Be misunderstood.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ต.ค. 2024
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It's not that people are incapable of understanding, it's just that most people are too self absorbed. Wishing they were understood rather than putting in the effort of understanding others. And that's okay. Maybe it's just my projecting of how I perceive life, but it seems to be human nature. Most of us want the sweeter end of a trade
Sometimes it's okay to be misunderstood just for your worth to be realised later.
"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society."
~ Jiddu Krishnamurti
One of the things which honestly grind my gears the most. It seems some people try to see the most negative possiblity to the point they deserve an award for it. One even worse thing is a group of people like this 1upping each other the point it becomes a witch hunt, or reddit.
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Note to self: If you want to be understood, understand youself.
I actually miss being missunderstood. People would not understand me in chats and I fought myself for changing the way I spoked and typed seeking to be able to talk with people, I miss the feeling. At that time I was labeled as crazy and strange but I knew what and who I was, and after those people left it made me realize that all the effort to being able to conect with anyone was in vain. At least I had one person who understood me, but I don't know myself anymore.
Be whole in yourself, and for the love of god, don't ever forget who you are. Stay safe out there my friends!
If you can lose yourself then what you lost wasn't really who you are.
@@TheTri90 Sure, that's probably true but I wouldn't say that I literally lost it, it's suppressed and I can't bring it back after so many times hiding who I am...
I was happy for being able to socialize with whoever showed up, but now I realized that there isn't a single person worth losing your own identity in exchange for cheap talk.
@@linxbang2294 I see what you mean. Just keep in mind that you are aware of it all. It implies that there is a greater light within you that is able to perceive the light and the dark. Who you truly are could never be suppressed.
We're each one perspective out of billions, misunderstandings are bound to happen
dope title. tough life but you get the things you desire.
once you really take a look, it becomes crazy how much of humanity's culture is focused on the battle of controlling the perception the outside world has of yourself. also the idea that at the beginning of your life you're the first person to know anything about yourself, and at the end you're the last person to know.
youve put into words a lot of realizations ive been having recently. particularly that nobody but yourself can truly understand you.
ive always sought validation but i also found it important to be myself so i was caught in an awkward spot in the middle for a while. if people get it they get it and if they don't it's not your job to make them understand.
Carl Jung talked about the intuitive introvert. I think many people who are misunderstood just have a completely diffrent thought pattern and outlook on life.
Makes sense to me
yay new video
Other people will never be able to understand anybody else. we want to make others believe and ourselves included that we do, but if we are truly honest we cannot. Because we all see different things, we all feel different things, we all perceive reality differently. Yes empathy exist and things can be felt and perceived but nontheless you cannot know the scope of another person(s) life. Once we try to do that i have learned there is a tendency to wanna control a person itself whether it be for good or bad reasons. Regardless once that is being done you are doing an individual a diss-service because every being has the ability to figure themselves out. All we as individuals have to do is be ourselves in life, radiate who we are and those who need to see it, those who need to perceive it will see those aspects of us which then allows them to make a choice if they want to be this way or not. This is why you all watch Leilani; She is expressing a version for you to become and the choice is yours entirely.
This once again goes back to: do you accept yourself as you are? And if most people are honest they most likely do not. I know at some point in my life i didn't!. It took many years!! People who don't, tend to have large social circles because confirmation and acceptance is what makes a person feel like they belong and like they are being understood. They equate it to happiness, whereas smaller circles of social interaction is more so an indication the person is doing the work and self reflection. This is where wisdom and growth originate from. Alone still spells Al one. There is unity and growth in being on your own and learning about yourself.
But the slight danger in this is that you never really discover yourself if you wanna be understood by others because they will form such narrative(s) around your personality and shape you even into someone you are not. Naturally you will always find who you are, what you are about, how you as a puzzle piece fit into the whole. But once you let others shape you, you'll no longer fit!.
So i implore everyone to love themselves, life will fall into place miraculously at some point!. Distractions will drop away and you'll feel more open, more alive, more vital, stronger, wiser, you'll emit an energy that will calm people. They will seek to be near you but you must always teach self empowerment, let no man or woman depent on you as a source of energy!. This is crucial!!.
And the last thing: Love Unconditionally and you will never be misunderstood because the only thing that can be true about yourself is what you tell yourself. you are all so very beautiful, eventhough i may not know you, YOU ARE!. Remember that! And when i speak of beauty, i do not mean this shell you wear to navigate this realm i mean YOU, ALL OF YOU. The good the bad, the past you may have had, its shaping you like clay. But now its time to shape yourself!. Don't let others touch you when you aren't hardened yet.
