How to STOP Comparing Yourself with Other People | Practical Advice

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ย. 2024
  • Shwetabh Gangwar, Author of The Rudest Book Ever, talks about the two ways by which you can stop yourself from comparing to the world with regards to money, success, looks, fame, status, relationships and other things. People find themselves comparing to their own friends, relatives, wellwishers because they are more successful. Shwetabh gives a method of changing your perspective by which you can preserve your self esteem and self worth by taking control.

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  • @ShwetabhGangwar1
    @ShwetabhGangwar1  3 ปีที่แล้ว +265

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    • @sanjubawa
      @sanjubawa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *_Waiting for the next book bhai_*

    • @graczcreation3157
      @graczcreation3157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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    • @ameeransari8550
      @ameeransari8550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just i got the book 📕🤙 now 😊👍

    • @ASTROSESSION
      @ASTROSESSION 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @graczcreation3157
      @graczcreation3157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @swapnilbombarde4575
    @swapnilbombarde4575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    I am 27 now and i really wish i could see this video 10 years back. To all the teenagers watching this,please apply this to your life and you will yourself rise.

    • @dhammdeepbhagatdd
      @dhammdeepbhagatdd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm 28 and I too wish the same !!!!!!

    • @the_invisible__
      @the_invisible__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same bhava ....still struggling 28 years old.

    • @Blueheartchoreos
      @Blueheartchoreos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's not too late yet bhai.

    • @Blueheartchoreos
      @Blueheartchoreos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have Atleast 40-60 Or more left in your life. You can be that person you want to see yourself become after watching this video.

    • @whyadityawhy
      @whyadityawhy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am 24 years old and this video is straight up facts!

  • @rujjivittapashcharya1407
    @rujjivittapashcharya1407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1218

    Today's parents also needs to know that comparing their child to other children does not motivates them but destroys their self esteem.

  • @hiteshlakhanpal4169
    @hiteshlakhanpal4169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +608

    Shwetabh is the type person who can talk like a careless and responsible person at same time.

    • @debjitnayek3252
      @debjitnayek3252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @hitesh lakhanpal because hume is society me apne aur dusro ke liye kuch accha karna hain toh hume ekisaath careless and responsible hona careless(negative people, ghatiya influencers etc) aur responsible( family, apne liye, apne chane walo kliye and etc) ☺☺☺☺

    • @sweetyvlogs4394
      @sweetyvlogs4394 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

    • @silent0141
      @silent0141 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sahi

    • @shabazpharmacist8756
      @shabazpharmacist8756 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hum bhi wasa hi hai jo mann me aaye bol dete hai kisiko gaali bhi dena ho to saamne se dete hai pithpeeche kuch nahi bolte

    • @muhammed6893
      @muhammed6893 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao 😂😂

  • @winterapplegamingYT203
    @winterapplegamingYT203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    this man is giving now real wisdom. first he was logical but now combination of wisdom is really helpful

    • @himangshukalita4328
      @himangshukalita4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @Anika9691
    @Anika9691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I needed this.
    I am depressed because I am comparing myself with people as I am not in the best spot in my life and every single one of my friend is doing way better than me.
    I dropped two years for neet but because of low confidence ,inferiority complex, and anxiety I have never given the paper and it feels like I am behind people,my performance has been hindered by this constant negative self talk and I just can't see myself becoming great like them.

    • @anjalichoudhary4253
      @anjalichoudhary4253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dear... Don't compare yourself to anyone else anytime... Others are different from u... At every level... Maybe u have something that others don't have... Everyone have their own vices and virtues... Just ignore vices... And utilize ur virtues to be better....

    • @Anika9691
      @Anika9691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anjalichoudhary4253 don't know man, most of the things I want to do...I can't because "I am not made for it", I am genetically handicapped because that is one major factor why I can't be what I want to be, and I can't do shit without it.
      I look below average, I am not intelligent like my friends, I am very bad at social skills, I have no talent or skill for creative stuff, I am vapid, and I have mental disease.
      I can't do shit nothing works out everyone keeps pacing forward while I am unable to be what I want to be because I have bad genes or low virtue to do so.
      I want to die because I hate living like this. How can I get away from this ?
      I try but nothing works out and I can't change my genetics.

    • @Anika9691
      @Anika9691 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anjalichoudhary4253 I don't have any virtues and I will kill myself if I am good for things that nobody cares about cause it is unfair that I got all the unrequired talents and everyone else is blessed with better talents. it is just bad, what is the point of living with this ugly body then.
      I just don't understand what is point of my life and why can't I just die.

