Girl Chat: Supportive Stepmoms
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ส.ค. 2024
- Adrienne Houghton opens up about her relationship with husband Israel Houghton’s children, and how she plans to approach her role as a stepmother. The rest of “The Real” ladies weigh in and offer some advice.
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Dude I’m here complaining about these old clips but I’m still watching them 😂
First Reaction 😂me too
Same!!!
Same 😂😂😂 I've seen all of these before but I'm still watching it
Me tooooo lol
Lol Glad I’m not the only one
As A said “In life, you can make a very final statement, then someone comes in your life and changes your plans.” Perfect example of Jeannie’s previous statement on becoming a mom. Jeezy came in and changed it ALL! Jeannie congrats on the baby! ❤️
I’m glad Adrienne is respectful to her husbands kids, it can be an awkward situation and some kids can view the stepmom as a replacement but she was very respectful over this situation anybody would be lucky to have her in their life
Eating dinner at my grandparents (my dads mom n stepfathers) house he brought his girlfriend over and I love them both (shes little insecure about being in mine and my sisters life) she sat next to me and everybody joined hands to say the blessing she held my Dad’s hand but she looked at me with questioning eyes I smiled and offered my hand and she took it causing her to smile in relief it was perfect
One of his kids is like in his 20s
Its funny how everyone give LONI her time to talk but when its everyones time to talk she is the queen of interupting someone
It's annoying..
xemmaX Xlovex she’s acting like Tamar
I appreciate these clips even if they're old. I don't have tv so I never saw the full episodes. They're new to me.
Me as well.
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same
Dear Peyton me2
Me too !
Whoever is owning this channel is trying the hell out of us with these 2 yr old clips
They so are!!! And its irritating.
Yup!!
I don't understand what's so crazy about that.. appreciate they post videos.
I see your everywhere 🤣🤣 ngl
I love how they kept interrupting Jeannie. She is literally the most interrupted co-host and she is always VERY DEEP. Sometimes too deep but always a new fresh point of view.
Book Bag lol she too extra sometimes
I agree...she is.
Huh? You love how they kept interrupting her ....? that’s rude.
Linzy Callahan it’s sarcasm....
*My stepmom is an evil witch* I wish it wasn’t true but it is. I can’t stress the importance of choosing the right spouse who will do good by your children while also being your spouse...
I sympathize and understand, stepfather wise.
same, my stepmom demolished me and my dad's relationship
My dad’s been married a lot so I’ve had the gamut, from super nice and sweet to some real bitches. I’m still friends with a couple of them though. It just depends on the person
Esther Denenga Indeed. It really does depend on the person. Big kudos to the people who don’t treat the kids from a previous marriage any differently though.
BabyDoll I hope you guys still have a chance to reconcile.
I was raised by my mom and my step mom. Both my Dads “Bio and Step”, were in their own way unavailable. I was always a mamas boy, and never did my step mom hold the title of “MOM” in any way. She was always know as her first name, and respected me in the fact I only had one mom. ALTHOUGH my step mom had a huge impact and hand in my own upbringing, as well as made sure my mother gave the ok in what she wanted me to learn. I love you both for the man I am today!!!
I wanna steal Adrienne’s outfit off her😍
maiya adrien same
If they can post these old full length girl chats then they are capable of posting the new ones. Get on it!
Exactly, what's the point of posting an old videos???
@@goldenyonis8287 they just want to double monatise
NM Exactly
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Coming soon in 2021. Don't worry yall
i know this is super old, but i gotta say, respect for Adrienne for acknowledging the kids mother and what a good job her and Israel are doing co-parenting. Its always good when adults are being adults and putting the kids before their own drama.
I get so happy when I see a long clip... then realize it's old 😐... but watch it anyway 😂😂😂
we will get this month's full length clips uploaded in November 2020 at this rate
Yall are killing me with these repeat clips
Is that why Adrienne isn't a step-parent yet... I was trying to figure that out...lol
@@nybsbfan18 yes this was before wedding
That’s what I was thinking 😂 I was like aren’t they married already 😂
I actually like these old clips because instead of seeing 5 parts of one girl chat, these are seamless. You get to see how they transition from topic to topic, you can hear what everyone said in one clip instead of waiting a few minutes or hours for the second part of what one of them said. Especially if you can't watch the show live (cause of work or school, etc) this is a nice perspective!
A friend put it best, she referred to her step children as bonus children and I loved that! Because it refers to them being a bonus in her life in such a positive way.
I love that!
