ESL Tips: The Secret to Dealing with Rude & Hostile Students | Don’t Let Your Student Win!!!!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 ก.ค. 2024
- Have you ever had students give you the FINGER? Or students who say, YOU are ugly, fat, stupid or worse... say “I want to kill you, teacher!”
These are students with hostile and disruptive behaviors and teachers are ALWAYS predisposed to being faced with such students at one point. These kinds of students are those who want to feel that THEY ARE IN CONTROL. This is the root cause as to why they are lashing out on you!
Now, how can we deal with such nightmare students? What is the SECRET? Find out from the video! :)
⚠️ Clue: Your students WIN if you can’t move on. If you get upset and show this in class, YOUR STUDENT WINS!
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Teacher Karen, you are really a strong teacher. I cried many times when adult students became rude, but now, I have learned not to take things personally. Thank you so much!
You're welcome! There have been several strangers from work who made me cry when I was younger. I got stronger because of them and learned how to brush them off and simply be "dead inside" when someone being rude to me LOL
Just stumbled upon this video, Teacha Karen, thank you for the detailed explanation.
Thank you very much for the tips Teacha Karen!
You are so welcome! Happy to help more teachas!
Just subscribed to your channel. Thank you for all your help! I do like to keep a "poker face" when I'm dealing with difficult students. Yes, if you argue back you lose their respect.
EXACTLY. The poker face is perfect! just seem neutral and "unaffected" lol
This is very helpful Teacha Karen. Thank you so much. 😊
You are so welcome!
Thank you Teacher Karen!
You are so welcome!
Thanks teacher karen for this informative video. During my 1st year as a teacher in senior high, I encountered those kind of students (the whole class) . It started with one very disrespectful student (the class pres.) that soon influenced the whole class. As a finearts grad, I dont have any training on classroom management and in dealing with those type of students. I was really culture shocked that time,even until now,I get pissed off whenever I see them in socialmedia. I like the part "lose the figh", ''let go and move on'' thanks for this video.
Being bullied as a child, being in front of bullies was my biggest nightmare so I did my best to learn how to handle difficult people may they be kids or adults. Know that we get better over time. Classroom management is something we develop as we get the experience the "difficult ones"
I want to hug you, teacha karen. Thank you for always sharing your experiences and giving useful tips 💗
(virtual hug) You're welcome 🥰
Thanks for sharing this Teacher,my students is getting ruder every time we have our class. and honestly since I'm a newbie ESL Teacher I did take it personally but after watching your videos I feel more okay now.
I've been waiting for this💗
Thank you! I hope it helps :)
@@TeachaKaren Yes, it helps a lot teacha. And I really admire your personality teacha Karen. 😊
Hey, excellent tips teacha Karen! I'd like to suggest though for your next videos to raise the volume of your voice because in order to make out what you say my ears hurt with the special effects. Thanks so much again! Such a blessing!
Very educational. Thank you for this tips teacher 🧑🏫☺️
My pleasure!
I like the idea, "be willing to lose" because if you really analyze the situation, a teacher will never win fighting with his or her students, because they are not your level. Incase a teacher won, there's no self-fulfillment anyway, so it is better to lose the battle.
Exactly! I like how you see this, the fulfilling part is knowing you were the bigger person 🥰
Exactly! I like how you see this, the fulfilling part is knowing you were the bigger person 🥰
Great tip
Hi Teacha Karen! I'm glad I came across your video, Ive been an ESL Teacher for a long time and it does irritate me to my core when the Students themselves don't understand and cooperate on their end.
you got me on BE WILLING TO LOSE.
'coz that just hit the nail right on the head..
Can you share more tips in handling negative feedbacks? Thanks
Negative feedback is inevitable because we cannot impress everyone. I always get hut a little at first as I am only human, but I shrug it off and then I LEARN from them. I make sure they never happen again, thus I take a preventive approach. But if the negative complaint is not for me, let's say it's for the company, I just move on and say to my self the odds are not in my favor...ok move one LOL
I think what you're ultimately saying is that, you aren't going to get them to say "you are right," even if you are. But in some cases you can get them to relax and cooperate if you tell them they are right, since they do have a point and have a right to be different, and let it go.
Thank you ❤️✨
You’re welcome 😊
Hi Karen! This is Hana, a new subscriber here, greetings from Tunisia! Thank you so much for the helpful and efficient content! ^^
You're so welcome! I hope my videos would be useful
My student books a lesson with me every time and always yelling at me! I can’t believe I had 50 classes with him already
Ang ganda ng props, kulay pink.
I agree with you, teacher. This is applicable in any ESL company whether your student is Chinese, Japanese, etc... Keep posting and give us more tips. How to stretch patient.. hehehe
In other words, always be ready LOL
@@TeachaKaren tumpak teacher! Have a great day!
