This is my confirmation, I will not have another mom like my own. She loved me and was a pillar in my life, my gift from God. Ever since my mother passed away I’ve always wanted to be favoured by my partner’s mom.
South African women are taught to be doormats when it comes to marriage, it’s so unfair. I pray this next generation teaches their daughters to have boundaries and not be afraid to walk away from the first sign of disrespect🙏🏽
I went through the same with my mother in law, she was jealous of me like we were married to the same man and then my husband died yooh it was hell on earth,she took everything we had and left me with nothing.she witched me ,I couldn't walk and in pain for a year and say it straight to my face you will follow your husband.
Owamie, Owamie, you're gonna kill us with enxiety. Part1 ended so abruptly and we had to wait this long for part 2😢 by now you know how much we love you and your platform. We just can't wait. Please don't punish us😂
Yazi listening to this lady I’m now thankful for my super power 🤣🤣 Mina all it takes is a funny dream & you are disowned. I will unfriend , unfamily you 😂😂😂😂 ask my ex family 😌 I don’t stay for poo . I remember in my early 20s I stayed in a communal house , I moved out at 1:00 am because of a dream I had I didn’t see the face of the person but I knew what ever they were doing was bad 😂😂. I later found out that the landlord was doing some voodoo things to keep tenants from moving out 😅😅😅.
Yeyi we encounter those types, God shows us don't be stubborn and ignore your dreams. We think we are saviors sometimes kanti no the Lord is saying run for your life. Yhoo
This woman was let down by the men in her life. First, her uncles, her older brother and then her husband. She's so used to useless men that she makes excuses for them like it's a normal thing. She needs to raise her expectations from people around her. She seems like a very genuine person, I wish her all the best 🤍
He was the first born, he was suppose to fight for the younger siblings and defend them from the elders. They liked him because he allowed the elders to disrespect his younger siblings.
This monster in law should have met me shame. Whats there for her to be jealous of between mom n son's relationship unless there's more to it. This kind of mother in law's do not want their sons to get married.
I get that hey but mostly we get disrespected cause of cohabitation, don’t move in with a man in his parents’s house is a shame, let that man marry you and get a house of his own, even if is a one bedroom apartment
Thanks to this podcast that is revealing all the shameless things that our mothers and sisters endures in their marriage This platform has taught me a lot sheim more especially about Marriage Triangle ❤❤❤❤❤❤keep it up Owami we love you Sis❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
My man always asks "what did his mom say" cause he knows how devious she is. He KNOWS what's up and protects me in her house. We stay at a back flat for now. I love him & appreciate dearly 💙 Ps: She doesn’t accept me too and all i can say.. love thrives more than wickedness.
A human being does not know unconditional love, be it a mother, child, marriage, friendship and relationships…no human being knows to give unconditional love. Only God knows that because that’s the love he has for us, unconditional.
If you have God's spiritual gift upon your life and you can not close your mouth then you are going to experience the worst in life. Talking too much will attract enemies to your life.
@@reneilwephala1997I decided to stop communicating with my baby daddy because of his mother, that woman is a witch, she wants his son to take care of her, she uses evil spells to me and my daughter
Earth tones look so good on you Queen. *Please ask her about her relationship with her dad now that she's met him. *Now that her daughter has grown, does she have a relationship with her grandma?
The problem we have today as men is that if we are too strict, and do not tolerate a woman making suggestions and doing what she thinks is best. Then something is wrong with the man. The man must 'heal.' Then we are labelled 'abusive.' When sh+t hits the fan after allowing certain things to occur based on YOUR SUGGESTION,, and we are hoping you can deal with the situation YOU signed up for. Then we are not supportive enough. Then we are labelled 'weak.' Then everyone who hears the story has to ask the story teller ,"What did your partner say?" Nobody ever says, "Sisi, nawe awumameli" 😂 Great story teller and interviewer by the way.🎉
Ladies. Please try to listen to your life partners when they are reluctant to do or go somewhere with you. Understand that, just because you can make your life partner do things he doesn't want, or you can soften him up. That doesn't mean you can do the same with people with whom he is related to. As men, we struggle to deal with a situation that we could have prevented. And WE WILL adopt an 'I TOLD YOU SO' attitude towards you. What we need is for you to listen in the beginning. Accept that fairytales arent for everyone. Also, defend us as well by saying that we(men) told you not to settle there in the first place, when YOUR family makes us out to be the bad people for not getting involved in domestic matters.
