me a tiny bit of hope. We all have SO much learning and growing to do. We have such a monumental fight ahead of us.
@@menopillion9853 True and because of that Natural Selection will run it's course, the weaker genes will die out. The angry black woman has been cornered and the only man willing to put up with that energy the Black man is beginning to wake up to reality
I wish we could have a “where are these women now?” It’s be great to see them even more resentful, blatantly disrespectful, and lonelier later on. This is what happens when you let single mothers and reality TV shows raise your daughters. You get a toad creature 18 years later with fake eyelashes.
43:53 Yes, 100% My Ex was a natural 9/10 head turning exotic, when she put on bone straight weave and layered makeup I had to explain so many times she looked older and freaking androgynous. It was warped mentally, draining and insanity to deal with.
My mom is 84 and would always tell both of my sisters to look your best when you leave the house. She would tell them even if you're going to the laundromat, LOOK YOUR BEST!
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central LA_ Salute to the Godfather ✊🏾 I talk to my kids about ethnic image all the time. One of the things I remind them about is carrying themselves with an air of respect. _"You represent yourself, your parents and your people."_ Rest easy KS 🙏🏾 You are appreciated. 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
And i will continue to watch the replays and grow as a black woman all because of this guy right here. Man oh man.. do I miss you Godfather... I made it through the beginning not crying but writing this im a mess. I just miss you already... But my journey will not end yet not until i finished what i started within myself. Ill make you proud i promise. 😭😭😭😭 This road feels a little lonely but ill keep my head up & think of your advice.
It’s funny how the one lady that went on that rant about our black image and the next lady that comes on has long colored nails. As Kevin would say, you can’t make this ish up 😂.
The last young lady was so sweet! GOD bless her!! She was so honest and sincerely is changing her life, I wish her the best in life, she will find a good man 😊🌹
The follow up video th-cam.com/video/bsBfJmMVxmg/w-d-xo.html
The Godfather is in the building!!
Kevin you're the goat
Gonna check it out after this
The thumbnail pic looks like a NFL pulling left guard in the goal line jumbo package!!
This woman at my job told me I'm nice looking but she won't date me because she has a reputation for dealing with high value men... A week later I got promoted to management and now she's chasing me trying to give me her number. I told her I have a reputation and can't date her 😆
It's funny I got married at 23 was in the military making 39k a year in the early 2000's, wife left me for another man. Her reason and I quote, "I shouldn't be mad that she wants to be with a man that could provide for her." To add a little context, he was also in the military just a higher rank. Fast forward, I own my own cybersecurity vulnerability, and policy compliance firm. I'm in the top 5% of earners currently engaged to an amazing woman. She's twice divorced with 3 children and messages me weekly about how much of a mistake she made. All I do is thank the heavens she left me, lol.
You dodged a bullet for sure
good for you ...well done sir
🎉😂
God had a plan 🙏 love bro
@@ryanflynn6819 yes he did
Im 48 Mexican male. Sir everything youre saying resonates to the core, no matter what race, dudes hate a masculine attitude. Lets keep it classy.
Salute !!!
I agree with you.
Exactamente, bro. ¡Ojalá estés bien!
Yes sir
Hey dude look Kevin would drag ur ass if he saw you telling him how ta run his shit.. so don't come barging ur ass here telling my smart role model how ta keep his own plate form damnit..
"Don't talk to women you wouldn't date." Excellent idea.
What does he mean by not talking to a woman he wouldn't date. I acknowledge the men in my presence. I don't want to date any of them but it's polite to say greeting.
@@climjames Man don't procreate. You sound foolish as hell for posting this BS.
@@geovanajalio4200 talk meaning she non attractive with no value to you as a man in the long run BUT SHE GOT ASS ...that's gotta stop with us men ESPECIALLY Brothas that I am and have done as well. I gotta be greater if I want greater
@@climjames 💡💡. Excellent Example!
@@geovanajalio4200 shut up….
Man I cried the other night, I feel like I lost a uncle. This man is spitting knowledge from the grave. Rest easy King 🕊️👑🫡💙
So true we lost a legend fellas. Way too soon for our brother Kevin to leave us, but he left us with a lot to learn from. Rest in paradise brother Kevin🙏🏾
Brilliant man and although I’m White, (Pasty white and if I’m warm, with pink blotches) I would be proud to have him as my uncle!
@@darrelloconnell8772it doesn’t matter where you come from fam !! We’re all in this together ✊🏾 Blessing to you 🙏🏾
Cried like a btch
Kevin's message will live on through us.
I refuse to deal with masculine 5’s who think they deserve better than me
Exactly
I stopped dating black women ages ago for the same reason.
@@QarthCEO I wonder why you think anyone cares
@@teemay967 i wonder why you're triggered lol
That’s a Saga In itself
Never met Mr. Samuels, but I can truly say the world seems a lot less bright without him in it. Rest well man, rest well.
True !
I know a woman who is a police officer, and she was very masculine. During an argument, I asked her if she spoke to her sargeant or lieutenant like she does me. Her answer was no. She still didn't get it. Control yourself for me, like you do for them. Men speak with anger before a fight. Men have boundaries with each other, and because you're a woman, you can't do what you want to do. Most of these women do not see themselves as ghetto, but you are.... Neither of my grandmother's wore pants either.
Love this comment!
You said it, right.👏👍
Exactly 💯
i got a better one for ya...i'm a genX (49F) and NEITHER of my grandmothers ever drove a car nor did they ever open a car door. I also want to say that 5 yrs ago i went on a 3 dates, a 54 yr old, a 27 yr old and a 34 yr old. They all were liars and stepped over set boundaries. I'm a lady and told them all to step. Been celibate again for another 5 yrs.
