Beautiful chat about love , Learning, God , and soo much more. I am not Christian but a proud Sikh but I really enjoy watching your videos and they help me become closer to Eternal God 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 God is one ☝️ ❤️❤️❤️
Hi, this is an amazing episode! I am very encouraged by what y’all shared. The Lord is good! As a single person who desires marriage I want to steward this season to the glory of the Lord. Videos/podcast like these transform and grow me. The Lord is faithful to guide and help.
I think one way that premarital counseling is helpful is that people arrive there ready to listen to the person who is giving them council. As a “random married person” /friend in their life- when you try to give people advice or warn them of things, they typically do not listen or believe you- when you try to tell them things. Another reason having someone they see as more of an “authority” like a pastor can be helpful. Funny how the older we get, the more open we become to advice - as we learn more, we learn how much we actually “don’t” know 😆
Hahahah I feel like I don’t know anything at all most times. All I do is study 24/7 lol. Honestly, probably shouldn’t listen to anything I say now that I think about it 😂🤣😂 -Cody
@@OurFruitfulFamily more referencing the fact that I think all your jokes are funny, and not so much that I don’t believe you have knowledge to impart ha ha 😂
I loved this video and all of your videos. I wish someone would have told us to get counseling from a happily married but seasoned couple. Because sometimes getting counsel from just one of the partners is unbalanced. And also get as little counsel from relatives as possible, because most people give advice that will best benefit their son or daughter. Thanks for all you do.
Monthly worship nights... that would be awesome. I'm 100% sure Cody knows the difference between merely performing a song and worship. That should make the yoke lighter. I've got that gift so I understand... By the way, any "worldly" psychologist would have approved that accountable, responsible and sensitive way of being the head of the home. I'm quite independent in my faith but I would gladly listen to such an anointed husband. 😊
Love it. :) I really like some of the points Cody brought up...And some of the ones Jesse mentioned, too...but I gotta say I really took away some good Wisdom from the words of that Air Compressor. I felt like that interjection was just Perfect. Lol But, for real, this time, I am Really glad to be hearing all this premarital counseling right now...I think it's gonna help a Lot when I can Finally Use it. XD God Bless you guys. Looking forward to Another video!
Christ in the center of your home is the key to a success in any relationship! Being on the same page when it comes to debt and being a united front with raising your children. Listening to Godly councilors when they saw what you were headed toward. Learning from mistakes and trials. " ...a threefold cord is not quickly broken." Ecclesiastes 4:12
Hey guys! I hope everything is going well. Thank you for making this video. I'm sure my future wife and me will be talking about and using all of the points in this video both before and after her and I get married. God bless you guys!
Thank you for channel. You have a scenario of a Christian couple dating. How do you know that you’re going to get on together whilst saving sex for marriage? Some couples even Christian couples have a trial of living together because divorce can be messy say if one party had been married before. At least with a trial of living together it is easier to get out of. Sorry if this shocked you as I think you have strong views on this. 😮
Todays culture, especially in the US, puts sex above relationship. They put self above God. God says fornication and all sexual immorality is sinful. Period. We need to have a higher view of God than personal satisfaction. God also says that He hates divorce. You date someone in a sexually moral way. A God honoring way. You marry them. You enjoy the gift of sex with them and them only, just as God requires. You stay with them for life, just as God demands. Follow the teachings and commands of God. It's that simple. We serve a Holy God that demands obedience of His children. God comes first.
Beautiful chat about love , Learning, God , and soo much more. I am not Christian but a proud Sikh but I really enjoy watching your videos and they help me become closer to Eternal God 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 God is one ☝️ ❤️❤️❤️
Hi, this is an amazing episode! I am very encouraged by what y’all shared. The Lord is good! As a single person who desires marriage I want to steward this season to the glory of the Lord. Videos/podcast like these transform and grow me. The Lord is faithful to guide and help.
This is so encouraging to us as well! You have no idea! We needed this comment! To God Be The Glory!
