I Just Inherited $1,500,000 (I’m 22)

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  • @Ethernet480
    @Ethernet480 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1124

    A 22 yo with $10k is indicative of “good with money” just in case you were wondering

    • @vandrewsan
      @vandrewsan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      For sure

    • @jaysleeper264
      @jaysleeper264 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +172

      I'm glad Rachel was there to bring her back up 🤣. Two things can be true. No, 10k isn't the kind of money Dave was referring to. But 10k at 22 IS good and her bringing it up means she's probably proud of it. We can leap that if she's proud of it, she probably worked to get there.

    • @wheel-man5319
      @wheel-man5319 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      At least reasonably responsible.

    • @stog9821
      @stog9821 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I thought the same.

    • @sid6554
      @sid6554 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

      100%. Dave isn't too bright. $10k is far higher than the median savings for a 22 year old.

  • @cartermullenix7794
    @cartermullenix7794 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    “ you only have 10k at 22?”
    4 years as a full time student and rent will do that to you nowadays Ramsay….

    • @pedrodomingues7668
      @pedrodomingues7668 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Come on, put it in context, he said that COMPARING to a 1.5M that she's getting

  • @Rachelec9352
    @Rachelec9352 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +195

    I absolutely love when Dave and Rachel do the show together. Their dynamic as father and daughter is so awesome!

    • @XFizzlepop-Berrytwist
      @XFizzlepop-Berrytwist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I couldnt imagine being Dave’s kid honestly. XD
      I’m not super religious and I feel like that would cause a rift. Not to mention I do wonder how Dave would feel if any of his kids turned out not religious or were gay. XD
      I’d feel like I’d have to pretend who I was for many years for fear of being cut off.

    • @Anteater23
      @Anteater23 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@XFizzlepop-BerrytwistYou should be more fearful of being cut off from God.

    • @XFizzlepop-Berrytwist
      @XFizzlepop-Berrytwist 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Anteater23 God supposedly loves us all, and accepts us.
      Religious folk are often the most judgey, hateful, and unaccepting people I have ever met, and would abuse their own children for being different.

    • @yevodee4024
      @yevodee4024 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Anteater23
      "You should be more fearful of being cut off from God."
      ===========================================
      So you are asking people to be afraid that they might be cut off from an entity whose very existence is highly doubtful.

    • @Anteater23
      @Anteater23 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@yevodee4024 It’s not highly doubtful. If you want to know God then you can.

  • @Nicole-zv7ee
    @Nicole-zv7ee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    The fact that they are only 22 and she is already concerned about whether or not her soon to be husband will be motivated to work, because of this money, is a major red flag. I really hope she has him sign a prenup. As young as they are, I think she should invest every dime of the money, and then both continue to work, as if the money didn't even exist, so that it can continue to grow, over the next few decades. Otherwise, it could easily be squandered.

    • @dermo-hk6pu
      @dermo-hk6pu 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      she should be concern. disparity in asset and income is always going to raise concerns. she is in the right to have a prenup and she should learn to NOT comingle her income after marriage.

    • @erikblomqvist8325
      @erikblomqvist8325 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@dermo-hk6pu If that's your mindset, don't get married. You think that you are becoming one flesh, but not one bank account?!

    • @erikblomqvist8325
      @erikblomqvist8325 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      $1.5M is enough to retire and it sounds like he's bringing some assets too, considering that he's inheriting a business. They should work, but they shouldn't have much trouble retiring with that kind of money, if they choose not to work. They really need to make sure that they are on the same page and trust each other. That sounds like the main problem here.

  • @PremSteve-yg4de
    @PremSteve-yg4de 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +208

    Success depends on the actions or steps you take to achieve it. Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Financial management is a crucial topic that most tend to shy away from, and ends up haunting them in the near future.., I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life!!

    • @MarcyLoccy
      @MarcyLoccy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life because I invested early ahead this time .

    • @Tanner-c2m
      @Tanner-c2m 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Until the Fed clamps down even further I think we're going to see hysteria due to rampant inflation. If you are in cross roads or need sincere advise on the best moves to take now with financial markets will be best you seek a fin-professional with fiduciary responsibilities who knows about mortgage-backed securities for proper guidance.

    • @antoniaribeiro8073
      @antoniaribeiro8073 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Could you possibly recommend a CFA you've consulted with?

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      @Tanner-c2m 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @KatyaSantos-g4c
      @KatyaSantos-g4c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She appears to be well-educated and well-read. I ran an online search on her name and came across her website; thank you for sharing.

  • @thisis.michelletorres444
    @thisis.michelletorres444 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +175

    He gave her very sound advice. Also, kudos to her for getting advice from the RIGHT people. That money can set her up for life if she's smart with it or it will be squandered in a bad marriage. I wish her the best!

    • @gmarie3053
      @gmarie3053 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I wish her the best but at 22 and been together for 5 years, there’s zero chance she’s leaving

    • @gildardomagallon
      @gildardomagallon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gmarie3053sadly I in that’s true and I think he wanted to get married when he found out about the cash. He didn’t wanna get married for 5 whole years prior to.

    • @darylfoster7944
      @darylfoster7944 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most lottery winnings are squandered

  • @B_More30
    @B_More30 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +230

    Dave: "You didnt have any money" - she's 22 man...dont say it like a jerk, Dave

    • @greggpurviance7252
      @greggpurviance7252 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      It is true. 10,000 is good, but it isn't anything like 1.5 million. A whole diffrent ballpark & she has no experience with wealth like Grandpa

    • @TheyRiseBand
      @TheyRiseBand 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Dave is worth $200 million. To him, $10k is nothing -- a nice night out, maybe.

    • @greggpurviance7252
      @greggpurviance7252 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TheyRiseBand He is likely worth more than that. But 10,000 is nothing compared to 1.5 million

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@TheyRiseBand He's worth four times that.

    • @Adam0l
      @Adam0l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      They were both just coming from different lenses.
      Dave wanted to know how much money she has, if she has a scope/comprehension of how much 1.5m is and 10k is nothing.
      The girl was saying she's done pretty good w money, in the context of a normal non-millionaire person.
      They're both right, but seeing her lens, and validating her handling of money was definitely the most appropriate response there 😂

  • @9liveslisa
    @9liveslisa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +226

    Don't get married (yet) Spend more time figuring out adulthood. Invest the money well and forget about it. You'll have a nice retirement when you get there.

    • @FileForename
      @FileForename 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I wanna merry her :) I am am 46 yo,but I am whooping £300k networth XD. But apparently money don't make people happy,so it doesn't matter XD

    • @oneperson5760
      @oneperson5760 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Get married, if you know he's the one. I married at 20. 30 years later, it's the best decision I made. Since we both married young, we didn't get trauma from failed relationships and baggage with a bunch of different people. But definitely invest the money somewhere safe and forget about it.

    • @Gunitro
      @Gunitro 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Women have a shelf life 😅

    • @9liveslisa
      @9liveslisa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Gunitro Hate to tell you this, but so do men.