@@paulinehogness1078
You Should Have kept the 27yr old
How does Kevin do this everyday, he has the patience of a saint!
@Little Puerto Rican Girl little puerto rican girl is the perfect name lol...
He's collecting a check
@R&V what's even more pathetic is that black women like you are too hardheaded to see what they are doing wrong and why exactly they are the least married.
@R&V haha the irony. The brainwashed, brainwashed to tell others they're brainwashed, when told their brainwashed.
Bro, I get called a coon all the damn time by my family mainly from the women and it’s so damn sad. I say the same things Kevin does and they say “you must hate yourself because yo mama is black like us!”… so damn annoying. Then they wonder why I don’t even want to date black women anymore! For what? More than likely I’ll get stuck with the type of black woman that calls on here to argue with Kevin
Who the hell calls into Kevin’s show laying in the damn bed at 50 years old?? Yuk!
And she ain't lying she's really 50 years old smh
Just because you're older doesn't mean you conduct yourself like you're older.
No class. Gross.
That wasn't her bed ...that was her office!
And she's "married"...
Be the image you wanna project.
This woman comes on talking about the stereotypes of black women, demonstrating those stereotypes perfectly.
These beaches would not last a week in a mans shoes....
How abt you worry about your own race of women?
@@jzhvaeduh there you go again smh
@@muddywood same for you.
And, to think a Black dude tried to convince me that all Black women are our wives. Which, would mean even the already married ones are obligated to submit to us. We all know how men are at playing second fiddle to another man when it comes to women, ironically😆
She is representing the Black women whether she admits it or not. We all represent that every time we present ourselves. We need to hold ourselves to a higher standard!!
Agree
“If you look like you’re going to the club you’re gonna get club behavior” Thank you!! you can wear whatever you want but don’t get mad at how you’re treated because of it
Say that AGAIN
Dave Chapelle said something similar: "Maybe u r not a ho, but u r wearing a ho's uniform".
On the movie face off with nick cage he tells his daughter you dress like it’s Halloween that’s what you get tricks or treats
Same thing with everything. Body count, fashion, and even having children.... it is called consequences for your actions.
"Yeah but, I was young and stupid" was never a valid means to regrow an amputated leg.
Woe-men ='s women. I have noticed a pattern. Women stop trying to FIND things to WORRY about. You can't control outside. Don't worry about things you can't control if it isn't personally effecting YOU. Idk how many times I have had to tell women to, " Get out of the window"......" Mind your business "......." Don't tell people your negative thoughts about other people and DON'T listen to gossip".
I'm white. I wish I had Kevin when I was in my 20s. Would have saved me a lot of grief (If I listened to him and believed). As men, no one really tells us what to expect with women. We end up learning through painful experience. And that woman who said white people control how black people are portrayed, like it's some giant conspiracy. No, we all know it's all about the money. If they could make more money portraying black people with wings flying like angels then guess what every movie would feature. They don't give a fart about what they do so long as it makes the green.
It's going to be alright you just have to apply his information to receive a better outcome.
Uhhhhh shiiii ahiiitee 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
I couldn't agree with you more
A lot of women don’t believe their ishhh stink because they got a lot of yess ma’am’s (friends and associates etc esp this this government ).in their circle .. no man can work peaceful In a hostile environment 🤔🤷🏾♂️🤦🏿
You speaking the truth brother.
Like Kevin said, coming on to a live stream being angry, argumentative, confrontational, and masculine is not a way to disprove the "angry black woman" stereotype. The first two women are so unaware of their masculine behavior. Imagine how that first woman talked to her THREE husbands. Imagine being on a date with the woman on the second date. These are the type of women who embarrass you in public and the excuse is, "I'm just like that". It's pitiful.
Yes, it is impossible to disprove the "angry black female" stereotype when you are angry, black, and female.
It's also as effective to get your message across as a preacher would be able to teach about the love and joy of Jesus while standing at the pulpit giving his congregation the evil eye over a grumpy face.
Also, regarding that last part, I never got the people who use that line to excuse their crazy friends... "that's just her, I don't be/think that way." (After cheering them on.)
@@Maninawig
Those black guys get close to a woman
A min. Then start to jab. At their very souls. So the women
Put up that barbed wire fence
On them. Then the men say
She's crazy and call them
Other degrading names.
They come back if they have no place else to go.
Sad men using.
She's laying on a couch, in her robe and can't even dress or sit up properly to present herself. Married three times? Guys, that's a big red flag!!
@@lizh4933 amen!
"Mercury is in Gatorade "
As annoying and embarrassing as these women are I'm actually thankful for them. Years ago I had to make a decision. Either keep having casual sexual relationships or get married. I'm so thankful I wisely chose to get married to a traditional woman. I don't want to imagine being single today dealing with these types of modern women. I couldn't stand to be around modern women long enough to even get to the sex let alone serious relationship. Claude!
“Thottin is in.” The fact that she’s almost 50 and saying that confidently is scary as hell…
And she currently married for the 3rd time. She seem to be unhappy. Im with Kevin, she's lying!
Lol bruh and she 50.. just imagine how many D’s been in that 50 yo pumpum 🤦🏾♂️
So creepy lol that’s my moms age and I could never imagine her saying that lol 😆
50 yr olds still doing hot girl summer? Smh, not a good look
I refuse to believe that she’s married.