Nice one Teach!
Thank you teach Aris 🥰
Continue creating useful content teach!!!
Thank you, I will
I really admire you teacher karen ,.. kasama ka sa mga nag momotivate saakin .. i hope makakaya ko to . today is may first day in class , but waiting sa mga bookings . d ko ma explain nararamdaman ko, halo kaba at takot.. :)
Nako nakakakaba talaga ang first day, pero most likely Wala or konti lang classes mo on day 1, but it gets better over time 🥰
@@TeachaKaren hihi thank you po ulet 💗🥰😁
Hi teach I applied your tip specially for my rude and sarcastic adult and it"s effective. Thank you so much teach.. now I'm waiting for new upload in dealing with students with tantrums because I always encountered it in my trials
Oh I'm happy to hear this! I'm glad that you get to learn new things from my channel. I just don't want our students to ruin our day because when I was new, I would dwell on these experiences and it's really a bummer!
Thank you Teacher
you're welcome
What if your students see your willingness to lose as weakness and a chance to walk all over you?
That "move on" "lose the fight" and "pause" 😍. I'm glad to know that these things serves as an appropriate response to rude students 😆. I've been doing this and so far, nakakawala nga ng stress na dulot nila😆😆😆
Diiiba, wag tayo pa-apekto kasi tayo din ang talo sa huli, not work the less then 55petot we earn per class.hahahah
@@TeachaKaren Tama yan 😍 More power to you Teacha Karen ❤️
This is all so true! Misery loves company, but the best response is to maintain your professionalism.
All your videos are excellent, but could you please make another "example class with commentary" video? Those are terrific! Thank you for helping everybody!
One of the truest tests of professionalism indeed! 🥰
Hi Teacha Karen, I would like to download my classroom videos. So I would like to ask how to download classin and classroom videos?
You cannot download it, i use a screen recorder to record the classes :) You can try bandicam, some teachers use it
Hoping na Wala ako maging student na ganyan 😂😂..tnx teach Karen for this vid, ready na ako😁😁😁
Nako nanjan lang sila sa tabitabi, you can never tell kelan ka matatapat kay Chucky hehehe 👹
@@TeachaKaren 😂😂😂😂
Hi, teacha! I just passed the interview and I sent a message to my TM 4 days ago. I always up my messages and I just realized that he responded 3 days ago. Maybe the convo tabs had a damage or glitch. I immediately sent my details right after I have seen it just now. Do I still have a chance pa po? I'm deeply nervous.
Yes, just make sure you meet all the deadlines. ♥️ Usually Tesol has a deadline.
Waiting po
Thanks po ♥️
Hello, have you had a student named Mari? I had the misfortune of having this rude student the other day and this was the worst student I've encountered on NC thus far.
I haven't, but I',m sure that in my 10 years of teaching, I have had students similar to her, they are our worst nightmare and we just don't have a choice but to deal with them
May student po ako na , feeling nya alam na nya lahat ang lesson sa libro. Ano po gagawin? Sabi nya libro is boring lol
HI teacha is acadsoc is allowed to do f2f interview? Please answer teacher thank you so much
It's just a video call or through a.i. (system). Not unless you are office-based
@@TeachaKaren Okay teacha Today is my interview in their office hoping that I can passed the interview😭❤️
"Lose" is a verb with "Z" sound.
Hi Teacha Karen... can Indians apply to ACADSOC too ? or is it limited only to Filipinos and native English speakers ? I want to apply too but I am an Indian
Yes you can, 🤗 acadsoc has no prejudice....
@@maybellawagan27 Aww thank you so much for replying, but I finished my AI interview and i was asked to take a training class, to become a teacher, but my trainer said I can't go further with my application :(
Ow, well, then have ur training and apply again😊 Don't lose hope ..😊...
@@maybellawagan27 Thanks ... I will do that :)
Aww it's sad to hear this but on the brighter side, you received feedback to help you be better. We hope to have you here when you're ready! :)
Hello Teacher karen. Kung hindi pa po naka pasa ng mga requirements tulad ng NBI, hindi kapa po ba makak proceed sa training?
Pwede namang to follow ang requirements basta gagawin mo before ka maendorse sa TM mo (after training)
@@TeachaKaren Ganon po ba. Wala pa kaming communication sa TM ko po teacher karen huhu :(
@@monicaadavan7453 You should get in touch with your TM, you should have their ID, then search it on the chat box :)
Thank you teacher Karen I just completed my 33 class on my first week in Acadsoc and I have encountered a rude student. He kept on shouting at me in the Chinese language I dont even know why.
I was shocked and broken haha but I kept moving forward and moved on.