    • @anjalichoudhary4253
      @anjalichoudhary4253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Anika9691 bro... Don't let your externals affect your internal peace of mind... Maybe u are handicapped, maybe u are not that good looking.. Maybe u are average student.. But these drawbacks are not worse than your own hopelessness.... U don't lose when u don't win... U lose when u stop trying to win... So never loose hope...
      God is everywhere... For his every kid... No matter what is his shape, size, caste, culture, complexion is...
      So just take out few minutes to remember God every day in the morning... Just pray to God..I m damn sure u will win... God bless bro🙏... Just be patient and be ur own self... Everything will fall into place...

    • @anjalichoudhary4253
      @anjalichoudhary4253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Anika9691 doesn't matter if people don't acknowledge your talents... Just try to work on ur self... Ignore them... In this world....To be happy u have to be careless of others opinion. Just be grateful for what u have. I know u will say I don't have any nice things to be grateful for.. But at least u have a home, u have a family, u have a guardian, u have the passion to be the best, u have the reality, u have the books, u have the phone through which u can watch TH-cam,u have lots of things to appreciate in ur life....
      Bro u are amazing in ur own way... Don't let urself down for others. God bless🙏

  • @nikjs
    @nikjs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This was a big turning point in my life - giving up on comparing with others. Literally I found myself feeling lighter, achieving more, getting more things done after that.

  • @SS-lv1wn
    @SS-lv1wn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I am 23 as in 2020 and throughout my teenage and even in adulthood I am body shamed for being skinny. Whenever I go to a family function all my relatives comment "bohot patli ho gyi hai, khaati nhi kya". All my friends and cousins say "phoonk mardo toh udh jayegi". Many boys made comparisons between me and other girls who have an amazing figure. Earlirer I used to feel awful but now I have realized that developing a thick skin is the only solution. We cant control others but can make ourselves mentally strong.

    • @fakeer0oom
      @fakeer0oom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When you see a group photo of urs whom u notice first .and we all do the same .
      So most of the time nobody's is thinking of you at all!
      Even if they are thinking about you they are wondering what u r thinking about them .

    • @lovelychauhan664
      @lovelychauhan664 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      girl you are amazing just the way you are... Don't let the world come and change... Don't let life break your heart...just be yourself , work hard , and be humble not every people are creepy ...sending all the blessings 💖✨💫

  • @Sarai_taram
    @Sarai_taram 3 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    Its simple:-
    Just don't compare yourself with others,When we compare ourselves with others thats where insecurities plays an important role, like you always fear he/she is doing well and good in life and you are nothing but a loser. And this is where you began to lose all credibilities to do certain things, it changes your attitude and make you think negative. you often feel like you are just an another simple poor guy who can't accomplish anything in life. And this is where you are wrong. Just do your own stuff with positive attitude. Tbh there's nothing wrong in being diffrent than others. All you gotta do is just put your effort and overcome all your insecurities and believe in yourself that you are the greatest and there is no one like you in the whole world.

    • @sachinbhati3477
      @sachinbhati3477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thnks for this really appreciate

    • @abictor3312
      @abictor3312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @D Bxtantecion x Morgan

    • @srmj5585
      @srmj5585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abictor3312 name inspired from lil Wayne guess!!

    • @igt2173
      @igt2173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @D B I don't think so Comparison will give u the Vision or the hunger foe success and then make ur life blissful only Problem is that u should be neutral to it
      If anyone is rich or handsome just watch him and try to be neutral to it then make the best out of urself

    • @gokulpadmalochan18
      @gokulpadmalochan18 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice said bro. Honestly I feel shwetabh sometimes make good points but if you see most of his videos, it's all about girls, relationships, etc. Sometime it looks like he wants to gain attention and isn't actually trying to help people who are struggling in their life is what I feel. But what you said makes sense bro

  • @muskansunar9179
    @muskansunar9179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    To be honest I have gain this stage 😌and I am so confident to face people now more than I used to be .I was the one who used to think about ,'how am I looking maybe perfect or looking mess or maybe people judging me 'but now i come to know the real psychology of people so now m not scared of being judge and fear to talk.Its easier when you analyse something in deep level.

    • @sauravgupta4103
      @sauravgupta4103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      m abhi 21 ka hu , kya Shwetabh bhaiya ne jo baate boli h vo m 21 m apply kar sakta hu. It will take time na ?