The part about the long nails and weave is so accurate. That's an instant disqualification for me. I won't even give a woman the time of day if she got weave, spider eyelashes or those raptor claws. Thats a hard pass!!
Likewise!
on me. and they get angry when you don’t give them the attention they think they deserve JUST because they’re a woman
😂😂😂
I won't either.
Raptor claws...😂
“I’ve been married 3 times, I keep a man”
🤡 never seen a 50year old clown
@@jamalmatthews4854 Damn, is she 60+? Deceived me completely TBH.
@@jamalmatthews4854 she said almost 50 and she mostly definitely there’s woman out there who look like very young for there age u ever heard of nia long or Halle berry ? Have u seen Toni Braxton there almost 50 or hit there early 50s and look good u don’t have to be face or have some money to take care of her body or have good genes and look good
She can't keep a husband if she been married 3 times .. Gody only recognize the first marriage .. the rest is just Adultery! 🙏🏽
Lying down while speaking to Kevin has to be one of the most disrespectful ways to conduct yourself. Absolutely disgusting 🗑💩
She was just trying to F with him, she a straight up liar
She was trying to get laid lol
So disrespectful. They wouldn't go live with Oprah like that. Hell, they wouldn't do that with Wendy Williams. It's terrible!
No it isn't. Its what you have to do when you are 55 and trying to look 25
Cuz they arent caking.. so why you in bed? Lol
We women are rebellious and prideful to the max.
It's amazing to think that a wretched culture has become the" black" culture because it used not to be like that.
We have fallen very far into deepest ditch. Lord help us learn to .help ourselves.
The enemy of my enemy is my friend lol
They get mad because they can’t get their way lol 😂
UPDATE: guys I truly appreciate the likes I didnt know my comment was going to get this many likes so thank all of you for them! 😎💯
@Chubbi Chase these females are delusional but they’ll learn the hard way when there 50 and alone lol 😂
@@last7509 These new females want to be equal so bad but when it’s time to move the couch they turn into cry babies lmao 😂 I really don’t get it I thought these females were strong and independent lol 😂
They get mad because they subconsciously know Kevin is right, and they don't have any facts or logic on their side. Only emotions.
Heard a story about a woman in a store who was actually stomping her foot like a child because she couldn't have her way.
Shoryken😂😭😭😂😂😭😭😭
"Stop sticking your meat in fat"🤣🤣🤣🤣🥶
😅🤣😂😂😂😂🤣
Only broke guys do that
🙅🏾♂️😂🙅🏾♂️
that it just too much truth lmao
@@a.c.g351 I've seen rich and wealthy big people couples or a wealthy man dating a big woman
50 year old woman saying “thotting is “in” with a straight face. This is why we need Kevin’s content.
It's sad bro, that's probably someone's mom and possibly someone's grandma talking like that.
I just got hooked on watching this wonderful man; can't believe he's gone. I'll keep watching as the $$$ will go to his daughter.
When youre 50+ saying things like "thotting is in right now, actually.." Its time to throw in the towel~
Unreal
Exactly 💯
I mean she ain’t lying tho
😔
It is truly tragic 😥
Every girl that ever told me she was different was a carbon copy of all the wack shit about women
Facts Kevin ever since I started working as an accountant I dress in suit and ties and everybody calling me sir 😂
💪✌️💯
Okay then! 💯
It is only for respect.
On the streets it is no such thing as respect.
@fitzwilliams - Yes society has brainwashed people into believing people who wear suits are better than someone who wears jeans/ t shirt but it's just the exterior, a mask. Many preachers wear a suit and women go crazy for them but they are hustlers. Many world leaders wear suits and send their soldiers to die for no good reason and they wear suits. Not saying you're a bad guy :)
This guy is a hero!!!
New Rule: Don't call in with your lazy azz lying in the bed or wearing a bonnet.
Too bad “we” can’t get that abortion in Texas low key anymore😂
😂👌🏾
For real...
I am 1am a 75 years- young Christian woman, and I listen to you every day at some point. I have been a VOLUNTEER CHAPLAIN since 1970. I deal primarily with women, and what you say here is so TRUE!!!! I share your sessions, and this is definitely one to share!!!
We couldn't leave the house without our hair combed, NO BONETS, etc. I could go on and on, but the bottom line is I'm PROUD of you as a MAN and more so, because you REPRESENT us.💕
I
Please excuse typos 😑
I can see why this lady has been married three times. Women today lack the sense of grace and intelligence.
She carried herself like a teenager😔
Not intelligence just logic
Dude, that chick is nowhere near married. Just peep her shifty eyes searching for a lie when he asked her the early questions.
@Vienna Sausage if you tell me it’s raining outside and I haven’t been out there how can I say you not telling truth🤔I don’t know her and I know several people with shifty eyes and it’s not because they telling a lie😂You bitter if you feel errrr woman telling a lie
They’re a catastrophe.
Kevin’s facial expressions have always been priceless. If it wasn’t for that, I would turn his show off every time one of these horrible women came on. They are insufferable, terrible, selfish, disgusting individuals.
Agree
I just enjoy somebody thats not afraid to hold women accountable. As soon as a man holds a black woman accountable he is crucified by black women whether she was wrong or right. Its outright embarrassing and Mr. Samuels exposes them for their BS everyday. This is so important to our culture right now
The funniest part is he attracts NO high value women to his show. These dusties call in with no respect because you attract what you are
@@artistrevolution1016 which is the intent of the show so that they can wake up to reality and potentially make better decisions.
@Lola 😂😭😭
@@artistrevolution1016 have you fed your cats today?