    • @Calibrownsfan
      @Calibrownsfan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@oneperson5760 you never actually know someone is "the one" thats why over half of marriages end in divorce

  • @AnthonyJustice-i9x
    @AnthonyJustice-i9x หลายเดือนก่อน +242

    I Hit 110k today. Thank you for all the knowledge and nuggets you had thrown my way over the last months. Started last month 2024. Financial education is indeed required for more than 70% of the society in the country as very few are literate on the subject. thanks to Brooke Grace Miller for helping me achieve this

    • @henrybernhard0
      @henrybernhard0 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @ClarenceFerland
      @ClarenceFerland หลายเดือนก่อน

      The very first time we tried, we invested $1000 and after a week, we received $5500. That really helped us a lot to pay up our bills.

    • @GrozaGroza-ko7fn
      @GrozaGroza-ko7fn หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @HighlightsSerieATIM
      @HighlightsSerieATIM หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm new at this, please how can I reach her?

    • @ZahirFriedman
      @ZahirFriedman หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just withdrew my profits a week ago, To be honest it was an amazing feeling when the profits hits my wallet I wish I could reinvest but, too much bills

  • @stog9821
    @stog9821 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    This was good advice. First time I’d ever heard Ramsey. I’ll have to pay more attention. It’s hard to not tell your fiancé how much money you’ve got, but as a rule it’s best to keep it to yourself.

  • @PhilipMarcYT
    @PhilipMarcYT 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +328

    If you can't trust him then don't marry him, it's that simple.

    • @kirapoodle
      @kirapoodle 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Money changes people

    • @dnah02
      @dnah02 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That's what he tells the men

    • @untouchable360x
      @untouchable360x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I don't trust anyone. I don't even trust myself sometimes.

    • @zedshockblade7157
      @zedshockblade7157 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      People change, the person you marry today may be different in 5, 10, or more years.

    • @JustinCase780
      @JustinCase780 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@zedshockblade7157Exactly! He could be a chic in no time and you just never know. Gotta roll with it.

  • @dnah02
    @dnah02 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +208

    S&p 500 and chill.

    • @compendiousperspicacity
      @compendiousperspicacity 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      bitcoin and chill

    • @Evroyal
      @Evroyal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Exactly. Let that compound

    • @1MikeDoe6
      @1MikeDoe6 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      1000%

    • @penguin12902
      @penguin12902 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@compendiousperspicacity I bought some crypto back in 2021 and it hasn't done jack since then. It drops in half, then mostly recovers, then drops in half, then recovers to barely above what I purchased for. Buying crypto in one lump sum is terrible advice. My investments have made enough that I thought about selling...but it turns out the gas fees to move it out of my wallet would basically negate my gains.

    • @Harmxn
      @Harmxn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      ​@@compendiousperspicacity Yes 100%. Just put it all in Bitcoin and lose all of it. Start from 0 again so the grind is better 🙏🏽
      (sarcasm btw)

  • @nvus2758
    @nvus2758 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    "Money does not cause people to have problems. It magnifies the problems..."

    • @ronhall5395
      @ronhall5395 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely. I had nothing but a nice car when I got married and a college degree in Engineering. We both had to work to survive. No big deal. It was what we had planned to do. When my Father in law passed away, his kids were shocked By how much money he had. My wife was in disbelief. I just laughed, because I knew how much money he had saved and we often talked about investments. I really had no thoughts on it. It was her money, not mine. Much of it got rolled over to my wife into inheritance accounts. Her brothers and sisters cashed out all of their money. I left it all invested for my wife, in her name with me and our kids as beneficiaries. So now ten years later we still have most of the money, while her siblings have pretty much spent all of theirs. I even asked my wife if she wanted a post nup to protect her windfall. She looked at me very confused. " It is our money, not just my money" . Cool, but I don't touch it without her asking me to. I just paid off her new car from that account. By her request.

  • @jasonmoquin
    @jasonmoquin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Delay the marriage and do NOT give him any of that money. If he starts doing the right things and making his own money then you can put that back on the table. There is NO HURRY to get married at 22!

    • @JeanGaia-s9h
      @JeanGaia-s9h 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I would add keeping her own residence separate from her boyfriend is wise. In fact best to wait until marriage to live together.

    • @andrewrobinson2565
      @andrewrobinson2565 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      No joint account.

  • @michaelb1429
    @michaelb1429 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Prenup is great until you buy things, anything you buy together gets split( cars, houses, etc)

    • @dudewhathappenedtomycountr9099
      @dudewhathappenedtomycountr9099 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Exactly. He'll talk her into buying stuff for the two of them.

    • @dudewhathappenedtomycountr9099
      @dudewhathappenedtomycountr9099 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@Bu-22 I'm talking consumables. You can easily blow $100K a year on trips. There's mo way to get the money back and stick it to the other party once the money is spent. And there's no way to account for every eventuality beforehand.

    • @linkplays2952
      @linkplays2952 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Your prenup can be anything. You can say in the prenup you wont split marital assets

  • @AshleyKeith-vw7ws
    @AshleyKeith-vw7ws 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +702

    My aunt passed and I inherited some of her portfolio and cash savings, I’m 28 with about 400k cash in savings and as usual everybody’s preaching invest, so what stocks are a good long term buy, only major purchase I intend to make is buying a home in 5years from my returns

    • @ChloeCarter-kd7gz
      @ChloeCarter-kd7gz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Lucky you, I’d buy a lot of tech stocks and Dividend portfolios with that.

    • @JessicaKeith-uj1jq
      @JessicaKeith-uj1jq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same, I just use TH-cam for research purposes, I run all my major investment through an investment adviser, the market is just too unstable to handle things on your own.

    • @AshleyKeith-vw7ws
      @AshleyKeith-vw7ws 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How do I reach out to a financial advisor? my portfolio has been struggling since 2022 and I’ve been holding on by the skin of my teeth.

    • @JessicaKeith-uj1jq
      @JessicaKeith-uj1jq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Desiree Ruth Hoffman is her name, browse about-her, you’d find details if you wish to reach out her. over half of the year 850k was way little of what I got it’s was a pretty awesome year for me

    • @AshleyKeith-vw7ws
      @AshleyKeith-vw7ws 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you. I see certifications on here website, with good experience. Intrigued, can’t wait to hear from her.

  • @Outrageousconduct
    @Outrageousconduct 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +188

    If he's not working hard now ,he's never gonna agree to a pre nup don't think she's getting married

    • @siva47931
      @siva47931 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      That's a win for her and a loss for him

    • @profitmix441
      @profitmix441 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Who work hard anymore?

    • @jimmymcgill6778
      @jimmymcgill6778 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She never said he is not working hard. She said he just started it up.

    • @Outrageousconduct
      @Outrageousconduct 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Go back and listen again

    • @zvmZvm0102
      @zvmZvm0102 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@siva47931 I don't know I know a lot of single women in their 30s who want to die because they had "fun" in their 20s.