Ohhhh I can relate... but the broken part, not anymore. Though 9 years ago, when I got cursed and screamed at on the phone by an adult customer, I walked out and was in tears LOL. My point is, we get stronger every day to the point that when this happens, you still get surprised but you no longer get affected emotionally. You survived your first (of many) rude student! Focus on the bright side, there are more loving students who will be like a friend to you
Yey Thanks teacher 15 days na ako sa Acadsoc and I got 44 finished classes na. Yey Im always watching your videos if I need to learn something. It's really helpful.
@@jinrovlogs1998 Happy to hear that my videos have been helpful :)
May mga tao talagang di napalaki nang tama. Tayo nalang umintindi sa kanila.
Correct! Madami silang ganyan, iintindihin nalang talaga natin. ♥️
Teacha Karen. I experience it earlier. Yung student ko panay flip her middle finger. I saw it na nung una pinalampas ko lang. But she keeps doing it and medj nainis na ko. I talked to her 5 minutes before we finished our class. Sabi ko sa kanya na okay we are done here. Why do you keep flipping your middle finger to me? Is there anything... Blah blah ganon. But in my most mildest and calmest tone. Nung sinabi ko na I want to talk to her parents natahimik na siya and yung kasama niya tumakbo na palabas. I chatted my TM na regarding about it and waiting for her response. I also put it in my remarks na ganon nga. Tama ba yung ginawa ko? Haha. I know in myself na tama kase if she can do it to me for sure she already do it to other teachers naden. I kinda feel bad because of the incident na yun medj degrading pala siya sa feels. ☹️
Better to report it right away via CS.. - student not following guidance then put noted that the student gave you the finger and refuses to listen.
Better not to interrogate or question their actions, just say it makes you sad (but not really, you shouldnt be affected by this..not worth it)
Then you did the right thing when you asked for the parents :)
Hello po Teach Karen 😊 Ask ko lang po baka lang po may idea po kayo hehe. May required months to wait po ba to reapply po kay acadsoc? Or pwede na po mag reapply agad? Salamat po. 😊
3 months po ♥️
ahh oki po. salamat po. 😊
Hello teacher, just want to ask any tips on How to handle a smart student that's started to get arrogant. Seems like he knows everything. 😔
Never give away your power. Once you do, it would be difficult for you to get it back. What I'd do there is to continue to challenge the student without him noticing. I would also feed his ego and do my best to befriend the student (to get him to my side)
Thank you Maam.. nastress ako sa student ko mas magaling pa sakin,pero tama po ung ginawa ko na wag makipag talo at mag yes yes nalang 🙏🙏🙏
Oh diba teach? Kasi araw din natin ang masisira ng bongga. Hindi worth it 😂
2 days na nya kong snasabihan na Don't I love you. Sabi ko naman I still love you even if you don't. Tama pala gnawa ko🤣🤣
oh YES!!!! tama yan! meron pa nga sakin, "I want to kill you, teacher!" hahahaha tawa nalang tayo after class.
I encountered rude students today ahahahaha feeling ko minumura nya ako, biti nalang may ganitomg video.huhu, atleast I could feel that I'm not alone
Nako teach madami silang ganyan, pwede ka din naman magmura e basta nakasmile at nakamute HAHAHAHA o kaya palabasin mo nalang sa butas ng ilong tapos move on ka nalang after class :) hingang malalim tas inom tubig hihihi
Surely,I have been struggling with this because I'm black who teach whites.
Some focus on look and don't listen 😊😢😅
That is sad and unfair. Maybe I could also say people from the brown race like my self can also relate to this
teacher karen.. ANg ganda poh ng accent nyo.. Paano po kaya mapa improve ang accent sa pagsasalita ng english?
Inaral ko lang. I tried to copy people I see on TV and it also helped to speak with foreigners especially Native speakers, had to work at a BPO company for about 3 years :)
Hi teacher karen
Hello! How can I help?
I likes your videos but sound effect always scared me. Why do you use so loud and scary sound effect like guns and horor movies sound. For sensitive people it can get scary sometimes. Thanks for considering changing this looking forward.
Thank you for your feedback. I got a feedback like this before so I ended up reducing the volume of the sound effects way way lower than this one. My apologies.
Wait, I thought you were an English teacher. You said "I want to ran you with..." it is run, not ran.
i had my first day yesterday and i wasn't expecting to have a 8 hours class straight and i've encountered many students, i think they're cursing at me in their language but I just laughed HAHAHAHA cause I don't understand them😂
HAHHAAHAH good for you! your first day and you are swamped but but but never plot schedules without breaks. YOU WILL REGRET IT and you will hate this job hahahah
@@TeachaKaren i am actually starting to regret plotting long schedules teacher huhuhu, i think i'm gonna faint hahahaha plus yesterday's salary was jud equal to my penalties HAHAHAHA
Ang OA mo!😂😂😂
Nah. It's your low EQ.