That’s why we MUST support him. He’s elevating the entire black community. A lot of women understand, but won’t speak on it. The one’s that don’t will eventually enjoy elevation of the community in the years to come.
that 18 year old who thanked Kevin really warmed my heart , i hope she does well !
Me too
Yes, me too.
Same here
Facts!!
I miss Mr. Samuels' honest and productive content. RIP Sir.
Kevin really kept it real and made a lot of sense. R.I.P
I'm not black, but the things this man says hit deep. I wish he had this show when I was in my 20s.
It's universal with western societies. In Germany it's no better.
@@Kashban well I think its as bad as in america here but a certain level of delusion is in place here too. Greetings from Hamburg
What he says applies to all races.
He likes respectability and civilized behavior, and many of us aspire to this for ourselves and our kids.
Same
Kevin says modern women when he’s referring to all races. But black American culture is a matriarchy at best but some would call it a gynocracy so the disfunction is ramped up. That’s why self respecting men date out of the culture.
"They don't want your round ass!" Classic
Standards fr.
😂😂😂💯💯💯
Hahahah!
Handsome
@@solo.life.travels7215 thank you
Hello Mr. Samuels,
I've been watching your channel for months and you have added to my perspective of the black community. I am a white veteran who has served with people of all ethnic backgrounds and see the actions and ways I have been treated by people from all over the world. When you speak about ethnic image you are absolutely correct about the gut reaction others have when they view certain types of dress, actions, attitude etc even before a word is spoken. When someone takes an attitude it is disconcerting but when they add being dressed as if they are looking for a brawl it is the natural reactions of anyone to avoid this person and by human nature will assume trouble follows that person. Most people of any race prefer to avoid conflict and will go out of their way to not interact. Human nature being what it is, portraying aggressiveness and/or slovenly, argumentative image negates any attempt to be social and willingness to get to know the real character of the individual. This is truth for all people. As a veteran I have lived and served with blacks who understand we are all brothers in society even with our own preferences for our own ethnic cultures, which is natural among all people around the world. If we can't find cohesiveness among our own cultures how can we find peace and respect for each other? We have more similarities than differences. When we focus on differences, perceived or real, it is labeled as racism rather than anger for being treated as if we are to blame for ... fill in the blank from the list of grievances continually cited.
When you talked about suit Saturdays you pointed out that people are more responsive, agreeable and treat you better because you present yourself as being professional, which by extension assumes you will conduct yourself in a socially acceptable manner, ie non-threatening, polite, courteous to others around you. I wish more people would listen to this advice and repeat it to the people they know, it would make our society a better place.
I cannot and will not speak about the black community as I am ignorant of the experience and it is not my place. My purpose in writing you was to acknowledge the truths you speak and to acknowledge those truths overlap into other cultures because they are truths. Facts are facts and cannot be displaced by any amount of wishful thinking.
Keep up the good work.
Well put...
Great comment!!!!
Indeed friend
You laid it out perfectly
Well said and very accurate. Thank you so much for sharing ❤️
Rest in Power Mr. Samuel's. Glad I was able to find you back in late 2019 when I was in the darkest, and lowest point in my life. I was on probation, living at moms house on the couch, and on the verge of losing it all. Thanks to you, I am now at a way better job I cam call a career, making $30/hr, and a whole door of opportunities just opened with alot of people who also followed you and personally socialized with you. You are truly missed in every community 😢❤👑✊🏽
I just stumbled on Kevin about a month ago just prior to his death. I am so sad he left this world too early. What a treasure. I have learned so much about the black culture. It truly is not about colour… it is all about culture. Attitude is everything.
Girl w glasses just schooled his ass and he gaslit her.
Men need to lead n women need to follow though, thats a fact
that ok. he left PLEEENNNTY of videos to laugh at watching the women squirm or run away
Huh 🤦♂️
i stumbled on this a few months after his death. d guy is a hero
I care about my appearance and other women get upset & jealous. It’s literally ridiculous.
Tell'em to step their game up‼️🙌🏿
...n' I see you, you're fine as hell.
Tell them "don't hate .. appreciate!"
Keep being you
Isn’t that what human beings are supposed to do?
“I keep me a husband”. Sounds good until you realize she’s twice divorced or lying.
Booooooooooom!! Yeap!
So what if she is divorced twice. So is KS ... the delusion is so real lol alot of you men will die alone.
99.9% are lying, married women shouldn't even entertain outside conversations from single men!
@@EveryoneHasAVoice Heh... I get married women hitting on me almost daily... it's sad. I feel bad for the husbands whom are mostly willfully ignorant or oblivious. I believe less than 1% of women are actually loyal... and even that's being nice
@@kiarah191 I said the same thing n ppl attacked me saying! It’s diff for a guy n leaving didn’t file divorce, idk lol
I love how the girl around 20:00 who thought the evil white devil was responsible for everything really thinks she's any different than most black women. Kevin's face when he let her go off was beyond priceless
ESTHER ROLLE’S TENACITY
When Lear approached Esther with the script for the show, she refused to take the job unless they included a paternal figure in the series who would be Florida’s husband and the father of her children.
This is what KS is talking about. Rolle was willing to turn down her roll as Florida Evans in Good Times.
Esther was talented and skilled in the craft of acting. And the discipline to get that good can also build certain understandings of value and perspective. One of the challenges today is that there are no comparable disciplines in order to be on a 'reality' show about ratchetness. I remember when the trash tv of the 80s and 90s were soap operas, but nearly all of those shows are out of business because exec's were/are able to pay far less, to non-actors, and get as good viewership. Yet the lesser amount of money these non-actors receive is still significantly more than they (and those of their ilk) would've gotten otherwise, so there's a large amount that want in for either that money or perceived clout/fame.