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    @savannahglembin7090 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +683

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      @Lorifranklin-s6k 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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      @Jordimollind 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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      @Eviesautner 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @Karenwiegner
      @Karenwiegner 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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      @Clarencekrusensterna 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @NorwoodGuernsey
    @NorwoodGuernsey 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +168

    I'm 54 and my wife and I are VERY worried about our future, gas and food prices rising daily. We have had our savings dwindle with the cost of living into the stratosphere, and we are finding it impossible to replace them. We can get by, but can't seem to get ahead. My condolences to anyone retiring in this crisis, 30 years nonstop just for a crooked system to take all you worked for.

    • @AnstettSkelly
      @AnstettSkelly 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

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    • @ChristofferGilbert
      @ChristofferGilbert 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Vote Trump 🎉

    • @FegaroScheu
      @FegaroScheu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If you are not in the financial market space right now, you are making a huge mistake. I understand that it could be due to ignorance, but if you want to make your money work for you...prevent inflation

    • @TaylorGaston-z9n
      @TaylorGaston-z9n 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @AnstettSkelly
      @AnstettSkelly 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @marcusarelius
    @marcusarelius 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    This is so easy! You're 22 and just about to begin your career. Answer: pretend the money you just received does not exist, invest almost all of it! You could easily create a gameplan that allows you to retire by 40 years old. Invest the money, work and live like it does not exist. You will wake up one day in the not to distant future with the realization that you do not need to work and you will be old enough to deal with that responsibly. DO THAT!!!!!!

    • @djjazzyjeff1232
      @djjazzyjeff1232 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bingo, if it were me, I would put that money into an IRA ran by a professional invested in low risk stocks. With that kind of money you could absolutely live on the gains alone if you have a trustworthy investment advisor.

    • @james9872
      @james9872 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@djjazzyjeff1232 I would maximize tax advantaged contributions but I would not advise locking up the entire pot in a fund you can’t access with minimal tax implications until retirement age if the goal is FIRE…

    • @LukaMaretic-o3n
      @LukaMaretic-o3n 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some women would like to get mareied and live a happy family life.

    • @jeanmccallum-xs8rk
      @jeanmccallum-xs8rk หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Don't tell ANYONE about the money. Put it away, get a job, Don't take on debt!

    • @meganrichter9748
      @meganrichter9748 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@djjazzyjeff1232 portfolio managers charge some hefty fees. If your approach is low risk buy and hold, there's no reason you can't put the money in a few index funds by yourself and call it a day

  • @lancep.1251
    @lancep.1251 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +217

    That’s not a lot of money if you start burning through it. Just put it all in an S&P index fund and leave it alone for 20 years. In the meantime, keep working like it isn’t even there. Thank me later.

    • @imveryhungry112
      @imveryhungry112 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

      No way she's going to do that. She's going to marry this guy and they'll blow all that money within 3 years.

    • @FileForename
      @FileForename 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I would put in world fund. USA is way have too much debt. It is better to have exposure for whole world instead. Less performance,but safer imo.

    • @FileForename
      @FileForename 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@imveryhungry112 hope no, but she is young and naive.

    • @GMAMEC
      @GMAMEC 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@FileForenameI agree, investing can be very risky.

    • @FileForename
      @FileForename 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GMAMEC I know. I was 40% down in 2022.

  • @ericwilde4583
    @ericwilde4583 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +339

    I recently inherited almost $500k. I REALLY need to make this money work for me, and not just disappear over time. I've been scrambling for somewhere to put the money, where I can make an effort to use the gains to retire so I can quit my job . All roads have pointed to the financial market of some sort which is a good idea buh where else should I put money besides the financial market? We have a 13% RPI rate so cash is tough.

    • @JosephineGaule
      @JosephineGaule 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep great question and that’s always the one - where would you rather be if you have an option. Personally I’m always invested aside, Financial-market for me seem the only way forward with my long time horizon (accrued almost $1.4m in gains since 2020 thanks to my FA Dianne Sarah Olson) but if you don’t have that fortune of time it’s a tough market out there almost nowhere feels safe! . Just know the risk you're comfortable with . Mistake is expensive

    • @stanleyfujiwara1394
      @stanleyfujiwara1394 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very informative, one option I suppose is, if you were to invest a set amount buy the whole share in a ETF and the remainder could go into a index for which would allow you to purchase the fractional shares, is that an option?

    • @ParishBlein
      @ParishBlein 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      well a million in profit is a nice milestone, how did you achieve that? I guess you have a proven trading strategy that you've spent a lot on please share more info !!

    • @jacobsteven33
      @jacobsteven33 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bitcoin.

    • @rlkinnard
      @rlkinnard 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      just invest it in the stock market after getting rid of all debt.

  • @CC-ru8pi
    @CC-ru8pi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    She needs to spend a bit of that money to talk to a lawyer and an accountant, and she needs a prenup given the large discrepancy in financial position between her and her fiance. She also needs to seriously consider whether her fiance is going to exploit her financial windfall at her expense. She clearly lacks the life experience needed to make good decisions with the money.

    • @Slyguy96
      @Slyguy96 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That grandfather who left 1.5 mil to a 22 yo clearly wasn't thinking clearly. It should have been put in a trust fund. And she can not touch it until 30. Give's her all her 20's to get all the partying and bong hits out of her system. As well as some life experience. If not theere is a high likelihood the money will get squandered off on garbage.

    • @user-sf5bt8eb4y
      @user-sf5bt8eb4y 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      they were together and wanted to get married BEFORE she has a financial windfall. dude didnt just appear and wanted to marry her because she was rich

  • @itsmebougie
    @itsmebougie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My favourite part about Dave is his support of therapy/counseling, and his ability to navigate money and relationships

  • @AlessiaOrtiz
    @AlessiaOrtiz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    *The amazing skills of real estate are that it help keep the family, aid financial support, and can serve as a retirement tool when retired. It's passive income which rewards hard work and patience*

    • @henrymartino4283
      @henrymartino4283 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s the same talk everywhere but no one is saying how to get started?

    • @AlessiaOrtiz
      @AlessiaOrtiz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I work with a *Financial adviser;*

    • @AlessiaOrtiz
      @AlessiaOrtiz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      *Donald Nathan Scott.*

    • @henrymartino4283
      @henrymartino4283 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How do I reach him ;

    • @jrey1
      @jrey1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@AlessiaOrtizyou reach him by yelling out his name?

  • @JoeRNNE1
    @JoeRNNE1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    Don't get married yet. Get a financial advisor and start figuring out a way to grow and protect your wealth.

  • @bp6877
    @bp6877 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Excellent!!!!! I listened to this a second time through: All I could think was two things: 1. The saying that, in a partnership, the one partner ends up with the other one's money; 2. How much people change between the ages of 22 and even 24; it's unrecognizable! Scary, challenging times are ahead for this young lady...I hope the inheritance gift doesn't become a curse!