It's here on part 2. She did say she was beaten up by the mom in law and the sister in law. Also mentioned an abuse incident she experienced by her husband
Does she have a relationship with her dad now? How did she meet this guy? How did she cheat on him? How did she find out he cheated on her? Does he take care of his child?
I could listen to this lady speak all day. Despite what she has been through she still radiates such positive energy❤️❤️❤️ she’s a good narrator too.
I k know right 😊
Made stronger by my pain 😊
6@@matheralengau
She even laughs a little 🤣
💯I really enjoyed the interview and the way she speaks.....❤❤❤......
This is my confirmation, I will not have another mom like my own. She loved me and was a pillar in my life, my gift from God. Ever since my mother passed away I’ve always wanted to be favoured by my partner’s mom.
Please can we have part 456😂i really enjoyed listening to her
I know her she use to help me in the church.very humble
@@JabuZulu-q8b Thank you Jabu
South African women are taught to be doormats when it comes to marriage, it’s so unfair. I pray this next generation teaches their daughters to have boundaries and not be afraid to walk away from the first sign of disrespect🙏🏽
True, especially black women, we are treated like shit from elderly black women and black men.
I enjoyed this conversation. This lady is free-spirited and a good narrator ❤️❤️❤️
The headboy signing in.....I was looking for part 2 everywhere.....even in my pockets....good morning sweet Ninjas
Not in your pockets😂😂😂
@@Ramonescenceclothing 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Not Elvis being the headboy and the class clown at the same time😂
@@SibsM93 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ladys remember you get the boy you pick not the man you hope he becomes
😢
Yho😢
Can't wait for part 3 hle yoh. She's so beautiful also 😊
I went through the same with my mother in law, she was jealous of me like we were married to the same man and then my husband died yooh it was hell on earth,she took everything we had and left me with nothing.she witched me ,I couldn't walk and in pain for a year and say it straight to my face you will follow your husband.
😮 sorry, lala, that hurts
Oooh dia, you will not die.keep on pushing pray every 3 am.
😱
Yhooo am sorry mommy hope u are owk now
Yoh 😢
Owamie, Owamie, you're gonna kill us with enxiety. Part1 ended so abruptly and we had to wait this long for part 2😢 by now you know how much we love you and your platform. We just can't wait. Please don't punish us😂
Some mothers have weird attachments to their sons.
Honestly, because the mother in law sounds weird.
Yazi listening to this lady I’m now thankful for my super power 🤣🤣 Mina all it takes is a funny dream & you are disowned. I will unfriend , unfamily you 😂😂😂😂 ask my ex family 😌 I don’t stay for poo .
I remember in my early 20s I stayed in a communal house , I moved out at 1:00 am because of a dream I had I didn’t see the face of the person but I knew what ever they were doing was bad 😂😂. I later found out that the landlord was doing some voodoo things to keep tenants from moving out 😅😅😅.
Ex family yoh ku rough emhlabeni 😂
@@BaileBaloyi 🤣🤣🤣 they were moving funny so I disowned everyone .
Yeyi we encounter those types, God shows us don't be stubborn and ignore your dreams. We think we are saviors sometimes kanti no the Lord is saying run for your life. Yhoo
This woman was let down by the men in her life. First, her uncles, her older brother and then her husband. She's so used to useless men that she makes excuses for them like it's a normal thing. She needs to raise her expectations from people around her. She seems like a very genuine person, I wish her all the best 🤍
The sad reality of most black SA women, no protection from men.
But how did her brother let her down?
@@loniamalatji5454 Unyabile, he was letting his younger female siblings take all the heat.
He was the first born, he was suppose to fight for the younger siblings and defend them from the elders. They liked him because he allowed the elders to disrespect his younger siblings.
Thanks for not rushing it queen ninja we have to hear the story properly we will wait for part 4🎉
I never like long stories but I really enjoyed this one. This lady is a good narrator
This monster in law should have met me shame. Whats there for her to be jealous of between mom n son's relationship unless there's more to it. This kind of mother in law's do not want their sons to get married.