    • @muskansunar9179
      @muskansunar9179 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sauravgupta4103 I am just 20.
      You can its nothing but a little change in prespective towards life .once you gain it lifefeels easier

    • @twinkle.k8170
      @twinkle.k8170 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi...I also have same problem ..can u pls share ur experience ,I mean what really u did so that it may be of some help for me..?pls😃

    • @muskansunar9179
      @muskansunar9179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@twinkle.k8170 the point is comparing self with others is full waste of our brains energy and illogical in reality.The thing i did was as I am an introvert type person i talk less observe more.The thing I realised is instead of bending your head because of insecurities just once make eye contact with people just observe them through distance and u will get that people are all busy in their own thoughts nobody is noticing you wheather you are walking with tears or walkkng with ugly dress .So comparing is waste why because the one you are comparing withyourself is also comparing herself with somebody in some extent because its human psychology ,until u come to know it.see yourself from others view just like the way you are seeing them,do u care how they look or what they are wearing ?No na,same goes for you from their vision. when we compare ourselves you know how we feel and wheather you are beautiful or black, white or what its just a one secnd thought for people because they wont care how beautiful you because all are busy in own thoughts .Once u know it deeply u will built confident in life. Its long ,sorry for that🙂

    • @twinkle.k8170
      @twinkle.k8170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@muskansunar9179 Thank you so much sis...ur comment means a lot for me.😃..I got this...u know what I am also introvert and observe people too .no it's not long..once again thank you 😃😊💞

  • @rishabhvyas3087
    @rishabhvyas3087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    Bro are you kind of a magician ?
    Whenever I need motivation on certain topic you always upload video on that

    • @yourlocalgastationguy2316
      @yourlocalgastationguy2316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      EXACTLY

    • @haidertopg
      @haidertopg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nagpur se hai?

    • @ShubhamSharma-rs5ts
      @ShubhamSharma-rs5ts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      This is not a motivational video
      And....don't use external force of motivation if you want to be motivated for long time

    • @allahlesboslu2_9
      @allahlesboslu2_9 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you send him this question on insta 👀 just asking 😂

    • @haidertopg
      @haidertopg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @THE KID mai toh rishab se puch ra tha

  • @maverickx175
    @maverickx175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    YOU CURE MY DEPRESSION BROTHER
    THANKS FOR THIS!

    • @himangshukalita4328
      @himangshukalita4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @rudraneelsarkar9359
      @rudraneelsarkar9359 ปีที่แล้ว

      Depression is a different thing you shouldn't use it everywhere, although yes his words make sense and did make me feel better and understand better as well

  • @bhavyapratapsingh3197
    @bhavyapratapsingh3197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    Theme of background changed looks like student from college opened big MNC

    • @Amitkumar-ns7xh
      @Amitkumar-ns7xh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Bhavya Pratap Singh it's his European office setup

    • @courage5904
      @courage5904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Abhishek 401 bhai toned down a little

    • @Blueheartchoreos
      @Blueheartchoreos 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      His words have more power than all those eye-catching backgrounds.

  • @kxrth8kr347
    @kxrth8kr347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Success achieved at 20 or 30 it's going to be same
    Success is success no matter.

    • @sauravgupta4103
      @sauravgupta4103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      m abhi 21 ka hu , kya Shwetabh bhaiya ne jo baate boli h vo m 21 m apply kar sakta hu. It will take time na ?

    • @Dexter-lr5gn
      @Dexter-lr5gn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      its different... success on 20 gives you next 10 yrs of peace and benefits...success at 30 made u lose 10 yrs...who would give back those lost years...?

    • @sauravgupta4103
      @sauravgupta4103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Dexter-lr5gn right.

    • @ashif9121
      @ashif9121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Dexter-lr5gn who said that those years were lost.? It was struggling year bro. The main thing is when you take action on your dream . When you start..

    • @sauravgupta4103
      @sauravgupta4103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @lil bhadwa 😂😂

  • @yuvneetsoni159
    @yuvneetsoni159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Comparison is only a kind of jeaslousy which makes us inferior. That should be converted to motivations/goals toward superiority. Great video Shwetabh!

  • @Neon_DEV4NSH
    @Neon_DEV4NSH 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    There is some incident or person like this man in everyone's life which tells you something different or relatable and the moment you listened to it, then it makes you concious of your life and then a sense of urgency is created in our lives which always insist us to follow that teachings like this man has explained us.
    This video was absolutely relatable and also made me concious that I was comparing myself with others
    This video really helped me thanks alot👍👍

    • @himangshukalita4328
      @himangshukalita4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @jS-pu4iw
    @jS-pu4iw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I was just thinking about this topic suddenly notification came😇😇Great problem solver alpha male(shwetabh)😁

    • @yourlocalgastationguy2316
      @yourlocalgastationguy2316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Idk, how on earth this guy always knows what I'm thinking about

    • @jS-pu4iw
      @jS-pu4iw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yourlocalgastationguy2316 because shewtabh is so curious to solve someone problem in simple or realistic manner and due to this he easily pick the question (from instagram ) that runs on today's people mind because he also passed away from same problems.