It's similar to sweat shops in impoverished places. If one person doesn't want to take the job, there are 10 more kids desperate for the little bit of money.
It boils more down to who consumes the product. So cutting off that head is key.
Whenever I go to Pompano Beach I ride down Esther Rolle just because 🤷🏿♂️
Agreed. Yes, but they still managed to kill him off in less than 2 seasons of Good Times. John Amos didn’t like the clown buffoonery antics producers wanted to push with Jay Jay and the cast, etc. ( “Dynomiiiite!”, etc) and wanted more serious scripts. They couldn’t have that, so they make her a single mom anyway....
Your so on point in your reply. We do good to remind ourselves of this. And, Kevin's mention of "ethnic image" is so critical because we need to understand that there is always a collective opinion about various cultures. There has been a systematic, and concerted effort to destroy the black family. Displaying blacks in a negative light is just part of it. Unfortunately, many of us have totally ignored and forgotten our traditional values. We have bought into mainstream society, and any pride, dignity and respect we once held is being washed away. We are fighting a serious battle.
@@TH-cam_Handler agreed, but the article relates to the essence of the principle KS is trying to tell us. If no one liked McDonalds, then McDonalds would cease to exist. We as individuals shape our world on a whole.
"i been married three times." hmmm i wonder what the common denominator is
If you filed for divorce you
@@a.c.g351 well typed
@@DIDDYTBABY thx
We definitely know who filed . That’s all they do break up marriages . Look at the currys
Good poom-poom. It only last so long
This man is helping me improve DAILY.
Me too! Keep up the good work 👌
Me too....it's about time we have a positive spokesman for us
Mee too
Same
Me too now when I holla at a woman and they say they're not single I immediately say so you're married and guess what the answer is........no.....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
24:30 is something I have never heard before--dropping that image consultant knowledge on big time history. KS was brilliant like that.
my husband and I just pray for our community.. it’s really a mess and I appreciate Kevin soooo much
I literally say spiritual warfare prayers for my neighborhood! 🙏🏽
EVEN THOUGH THE PROFANITY IS FLYING I'M IN AGREEMENT WITH THE TRUTH, AND K.S IS TALKING REAL TRUTH, I'M A 70 YEAR OLD WOMAN I'VE SEEN MANY GENERATIONS, THIS ONE IS UNBELIEVABLE!!!!! NO CLASS, NO RESPECT, NO HUMILITY, ALMOST NOT HUMAN BEINGS
Im gonna join in to on the prayer sessions for the communities and marriages because this has gotten really bad
They made their own beds, let them lie in them.
prayin aint gonna do a damn thing - they need to be educated
"It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman."
Proverbs 21:19
And yet they are all up in the churches.
Yea... And it's better to be a single woman than in a relationship with an unkind abusive man...
@@geovanajalio4200 Woman call a man that calls them out on their nonsense abusive.
The Bible passage is not telling men to be single or that they're better off single. Its telling men the type of women to avoid. The same bible says in Gen 2:18 "it is not good for a man to be alone". Prov 18:22 "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord." and in 1 Cor 7:9 "It’s better to marry than to burn with lust.". So men don't think it's better to be single but good luck being single since there are only abusive men out there.
@@OsiAleogena don't classify ALL men as abusive because you chose an abusive one
23:45 how did she jump to white supremacy? She is not alone in the failure to understand that you have 100% control over YOUR actions no matter what somebody else may or may not do. Yes, that was masculine energy.
TravelAmazon she does has a point just as Kevin Samuel has a point
It's unfortunate that aggression and offense is the learned reaction a lot of women have accepted. I still struggle, and seeing it on camera is valuable. Don't be offended, let go of control. I understand the struggle. These are MEN we are WOMEN. We are not the same. Equality does not equal we can take each other in a fight.
hope she sees herself in replay. sometimes you need check yourself in camera to get a projection of what imagery is.
@@mr.fantastic1485 she is nowhere near a point lmao
@@mr.fantastic1485 She may have a point, but the overarching message is that so many of our black women are aggressive and on the edge and exactly justifies the stereotype that white America puts on black women. This girl was super angry and was fighting TOOTH AND NAIL to make herself look right. That's MASCULINE ENERGY. It's very sad that our black women are this ready to fight everybody.
That 18 year old who came on briefly after the first two clowns was a breath of fresh air. I hope she's on the path to a functional committed relationship.
Genius. Kevin is genius, plain and simple. He is like a surgeon, knows exactly how to cut you open in order to sew you back up and save your life. Only a man with wisdom is capable of doing this. Only a good man, with a pinch of genius, can do this. I salute you, Sir.
Great analogy. And these women who critique him would rant about their surgeon "he cut me, it hurt and took a while for me to heal!!" But they don't realize that surgeon actually saved their life
It's called strong soft skills. Any Master salesman must possess it. He put the strong soft skills with Father energy on top. He is dealing with a generation of fatherless kids that are longing for Father's attention and understanding. That's why the people keep calling.
Facts!!!
F A C T S
Bro, EVERY BLACK MAN has this exact same knowledge....you do see us NOT married to these idiots don't you?.,or did you think we have conspiracies against blk women???
I had a black male teacher similar to Kevin growing up and he was always a huge role model to me.