I get that hey but mostly we get disrespected cause of cohabitation, don’t move in with a man in his parents’s house is a shame, let that man marry you and get a house of his own, even if is a one bedroom apartment
She's so nice man i wish so many blessing on to her.🥺
My sister from today your name is Kedibone coz wow you’ve seen it all🙌🏽
It so sad that you can't be honest about your background 😢 because people will look down on you
The very same thing happens to me,lot of things happened to me
Yooh! you can say that again...
People so evil they will use it against you shem😭😭😭
And use to against you, for their advantage 😢
I was waiting for part 2 thanks owamie your podcast are very educational ❤❤❤
Thanks to this podcast that is revealing all the shameless things that our mothers and sisters endures in their marriage
This platform has taught me a lot sheim more especially about Marriage Triangle
❤❤❤❤❤❤keep it up Owami we love you Sis❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
We have been waiting! Finally ❤
My man always asks "what did his mom say" cause he knows how devious she is. He KNOWS what's up and protects me in her house. We stay at a back flat for now. I love him & appreciate dearly 💙
Ps: She doesn’t accept me too and all i can say.. love thrives more than wickedness.
Part 2 is way better than part 1. She narrated so well. Indeed she has been to hell and back 😔
Oh Owamie thank you yaz I couldn't stop listening to her. This lady went through horrible things but how she speaks it seemed like an easy life
Waited for part 2 so bad 🥺🥺🥺Thank you Shibubu for not delaying😂
Mom in laws😂 my baby his 6 months now she has never touch or see him
Girl same.My baby.. she's 5 months now and not even a day she has put effort to come see her
A human being does not know unconditional love, be it a mother, child, marriage, friendship and relationships…no human being knows to give unconditional love. Only God knows that because that’s the love he has for us, unconditional.
Let's give this pastor clap👏👏👏👏❤❤❤❤wooow thank you for sharing we are learning a lot❤❤❤
Mother inlaws are dangerous. They can destroy their sons marriage in a minute , but they want their daughters to be happy in their marriages
Women are the strongest creatures on earth✨
If you have God's spiritual gift upon your life and you can not close your mouth then you are going to experience the worst in life. Talking too much will attract enemies to your life.
I know a granny like that, she hates her sons children to the core. She's like in a competition
I will never understand these jealous moms of their makotis hay it’s very sad shame, I get shocked everytime I hear these stories 😭
Nna I'm in a situation where I'm always bewitched by her,she doesn't wanna see me breathing
@@reneilwephala1997Yho hay leave sis and pray even harder.
@@reneilwephala1997wake up every 3:am and pray.
@@reneilwephala1997I decided to stop communicating with my baby daddy because of his mother, that woman is a witch, she wants his son to take care of her, she uses evil spells to me and my daughter
@reneilwephala1997 please fight back please don't not let them bully you.
I like the sjambok idea😂😂😂🤭
Mothers that sleep with their sons are such dodgy characters. Everyone in the family ends up insane!
Thank you for sharing your story❤
Are we gonna get happily divorced?
Its like nollywood movies
Eyi this mother in law, toxic, magician, street fighter. 😂😂 sorry for laughing.
Sometimes we end up lying to people because we tried to protect ourselves.
Finally p2,thank you
The monster-in-law was really a nunju
Can we adopt each other, I would love to have you as a sister and I am also motherless ❤❤❤❤
Glad to meet you, sis'❤
Oh yeah...where is the shambok by the way, it's really needed
😂😂
Matheakwena❤wow powerful name ngwana Moshoeshoe 🇱🇸💐
❤
🥰 Kea itebohela hlee ninja 🥷
Ndingambetha anye rhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa😮😢
Isichitho is real😳😳😳
Very Real
Patiently waiting for part 2
I hope she can tell us the monster inlaw's tribe. I am doing research lol
What is the name of the medication
Obviously Limpopo tribe😂
She speaks Nguni when repeating what she said
😂😂😂 zulu i guess
My suspect are the mamazala favorite guests
Please don't keep us waiting for long ninja 💪👌
Earth tones look so good on you Queen.