    • @courage5904
      @courage5904 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ALPHA MALE ,KI BACKCHODI .

    • @jS-pu4iw
      @jS-pu4iw 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Akshay 18 Waise apne iske kitne video dekh liye aap dhang se jante nhi 🤗🤗ise

  • @YoSoyAjit
    @YoSoyAjit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Shwetabh bhai, you have been a positive influence, right from my jee prep days, and now I am in 3rd year of college. Just wanted to say thanks for that. And please upload on the English channel too if you have free time

    • @ASHUTOSHSINGH-bd7nf
      @ASHUTOSHSINGH-bd7nf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kaha h be kaun sa college me

    • @YoSoyAjit
      @YoSoyAjit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ASHUTOSHSINGH-bd7nf I had wasted my entire 11th and first half of 12th and was deep in addictions when I found Shwetabh’s channel! So i missed IIT obviously but cracked JEE main by slogging hard in four months so landed a IIIT instead :)

    • @ASHUTOSHSINGH-bd7nf
      @ASHUTOSHSINGH-bd7nf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@YoSoyAjit insta username de

    • @ASHUTOSHSINGH-bd7nf
      @ASHUTOSHSINGH-bd7nf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@YoSoyAjit bro please tips kuchh lena

    • @siddhant...
      @siddhant... 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@YoSoyAjit that's a really big achievement considering the amount of time you wasted.

  • @nikhillambe5224
    @nikhillambe5224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Few days ago I compared myself with others lifestyle and here is the video..❤❤

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      @himangshukalita4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @ashutoshpadhi2782
      @ashutoshpadhi2782 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @noorsingh4936
    @noorsingh4936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Now I feel like a robot who has to develop herself no matter what society says ❤️🙂

  • @EliteConfiDance
    @EliteConfiDance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I stay in US and have been following many self help gurus from here. The way Shewatbh explains everything even though he is in surrounded by Indian culture is not easy. His thought process and the way he is verbalizing his ideas is great. He will go very far and it was a pleasure to come across his content.

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      @ashutoshpadhi2782 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @michaeljosephjackson2364
      @michaeljosephjackson2364 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am afraid to go to USA
      Because of racism

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      @EliteConfiDance 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @EliteConfiDance
      @EliteConfiDance 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@himangshukalita4328
      Be consistent in posting Bhai

  • @Sadhrita2002
    @Sadhrita2002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ur mouth is very powerful...be aware of what you think about urself and what u say to yourself without even knowing.....Ur the best. Do not compare urself with other people..... everything and everyone else is different....u can't be like everyone....be you...be authentic ❤️

  • @tanujsharma3019
    @tanujsharma3019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think this man should be made minister of human resource of our country.
    He we make our youth unstoppable.
    Very great person 👍👍👍

  • @Ushio-is7mm
    @Ushio-is7mm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    "Never silence that inner voice. " 🙂🙃

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  • @amansharma4601
    @amansharma4601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I really like your ideals and perception. I have decided to leave college and already started working on skills not influenced by anyone, but it is my own decision. And, I know I will never regret it. Wish me luck :-)

  • @idkwhattonamemyself9326
    @idkwhattonamemyself9326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    How can he read my mind lol I was comparing myself, unintentionally to others and I found this.
    P.S :- can't wait for another book 🔥❤️

  • @pvr10
    @pvr10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    Salman Khan doesn't like the background 😂🤣 black buck OP

  • @sayantandas5375
    @sayantandas5375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was depressed for quite some time for this I lost 1 academic year .I was admitted to hospital and my health is fucked up. I am now recovering at very slow pace . Your videos will work as medicine for me

  • @RahulKumar-cl5eq
    @RahulKumar-cl5eq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Everytime this man speaks....it always make sense. You always persuade me to work more hardly.

  • @courage5904
    @courage5904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Symbolism behind the set-up: *the knight represent all the intellectual buffers and the book represent Shwetabh himself who helps us (deer) 🦌 to grow*

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    • @AdityaMishra-mu1cc
      @AdityaMishra-mu1cc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai itna bhi mt socha kr mai to entire video iski baat sun raha tha or tere pass kitna time hai background ko analyse krk voh kya symbolism kr raha hai ye janne ka

  • @YoriichiTsugikuni-999
    @YoriichiTsugikuni-999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What i was doing wrong is
    Not 🥰 loving myself
    My life changed after when I started caring about myself first . What my body wants and what’s make my heart happy 😊

  • @ishachawla5227
    @ishachawla5227 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much
    Soon I will be 22, just graduated and unemployed but due to some circumstances I wasn't able to move out of my home town, I have been working hard to achieve my goals
    But this comparison ka keera keeps coming in between, but this video proved to be an eye opener

  • @yashwarrior5231
    @yashwarrior5231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I want to say to everyone here that whenever ad comes dont skip it ,this man is working for us so hard cant we do a favour for him also ,what do you guys think ?