Eating dinner at my grandparents (my dads mom n stepfathers) house he brought his girlfriend over and I love them both (shes little insecure about being in mine and my sisters life) she sat next to me and everybody joined hands to say the blessing she held my Dad’s hand but she looked at me with questioning eyes I smiled and offered my hand and she took it causing her to smile in relief it was perfect
Adrienne's makeup is on point. The lipcolor is 👍
Yall ever notice that smh face jeannie does when she gets inturrupted? Or she looks at the audience and fake smiles but we all know that smile means "I wish these heffas would let me talk" 😂
I would react the same tho! Grown women respect each other...
Blended families are like a fingerprint....its so different case by case. MY step son is 9 and lives in my home 50% of the time AND I've been in his life since he was 2. So I do the exactly the same thing with my step son as I do with my daughter.
Eating dinner at my grandparents (my dads mom n stepfathers) house he brought his girlfriend over and I love them both (shes little insecure about being in mine and my sisters life) she sat next to me and everybody joined hands to say the blessing she held my Dad’s hand but she looked at me with questioning eyes I smiled and offered my hand and she took it causing her to smile in relief it was perfect
Just in time to meet the 5th wife my dad is getting married to this month 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
These stepmoms ..Lord have mercy
I call my stepmom by her name, if people don’t know her I call her my dad’s wife. And we had the same situation as Adrienne where all us kids were older, so it would be SO weird if she disciplined me or if my dad disciplined her kids. Best to have a friendship basis with your stepparents when you’re not a kid anymore.
anditspaganpoetry That’s beyond disrespectful. I don’t have stepkids but if I did they would never call my first name. Unacceptable.
Paola Muñoz good luck with that lmao
@@PaolaMunoz-hy9if You honestly can't choose. If You're not the mother or father you don't deserve the name unless the child decides. If the step kids are grown, no chance.
Eating dinner at my grandparents (my dads mom n stepfathers) house he brought his girlfriend over and I love them both (shes little insecure about being in mine and my sisters life) she sat next to me and everybody joined hands to say the blessing she held my Dad’s hand but she looked at me with questioning eyes I smiled and offered my hand and she took it causing her to smile in relief it was perfect
Thank god they are uploading episodes on youtube. They always make my day.
I call my stepdad dad because he took over the roll of father when he didn't have too. Forever grateful the Lord sent us a dad who loves us unconditionally. I call my step mom by her name we just don't have a relationship like that. My stepdaddy is forever my daddy enough said!
Raising a family ESPECIALLY a blended family is NO easy task! We always say the role of a step parent is such a thankless role! Great talk ladies!
I love Adrienne’s thought process about this, good for her to have respect and staying in her lane. From what I see in this episode- Model of a step-parent!
I love you ladies! Makes my day watching the real. Wish i had a group of friends like the 4 of you.
I am so excited for you Adrienne to have your own baby and I know you will gonna be a phenomenal mom very soon.
I'm here for the 14-minute girl chats !!!
I go to my stepmom for advice especially relationship advice more than I do MY mom. She’s just great at advice and I like her outlook.
im just a new fan from the show, no the real here in the philippines. currently binge watchung everyday i loveee it.. love these gurls!
You guys are so funny and cute and loving when you all interrupt one another. 😊
I love my stepmom. I call her “Tatie” which Creole for aunty and also a form of respect to older folks.
In the beginning I hated that everyone wanted me to call her mom. I lived with my mom for 8 years. I know who my mom is. Why would I call my stepmom, mom. My stepmom never disciplined me. She always told my dad even though my dad gave her permission. But I’m so lucky to have a stepmom like her ❤️
I agree with A. If your convo is boring, I'm just standing there looking past the person
My dad has been with his wife for about 7 years. She’s always hated me and treated me like crap. Never fed me, never included me, throws shade on Facebook and I had to cut ties with my dad bc I couldn’t take it bc he chose her side... we need more stepmoms that are supportive !!
Well be getting Tamar girl chats soon if they keep this up🤪😭
Biblical Quotes not really they would have to pay her
Today's segment was of "True Value."
Support is vital.
Knowledge is POWER.
Discipline is key when it is instructed correctly.
(Nonviolent measures)
I actually think the short videos makes sense because they talk about different topics so it’s better for the algorithm and it’ll be clear what’s being talked about in each video
My step dad has been in our lives since I was 7 years old. When talking to close friend or family about him I would call him by his name or step dad. When talking to strangers about him, I would call him my dad.