Sidney Poitier never wore a dress! Dave Chappelle never wore a dress! Forest Whitaker never wore a dress! The executives tried to get Dave Chappelle to wear a dress. Dave stood his ground firmly and said nope! Everyone else from now on needs to follow: Donald Glover, Terrance Howard, etc... Just stand your ground firmly!
Not true about Dave Chappelle, there is a movie called Robin hood: men in tights where he wears a dress but I get what your saying.
@@Godson827 in Dave's defense, that was his first movie roll ever if I'm not mistaken, but yeah he wore it too smh.
I agree Denzel stand his ground too
@@allgasnobrakes5233 He wore a dress. He also wore a wig. And fake boobs. Did YOU watch the movie?
@@moniquebritt4577 They shot him in the ass tho
I love how his page keeps growing. I continue to watch his videos!
RIP Godfather. You gave helped our community more than you know.
The truth is any person that heard your message knew it was true the moment it hit their ears and it pulled the veil back to women about reality and life. Your message was about connection, love and family. The things that actually matter in this existence while we're here on Earth. Life's not about how much money you have, or what things you can buy. It's about your family your husband, your wife your children.. it's about the connection you have with the people you love. That's all you were trying to teach us this whole time.
It worked! Your message will live on as long as there's electricity. Thanks brother.👍🏽💯
The second chick learned that she’s a professional victim lol
Exactly! People like her who play the victim is the problem.
Kevin is so right about the way black women dressed and left the house back in the day…. I have pictures of my grandparents and great Aunts and Uncles to prove his point. Even though the pics are black and white I am POSITIVE there was no purple hair.
My first experience of a Nubian Queen was Sade.
First time I saw a video of that long, elegant, and arresting woman, heard that still one of a kind music, and heard that voice, i realized that THIS is what a 10 is
These girls at school have a lot of catching up to... Sade is what a woman is like when she levels up to Master Level
These girls couldn't even get past stage 1 of that game
@@DavidBaronStevensPersonal I had a roommate in college from Nigeria. She was well spoken and and was turned of by the loud and aggressive behavior of so many American black women and this was before social media and the extreme behavior and image this has engendered.
Bruh. we didn’t need Kevin to tell us this. Come on now. We all have pics and none show our family being portrayed like the women today.
THEY LOVED TO DRESS UP, I'M 70 YEARS OLD WOMAN, I LOVE DRESSING UP
I remember when wearing something like these tights they commonly wear (that show everything) would have been frowned upon. Anklets too, lol. If I didn’t know any better I’d think some of these women were having a contest to see who can look the most ridiculous! (Spider lashes, colored hair passed their butts, facial rings, make up competition with the trans man after encouraging him, spandex on bad build, no regard for diet)
Her: Rants for 2 minutes about white executives being in control of the black image.
The God-Father: Tyler Perry.
Me: Well that was a quick debate.
🤣😭😭
I always laugh when they say “white executives”. Those guys are not “white”.
They are from a demographic that rhymes with shoes.
@@foxbodyblues6709 And what you are saying is True... See what I did there? lol
Facts 💯
She calls into his show all the time to argue and say the same nonsense, highly combative and doesn't listen to anything.
My goodness, the way this 50 year old “woman” was laying down full well knowing she will be viewed by a large amount of strangers NOT a private FaceTime with her other laid out girlfriend. She then goes on to act like a spoiled child with a nasty attitude.
It is true what Kevin is saying about feeling uncomfortable around a real man, I’m telling you my man still makes me a bit nervous but in a great way because those nerves are what has me understand the energy of an alpha male vs. a beta male. It keeps me on my toes in regards to our relationship and the things I need to keep up and cont to grow on to keep him and I’m happy to do so, I can honestly say this is the only relationship out of many that I can say without a doubt I feel whole in as a female and I never had that understanding prior to. It’s very powerful once you just let go of all the crap we are perverted by as women and just live by nature’s truth as it’s intended for a female.
Once again I found this channel recently and I’ve binge watched so many video conversations and I just adore the content.
Mr. Samuels thank you for the love you show to all women even if many still have blinders on and cannot see that you want to help women, intern you are also helping the men in our society. Everything comes back around full circle. 🙏🎶🙏🎶🙏🎶🙏
And now you see what successful men in there 50s have to choose from, this is why I'm still single.
Good comment 🙌🏽
doesn't mean he doesn't have options
Perfectly stated. We share common traits and thoughts. Unbelievable that at her age she thinks it's okay....
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Currently dating outside of my race for the first time. This woman pursued me like I was the prize, automatically gave me respect as man without playing games or making me "earn" it, is willingly submissive and plays her feminine role with no issue. I may have been picking wrong this whole time, but it's a shame I've never experienced this once with any of the black women I've dated. This isn't to trash black women, I don't believe any compare to them in their true femininity. Just sharing my thoughts.
I get it brother
Good for you
Like Pharaoh told Rameses, :" harden yourself against subordinates, Put no faith in a brother, have no friend & trust NO woman.
Do yo thing bro. Love & respect
Fr?
This man's work is a precious resource.
The family name meant something. I felt that. My mom was one of 8 girls and when I was growing up we were all recognized as part of my pop pops bloodline. We carried ourselves as such.
The Bible backs up what you're saying. You are of your father's seed.
@@johnapparicio well in my case my mother's father's seed. My father died when I was a baby leaving my mom as a widow. . His family was broken and dysfunctional. But thank God for my Pop Pop.