    • @himangshukalita4328
      @himangshukalita4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai I'm a new youtuber. Need some help. Please support💞

  • @Dream_guy1
    @Dream_guy1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The best thing about this guy is that he does not waste time in introduction rather he get straight to the problem

  • @madhavbhatia5477
    @madhavbhatia5477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Waah aj Ka setup mast hai bro
    (Especially alpha male 😂)

  • @rheakaurkhokher8320
    @rheakaurkhokher8320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    *Keep improving rather than wasting time in comparing.*.....👍

  • @udaysatviktripathi1794
    @udaysatviktripathi1794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When he is in the live stream he is different, when in this type he is absolutely different!

    • @himangshukalita4328
      @himangshukalita4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai I'm a new youtuber. Need some help. Please support💞

  • @still7301
    @still7301 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sirr jiii , raat bana diii ❤ AAP jese mentor ho toh zindagi banegii 💟

  • @arshdeep_x7
    @arshdeep_x7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Bhai bhai bhai..❤❤
    Background, Video quality.. awesome!!

  • @priyaverma5308
    @priyaverma5308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can proudly say that I'm doing it before watching this video . (bhad m jae duniyaa) is the most powerful line that you guys should follow

  • @drag333
    @drag333 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I,m getting too stressed by comparing myself to others for years..........I always feels others are always better than me

  • @dhirendrapratap8493
    @dhirendrapratap8493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's so true and don't discussed in any family or social life..and that actually destroys many self esteems. Good -looking, high earning, good and powerful job acquiring persons are given much attention and attraction in our social lives. And that breaks the middle or low acquiring trait persons' self esteem. You have to be great in your self , contented, comfortable in your own skin and putting full potential . Comparison is begun by others , they teach us..but balance strats from within.

    • @himangshukalita4328
      @himangshukalita4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai I'm a new youtuber. Need some help. Please support💞

  • @harrshita6304
    @harrshita6304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you sir! Had to listen this

  • @tennisball2012
    @tennisball2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy is on just another level. No one, fucking no one is even close to his thoughts and ideology.

  • @omm12312
    @omm12312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    5:12 that was for ranveer beerbicep 😂😂🙏🏻

  • @itsinthegamedude1228
    @itsinthegamedude1228 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bhai ye sab baate mujhko bahut pehle se pata hai par jaise tumne explain kiya , usme mein inhe 100% clarity se dekh paaya. Thanku

  • @ajitsuryawanshi3902
    @ajitsuryawanshi3902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    9:47
    How can u depend on external motivation if u can't motivate yourself.
    🔥🔥

    • @himangshukalita4328
      @himangshukalita4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai I'm a new youtuber. Need some help. Please support💞

  • @Demise12
    @Demise12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bro you are right.
    Just one year ago I was under depression and I still am and recovering and suddenly someone compared me with someone and that thing developed a complexity in me.
    I was cried a lot.
    Then I started thinking who I am and what's my worth and the day I started thinking this makes me feel so good.
    I literally told me that fuck these people's beauty standards.
    I am this and true to myself.
    Bro you've helped me a lot.
    💜

    • @sauravgupta4103
      @sauravgupta4103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      m abhi 21 ka hu , kya Shwetabh bhaiya ne jo baate boli h vo m 21 m apply kar sakta hu. It will take time na ?

    • @Demise12
      @Demise12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sauravgupta4103 bilkul aap apply kar sakte hain.

  • @AbhishekGuptaofficial
    @AbhishekGuptaofficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "Compare Yourself to who you were Yesterday not To who someone else is Today" - Follow This If you want to stop comparing yourself to Others

  • @rohitavhad2592
    @rohitavhad2592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used to underestimate myself few years ago but today I'm happy with who I am & how I am

  • @divyanshpandey8355
    @divyanshpandey8355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Okay so i don't know how many of u have noticed, but Shwetabh's room is full of inspiring things, First is the warrior, which symbolises the same that u shud have in ur mind against evil thoughts, 2nd is the caged bulb, which signifies that wherever you are, the light of ur thoughts will reach everywhere, even if u r in cage, 3rd is the portrait of the reindeer, which shows us when to be polite and when to be aggressive, 4rth of course is his book, the rudest book ever... and 5th is the legion laptop, which shows that u have an entire army of thoughts, of which "YOU" choose, what to keep and what not...