I think one way that premarital counseling is helpful is that people arrive there ready to listen to the person who is giving them council. As a “random married person” /friend in their life- when you try to give people advice or warn them of things, they typically do not listen or believe you- when you try to tell them things. Another reason having someone they see as more of an “authority” like a pastor can be helpful. Funny how the older we get, the more open we become to advice - as we learn more, we learn how much we actually “don’t” know 😆
Hahahah I feel like I don’t know anything at all most times. All I do is study 24/7 lol. Honestly, probably shouldn’t listen to anything I say now that I think about it 😂🤣😂
-Cody
@@OurFruitfulFamilyif nothing else, I can laugh at it! Lol Just kidding 😂
hahaha rude =)
@@OurFruitfulFamily more referencing the fact that I think all your jokes are funny, and not so much that I don’t believe you have knowledge to impart ha ha 😂
Hahaha I know that!
I loved this video and all of your videos. I wish someone would have told us to get counseling from a happily married but seasoned couple. Because sometimes getting counsel from just one of the partners is unbalanced. And also get as little counsel from relatives as possible, because most people give advice that will best benefit their son or daughter. Thanks for all you do.
That is a great tip, and sadly, so true...
Monthly worship nights... that would be awesome. I'm 100% sure Cody knows the difference between merely performing a song and worship. That should make the yoke lighter. I've got that gift so I understand...
By the way, any "worldly" psychologist would have approved that accountable, responsible and sensitive way of being the head of the home. I'm quite independent in my faith but I would gladly listen to such an anointed husband. 😊
Thank you for the encouragement sister!
-Cody
Love it. :) I really like some of the points Cody brought up...And some of the ones Jesse mentioned, too...but I gotta say I really took away some good Wisdom from the words of that Air Compressor. I felt like that interjection was just Perfect. Lol But, for real, this time, I am Really glad to be hearing all this premarital counseling right now...I think it's gonna help a Lot when I can Finally Use it. XD God Bless you guys. Looking forward to Another video!
Hahahah that dead gum compressor… hahha
Love your message and you! God is doing great work through you! May He continue to bless your family!
God bless you brother Jeffrey!
Awesome, awesome points. really liked point one and six. these are things that I wouldn't have taken time to think about otherwise. THANK YOU!
You are very welcome sister!
Great chat. It's a lengthy video, but it's easy and enjoyable to follow.
Thank you sir! It’s great hearing from you again! Been so busy… hard to get videos out right now…
I realize this might not be the correct video, but have something on my heart to share with you. And would like to do so in a private setting.
Of course! Feel free to email us at toupstime@gmail.com
Christ in the center of your home is the key to a success in any relationship!
Being on the same page when it comes to debt and being a united front with raising your children. Listening to Godly councilors when they saw what you were headed toward.
Learning from mistakes and trials.
" ...a threefold cord is not quickly broken." Ecclesiastes 4:12
Amen!
Hey guys! I hope everything is going well. Thank you for making this video. I'm sure my future wife and me will be talking about and using all of the points in this video both before and after her and I get married. God bless you guys!
God bless you brother! It's good to hear from you again!
@@OurFruitfulFamily Thank you!
Great content for all! Blessings!
God bless you brother.
As usual, a very good video. What do they say, “hindsight is 20/20”.
Haha it sure is!
Profound content! Where can I sign up for email?
Thank you! There should be a link in the description!
@Toups Times Great video!! I loved it! I was wondering....when is the baby due?
Well, we keep having labor scares... so possibly any day... but technically December 6th.
Awesome 👍
God bless you!
Are these episodes on spotify?
Not yet! We will be starting a podcast soon. Already started recording episodes!
Thank you for channel. You have a scenario of a Christian couple dating. How do you know that you’re going to get on together whilst saving sex for marriage? Some couples even Christian couples have a trial of living together because divorce can be messy say if one party had been married before. At least with a trial of living together it is easier to get out of. Sorry if this shocked you as I think you have strong views on this. 😮
Todays culture, especially in the US, puts sex above relationship. They put self above God. God says fornication and all sexual immorality is sinful. Period. We need to have a higher view of God than personal satisfaction. God also says that He hates divorce. You date someone in a sexually moral way. A God honoring way. You marry them. You enjoy the gift of sex with them and them only, just as God requires. You stay with them for life, just as God demands. Follow the teachings and commands of God. It's that simple. We serve a Holy God that demands obedience of His children. God comes first.
You are conservative family good but your country America people doesn’t care to much religious
You are correct. Our country has turned its back on God in many ways.