  • @TorqueKMA
    @TorqueKMA 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    I like how rachel stayed real quiet for the inheritance conversation

    • @DavidAlgoma
      @DavidAlgoma 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Hahaha good one

    • @Art-is-craft
      @Art-is-craft 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She will be very well looked after. Dave is 63 and may have 25 years of life ahead of him. By the time it is her turn she will have already have her own portfolio.

    • @MrMustangrick
      @MrMustangrick 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nepo baby.

    • @ZhangWeiMenacing
      @ZhangWeiMenacing 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@MrMustangrick You say that like it’s a bad thing

  • @lindakincaid4530
    @lindakincaid4530 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Nope not this guy sweety. you deserve more. and when you do date no one needs to know you have money. Invest it all.

  • @TheyRiseBand
    @TheyRiseBand 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    That money will be gone in no time, marriage or not.

    • @dolphinbear661
      @dolphinbear661 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Someone truly frugal could make it last a lifetime. I would.

    • @H..M..
      @H..M.. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dolphinbear661unfortunately, many young people with no experience handling money will fritter it away pretty quickly. Cars, houses, vacations, etc. it goes fast if you don’t know any better. And you think it is still a lot until it’s almost gone.

    • @bp6877
      @bp6877 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was thinking the same thing; on its face, it sounds like a lot, but with things getting so expensive, it's not a lot; today, "$1,000" is the new $100.

    • @btw-3006
      @btw-3006 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Even if you invested "only" $600K of that $1.5 million inheritance at age 22 and it gained an average annual return of 10% per year for 28 years, you would end up with about $8.65 million, which would be about $3.78 million in today's dollars (assuming 3% annual inflation for 28 years) and with a 4% withdrawal rate, that would be about $151K annual spending in today's dollars. This is also assuming you don't invest any additional money.

  • @Stephen-nq5lf
    @Stephen-nq5lf 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1034

    Roughly $120K in my portfolio are in tech/TSLA stocks, can I get an advice on any other stocks that I can acquire to diversify my reserve across multiple markets while creating a comprehensive portfolio allocation that balances my concerns of risk aversion and returns that meet yearly inflation

    • @Evelina-v3u
      @Evelina-v3u 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Just ''buy the dip'' man. In the long term it will payoff. High interest rates usually mean lower stock prices, however investors should be cautious of the bull run, its best you connect with a well-qualified adviser to meet your growth goals and avoid blunder.

    • @Garrett-lo6pu
      @Garrett-lo6pu 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah, brokerage AdvisoRs could make a lot of difference. Bloomberg and other finance media have been recording cases of investors raking in 6 to 7 digits in a space of months. So, I think there are a lot of wealth transfer in this downtime if you know where to look. I have been using an FA since 2020, and the least I returned was $140k ROI, and this does not include capital gain.

    • @PMackenzie-vw3wb
      @PMackenzie-vw3wb 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How can one find a verifiable financial planner? I would not mind looking up the professional that helped you. I will be retiring in two years and I might need some management on my much larger portfolio. Don't want to take any chances.

    • @Garrett-lo6pu
      @Garrett-lo6pu 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😎 Having a coach is key to portfolio diversification, My advisor is "JENIENNE MINITER FAGAN" You can easily look her up, she has years of financial market experience.

    • @Garrett-lo6pu
      @Garrett-lo6pu 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      JENIENNE MINITER FAGAN is my portfolio-coach, I found her on Bloomberg where she was featured, I looked up her name on the internet. Fortunately I came across her site and reached out to her, you can verify her yourself.

  • @ajfrederick9584
    @ajfrederick9584 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +162

    I had 10k. "You had no money"😂😂😂

    • @profit822
      @profit822 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

      That was harsh 10K for 22-year-old that's pretty good. He has 40-year-olds calling in with zero savings

    • @hiddenprofits216
      @hiddenprofits216 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Lmao 10k is not good money compared to 500 K cash 😂

    • @ajfrederick9584
      @ajfrederick9584 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@profit822 true but i think he meant in terms of the mentality of having 500k is a lot different than 10

    • @ajfrederick9584
      @ajfrederick9584 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@hiddenprofits216 true but 10k at 22 is decent but the mentality of having a million dollars is very different than 10k

    • @dnah02
      @dnah02 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      10k is a emergency fund for a 22 year old that's a decent savings amount. At 22 I had a few 100s. Lol Dave is a clown for this one.

  • @ihaveadreamformykids4400
    @ihaveadreamformykids4400 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    Girl, this is your money before marriage. Get a prenup to protect the wealth your dad built for you and your future children.

    • @PhilipMarcYT
      @PhilipMarcYT 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ihaveadreamformykids4400 if she has to get a prenup it's not a real marriage

    • @bigcockedman714
      @bigcockedman714 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      interesting you wouldn't say this if this was a man.

  • @Madridstrat
    @Madridstrat 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +360

    I am 32 years old, lost my dad about half a year ago and I am going to receive some money soon. Would it be smart to grow my money in stocks for a few years while I am in business school and then invest in rental properties afterwards, or should I go for real estate investing first?

    • @TheDayTheDay312
      @TheDayTheDay312 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I recommend seeking the advice of an experienced financial professional. It might seem costly, but as the saying goes, you get what you pay for.

    • @JesseMayhill
      @JesseMayhill 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm very sorry for your loss. As she mentioned, it’s a good idea to consult a financial expert. In the case of rental properties, it might also be helpful to talk to some landlords to understand what’s involved. Many people view rentals as 'passive income,' but often underestimate the work required, even with a management agency. There’s also the risk of tenants not paying or unexpected major repairs. Definitely a lot to consider!

    • @Bunnydrille
      @Bunnydrille 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I agree, investing with the help of an advisor set me up for life. Retired with about $1.6m in stock portfolio only. I max out my 401k and have few properties. I worked hard everyday as a teacher for 32 years, and my salary was over 100k annually. Supplementing my income with stocks and alternative investments helped me achieve early retirement.

    • @Duttonmuffins
      @Duttonmuffins 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've worked in real estate for over 25 years and have neglected a major stock portfolio. This served me well when I was flipping and renting houses, however I need a different plan now.. mind if I look up the professional guiding you please?

    • @Bunnydrille
      @Bunnydrille 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Sure you can! Melissa Elise Robinson is the advisor I work with. Just search the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment.

  • @Talking.To.America
    @Talking.To.America 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    It's interesting to think about how a prenup might actually help keep outside influences at bay, especially from extended family.

  • @vjs4539
    @vjs4539 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    Don't marry him, girl. Not unless you wait 5 years and he starts working hard.

    • @acd1168
      @acd1168 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      My thought exactly. Im like why marry him?

    • @Ravetar101
      @Ravetar101 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      if the genders were reversed you wouldn't say that

    • @johnwilburn
      @johnwilburn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She’s already waited five years and he’s backing off with the windfall on the horizon.

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Same advice for a male caller or just the female callers? We are equal right?

    • @acd1168
      @acd1168 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@djpuplex NEWSFLASH: There is a double standard and there always will be. Get over it!

  • @KParks
    @KParks 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +132

    This money is gonna disappear extremely fast!