  • @Mukulgdv
    @Mukulgdv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Whenever i will achieve my success. First of all i will meet you brother💞
    sharuaat se lekar 1.08millon tak aapke sare safar me abhi tak aapke sath hoon soo thank you so much sir,brother, my guru.❤love you bhai

  • @jS-pu4iw
    @jS-pu4iw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    6:50 who agree reality 👌👌🤗🤗🤗

  • @kanishkmahajan4737
    @kanishkmahajan4737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U hv really changed my life by watching your previous videos my self esteem,self wroth has increased.

  • @mahavir_prasad
    @mahavir_prasad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    Dialogue of scam 1992
    “Success kya hai?, Failure ke baad ka Chapter
    “Profit dikhta hai, toh har koi jhukta hai
    “Jab Jebb mein money ho na, To kundli mein Shani hone se koi farak nai padta”
    “Emotion me insaan hamesha galti karta hai”
    “Locha, lafda aur Jalebi Fafda isko Gujarati ke life se koi nikaal nahi sakta”
    “Risk hai to Ishq hai”
    #detoxifier

    • @mahavir_prasad
      @mahavir_prasad 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@noorophobia7669 thanks

    • @fadilahmed3137
      @fadilahmed3137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True dude

    • @shubham2076
      @shubham2076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Saturation buisness main atta hai dimag main nahi ❤️
      Jab tak wo negative nahi hai tab tak wo news hi nahi hai 🤐

    • @nirvanj1580
      @nirvanj1580 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jahan Swarth Wahan Jagannath 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @akanshbansal299
    @akanshbansal299 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir u saved a life today! Thanks for this information. I was in severe depression due to all this...

  • @rohitchoudhury6396
    @rohitchoudhury6396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video is very important for me .. I want to become a cabin crew ... N Male cabin crew ke liye bohat jayadda competition hai.... N Mujhe laga ki mere se nhi Hoga ... But a video dekhne ke baad ... I feel better now .. thank you so much for making Awesome video for us ❤️🙏❤️

    • @himangshukalita4328
      @himangshukalita4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai I'm a new youtuber. Need some help. Please support💞

  • @gogoplu
    @gogoplu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    *Shwetabh Gangwar is the school we never had.*

  • @sumitsinghthakur2930
    @sumitsinghthakur2930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Man you're amazing as always.
    You've helped me to become a better person.
    I try to pass it forward through my own channel.

  • @arbind000
    @arbind000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Logically Shwetabh is very true. Schools and Colleges mein ye baat batana chahiye students ko.

  • @shravani165
    @shravani165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    New background is so lit🔥🔥

  • @saysnsil3228
    @saysnsil3228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He does his thing like a doctor
    :-)

  • @inspired_enough_to_grow_up
    @inspired_enough_to_grow_up 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was thinking about your new videos, you dropped it! following since 2018, bring more such videos, your practical solutions have influenced thousands of lives

  • @itsjustgatts
    @itsjustgatts 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am used to comparing myself with others. Everyone says comparison is not motivation so i made it my motivation and it helped me a lot..

  • @Vibewithwarrior
    @Vibewithwarrior 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    New setup is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @maitrapriyanshu
    @maitrapriyanshu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aaj hi book aya❤️❤️❤️... loving it❤️❤️🙏

  • @DebzLife
    @DebzLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow! I love the new set and the new quality!!! DEDICATION!

  • @ank4289
    @ank4289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this man video he is the most genuine guy I have seen in my life above all he is helping so many of us thank you bhi kam hoga I really have picked some good habit that will add value to me and my life from his video and they have bought a positive change in my life and I will continue to add more such thing taught by Shwetabh to my life more meaningful and better in terms of everything Thank you from bottom of my heart👍

  • @shivamPandey-ku5eu
    @shivamPandey-ku5eu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    His new set-up feel like clinic of doctor type ..🔥❤️

    • @yourmomisgay377
      @yourmomisgay377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yesss🔥

    • @humanhuman9228
      @humanhuman9228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Par doctor k clinic pay microphone and animal k pictures NHI hotay bro ....