Bruce Lee said it best: Be Water my Friend.
Also please don't stop speaking your mind. We need this and I'm grateful that you're willing to go out on a limb for us and you alone have already encouraged me to pursue change and be happy and content with myself, as I am. I am very appreciative of your work
@@AngelEmbertson-le2gp thank you 🥹
Thank you so much for the inspiration.
You look esteemed
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@@junnipres Sign me up!
@@timinri Awesome, just give me your username and i'll shoot you a friend request
@@junnipres When I copied, it provided this: timmytime1989
Thank you for your content
I honestly think that the obsessive need to have other people understand you, to the point where you're willing to "normalize" your personality in front of others, is one of the most destructive feelings you can have. For me, at least, but I don't know if others think so too.
I relate to being misunderstood all my life, I have mild autism so I’ve been dealing with it. It doesn’t help that I thought if I over-explain on the things I’ve done I would be understood but the opposite has happened and i didn’t realise I was pushing people away from me until it was too late. I always think about my mistakes and regrets, and I always try to make things right even if it seems wrong at the time
You look so cool in this videos I could hear you talk about any topic really. Just throwing this out there. Take care leilani
dear . . .
that is true
If people really want to understand you, they'll show interest in doing so. If people jump straight to hating you based on misunderstandings or preconceived judgements, they never had much interest in getting to know you or care about you in the first place. Choose your friends wisely and don't force yourself to change for people that never wanted to like you or understand you in the first place.
That's my opinion. It's okay for people to not like you or misunderstand you. Being true and authentic will attract the right crowd to you.
I doubt that acceptance is all it's made out to be. To know you did your best and be done with it is both empowering and liberating. I don't mind being misunderstood as it keeps people away 😂😂😂
It offers no freedom no comfort what you're teaching yourself to do is being self centered you won't be able to drop your guard with the right people because they don't matter how they feel won't matter you're hardining your heart because you're hurting and you're trying to deal with it trying to find answers but closing your heart isn't the answer that will only bring you more pain and loneliness living by the idea that nothing really matters isn't beneficial
I’m 29 and still feel misunderstood a lot. Lol.
as freeing as it is lonely
Everything you said is just me
I wish I understood myself
You are an interesting person. I love your videos
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Wonderful take
Oh, don't worry, I've always been misunderstood... my entire life. In fact, I like to describe myself as this relatively misunderstood person. I have a heart of gold, but not everyone can see that. Sometimes, my luck isn't always the best. Occasionally, I unintentionally rub others the wrong way and that leads them to make some assumptions about me. More often than not, I never like being misunderstood. It's hurtful and unfair in general. I try really hard to show I'm not that kind of person and/or the same person from the past. But I have to accept the fact that not everyone is for me.
What you're talking about is a byproduct of being dependent on a hierarchical structure of Subordination. Individuals who are Free and Independent will never be insecure and self-conscious.
Bowling Stream! Wooooooo! >:3
I can barely...
Misson accomplished
I love you
I'm misunderstanding you
Cool cheers. 🍺
Also what a coincidence. Earlier today I saw an anime edit and the girl said "a lot of people have never even seen the real me." Somehow I knew that was going to be the theme for my day today.
Hey!! I'm inviting a few people to my discord server before releasing it to the public in a couple days if you'd like to join! Just let me know
@@junnipres Yes please.
@@highsol222 awesome, what's your discord username
@@junnipres highsol
@@junnipres ps; I don't know if theres more to the username. I barely know how discord works lol
Ngl saw the thumbnail and thought it was an advertisement for BeetleJuice.
You could dress up like the lead actress for such an easy Halloween win
Before i watch the video i have a comment: i can't hear you Leilani! The volume is too low
Now back to the video
i think you mean be attractive not "misunderstood'" that lone wolf mentality archetype is only cool when the person isnt ugly.
Who's on your left? You keep looking again and again?
There's a discord? Maybe I'll consider joining :)
sorry, i didn't understood what you meant.
I could try to understand you ❤
Dont tell me what to do
yeah. someone views you as the person they confide in and another views you as the high energy goofball.
as for the next stream i'm fine with whenever
Hey!! I'm inviting a few people to my discord server before releasing it to the public in a couple days if you'd like to join! Just let me know
@@junnipres oh hell yes I'll join
@@leonasty69 awesome, just shoot me your username and i'll add ya
@@junnipres my username is BadBoyBetty
@@junnipres if you somehow weren't able to add me, i think my username is all lowercase.
i don't understand discord yet lol
you should cut off your coffee consumption