*Please ask her about her relationship with her dad now that she's met him.
*Now that her daughter has grown, does she have a relationship with her grandma?
Representative for Uganda ❤❤❤
The switch that can never be unswitched😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, yeah she is
I can't wait for the next part
Signing in for part 2❤
Yooo o sotlehile ngwana batho, but ur strong shame. Yo journey is a painful long one but God always has a plan.
True that, it is by God's Faithfulness
Yoh I am dealingt with a father inlaw like your mom in law. He is a witch including his 2 sisiters.
The problem we have today as men is that if we are too strict, and do not tolerate a woman making suggestions and doing what she thinks is best. Then something is wrong with the man. The man must 'heal.' Then we are labelled 'abusive.'
When sh+t hits the fan after allowing certain things to occur based on YOUR SUGGESTION,, and we are hoping you can deal with the situation YOU signed up for. Then we are not supportive enough. Then we are labelled 'weak.'
Then everyone who hears the story has to ask the story teller ,"What did your partner say?" Nobody ever says, "Sisi, nawe awumameli" 😂
Great story teller and interviewer by the way.🎉
Beautiful strong lady❤
Part 3 please
🥺🥺dropping the case ahh 😢
We need to buy the sjambok hle 😂😂
Ladies. Please try to listen to your life partners when they are reluctant to do or go somewhere with you. Understand that, just because you can make your life partner do things he doesn't want, or you can soften him up. That doesn't mean you can do the same with people with whom he is related to.
As men, we struggle to deal with a situation that we could have prevented. And WE WILL adopt an 'I TOLD YOU SO' attitude towards you. What we need is for you to listen in the beginning. Accept that fairytales arent for everyone.
Also, defend us as well by saying that we(men) told you not to settle there in the first place, when YOUR family makes us out to be the bad people for not getting involved in domestic matters.
😮how it ended, we knew part 2 is coming
Owami u are best ❤
Notification gang gang baby 🎉🎉❤❤❤🥳🥳🥳🫠🫠🫠🫠
People go through a lot in marriage.
Lord may i not be the Mother in law to my son's wife please😭
This is painful
Me to will leave that man . Come on.
So is the part where she gets beaten on this part or did I miss it on part 1 🤷🏾♀️
It's here on part 2. She did say she was beaten up by the mom in law and the sister in law. Also mentioned an abuse incident she experienced by her husband
Pleaseeeeeeeeee bring her back😢❤❤
Signing in 😊
I am also losing weight like crazy, he is busy like nobodies business.
Leave
@misstidimalo I left, and the I left my husband found our bedroom with things and stains to show that he sprinkled stuff
thank you ❤
Yooo my mother was beaten by my grandmother and my aunt I was very far guys I was boiling when I heard about it
Maybe you bring her in happily divorced…poor thing she has been through a lot
Owamie next week😭 how will we survive the waiting
Yo! I feel bad for the son
Please ninja bring her back sooner
Finally out 😂🎉🎉
I tend to think your ex mum inlaw had some type of bipolar.
Waitse kana 🤔 I feel so sorry for you ❤
Finally part 2, thanks Owamie ❤ 0:52
Was your Ex Pedi?🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂 my thought as well
@@PreciousNdlovu-jc8kw I’m Pedi myself but hey our brothers ba re disappoint
😂😂
Tell her I want her to be my little sister
Dankoooooo🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉.
Does she have a relationship with her dad now?
How did she meet this guy?
How did she cheat on him? How did she find out he cheated on her?
Does he take care of his child?
The dad passed on
We were friends for months, and he's a good dad to our daughter and to my other kids. We are now best friends
@@nefefefulu9760 oooh yah, she did say. Ai memory of an 80 year here
Is the Ex husband pedi ?
Cos wow🤣🤣🤣🤣bomma
Si la📍📍📍📍
Wow 😢😢😢
We inside .
Emotional incest🤢
Within 🖤
Inkani yabafazi base Lesotho izobabulalisa...
😂😂😅
❤❤❤Inside
Please ask her how she is doing like for real how is she😢😢
God's been faithful, on healing journey of cause
@@matheralengauWishing you all the best with your healing journey. Love and light sis
1st🎉🎉🎉
Some mothers are withes😢