    • @rhythmstuff
      @rhythmstuff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      *therapist

  • @ankursaxena7031
    @ankursaxena7031 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bahut hi gazab bola hai bhai, exactly. Ye hi to matrix funda hai.😎

  • @ASTROSESSION
    @ASTROSESSION 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I would recommend you to set your camera a bit more higher rest everything is perfect

  • @arijitartOfficial
    @arijitartOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bhai mere liye toh aap hi roal model ho jitne bhi changes mere mea aaye hai in sab ka credit aapko hi jata hai....aapse maine o sab sikha hai jo shayad bahuat time nikal jane ke baad sikhta aur shayad hi sikh paata ...aur maine aapse sikha hi nahi balki apne habits mea include bhi kiya ........i hope aap aage hame isi tarah guide karte rahenge thank you sir 🙏

  • @harshdeep7015
    @harshdeep7015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Perfect👍 timing and perfect video bro❤️🙏

  • @rishabhyadav6122
    @rishabhyadav6122 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Shwetabh,
    I was going through this confusion between outside voice and inner voice since a day or two. It happened bcoz one of my mentor gave his opinion on what i should do. I acted upon his advice with only realizing at the end that i am somewhere making a fool of myself. Today morning itself i had decided that this time i will listen to my voice only. Its bcoz before he had advised me, i was highly motivated by just following my inner voice and since i heard his opinion, a kind burden was laid on my way of thought. My friends laughed at me when i followed my mentor's advice blindly. Thank you for uploading this video.

  • @DarshLakhwani
    @DarshLakhwani 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love the new setup

  • @yashaggarwal2606
    @yashaggarwal2606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bhai Lajawaab Background, Video dekhne mai aur majja aa gya😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥

  • @notactive3299
    @notactive3299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Someone finally remembered his youtube password back.

    • @himangshukalita4328
      @himangshukalita4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai I'm a new youtuber. Need some help. Please support💞

    • @notactive3299
      @notactive3299 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@himangshukalita4328 no problem bro I just subscribed u and will also share ur channel ...thats all i can do.

  • @sushantgawas2449
    @sushantgawas2449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u bhai this is best video ever👍👍💯💯

  • @NikitaKumari-mx1oz
    @NikitaKumari-mx1oz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are one of the best youtubers. I really follow your contents on youtube. Keep giving good content in future. How can someone ask any question if he/she does not use instagram?

  • @asiagamingofficial8040
    @asiagamingofficial8040 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I will definitely apply this to my life. I get clarity from this video. Thank you sir.

  • @tomriddle7357
    @tomriddle7357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Your background is distracting me...😅🤦

    • @GareebMotivator
      @GareebMotivator 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Meko bhi 😪

    • @rahul6616
      @rahul6616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because you are looking for the some,wait some time

    • @tomriddle7357
      @tomriddle7357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Gulfian Baby yupp❤️

    • @winterapplegamingYT203
      @winterapplegamingYT203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Arey bhai kya hoga logo ka ye complain kar kyu raha hai manage kar le. Screen pe mat dekh head phones laga le

    • @BenNeedsATheme4aDream
      @BenNeedsATheme4aDream 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr...Bad choice...Isn't as engaging as before

  • @omkarmirajgave7542
    @omkarmirajgave7542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Intellectually
    Set your own standards to complete

  • @neil5202
    @neil5202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Needed to hear this, perfect timing.

    • @himangshukalita4328
      @himangshukalita4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai I'm a new youtuber. Need some help. Please support💞

    • @ashutoshpadhi2782
      @ashutoshpadhi2782 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here, you might find your answers.. th-cam.com/video/k5rNoSKJM6Q/w-d-xo.html

  • @ektadhapola9698
    @ektadhapola9698 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was searching answer for the same "what should be the idea of success for ourselves? Jo Kisi ar se influence na ho".....
    "Hme KY krna h Kesa bnna h Wo poora hamara ho, influence ke Bina ho"
    Do hfte se ye Ques pareshan krra tha ar Aaj ye video mil gyi ,❤️❤️

  • @ahmadbutt4750
    @ahmadbutt4750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks to you I became a writer too thanks mate 💕🇵🇰😘😘

  • @jovial6998
    @jovial6998 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    09:16 comparison kya h....... Approval duniya de,samaj de,samaj k jo hm example set kr rhe h unke jaisa banege to hme samaj se approval milega bhad me gya wo...
    Most important ❤self approval kaise milega jb m khud k standard se istabish kruga aur unko conquer kruga❤unko fulfill krunga

  • @bhaskarborah9875
    @bhaskarborah9875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Somewhere Deep down my Mind Questions how is this guy and his work so pathetically underrated though being well aware of the Answer. :-/

    • @PranjalRoy30
      @PranjalRoy30 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's your thinking that he's underrated, not actually

    • @himangshukalita4328
      @himangshukalita4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai I'm a new youtuber. Need some help. Please support💞

    • @himangshukalita4328
      @himangshukalita4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PranjalRoy30 Bhai I'm a new youtuber. Need some help. Please support💞

    • @bhaskarborah9875
      @bhaskarborah9875 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PranjalRoy30 don't you think his perspectives should influence more minds ??