What if your father turned his back on his daughters? Should I still make him proud
@@blessedblessed5018 I don't understand your question since that wasn't ny experience I shared. Make yourself proud and those you love if your father walked away. My father's family wasn't I'm my life except grandmother, until after I became an adult. But I made those proud who raised and loved on me
I grew up in a small diverse city in the 80’s . All the dads , all the moms had similar looks , economics and homes . We all identified with each other . It’s not like this any longer .
doing the right things for the betterment of their kids and their neighborhood....then miss i dont need a man blew it all up
Don't give these women a chance
it is odd how every time the " left " gains ascendancy people become more divided and hostile...
@@vidard9863 agreed
Vidar D The left is always pushing for communism, the right is always pushing for things to stay static. We actually had a good culture in the west, and the biggest fail that we had was leading the left guilt trip all white people into believing that they were affectively inherently born evil. As if we all don’t know if a certain percentage of people does it matter the race better just evil sons of bitches
Image definitely matters. How people treat you is highly influenced by how you present yourself to the public
The girl with the nails had a pretty good conversation finally a person with a little sense
Yes, she seemed really nice. I felt a bit sorry for her when he was describing the "women" who could actually be biological males and one indicator was the big nails. Poor girl tried to keep them hidden after that....too late 😄
I'm glad Kevin is uploading Instagram streams because I don't have an account there.
Kevin "It makes your face fat, And you are laying down, You are 50" God how I wish a lot men have this kind of balls to say their mind that will solve a lot of problems
It's not hard, just do it!
🤣🙂I do..😅
She's not married trying to hide her breast tattoos with a buger in her nose.
Because if you're honest to them they feel attacked.
Patrice O’Neal makes Kevin looking like Malcolm X
Kevin could post old streams for a year straight and no one would notice.
That's part of the reason Kevin wants other pages to not post his content. Not everyone from TH-cam tunes into the Instagram lives.
Aron Janvier I noticed!
Yeah, this was definitely a reupload.
@@stayquietregretful552 yeah and I can’t exit out of Instagram and keep listening. I have TH-cam premium so I can turn my phone off and just listen.
Def noticed this as an old video lol
I LOVED the Data Analyst! Now THAT was a conversation. She was very willing to learn and take accountability. Very pleasant personality overall. I was nodding my head the whole time.
He is not lying people. I am from the streets. I use to wear baggy pants, and everything our image pushed out to us. As I got older I started to change my attire I wore nice dress pants and a nice shirt and dress shoes. For business, but I just started wearing it regularly. The respect I got was night and day. People opened doors for me didn't matter the race. People would say I look nice. People smiled at me. I felt like I was viewed with respect. It really is our image and when we change it things truly happens and I can say that as a black man because I seen it with my own eyes. I even got pulled over by the police! When I was in my youth they would try and pull me out the car and pat me down. When I changed how I look things changed. I was speeding the other day and got pulled over. Not only did the cop not pull me out the car, he ain't even give me a ticket. I told him I was going to my office. He just told me to be safe, and slow down alil bit. We even started a conversation off topic. I gave him my business card and might even have made a potential client! Our image is truly everything and I do challenge everyone to just try it. Ladies where a dress and your natural hair. Men wear a suit one day all day. I bet my bottom dollar you will get treated so much different.
If people would just listen to your experience, how much better would the world be!
This is very true. The image you put out there defines the treatment or judgment you'll get out there
You’re a great example to men 😊
I had the same realization when I was 18. I’m white and was a punk when I was younger. Got several speeding tickets, never got a break from teachers because I was disrespectful. I started taking accountability, being respectful, slowed down while driving. No tickets in 12 years, people give me benefit of the doubt when I make a mistake. Always honest and I look presentable. Everyone is respectful to me and me to them. Wasn’t so when I looked and acted like a punk
"I can keep a husband"
Married three times
And none of them were men. Just flies for a ridiculous Venus fly-trap
She didn’t have any husbands, she told the truth the first time
Are you dating same kind of men, who are not ready but are pressured into marriage? Or bad Boyz who will probably never settle down.
She said she keep a husband .. Because she looks young and behave like a teen .. but can't KEEPa husband .. She'll be on husband number 4 in three years! 🙄
@@THELOF1 🤪😜🤪😜🤪😜🤪😜
If we are perpetuating the stereotypes in our everyday movements , it's hard for others not to see us in that light.
THANK YOU Mr. Samuels.
He said, "You care more about what's on your head and hands than what's in your arteries!' Sad.
He comes out with a few quotables every episode...lol
Boom
The conversation with the data analyst was just that. A CONVERSATION. Why can't women be like her and just have amicable and decent conversations with Kevin?
Because they’re masculine and want to be heard , feared and never wrong. Hence why most blck man go for the 🧍🏼♀️ instead
Yea
she is an analyst, therefore she thinks as or before she speaks... not the norm
Yeah I’m an analyst too and I love his content since it’s statistically significant and I like to hear and process what he says
This isn't an only black community issue. people should dress up a bit when they go out, it just shows that you think its important, and you will attract the right people that think the same way as you.
I might be the one that’s gonna die alone cuz if I gotta put up with the first woman type of actions I’m good!
You're better off. Never settle.
There’s good women out there, but look in the right places 😊
Here's a simple solution: lose the claws, lose the weight, lose the attitude.
It will greatly improve your outcomes.
However, it requires enormous DISCIPLINE.
Very doubtful ya'll have that...
Democrats are miserable hateful horrible racists and always have been. “The community” has been voting 95% democrat for so long that this is just how it is. It’s sad to be honest.
@@associatealpha1166 This isn't a political forum, there are channels for that...
Kevin, when you say "this is what black men have to deal with"
I wish it was just black men having to deal with these type of women..