I don't mind the old clips, as long as they are not cut half way through the chat.
Y'all have waaaay tooooo much fun! I love it!!!!!
MAM' UPLOADING.. YOU'RE FIRED
Loni looks great here!! EVERYONE looks great here ladies!! ^^
We say our kids - the kids! "Step" brother/mother/father/sister is not a word we use in our house. Were family, they are brother and sisters! All loveeeee
Love watching these ladies 😍
Love all these old clips. Please bring some clips from Season 1, there is a few episodes I've missed #prettyplease
Soooo, 13 and 14 year olds don't get grounded anymore...I'm confused. You don't pay bills, you live under your parents roof, you can be grounded...period.
No girl, times are changing, I don't know any teenagers who get grounded or anything like that
Lol my little sister just turned 14 she’s as mature as me and she doesn’t do anything that would make my mom ground her and my mom could yell at her once and she gets it so she doesn’t rlly need to be grounded.
The term “grounded” in my household is weird, we really just scream at eachother 🤣 or get our asses beat
Lmao I love this end part 😂 them making fun of each other
To explain a little bit more power poses are supposed to give you more confidence before going into a job interview or anything like that. I'm in an organization called S.T.E.P.S that stands for striving toward empowering personal success, it's an all girl group that deals with lots of issues such as body positivity self-esteem ect. During one of our summer sessions we talked about power poses and how many famous celebritys do then to instill more confidence in them. Now I'm not saying to go full on superwoman in a job interview but if you're a shy person just do a few power poses in the mirror by yourself and you'll start to see the difference.
I’m a stepmom and when I met my husband in January 2013 and he told to me I have a 4 year old and i said awe I was like I don’t know if I want to be a mom yet
And I told myself do I want to be a stepmom and I date him for 2 years and I got married to him now she’s 10 and I do discipline her and it’s not wrong
It’s called coparenting and with her mom and dad because she’s growing up with us too
Vlog Maria I think it’s different because she was quite young when you first started dating, and she’s used to you
I love how Tamera talked about interrupting people when she is ALWAYS interrupting one of the other hosts.
Why was this so funny when Tam was mad 7:39 😂😂😂
I Love Adrienne's outfit!
Love love this topic!
"when you gon' finish this?"
"This is a long speech..."
My sister has a step daughter, & to her she is a bonus mom. ❤
A high school friend of mine used to call her bio dad 'father' and step dad 'dad'. In the end we knew who she was talking about whenever she told us stories. Lol. She was hilarious. She loved them both dearly. Her stories about them were hilarious and sweet.
I love love your outfit Adrienne!
I still watch these even though they're old. 😅
😂😂😂Tamera is hilarious
Loving Adrienne's outfit
Anyone else think the audience clap way too often?
Christina Pierce they tell us to clap. They hold up a sign. Even when to cheer. It’s never actually from the audience. Lol I’ve been there before.
Christina Pierce Yes
Claydie Luna that's cool!
No, they clap just enough.
Wendy's audience clap at her burp, literally .
unnecessary clapping
Tamera kilt me with the interruption part😂😂💀💀
Tamera: omg i just interrupted 😂😂😂😂 im weak
Honest question (since I'm not a mom yet): Do you guys don't discipline your teenagers? I just dont get when Israel said "what kind of discipline for a 13 year old?" Or something along those lines. A lil bit confused. Are latinos the only ones that are disciplined even if you're 20? 😂😂
Jani Pocket 😎
SWEETIE...NO I'M NOT LATINO MY BELATED MOM WOULD PUT ME IN PLACE WHEN I GOT OUT OF ORDER & I'M WAY OUT OF MY TWENTY'S 20s LOL MY MOM WOULD SAY YOU NEVER TOO OLD TOO GET KNOCKED DOWN LOL
Im 24 and my mum disciplines me with curfews lmao im arab btw
I'm 28 & my Grandma will still put her hands on me
😂👌That's what Im saying you guys! Why is he so surprised thinking about disciplining a 13 year old? 13 is super young still. I could see it on Tamera's face when he never replied 😂😂😂
@@sheillyjanice3514 its probably because his kids dont have a reason to be disciplined. at that age i wasnt really getting disciplined either because i wasnt doing anything bad. getting disciplined at 5 or 6 is different than when youre 13 or 14 because by that time you already learned your lesson. im not saying discipline should stop but it's less likely to happen when youre older because youve matured, thats probably why youre surprised
I always had a problem picking my nephews up from school. None of the teachers believed I was their aunt because I was only six years older then them and we even went to the same school at the time. 😂
Loni’s pose aint no damn pose thats the “come home with me tonight im ready for you sugarbear or let me do some thangs to you or you got what i need” LMAOO😂😂😂😂😂
I love my stepmom she is like a very close friend to me and she keeps me in check and keeps me humble and her and I get along so well but it sucks bc I can’t really talk about it in front of my mom bc she gets mad bc she thinks that I’m replacing her even though they are in two different places in my heart and it also stinks bc my brother I don’t even know if he likes her like they have good moments and then he won’t even talk to her but he is very quite anyways but yeah those are my positive words for my stepmom and I’m so sorry for the other people in the comments who don’t have as good of an experience as mine I pray that the Lord puts peace in your hearts and mind
I got with my hubby when his daughter just turned 6 and now she's 11 going 12 this year... She is so sweet and does well in school. We hardly have to get on her. I remember her telling me how she cannot call me mom bc her mom would be really mad. I'm like hunny you can just call me by my name, it's fine. (I think I would've felt weird for me anyway). We are now trying to have her live with us one week here and other week with her mom. Her mom BLEW UP saying how she's not going to "abandon" her child. Um, how is that abandoning? I usually let him handle her crazy ass. She's told us multiple times how she would like to be with us more. It's her mom who trips... Smh.