    • @zvmZvm0102
      @zvmZvm0102 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      girl is gonna find a tyrone to have fun with and blow it all...when she's a single mother she'll wish she had it back!

    • @nunu4evaaa
      @nunu4evaaa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How do you know

    • @jakethesnakelover
      @jakethesnakelover 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@nunu4evaaaHe knows ‘cause he’s already planning a heist. 😂

  • @ReginaDominique
    @ReginaDominique 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +881

    Enlightening content! I have been following your videos for sometime now, consistently kicking down Wall Street doors for two years now, I have over $320k in stocks. Currently, my portfolio is down by 15%. Wondering if they're any short term opportunities I can invest in.

    • @SlavoPetrovic
      @SlavoPetrovic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree that there are strategies that could be put in place for solid gains regardless of economy or market condition, but such executions are usually carried out by investment experts or advisors with experience.

    • @SoledadHughes-q2i
      @SoledadHughes-q2i 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Reason I decided to work closely with an brokerage-adviser ever since the market got really tensed and the pressure became so much(I should be retiring in 17months) so I've had an brokerage-adviser guide me through the chaos, its been 9months and counting and I've made approx. 650K net from all of my holdings.

    • @StalinGrabovsky
      @StalinGrabovsky 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How can I participate in this? I sincerely aspire to establish a secure financlal future and am eager to participate. Who is the driving force behind your success?

    • @SoledadHughes-q2i
      @SoledadHughes-q2i 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Elisse Laparche Ewing is the licensed fiduciary I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment.

    • @StalinUndav
      @StalinUndav 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She appears to be well-educated and well-read. I ran an online search on her name and came across her website; thank you for sharing.

  • @johnkoch1888
    @johnkoch1888 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    $1.5 million can be squandered pretty fast. Molly and Mosquito Joe need to have individual incomes of their own. Plus, anything to be obtained from the departed grandpa's business, or sale of the home occupied by Molly's mom, may not be easy to collect. Dave should refer Molly to a good attorney. At least postpone the wedding by a year or so.

  • @michellewrite2educate
    @michellewrite2educate 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Congratulations. You are blessed. Yolo do your thing.

  • @rachelfrees1268
    @rachelfrees1268 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Run dear one, run. ❤

  • @Monipenny1000
    @Monipenny1000 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great advice to this young lady! Dave, having you here advising folks is like having a caring fathers' guidance.

  • @DeboraGonzalez-h1y
    @DeboraGonzalez-h1y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Please don’t get married.

  • @ct158
    @ct158 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “If you don’t think there is crazy in your family then it’s you” is a great line

  • @gildardomagallon
    @gildardomagallon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    So they were together 5 years and didn’t consider marriage until the dad passed away. I think he just wants to leach off of her but couldn’t commit prior to having that money there

  • @bob007fl
    @bob007fl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Money does not cause people to have problems, it exposes the problems they have". wow!!

  • @brianselt291
    @brianselt291 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    “In like hardware stuff?? “ “And like he owned buildings and stuff?” I hate the inflection at the end of sentences…it makes me think that people aren’t sure what they are saying. I really feel for her but, her best move was calling the DR show.

    • @JosiahK555
      @JosiahK555 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      exactly, an eyerolling call... i feel for parents and grand parents that are intelligent and successful and hard working, and their kids or grand kids turn out to be airheads who don't know anything... I die a little bit inside when i see that happen.

    • @JustinCase780
      @JustinCase780 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She should say "like" more.

    • @imveryhungry112
      @imveryhungry112 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      He grandpa struggled and sacrificed so she could be like this now and vote for kamala

    • @tarablue4472
      @tarablue4472 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True. Dave and I couldn't make out when she was getting married when she said "Nov 20". I had a hard time understanding her much of the time. She didn't sound too sure on how her relative got the money or when she's getting married.

    • @frankcb11
      @frankcb11 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is young. It’s okay

  • @Deadshot4396
    @Deadshot4396 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    “I’ve got a million dollars in the bank”
    Dave: Start delivering pizzas

    • @famousamos1
      @famousamos1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Nah Beans 🫘 and rice 🍙

    • @weing
      @weing 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      and he is 100% right!

    • @alexalanis4830
      @alexalanis4830 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sell the car.

    • @zasta7
      @zasta7 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@weingin this comment's case, how?

  • @lindawilson4625
    @lindawilson4625 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Do not marry this guy. What you are saying doesn't bode well for the future. And you are only 22. Please don't do this.

    • @Goodchicken_lameducks
      @Goodchicken_lameducks 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's not a fair assessment. The guy is 22 years old. We are all young, dumb and inexperienced at that age. My wife and I are high school sweethearts and I know I was at 22. But you have to be patient and grow with each other. Life is ever changing and the person you are at 22 isn't who you'll be for the rest of your life. Now that being said, I don't disagree with the pre-nup advice. Any assets you have before marriage should be protected. Especially if it family inheritance. Then start a trust account with your spouse and protect your combined assets for your OWN family inheritance. Respect is a two way street you got to give it to get it.

  • @TheJonOrtiz
    @TheJonOrtiz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

    Dave is so favorable to women and prenups it’s getting hilarious 😂

    • @profit822
      @profit822 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      Yep, If it was a guy calling in he would never suggest prenups. He would say then you shouldn't get married. Because it's no longer your money, it's our money in a marriage.

    • @Chet_24
      @Chet_24 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Truth!

    • @KParks
      @KParks 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      If this was a guy calling it would be this is y'all's money not yours put it in a joint bank account. But she's got 200k in student loans ok so you got 200k in student loans you need to deliver pizza she can stay home 😂

    • @mike-yo8qj
      @mike-yo8qj 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@profit822 search videos from Dave and pre-nups... he's spoken to men between 22-40 that have inherited similar and he does suggest pre-nups to them, too.

    • @actuallyterry
      @actuallyterry 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@mike-yo8qj Exactly. People just want to feed their own agenda.

  • @fueledbymusic3
    @fueledbymusic3 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    A classic example of why you shouldnt love (and hoard) your money. Because when you get old and die, someone else who did not work for it is going to inherit your money

  • @mitchd949
    @mitchd949 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    If the marriage is already scheduled, even if he signs a pre-nup it may later be tossed because he can claim he signed under duress (i.e. had to sign to avoid embarrassment of calling off the wedding).

  • @Albee213
    @Albee213 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Prenup yes. It would be possible to never have to work again with 1.5 million if you live a reasonable lifestyle. You could buy three houses and make 2k each as rental income. Matters what location you live in. But most people are going to buy expensive cars and clothes and a house that they cant afford long term and end up broke.

    • @fabbz94
      @fabbz94 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Or put it all in mutual funds paying like 7% then she can live off that every year.

    • @Albee213
      @Albee213 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fabbz94 I am no financial expert. But if you drew from the interests as income they balance will not grow. If you buy properties and rent them they increase in value and you the rent goes up over time as well.