TRUE TRYING WHITE AND LATINAS NOW! SAME THING AS THEM! SMH! 🤦🏽♂️
@@PASSPORTKING2106 exactly
They're all over the world 🌍🤣🌍
Fukyou raymundo. Explain why you wish bad things only happen to black men 🤔
@@xrated2k3 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
You hit the nail on the head, "Childish 50 year old". This is what we have to pick from.
Thank you Kevin. “The man just wants peace”.
I have to comment on the way women dress. I used to club every weekend in my early 20s. I wore half naked outfits with no problem. I'm now 35 and feel uncomfortable with my stomach out. I realized one day that it was attracting the wrong kind of attention, not the kind I thought I would get. I dress very much classy now, I love the a-line styles of the 50s and 60s. Ladies, it matters! I'm very conscious of what I wear because I represent my man.
and their works followed them.
you are what you eat.
you are what you did and think.
the heart is deceitful above all things,it desperately wicked and perverse who can know it!
every way of a person is right in their own eyes,but it's not so.
Very good points. However, you nailed it early in your comment. You were in your early twenties, so that was the normal and it was a part of growing we all go through. Like I can look back at things I did or wore when I was that age and I'd be saying the same thing. The key is, and I know you know this, to understand that is what you were attracting and maturity and self accountability changed you. Good points.
Word of advice, fellas: Don't exclude Black women but definitely INCLUDE other races of women. Marriageable, beautiful and incredible women come in more than one shade.
I thought that was common sense. I wondered why black men seemed to act like no other race of women looked attractive.
Black men sometimes feel like we have a responsibility to our race. I thought that for many years.
I agree. It good for back women too.
@@purplegirl8036 Absolutely. Brothers are quite okay with that.
Very true statement !
Yall need to stop getting offended. He just wants the women to know that they have to live up to the standards they put on men. It's alright to want the best thing, but are you the fit for that "best thing" is the question we all should ask ourselves before getting into relationships.
2nd woman: Definition of clucking chicken head. 3 kids, divorced, still taking zero accountability . that was hard to listen to for 3 minutes.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I have not heard 'chicken head' in years!
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not clucking lolol
Yoo she was the absolute Worse..an of course she was "educated" smfh.
I'm still convinced so many of these "women" who disagree with Kevin, do not watch his show
I totally agree with you!!!
100% correct.
They don’t…. They literally see clips on IG and FB Then just get mad without knowing context
@@curlygirl9023 exactly!!!!!
Bruh I just encountered this about 10 mins ago
I have little hope in the future of the world, but things like this give me a tiny bit of hope. We all have SO much learning and growing to do. We have such a monumental fight ahead of us.
I have no hope. Too many modern women want to fight just to fight, not to qualify for the things they say they want.
@@menopillion9853 True and because of that Natural Selection will run it's course, the weaker genes will die out. The angry black woman has been cornered and the only man willing to put up with that energy the Black man is beginning to wake up to reality
I used to think it's a fight, but now it's simply standing on ground I know and believe in. Standards are called standards for a reason.
I'm a 70 year old woman and Sir, yes! A very long way to go and so much to learn and do.
I wish we could have a “where are these women now?”
It’s be great to see them even more resentful, blatantly disrespectful, and lonelier later on. This is what happens when you let single mothers and reality TV shows raise your daughters. You get a toad creature 18 years later with fake eyelashes.
There’s no point in a “where are they now” recap because most of them lie anyway. 😒
43:53 Yes, 100% My Ex was a natural 9/10 head turning exotic, when she put on bone straight weave and layered makeup I had to explain so many times she looked older and freaking androgynous. It was warped mentally, draining and insanity to deal with.
hope there was a prenup
Sorry, but it took me way to long to get "bone straight" was one adjective, and not two.
That closing monologue was 🔥!!! THIS MAN TOLD NOT ONE LIE, HE IS NOT WRONG!!!!
lol, D of G
My mom is 84 and would always tell both of my sisters to look your best when you leave the house. She would tell them even if you're going to the laundromat, LOOK YOUR BEST!
Nothing wrong with dressing down some days
Lol 😂 🤣🤣
@Antonio Cortez where do u work at? Cuz most jobs that pay decent for men, don’t require u to dress nice it requires u to get dirty or wear a uniform
@Antonio Cortez that’s cool! But doin what exactly cuz my gf works n banking and u can b anything from a bank teller to lending, or investing
@Antonio Cortez ok cool! Do u do commercial or residual loans, plus underwriting?
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
_Tappin' in from South Central LA_
Salute to the Godfather ✊🏾
I talk to my kids about ethnic image all the time. One of the things I remind them about is carrying themselves with an air of respect.
_"You represent yourself, your parents and your people."_
Rest easy KS 🙏🏾 You are appreciated.
🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
And i will continue to watch the replays and grow as a black woman all because of this guy right here. Man oh man.. do I miss you Godfather... I made it through the beginning not crying but writing this im a mess. I just miss you already... But my journey will not end yet not until i finished what i started within myself. Ill make you proud i promise. 😭😭😭😭 This road feels a little lonely but ill keep my head up & think of your advice.
💯❤
It’s funny how the one lady that went on that rant about our black image and the next lady that comes on has long colored nails. As Kevin would say, you can’t make this ish up 😂.
That’s good advice! A dress 👗 on Saturday’s for ladies! My husband will love this👌🏻💕
Suit Saturdays seems like a good idea. I'm gonna try that.
The last young lady was so sweet! GOD bless her!! She was so honest and sincerely is changing her life, I wish her the best in life, she will find a good man 😊🌹