  • @aminahshahid8878
    @aminahshahid8878 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Spirituality offers the best solution to this crisis, it leads you to getting to know yourself and others as a mere human rather than at what position someone is

  • @bellatrixlestrange2687
    @bellatrixlestrange2687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am a girl and my height is 6ft....and i am in my second year of college....... I really feel so down because of it..... I am working my ass off just to collect enough money to get a surgery and reduce my height......
    Obviously working with studies is exhausting...but i just can't live with it.....
    everyone just keeps pin pointing it to me! I hear it whole day! And was so depressed... I don't remember how many nights i have cried myself to sleep... But finally i have earned 60% of the finance ...may be by the end of next year I'd be able to get the surgery done!
    I don't know if i am influenced by social media or not ....but i really hate my body! 😫😫😫
    I'll do just anything to be normal!

    • @harshitkumar6979
      @harshitkumar6979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are depressed because of ur height.. Seriously?
      Anything that god gives us has worth.. Only u have to think it logically about that....
      Six feet height is really very nice height...

    • @bellatrixlestrange2687
      @bellatrixlestrange2687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@harshitkumar6979 jiski hoti hai ussey puchho kaisa lgta hai....... Btw thanks for your kind words... ♥️

    • @shubham2076
      @shubham2076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are overthinking tbh
      People actually want that height 😑
      Just get busy your brain will automatically ignore this dumb thaughts

    • @harshitkumar6979
      @harshitkumar6979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bellatrixlestrange2687 didi u should understand ur importance because everyone is doing several practices in order to get that height...
      Aaj kl to girls log 50 tereh ke yoga sirf height bdhane ke liye kr rhi h aur aapke pas wo height h to aap regret kr rhe h 😒😒☹️
      Aap focus apne goal pe kijiye...
      Height will always be ur advantage...

    • @reetikkumar6690
      @reetikkumar6690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Heya I can imagine what you are going through.. Don't worry about the society "you're not ugly because you're tall it's the mindset of people that tell you that you are ugly".. Let me tell you that the people that pinpoint you *they're just deadass jealous of you* .. *FVCK THEIR OPINION * there's more than height that adds to your beauty, i can bet your more mature than these people .. Don't change yourself just to be like everyone else.. *Be one of a kind*.. I know you've made up your mind but reconsider once before it's too late and regret your decision ..

  • @adityavlogs6032
    @adityavlogs6032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shwetabh Sir ,Firstly Thank You For Again A New And Effective Perspective To Teach Me..This was the mistake I was making comparing myself.At present I Am Reading Your 📖 ( 8 th Chapter) And will be completing soon .🤗Book Is Really Awesome And Helpful.I Will Be Eagerly Waiting For Your New Book😊👍

  • @shubhamagarwal5720
    @shubhamagarwal5720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    New Setup is Lite🔥💗

    • @ashutoshpadhi2782
      @ashutoshpadhi2782 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here, you might find your answers.. th-cam.com/video/k5rNoSKJM6Q/w-d-xo.html

  • @tube.461
    @tube.461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We should make own path , Don't compare Anyone ✅✅✅

  • @user-fy8hm2px4t
    @user-fy8hm2px4t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    There is actually a chapter in your book written about it.
    "We are seeking approval".

  • @vaibhavawasthi8706
    @vaibhavawasthi8706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Teacher wala example..💯💯💯

  • @mihirvaidya6310
    @mihirvaidya6310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Video quality increased 🔥🔥

  • @bstrong..5418
    @bstrong..5418 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you bro... Akal dene k liya sukriya bhai... Hum sala apne app ko underestimate krte krte stress me chle jate the phle .. Jab se app ka sath or vichar mile hai.. Hum bhut ashe ban gye hai apne app me...

  • @shreyanagar1214
    @shreyanagar1214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Sir is this method practical for people in their mid 20s also?

    • @SagarKumar-vl9vl
      @SagarKumar-vl9vl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Most applicable...In short , find your own identity

    • @Luffy_RpM
      @Luffy_RpM 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✌🏻✌🏻

  • @pratyakshsaxena7420
    @pratyakshsaxena7420 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kamaal kr diya bhaiii..♥️♥️

  • @tanumishra4400
    @tanumishra4400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir , sometimes it happens like we are happy in our life but the ppl near about us ( who are close to us)are engaged in some activities like in relationship nd all which sometimes for a single sec thought effect us . And created many qns like dont i deserve it? Cant i be special for someone and thn everywhere u try to look out ppl like uh which make no sense we know but it distract for some tyms......
    How to deal with this.

  • @Deepeshtiwari321
    @Deepeshtiwari321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    His content quality has finally matched with his production quality✌️✌️
    As usuall amazing advice