    • @fabbz94
      @fabbz94 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Albee213 if you're making like 150k a year in interest just live off 80k or less a year.

    • @Albee213
      @Albee213 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@fabbz94 150 a year sounds a little optimistic but as stated I am no financial expert and only know how to own property.

    • @fabbz94
      @fabbz94 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Albee213 at the end of the day we ain't gunna get an inheritance like that 😔 well at least I know I am not lol if rates go down enough I may get into rentals.

  • @juliekovich-recordingartist
    @juliekovich-recordingartist 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I hope she trusts her instincts on the boyfriend and honors the effort that went into building this wealth.

  • @Mary-Flint
    @Mary-Flint 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +346

    I am 22 years old, lost my dad about half a year ago and I am going to receive some money soon. Would it be smart to grow my money in stocks for a few years while I am in college and then invest in rental properties afterwards, or should I go for real estate investing first?

    • @J.woltz48
      @J.woltz48 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I would advise the counsel of a seasoned financial pro. It may seem expensive, but as the old saying goes - "you get what you pay for" "Expert solutions require Expert providers" - my mantra

    • @LaurelCandice
      @LaurelCandice 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Agreed, investing with the help of an advisor set me up for life. Retired with about $1.6m in stock portfolio only. I worked hard everyday as a teacher for 32 years, and my salary was over 100k annually. Supplementing my income with stocks and alternative investments helped me achieve my early retirement goal.

    • @dianaP14
      @dianaP14 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@LaurelCandice I've worked in real estate for over 25 years and have neglected a major stock portfolio. This served me well when I was flipping and renting houses, however I need a different plan now.. mind if I look up the professional guiding you please?

    • @LaurelCandice
      @LaurelCandice 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Karen Lynne Chess is my FA. Just google the name and you’d find necessary deets to work with and set up an appointment. To be honest, I almost didn't buy the idea of letting someone handle growing my finance, but so glad I did.

    • @katieiri
      @katieiri 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      excellent share, curiously inputted Karen Lynne Chess on the internet, spotted her consulting page ranked top and was able to schedule a call session. Ive seen commentaries about advisors but not one looks this phenomenal

  • @random-nz7dy
    @random-nz7dy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love Rachel and Dave together because she can clap back in a way the others can
    Like dave shooting straight 1:25 " 10k yeah you don't have any money"
    Rachels like lol "that sounded mean dad."

    • @weing
      @weing 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      10k is fair used car or a basic emergency fund and thats all

  • @mdm40mdm
    @mdm40mdm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +142

    C’mon Dave! She was so proud of having saved $10,000 by age 22 and you tell her she “has no money.” Don’t lose sight of where you once were. Shame on you. Lost a bit of respect for you for that…

    • @jeffmansfield914
      @jeffmansfield914 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Yeah, he talks about being dead broke back in the day, and I’m pretty sure it was at an older age than she is. She’s doing good things.

    • @m80mangg
      @m80mangg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      10k isn't even 6 months emergency savings. It's not a bad stash but it doesn't go very far

    • @zvmZvm0102
      @zvmZvm0102 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      1.5 million isn't a lot of money.

    • @santiagogomez1254
      @santiagogomez1254 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Exactly she’s probably debt free with 10k in savings and very. Young come on she’s doing good

    • @santiagogomez1254
      @santiagogomez1254 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Dave asked if she had any money she answered his question Dave never asked her if she has some kind of wealth before this inheritance

  • @user-fp4dr1ne7z
    @user-fp4dr1ne7z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hope she took the advice. That’s a lot of money for such a young age. It takes years and experience to build habits and character to steward such wealth. Honestly, I would keep most of the money invested and then try to figure out what I would want to do for the rest of my life. And then take time to build those habits and knowledge before doing anything with the money.

    • @burgholte
      @burgholte 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was in a similar situation, basically did what you said and you are 100% right.

  • @musume7723
    @musume7723 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Molly, do NOT legally attach yourself to this man

    • @rickyayy
      @rickyayy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Run Molly!!!!!

  • @flotaylor8170
    @flotaylor8170 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg, Dave is so spot on. When I met my now husband, he moved into the house I owned with me and his mom told him he shouldn't be paying rent because I owned the House and rented out the basement apartment. My husband just ignored her! Family is weird!!!

  • @bigdaddygoon828
    @bigdaddygoon828 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    They really both in the same boat she just got her money earlier and get him but eventually he's going to inherit money too from his parents who own the franchise

    • @megalodon1726
      @megalodon1726 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But he's in 20s. He'll probably have to wait another 30+ years to inherit it.

    • @sewerrat7612
      @sewerrat7612 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Depends on the family some let kids get a portion to run know people under 30 who could retire if they want in that exact circumstances

  • @vickie_hearne
    @vickie_hearne 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So much of marriage is like running a business....good advice here...

  • @lazyshira
    @lazyshira 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Would have been best if the boyfriend had not known about the inheritance money (or the extent of it).
    Not that he knows, she can't be sure of his and his family's intentions.
    I would call the wedding off if I were her.

  • @Tsak112
    @Tsak112 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can say that pre-marital counseling prior to getting married helped my wife and I get on the same page about EVERYTHING. We are 1 year into our marriage with a newborn and we work as a team and talk through everything. I couldn't recommend it enough to couples looking to tie the knot.

  • @diceportz7107
    @diceportz7107 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    "if you think there's not crazy in your family, it's you." I love Dave !

    • @jtcr4199
      @jtcr4199 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yeah, I don't entirely agree with him, my family doesn't have any, I think we're pretty stable.

    • @megalodon1726
      @megalodon1726 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jtcr4199 he's not just talking about immediate family. He's also including aunts, uncles, grandparents and their siblings, cousins, nephews, nieces, and the spouses of all those relatives. Somewhere in that list there is crazy in every family, even if you don't know it yet. If you win $50 million in the lottery and your extended family finds out, you will see some crazy coming at you.

  • @izgil7541
    @izgil7541 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's a very good thing that she called when Dave was in because he gave her very good fatherly advice.

  • @Jack51971
    @Jack51971 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Donald Trump wants to eliminate the tax on Social Security. Before 1984 it was never taxed! I love this proposal❤️

  • @Handicaptain02
    @Handicaptain02 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If you propose a prenup to someone and they sign without a doubt it means that person never sees themselves getting divorced making the prenup meaningless to them. If they dont want to sign a prenup that says something about that person as an individual.

    • @zvmZvm0102
      @zvmZvm0102 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      if you ask for a pre-nup it means you value something more than your partner...your money.

    • @Handicaptain02
      @Handicaptain02 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@zvmZvm0102 No it just means you have common sense and dont want to give away half of it. If you know youre going to spend the rest of your life with someone you should have no problem signing because it will never go into effect.

    • @zvmZvm0102
      @zvmZvm0102 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Handicaptain02 It means you don't actually believe in marriage. Which is fine. I think we should have a civil partnership arrangement for all the future divorced people to do. We don't need people trashing marriage because selfish losers who are unlovable wreck it.