2:02 LONI'S FACE I'm dying
i've heard ofthis before, they did it on Grey's Anatomy :) but my power pose is mental and comes in the form of my confidence in my know how. i've never been the type to be intimidated by title, position, race or anything like that so usually if i'm confronting/presenting or just being present, i'm comfortable in myself. i actually tend to relax a little more in posture and hit em w everything i know.
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Tamera is so adorable when sulking
The way Adrienne was going on I thought she was going to say the youngest was 21 😂
My step kid is disrespectful to his bio parents, he lies, he steals things, he curses. He’s only 10, so I put my complaints in with my husband and let him handle it. Every now and then though I give him the evil eye so he knows not to try me 😂😂😂
*”I just wanna be awake when you get to the point”* 😂
Adrienne is my spirit celebrity
When I was 11 my parents got divorced a few months later my father started dating a woman. My best friend at the time had parents who also were divorced and dating. For them dating meant coming over for dinner once a week so I was not prepared when after 2-3 months she moved in. Everything happened so sudden and I was not consulted or told about any of it so I became very angry. I was very mean and rude to her but my Father couldn’t see why I was so mad and as a result our relationship took a toll that took years to fix and I blamed her. I think it is important to make the girlfriend feel included.I fact my step mom become like a mother to me but it can be a lot and I think it is very important to talk to the children and make them feel heard. I know from experience how hard it can be so I think communication is huge and to make sure that the kids are ok with everything and to ask them what they want you to be to them in thier life that would have made such a big difference when I was younger. What finally made me accept her was when after a year she and my father bought a house together it made me realize that it really was permanent and when they started to talk to me and ask me how I felt and make compromises and changes to make it more comfortable for me. And when my Dad spent time with me and my brother alone so I felt as if my before family was still intact and slowly she became family but it was all to much right away with no warning. If she had had a child I would have FREAKED. I’m not saying don’t go and have kids but make sure you talk to them and always make them feel like you love them just as much. make sure they feel like it is thier home to. not like thier visiting thier Dads other family. My step mom may not have had biological children but she did have a nice that was like a daughter to her and I could often feel very out of place and like I was a guest in my own home. Any way just make sure you include the children it is very important and will be very beneficial or at least it would have been for me.
They should call her cheetah mom 😂
I call my dads girlfriend by her name but when introducing her to people I’ll say “this is my dads girlfriend, My Olivia” and we both seem to be okay with it
Loni is absolutely gorgeous!