    • @scotland369
      @scotland369 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not necessarily. Being asked to sign a prenup is offensive as it implies you can't be trusted. Also if you are the one with career skills and high earning potential being asked to sign a prenup while your parter has no long term career growth they are fine taking your future earning, but don't want you to take their money. Just a shitty situation.

  • @arcticredpanda4598
    @arcticredpanda4598 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    No marriage counseling is gonna make a 22 year old grow up.

  • @cyndiemcmartin6010
    @cyndiemcmartin6010 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have always said that money and age make a person More of what they already are

  • @neededtobesaid4275
    @neededtobesaid4275 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I wish Dave had also told her that she needs to NEVER loan people money. Money makes people around you weird. The second her future MIL, FIL, or BIL wants to borrow money they need to have an agreed upon answer. Sorry, but we don't have any money available to loan. No, we don't have any money available to "invest" with your business...

  • @philochristos
    @philochristos 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If I had $1.5 million, the question wouldn't be, "Am I going to work?" The question would be, "What is 'work' anyway?" I wouldn't be somebody else's employee, but I would definitely be making knives and stuff.

  • @LyricalTampon
    @LyricalTampon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Getting married at 22 is insane.

    • @AprilFriday-de6vm
      @AprilFriday-de6vm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I got engaged at 22 and married at 23. We’ve been happily married for 26 years. My sister married at 19 (which I thought was utterly nuts), but they have a strong marriage after 25 years. It really depends on the values of the people involved. Our brother flamed out of his marriage after four years even though he was almost 30 when he married, because he still wasn’t mature enough not to cheat/drink/run up debts. Sometimes age and maturity are different things.

    • @SBScott
      @SBScott 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Married at 19. Lasted 40 years until he passed unexpectedly. We had a fabulous relationship, best friends until the end.

    • @chrisarrowood7430
      @chrisarrowood7430 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Married my first girlfriend at 22. Everything is still amazing after 10 years of marriage (14 total together)

    • @sonicmoj1
      @sonicmoj1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      All of you are in the minority. Married Too Young and no adulthood. No regrets I married at 36 and happily married for 12 years I would never give up my 22 to 36 adulthood singlehood bachelorhood I learned so many things before getting married.

    • @LyricalTampon
      @LyricalTampon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@AprilFriday-de6vm My grandfather smoked until he was 80 and died in a car crash. That doesn't mean smoking isn't bad for you.
      Your personal experience does not say anything about an overall data set. Getting married that young is statistically a disaster. You're like 75% more likely to get divorced if you get married under 25. These are children.

  • @phamcuong9183
    @phamcuong9183 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That’s true. You need a serious conversation with your fiance and set the expectation straight. Hopefully they did not need a prenup, they have been together for 5 years. It would suck if money break them apart. That’s why sometimes big trunk of inherited money might not be good for young people. They are just not ready for it yet.

  • @genxx2724
    @genxx2724 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think this money puts the girl into a different sector of society, where she has the potential to meet more successful people.

    • @morningmona
      @morningmona 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not if she has no substance and in full and dumb.

  • @NA-lp2re
    @NA-lp2re 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s a dangerous amount of money. Enough to trick you into thinking you’re rich but not enough to get away with not working.

  • @relaxationspot7439
    @relaxationspot7439 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    if the guy is not eve thinking of how to multiply that and now he is getting lazy, we have a problem.
    That's what happens when u get money you didn't sweat for

    • @Nicole-zv7ee
      @Nicole-zv7ee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And he's only 22 years old and already being lazy---that is a ***major***red flag........I have doubts about whether she should marry him at all, but at a minimum, she definitely needs a prenup!!

  • @mikeoneill7360
    @mikeoneill7360 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Getting married at 22 years old is absolutely ridiculous.....
    If you think this money will help when it comes to a marriage, think again, it's a fallacy.

    • @bigcockedman714
      @bigcockedman714 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you wnat her to be ran through and risk at at 29?

  • @StalinGrabovsky
    @StalinGrabovsky 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +500

    Amazing content! I have been following your videos for sometime now, consistently kicking down Wall Street doors for two years now, I have over $320k in stocks. Currently, my portfolio is down by 15%. Wondering if they're any short term opportunities I can invest in

    • @ErikaBailey-x8g
      @ErikaBailey-x8g 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree that there are strategies that could be put in place for solid gains regardless of economy or market condition, but such executions are usually carried out by investment experts or advisors with experience

    • @NikitaMcLauren
      @NikitaMcLauren 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Reason I decided to work closely with an brokerage-adviser ever since the market got really tensed and the pressure became so much(I should be retiring in 17months) so I've had an brokerage-adviser guide me through the chaos, its been 9months and counting and I've made approx. 650K net from all of my holdings.

    • @SlavoPetrovic
      @SlavoPetrovic 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @NikitaMcLauren
      @NikitaMcLauren 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Elisse Laparche Ewing is the licensed fiduciary I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment

    • @ErikaBailey-x8g
      @ErikaBailey-x8g 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She appears to be well-educated and well-read. I ran an online search on her name and came across her website; thank you for sharing.

  • @jessewilson-music
    @jessewilson-music 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's really sounding like this money may be more of a burden, than a blessing to this girl. She needs some trusted, wise counsel.

    • @mikejezek5214
      @mikejezek5214 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As a man, it wouldn't make sense to be in a relationship with her. It's her money, true. But she'll live the pampered life. While he busts his tail for 7-10 years, paying all the bills. Then around that time - when most divorces happen - they split, he walks out empty handed. She takes no losses.

  • @JustinCase780
    @JustinCase780 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Ken's at Subway getting 2 meatball footlongs. One for him and one for George (hopefully).

    • @TheyRiseBand
      @TheyRiseBand 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Something tells me Ken is the kind of guy that would get 2 sandwiches for himself, only.

    • @JustinCase780
      @JustinCase780 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@TheyRiseBandHe brought George the leftover half of the second one which was cold. George told him to F-off and Ken laughed while lipping his lips of marinara sauce and draining down his last portion of his Dr. Pepper.

    • @MrMustangrick
      @MrMustangrick 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Weirdo comment.

  • @tennisisking2246
    @tennisisking2246 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    22 yr-old to Dave: "I'm pretty good with my money. I have $10,000."
    Dave: "You don't have any money."
    Dave to God: "I'm pretty good with my money. I'm a multi-millionaire."
    God: "You don't have any money."

  • @NewGuy2024
    @NewGuy2024 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    No matter in debt or a payout -- the BIGGER the number the FASTER we click!

    • @tarablue4472
      @tarablue4472 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hmmm interesting analysis.

  • @mathematician1234
    @mathematician1234 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She needs some legal advice. If she delays the wedding until after the inheritance, does it avoid becoming comingled assets? If so, delay the wedding, use one-third of the funds to buy a house in your name, one-third in a broad market low fee mutual fund (S&P500, World Stocks, etc.) in your name, and one-third in a good bond fund, in your name. Then a pre-nup, counseling, and marriage.

    • @philochristos
      @philochristos 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She's in Texas, so anything she inherits, whether before or after getting married, is her sole and separate property. If she uses that money to buy real estate, and they are both grantees, then that real estate becomes community property.

  • @TheJonOrtiz
    @TheJonOrtiz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    And he should make her sign a prenup on the franchise for when he sells it😊

    • @sourcow56
      @sourcow56 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s not even his. It’s his parents 😅

    • @TheJonOrtiz
      @TheJonOrtiz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sourcow56 she said he’s going to inherit it

  • @dorapalliproductions6091
    @dorapalliproductions6091 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    yayyyy its tomorrow good luck guys!

  • @jbeav3902
    @jbeav3902 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My wife is going inherit a fortune in a trust. Just don't know when the fund will relinquish the money. Waiting for old money is not fun.

    • @iddddaduncan
      @iddddaduncan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Get back to work

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Don’t sit around waiting for the money. Live your life the best you can. When it comes, it will be a bonus.

  • @cutlerylover
    @cutlerylover 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    hey, im rich but young so can I get married and make sure if I break the guys heart and live a life where he doesnt work I can leave him in the streets with nothing? lol how about dont get married if you cant trust the person forever...

    • @kebas239
      @kebas239 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is always a risk. I hate to say it, but people change and you have no way of knowing that the other person will always stay committed to you. But I guess that's why I never got married - because I would never be able to fully trust someone.

  • @LisaMitchell-kn7vo
    @LisaMitchell-kn7vo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    I'm favoured, $28k every week! I can now give back to the locals in my community and also support God's work and the church. God bless America.

    • @lannyhumphry6048
      @lannyhumphry6048 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you invest with a professional broker? I would appreciate it if you could show me how to go about it..

    • @LisaMitchell-kn7vo
      @LisaMitchell-kn7vo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks to Mrs. Elizabeth Regina Nelsen's time in my life, which had a profound impact on me.

    • @Solomon507
      @Solomon507 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow! Kind of in shock you mentioned expert, Elizabeth Regina Nelsen. What a coincidence!!

    • @Solomon507
      @Solomon507 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Elizabeth Regina Nelsen has really set the standard for others to follow, we love her here in the UK as she has been really helpful and changed lots of lives

    • @MartinaJuarez-pm1bh
      @MartinaJuarez-pm1bh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Life is easier when the cash keeps popping
      in, thanks to Elizabeth Regina Nelsen's services. Glad she's getting the recognition she deserves

  • @KidCity1985
    @KidCity1985 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Buy as many duplex as you can while keeping 50% leverage.

  • @Komputar
    @Komputar 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    *So $10k is no money* - learning something new everyday

  • @creolelady182
    @creolelady182 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If a woman has her own money I dont see the need to marry. if you dont want children

    • @megalodon1726
      @megalodon1726 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So women's only reason to marry, if they don't want kids, is to take a man's money?

    • @jshepard152
      @jshepard152 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lol. If she has her own money she doesn't need a man to support her.

  • @EricAndradeMusic
    @EricAndradeMusic 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    How would she feel if he was calling in saying he wanted a pre nup because he inherited $1,000,000 shortly before a wedding?
    These female callers are unbelievable. Just break up with him and get it over with.

    • @fabbz94
      @fabbz94 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Agreed! They would tell the guy "it's yalls money now" smh. She never has to work again so she should really just decide if she wants to be with this guy or not.

    • @EricAndradeMusic
      @EricAndradeMusic 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fabbz94 when men make money we share it. When women get it, they keep it for themselves. An unflattering reality women will not admit.

    • @beaniemac
      @beaniemac 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@fabbz94he most certainly would say that

    • @fabbz94
      @fabbz94 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Wild_flower_415 don't tell me what to think.

    • @fabbz94
      @fabbz94 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Wild_flower_415 dont tell me what to do

  • @andrewjackson5127
    @andrewjackson5127 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I can't imagine having 1.5 million dollars at the starting line. That's just wild. If only they invested in live a modest lifestyle, they could retire at like forty years old with god knows how much money.

    • @jshepard152
      @jshepard152 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Seriously. By 35 I'd be sooo set.

    • @SOGFLY1
      @SOGFLY1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They finna blow it

  • @FlyWithVeiga
    @FlyWithVeiga 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Some people have all the luck 😂

    • @TheRalf9999
      @TheRalf9999 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Disagree…much better to earn on your own 👍

    • @McTylerMoreTube
      @McTylerMoreTube 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yeah. She’s so lucky her Grandad and then her Dad died.

    • @FlyWithVeiga
      @FlyWithVeiga 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@TheRalf9999100% agree. Just saying it’s nice to receive an inheritance without expecting one… 👍🏾

    • @FlyWithVeiga
      @FlyWithVeiga 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@McTylerMoreTubelol you took this comment and stretched it so far… just saying it’s nice to receive an inheritance without expecting it….. don’t over analyze it 👎🏾

    • @Chet_24
      @Chet_24 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@TheRalf9999 i disagree. It all spends the same.

  • @janhatcher6991
    @janhatcher6991 หลายเดือนก่อน

    his family is gonna want to borrow money. Your families gonna wanna borrow money once people find out you have this money watch out and I think what Dave is saying is so on spot.

  • @woodywoowoo
    @woodywoowoo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don’t marry this guy, invest the money and forget about it for a few years, pursue your career and live like a normal person in that 20s.

  • @webfreakz
    @webfreakz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Caller: "I'm pretty good with money, I had 10k dollars"
    Dave: "Ok so you didn't have any money"
    🤣

    • @jasonjohnson1824
      @jasonjohnson1824 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yeah, that's baby step 3/7

    • @kvgolfa
      @kvgolfa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She's 22

    • @AprilFriday-de6vm
      @AprilFriday-de6vm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      For a 22 year old, 10,000 in savings is way above average. She’s only been an adult for 3-4 years. Kids in their twenties barely earn anything usually.

  • @jacobmeyer1236
    @jacobmeyer1236 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As someone in their 20s, the answer here seems very simple... They are set for life ~IF!!!~ they are smart here. Leave the $500k in investments and just let it grow. She's 22, if she lets the $500k grow for 33 years @ 8% return and doesn't contribute a single dollar more, she'll have $6.5M at 55 y/o. Take the $500k in cash, pay the inheritance tax on it (B.S. tax BTW) and set it aside for your future home purchase. Buy said home in CASH. People without a mortgage don't know what a blessing it would be to NOT have a mortgage. Take the other $500k in business notes and just treat it as income or roll it into the investment portfolio. Then work your normal job and live off what you make.
    Like Dave said, this isn't a money issue, this is a trust of the person you're marrying issue.

  • @davinasquirrel7672
    @davinasquirrel7672 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    That he has slowed down on work motivation since the inheritance is a huge old red flag. Call off the wedding.
    Dave is right, a prenup won't fix him, he will become a mill stone around your neck. Him being around 22 should be the time he starts finding direction and motivation in life, not the opposite.