Ain’t no way in hell I’d call my step parents mom or dad u have lost your goddamn mind
My step kid use to call me mom when he was small i mean he is 9 i met em at like 3in a half. I am i can say very hands on i help my husband buy him clothes toys pay for the movies or amusement park fees i treat him like if he was my own biological kid except when it come to discipline i leave it up to my husband but we both agreed to get him out of the habit of calling me mom he has a mom i will be his friend or really close person that he can always come to and feel loved and safe each time he gets a booboo hed come to me before he comes to his dad even gives me school papers saying here my teacher said give it to my parents. I don't want him calling me mom to save his feelings if we was to break up ever it'd be less painful for him he won't feel like he lost a mom is a odd way
My dad came into my mom's life when my sister was 2 years old and 21 years later, she calls him and her biological father, 'dad'
My kids call my husband pops and their dads wife mama T. They call us dad and mom or ma or mama. We dont care. Just means they have 4 loving parents who will walk through fire dor for them
I HAVE to do that
When you've had a step parent for most of your life it's okay to call them mom and dad as long as the biological parents are okay with it and they've been a great parent. They have earned that title. Being a mom and dad isn't only about biology, it's about being loved, supported, protected, educated, nourished, through everything, and a step/adoption parent can provide those things. I understand if a 21 isn't okay calling their new step mom, mom. But if you've had the same step parent since you were 3 and they've been a real parent to you, calling them mom/dad is fine. The good step parents and parents who adopt, deserve to be recognized as parents, because they are real parents.
Adrienne: We're gonna be good cop bad cop and I am the good cop okay. XD
I am a Mom & Step mom. I have a 12 year old daughter ,10 year old step son, 3 year old daughter. My step son calls me mom, When his Bio-Mon is around and we both look up he will tell me I was talking to my mom, or if he was talking to me he will tell his mom I was talking to my other mom. I have been in his life since he was 2. Took care of him / taught him just as I would my oldest daughter. He has lived with me & his father since he was he was 4. When people ask I say these are my kids. If at an event where I have to introduce his bio-mom. I say this is her name my son's mom. I discipline all my children as any parent would. Depending on the issue I may discuss it with his father sometimes with both his mother and father & if he is in trouble at home , He is in trouble at his mom's house as well. #CoParenting
Veronica Rios my mom did the same thing My mom had 4 biological children and my step brother but since she has raised my step brother since he was 1 1/2 old so he would call my her mom but when he was around his biological mom he would just call her by her name
You guys need to get with it. Upload CURRENT episodes like Wendy Williams. I don't watch TV unless it's cartoons (I have a 3 yr old) So the only way I'm watching The Real is if you upload to TH-cam!
Loni cracks me up!!
I realize that this is an old video but I'm a stepmom to an 8 year old girl, she is a well behaved, listens good, and all around good kid. The only time when we clash is when I try to discipline her, that's when she starts talking back and it gets out of hand. But of course acts good when dad disciplines her. It's hard for me to be a stepparent then when it comes to discipline. Sometimes I will even just let her dad take care of the discipline because I just got home from work and I'm too tired to deal with bickering or I'm just not in the mood to deal with it. But I do try to discipline her, especially when dad will sometimes let her get away with stuff that I wouldn't. My fiance and I definitely have different parenting styles and I can be the more stricter parent, but she's also 8 years old and definitely should of have some boundaries in her life. It definitely hard to be a stepparent,but it is also so rewarding. I love her as my own and I will always will when her dad and I have our own kids. I can so relate to Adrienne because if she has not already, she will experience the hardships that come with being that role of a bonus mom. It's not easy! I love watching you all and glad that this is something you all have spoken upon!
so good
Very true, Jeanie always has long stories🤣
It's the mom's and dad's job to discipline, Period....
Yup and stepparemts are equal parents. Period.
Adrienne should be their Cheetah mom haha
Regarding this clip, I personally love how Jennie makes her points...
I need some old longer clips with Tamar since these are old repeat clips
Karla Ellis The ultimate shade💀
It sounds a little like Adrienne wants to be the kids' friend. That is not the full scope of her situation though. She is the woman of the house and she has a say in how the house runs. If they push the boundaries or break the rules, she needs to be able to say, 'hey, you need to stop'. They are teenagers, they will push back.
Loni is so beautiful in this episode though 😍
I can see real love with Israel and Adrienne😍
“This is my step-mama” is something that the step-kiddies can introduce you by. Maybe Step-Ma or Step-Mama. For you, you can call them Step-Kiddies or Step-Kids.
9:12 They congratulated Tamera like she was 5 😂😂😂😂😂
Loni is such a beautiful woman 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Loni is soooo pretty here
True love you feel home nothing else matters
I love The Real because what these women discusses and how they discuss the issues are almost exactly how every women would discuss any issues. My only issue with them is that...well, Adrienne. I like to believe that it's because of the fact that she was raised in lower east side which sort of develop her character to be more tough and in your face but it can also be condescending and rude especially when she asks about matter she don't understand but asked them like she thinks we are all dumb and she's too smart to know about it.
I know that was not her intention and purposes but that's how I sometimes sees her.
love u loni😍😍💕💕